1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: This is the fread Show. It is a friend show. 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 2: Good Morning, one O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 2: one hit music station. Amy Weather is here, my friend, 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 2: our friend, Uh aunt Amy, Mama Amy? Are you Mima Amy? 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: Or you wanna be Mama? 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: Is that kind of weird? Mama? What do you want 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: to be? 8 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 3: Found so old? I'm not that much older than you. Fred, 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 3: Do you feel like the aunt or the older sisters? 10 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 4: Say? 11 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you can be Tia, you can be Ta Amy. 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: It's Aunt Amy. 13 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 3: We're going Spanish, right. 14 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 2: That's Spanish, Yes it is. But we're here and we're 15 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 2: gonna hook some folks up. We've got We've got some 16 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: nurses here, first responders. Let's welcome Mary and Lauren. Hi, 17 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: Mary and Lauren? How you doing? 18 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 4: Are you? 19 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: Lauren? 20 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 2: You know I always I do this every time. Oh, 21 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 2: my friend Amy weatherright is here from one one hundred 22 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 2: truck track by the way, which is a It's a 23 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: good thing. I know there's a lawyer on the phone, 24 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 2: but it's a good thing, guys, I promise. 25 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: Yes, it is always good on the phone with Fred. 26 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: But Laura and you have no idea what we're doing here. 27 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: I always have to ask the question of the other 28 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: person on the call. You have no clue what this 29 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: is about? 30 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 5: No, I have no idea. 31 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Mary is your sister and she wrote us 32 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 2: a note about you. 33 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: Mary. Can I read this? 34 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 4: Oh? 35 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, says hi, Amy and Fred. 36 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: My sister Lauren works as a nurse at Lourie Children's Hospital. 37 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: She also does so much for others outside of work. 38 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 2: Anyone in her life can count on her for anything. 39 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: She's always babysitting for friends and family when she's not working. 40 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 2: She could use this money that we're giving away. We 41 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 2: are giving away some money surprise to help her reach 42 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 2: her goal of getting her master's degree. She's someone juggling work, 43 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 2: school and being an amazing person. 44 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: Your sister loves you, Lauren, she does clearly. And what 45 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: are you studying? What is the master's degree in nursing. 46 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 5: I'm actually getting my MBA. I hope to go into 47 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 5: hospital administration. 48 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, Mark, And what area Lourie do you do 49 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: you work in? 50 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 6: I work on the twenty first floor, so it's general 51 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 6: medicine and pulmonary All right. 52 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: Wow, of a work that they do at Lury Children's Hospital. 53 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: And Amy, I think we should do something nice for Lauren. 54 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 3: I think we should too, obviously, And Lauren, I think 55 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 3: it's great you've got your nursing degree, then you're going 56 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 3: to get an MBA. I always tell everybody it can 57 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 3: never hurt to have an MBA and know something about business. 58 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 4: So good for you. 59 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: And quite frankly, you're right down the street from me 60 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: because I'm in Streeterville, so we love Laura. You know 61 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 3: Daurn Hospital. I cut through there all the time when 62 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,839 Speaker 3: I'm walking up the whole Foods. I know exactly where 63 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 3: you are. Buy you lunch one day, but in the interim, 64 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 3: instead of a thousand bucks, Fred, let's do two thousand 65 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 3: dollars today for Lauren. 66 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 2: There you go, Laura, Okay, just like that, two thousand 67 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 2: bucks to go towards. 68 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: The master's degree. 69 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 7: Nice. 70 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 2: Or you could do something nice for yourself, because it 71 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: sounds like you're busy doing stuff for other people all 72 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 2: the time. 73 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 5: Always yes, no, but thank you so much. Really is 74 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 5: very helpful for me. 75 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:53,839 Speaker 1: And you all marry one. 76 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: I guess maybe take Mary to lunch or something, because 77 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 2: Mary hasn't said a whole lot, but she made this 78 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 2: whole thing happen for you. 79 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 4: Nice. 80 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: She's my big old assistant. 81 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 4: You know, if she helped me out through anything, I 82 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 4: only can count on her, so I not do something 83 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 4: nice for her. 84 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: Good looking out Mary and Lauren. Wait wait wait wait, 85 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: and you know there are a lot of hot freads. 