1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to my show. I'm Rashon McDonald, a host of 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: Money Making Conversations Masterclass, where we encourage people to stop 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: reading other people's success stories and start planning your own. 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 2: Now. 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: You don't want to miss an episode, so please take 6 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: a moment right now to follow or subscribe to Money 7 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: Making Conversations Masterclass. 8 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 3: It's free. 9 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: You can follow me on iHeartRadio, app, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, 10 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your podcast. New Money Making 11 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: Conversations Masterclass episodes drop daily. I want to keep you 12 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: on alert because my guests provide tips on how you 13 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: can uplift your community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or 14 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Now, let's 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 1: get this podcast started. My next guest is a Hall 16 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: of Fame speaker who has been named one of the 17 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: Outstanding five speakers in the world. He is the author 18 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: of several best selling books, including A Setback Is A 19 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: Setup for a Comeback, An Attitude of Excellence, and his 20 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: new book Rich Is Good, Wealthy is Better. I got 21 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: it right here, ladies and gentlemen, just finished reading it. 22 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: He specialized in helping people to turn their setbacks into 23 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: amazing comebacks and helping you grow your wealth by growing yourself. 24 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: Please welcome the Money Making Conversations Masterclass the one and 25 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,559 Speaker 1: only Doctor Willie Jolly. 26 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 2: Thank you, my brother, Thank you so much. 27 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 4: You know I have only just a minute, only sixty 28 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 4: seconds in it for us to pun me. Can't refuse it. 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 4: I didn't seek it, I didn't choose it. But it's 30 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 4: up to me to use it. I must suffer if 31 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 4: I lose it, give a counterfive abuse it just a 32 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 4: tiny little minute, but our eternity is wrapped up in 33 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 4: and I'm grateful for this minute, this moment, this opportunity 34 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 4: to be with my guy, Brushan McDonald. 35 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 2: Thank you my brother. 36 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: First of all, you know I love him. I listened 37 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: to his show religiously on a serious. 38 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 3: Except I always text. 39 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: Him, I call him, say, man, just sometimes you have 40 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: to let brother, no, our friend know you listen by 41 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: dropping a little krumb about an episode you just heard, 42 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: and he goes right, And I love it. 43 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 3: Oh he does listen to my show. 44 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: They didn't curly just me so much when I get 45 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 4: those comments from you, Thank you man. You just don't 46 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 4: know how much I appreciate it, and I'm grateful. 47 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 2: I'm grateful, grateful. 48 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I always like to get my audience 49 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: locked in, you know, don't want to lose them because 50 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: they want to listen real quick and see it's something 51 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: they want to hear. 52 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 3: Which is good? Is good? Wealthy is better? Rich is good? 53 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: I would say that one more time, wealthy is better 54 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: because the word rich and wealthy? 55 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 3: What is the difference there? 56 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 4: Right? 57 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 2: Thank you know what. 58 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 4: Let me tell you how this book came to be. I, 59 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 4: as you know, have been on Serious Exam Channel one 60 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 4: forty one now. 61 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 2: But I've been on Serious Exam. 62 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 4: I was first on the Power on one twenty six 63 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 4: and then I moved over to one twenty one thirteen 64 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 4: years ago. Because I've been on exem for twenty years. 65 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 4: And over those twenty years, I've had the honor of 66 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 4: interviewing some of the greatest wealth creators of our time, 67 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 4: people like Bill Marriott and David Rubinstein and David Stewart, 68 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 4: America's Wealthy as black Man, Bob Johnson, Johnson, tell Lee 69 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 4: Else's the found co founder of Netflix one after another, 70 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 4: Damon John John O'Brien, and over those years I was 71 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 4: inspired by them, but I didn't know the difference between 72 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 4: being rich and wealthy. Oh, I thought I knew, But 73 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 4: about four years ago that the proverbial light bulb went 74 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 4: off above my head and I said, oh my god, 75 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 4: I got it. Bob Johnson had tried to tell me, 76 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 4: but I didn't get it. I didn't capture it. But 77 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 4: finally it came to my brain, here's the difference. And 78 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 4: I said, well, maybe I'm the only one who doesn't 79 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 