WEBVTT - Son of a Breach

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, Hey, do I sound cheerful? Okay, definitely didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a cheerful day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't bad. I mean, you know how you just

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<v Speaker 1>have one of those days and then finally you tell yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>you look in the mirror and you say, hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>snap out of it. You're alive and you can deal.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I just had that moment a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>hours ago because I knew I was taken tonight and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, you're gonna bring great energy to

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<v Speaker 1>broad Ambition, and so here I am. I feel way better.

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<v Speaker 1>I took a nice little nap. It was just business stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when everything like falls apart and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate everybody. I quit.

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<v Speaker 2>I quit. Oh yeah, let's call it take a walk.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called take a walk or take a nap.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. I woke up from the nap still feeling like.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend called me. He was like I was complaining.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, ooh, you sound like you need a nap.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm literally in bed. I just woke up

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<v Speaker 1>from a nap. He was like, go back to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, You've done that nap long enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I go right, like clearly, but you know what it

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<v Speaker 1>was just I'm realizing that I just was feeling overwhelmed

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<v Speaker 1>because it was just I'm used to maybe like two

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<v Speaker 1>or three things like oh this, you know, we got

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<v Speaker 1>to fix this and tweak this, but it was literally like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>all ten, all ten things are broken and so yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But honestly though, it was good because I realized, like

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<v Speaker 1>one that there's I'm not super systematic, so it forced

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<v Speaker 1>me to put some systems in place so that way

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<v Speaker 1>the people that I've hired can be more proactive because

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<v Speaker 1>they're already awesome, but they can't do in something unless

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I show them how at least the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right, Yeah, yeah, So it made me do that,

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<v Speaker 1>so I felt so much better about it now. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's like when you get in those moments, because

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<v Speaker 2>I've I think we've all like had those moments where

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<v Speaker 2>you like either something goes wrong or it's like even

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<v Speaker 2>just too many little things are going wrong and or

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<v Speaker 2>too many people are like asking you questions and wanting

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<v Speaker 2>answers from you, and you like get overwhelmed. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like lately I've been I've been forcing myself to go

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<v Speaker 2>on like twenty minute walks around my office, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>helped me, Like it's helped me like have the energy

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<v Speaker 2>to answer people, like like you don't have to respond

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<v Speaker 2>to something right away, like even though someone's if someone's

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<v Speaker 2>like I need an answer right now, like I still

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<v Speaker 2>take like if it's like, there was a serious budget

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<v Speaker 2>question today that came up, and budgets are something I'm

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<v Speaker 2>newly having to deal with, like the cost of everything

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<v Speaker 2>that we produce and like managing and making sure we're

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<v Speaker 2>on budget and then just setting prices for different things

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<v Speaker 2>that we produce and YadA YadA. Anyway, so there was

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<v Speaker 2>a question that came up and I felt like I

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<v Speaker 2>needed it, like they needed an answer right away, but

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<v Speaker 2>I still I was like, Okay, I need to think

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<v Speaker 2>about this. I'm not used to answering this kind of question.

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<v Speaker 2>So I took my little walk and thought about it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I came back like with an idea, like ready

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<v Speaker 2>to sort of talk about it. And it was okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Like no one, nothing got burned down. It was okay,

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<v Speaker 2>they could wait twenty minutes for me to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>have a thought process. But and sometimes when you're in

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<v Speaker 2>an environment where like everyone wants your response right then

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<v Speaker 2>and there, and you have to, like, you know, it

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<v Speaker 2>puts additional pressure. But I feel like when you can

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<v Speaker 2>like stepping back saying I'll get back to you or

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<v Speaker 2>give me some time or something like that, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you know what it is. I also suffer from,

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<v Speaker 1>like us extreme middle child syndrome where I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>for people to be unhappy. So we got like two

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<v Speaker 1>emails from like support because you know, I have my

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<v Speaker 1>literature academy and so two we call our academy members.

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<v Speaker 1>Dream builders emailed me with some with two issues, like hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I reached out to customer support but it wasn't rectified,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm you know, and we call them spicy, those

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<v Speaker 1>type of emails where it's very clear this person is upset,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And so I was like, ah, because I'm not,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't do well with Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you're upset with me? How could I fix it? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry here, it's all my money, take my clothes, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what were the reasons why? And I realized

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, Tiffany, so I ended up. But

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<v Speaker 1>honestly it ended up triggering like for me to create

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a best practices that if this is

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<v Speaker 1>your if you have to email someone a third time

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<v Speaker 1>there's something lost in translation. So I created I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like ten bucks a month or whatever, where we

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<v Speaker 1>have a conference car line where you can ask that person, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I want to make sure I'm helping you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think the email is not we're losing something

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<v Speaker 1>in email. If you're free today at three, you could

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<v Speaker 1>call into the conference line for free and I can

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<v Speaker 1>work it out. And so it ended up triggering that,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really helpful because I ended up speaking to

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<v Speaker 1>the two women who emailed me and they left like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, thanks so much. This was so helpful.

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<v Speaker 1>And because the email, the emails weren't not that they

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<v Speaker 1>weren't clear, but it's clear that they had their problem

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<v Speaker 1>very clearing their head and articulating it via email was

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<v Speaker 1>not as easy. And then the customer support was providing

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<v Speaker 1>a solution and it wasn't articulated as and so you

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<v Speaker 1>know it can cost for frustration. So now we have

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<v Speaker 1>it like email one, you know, you solve the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Email two. It might escalate to a call depending on

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<v Speaker 1>how angry Email two is, and email too might just

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<v Speaker 1>be further further support. And then email three, definitely a call.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we have like kind of this thing in place.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was good, and I'm I reminded myself that

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<v Speaker 1>you know that it's always good when things go wrong

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<v Speaker 1>early on because it allows you to fix what's already broken.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because I didn't realize it was the issue doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean there wasn't one, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally. It's It's also it's nice to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to It's nice to be the one putting systems in place.

