WEBVTT - What is Debt Relief? ft. Dasha Kennedy & Natalia Brown

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<v Speaker 1>ba fam, we have some company in the studeo today.

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<v Speaker 1>This has been a long time coming and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think of a better way to kick off the year,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when Brown Ambition fam, y'all have been so generous

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<v Speaker 1>and kind to let me peek into the window of

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<v Speaker 1>your financial stressors, Like what is keeping you up at night?

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<v Speaker 1>What is getting y'all stressed when it comes to your finances?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it housing? Is it groceries? Is it jobs? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it transportation? And I have to say, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>share some of those survey results with y'all, but because

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<v Speaker 1>of the results, I just knew I had to do

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<v Speaker 1>an episode all around the dirty D word debt, debt, debt, debt, debt, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the most viral clips from Brown Ambition of

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty four was when I Mandy Woodrow Santos, raised

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<v Speaker 1>my hand and I said, yeah, I'm in a bad

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<v Speaker 1>financial place too. I'm in a tough financial spot, like

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<v Speaker 1>housing is so incredibly expensive, taking care of these babies

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<v Speaker 1>is so incredibly expensive. It's like I don't have one mortgage,

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<v Speaker 1>I have three because childcare right and be a fam. Overwhelmingly,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all were so compassionate, but you also shared your stories,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why I decided let me actually do a

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<v Speaker 1>survey of our audience. It has been a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>and because of that survey, like I said, I just

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<v Speaker 1>knew that I wasn't alone. And Brown Ambition was literally

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<v Speaker 1>from your sister friends and we can get through the

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<v Speaker 1>tough times together. So in twenty twenty five, to kick

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<v Speaker 1>off the year, I had to invite some friends along

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<v Speaker 1>for the journey as well, and I couldn't think of

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<v Speaker 1>a more incredible pair than the two women who are

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<v Speaker 1>in the studio today. So let's give a warm ba

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<v Speaker 1>fan welcome to today's company. We have Dasha Kennedy, aka

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<v Speaker 1>the Broke Black Girl. Y'all may know her from these

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<v Speaker 1>Internet streets. Dasha has been a guest on Brown Ambition before,

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<v Speaker 1>and today she is here. She's a trailblazing financial activist

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<v Speaker 1>and educator who's committed to transforming the world of finance

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<v Speaker 1>into a more equitable and accessible space for women, and

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<v Speaker 1>she is joined by her partner in crime for the day,

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<v Speaker 1>Natalia Brown. If y'all haven't heard of Natalia, you must

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<v Speaker 1>get to know my friend, my new friend. Now. She

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<v Speaker 1>has spent on at nearly a decade now working at

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<v Speaker 1>the National Debt Relief. She is the chief Compliance Officer

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<v Speaker 1>and Consumer Affairs Officer at National Debt Relief. And Natalia

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<v Speaker 1>and Dasha are here today because DAYSHA partners with National

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<v Speaker 1>Debt Relief and I want to talk to y'all about

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<v Speaker 1>the word that is keeping me and OURBA fam all

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<v Speaker 1>up at night. So we're going to talk through, hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about how the heck a company like

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<v Speaker 1>National Debt Relief even works because I think I ton't

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you when we first met. I have I

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<v Speaker 1>have some questions. Debt relief agencies get a bad rap.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of confusion about what they do what

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<v Speaker 1>they don't do. So I want to get to the

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<v Speaker 1>nitty gritty of like how can y'all help consumers. And then, Dasha,

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<v Speaker 1>you're always giving incredible finance tips to your audience and

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<v Speaker 1>real world talk. I know because you're raising two boys.

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<v Speaker 1>We all have two boys each. Do we decide that

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a crazy coincidence? And I know that you've

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<v Speaker 1>got some real incredible tips for our audience as well

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<v Speaker 1>on how they can start tackling their debts. So, without

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<v Speaker 1>further ado, welcome ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for having us.

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<v Speaker 1>And just for the say hi va vam. So can

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<v Speaker 1>each of y'all just say a few words so that

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<v Speaker 1>people can get used to your voice, because don't you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when like you're on a podcast and you hear three

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<v Speaker 1>different people, you're like, who that whod so day? Should

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<v Speaker 1>you go first?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm Deisha Kennedy, creator of the Roqueg Girl. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>super excited to be here today just to talk about

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<v Speaker 3>it too. Was like you said, I think that within

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<v Speaker 3>itself gets a bad reputation, and we'll really talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>We find out that it's not this boogieman that has

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<v Speaker 3>been made out to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe you. I think it absolutely is a

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<v Speaker 1>boogeyman and it's on my back daysha. Okay, So Dasha

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<v Speaker 1>got that real southern where are you from again?

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<v Speaker 3>From the Middlewest? From Saint Louis, Missouri born and raised.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Saint Louis. I was like, it's country, but it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that nelly country. Okay, gotcha. But now you're in

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<v Speaker 1>Atlanta or word, yes, you're in the A Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>get a little southern flavor, all right, Natalia? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>your turn my turn.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm Natalia. I just go by that most of

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<v Speaker 2>the time. And I love that you said that Mandy,

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<v Speaker 2>debt doesn't have to be a boogeyman, but I know

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<v Speaker 2>it feels that way. But all you need is a plan,

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<v Speaker 2>and it always feels better. Once you have a plan,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what direction you're going in. And there is

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of stigma. There's a lot of stigma around

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<v Speaker 2>debt itself, around debt relief companies, what we do, what

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<v Speaker 2>we don't do. And the reality is that there are

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<v Speaker 2>laws that you know are in place to protect consumers.

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<v Speaker 2>I am that is my job is to protect our consumers,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm always putting people first. So I think we

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<v Speaker 2>can talk about that at length. And I hope you

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<v Speaker 2>feel better at the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's kind. I hope that y'all feel better too,

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<v Speaker 1>but at the very least feel better because you are

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<v Speaker 1>not alone. So according to our survey, and I'm happy

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<v Speaker 1>to hear nat if you guys have done any data,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, we get it, people are in debt. Like

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<v Speaker 1>the economy right now for me is like, yeah, businesses

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<v Speaker 1>are making money, but they're making money because things are

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<v Speaker 1>so so much more expensive and us underneath that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like everyday working class Americans, we are getting squished. Over

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<v Speaker 1>fifty percent of y'all said you were somewhat worried about

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<v Speaker 1>your finances, twenty percent said you're very worried, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>another twenty percent that are extremely worried. So that means

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<v Speaker 1>literally everybody who listens to the show is a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit at least somewhat worried about their finances. And so

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<v Speaker 1>many of you guys are very worried. And number one

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<v Speaker 1>on the list of biggest sources of financial stress, can

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<v Speaker 1>you believe it's paying down debt? Fifty eight percent of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, more than half, say that paying down debt

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<v Speaker 1>is the biggest source of financial stress. Now stress. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that book The Body Keeps the Score, And I

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<v Speaker 1>just know that that stress is not just about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>something that's weighing on you that you know gives you

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of heartburn during the day, but it

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<v Speaker 1>can literally make you physically ill to think about this debt.

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<v Speaker 1>And in my case, over the years, it can make

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<v Speaker 1>me feel like frozen, don't know what to do, don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where to turn. So nat I'm curious because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call you net though you said I could. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>curious if you could talk about what it's like when

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<v Speaker 1>people come to National debt relief in what sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like mental state are they in at the time, and

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<v Speaker 1>how do you guys start helping them.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a full range. There's fear, there's anger. I

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<v Speaker 2>think stress manifests itself very differently for different people, So

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<v Speaker 2>we're very much trained to kind of acknowledge that. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>some people are embarrassed because they have the good job,

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<v Speaker 2>they've had the good life, and it's really hard to say, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I make one hundred thousand dollars, but I'm also way

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<v Speaker 2>over my head, right. Sometimes it's you know, as your

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<v Speaker 2>income increases, your expenses increase, or you have emergencies. So

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<v Speaker 2>we have people like that. We also have people who

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<v Speaker 2>may not make enough, or they've had a divorce, or

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<v Speaker 2>their child has gotten sick. Medical reasons are a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of reasons why a lot of people go out of

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<v Speaker 2>debt and have to rely on credit cards as well.

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<v Speaker 2>So they come to us in very very different ways.

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<v Speaker 2>But at the end of the day, everyone wants the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing is to not have that stress of having

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out where the money is going to come

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<v Speaker 2>from to lower the cost of their interest and all

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<v Speaker 2>of the debt that they have. So it's at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day, the plan that we give people

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<v Speaker 2>gives everyone hope, and I think that's what we try

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<v Speaker 2>to offer as much as possible as hope and a plan.

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<v Speaker 1>So what actually does national debt relief do? So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling your number and am I going to hear from that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it going to be like, Hey, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>I feel you? What's going on? Like? What is that

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<v Speaker 1>process like? And what kinds of services do y'all offer?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I hope so someone on the phone won't be me,

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<v Speaker 2>but it will be someone on the phone that is

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<v Speaker 2>welcoming human or not like change a human, not a computer,

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<v Speaker 2>not a AI voice, because that's the real thing these days.

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<v Speaker 2>An actually human person will answer the phone, ask some

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<v Speaker 2>very simple questions and really understand what the debt landscape is,

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<v Speaker 2>like what is the unsecure debt? Is a credit cards?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it medical debt? Is a reprocess debt? Is it

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<v Speaker 2>basically just unsecured. We'll take a look at that profile,

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<v Speaker 2>look at how much you're paying in minimum balances, and

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<v Speaker 2>then get that info.

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<v Speaker 1>Are people is it like you're filling out a form

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<v Speaker 1>with all of your accounts and then you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>like a portal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, with your the client's permission, we will pull credit

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<v Speaker 2>verify everything while the client can sell us send us

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<v Speaker 2>a statement of all of their debts, so they do

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<v Speaker 2>have access to a portal. It will show them everything

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<v Speaker 2>that they have. It will give them options around what

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<v Speaker 2>program payment makes sense for them, because that can also

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<v Speaker 2>be flexible depending on how long you want to be

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<v Speaker 2>in a program. And the ultimate goal is to get

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<v Speaker 2>that total debt reduced by settling one debt at a time,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes two at a time with a manageable monthly payment.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's the process. It's really customized towards each individual,

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<v Speaker 2>so there's not a one size fits all plan for anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>But debt settlement is the goal.