4: know the difference. Maybe I'm the outlier here. So I 80 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 4: went around the country when doing my speaking engagement to 81 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 4: corporations all my tours and ask people, Hey, what do 82 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 4: you say when I say the word rich? What do 83 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 4: you think? They immediate number one answer million dollars. You 84 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 4: got a million dollars, you're rich. Okay, great, Now if 85 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 4: rich is a million, what's wealthy? And they'll look up 86 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 4: in the air ponder for a minute and they say, 87 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: I guess it's five million, ten million, a billion. And 88 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: I realized other people didn't know either, okay, and said, 89 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 4: I said, if they don't know, how will they ever 90 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: hit it. 91 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: It's like this, sir rouchean. 92 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 4: If I gave you a rock and say hit the 93 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 4: closest wall to where you're sitting, you hit the rock 94 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 4: with the wall close to you. 95 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: Okay, got it. 96 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 4: Now let's say I say here's a rock again, but 97 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 4: this time, before you throw it, I wanted to put 98 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 4: you a blindfold over your eyes, turn you around until 99 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 4: you can't know which direction you're facing. Now do it again? 100 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 2: Well, can you do it? 101 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 4: No? It's hard to hit what you can't see, and 102 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 4: it's even harder to hit what you don't know. And 103 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 4: I realized most people did not know the difference between 104 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 4: being rich and wealthy, and I was one of them. 105 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 4: And I give you a quick story. I was in Cleveland, 106 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 4: Ohio a couple of weeks ago giving a speech, and 107 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 4: I was there with Ben Crump. On Friday night, we 108 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 4: did an event, then Saturday had another event, and Sunday. 109 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 2: Morning I spoke to church. 110 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 4: Well after Saturday afternoon, I went to a fancy restaurant 111 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 4: with the client who had brought me there, and we 112 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 4: were sitting there having this nice meal and one of 113 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 4: the star players from the Cleveland Browns football team, a 114 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 4: well known football player and a star in the league, 115 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,799 Speaker 4: was walking by with his entourage. And he was walking 116 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 4: by and my client knew him, saying, Hey, come over, 117 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 4: I want you to meet doctor Jolly. So he comes 118 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 4: over with his fur coat and his jewelry around his 119 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 4: neck and his diamond bracelet on. He was looking really good. 120 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 4: I said, why that young man is balling and anyway, 121 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 4: he said. My client said to the football player, hey, 122 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 4: doctor Jolly teaches people how to be wealthy. And a 123 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 4: young man responded, I'm already wealthy, but I guess I 124 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 4: could learn some more ways about real wealth. And we 125 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 4: chatted for a minute. I gave him my card and 126 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 4: he and his entourage left. I know he prayed the bill, 127 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 4: by the way. Anyway, then left. I said to my client, 128 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 4: I said, you know what, I bet you that young 129 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 4: man thinks he's wealthy, but he's really rich. Now the 130 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 4: owner is wealthy. See that young man ran up and 131 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 4: down the field, he caught the ball. He was a 132 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 4: star in the field. He went to training camp, he 133 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 4: went through all the processes and he got a contract 134 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 4: and he got millions of dollars. He's rich, right, But 135 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 4: the owner didn't sweat. He didn't get on the field, 136 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 4: he didn't run up and there. He sipped his key 137 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 4: tea or coffee or soft drink. He ate some food 138 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 4: while the. 139 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 2: Game was going on. 140 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 4: But when the game was over, the young man went 141 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 4: home with millions, but the owner went home with billions. 142 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 4: And when that young man on the field stopped being 143 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 4: productive or gets hurt, he's going to be replaced with 144 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 4: another young man that the owner chooses. And so I realized, 145 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 4: we have to tell people the difference between being rich 146 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 4: and wealthy and helping them to grow. And so when 147 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 4: I called my friends, the billionaires and millionaires and said, hey, 148 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 4: here's my theory on the difference between being rich and wealthy? 149 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 4: Am I correct? They say absolutely, You're absolutely right. And 150 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 4: here's what you got to do. 151 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 3: Now. 152 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 4: Now that you know, and you've got the ability to 153 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 4: get the word out, you got television, radio, and you 154 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 4: can write books. 