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<v Speaker 2>And like I said, Link I talked with this last week,

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<v Speaker 2>Like when you're starting from scratch and you're building something new,

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<v Speaker 2>or you're working on something new, or you're handling a

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<v Speaker 2>new problem, it's nice to be in a place where

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<v Speaker 2>you can work with people and put something in place

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<v Speaker 2>and you're not like working against a crappy system. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>already in place and sometimes like an old fashioned phone call. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>working with I mean you work with tons of people remotely.

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<v Speaker 2>I work with probably two and writers across the country,

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<v Speaker 2>different time zones, you know, all types of different people,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I call, I pick up the phone all

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<v Speaker 2>the time because I get tired of I mean literally,

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<v Speaker 2>if I didn't, we would just be communicating in Google

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<v Speaker 2>Dot comments, Slack or email or g chat or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>text message, and it's just sometimes, man, you just got

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<v Speaker 2>to hear someone's voice and they need I think, like

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<v Speaker 2>things get lost in translation, like tone, Like things can

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<v Speaker 2>sound sassier when you're yeah, you know, you know it

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<v Speaker 2>is when you're like, wait, did I am I interpreting

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<v Speaker 2>this wrong? Or even I know I can sound like

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<v Speaker 2>aggressive or abrasive, you know, via email or you know

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<v Speaker 2>those communications. So I like to talk and I think

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<v Speaker 2>people it's always easier. It's just like commenters on the website.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always easier to be a jerk when you're typing

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<v Speaker 2>something out, But as soon as you get people on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone, they tend to be a lot a lot

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<v Speaker 2>nict nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've got some awesome news.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>So the house went through, they found the contract. We

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<v Speaker 1>are under contract, and now I have to do basically

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<v Speaker 1>it's pay. So I'm super excited it's to go. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, after all that time, isn't that crazy? For

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<v Speaker 1>a year we searched and then you know, we get

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<v Speaker 1>with our new our new realtor, and then within a

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<v Speaker 1>month she has us with the sign contract in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>But to be fair that what I've learned from the

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<v Speaker 1>house buying process is in the beginning, you're not really

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<v Speaker 1>all that ready unless you this is like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're buying multiple homes or whatever. But typically if this

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<v Speaker 1>is your maybe first or second, you're still trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what you want. So to be fair, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she caught us at the perfect time and we were

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<v Speaker 1>really clear on where we wanted to live, how much

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to spend, and you know, and what we

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<v Speaker 1>wanted in the house. But she's also was also really

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<v Speaker 1>awesome too, so you know, so yeah, I'm super excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Superman, I thought he was gonna cry. He was

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<v Speaker 1>like jumping up and down. This is his first house

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I can't believe I'm a homeowner. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a homeowner. And then we got nervous, like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>we have work to do because it needs to be rewired,

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<v Speaker 1>it needs to flooring in the kitchen. I mean, so

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<v Speaker 1>now it's like, yikes, here comes the real like deal

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<v Speaker 1>where we have to do.

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<v Speaker 2>So because when you talked about it last week, you

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<v Speaker 2>hadn't had the inspection yet, so did anything like crazy

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<v Speaker 2>come up? I mean, obviously not too crazy because you

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<v Speaker 2>know you're going through with it.

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<v Speaker 1>But so the main things we were just worried about,

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<v Speaker 1>So with older homes because the house was built in

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty two, so you're worried about obviously structural things.

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<v Speaker 1>Foundation you're worried about like electrical stuff. You're worried about

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<v Speaker 1>plumbing and the roof. Those are the most expensive things.

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<v Speaker 1>And so three out of the four were great, it

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be rewired, And that part I wasn't surprised

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<v Speaker 1>with because whatever wiring they had in nineteen twenty two,

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<v Speaker 1>they were atticipating you were going to have an iPad

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<v Speaker 1>and a computer and a cell phone, and so it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to have to be rewired anyway. But they

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<v Speaker 1>had something in the house, and a lot of older

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<v Speaker 1>houses have something called knob and tubing. It's basically, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it's like it. They call it nob and

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<v Speaker 1>tubing because that's what it looks like when you see it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like in the electrical panel, it looks like a little

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<v Speaker 1>knob and some tubes, and so basically it's the old

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<v Speaker 1>way that they used to wire your house. But it

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<v Speaker 1>also turned out to be pretty dangerous and could like

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<v Speaker 1>start fires within the walls, so you know, we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to rewire anyway, So just knowing that that was

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<v Speaker 1>the main thing, everything else is kind of like just

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<v Speaker 1>for looks. You know, what is the word I'm looking for?

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<v Speaker 1>Not commercial? Cosmetic. Everything else is cosmetic. So it's just rewiring,

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<v Speaker 1>and rewiring is not cheap, but it has to be done. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm excited. So now we just basically have to

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<v Speaker 1>go in, clean out all the stuff that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>in there, get some electricians to come in to give

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<v Speaker 1>us some quotes. So we'll do that first and then

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<v Speaker 1>slowly but surely go room by room deciding what we want.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the big thing, because I can already tell

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<v Speaker 1>Superman and I have totally different ideas of what grown

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<v Speaker 1>and sexy is. Oh my good, look what Mandy? First

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<v Speaker 1>of all?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this like he believe used to pick out a

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<v Speaker 2>comforter we both agreed on.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I'm like, sir, are you he is? You

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<v Speaker 1>not think that he's really into college?

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<v Speaker 3>But he is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he's like, I want burgundy on the wall,

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<v Speaker 1>I want orange in the kitchen, I want purple in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. What are we five? And he was like Tippany,

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<v Speaker 1>you want everything to be like white, and I'm like no,

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<v Speaker 1>but he said, but I want grown and sexy. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>grown and sexy for eighteen year old that just got

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<v Speaker 1>their first apartment. Like that's not what we're doing here.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm like, Okay, I could tell it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a battle, but one that I'm prepared to win.