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<v Speaker 2>That settlement is a goal debt reduction. So let's say to

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<v Speaker 2>tenthou some dollar debt our goals to try to save

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<v Speaker 2>as much money on that debt by negotiating with that creditor.

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<v Speaker 2>And sometimes it's a lumsome repayment, sometimes it's over terms,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's always going to be a reduction of that

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<v Speaker 2>ten thousand dollars so our goal is to at least

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<v Speaker 2>get it down to five thousand plus our fee.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you're someone like, how do you know when

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<v Speaker 1>you have enough debt or the right kinds of debt

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<v Speaker 1>to be a good candidate for debt settlement? And I

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<v Speaker 1>can go ahead and describe what I think of debt

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<v Speaker 1>settlement as and then you tell me if I'm right

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<v Speaker 1>or wrong, because I'm kind of playing the part of

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<v Speaker 1>a regular person. And so the way I did manage

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<v Speaker 1>a content team for like five years, and we've heard

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<v Speaker 1>about this stuff all the time, but whatever I forgot,

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<v Speaker 1>But debt settlement to me is like, especially if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just a consumer and you're being pursued by you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say it's a hospital or it's a creditor credit

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<v Speaker 1>card company for a past do debt and you call

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<v Speaker 1>them up and you're like, I know, I owe you

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<v Speaker 1>a thousand dollars. I can't pay it. I could pay

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<v Speaker 1>you for hundred, and they're like, no, maybe five hundred,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you you'll pay a lump sum and they'll,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, go about their their day. Did I get

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<v Speaker 1>that right?

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<v Speaker 2>Almost? Sometimes that five hundred can be broken up over

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<v Speaker 2>twelve months, So I'll give you a ninety percent you pass.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh nice, Well, lump sum payment was what my That's

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<v Speaker 1>like the three words that keep coming to my mind

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<v Speaker 1>is like, settle your debt. But it's but you have

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<v Speaker 1>to have the cash on hand for a lump sum,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's good to know. Potentially you don't, you can

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<v Speaker 1>get a payment.

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<v Speaker 2>A flexibility that we offer, so if it's available, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's usually the best interests of our clients since

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<v Speaker 2>there's multiple debts, to break those settlement amounts over time

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<v Speaker 2>so that we can get things moving on each credit

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit faster.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever used debt settlement yourself, Dasha, or had

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<v Speaker 1>to settle debts?

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<v Speaker 3>No, well, I'll take that back, yes I did. So

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<v Speaker 3>my experience was settling with debt was me trying to

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<v Speaker 3>figure it out on my own. And so I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>going to tell you what my experience was. It was

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<v Speaker 3>me coming home one day from work. I had groceries

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<v Speaker 3>in hand, and someone called my phone and it was

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<v Speaker 3>a debt collector and it was a very threatening call

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<v Speaker 3>and it was almost like, if you don't pay this debt,

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<v Speaker 3>we're going to report it to the police. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was extremely scared. Immediately paid it, never heard anything else

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<v Speaker 3>about it. Now, I was in my early twenties. This

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<v Speaker 3>probably could have been a scam, It probably could have

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<v Speaker 3>been real. But this was just where I landed simply

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<v Speaker 3>because I didn't know. And I'm sure that's not how

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<v Speaker 3>debt settlement works now that I know better, but back

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<v Speaker 3>then I ran into that a lot. So just putting

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<v Speaker 3>myself in the shoes of someone that was just starting off.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure a lot of people get calls like that.

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<v Speaker 3>They get calls from debt collectors probably are more aggressive

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<v Speaker 3>than what we would like, and if we don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what our options are, we fall victims to what we

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<v Speaker 3>think is debt settlement. But as Ned explained, we now

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<v Speaker 3>know that it is completely different and more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so Dashauld, When was that was that pre like

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<v Speaker 1>consumer Financial Protection Bureau post, you know, like after the recession?

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<v Speaker 3>This was I am I'm thirty six now, so this

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<v Speaker 3>had to be around in my early twenties. Okay, this

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<v Speaker 3>had to be in my early twenties when this happened.

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<v Speaker 3>And again I was just so afraid that I just

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<v Speaker 3>immediately paid it. And I was young, very new to

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<v Speaker 3>learning anything about money. I knew that it was a

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<v Speaker 3>debt that I owed, but I didn't know my options,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know who to call. I didn't feel comfortable

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<v Speaker 3>asking for it. You know, it's a whole stigma around

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<v Speaker 3>asking for help. So when I got the call, I

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<v Speaker 3>just wanted the problem to go away. So I just

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<v Speaker 3>paid whatever they told me to pay, And till this day,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't even tell you if that actually came off

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<v Speaker 3>my credit, if I actually saw anything from it. I

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<v Speaker 3>just made the payment.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean, in that situation, it is super stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, that sounds really that sounds like harassment.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds illegal. And Natalia, what would you say to

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<v Speaker 1>someone today if they were getting those types of calls

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't know what to do, if you could like

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<v Speaker 1>be a magician and like you know, Genie in a

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<v Speaker 1>bottle poof show up in front of them, what would

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<v Speaker 1>you tell them if they're on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Phone with absolutely illegal, especially today. It may not have

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<v Speaker 2>been when when Dasha was getting those phone calls, but

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<v Speaker 2>the FDCPA is an act that passed that actually protects

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<v Speaker 2>consumers against threatening phone calls from collectors. Specifically, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>call during certain times so they can't call you at

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<v Speaker 2>midnight anymore. They can't show up at your house there.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually heard some really threatening stories from some of

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<v Speaker 2>our clients in the past as well, So they're really

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<v Speaker 2>good rules in place to make sure that harassment doesn't occur,

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<v Speaker 2>and if it is, know that it's illegal and that

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<v Speaker 2>there is an act to protect against it. And I

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't pay anything. Like Daisha said, there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>fraud and scams going on these days. I would verify

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<v Speaker 2>that that dead is even yours and that it's a

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<v Speaker 2>reputable company that's trying to collect from you in the

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<v Speaker 2>first place.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so many things there. So two things, what are

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<v Speaker 1>some signs it's a fraud? And two I want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how do you actually go about that debt verification?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know the textbook way of doing that that

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<v Speaker 1>CFPB has on their website, but I'm just curious in reality,

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<v Speaker 1>how does it work?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? Well, so, one, you can always pull your credit

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<v Speaker 2>record at least once a year. It's always free. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to vouch for any apps, but there are

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<v Speaker 2>definitely lots of apps out there that will give you

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<v Speaker 2>access to your credit information. So one verify that it

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<v Speaker 2>is your debt and then two, I'd like to call

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<v Speaker 2>people back. So if I get a phone call from someone,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, well, what's the number where I can

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<v Speaker 2>call you back? I can't talk right now. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to be really obvious about it, but you also

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<v Speaker 2>want to make sure that when you call back it

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<v Speaker 2>is actually that company. You can look up their website

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<v Speaker 2>and usually you'll get some form of written documentation. When

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<v Speaker 2>there's a creditor, they always mail something. So if you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a physical document and the number doesn't quite

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<v Speaker 2>make sense when you do like a Google look up

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like someone's Google or voice number, that's not legitimate.

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<v Speaker 2>People don't collect through Facebook Messenger either, right, It's usually

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<v Speaker 2>a phone call or an actual letter. So be aware

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<v Speaker 2>of people sending email saying I'm collecting on this debt.

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<v Speaker 2>That's generally not accurate either.

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<v Speaker 1>Or a text message yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Or a text message. Don't click any.

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<v Speaker 1>Links even in your text now, okay, So now the

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<v Speaker 1>debt verification that doesn't have to be a formal process.

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<v Speaker 1>It literally is just like, does this debt sound like

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<v Speaker 1>it's yours? And you can just check that by going

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<v Speaker 1>to yeah, like using a credit report app. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>going to Annual Report Annual credit Report dot com and

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<v Speaker 1>downloading all three of your credit reports for free, like

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<v Speaker 1>you said you can do once a year. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's credit karma, there's Equifax, like all these different credit

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<v Speaker 1>bureaus now and banks themselves. If you don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>credit report, you're just not trying hard enough because like

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<v Speaker 1>they're just handing them out on this street corners basically, now, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So how do I know I'm in the

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<v Speaker 1>How do I know it's time? Like I can't manage

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<v Speaker 1>this and I should ask for help from an organization

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<v Speaker 1>like National Debt Relief.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that question because debt relief is not for everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually like to dispel that where lots of people

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<v Speaker 2>think that it is. It is for the consumer who

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<v Speaker 2>is contemplating bankruptcy, but they're not quite there yet. So

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<v Speaker 2>there's different types of debt relief where maybe if you

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<v Speaker 2>can still qualify for a loan and your credit score

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<v Speaker 2>is still where it needs to be, that might be

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<v Speaker 2>an option for some people. If your credit score is

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<v Speaker 2>already in danger and you're not going to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to qualify for a consolidation loan and credit counseling from

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<v Speaker 2>a long term perspective, you're still paying a full debt.