155 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: Put it in a book, and so I did. 156 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 4: The book is called Riches, Good, Wealthy is Better, and 157 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 4: people can go to Riches, Good, Wealthy is Better dot 158 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 4: com and read it and get free excerpts from the book. 159 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 4: It's in a phenomenal read. And let me say this 160 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 4: for the record, this book didn't come from me. It 161 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 4: came through me. And I get God to glory because 162 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 4: this is a book that's going to change our country. 163 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 2: Now let's talk. 164 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 3: About the book. A little bit more detailed. 165 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: You know, my mindset money mindset, because that's what you're 166 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: talking about. People can drive a car, people can live 167 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: in a house, and I call that working wealthy anyway. 168 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 3: Yes, if you start working, then your wealth goes away. 169 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: That's what you're saying is there's mailbox money and there 170 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: was working money. Yes, what you're trying to do is 171 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: transition people from the world money to the mailbox money. 172 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 173 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 3: Well. 174 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 4: Well, there are two groups that this book is focused on, Rushan. 175 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 4: The first group are the people who want to be 176 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 4: wealthy but don't know how to get there, and they 177 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 4: can take these lessons I've learned from these wealth creators, 178 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 4: and look, I'm just teaching what I've been taught. So 179 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 4: the first is helping people get to wealth. But the 180 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 4: second group, Rushan, is where we are seeing the greatest 181 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 4: response is amazing. People are buying it. In volume eight 182 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 4: nine ten, one lady bought a box thirty copies. She said, 183 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 4: I want one for every child, every grandchild, every niece, 184 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 4: every nephew. 185 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 2: Here are the people who have worked. 186 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 4: Hard all their lives, scrimped, saved, sacrificed, done without so 187 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 4: they could create a nest egg and they're concerned that 188 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 4: their children will not take care of it and will 189 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 4: squander it. Or as one man said to me, he said, 190 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 4: doctor Jolly, my greatest fear is that my children will 191 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 4: not treat my money like I treated it, and they 192 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 4: will go through in months what it took decades and 193 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 4: decades and decades for me to grow. 194 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: I want help. This book is the answer. 195 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 4: I recommend every parent, everybody who has a nest eeakee 196 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 4: get copies of this for people who are in their family. 197 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 4: You asked about the mindset, as you said, and you've 198 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 4: read the book. I talk about the five money mindsets. 199 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 4: The lowest level is the one day mindset. That's the 200 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 4: person who stands on a corner with a cardboard box 201 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 4: every day saying, give me enough money for the day, 202 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 4: and they repeat that process every day. We've all seen them. 203 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 4: Then you got the thirty day mindset, which are the 204 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 4: people who are on fixed income, whether they're retirement, social security, 205 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 4: or in welfare, whatever it is that it comes in 206 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 4: thirty day payments and every month they are looking forward 207 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 4: to that next month. They think month, the month. Then 208 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 4: you get the one year mindset, people who think a 209 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 4: year to year did I make more money this year 210 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 4: than last year. Did I get a cost of living 211 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 4: raise this year? Then you get the decade mindset, which 212 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 4: is the mindset we typically see with athletes and entertainers. 213 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 4: A baseball player might get a ten year contract to 214 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 4: play baseball and for ten years, one hundred million. 215 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 2: Dollars, and he's bawling. 216 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 4: He got five Bentley's, four rolls, Royces to five homes Jet, 217 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 4: he's rolling, he balling, he got table savers when he 218 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 4: go to the club. 219 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 2: I mean, he got it all. But if he does 220 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 2: not renew. 221 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 4: That contract, or if he gets hurt and does not 222 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 4: modify his lifestyle, he's going to be broke. And that 223 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 4: is why over seventy percent of professional athletes are broke 224 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 4: five years after retirement. But then we got the wealth mindset. 