86 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if there are. Listen. It was kind 87 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: of fun. 88 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he was I like a man and go 89 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 5: to work. 90 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, he beat him at his feet on the ground. 91 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 5: That's good to you know. 92 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: That's all. 93 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 2: Fred's show is on Friday, Good Morning, every one, September twelve. 94 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 2: Fred Show is not Hi, Kaylen, Hi, Jason Brian and 95 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: Hello Kiki, good morning, oning us out today Shelby Shelley 96 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 2: is hearing about twenty minutes, one hundred and fifty bucks 97 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: in the showdown. Five pop culture questions, one game win streak? 98 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 2: Will you hand her loss number seventy two and get 99 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 2: some money to start the weekend? 100 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone is new? 101 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 2: And next way, if somebody get ghost to be entertainer 102 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 2: of just now and see what's in there? 103 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 6: K Now, there is a new Whitney Houston dua and 104 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 6: you heard that correctly. However, I'm scared to do the 105 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 6: story because when I told Kiki that there was a 106 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 6: new Whitney Houston duet. 107 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 5: She told me, don't take me off, like. 108 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: Don't make me massy. I say the same thing. 109 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 5: Let Whitney bread, I see the same passenger. 110 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: Do we have a clip of it? 111 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 5: We are getting a. 112 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: Clip over, We're getting a clip. We're working on that. 113 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 4: Yes. 114 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 6: Our technical department is our technical department. 115 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 2: So Bell is using the Internet Explorer from two thousand 116 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 2: and four, so certainly editing software from nineteen ninety three. 117 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 6: Yes, And when Whitney comes in, surely it will skip 118 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 6: and we won't be able to hear the pres radio 119 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 6: I heard. 120 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: We were cutting it off right when she starts singing. 121 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 5: Jason Kelsey said, I radio. 122 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 1: Right, exactly. 123 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: It's only one of the biggest things in the company 124 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 2: that day, and then leaping him. She's bringing to me 125 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 2: on a tape actually, but we don't have a tape player, 126 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 2: so it's going to be hard for us to do. Yeah, 127 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: morning everyone, it's great here. I love it, and we're 128 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,799 Speaker 2: commercial free for the next forty minutes. 129 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: You don't have to go anywhere. They talk better than 130 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 1: they say. 131 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. You 132 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: played it for me a little while ago, and I 133 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 2: started to hear her singing, and I'm like, wait, someone 134 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 2: else is involved with this, and you're like yeah, I'm 135 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 2: like key, I looked at each other. It's the same thing, 136 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: the same visceral reaction. We don't need it. 137 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 5: And there's a music video. 138 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 2: We all don't do it, like I don't care. You 139 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: can be very very talented. I've heard very few people 140 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 2: do anything with Whitney Houston that makes me happy. Iigo did, 141 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:35,679 Speaker 2: but he didn't he used Whitney's vocals and he didn't 142 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 2: try and sing with Whitney. And there's only you know what, 143 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 2: I think, there's only one or two people I've ever 144 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 2: heard ever in my life. There's a girl I know, 145 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 2: she's the one I dreamed of. Look into my eyes, 146 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: take me to the clouds of. 147 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: Now. I lose control. Can't see him beginning it. I 148 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: can't see beginning, you know, real lyrics. I never mind. 149 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 2: Look look like she knows. I want to say. She's 150 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 2: on the Harvard like glee club, honestly. And there was 151 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: a video on TikTok of how will I Know? And 152 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: they were doing it, and you know, I'm not a 153 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 2: huge fan of the You're like, we're there, ooh, you 154 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 2: know whatever that is? 155 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 5: What are they doing? 156 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: You know when they do the whole thing with there, 157 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: they make like every I don't know enough about music 158 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 2: to like, but every Yeah, layer of the song is vocals. 159 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: But she just I'll see if I can find it. 160 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: She just belt it out. 161 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 2: It's so good, like not over song, Like she's really 162 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 2: got the vocals to do it. 163 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 5: Wow. 164 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people over sing. 165 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: It because they don't have They don't have because nobody 166 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: has Whitney Houston vocals. 167 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 1: Nobody anyway. 168 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: Sorry, He's do a blog, okay, like writing in our diaries, 169 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: except we say I'm aloud, go ahead. 170 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 5: Deer blog. So I have a question for the straight men. 171 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 6: So I guess Fred and any and Kiki anyone listening? 