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<v Speaker 1>would really love some tips of because I'm still new

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<v Speaker 1>to this marriage game, some tips of how to persuade

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<v Speaker 1>and get my way without arguing. Because we were arguing

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<v Speaker 1>for mythical things that haven't even happened yet. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're already arguing. There has to be a way to

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<v Speaker 1>get my way as far as this house is concerned,

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<v Speaker 1>without him feeling bad about it. So that way we

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<v Speaker 1>all win. I win as far as the house looking

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<v Speaker 1>like I want. He wins because he's happy about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll try to figure that out. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that I mean, I want him to

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<v Speaker 1>be happy. To you, maybe I'm just being facetious about

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<v Speaker 1>how do I get over a kind disorder? But so

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<v Speaker 1>we just decided what we're gonna do is we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pull pictures offline of stuff that we both like and

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<v Speaker 1>so that way we can both be on the same

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<v Speaker 1>page and say, hey, this is what I was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>for the living room, you know, so witchress board. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So well he's not super like savvy as far as

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<v Speaker 1>being online and stuff. So yeah, I mean I'm excited though,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's just it's a new chapter, like by this

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<v Speaker 1>time next year. I mean, the house is big. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's five bedroom, three and a half bathroom. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>sounds mess I can't read. Yeah, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>So we've all by now, we've all heard about the

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<v Speaker 2>Equifax Stata breach. Don't do dun. Over one hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>forty three million Americans impacted by the stat of breach.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe we didn't talk about this last week.

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<v Speaker 2>But this was a big f and deal.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, and honestly, everyone was checking and I would

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<v Speaker 1>say like eighty percent of the people that I saw

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<v Speaker 1>posting on social media and Facebook were like, I was affected?

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<v Speaker 1>What did that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what? The thing that i've heard, so if

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<v Speaker 2>you're not if you're not aware. Basically, Equifax is one

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<v Speaker 2>of the three credit bureaus, right, so three credit bureaus.

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<v Speaker 2>They're the ones who track all your credit behavior and

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<v Speaker 2>report it to lenders, and that information is what's used

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<v Speaker 2>to create your credit score down the line. So Equifax

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<v Speaker 2>is one of the big three, and they had this

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<v Speaker 2>massive hack that happened sometime over the summer, and for

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<v Speaker 2>some reason, it took the company until the end of

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<v Speaker 2>September or sorry, the end of August early September to

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<v Speaker 2>make it public, and now we're all sort of like

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with the aftermath. And basically what happened during the

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<v Speaker 2>breach is that hackers were able to access social security numbers,

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<v Speaker 2>financial account information, addresses, names, like a ton of really

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<v Speaker 2>important personal identifiable information. So that's why we were saying

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<v Speaker 2>this is a this is a big deal because like

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<v Speaker 2>this is like a hackers dream. You can of yes,

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<v Speaker 2>create identity, You can create accounts with this information and

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<v Speaker 2>impersonate another person with even just a couple of pieces

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<v Speaker 2>of this stuff that they took.

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<v Speaker 1>And there was actually someone you know in our Fincon

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<v Speaker 1>group for those of you who remember fin Con is

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<v Speaker 1>this financial educators or what's it? Like? Well, financial conference

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<v Speaker 1>that Omanny and I go to from time to time,

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<v Speaker 1>and someone in there they took sixty five thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>out of her account related to the hack, and she

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<v Speaker 1>believes so it happened recently. Wow, and she was really

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<v Speaker 1>freaked out and she was just kind of walking us

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<v Speaker 1>through like you know. I guess as soon as she

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<v Speaker 1>figured it out, she called her bank and the bank

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<v Speaker 1>said it's still pending, so there's nothing they can do

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<v Speaker 1>about it just yet. I don't know, so I have

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<v Speaker 1>to actually I'm going to go in and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>look to see, like, what's what's happened in the meantime.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's crazy. Someone just emailed me today. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if this is related to the hack, but apparently

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<v Speaker 1>they have three mortgage in in like some other things

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<v Speaker 1>under her and her husband's name that someone had stolen

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<v Speaker 1>their identity. They didn't realize and opened up all of

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<v Speaker 1>these things. She's like, why we only three houses and

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't even know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be hard, it's gonna be hard to tell

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<v Speaker 2>like when things. So first of all, everyone you should

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<v Speaker 2>you should pretty much assume like I mean, this is

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<v Speaker 2>this is like half of the people in America. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say that, you can pretty much assume

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<v Speaker 2>that you might be impacted by this, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you can go to Equifax Security. The website is Equifax

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<v Speaker 2>Security twenty seventy dot com to see, you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>there's a tool on the Equifax website where you can

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<v Speaker 2>basically like input some information and it will tell you

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<v Speaker 2>if you were impacted. I've read that this tool just

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<v Speaker 2>basically tells everyone they're impacted, that they've been affected.

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<v Speaker 1>So, like the.

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<v Speaker 2>Question is, well, what do I do now? Like a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people have been Well, the most important thing

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<v Speaker 2>is to monitor your credit, which you can do. You

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<v Speaker 2>can do through Credit Sesame, you can do through Credit Karma.

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<v Speaker 2>You can of course your free credit report once a year.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want a more consistent monitoring, then there's

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<v Speaker 2>other tools available.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I have, do you have? Like I have

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<v Speaker 1>LifeLock me and Superman because somebody had like opened up

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<v Speaker 1>a some sort of account under his name. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a PayPal. What is that thing when you

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<v Speaker 1>go easy pass when you go through and they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>paying it, and so we were getting like like tickets

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<v Speaker 1>in our in our you know, like mail, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were like what And it turned out somebody had opened

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<v Speaker 1>up an easy pass with his name and then something

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<v Speaker 1>else a week later. So finally he got LifeLock and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a few bucks a month, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was everything because whenever someone tried to open something,

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<v Speaker 1>he would get like a text message saying, hey, Superman,

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<v Speaker 1>is this you? And if he clicked to know, then

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<v Speaker 1>it would be shut down. If he clicked yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be allowed to go through. So if you're really

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<v Speaker 1>really worried, think about getting it. Doesn't have to be LifeLock,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously because they're not paying us no money, but it

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<v Speaker 1>could be something similar.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, Lifelock's one of those. So how it exactly

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<v Speaker 2>does life block work?