225 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 4: And the wealth mindset is a mindset that says thinks generation, 226 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 4: the generation, the generation. You know, the Bible says that 227 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 4: a good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children's 228 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 4: great grandchildren. And so my goal in the book is 229 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 4: to get each level to go up one level, just 230 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 4: one level. The one day guy, it's too big a 231 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 4: jump for him to think generationally at this truth. But 232 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 4: if I can get him just to go up to 233 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 4: the thirty day, and if I can get to thirty 234 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 4: day people to get up to one year, and I 235 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 4: get to one year folks to get up to the 236 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 4: ten year, and I get to ten year folks to 237 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 4: get up to the generation, then I've done my job. 238 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 4: And so that's why I'm encouraging people to go to 239 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 4: riches good. 240 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 2: Wealthy is better. 241 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 4: Get copies of the book, read the excerpts we have there. 242 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 2: But we want to change people's mindset. And you hit 243 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 2: it right on the head. It's about a mindset. Wealth 244 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: starts in your mind, it stoughts in your mind. 245 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: But also because that creates the planning process. Yes, now 246 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: from a minority community. 247 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 3: You've heard it all the time. 248 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 1: You know we're the last to get different as, the 249 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: last to get hired, the first to get fired, and 250 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: first get laid off. That's a cycle, especially that one 251 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: day cycle or that thirty number two mindset, which is 252 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: the thirty day cycle. 253 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 3: Right, you live to check to check. Right. 254 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: With that being said, people will listening to the show. 255 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: Let's switch that over to the small business owner entrepreneurs. Yeah, 256 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: so they trying to survive beyond the thirty day cycle. 257 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: They trying to get to the year plan because they 258 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: got to project right. How do you look at them 259 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: when they come to you. 260 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 4: For advice, doctor Willie Jobs, you know, and as an 261 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 4: entrepreneur and as a guy who had has had a 262 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 4: small business with a small team, and they classify small 263 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 4: business less than five hundred people. And so I've had 264 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 4: a small business all my life. I got a small team. 265 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 4: But here's what I say to entrepreneurs and for those 266 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 4: who listen to me on my ex sum show, you 267 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 4: know that one of the focus areas is for the entrepreneurs, 268 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 4: entrepreneurs and small business people. And I encourage you to 269 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 4: tune in after you listen to ra Sean on his show, 270 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 4: tune in on Saturday's four o'clock Channel one forty one, 271 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 4: re airs Tuesdays and Thursdays at six pm, and then 272 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 4: it goes to podcast, the Willie Jolly Wealthy Ways Show podcast. 273 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 2: Now here's what I say to small business people. 274 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 4: The key to success in growing wealth is discipline. You 275 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 4: got to have discipline, and discipline is across all the 276 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 4: types of wealth. Cause there are five types of wealth 277 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 4: that I discussed in the book. First kind of wealth, 278 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 4: of course, is financial wealth. But the second kind of 279 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: wealth is health wealth. If you are sick, you cannot 280 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 4: enjoy the great revenues you're generating. It is said that 281 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 4: Steve Jobs on his deathbed said I'd give all the 282 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 4: money away for more time. And my friend Les Brown 283 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 4: says it like this, and I wrote it in the book. 284 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 4: He said, the sick person has one dream, while the 285 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 4: health healthy person has a thousand. 286 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 3: Three. 287 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 4: You want to be healthy, so your health wealth is 288 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 4: number two. Number three is relationship. Wealth is not just 289 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,959 Speaker 4: where you're going, but who's going with you. 290 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 2: And that's big. 291 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 4: Then you got the fourth type of wealth, which you 292 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 4: are so powerful in uh Ra Sean in three and four, 293 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 4: particularly relationship because your relationships are incredible. But also your 294 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 4: reputational wealth, what people say about you in the marketplace. 295 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 4: And finally we call it now a brand, you know, 296 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 4: a personal brand, but it's really your reputation. And the 297 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 4: first type of wealth is your intellectual capital wealth. What 298 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 4: do you know and what are people willing to pay 299 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 4: you because of that? So it's about mindset. Wealth starts 300 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 4: in the mind and it starts with discipline. You must 301 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 4: have discipline to succeed in any of those wealth. If 302 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 4: you not help discipline about your health, if you just 303 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 4: eat everything you want and never work out and drink 304 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 4: all of time and more all the time, then you're 305 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 4: not going to be healthy. 