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<v Speaker 2>You're still paying interest even though it's reduced. May not

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<v Speaker 2>be an option for some people. So then the next

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<v Speaker 2>thing would be debt relief. So that's where you're making

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<v Speaker 2>your minimums or just above the minimum. It's going to

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<v Speaker 2>take you thirty forty years to pay off, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>seventy five hundred dollars in debt because you can barely

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<v Speaker 2>make those minimums. So our program will basically say, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if your minimums are adding up to seven hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 2>a month, maybe we can get a program payment that's

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<v Speaker 2>three hundred and fifty dollars a month, so we can

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<v Speaker 2>work towards settling those debts, and it immediately gives some

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<v Speaker 2>cash flowback. So it's really a cash flow issue and

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<v Speaker 2>a long term kind of goal that you have to

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<v Speaker 2>make for yourself. It's I want to get rid of

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<v Speaker 2>my unsecure debt versus I want to keep my credit score.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we aren't concerned about credit. We're concerned about getting

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<v Speaker 2>people out of debt right, and then you can rebuild

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<v Speaker 2>credit faster than you can with bankruptcy. So that's ultimately

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<v Speaker 2>the goal and the consumer that we like to work with.

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<v Speaker 1>So those are like the Big three. I guess four

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<v Speaker 1>you have sort of like debt consolidation, like a DII

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<v Speaker 1>debt consolidation. So like in my experience, you can if

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<v Speaker 1>you have good credit, you can leverage that and get

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<v Speaker 1>like a fixed rate personal loan, you know that you

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<v Speaker 1>can use to pay off some debt, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>have one payment versus how three or four however many

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<v Speaker 1>no credit cards you've paid off, that's an option. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you have credit counseling. So credit counseling. Can you describe

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<v Speaker 1>that for me, because I'm not even sure if I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell the difference between credit counseling and like debt relief.

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<v Speaker 2>So credit counseling, you're still paying full balance, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>what credit counseling does. It says, we'll still give you

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<v Speaker 2>a one type of payment, one payment per month. However,

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<v Speaker 2>you're still going to pay interest, So we'll take your

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<v Speaker 2>interest from the twenty something percent that you had. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>we'll give you ten percent, whatever deal that they can

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<v Speaker 2>get with your creditors. So if you all ten thousand,

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<v Speaker 2>you're still paying ten thousand plus interests and that will

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<v Speaker 2>take however much time, right, and if you fail out,

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<v Speaker 2>you miss a payment, there's really negative consequences to that, right,

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<v Speaker 2>so you actually start right back to where you are.

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<v Speaker 2>The interest comes back to your accounts, and it's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a cycle that you end up starting again. So

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<v Speaker 2>if someone is looking at credit counseling, you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be really sure you can make those months payments so

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't have to stop from the beginning all

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<v Speaker 2>over again. The difference with debt relief is you we

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<v Speaker 2>aren't reducing any interest. We are taking that balance when

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<v Speaker 2>you enroll. Let's say it's ten thousand dollars, we are

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<v Speaker 2>looking to reduce that amount to about fifty percent, which

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<v Speaker 2>would be about five thousand dollars. And whether that's a

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<v Speaker 2>lump or over time, that is all you're going to pay.

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<v Speaker 2>Then that account is closed. It is done. Versus you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a longer term situation and credit counseling. So one is

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit faster than the other.

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<v Speaker 1>So even if it's like I have a ten thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars credit card balance and maybe it's spread across three cards,

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<v Speaker 1>through debt relief, I could or y'all could negotiate that

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<v Speaker 1>down to like five thousand dollars but there would be

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<v Speaker 1>no interest or that would be like inclusive of any interest,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I wouldn't be that five thousand is not going

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<v Speaker 1>to go off and like continue growing as I pay

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<v Speaker 1>it down? Right, Interesting, how do you guys manage that?

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<v Speaker 1>What actually happens behind the Wizard of Oz curtain? What

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<v Speaker 1>y'all do?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not working?

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<v Speaker 2>We basically when a client enrolls, that's the balance that

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<v Speaker 2>we work with, right, So there might be interest that

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<v Speaker 2>does accrue, but when we look at that and when

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<v Speaker 2>we give a quote to a consumer, we're basing it

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<v Speaker 2>off the day that they enrolled into our program. So

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<v Speaker 2>when we get a settlement, that's what we aim to do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a matter of building the relationships with our creditors.

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<v Speaker 2>There's leverage, right. We have hundreds of thousands of clients,

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<v Speaker 2>So we do a lot of work to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>that we can negotiate the best rates for our consumers

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<v Speaker 2>because we actually have leverage for our consumers because there's

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<v Speaker 2>such a big client base that we can work with.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, what are some of the biggest clients that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do work with?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you mean banks or.

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<v Speaker 1>Banks or is it like credit issuers lenders?

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<v Speaker 2>We work with lenders. We work with first party banks,

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<v Speaker 2>we work the debt collection agencies, And there's this thing

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<v Speaker 2>called debt buyers. Those are people that buy debt that

0:23:56.480 --> 0:23:58.480
<v Speaker 2>couldn't be collected on before and it kind of gets

0:23:58.640 --> 0:24:01.240
<v Speaker 2>sold over and over and over again. We work with

0:24:01.280 --> 0:24:04.880
<v Speaker 2>them as well. So anyone who is an issuer or

0:24:05.359 --> 0:24:07.400
<v Speaker 2>is collecting on unsecure debt, we work with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so because you guys have such a big portfolio,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Mandy, I enroll in debt relief. Then you can

0:24:16.359 --> 0:24:20.639
<v Speaker 1>say it's are you even like calling up my personal

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:23.600
<v Speaker 1>creditor and talking about me and my debt? Or is

0:24:23.640 --> 0:24:27.119
<v Speaker 1>it like I'm calling on behalf of the seventy five consumers.

0:24:27.160 --> 0:24:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I have all their information and we want to get

0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 1>their debts collectively down.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on what's best for the consumer. It really

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<v Speaker 2>does depend because each issuer and collector has different rules

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:41.159
<v Speaker 2>and parameters. So there are definitely times where it's an

0:24:41.200 --> 0:24:44.000
<v Speaker 2>individual like this is the person that I'm helping right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually used to be a negotiator. And there are

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<v Speaker 2>other times where a debt buyer, for example, might say, hey,

0:24:50.920 --> 0:24:52.760
<v Speaker 2>we've had this on our books for a really long time.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll give you a really low percentage if you can

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<v Speaker 2>give us at least however many so we'll go through

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<v Speaker 2>our database and try to figure out who can afford

0:24:59.840 --> 0:25:02.719
<v Speaker 2>the kind of you know, fire sales settlements, right, So

0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 2>it could be a little bit of both. It just

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<v Speaker 2>depends on what's best for the consumer and what's the

0:25:07.880 --> 0:25:10.879
<v Speaker 2>best timing how much money is available. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of different factors that go into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Are there sometimes, like we've talked about older debts before,

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<v Speaker 1>Are there sometimes, like for either of y'all, where it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense to like settle older debts because maybe

0:25:24.160 --> 0:25:25.919
<v Speaker 1>they're about to fall off your credit report.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends. Different states have different rules unfortunately, so there

0:25:32.160 --> 0:25:35.320
<v Speaker 2>are states where, yeah, it doesn't make sense. There are

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 2>other states where you know, the statute limitations that I

0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:40.439
<v Speaker 2>think is what you're referring to maybe different. Some places

0:25:40.440 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 2>a seven years, some places it's three years. So it

0:25:42.880 --> 0:25:47.000
<v Speaker 2>depends on the state, and it depends on when you

0:25:47.080 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 2>last major payment, when you last made contact. Each state

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:53.040
<v Speaker 2>has weird rules. So sometimes yes, sometimes now so we

0:25:53.320 --> 0:25:55.359
<v Speaker 2>definitely have a database that kind of tells us what

0:25:55.440 --> 0:25:56.560
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to have like PTSD from putting together a crazy chart.

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:03.119
<v Speaker 1>When I was managing that content team, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do a chart, and it's going to be every

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<v Speaker 1>state and every type of consumer debt, and we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you what the stat sheeted limitations are. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you imagine what a pain? So you're in compliance, you know,

0:26:14.720 --> 0:26:17.399
<v Speaker 1>it's like, I see what? So depending like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>work with people in every state across the country?

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<v Speaker 3>Just about?

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<v Speaker 2>So, there's maybe five states that we don't operate in,

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<v Speaker 2>but for the most part, we are in every single state,

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<v Speaker 2>or at least can offer debt really for every single state.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, gotcha? All right, Now, how do y'all make money?

0:26:33.600 --> 0:26:34.680
<v Speaker 1>So does a business?

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<v Speaker 2>As a business, we do charge your fee. And I'll say,

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<v Speaker 2>like some people will say, I might jump the question,

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:43.400
<v Speaker 2>why are you charging your fee? There's free services out there,

0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:46.479
<v Speaker 2>and that's absolutely true, but they can't scale. So in

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<v Speaker 2>order for us to do the work that we're doing

0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:51.359
<v Speaker 2>for as many people as we're doing, we need operating costs.

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:54.120
<v Speaker 2>So that's where that fee comes in. So that fea set,

0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:57.640
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't fluctuate. It's told upfront and we actually bake

0:26:57.720 --> 0:27:00.320
<v Speaker 2>it into that monthly program payment so that it's not

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:03.640
<v Speaker 2>an additional cost on top of anything else. We give

0:27:03.680 --> 0:27:05.480
<v Speaker 2>you one quote. We are not going to ask you

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:07.399
<v Speaker 2>for anything else. We're not going to change fees on you.

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:10.400
<v Speaker 2>So it can be anywhere between fifteen and twenty five

0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 2>percent of the amount that you enrolled, right, So even

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 2>if it increases, we're not charging anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, does it often increase? Because that's one thing about debtman,

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:22.720
<v Speaker 1>when you're trying to get sometimes if you don't and

0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:25.200
<v Speaker 1>we'll get to this, get to the heart of the issue,

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:28.959
<v Speaker 1>you can just be coming back six months later like

0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 1>I got some more debt.

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:36.359
<v Speaker 2>How Yeah, it happens. Well, reporting on credit reports it's

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:39.479
<v Speaker 2>not always accurate, right, Sometimes there are things that are

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:41.639
<v Speaker 2>not reporting that pop up later that we'll add to

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:45.160
<v Speaker 2>the program for our consumers. There are other times when

0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:49.520
<v Speaker 2>it actually happened to me when I bought my first

0:27:49.560 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 2>like furniture set, and I didn't understand that that zero

0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 2>percent interest for twenty four months and then it all

0:27:57.520 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 2>hit me at once. So I got myself into a

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 2>little bit of child And that will happen as well.