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<v Speaker 1>So you sign up for it, you can get like

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<v Speaker 1>the eight ninety nine. I'm not gonna lie, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>really clear about the difference between eight ninety nine like

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen ninety nine a month, but what I do know

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<v Speaker 1>is that when you sign up, you then start to

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<v Speaker 1>get alerts whenever someone tries to open up a account,

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<v Speaker 1>basically any sort of like bank account, a credit card,

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<v Speaker 1>something like that that really would like usually would require

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<v Speaker 1>your your social security number. So whenever anyone someone tries

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<v Speaker 1>to open up an account under your name slash social

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<v Speaker 1>security number, you're supposed to get an alert via phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes they'll even call you or via email, and the

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<v Speaker 1>alert basically says, hey, this account is trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>open is it you? And you have to verify yes

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<v Speaker 1>it is, and if you, but until it's verified, Like

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<v Speaker 1>for example, we were opening up a joint account and

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<v Speaker 1>he kept getting like denied by Ally. I couldn't understand why,

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<v Speaker 1>and it turned out he wasn't looking at his emails.

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<v Speaker 1>LifeLock was asking him, hey, someone is trying to open

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<v Speaker 1>up account an Ally, is it you? And once he

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<v Speaker 1>said yes, it is, then Ally was able to allow

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<v Speaker 1>him to have to joint account with me. And I thought, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's great. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like an extended version of like a credit freeze,

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<v Speaker 2>is what it. So it sounds like a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>more comprehensive than a credit freeze because exactly a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of it. I was going to say, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>the advice has been, you know, get a credit freeze

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<v Speaker 2>right away, and like, I think that's good advice. Credit

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<v Speaker 2>freezes can be helpful Basically, when you you do a

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<v Speaker 2>credit freeze, you have to do it at all the

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<v Speaker 2>three bureaus, and it basically stops anyone from being able

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<v Speaker 2>to open up an account like a like a credit

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<v Speaker 2>card or take out a line of credit without you

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<v Speaker 2>being alerted. But it doesn't I don't know if that

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<v Speaker 2>if that extends to like bank accounts, like cell phone contracts,

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<v Speaker 2>like things.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that and life like that. That's what I like

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're I know that, Equifax, like today or

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<v Speaker 2>earlier this week, announced that it's offering it's gonna waive

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<v Speaker 2>the fee to freeze your credit through Equifax. So some states,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of states actually charge little fees to to

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<v Speaker 2>freeze your freezer credit. So like there may be a

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<v Speaker 2>fee a feed a freezer credit, and there may be

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<v Speaker 2>a feed to quote unquote thaw your credit like if

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<v Speaker 2>you actually want to go get a credit card. This

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of the annoying thing about a freeze, like

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<v Speaker 2>you have to thaw your report first and then that

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<v Speaker 2>can cost a fee. So anyway, Equifax finally was like,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to offer you know, a free credit freeze.

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<v Speaker 2>But credit freezes, like they don't protect you from everything.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the So they're good for if someone opens

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<v Speaker 2>a new account in your name, And it sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>LifeLock is good for if someone opens a new account

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<v Speaker 2>in your name. I think what LifeLock might offer too

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<v Speaker 2>and other like identity theft protection services, is that what

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<v Speaker 2>about your existing accounts that are already like these hackers

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<v Speaker 2>may be able to access, Like that's the kind of

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<v Speaker 2>thing like they're not. It's not like they have to

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<v Speaker 2>open a new account. They have they may have accessed

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<v Speaker 2>to your current accounts. And that's where credit freeze like

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't protect you. And you need to have some sort

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<v Speaker 2>of system in place, whether it's you can like I

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<v Speaker 2>have on my all my credit cards, if I spend

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<v Speaker 2>over a dollar, I get a text alert and an

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<v Speaker 2>email Like it's a little overkill, but I enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh do a dollar, yes, but you know what it

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<v Speaker 2>came at. Like this past this past month on my

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<v Speaker 2>my Chase card, there was a ninety nine dollars purchase

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<v Speaker 2>on some Raindom electronic site that I didn't make, and

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<v Speaker 2>I neatly got a text alert and I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna call Chase right now and get this removed.

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<v Speaker 2>And who knows when I would have noticed that if

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<v Speaker 2>I had waited, you know, so you can do fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>like whatever. But you know, some of those scammers, like

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<v Speaker 2>they'll charge like two dollars or one forty two or

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<v Speaker 2>something random just to test.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, to see ooh does it go through? And then

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<v Speaker 1>you won't even notice.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So that's that's just why I personally do like

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<v Speaker 2>the one dollar and over alert. You can also do

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<v Speaker 2>like the multi factor authentication for your bank accounts if

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<v Speaker 2>they allow it, like you know, we're in order to

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<v Speaker 2>sign into your account, you have to get you have

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<v Speaker 2>to also a text alert on your phone and have

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<v Speaker 2>a code. So if you're like these hackers obviously don't

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<v Speaker 2>have your cell phone in their hands. So if you

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<v Speaker 2>have that setup, then you'll get an alert if someone

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<v Speaker 2>tries to access like your Vanguard account or your you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Chase account or bank account or whatever, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>can say this isn't me and you can deny that request.

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<v Speaker 2>And then of course, like already there's a scam. So

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<v Speaker 2>like the people are getting calls from this, like people saying, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a concern Equifax representative and I'm just calling to

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<v Speaker 2>confirm your verify your account information, So watch out for

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<v Speaker 2>those types of phone calls. Like Equifax is not calling you.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't care them. I mean they care, but they

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<v Speaker 2>they're not doing that kind of level of They're not

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<v Speaker 2>calling one hundred and forty three million people personally. So

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<v Speaker 2>so don't trust anyone if they call you and like

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<v Speaker 2>or send you an email, you know, asking to confirm

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<v Speaker 2>your bank details or any of that kind of crap.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's always a scam related to anytime people are

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<v Speaker 1>in a vulnerable situation or state because you're not thinking, like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is this person asking for my full Social Security number?