306 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 2: So you got to have discipline. Please don't go anywhere. 307 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more money Making Conversations Masterclass. 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Welcome 313 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: back to Money Making Conversations Masterclass hosted by me Rashaun McDonald. 314 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 1: Money Making Conversation master Class continues online at Moneymaking Conversations 315 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: dot com and follow money Making Conversations Masterclass on Facebook, 316 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: X and Instagram. 317 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 4: But one more thing about the amount of money you make, 318 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 4: because many people say, well, it's about the amount of money. No, no, no, 319 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 4: It's about your discipline and what do you do with 320 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 4: the money. See regular folks work for the money. Wealthy 321 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 4: people make their money work for them. 322 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 2: I e. 323 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 4: In the book you read the book, I talk about 324 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 4: Mary Ellen Pleasant, who was a domestic worker in the 325 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 4: nineteen hundreds who never made more than six thousand dollars 326 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 4: a year cleaning people's homes. But she lived below her means, 327 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 4: and she invested the difference and as a result of that, 328 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 4: her net worth rose to two point seven million dollars. 329 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 4: She never made more than six thousand dollars a year. Oh, 330 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 4: how about the secretary back in the sixties early seventies, 331 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 4: before the internet, who the lawyers at her firm would 332 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 4: come and say, here's my stock by today. Placed this 333 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 4: with my broker. She would make the call and after 334 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 4: a while she said, I wonder why they're doing that. 335 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 4: So over lunch she would ask them, why are you 336 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 4: investing in stocks? Why are you doing that? How do 337 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 4: you do it? 338 00:16:58,560 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: They taught her. 339 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 4: Over lunch she started making the same stock pict sheet 340 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 4: that they made. 341 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 2: She never made more than forty five thousand dollars. 342 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 4: A year, but she started buying little bits of stock 343 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 4: like they did. 344 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 2: They might buy a hundred share, She buy one share. 345 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 4: When she retired she had a portfolio of eight million dollars. 346 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 4: And so I'm saying to this folks, rich is good 347 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 4: wealthy is better. 348 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 2: Now. 349 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 4: I gotta tell you, folks, here's some bad news. Everybody's 350 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 4: not gonna be rich. The Bible says that the poor 351 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 4: will be with you always. Everybody is not going to 352 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 4: be rich. But anybody, Oh let me say it again. 353 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 4: Anybody can become wealthy if you use these principles in 354 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 4: the book, because anybody can do what it says as 355 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 4: long as you got three thanks. Listen careful the book. 356 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 4: I tell you the three legs to wealth. One income, 357 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 4: you gotta have money coming in, some money. Two, you 358 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 4: got to live below your means, and then you invest 359 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 4: the difference. So you gotta have income, and then you 360 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 4: gotta have investments. And the third leg is insurance. You 361 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 4: got to protect the asset with insurance. So you gotta 362 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 4: have life insurance. If you love your family, you gotta 363 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 4: have life insurance. If you want generational wealth, you gotta 364 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 4: have life insurance. Number two, you gotta have health insurance. 365 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 4: You gotta have car insurance, disability insurance, and long term 366 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 4: care insurance. That will maintain the molt, the pit, the 367 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 4: force field around your wealth. 368 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,360 Speaker 2: You do that, you're gonna be on your way. 369 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 4: And everybody needs to have that last everybody needs to 370 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 4: have at least two streams of income. And in the book, 371 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 4: I put the eight streams of income. You got to 372 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 4: have two streams of income. It could be thocks, could 373 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 4: be bonds, it could be real estate, it could be crypto, 374 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 4: it could be collectibles, it could be jewelry, it could 375 00:18:56,240 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 4: be paintings. There are eight streams that you could choose from. 376 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,719 Speaker 4: Or like you are you creating content, Rashine, You're a 377 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 4: content creator. Everybody can do something with their brain, So 378 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 4: I think that's important. This book is packed with stuff 379 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 4: and I grew because of what I learned in writing 380 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 4: this book. 381 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely, and that's why I got you on the show 382 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,120 Speaker 1: because I'm speaking if you don't know one of the 383 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: five outstanding speakers in the world, as you can tell 384 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 1: you know. The thing about it was the one word 385 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 1: that you didn't bring up in this conversation is pride. 