172 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: So me okay, sure. 173 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 6: And it was something that was ruminating in my mind, 174 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 6: and then you said something the other day that I 175 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 6: kind of feel like affirmed this, And so I just 176 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 6: want to know why do straight men not want to 177 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 6: make new straight female friends? 178 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: Okay, what's the context? 179 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: So? 180 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: And I think I have my stage and I can 181 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: tell you why. 182 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 5: Okay, for sure. I'm excited to know because I've been. 183 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 6: Pondering this because my new thing and I found like 184 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 6: a life hack is taking a bottle of wine to 185 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 6: the dog park, and so I sit outside. 186 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 5: There's hell of dogs there. Don't worry. I have one too, 187 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 5: so I'm not like creepy. Just sitting in the door would. 188 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: Be a little strange. 189 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 2: I guess if you just went to the dog park 190 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 2: without one, but you probably can. 191 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's the cheapest bar in town. I bring 192 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 6: it in my little bag, a red solo cup, and 193 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 6: I sit there, I play with dogs, I have my 194 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 6: little happy hour. My dog gets outside. What YadA YadA. 195 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 6: So the other night I went and this is a 196 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 6: little sad. I went on a Saturday night. 197 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 2: That is not sad. That sounds like an amazing night. 198 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: A bunch of dogs, a red solo cup full of 199 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: alcohol and. 200 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: Solitude. 201 00:07:55,760 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's probably is You've described the greatest Saturday time. 202 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 5: Listen. 203 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 6: The weather was hitting. It was hoodie weather. I went 204 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 6: to Binnies. I got some red wine, like I was 205 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,119 Speaker 6: just you know, we were Me and Willie were city girls. 206 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 5: Okay, girls up. 207 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 6: So I went to the park and unfortunately on Saturday 208 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 6: nights it's a little less crowded than it is on 209 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 6: other nights. As there was only one other gentleman there, 210 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 6: and so you know, I pull up, I get my spot, 211 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 6: and usually at the dog park you end up talking 212 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 6: to other people that are there because your dogs play, 213 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 6: and like because you're. 214 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 2: Kind of just standing there or sitting there. You know 215 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: what they're doing there. Yeah, it's a social event for them. 216 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 5: It really is, like we have chairs at ours. 217 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 6: And he was standing up playing with the dogs, but 218 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,719 Speaker 6: his dogs ran over to me. So whatever, we ended 219 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 6: up talking and we were really like, we were just 220 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 6: kicking it. We were both hanging out. I asked him, 221 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 6: you know, I'm like, shoot, I wish I would have 222 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 6: brought you a cup. I would have had some wine 223 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 6: for you. And he's like, yeah, I'm jealous. And so 224 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 6: we talked for a little while we hung out and 225 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 6: he was asking me questions and then came the answer 226 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:53,559 Speaker 6: of well, how long. 227 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 5: Did you have your dog? 228 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 6: And then I explained that she was my boyfriend's first 229 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 6: for a long time and then we started dating and 230 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 6: she kind. 231 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 5: Of just became obsessed with. 232 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 2: Each other and got to ask my dog and regardless 233 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: of what happens, is my dog. 234 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 6: I'm glad you're learning. But the second that I brought 235 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 6: up that I had a boyfriend. This man like there 236 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 6: was he ran through the fence, like he didn't even 237 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 6: open the door to the fence. 238 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 5: He literally put his dogs on his leashes and he 239 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 5: got the hell home. And I was just. 240 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 6: There with my you know what in my hand, and 241 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 6: I would say, like it hurt my feelings, and I 242 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 6: was like, I thought we were having fun. I thought 243 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 6: we were going to become friends, and maybe not like 244 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 6: an exchange of number situation, but like I thought we 245 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,119 Speaker 6: were vibing, and it just really hurt my feelings. 246 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 5: And then you said the other day, You're like, I'll 247 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,479 Speaker 5: follow a hot. 248 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 6: News anchor and see that she's got a ring, and 249 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:43,439 Speaker 6: then I'll unfollow her. 250 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 5: Why don't you want new friends? 251 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: And I don't mean to suggest when I said that, 252 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 2: I don't mean to Let me just clarify, Okay, I 253 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 2: don't mean to suggest I don't respect their work, but 254 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: I'll be honest. The first thing that I'm looking at 255 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 2: when I see is Wow, that person's attractive. 