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't sound right, you know, but yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just looking at lifelocks on website, so so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're right, Mandy. They also provide like money back

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<v Speaker 1>and like you can I think up to depending on

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<v Speaker 1>which program or plan that you have, you can get

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<v Speaker 1>up to a million dollars back and for lawyers and

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<v Speaker 1>experts or refunds. So I don't know, to me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just worth it. I have the nineteen ninety nine one,

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<v Speaker 1>and to me, it's just worth it. Because the other

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<v Speaker 1>day I was opening to a bank account for myself

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<v Speaker 1>and it asked the question and I was like, Oh,

0:21:35.240 --> 0:21:37.680
<v Speaker 1>I forgot I had LifeLock. That's always really good. So

0:21:37.960 --> 0:21:41.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like the peace of mind. It is, honestly, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's I.

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<v Speaker 2>Should I should note that if you don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>pay for credit monitoring services, and there's so many different

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<v Speaker 2>types of services are we actually did a guide at

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<v Speaker 2>Magnifying Money, which I'll post in the show notes because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know enough about Like I couldn't tell

0:21:54.920 --> 0:21:56.560
<v Speaker 2>you at the top of my head. There's a bunch.

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<v Speaker 2>But Equifax is offering one year free credit and identity

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<v Speaker 2>monitoring to people who are affected or just anyone who

0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:07.320
<v Speaker 2>wants it, and it's through Trusted ID. So if you

0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:09.679
<v Speaker 2>want to just try free, you can go to the

0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:14.320
<v Speaker 2>website is Equifaxsecurity twenty seventeen dot com to enroll in

0:22:14.359 --> 0:22:17.680
<v Speaker 2>that free service, and I'll post a link so you

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<v Speaker 2>can see what else is out there. But being alert,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what they say too, is like the one

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<v Speaker 2>year of free I remember I did a story on

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<v Speaker 2>this at Yahoo not long ago, a couple of years

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<v Speaker 2>ago on like another hack had happened. It was like

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<v Speaker 2>the healthcare hack or something, and experts were saying that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>one year of free identity stuff or one year of

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<v Speaker 2>monitoring is okay. But like a lot of times with

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<v Speaker 2>these data breaches, the information is put up on websites

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<v Speaker 2>and sold, but not like they'll purposefully wait a year

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<v Speaker 2>or year and a half to sell it because they

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<v Speaker 2>know by then people wi will let their guards down,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's when you might see a bunch of charges.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're like, come next year, we might be seeing

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<v Speaker 2>like you may, it may be quiet for a while

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<v Speaker 2>before we really see the repercussions of this breach. Uh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a it's a it's a it's a scary scary

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<v Speaker 2>time right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh child? So are we ready for mess?

0:23:12.040 --> 0:23:15.359
<v Speaker 2>Always? Sorry, I'm not a big enough mess for for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like no, so, truty, So what have you heard

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<v Speaker 1>about Kevin Hart and his messiness?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I want to give you the pleasure of

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<v Speaker 2>spilling the tea?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? So I was like, what has happened? I'm like, yeah,

0:23:31.760 --> 0:23:36.080
<v Speaker 1>so Kevin Hart apparently, I mean allegedly, because we don't

0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:39.320
<v Speaker 1>want to get sued or whatever, so he he just

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<v Speaker 1>recently got married to Nico I think her name is,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's pregnant, like you know, a few weeks away

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<v Speaker 1>from giving birth. He has two kids already, I believe

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<v Speaker 1>a boy and a girl with his ex wife who

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<v Speaker 1>he cheated on with, and you know, and he's admitted

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<v Speaker 1>to it and apologize for it and ended up stand

0:23:55.119 --> 0:23:58.399
<v Speaker 1>up comedy about it. But still there's a little back

0:23:58.440 --> 0:24:03.720
<v Speaker 1>and forth because his wife, Tori art Uh, and she

0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:06.000
<v Speaker 1>was on one of these reality shows, but she basically

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, it's kind of messed up that

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<v Speaker 1>now you know, she's forgiven him, but that according to her,

0:24:11.760 --> 0:24:13.800
<v Speaker 1>that he was cheating. One of the women he was

0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:16.720
<v Speaker 1>cheating on her with was Aniko, who he's now married to.

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:20.240
<v Speaker 1>They've they've denied it, of course, but she's like, whatever, girl, Yes,

0:24:20.240 --> 0:24:24.760
<v Speaker 1>it was. So recently it came out there's a young

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<v Speaker 1>woman who apparently is an exotic dancer, a stripper, who

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<v Speaker 1>secretly taped him and like it was him and her,

0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:34.119
<v Speaker 1>and then there was I think apparently another girl in

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<v Speaker 1>the room, you know, having sex. And so before this

0:24:36.800 --> 0:24:39.040
<v Speaker 1>video came out, which I have not seen, which because

0:24:39.040 --> 0:24:41.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't like watching sex videos, like you know, like

0:24:41.400 --> 0:24:48.200
<v Speaker 1>someone was like, eh, I'm good, and so they apparently

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<v Speaker 1>before the video came out, he did an apology video

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram, saying I made a mistake. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>lapse in judgment. I apolgized to my wife and my

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<v Speaker 1>and my kids. And so look, this is like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this is before the video came out. So everybody was like,

0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 1>what did he do now, because there were rumors buzzing

0:25:05.119 --> 0:25:07.639
<v Speaker 1>that he was cheating on his wife, but he always

0:25:07.720 --> 0:25:10.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, that's a lie, that's a lie. But you know, now,

0:25:10.920 --> 0:25:13.159
<v Speaker 1>this girl. What was odd to me was that the