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:05.120
<v Speaker 2>So those promotional kind of debts that people think are

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<v Speaker 2>really great and then you get hit with a bunch

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:08.960
<v Speaker 2>of ventures all at once, and that balance kind of

0:28:09.000 --> 0:28:13.399
<v Speaker 2>doubles overnight. That happens as well. And then, to be

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:17.080
<v Speaker 2>quite honest, people can find themselves in desperate situations and

0:28:17.160 --> 0:28:19.320
<v Speaker 2>may may need to swipe that card while they're in

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 2>the program, and it happened to be still open because

0:28:22.000 --> 0:28:24.840
<v Speaker 2>they blew a tire and they couldn't afford that emergency.

0:28:25.240 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 2>So there are a bunch of different reasons why it

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.800
<v Speaker 2>might increase, But we tend to just work with each

0:28:29.800 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 2>individual consumer and have those conversations depending on what the

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:33.119
<v Speaker 2>situation is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was something that I had that was like

0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 1>an idea that I had about about debt really from before,

0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:42.360
<v Speaker 1>is that you have to close get your accounts closed,

0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:44.080
<v Speaker 1>like you can no longer use them. Is that the

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:45.959
<v Speaker 1>case you really? Sometimes?

0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:48.680
<v Speaker 2>But again I like, I'm not going to present like

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 2>life does not happen.

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you actively close the accounts, they're potentially still

0:28:54.920 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 1>out there.

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:58.320
<v Speaker 2>They're potentially still out there, and the creditors will eventually

0:28:58.320 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 2>close them as they pass too.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I opened what I opened a zero balance, Sorry,

0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:06.440
<v Speaker 1>I have zero percent interest credit card. I don't know.

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 1>A couple of years ago, I think it was when

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:10.720
<v Speaker 1>we were buying like furniture or something like that or

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:13.960
<v Speaker 1>some kind of big purchase paid it off and then

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I'll just keep the line of

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:16.880
<v Speaker 1>credit open, and the bank was like, no, you can't

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>have that. We close in it.

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:21.680
<v Speaker 2>They just took making a decisions whenever they feel like it.

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 2>That's the other thing. Read the fine print when you

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:26.600
<v Speaker 2>open up credit cards too, because they do reserve the

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 2>right to reduce your credit limits, which sometimes, yes, puts

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:32.000
<v Speaker 2>people in a lot of trouble, especially if they were

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:33.320
<v Speaker 2>carrying a balance.

0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:35.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or like you know, that's such a huge part

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>of your credit score is your available balance versus how

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 1>much debt you're carrying. And it may look really cute

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:44.400
<v Speaker 1>when you have a lot of available credit, and so

0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:47.280
<v Speaker 1>when they reduce your credit limit, now it's like, oh shoot,

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:50.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe you did have a twenty percent utilization rate and

0:29:50.720 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>now it's like fifty percent, and you may see your

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:57.120
<v Speaker 1>score go down and not even know why, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else people should know about debt relief

0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:06.520
<v Speaker 1>or any pros and cons that you want to cover

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:08.920
<v Speaker 1>before we take a little break and come back and

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:11.959
<v Speaker 1>talk about general debt tips and how to get out

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 1>of debt.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, I encourage people to do their research. I like

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:18.960
<v Speaker 2>to say that people look at Amazon reviews before they

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:21.880
<v Speaker 2>buy something more than when they are looking for their

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 2>financial products. So be just as diligent. Don't take my

0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 2>word for it, don't take Dash's word for or even Mandy's, like,

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:32.000
<v Speaker 2>do your research. Look at the BBB, look at CFPB,

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<v Speaker 2>go to the review site, see what other consumers have

0:30:34.920 --> 0:30:37.360
<v Speaker 2>to say, because, like you said, there's a community of

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:40.520
<v Speaker 2>people that have already experienced this and they can actually

0:30:40.560 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 2>speak more truth and be more credible when it comes

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:46.040
<v Speaker 2>to what to look for. And just make sure that

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 2>these are accredited companies, even if it's not national debt. Really,

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:52.800
<v Speaker 2>just make sure you work with an accredited and reputable company.

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, accredited? Okay? Oh and I know what I forgot

0:30:56.760 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 1>to ask about bankruptcy. You mentioned bankruptcy. So like if

0:30:59.280 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 1>you said, of your someone who's considering bankruptcy but you

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 1>haven't filed yet, debt relief may be a step before that.

0:31:04.880 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 1>Why is that in particular, because with bankruptcy there's a potential,

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 1>depending on which version of it that you file, where

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:15.160
<v Speaker 1>you could maybe get a lot of your debts forgiven

0:31:15.400 --> 0:31:15.880
<v Speaker 1>and whole.

0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So the truth of bankruptcy is there's an upfront

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:25.760
<v Speaker 2>cost to bankruptcy and that can be a small amount

0:31:25.800 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 2>anywhere to a very large amount, depending on the type

0:31:27.960 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 2>of attorney that you acquire. Right, A lot of people

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 2>will always right. Not people don't always have that out

0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:36.440
<v Speaker 2>of pocket expense upfront. So that's one hurdle to clear.

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 2>The second hurdle to clear is even if you pay

0:31:38.800 --> 0:31:41.400
<v Speaker 2>that fee, there is no guarantee that you will qualify

0:31:41.440 --> 0:31:44.040
<v Speaker 2>for bankruptcy. So, like you said that, there's two. There's

0:31:44.120 --> 0:31:47.880
<v Speaker 2>one that is really evasive, where every asset that you

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 2>might have may be taken away to put towards your

0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:53.760
<v Speaker 2>debt if you even qualify for that. That's basically what

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 2>they call a clean slate. But it's not. It's very painful.

0:31:56.880 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:31:57.040 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 2>If you own anything, whether it's a diamond ring, a

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:03.760
<v Speaker 2>wat home, a car, it is up for someone else

0:32:03.760 --> 0:32:05.480
<v Speaker 2>to determine whether or not it's going to be sold

0:32:05.520 --> 0:32:07.840
<v Speaker 2>to pay off your debt, and you have no say.

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:12.160
<v Speaker 2>The other version is a payment plan, where again a

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 2>lot of people will fail out of that payment plan.

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 2>You paid it up to the front attorney, you get

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:21.760
<v Speaker 2>a payment plan, you miss a payment, you start all

0:32:21.800 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 2>over again. You failed out of bankruptcy, so now you're

0:32:24.120 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 2>at square one. If you want to try to file again,

0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:29.800
<v Speaker 2>you pay those fees again. So I like to say,

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:33.400
<v Speaker 2>try debt relief before you go to bankruptcy because the repercussions.

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:36.760
<v Speaker 2>Even if you are successful bankruptcy to rebuild your credit,

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:38.719
<v Speaker 2>it's seven to ten years that you're going to have

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:42.160
<v Speaker 2>that stain on your report. So what are your long

0:32:42.240 --> 0:32:43.760
<v Speaker 2>term goals? If you're trying to buy a home in

0:32:43.800 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 2>ten years, bankruptcy is probably not the best. But if

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:48.040
<v Speaker 2>you do debt relief, you could be out of debt

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 2>within twelve, twelve to forty eight months, start rebuilding your

0:32:51.440 --> 0:32:53.920
<v Speaker 2>credit much sooner, and put yourself on a path to

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 2>home ownership or whatever your other financial goals are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounds like there's so many, Like I mean,

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:02.800
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't sound like there. It's one of those trickiest

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 1>The trickiest things is which option is best for me.

0:33:05.680 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 1>It's so nuanced and any of these options may be

0:33:10.000 --> 0:33:13.120
<v Speaker 1>right for you. So like credit counseling, debt settlement, you know,

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>filing bankruptcy, even just floating out with debt consolidation, loans

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. These are all just like different options that

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping by having this conversation, we're opening Yell's minds

0:33:25.800 --> 0:33:29.040
<v Speaker 1>up to it. However, I think it's going to be

0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 1>a very personal choice and net so if someone calls

0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:36.400
<v Speaker 1>National Debt Relief, they don't have to. There's no pressure

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:38.440
<v Speaker 1>to like get a plan today, right, but it can

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 1>be one of the steps they take toward figuring out

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:42.360
<v Speaker 1>if it is a good fit for me.

0:33:42.760 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's absolutely a free consultation and we actually do

0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:49.480
<v Speaker 2>discuss all the options and give you that information. And

0:33:49.680 --> 0:33:52.160
<v Speaker 2>it's up to the consumer decide if what option is

0:33:52.200 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 2>best for them, but we do provide all that information

0:33:54.120 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 2>having Oh I love.

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<v Speaker 1>That, Okay, yeah, because you know, sometimes it's like if

0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 1>you go into a restaurant and you see the menu

0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, I don't like any of this stuff.

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 1>It's so hard to like go I don't know if

0:34:06.240 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 1>you have that, Like someone listening is like, oh, no,

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:12.400
<v Speaker 1>you're just giving me a secondhand anxiety. But having to

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<v Speaker 1>get up and be like, I'm so sorry, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want this kind of food and leaving can be Have

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<v Speaker 1>you done that?

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<v Speaker 2>I have?

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<v Speaker 1>Seeh I love that, But you're a negotiation queen like me,

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<v Speaker 1>so great. All right, so let's take a little break

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<v Speaker 1>and when we come back, I'm going to get Dasha

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<v Speaker 1>in the hot seat because miss broke black Girl, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to help us not be broken anymore. Okay, please

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<v Speaker 1>get us reach a right you're Abauba fan. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I am back with my guests, with our company. We

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<v Speaker 1>got Dasha Kennedy, the broke Black Girl, and we have

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<v Speaker 1>Natalia Brown of the National Debt Relief What is it

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<v Speaker 1>the National Debt Relief? What or my message?