256 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 4: Right. 257 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 2: These people live in like places I've never been. We 258 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: live in like, you know, College Station, Texas, Like I 259 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: don't care about the weather in College Station. 260 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't. 261 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: But I'm like, oh, that person's attractive, and then it's like, 262 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: oh they're married, and every yeah, I don't need to. 263 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:08,559 Speaker 1: I would have. 264 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 2: Maybe cared if it was seventy eight degrees in college 265 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: station today, but I don't otherwise. Okay, but man, this 266 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 2: is what it is. I think that most guys are 267 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 2: trying to find someone to date. Like so he his 268 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 2: intention in coming over to you, he probably and continuing 269 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: to engage with you was that he found you attractive, 270 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: because theren't no anything else about you. 271 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 5: I didn't look at well does the. 272 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: Matter he thought you were You're a good looking woman, 273 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 2: you know, appreciate, but I've seen the best of you, 274 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 2: and I've seen the worst of you, and it's still 275 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 2: a very high, high level, at a very high level. 276 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 5: That's the lie. 277 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: No, No, it's true. It's true. I do feel that way. 278 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 2: But I think as soon as he heard that you 279 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 2: were taken that I guess it's just like, well, what 280 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 2: further engagement is there here? Because I would say that 281 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: typically it would be a pretty tough putt for a 282 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: single guy to make a platonic friendship with a woman 283 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 2: who had as a boyfriend, because it's just kind of 284 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 2: the way it is, like I think if you went 285 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 2: home and like if you gave me your number, and 286 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 2: or like if I'll see tomorrow and we'll be friends, 287 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 2: you know, and we'll see each other at the dog park, 288 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 2: and you go home and tell your husband or especially 289 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 2: your boyfriend, Hey, I met this guy at the dog park, 290 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 2: gave him my number. We're gonna be friends. If we're 291 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: being very transparent, I think there are very few men 292 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 2: that would go, oh, that's a great idea, Like that's amazing, 293 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: Like you should absolutely go drink and hang out with 294 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 2: another guy at the pain and it should be that way, right. 295 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 2: But but I'm just saying, we as mannor are weak 296 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 2: creatures at times, and we can be possessive and we 297 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 2: could be insecure. 298 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: And I don't know. 299 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 2: I think if if roles were reversed and your boyfriends 300 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: or fiance's or whomever came home and said the same thing, 301 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 2: you might. 302 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 5: Be like, well that, what did you hear? 303 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 2: That's not boundaried really, Like I don't I don't know 304 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 2: about that. I mean, it's just and again, is there 305 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 2: anything wrong with it inherently? But if I were guessing 306 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 2: it was he was interested and then you said you 307 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: had a boyfriend, and his takeaway is, I'm not going 308 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 2: to be her best friend. I don't really want to 309 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 2: be her best friend. And we're not gonna be able 310 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 2: to date so and I don't want to. I'm not 311 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 2: trying to get in any weird situation if your boyfriend 312 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 2: walks up, So I'm just gonna walk away. 313 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, And to be clear, like I have, I do 314 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 6: have boundaries, Like I would not have exchanged numbers with him. 315 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 6: I am a social person, like I I my boyfriend 316 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 6: doesn't look I mean we were in Greece and the 317 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 6: boat driver, like I exchanged Instagrams with him because I 318 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 6: wanted to, like see where his story went. Like I 319 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 6: don't I don't do it because I have a crush 320 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 6: on him, but I don't know. I just it made 321 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 6: me feel sad like I was only I don't know, 322 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 6: like we weren't having a good conversation. 323 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 2: Otherwise, like I wouldn't take it that way. I would 324 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 2: just say he shut his taking saw an opportunity and 325 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,839 Speaker 2: he didn't get it, and so he just dismissed. He 326 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 2: just you know, departed the kind of faster. 327 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, get out of there. 328 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:54,199 Speaker 2: Because I don't know what you know, he could have 329 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 2: I guess he could have certainly tried to be your friend. 