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<v Speaker 1>girl who taped it made it very plain that she

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<v Speaker 1>taped it to extort him. I'm like, does she realize

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:24.080
<v Speaker 1>this is a legal crime. Yeah, I mean it's so

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<v Speaker 1>strange made it because all these interviews she's like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I want him to pay. That's why I did the

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<v Speaker 1>video so he can pay. And I'm like, uh, pretty much,

0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:36.920
<v Speaker 1>pretty sure you're admitting to a crime. But anyway, and like, oh,

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I know what I am. But he's pretending to be

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<v Speaker 1>a good husband and he's a cheater and blah blah

0:25:40.520 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah. So it's just really messy because it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I mean, you know a man, you know,

0:25:46.760 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 1>men cheat, So you know, Kevin Hart being famous or

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:52.159
<v Speaker 1>not famous, But I guess what's so What makes this

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<v Speaker 1>so such a big deal is because Kevin Hart has

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<v Speaker 1>been so vocal about this woman who was like the

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<v Speaker 1>love of his life and she's so amazing, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like even before they got married, it was like he

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<v Speaker 1>used to call her my rib, you know, like the

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<v Speaker 1>rib comes from like in the Bible, when God made Eve,

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<v Speaker 1>he started her off by taking a rib from Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he was like, this is your match for life.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's like, you know, the story in the Bible,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he kept saying, this is my rib, basically

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<v Speaker 1>my match for life. God created her for me, like

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<v Speaker 1>all these videos and pictures and she met my kids

0:26:27.280 --> 0:26:30.360
<v Speaker 1>and just all of this. Like so I guess it's

0:26:30.359 --> 0:26:33.680
<v Speaker 1>so strange because I'm thinking to myself, well, the whole

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:36.479
<v Speaker 1>world knows about this young woman and that she's your

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<v Speaker 1>wife now and she's pregnant. I just don't see how

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>you thought that cheating wasn't going to catch up to you.

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Everybody knows you're married, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we saw the same thing happened to like

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:49.720
<v Speaker 2>David Letterman, and this is like tail as old as time.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't trust a male celebrity when they get money, they

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<v Speaker 2>turn into cheeters. That's the remix.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm like wow. And so it's clearly like she

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<v Speaker 1>has this little crappy phone hidden in the corner or whatever.

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:07.080
<v Speaker 1>She had hit iten in the corner. So it wasn't like,

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:09.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, he was like taking obvious pictures with her

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>or anything.

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 2>So shout out to her from she must have watched

0:27:12.560 --> 0:27:16.840
<v Speaker 2>Girls Trip, because this was like a plotline Girls Trip.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. I didn't like though, when he did

0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:22.119
<v Speaker 1>his little apology, he was like, oh, I have a

0:27:22.200 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 1>target on my back. I'm like, no, sir, you I

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:29.199
<v Speaker 1>mean the fact of the matters, you cheated, and you know,

0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean men, she you know, not all men, thankfully,

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 1>but men. She just apologize for that, and you don't

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:37.840
<v Speaker 1>need to do an open casting call for your whatever,

0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:40.080
<v Speaker 1>like you know, that's between you and your wife now.

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:43.320
<v Speaker 1>And everyone was like, ooh, I know. His ex wife

0:27:43.359 --> 0:27:45.800
<v Speaker 1>was like I told you, I told you, you know,

0:27:46.600 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 1>because it was kind of like, oh, she's just bitter.

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:52.919
<v Speaker 1>She's just mad because he left her before he blew up,

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:55.440
<v Speaker 1>and she didn't get the spoils of all his his

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:59.680
<v Speaker 1>like big celebrity stuff now and so now she's just

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<v Speaker 1>probably like, well, you know, hey, here we are like

0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I told you that he cheated on me. He admitted it,

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:08.399
<v Speaker 1>but you know it wasn't ask forthcoming. And now you

0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 1>guys get to see I don't know, it was just

0:28:10.320 --> 0:28:13.520
<v Speaker 1>everybody on my Facebook. We're not everybody, but it was

0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:18.000
<v Speaker 1>just the topic of deep discussion a lot of different men.

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 1>I saw a lot of men say like, oh, you know,

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>blaming that I guess the young woman that taped him.

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:25.200
<v Speaker 1>And then you know, of course women are like excuse

0:28:25.280 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 1>his excuses.

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<v Speaker 2>She's trash too, but for another reason, like it's pretty shitty.

0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 2>It's it's illegal obviously, I mean, but but the uh

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:36.000
<v Speaker 2>but I mean, come on, when you're a celebrity, you

0:28:36.040 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 2>take on, Yeah, there's a target on your back. Like

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:41.280
<v Speaker 2>that's just like one of the that's one of the

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 2>downsides more money.

0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 1>More problems exactly. And then I mean I just think

0:28:45.720 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 1>to myself, like, well, I just I mean, I'm just

0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:52.840
<v Speaker 1>imagining that, like if you cheat with like twenty girls,

0:28:52.840 --> 0:28:55.280
<v Speaker 1>somebody is probably going to try to extort you, like

0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like, you're just at a

0:28:56.600 --> 0:28:59.320
<v Speaker 1>position now where people are going to think that they

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 1>could get money for I think she was trying to

0:29:00.920 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 1>get like four hundred and fifty thousand dollars. I'm like, wow,

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>you're reaching, man, You're reaching.

0:29:06.560 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 2>That's in your pants. That's like the number one. That's

0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 2>like good financial advice for celebrity men. Just keep it

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 2>just you know? Is it that hard?

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's just like the level of narcissism too.

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Like the first thing he did was get on Instagram

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 2>and post a tell all confessional. Like I'd be like,

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:25.280
<v Speaker 2>where you should be kissed, like bowing down to your

0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 2>wife or I don't know, going to like make amends

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:28.000
<v Speaker 2>or something.

0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:31.760
<v Speaker 1>You should you know, take a break a pregnant lady.