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<v Speaker 2>Relief?

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<v Speaker 1>National Debt Relief? Yay in the studio. So, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we've been talking about debt, y'all, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>been a little uncomfy, but I'm already starting to feel

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<v Speaker 1>personally a little bit better and at least like let's

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<v Speaker 1>kick off some conversations. You know, as we've always said,

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to financial advice, you want to get

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<v Speaker 1>it from a personal, personal source, someone who knows your

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<v Speaker 1>unique situation. So all of this content, all this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>is just for educational purposes, y'all. We're trying to help,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to give y'all some questions, to ask, some ideas,

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<v Speaker 1>just so that you can actually start tackling the debt

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<v Speaker 1>that you may be carrying. That is, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>keeping snatching your sleep away from you. Right, Okay, So Dasha,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me about what happens when you're staring at

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of debt. And we've talked about some solutions

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<v Speaker 1>to like getting rid of the debt, but how do

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<v Speaker 1>we get to the underlying what usually is happening underneath

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<v Speaker 1>that debt that is causing it? And how do we

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<v Speaker 1>like nip that in the bud so it doesn't happen again.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can't tell me I have to give up

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<v Speaker 1>my children because I know they are the source of

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<v Speaker 1>my financials dream but I love them. What do we do?

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<v Speaker 3>I think the first thing that's really important is for

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<v Speaker 3>us to understand that this being dead or dealing with

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<v Speaker 3>debt is something that we all go through. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>one piece of our personal finance journey. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>when we humanize that, it makes dealing with this so

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<v Speaker 3>much easier. When we realize, like, okay, debt is a tool.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't define who I am. I don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>feel bad or guilty or shamed because I've landed in debt.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think when you were first looking at all

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<v Speaker 3>of your dead looking at all of your numbers. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the first thing to realize, Like, I'm not a bad person.

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<v Speaker 3>This, this is fixable. I can't come out of this, And

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<v Speaker 3>so I think it's first important to just recognize that

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<v Speaker 3>when you are sitting in front of all of the notices,

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<v Speaker 3>the phone calls, the voice messages, recognizing that this may

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<v Speaker 3>be a bad or uncomfortable situation, but it doesn't make

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<v Speaker 3>me a bad person, and this can be fixed.

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<v Speaker 1>And what is it usually? Like, I mean, is it

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<v Speaker 1>as simple as you're Like, let's say it's a classic

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<v Speaker 1>situation where you're just not making enough to meet your expenses,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how does that? How does And especially if you're

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<v Speaker 1>someone who used to have more than enough, but like

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<v Speaker 1>your expenses have increased and you may not feel comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>like with the idea of budgeting and like having to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out something different, Like what's your advice to someone

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<v Speaker 1>who's maybe not so used to that, and like to

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<v Speaker 1>get them to actually start looking at their budget and

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<v Speaker 1>what they can trim or what they can add or

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<v Speaker 1>take away so that they can actually start chiseling away,

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<v Speaker 1>chipping away at that debt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think that what's most important is to take

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<v Speaker 3>out the assumption, take out guess work. A lot of

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<v Speaker 3>times when we are trying to figure out what we

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<v Speaker 3>have going on with that, we're usually guessing like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I owe this amount, I think I have

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<v Speaker 3>this much money coming in. So the first thing is

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<v Speaker 3>to remove all of the guessing and actually sit down

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<v Speaker 3>and create a list of all the desks that you owe,

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<v Speaker 3>the balances, who you owe, how much you owe them,

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<v Speaker 3>your other expenses that you have going on each month.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know that that sounds so redundant.

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<v Speaker 1>Because terrible that yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and we hear it a lot, and it's like

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<v Speaker 3>one of the most repetitive pieces of personal financial advice,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's because it's the most honest thing. The only

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<v Speaker 3>way that you're going to figure out where program is

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<v Speaker 3>going to be best for you, what your next step

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<v Speaker 3>is going to be, is to actually know exactly what

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<v Speaker 3>is going on. And I tell people all the time,

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<v Speaker 3>you only have to do this once. You only have

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<v Speaker 3>to push through this uncomfortable feeling one time, making the list,

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<v Speaker 3>creating the you know, gathering the numbers and all the information.

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<v Speaker 3>You only have to do that one time. So I

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<v Speaker 3>think it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it one time, and then you just

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<v Speaker 1>like stress about it and then you look away, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you go about your life and then you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we should get that spreadsheet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you get you can't just can't stop there. Because

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<v Speaker 3>what I like to think too is like, Okay, i

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<v Speaker 3>can let this hover over my head, and when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>out trying to have a good time, I'm thinking about

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<v Speaker 3>how much credit card that I got. When I'm out

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<v Speaker 3>at my son's football game, I'm thinking about how much

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 3>credit card that I got. Or I can't create the

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<v Speaker 3>plan that one time, and I can create the plan,

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<v Speaker 3>create the list, know everything that's going on, start working

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<v Speaker 3>towards getting rid of it. And then when I'm out

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm living my regular life, this isn't hovering over me.

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<v Speaker 3>So it is uncomfortable, it's not easy, and it's not fun.

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<v Speaker 3>But you only have to do the hardport once.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about just once. It's not like you

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<v Speaker 1>someone still got to pay it off, right, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>all right? I got my list and now what Dasha,

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<v Speaker 1>Now what do I do with it? Now? It's like

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<v Speaker 1>all these different due dates and minimum payment amounts and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there's some zero percent stuff that's going to expire soon,

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<v Speaker 1>so you gotta know what to do with that. What next?

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<v Speaker 3>I think the next step will definitely be to figure

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<v Speaker 3>out what your plan of action is. What's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be your plan to start paying off some of the debt,

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<v Speaker 3>to start chipping away at it. And so again, when

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<v Speaker 3>we have these conversations and we talk about debt management

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<v Speaker 3>or debt repayment, there's normally two things that always come up,

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<v Speaker 3>and it is the avalanche and snowball method. So I

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<v Speaker 3>always feel yes, yes, So for me, if anyone is

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<v Speaker 3>familiar with my content, I am the queen of chipping

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<v Speaker 3>away at things in small increments. Why because it is

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<v Speaker 3>the motivation that sells me this. Having a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>debt hovering up your heads, that's not always motivating, that's

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<v Speaker 3>not always exciting. But if I can find a way

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<v Speaker 3>to chip away at this in small incremation or just

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<v Speaker 3>make small changes, that gives me something to look forward

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<v Speaker 3>to each day. So that takes away being scared of

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<v Speaker 3>the boogeyman of the large number. So now I can

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<v Speaker 3>chip away at this in small doses, and it's motivating,

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<v Speaker 3>it's encouraging, it's something that you want to keep.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing so in your book, which is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>coming out in March twenty twenty five, so just a

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<v Speaker 1>few months from now. In your book, is there a

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<v Speaker 1>chapter on debt or more than one chapter?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So is it the snowball the avalanche? What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of method do you like? What's working for your followers?

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<v Speaker 3>So for me, it is the snowball method, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>like it's it's with a twist. So it's the snowball

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<v Speaker 3>method because what I've seen work the best is it

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<v Speaker 3>being a motivating factor to getting out of debt. When

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<v Speaker 3>we are dealing with and so now we're going to

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<v Speaker 3>have a deeper conversation. So when we are having conversations

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<v Speaker 3>to mostly black and brown women, we already know that

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<v Speaker 3>more than likely we're going to run into some income issues.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to run into women who are probably taking

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<v Speaker 3>on the brunch of the financial responsibilities of the household.

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<v Speaker 3>I see this a lot in my community. So sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>it's discouraging to say you have to pay X amount

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<v Speaker 3>of dollars one hundred dollars or more towards a debt.

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<v Speaker 3>Immediately I'm going to think about how much my quality

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<v Speaker 3>of life that I'm already probably scraping by is going

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<v Speaker 3>to change. But if someone tells me I can chip

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<v Speaker 3>away at this in twenty five dollars increments and slowly

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:43.840
<v Speaker 3>but surely increase that by ten dollars every week. Doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>sound like much. Now we have a good thing going,

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<v Speaker 3>We have a good habit established, we have a good

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<v Speaker 3>and we have a few good program not programs, but

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<v Speaker 3>patterns set up. Now we have changed it to where

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<v Speaker 3>now it's more motivated and I'm more excited to do

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<v Speaker 3>this while also not having to take away from a

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<v Speaker 3>pot that's probably already empty when I first started.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so the debt snowball break it down for us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a minute, but I know, be a fan yea.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen to this show something else and writing since

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning. We're about to do our tenth year. Can

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<v Speaker 1>y'all believe that? Gradulu? This is Yeah? Well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very excited. But also I feel like an old

0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:25.560
<v Speaker 1>krusty like you mentioned some of the old personal finance advice.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so it is like broken record because that's

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, it is what it is. It's money, you

0:43:33.840 --> 0:43:35.479
<v Speaker 1>got it, you don't. The math is math and math.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, like we these these concept

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<v Speaker 1>of snowball methods, zero sum budgeting, debt avalanche, like I've

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:46.360
<v Speaker 1>heard about them, but like, let's reintroduce it, make it fresh,

0:43:46.400 --> 0:43:48.360
<v Speaker 1>make it new. So talk about the snowball because you

0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 1>said you like that one, and there's actually a study

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.359
<v Speaker 1>that shows that the snowball is the most effective. Right,

0:43:53.440 --> 0:43:56.560
<v Speaker 1>it may not save like the most overall because of

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<v Speaker 1>the of the difference in how you structure your debts,

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<v Speaker 1>but it has that like it has that like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>that has this, like this this flywheel of I'm getting

0:44:08.320 --> 0:44:10.359
<v Speaker 1>something done a little bit at a time, I'm seeing

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:13.279
<v Speaker 1>the balances go down. That can get addicting and can

0:44:13.480 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 1>make sure that you stay motivated. So break it down

0:44:16.200 --> 0:44:16.760
<v Speaker 1>for a station.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so when we think about the snowball method, it