330 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 2: Then he could have also been the douchebag guy that's like, well, 331 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 2: we don't care about him, do we? 332 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: Or like you know what I mean? 333 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean you know what I'm talking about 334 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: as women who've been hit on my men and were 335 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: in relationships, you know how. I'm sure in my life 336 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 2: I've done it, and I'm shamed, ashamed of myself. But 337 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, oh where's he? He ain't here, and 338 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 2: you know that kind of stupid stuff that men do. 339 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:17,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I didn't think we were gonna go 340 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 6: get pedicures together. I just thought like there could have 341 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 6: been a smoother transition of his exit, like you could 342 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 6: have stayed like. 343 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 5: Ten more minutes. Make me not feel like, I don't know, maybe. 344 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 2: Maybe in some strange way, he was being respectful. Maybe 345 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: he felt like he didn't want you to feel hit on, 346 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 2: or he didn't want any sort of confrontation. I'm trying 347 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: to give this guy the benefit of the doubt, But 348 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 2: what it came down to is you thought you were 349 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 2: hot and then you were taken. So he walked away. 350 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 6: I just like to yep, I'm from the Midwest, like 351 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 6: I'm just trying to talk to everyone. 352 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 5: But yeah, that was it didn't feel great, so I'm sorry. 353 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 5: That's okay. 354 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: I don't think it was personal. 355 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 5: I'll see you guys at the dog park. 356 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: I think he was envisioning a life together. 357 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 358 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 2: Someone texted friend saying I don't know enough about music 359 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 2: while being in radio Forever is funny. No, I don't 360 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 2: know about music theory. I know a lot about music. 361 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: I don't. 362 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 3: I'm not. 363 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not in the lab. You know. I 364 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: don't go to the studio with Armin van Buren and 365 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,439 Speaker 1: layer tracks. You know, don't. I don't know what it's 366 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: all called. 367 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 5: You know, he doesn't know about glee club. It's like, 368 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 5: I don't know. 369 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 2: I don't know what it's like to I can't build 370 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: a song with my mouth, okay, like I can no 371 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 2: not okay? 372 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:23,239 Speaker 8: Are you sure. 373 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 1: I can make People saying you've never been left waiting. 374 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 2: By the phone. It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Chris, good morning, 375 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 2: welcome to the program. How are you I'm doing okay, 376 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 2: how are you doing doing? 377 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: All right? Man? 378 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 2: What's going on with this woman, Chelsea, we got to 379 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 2: kind of know everything. It's waiting by the phone trying 380 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 2: to figure out maybe if you have been ghosted. So 381 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: tell us about any days that you've been on with Chelsea, 382 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 2: kind of how you met and where things are now, 383 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 2: the whole backstory. 384 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 9: Okay, Well, we met on a dating app pretty much 385 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 9: like everybody does nowadays. We hung out twice, now, I 386 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 9: I mean, I thought we had a pretty good time. 387 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 9: We did talk about our past relationships, which I know 388 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 9: is not a good thing to do. But I am 389 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 9: a little worried maybe I said too much and that 390 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 9: might be why she's not calling me back. 391 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: I see. Okay, little self awareness on this one. You know, 392 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 2: this dude did some real reflection. It wasn't like I 393 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 2: didn't do anything. And then it turns out that he, 394 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, tried to put her feet 395 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 2: in his mouth or something, you know, I don't know, 396 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 2: but her things to make her smell better. He never 397 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: met her before, Like I mean, so you're saying that 398 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: maybe maybe some of the conversation was maybe some of 399 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 2: the topics were the things that you're not supposed to 400 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 2: talk about on dates. But other than that, you felt 401 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 2: like everything went really well. 402 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 4: I do. 403 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, no feet in the mouth or anything like that. 404 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 2: It's good and we like to try and keep them 405 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: out unless, you know, unless somebody wants that. But and 406 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 2: no judgment there. But that didn't happen here. So let's 407 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 2: play a song. Come back, Hey, Chris, Yes, all right, 408 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 2: welcome back. Let's call Chelsea. You guys, you made on 409 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 2: a dating app a lot of that's pretty much everybody meets, 410 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 2: and you went on two dates. You felt like everything 411 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: went really well. But you've reached out since the second 412 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: date and you haven't heard back from her in any form, 413 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 2: and you want to know why. 414 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: You feel like you're being ghosted. You have no idea why. 415 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, like I said, it might. 416 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 9: Be because I brought up some past relationship stuff. But otherwise, yeah, 417 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 9: I really don't know. 418 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 2: I mean, but that does people do talk about that, 419 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: of all the things. So let's call Chelsea now and 420 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 2: try and figure this out. Good luck, Thanks man. Hello, 421 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 2: Hi's this Chelsea. 