386 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: Come on, somebody, because when you say living be know 387 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: your means that message. 388 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 3: That means that with the plan in the words. 389 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: I always go back and tell my staff when I 390 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: was in my twenties, this guy would always tell me 391 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: white guy. 392 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 3: Yep. He would tell me, hey, just save one hundred 393 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 3: and fifty dollars a month. 394 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: In my mind, I could not understand what he was 395 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 1: talking about, because my pride went, Man, I could do 396 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 1: something with that one hundred and fifty dollars right clothes, 397 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 1: right right, I can, I can go on the trip. 398 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, my pride was not allowed. 399 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 1: Me to invest that money. Now, twenty years later, I 400 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: understood what he was talking. 401 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 2: About, right right. 402 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 3: Pride is not part of my vocabulary or my lifestyle. 403 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 2: That's right. 404 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: That's they's talk about pride because that's what your own 405 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: book is about. Yep, Lauren applied the pride and then 406 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: uplifting the. 407 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:22,400 Speaker 3: Intellect and the plane. 408 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 2: That's right. That's right. 409 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 4: In the book, I talk about Bust the stories who 410 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 4: you might have had on the store. He's on another 411 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 4: channel on XM. Buster dead friend, former pastor. He now 412 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 4: teaches people how to get out of debt and how 413 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 4: to grow their wealth. And Buster said, when he was 414 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 4: a young pastor, he had pride. He wanted to have 415 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 4: a Cadillac like the rest of the pastors. He wanted 416 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 4: to have fancy clothes. So he lived up to his 417 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:49,679 Speaker 4: paycheck all the way, never saving any money. And he 418 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 4: said one day and he had to have clothes with 419 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 4: the designer label on it. He had to had to 420 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 4: have a certain kind of look and a certain kind 421 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 4: of clothes. And he said, once I realized that my 422 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,159 Speaker 4: pride was killing my wealth, I had to let the 423 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 4: pride go so I could grab hold of the wealth. 424 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 4: And I think that's what we have to do. The 425 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 4: other thing that this book talks about is this thing 426 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 4: called arrogance. 427 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 2: Arrogance that I got the answers. 428 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 4: One of the things I've learned is I don't have 429 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 4: all the answers and I cannot be arrogant, nor do 430 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 4: you want to be ignorant. So if you can get 431 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 4: the book, input determined output, what you put in Charinges, 432 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 4: what you put out. But if you've got arrogance and ignorance, 433 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 4: you on your way down because no one can help you. 434 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 4: But as Les Brown says, he says, the arrogant and ignorant, 435 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,199 Speaker 4: no one can help you. 436 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 2: But if you're willing to learn, no one can stop you. 437 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 4: And that's what we want people to know that we 438 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,719 Speaker 4: want you to get this information this book. 439 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,679 Speaker 2: Oh you know what, I'm so grateful. I was on 440 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 2: an interview just. 441 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 5: Yesterday and Riches good Wealthy is better Riches Good Wealthy 442 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 5: is he's communicating the values of information, consistency, the plan 443 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 5: Without any of that, then you will get confusion, frustration, 444 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 5: and debt age personal lift that that winds. 445 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 3: When that wins, when you're ignorant, that's winds. When you 446 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 3: have pride before you're planning. 447 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: That's right, right, right. 448 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 1: We try to get you out of debt and get 449 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: you in the planning. And the planning part is like 450 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: looking in the other yard, looking at driving the car, 451 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 1: wearing the clothes, going on social media, trying to post 452 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: because social media has become the biggest I think the 453 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 1: advocate of false pride, no questions to compete for images 454 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,880 Speaker 1: that you don't know if are real or not. That's 455 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: in your book, Riches Good Wealthy is better. You talk 456 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: about overcoming the odds a lot in your book. Don't 457 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,439 Speaker 1: let us set back hole you back, That's right. Why 458 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: don't you talk about that so much? 459 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 2: Well, because I'm a walking talking testament of failing. Okay, failing. 460 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 2: I was a nightclub singer. 