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:33.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh I know, Like I mean, like I said, I

0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:35.720
<v Speaker 1>don't know, you know, I don't know their personal life

0:29:35.720 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 1>even though we disgusted it. It so I don't know if

0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 1>they cheated when he was with his wife. But I'm like, wow,

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:41.720
<v Speaker 1>she's pregnant. That can't be easy. You know.

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 2>Well, since we're on the entertainment segment of our of

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<v Speaker 2>our of our show today, do you want to talk

0:29:48.040 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 2>real quick? I need to give a shout out to

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Donald Glover. Like there was so much brown power, brown

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<v Speaker 2>magic at the emmysh.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see it. Do tell you're turned now you're up.

0:29:57.240 --> 0:30:00.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes please? So Donald Glover for Best Director of a

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<v Speaker 2>Comedy Series for Atlanta, which was major. Sterling K. Brown

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:08.320
<v Speaker 2>was the first black man since nineteen ninety eight I

0:30:08.400 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 2>believe to win the Best Actor in a Drama. Ooh,

0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 2>and Lena Wath and as He's a Onzari won for

0:30:14.960 --> 0:30:19.160
<v Speaker 2>their episode of Master of None for writing, which was huge.

0:30:19.160 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, Lena Wait is like, first of all, the

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 2>first black queer, I think, the first woman black woman

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 2>to win in this category. But then on top of that,

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>she's also queer, so it's like double whammy. And episode

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:33.000
<v Speaker 2>they won for our one four was like the episode

0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 2>of Master of None. If you haven't watched it, even

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:37.480
<v Speaker 2>if like you don't watch the whole series, just go

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:40.280
<v Speaker 2>and watch this episode and Master of None. It's on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called The Thanksgiving I think it's called The Thanksgiving

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 2>Dinner or something, but it's it's like a half hour,

0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 2>and over the course of this half hour, it's the

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:52.120
<v Speaker 2>story of Lena Wait's character coming out to her mom

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<v Speaker 2>at Thanksgiving and it features Angela Bassett. Oh yeah, now,

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<v Speaker 2>we did talk about this because I messed up the

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<v Speaker 2>name I said it was Jackie Jackie Harre and it

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<v Speaker 2>was yes, yes, yeah, it was what's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>I forget, don't even ask me. I'm like, lo, I'm

0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 1>not even gonna go there, but I know exactly who

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about.

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:12.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, anyway, So it was just really exciting, and

0:31:12.680 --> 0:31:14.760
<v Speaker 2>like I think it was the most it was the

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 2>most diverse nominations in Emmy history, and everyone was sort

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:23.280
<v Speaker 2>of like patting themselves in the back. There was some snubs,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:25.240
<v Speaker 2>like Easter Ray didn't get nominated, I don't think, which

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 2>is kind of sad, but she was there looking amazing,

0:31:27.880 --> 0:31:29.840
<v Speaker 2>and I don't know, it was just it felt really,

0:31:30.000 --> 0:31:33.240
<v Speaker 2>it felt really the vibe. The vibe was much different.

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:36.120
<v Speaker 2>I think ever since like all that Oscar so White controversy,

0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 2>I think I think that's the situation when like the

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 2>the awards and like the entertainment business really actually rose

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 2>to the call.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Ray? Did you see what? She? They were like,

0:31:46.960 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 1>who are you rooting for? She said, I'm everybody black?

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was I said that that ain't Brian ambition.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know whether.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so are you ready to boost?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to break?

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<v Speaker 2>H okay, I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to go first, sure, I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 2>a break, okay from the How do I do this

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<v Speaker 2>in a way where people I work with who listen

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<v Speaker 2>to the podcast won't to use it against me? I

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm talking about them. But here's my break because

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<v Speaker 2>I well, first of all, it's meetings, Like I want

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<v Speaker 2>to do a break from meetings in general. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that there is a way. I think there is like

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<v Speaker 2>a way to do a meeting in a really really

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<v Speaker 2>effective I'm getting better at my meetings. I think most

0:32:44.480 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 2>meetings can be fifteen minutes. But I was literally trapped

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<v Speaker 2>in a three hour meeting like not long ago, and

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:54.200
<v Speaker 2>I was sitting there, like, how are we still sitting here?

0:32:54.360 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 2>How is this meeting still happening? We're all you know,

0:32:57.040 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 2>And I think that it just takes away It just

0:32:59.200 --> 0:33:02.239
<v Speaker 2>sucks so much time out of the workday. But like,

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:04.320
<v Speaker 2>what do you do when the meeting isn't your meeting?

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:06.560
<v Speaker 2>You've just been called into it, and it's like you're

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<v Speaker 2>not really running the show. I I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, Honestly, I can't even tell you because thankfully, like

0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I do so I meet with everyone and we're getting

0:33:16.440 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 1>a little bit too big for that now. But I

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<v Speaker 1>meet with everyone on my staff for like fifteen to

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes on Monday, so I usually like they'll be

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<v Speaker 1>back to back, So I'm like, all right, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a call with you at ten, then you at ten thirty,

0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>and then you at eleven eleven thirty. So they before

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<v Speaker 1>it was maybe like five or six, and now that

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<v Speaker 1>we're a little bit bigger, I'm going to start grouping

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<v Speaker 1>folks together. But we really we purposefully. I purposefully do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I make that like the next person they have

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<v Speaker 1>to call me. So it forces me that when we're

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<v Speaker 1>having our fifteen minute because I'm like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the phone back to back to back,

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<v Speaker 1>so like I have a bit of a reprieve. It

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<v Speaker 1>forces me to get it done in fifteen minutes, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hey, what's up, how you doing? Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you working on? What do you need support with? All? Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Bye?