422 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: Chelsea. Good morning. My name is Fred. 423 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, 424 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on 425 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 2: the radio right now and I would need your permission 426 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 2: to continue with the call can which hat for just 427 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 2: a second, would you mind? 428 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's fine. 429 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. We appreciate that we're calling on behalf. 430 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 2: I mean, she seemed like optimistic, but we'll see. We're 431 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: calling on behalf of a guy named Chris. I guess 432 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: you recently went a couple of days with Chris him. 433 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 4: Yes, I do. 434 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, he called. 435 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 2: Us and he had nice things to say about you 436 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 2: and said that he enjoyed the dates that you went on. 437 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 2: And apparently he's reached out for another one and you're 438 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 2: not responding to him at all, so he's trying to 439 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: figure out me, you know, why you might be ghosting him. 440 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, yeah, we met on a dating app and 441 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 4: like everyone does, and after talking for a little bit, 442 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 4: he got my number and asked me out, and more 443 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:31,360 Speaker 4: than a few times he brought up how important trust 444 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 4: is and how he's had women lie to him in 445 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 4: the past, and it seems pretty clear to me that 446 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 4: he had been hurt and he clearly hasn't worked through 447 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 4: it or like let it go. I didn't love like 448 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 4: all the X talk or him you know, seemingly having 449 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 4: like a chip on his shoulder about women. But he 450 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 4: did seem a little nervous and tipsy. So I just 451 00:17:56,440 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 4: chalked it up to like first date jitters, and I 452 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 4: wanted to give him a second chance. 453 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 1: Okay. So when he picked. 454 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 4: Me up for our second date, he told me he 455 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 4: had a surprise for me, and the surprise ended up 456 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 4: being a lie detector test. 457 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 1: Stop organized stop it. 458 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 2: I wish he took you a polygraph examiner on the 459 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 2: second date, like a fun yeah, I mean like an 460 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: escape room would be one thing. 461 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: But like he took you up you know, I don't 462 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 1: know a nice when they took you up a eminer? What? Wow? 463 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: I don't even know where you find that? 464 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 5: Is there a story? 465 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: Is there a group for that? 466 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 6: Like? 467 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,239 Speaker 1: What did he take you to the FBI? Like? 468 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 2: Okay, so he took you to get a legitimate. 469 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: Liight detective test? 470 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 471 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 4: And he for his reasoning was he said that way 472 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 4: we could start things off with a clean slate on 473 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 4: the right foot. And he told me he had some 474 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,199 Speaker 4: questions and they would be like, have you ever cheated 475 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 4: on someone? Have you ever lied to a partner? 476 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 1: Wow? 477 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 4: I know it's. 478 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 1: Past and right. 479 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 4: Well, I'm told him he wasn't going to take the 480 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 4: test because it's stupid and I. 481 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: Don't blame you. I wouldn't have hey, I would have 482 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: known that he would have no C. 483 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:26,440 Speaker 5: And how'd that go over? 484 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 4: He flipped out and said, like see, I knew this 485 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 4: was too good to be true. 486 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 3: I never like I left and never like oh. 487 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 4: He just was like freaking out. 488 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: I believe this guy had a lie. He's hector test 489 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 2: line up. I feel like you wanted to see if 490 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: you do it. And then when he said that you 491 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: you wouldn't any you know, because I don't even know 492 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 2: who to call. You call the captain s I guess 493 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 2: can't steeve our guy, you know, and maybe he's not 494 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 2: somebody who does this but gCO yeah yeah, oh yeah, 495 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 2: we'll call that guy left on this day of the investigation. 496 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 2: Let me bring Chris in, Chelsea. I'm trying to rupt you, 497 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: but I I he's on the phone. I failed to 498 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 2: mention that I'm very forgetful. But Chris, what are we doing? 499 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 2: You said you talked about past relationships. Fine, a lie 500 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 2: detector test. 501 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 9: Well, to be honest, I think she's kind of exaggerating 502 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 9: the situation a little bit. 503 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 7: It was more like a playful kind of day it 504 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 7: was just to see, you know, hey, let's let's be honest, 505 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 7: because when she brought up her exes, I felt like 506 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 7: she wasn't being one hundred percent honest. 