461 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 4: For those who had never read my book, a Setback, 462 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 4: set up for comeback, I recommend you go to my 463 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 4: website win with Willy dot com. When with willy dot com. 464 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:26,160 Speaker 4: Look for my products to help you win icon. Click 465 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 4: it and get the book or set back as a 466 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 4: setup for comeback. First couple pages in the book, I 467 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 4: tell my story where I was a nightclub singer, singing 468 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 4: in nightclubs, making a living, winning the awards Best Jazz Singer, 469 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 4: Best Entertainer, Best Performer in Washington, DC. We're not a 470 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 4: winning the nightclub. The club on the said, we love 471 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 4: your band, but we've made a change. There's something new 472 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 4: going around called carry yok. I said, what a walker? 473 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 4: They said, karaoke and it's a lot cheaper than a band. 474 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 4: We're gonna give that a shot for a while. And 475 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 4: I said, but what about my bills? I learned that 476 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 4: nobody care about your bills but you and the people 477 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 4: you owe. 478 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 2: Am I right about it? And so I said, what 479 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 2: am I going to do? 480 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 4: A friend of mine gave me a cassette tape with 481 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 4: a motivational messages and a book. The book was called 482 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,400 Speaker 4: Think and Grow Rich. I never heard of motivational tape. 483 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 4: I never heard of a motivational message, and I never read 484 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 4: a book from cover to cover. Because see ra Sean, 485 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,439 Speaker 4: I was half of the class in high school that 486 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 4: made the top half possible. Okay, So I read the 487 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 4: book and there's a premise in the book that says, 488 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 4: wherever there's an adversity, at that same place as a 489 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 4: seed for great opportunity. And I said, Okay, where's my opportunity. 490 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 4: The opportunity was working for the school system as a 491 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 4: drug prevention coordinator. I got this job talking to little kids, 492 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 4: little kids about stand away from drugs. From the little kids, 493 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 4: the teachers would say, oh, we want you to teach, 494 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 4: come talk for our group. And then someone they would say, 495 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 4: can you come to my church? And someone in the 496 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 4: church say, can you come to my company? And then 497 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 4: Les Brown heard about this guy who was a speaker 498 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 4: who could also sing, and he was looking for an 499 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 4: opening act for his music and motivation Dream Team tour, 500 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 4: and he invited me to be an opening act. The 501 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 4: tour was Les Brown, Billy Preston, the great organist, Gladys Knight, 502 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 4: and a little guy from DC Me. Because of Lesson, Gladys, 503 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 4: they introduced me to radio people and I got a 504 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 4: little radio show. It got syndicated. You can now hear 505 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 4: me across America every morning on Get Up Mornings with 506 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 4: Erica Campbell on the Praise Network and as the eight 507 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 4: twenty Every Morning. That led to XM, where I now 508 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 4: have been on for twenty years, have the number one 509 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 4: self Help to Grow Your Wealth show in America, And 510 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 4: then that led to a book publisher calling and saying, 511 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 4: I like your ideas. Have you ever thought about writing 512 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,919 Speaker 4: a book? I said no, I never thought about it. 513 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 4: He said, let me make you an offer. I said, 514 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 4: I just thought about it. I wrote a book called 515 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 4: It Only Takes a Minute Changing Life, became a national bestseller. 516 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 4: Then a Setback is a setup for Comeback. Became a 517 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 4: global bestseller, then turned setbacks into greenbacks, then an Attitude 518 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 4: of Excellence, then Chicken Soup for the Soul, and then 519 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 4: make Love, make money and make it last. The book 520 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 4: I wrote with my wife. We've been married forty years. 521 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 4: You've we've been on your show here. 522 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 2: I haven't had it. 523 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:20,959 Speaker 3: You know, I'll go bring it up. 524 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:21,880 Speaker 2: You know, I know you were. 525 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 3: I know you were. 526 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 2: That's right, A right, ADZ, that's right. 527 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 4: And we haven't had an argument in thirty eight years 528 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 4: now that we wanted today show. They said you never 529 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 4: had an argument? I said no, I didn't say that. 530 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 4: I said, we haven't had an argument in thirty eight years. 