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<v Speaker 3>really is you focusing on the smallest balance first and

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<v Speaker 3>you're paying that off and then you use that amount

0:44:25.960 --> 0:44:28.440
<v Speaker 3>to pay towards your next debt and so on and

0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:30.560
<v Speaker 3>so on. So think of just like a snowball rolling

0:44:30.600 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 3>down the hill. It starts off small, but as it

0:44:32.760 --> 0:44:35.200
<v Speaker 3>goes down the hill, it picks up momentum to eventually

0:44:35.239 --> 0:44:38.680
<v Speaker 3>you have a lot of money a lumpsum more huge

0:44:38.760 --> 0:44:42.440
<v Speaker 3>ball that you can apply to your last debt at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the snowball methic. So the beauty here

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 3>is that when you were done now, that is a

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:51.400
<v Speaker 3>lump sum of money that you can either save, invest

0:44:51.719 --> 0:44:54.080
<v Speaker 3>or put back into your quality of life on a

0:44:54.120 --> 0:44:57.640
<v Speaker 3>monthly basis, because you have already gotten used to living

0:44:58.120 --> 0:45:02.000
<v Speaker 3>without that piece of money. And so I like that

0:45:02.160 --> 0:45:06.120
<v Speaker 3>a lot because granted it may not save you the

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:09.080
<v Speaker 3>most money in the long run, but I don't like

0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 3>to look at things dollar by dollar because doing the

0:45:13.680 --> 0:45:17.040
<v Speaker 3>avalanche method. Let's say I save a lot of money

0:45:17.080 --> 0:45:19.920
<v Speaker 3>doing that, but what would I have paid for it?

0:45:20.000 --> 0:45:23.840
<v Speaker 3>Really mentally, emotionally, I would have paid for that somewhere

0:45:23.880 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 3>else that I'm probably not willing to pay their.

0:45:26.480 --> 0:45:27.040
<v Speaker 2>Cost for that.

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<v Speaker 1>And the aidvalanches where you do it from interest rates. Yes,

0:45:30.880 --> 0:45:33.480
<v Speaker 1>so like you're paying down it makes sense. It's like

0:45:34.040 --> 0:45:38.200
<v Speaker 1>the most expensive debt goes first, and it's like order

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:40.960
<v Speaker 1>it by your APRS, by whatever you're paying an interest.

0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:45.279
<v Speaker 1>But some of that most expensive debt it can take

0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:48.719
<v Speaker 1>longer to pay down. Right, Yes, it may not be

0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:51.800
<v Speaker 1>the smallest balance, and so that can get demotivating.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you're saying, Yes and the smallest balance

0:45:56.160 --> 0:45:59.759
<v Speaker 3>is extremely motivating, it's encouraging, it's picking up momentum. Use

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:02.200
<v Speaker 3>sources to feel good about yourself, because we just talked

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:04.799
<v Speaker 3>about that early and dealing with debt can be isolating.

0:46:05.080 --> 0:46:07.880
<v Speaker 3>You feel a lot of guilt, shame, and anxiety. So

0:46:07.920 --> 0:46:10.319
<v Speaker 3>now when you finally finally have a good thing going

0:46:10.360 --> 0:46:13.200
<v Speaker 3>and you're chipping away at these balances, now you're excited,

0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:15.600
<v Speaker 3>you know, about doing this. You're excited to see what

0:46:15.680 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 3>the end is going to look like. That's why I

0:46:17.800 --> 0:46:18.920
<v Speaker 3>love that one the most.

0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to feel excited. Yes, yes, I know, be

0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:30.120
<v Speaker 1>a famous like Nandy. Tell us how much debt you

0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:31.080
<v Speaker 1>actually have?

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:33.600
<v Speaker 2>Girl? Yeah?

0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:35.319
<v Speaker 1>Well, let me just tell you. One thing that me

0:46:35.360 --> 0:46:37.080
<v Speaker 1>and day should know is that when you get a

0:46:37.120 --> 0:46:39.879
<v Speaker 1>book advance, it looks really pretty, but they don't give

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:42.359
<v Speaker 1>it to you all at once. Yeah, and then you

0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:45.160
<v Speaker 1>can't work while you're writing that book. So where does

0:46:45.160 --> 0:46:47.840
<v Speaker 1>that money come from? Where does that money come from?

0:46:48.600 --> 0:46:49.360
<v Speaker 3>That is true?

0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:50.360
<v Speaker 2>That girl?

0:46:51.480 --> 0:46:53.320
<v Speaker 1>How have you been doing it while running your business

0:46:53.320 --> 0:46:55.160
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, Day Show, what am I doing wrong?

0:46:56.040 --> 0:46:58.719
<v Speaker 3>It's been a challenge. I'm not going to lie. It's

0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:03.400
<v Speaker 3>really been a challenge because I had to dedicate eighteen

0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:08.560
<v Speaker 3>months solely to my book while also still working to

0:47:08.600 --> 0:47:12.160
<v Speaker 3>a certain extent and being a mom. So even just

0:47:13.120 --> 0:47:15.560
<v Speaker 3>for the topic of debt, I can see how when

0:47:15.600 --> 0:47:19.000
<v Speaker 3>life changes, I can see how sometimes it's easy to

0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:21.960
<v Speaker 3>want to rely, you know, on credit course, or to

0:47:22.040 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 3>find ourselves in spaces making decisions that we probably would

0:47:25.760 --> 0:47:28.080
<v Speaker 3>not have made before. That's why I think it's so

0:47:28.120 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 3>important to humanize a conversation about debt to where it

0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:35.359
<v Speaker 3>doesn't define you as a person. It more than likely

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:38.680
<v Speaker 3>just defines a part of your life, but you can

0:47:38.719 --> 0:47:39.360
<v Speaker 3>grow past that.

0:47:41.120 --> 0:47:44.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. For me, it's also like it's a little bit

0:47:44.480 --> 0:47:50.200
<v Speaker 1>of toxic hope, okay, because I'm not gonna lie. Over

0:47:50.200 --> 0:47:52.200
<v Speaker 1>the course of my career, I've always been such a

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 1>good negotiator, and I've been able to get like wind

0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:57.759
<v Speaker 1>falls here and wind falls there that I may have

0:47:57.920 --> 0:48:00.799
<v Speaker 1>had some bad habits of like oh, were spending over

0:48:00.840 --> 0:48:03.880
<v Speaker 1>the years, but they were always there was always something

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:06.239
<v Speaker 1>that came through that was like here you go, and

0:48:06.280 --> 0:48:10.319
<v Speaker 1>it's like it never happened. But in twenty twenty three,

0:48:10.560 --> 0:48:14.759
<v Speaker 1>woo woo, it was so hard and it's like, Okay,

0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 1>it's time to like put your big girl panties on.

0:48:17.560 --> 0:48:20.200
<v Speaker 1>And I wonder, like even for me, I have a

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:23.879
<v Speaker 1>husband and he's looking over at me, like you got

0:48:23.880 --> 0:48:27.840
<v Speaker 1>this because I usually do you know, I don't know

0:48:27.880 --> 0:48:30.279
<v Speaker 1>if y'all have do y'all have partners and like or

0:48:30.320 --> 0:48:32.800
<v Speaker 1>do you have any tips for people who are in relationships?

0:48:32.800 --> 0:48:35.799
<v Speaker 1>And it really does take to to tango into debt

0:48:35.840 --> 0:48:39.120
<v Speaker 1>and to tango out of it, and sometimes that communication

0:48:40.000 --> 0:48:41.640
<v Speaker 1>is so so hard to do.

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:44.400
<v Speaker 2>I think we both have stories.

0:48:47.120 --> 0:48:49.920
<v Speaker 1>Your story net well, I was girls.

0:48:50.680 --> 0:48:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I was in a situation where I did not have

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:58.000
<v Speaker 2>as much help right so it I was the personalization

0:48:58.160 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 2>was speaking about I've been the kind of the breadwinner

0:49:01.360 --> 0:49:04.239
<v Speaker 2>in my household and right now as a single mom

0:49:04.280 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 2>with two boys, it's just me. So I know you're

0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:10.200
<v Speaker 2>talking about partnership, but I also include my kids. I

0:49:10.280 --> 0:49:13.560
<v Speaker 2>think it's super important because mine are going to be

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:18.360
<v Speaker 2>nineteen in December and twelve. They understand what we have financially,

0:49:18.440 --> 0:49:21.399
<v Speaker 2>what we don't have financially, what our goals are as

0:49:21.400 --> 0:49:23.720
<v Speaker 2>a family, right because I don't want them to squander

0:49:23.719 --> 0:49:26.920
<v Speaker 2>any hard work that I've done over these years. So

0:49:27.239 --> 0:49:31.640
<v Speaker 2>they have a better understanding of at their age than

0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:32.160
<v Speaker 2>what I did.

0:49:32.280 --> 0:49:32.440
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:49:32.480 --> 0:49:36.600
<v Speaker 2>So I'm a child of immigrants that came to America

0:49:36.640 --> 0:49:40.600
<v Speaker 2>didn't necessarily understand the financial landscape. So I just think

0:49:40.600 --> 0:49:43.279
<v Speaker 2>it's super super super important to not just talk to

0:49:43.320 --> 0:49:45.839
<v Speaker 2>your partner about money and what your financial goals are.

0:49:46.040 --> 0:49:49.719
<v Speaker 2>It's also like it's a whole family thing. It's understanding

0:49:49.800 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 2>taking the kids shopping and understanding, well, that's not on sale.