507 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: So I really didn't think it was that big of 508 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 1: a deal, you know. 509 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 7: So let's just you would want to know some stuff too. 510 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: Let's sling by. 511 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 2: The station and he'll get to some electrodes and let's 512 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 2: let's see, let's see if you're really telling the truth. Dude, 513 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 2: you're not entitled to that information. Like, it's very clear 514 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: that you don't trust people. I'm sorry for whatever the 515 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 2: you know, the catalyst for that is, but for whatever 516 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 2: reason you don't trust people, I'm sorry. But like, you 517 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 2: don't just get to go hook everybody up to a 518 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 2: light detector test. And even then, I'm not even sure 519 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 2: that's how that works. 520 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 7: Well, no on a person would mind taking a light detector, 521 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,479 Speaker 7: would take detected. 522 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,640 Speaker 1: I don't know you. I didn't come murder. 523 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 8: Chris when I because when I got home, you texted 524 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 8: me that you forgave me and I owe you a drink. 525 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,719 Speaker 2: No, that's the point where things got strange for you. 526 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: I see, Okay, all right, yeah, no, no, I'm not 527 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 2: I'm not. 528 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 5: I love it unprompted. I forgive you like for that. 529 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 2: By the way, this girl was right. But this reminds 530 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 2: you of the first date that I went on. I've 531 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 2: told you guys about it before. This is a long 532 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 2: time ago. But I went on a first day. I 533 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,360 Speaker 2: had the next day off, and the date was kind 534 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,479 Speaker 2: of flat, and so I'm like, I'm going home, and 535 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 2: she was like, what do you want to Let's go 536 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 2: another place. 537 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm gonna go home. 538 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,959 Speaker 2: Why didn't I left and I went to hang out 539 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:49,360 Speaker 2: with my buddies because I was off the next day, 540 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,400 Speaker 2: and she facetimed me like eight times in a row 541 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 2: because she wanted me to answer to prove that I 542 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 2: and then she was right. 543 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 1: I was absolutely out of the bus. But I can 544 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,719 Speaker 1: do that. I mean I did lie. I did love her, 545 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 1: but you're not entitled to know that. 546 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: Like, we went on a date, we had two drinks, 547 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 2: it was a nice time, and then I left and 548 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: went somewhere else. 549 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: I have every right to do that. But she called 550 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 1: over and over again. 551 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 2: I had to be FaceTime, and then when I wouldn't 552 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 2: pick up, it's like you liar, and I was but 553 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,679 Speaker 2: that's it's not the point I can lie to someone 554 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 2: and I don't. I don't know after two dates, how 555 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 2: you believe that you're entitled to that level of access 556 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 2: to someone's psyche, Like you gotta trust issues, bro, you're 557 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 2: gonna have. 558 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: I mean, that's unattractive in itself. That's not helping. Chris 559 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: fred I don't know. I think I'm asking the wrong 560 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: person here. It sounds like you're a liar. 561 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 9: To be honest with you. 562 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I have absolutely lied, and but I'm honest 563 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 1: about it. But I'm not asking people You're insane. 564 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 2: We're not stopping by the bureau you hooked up to 565 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 2: get your deepest darket secrets. I'm not entitled to that 566 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 2: information the same way that girl's not entitled to know 567 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 2: where I am after a date. 568 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 5: So take detectors on the show. 569 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm busy. 570 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 2: So actually, you know what I would too, because I 571 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 2: don't think there's anything that I would have to lie about, Like, 572 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 2: you know. 573 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 5: Are you going to the club or are you not? 574 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:09,400 Speaker 1: I went to the club. 575 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 2: I did, all right, Look, Chelsea, I'll ask the question, 576 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 2: no lie, detector, But you want to give this guy 577 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 2: another chance? I know the answer, But if you you 578 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 2: know whatever. Surprised me, absolutely not. Okay, all right, well 579 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: we're all liars, Chris, so sorry. 580 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, apparently you guys are a bunch of liars and 581 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 9: don't care about honesty. 582 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: That's fine whatever. 583 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 2: If i'm you, I find another way to regain trust 584 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 2: rather than strapping everybody in. 585 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 1: It's all therapy. 586 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 5: No, keep doing this, don't work. 587 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: It's expensive, I'm sure