531 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 4: Those first couple of years were like World War Three, 532 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 4: but we learned how to not argue. We put it 533 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 4: in a book and we also put it on our 534 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 4: ted talk. 535 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 2: You can get that at Jollymarriage dot com. 536 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 4: And then in nineteen ninety nine, I was named one 537 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 4: of the top five speakers in the world by Toast 538 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 4: Masters two thousand and five, Inducted in the Speaker Hall 539 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 4: of Fame in twenty thirteen, named the Top five Leadership 540 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 4: Speaker in twenty seventeen, a legend of the speaking industry. 541 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 4: And in twenty twenty three, I got the highest award 542 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 4: in the speaking industry, the Cabot Award, which is like 543 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 4: the Heisman, and I'm the first African American man to 544 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 4: get that award. And here's the lesson I say to everybody. 545 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 4: I failed, I've messed up, I've had setbacks, but I 546 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,159 Speaker 4: want to encourage everybody who's listening that your setback is 547 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 4: not the end of the story, is not the end 548 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 4: of the road unless you choose it to be. A 549 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 4: setback is a setup for comeback. And I'm saying to 550 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 4: each and every one of you, listen carefully folks that 551 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 4: a setback is a setup for your greater comeback. You 552 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 4: just have to have the mindset So that answers your question, Rishan, 553 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 4: that it is about making a decision and not let. 554 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 2: Stuff stop you and not get down in the dumps. 555 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 4: And you and I both know we've both been through 556 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 4: some tough moments, some tough but we refuse to give up. 557 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: And that's why we're here today. 558 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,719 Speaker 1: Finally, you know, as we wrap up this conversation, Willie Jolly, 559 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: if someone listening or watching can take one message from 560 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 1: riches good, Wealthy is better. 561 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 3: Yes, what would you want it to be? 562 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,199 Speaker 4: I wanted to The main message I wanted to be 563 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:17,239 Speaker 4: is that you are able to transform your life no 564 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 4: matter what your age, no matter what your income. I 565 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 4: interviewed a guy the other day, Reggie Irby, who was 566 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 4: a drug dealer and a drug addict in West Philadelphia. 567 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 4: He was able to get into the service. He went 568 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 4: in the Navy, He served his time in the Navy, 569 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 4: came out and worked for the fire department. He retired 570 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 4: from the fire department, and then he got another job. 571 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 4: He retired from the second job. And when he retired 572 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 4: the second time, since he already had a retirement from 573 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 4: the fire department. They gave him a pool of money 574 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 4: twelve thousand dollars. 575 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 2: And he said, well, I could go on a what 576 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 2: you said earlier. 577 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 4: I could go buy a car, or I could go 578 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 4: on a trip, or I could do a lot with 579 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 4: that money. But he decided to invest at sixty five 580 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 4: in the stock market, and he just kept putting a 581 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 4: little bit in every month. He's now seventy two, and 582 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 4: he said, I now have a portfolio of eight hundred 583 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 4: and ninety thousand dollars. What my message for people is 584 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 4: never too late to start. And as long as you start, 585 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 4: Look when is the best time to plan a tree 586 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 4: that takes eighty years to grow eighty years ago, when's 587 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 4: the second best time today? Do it now? Go to riches, good, wealthiest, 588 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 4: better get the book. Get it for all your children, 589 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 4: your grandchildren, people in your family. We're going to change 590 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 4: this wealth gap that we have an opportunity by information, 591 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 4: and that's my job. I want to thank my friend Rushan. 592 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 4: Now did you hear a shout out I gave you 593 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 4: on the radio a couple. 594 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 2: Of weeks ago. 595 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 3: You make me laugh all the time I go, because you. 596 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: Know I don't want it just been. I just love 597 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,959 Speaker 1: being a background voice. Oh man, you and my people. 598 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm felt grateful for you. Man, I am so grateful 599 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: for you and your friendship over the years. How you've 600 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: been in my corner and I just want to thank you. 601 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: We're good, rich is good, wealthy is better than one 602 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: and only doctor Willy Jolly. And when I come back 603 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 1: and interview him again, I gotta bring with you wife story. 604 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah you interviewed it from his house. The kitchen was 605 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: in the back. Yes, she's wonderful. She's just as gracious 606 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: as he is in providing information that will help you win. 607 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 3: Thank you, doctor Willy Jole. 608 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 4: Thank you, Sean and folks, thank you and everybody. 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