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:56.320
<v Speaker 2>That's not on sale, so hard to see how the

0:49:56.400 --> 0:50:00.719
<v Speaker 2>light for that, right, And it's like just teaching good

0:50:00.719 --> 0:50:03.359
<v Speaker 2>money habits as much as possible because I think it's

0:50:03.400 --> 0:50:06.600
<v Speaker 2>a whole family situation, so that you know, debt can

0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:10.760
<v Speaker 2>be preventable. But it's also when there is debt, everybody

0:50:10.840 --> 0:50:13.399
<v Speaker 2>understands what it is. Right, So especially you know after

0:50:13.440 --> 0:50:16.400
<v Speaker 2>the holidays, don't overspend, right, Like have that real conversation

0:50:16.520 --> 0:50:18.640
<v Speaker 2>like what do you love the most? Experiences? I think

0:50:18.680 --> 0:50:22.040
<v Speaker 2>are the most important things versus things. So I mean

0:50:22.080 --> 0:50:23.880
<v Speaker 2>there's some real hard to have.

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:26.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they really are. And then when I have I

0:50:26.880 --> 0:50:28.520
<v Speaker 1>have two little babies. I mean I have a four

0:50:28.600 --> 0:50:31.200
<v Speaker 1>year old and a well five year old and a

0:50:31.200 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>one year old, and the past two years it hasn't

0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:36.920
<v Speaker 1>been so much about it. Well, it's all about their experiences.

0:50:36.960 --> 0:50:41.400
<v Speaker 1>And you know one thing, the child early childhood entertainment

0:50:41.440 --> 0:50:46.120
<v Speaker 1>industry is just booming because there's it's like all the

0:50:46.200 --> 0:50:49.799
<v Speaker 1>solutions to entertain your children cost money, you know what

0:50:49.800 --> 0:50:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean. Everyone's like, well, just get a babysitter and

0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:54.960
<v Speaker 1>just get you know, have them stay extra daycare and

0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:57.120
<v Speaker 1>aftercare and this and that and the third. And I'm like,

0:50:57.480 --> 0:50:59.919
<v Speaker 1>or go to the trampoline park on a rainy day,

0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:01.920
<v Speaker 1>or go to the museum. I'm like, bro, when you're

0:51:01.920 --> 0:51:05.479
<v Speaker 1>paying for a family afore that shit adds up. It's

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:10.040
<v Speaker 1>wild birthday parties, my god, do our gifts for everybody

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:13.880
<v Speaker 1>in their class like it is? Ugh? I could seriously,

0:51:13.920 --> 0:51:14.440
<v Speaker 1>I could.

0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:16.120
<v Speaker 2>Go on, but I don't think it's funny because they

0:51:16.120 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 2>always play with the box. Instead, we did all that

0:51:19.840 --> 0:51:20.359
<v Speaker 2>and let.

0:51:20.239 --> 0:51:23.319
<v Speaker 1>There be some tissues in it. Like literally, my son

0:51:23.400 --> 0:51:25.759
<v Speaker 1>played all day with a piece of foam that came

0:51:25.800 --> 0:51:29.799
<v Speaker 1>inside of this cute little bookcase that I built for him. Yeah,

0:51:29.840 --> 0:51:31.840
<v Speaker 1>he didn't care for that, but the piece of foam

0:51:32.480 --> 0:51:36.400
<v Speaker 1>shaped like a shield of a night. He's very into

0:51:36.480 --> 0:51:38.920
<v Speaker 1>in a piece of foam that was like his little lightsaber.

0:51:39.239 --> 0:51:41.760
<v Speaker 2>That's what he imagination is everything it is.

0:51:41.800 --> 0:51:45.160
<v Speaker 1>It really is. But God, single motherhood. I mean I

0:51:45.200 --> 0:51:47.080
<v Speaker 1>was raised by a single mom. My heart really goes

0:51:47.080 --> 0:51:49.840
<v Speaker 1>out to you, Nat, And oh we were some brady

0:51:49.920 --> 0:51:51.759
<v Speaker 1>kids too. I hope your kids are much more well

0:51:51.800 --> 0:51:58.040
<v Speaker 1>behaved they are, Sasha, what about you partnered? Like you know,

0:51:58.320 --> 0:52:01.839
<v Speaker 1>relationship finances with your kids? Like, how are you working

0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:02.080
<v Speaker 1>all that?

0:52:02.160 --> 0:52:04.920
<v Speaker 3>In? No, so I am divorced. I've been divorced. It's

0:52:04.920 --> 0:52:07.600
<v Speaker 3>probably going on about a decade. So I'm raising my

0:52:07.600 --> 0:52:08.840
<v Speaker 3>two boys by myself.

0:52:08.960 --> 0:52:11.040
<v Speaker 1>You've lived so many lives.

0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:11.680
<v Speaker 3>Yes, oh I have.

0:52:11.960 --> 0:52:13.759
<v Speaker 2>I have so many.

0:52:14.520 --> 0:52:17.279
<v Speaker 3>I have sixteen year old and twelve year olds, and

0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:20.400
<v Speaker 3>it's really the same with Nat. I involve them a

0:52:20.440 --> 0:52:23.879
<v Speaker 3>lot in the finances. I can say my twelve year

0:52:23.880 --> 0:52:26.960
<v Speaker 3>old does not care about nothing that I say. He

0:52:27.080 --> 0:52:29.480
<v Speaker 3>don't care about a budget, he don't care about a

0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:32.839
<v Speaker 3>credit card paying, he does not care. Like he's at

0:52:32.840 --> 0:52:36.239
<v Speaker 3>the age where it's like it's not computing to him.

0:52:36.239 --> 0:52:38.279
<v Speaker 3>It's like you want say, he doesn't understand why he

0:52:38.320 --> 0:52:41.000
<v Speaker 3>can't get like he's not a brad or anything, but

0:52:41.120 --> 0:52:45.520
<v Speaker 3>he just can't put two and two together. He still

0:52:45.560 --> 0:52:48.440
<v Speaker 3>thinks like, oh, if you swipe a card, if you

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 3>have the card and you swipe it, it should work.

0:52:51.120 --> 0:52:54.640
<v Speaker 3>So we're like working through like getting him to really

0:52:54.719 --> 0:52:57.560
<v Speaker 3>understand how it goes. But I evolved them a lot,

0:52:57.600 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 3>just like Nat in all of the financial discs decisions.

0:53:01.000 --> 0:53:03.000
<v Speaker 3>It was important for me to sit them down so

0:53:03.080 --> 0:53:05.480
<v Speaker 3>that they can see me pay our rent, they can

0:53:05.520 --> 0:53:08.840
<v Speaker 3>see me pay our carnoes, so they can actually see

0:53:09.000 --> 0:53:11.800
<v Speaker 3>what those numbers look like like. It's not as simple

0:53:11.840 --> 0:53:15.160
<v Speaker 3>as just swiping a card and it's done. One of

0:53:15.200 --> 0:53:18.919
<v Speaker 3>the best things that I have love navigating with them

0:53:19.360 --> 0:53:23.160
<v Speaker 3>is unpaid labor in the household. I wanted to introduce

0:53:23.200 --> 0:53:26.200
<v Speaker 3>my voice to that as early as possible, and we

0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:29.520
<v Speaker 3>talk about that a lot, like if when you're eating

0:53:29.760 --> 0:53:32.759
<v Speaker 3>someone is cooking just because you're not seeing it get

0:53:32.840 --> 0:53:35.960
<v Speaker 3>done like someone is doing it. And I started that with, Hey,

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:39.359
<v Speaker 3>if you're walking past the liundry room and it's overflowing

0:53:39.560 --> 0:53:43.000
<v Speaker 3>with your clothes on a Monday, and then Tuesday, all

0:53:43.000 --> 0:53:47.520
<v Speaker 3>of those clothes are washed. Someone did that. So you know,

0:53:47.640 --> 0:53:50.239
<v Speaker 3>I talked to them a lot about unpaid labor, how

0:53:50.280 --> 0:53:52.400
<v Speaker 3>it means for us all to play a part in

0:53:52.480 --> 0:53:55.080
<v Speaker 3>the household because they are older. If they were much younger,

0:53:55.080 --> 0:53:57.440
<v Speaker 3>the conversation would be different. But they are older boys.

0:53:57.560 --> 0:53:59.800
<v Speaker 3>So I talked to them about that a lot. But

0:53:59.840 --> 0:54:03.279
<v Speaker 3>it is important to involve them in all working aspects

0:54:03.640 --> 0:54:07.120
<v Speaker 3>of money, especially in the household, because they're they're boys.

0:54:07.120 --> 0:54:09.399
<v Speaker 3>They're going to go out in the world. They're going

0:54:09.440 --> 0:54:11.520
<v Speaker 3>to know possibly one day get married.

0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:17.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't yes, I feel like I always ready.

0:54:19.200 --> 0:54:22.920
<v Speaker 3>I always tell myself, like, I'm doing this for your

0:54:23.040 --> 0:54:26.480
<v Speaker 3>wife from my daughter in law. That's that's like my mindset,

0:54:26.560 --> 0:54:28.719
<v Speaker 3>like I want to make sure she is in the

0:54:28.719 --> 0:54:32.160
<v Speaker 3>best position possible because I've done everything that I can

0:54:32.480 --> 0:54:34.719
<v Speaker 3>for you while you're my care.

0:54:34.800 --> 0:54:37.440
<v Speaker 1>The partners that come before, the way or the husband

0:54:37.560 --> 0:54:41.319
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, your your your, your pronoun of choice. I'm

0:54:41.360 --> 0:54:43.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna go ahead and put this book on blast again.

0:54:43.280 --> 0:54:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Boy mom, read y'all, Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of

0:54:48.560 --> 0:54:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Impossible Masculinity. Library. You'll get the book back when I'm

0:54:51.719 --> 0:54:55.719
<v Speaker 1>done with it. Okay, weeks since has been I don't know,

0:54:56.400 --> 0:55:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, all right, So, Dasha, Queen of Small

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:04.879
<v Speaker 1>all steps. This is a new year, and I've heard

0:55:04.960 --> 0:55:06.960
<v Speaker 1>one step, which to me is not so small, but

0:55:07.000 --> 0:55:08.640
<v Speaker 1>it is a big step. It is sitting down and

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:12.959
<v Speaker 1>getting your information in one place. And that includes every

0:55:12.960 --> 0:55:18.880
<v Speaker 1>credit card balance, every every bill that you have coming,

0:55:19.560 --> 0:55:24.440
<v Speaker 1>every expense down on paper spreadsheet. Mint is gone. What

0:55:24.480 --> 0:55:27.040
<v Speaker 1>are the girls using? Now? I have in Power. That's

0:55:27.080 --> 0:55:31.000
<v Speaker 1>the app that I use too. Oh nice, formerly known

0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:34.680
<v Speaker 1>as Personal Capital. Yeah yeah, what about you, Dasha.

0:55:34.640 --> 0:55:37.440
<v Speaker 3>I still use a spreasheet. I am an ex sale girl,

0:55:37.560 --> 0:55:40.200
<v Speaker 3>through and through asheets. Yep.

0:55:40.560 --> 0:55:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I just love that you say exhale. It's such ah.

0:55:44.080 --> 0:55:46.840
<v Speaker 1>The Saint Louis accent. It should be studied. It's amazing,

0:55:47.400 --> 0:55:49.160
<v Speaker 1>all right, I love it. Okay, So we have our

0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:51.560
<v Speaker 1>numbers down and now we are sweating, and it's like

0:55:51.560 --> 0:55:53.359
<v Speaker 1>can I afford a bottle of wine because I need

0:55:53.400 --> 0:55:55.799
<v Speaker 1>some wine? Or it's like get an edible, like get

0:55:55.840 --> 0:55:57.680
<v Speaker 1>your little gummy. I might get a gummy from the

0:55:57.719 --> 0:56:00.520
<v Speaker 1>closet and just sit down and just like kids are

0:56:00.520 --> 0:56:03.279
<v Speaker 1>in bed, and just let the relaxation national debt relief.

0:56:03.320 --> 0:56:05.440
<v Speaker 1>Don't shake your head, No, you don't endorse that, okay,

0:56:07.400 --> 0:56:13.400
<v Speaker 1>get you in trouble, yeah yeah, just whatever it takes

0:56:13.680 --> 0:56:17.040
<v Speaker 1>self soothing, all right, And then I am working on

0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:22.600
<v Speaker 1>ordering them from smallest balance to highest. Now I don't

0:56:22.640 --> 0:56:26.200
<v Speaker 1>have tons of patients for trimming expenses. I need what

0:56:26.280 --> 0:56:27.920
<v Speaker 1>I need. You know what I mean, and I can

0:56:28.040 --> 0:56:28.800
<v Speaker 1>justify anything.

0:56:28.800 --> 0:56:29.040
<v Speaker 3>For me.

0:56:29.080 --> 0:56:31.600
<v Speaker 1>It's always about more money. How do I get bring

0:56:31.600 --> 0:56:33.920
<v Speaker 1>more in? That is the solution in a lot of ways.

0:56:35.320 --> 0:56:39.320
<v Speaker 1>So looking for additional sources of income, whether that's increasing

0:56:39.360 --> 0:56:42.439
<v Speaker 1>your rates if you are freelancing, asking for a raise

0:56:42.480 --> 0:56:46.200
<v Speaker 1>obviously at work, quitting and getting a better offer somewhere else,

0:56:46.400 --> 0:56:48.720
<v Speaker 1>as I coach women to do all of the time.

0:56:49.160 --> 0:56:53.640
<v Speaker 1>But bringing in extra money is always nice. But then

0:56:54.280 --> 0:56:56.440
<v Speaker 1>what are some baby steps from there? Like when it

0:56:56.480 --> 0:57:00.440
<v Speaker 1>comes to just like chiseling that down are you talking about, Dasha.

0:57:00.680 --> 0:57:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I've seen on Instagram you'll post these like savings challenges

0:57:03.920 --> 0:57:07.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's like day one, two dollars, day three, seven,

0:57:07.360 --> 0:57:09.839
<v Speaker 1>and it goes from there. What has worked? What can

0:57:09.880 --> 0:57:10.560
<v Speaker 1>you see working?

0:57:11.280 --> 0:57:13.760
<v Speaker 3>I see a lot when I post those says challenges.

0:57:13.840 --> 0:57:17.120
<v Speaker 3>I get a lot of positive feedback because the amounts

0:57:17.160 --> 0:57:19.640
<v Speaker 3>are so small that a lot of these people who

0:57:19.720 --> 0:57:23.000
<v Speaker 3>use them, they don't really miss the money, and it's

0:57:23.040 --> 0:57:26.360
<v Speaker 3>small and it's increasing and very small increments that they

0:57:26.400 --> 0:57:30.640
<v Speaker 3>don't realize that they are taking money from their income,

0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:33.240
<v Speaker 3>putting it to the side, and they don't miss it

0:57:33.280 --> 0:57:35.960
<v Speaker 3>because it's so small. So I do see that that

0:57:36.120 --> 0:57:39.760
<v Speaker 3>works a lot too. I see a lot of budgeting

0:57:40.000 --> 0:57:44.320
<v Speaker 3>that works. I am a huge fan of zero based budgeting.

0:57:44.320 --> 0:57:47.520
<v Speaker 3>It is the only budgeting method that I recommend because

0:57:47.560 --> 0:57:49.840
<v Speaker 3>it gives I know it's not the only one that works,

0:57:49.840 --> 0:57:51.840
<v Speaker 3>but it's the only one that I recommend because you

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<v Speaker 3>get to give every single dollar that you bring in

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<v Speaker 3>a job to do keeping your money busy. I'm someone

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<v Speaker 3>who believes that my money should work just as hard

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<v Speaker 3>as me. That I should not have any money that's

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<v Speaker 3>sitting idle. I need to have a plan for it.

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<v Speaker 3>And just because my money is busy doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 3>it's all spent. It is just meaning that it's all

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<v Speaker 3>accounting accounting for. So if I do come across any

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<v Speaker 3>extra money, I know that, hey, maybe I can put

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<v Speaker 3>this towards savings. Maybe I can put this towards that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that that is very important. So I see

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<v Speaker 3>a lot when I share with my audience different ways

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<v Speaker 3>to do things that are less stressful, small increments, small amounts,

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<v Speaker 3>Those tend to go over very well because it's less intimidating.

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<v Speaker 1>So zero based budgeting, I do like that. That's one. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So zero based budgeting is a method that I've definitely

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<v Speaker 1>heard of before, and that's where every dollar, even if

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<v Speaker 1>it's like this twenty dollars is going to go to

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<v Speaker 1>your four to one K or this twenty dollars is

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<v Speaker 1>going to go toward your emergency savings, like it has

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<v Speaker 1>a job. It doesn't just stay in your checking account.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I think that that's such a good approach

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<v Speaker 3>because it's been so many times, especially when I first

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<v Speaker 3>started out. I'll look at my bank account and I'll say, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>like I got an interest two hundred dollars, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I'll spend it. Then I'll realize, oh, I didn't pay

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<v Speaker 3>a light bal or oh, and so now I'm stuck

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<v Speaker 3>in a cycle of payday loans, which is exactly how

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<v Speaker 3>I ended up in debt in the first place, because

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't accounting for all of the money that I

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<v Speaker 3>was bringing in, and so I started to think, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm working hard all week. I don't want my money

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<v Speaker 3>just lost and sit in idle and waste it. I

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<v Speaker 3>want to track every single dollar that I bring in.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's not to micro manage, but you do want

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<v Speaker 3>to be involved with what's happening with your money, what's

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<v Speaker 3>coming in and out of your account.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, zero, I love zero based budgeting. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>post a link so you guys can learn more about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not any final tips, any final words.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is a great conversation. We could talk

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<v Speaker 2>about this all day.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, no, I think my stress levels are high enough

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<v Speaker 1>to do at lunch when at lunch Friday were not

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to talk about any of this. Absolutely that don't

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<v Speaker 1>even bring don't then.

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<v Speaker 2>This is our time, Okay, So yeah, all I will

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<v Speaker 2>say is is just know that having a plan is

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<v Speaker 2>better than no plan and is never ever too late

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<v Speaker 2>to really sit down and figure out what the goal is.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to work backwards, so my motivation comes from

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<v Speaker 2>I want X by X date, and then I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out how I'm going to get there. Excuse me,

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<v Speaker 2>come hell of high water. That is just how I

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<v Speaker 2>look at it, right, So that big shiny thing at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the road that I really want the most,

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<v Speaker 2>and it might be an experience, it's something that's true

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<v Speaker 2>to who I am and genuine to who I am

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<v Speaker 2>or what I want to provide for my children, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's what keeps me like really focused on I could

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<v Speaker 2>buy that bag, but I think I would rather my

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<v Speaker 2>kids go to any college that they want to without

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<v Speaker 2>a student loan, right, So, like that's one of my big, big,

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<v Speaker 2>big things. So it's never too late to start, It's

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<v Speaker 2>never too late to learn, it's never too late to

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<v Speaker 2>increase your income. There are people that are getting into

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<v Speaker 2>acting at like seventy right, So, like there are possibilities everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all are writing books. I'm so proud of y'all. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like they're the possibility try. So just know that debt

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<v Speaker 2>is one of those things. It's just another possibility that

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<v Speaker 2>you can go around.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, some of that optimism, we got it, y'all. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>ba fam, I want to hear from y'all. Please send

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<v Speaker 1>us an email, send us a DM on Instagram at

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<v Speaker 1>Brand Ambition Podcast, Brandambisson Podcast at gmail dot com. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know how you felt about this conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>what are some of the baby steps you were going

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<v Speaker 1>to take to start tackling this debt because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do this Brand Ambition listener survey in six months

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to see that we are handling business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we got our Olivia Pope crisis management, white hats on.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's handle our shit, be a fam Okay, we can

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<v Speaker 1>get out of this mess twogether. No judgment, no shame,

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<v Speaker 1>just action. Thank you, Dasha, and thank you Nat for

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<v Speaker 1>joining from National Debt. Really, Dasha, congrats on the book.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't wait to get our copy and have you

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<v Speaker 1>back on the show when it's finally out in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you both. Take care