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<v Speaker 1>Go? You know. So so no, but because I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>because I thankfully I don't. I don't work in corporate America,

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:07.520
<v Speaker 1>and I haven't I haven't had to like sit, but

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:10.279
<v Speaker 1>I've definitely had to sit in meetings in general. So

0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to be very mindful to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you can't get it out in like

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes, like the basic gist, then there's usually an issue,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and then we just follow up in slack.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that it's like the shorter meeting, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's also it's it's also I mean, it can be good. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>for example, we've created this monthly chime in meeting chime in,

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<v Speaker 2>which has helped because you know, you're when you're creating

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 2>like a product, and you and and you know you're

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<v Speaker 2>owning the product and you're sort of creating it and

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<v Speaker 2>your team is creating it, and then it goes live

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<v Speaker 2>right and it's out there, and then you have people

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 2>reaching out to you and saying, hey this, why don't

0:34:48.080 --> 0:34:49.520
<v Speaker 2>you do this? What about this? And what about that?

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:52.799
<v Speaker 2>Like they're chiming in after something that you own has

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<v Speaker 2>already been out there, and then that chime in noise

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<v Speaker 2>gets really confusing. So one thing I actually do, like

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<v Speaker 2>is we created a monthly chime in meeting so people

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<v Speaker 2>reserve their opinions and then we actually have a meeting

0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:06.360
<v Speaker 2>so that people aren't being pinged and slacked and emailed

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 2>and like bothered about small minor things that people's opinions

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<v Speaker 2>like throughout the month, and it gives a forum for

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<v Speaker 2>everyone to sort of here's your here's your chance to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of weigh in on what happened the month prior

0:35:18.880 --> 0:35:21.520
<v Speaker 2>and have your your feedback. So in that case, like

0:35:21.760 --> 0:35:23.839
<v Speaker 2>that's a meeting Where'm like, hey, that's actually useful because

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<v Speaker 2>it removes a bunch of bothersome you know, commentary throughout

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<v Speaker 2>the month. And I was really pleased when we added

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:33.600
<v Speaker 2>that to our schedule. But I could definitely do without

0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:37.360
<v Speaker 2>the three hour traps.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to boost I'm not sure if I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this, did I talk about Game of Thrones?

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<v Speaker 2>You always you always bring up Game of Thrones only

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 2>to tell me that you don't watch it, So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>curious what you have to say about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm going to boost Game of Thrones because Superman

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<v Speaker 1>and I we're trying to find more things that we

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<v Speaker 1>have in common that are like chillid back things, like

0:35:59.760 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, we wost like the movies and like eating

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<v Speaker 1>out and stuff, but like when it comes time for TV,

0:36:05.120 --> 0:36:06.880
<v Speaker 1>we tend to be very separate. Like I'll be like,

0:36:06.920 --> 0:36:09.319
<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm going upstairs and I'm like, no, you know,

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:11.880
<v Speaker 1>because I don't like he likes sports and that damn.

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:14.440
<v Speaker 1>I love HGTV and he can watch, but after like

0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:18.440
<v Speaker 1>hour two he's like I now do. And he and

0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 1>Supergirl both really like comic book like Marvel and all

0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:25.320
<v Speaker 1>that kind of stuff. They both like those type of movies,

0:36:25.360 --> 0:36:27.040
<v Speaker 1>which I do enjoy, so I'll watch those, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like the cartoons. So when they turn those on,

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm out. And so I said, there's gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be something that he and I both enjoy that we

0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:37.480
<v Speaker 1>can watch and kind of binge on. And so this

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<v Speaker 1>past Saturday, so maybe like a week ago, we started

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<v Speaker 1>watching Game of Thrones and we both enjoyed it. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I said, babe, why don't we binge watch on Saturday?

0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:47.319
<v Speaker 1>And we did and it was so much fun. We

0:36:47.360 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 1>literally just laid in bed binge watch ate and lay

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 1>in bed and so like the evening. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>want to boost Game of Thrones because it was such

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<v Speaker 1>a nice, like a day.

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<v Speaker 2>You're making it sound like it's like a delightful family show.

0:37:00.239 --> 0:37:05.120
<v Speaker 2>I know, meanwhy, it's just a great program. The incest,

0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 2>the beheadings, I know, the child murder, I know right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, but we're we're on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited though, now I can talk to you

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<v Speaker 2>about it. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I'm still in the beginning. I know.

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to say anything. Don't worry.

0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, we're only on season two so we're still really early.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not gonna lie. Started a little slow. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, come on now, but.

0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:27.719
<v Speaker 2>It doesna start. It's gonna pick up, don't you worry.

0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:30.160
<v Speaker 1>What I'm already like, wait a minute, no, Draco or

0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 1>whatever the Tdarian name is, why did you have to die?

0:37:33.200 --> 0:37:34.600
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, wait, she's a dragon.

0:37:35.040 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 3>Wait, what's going on?

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:39.000
<v Speaker 1>And so there's so many great like I'm really like

0:37:39.080 --> 0:37:41.320
<v Speaker 1>getting into it and it's getting really good. So I'm excited.

0:37:41.360 --> 0:37:43.759
<v Speaker 1>So that's my my booze. Thank you for granmed Game

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:46.560
<v Speaker 1>of Thrones, for bringing me and Superman just that much

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:50.520
<v Speaker 1>closer together over violence and sexual inappropriateness.

0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:53.160
<v Speaker 2>It's so good and it stays good too, and since

0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:55.880
<v Speaker 2>seasons season seven just ended, and like you're in the

0:37:55.880 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 2>best position because now you get to enjoy it without

0:37:58.200 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 2>like worrying about people posting on it, you know, on

0:38:00.520 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 2>Twitter about what happened in last episode. Like you can

0:38:03.320 --> 0:38:04.480
<v Speaker 2>just relax and ben.

0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I'm not gonna lie. Like the good things.

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember any of the spoilers because I didn't

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:09.760
<v Speaker 1>get what they were talking about, so I'm like whatever

0:38:09.960 --> 0:38:12.719
<v Speaker 1>what that means? So I don't even remember. But so yeah,

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:14.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm excited because it's been good. So we try to

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>watch maybe like an episode of Night before we go

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 1>to sleep, which might not be the best idea, but whatever,

0:38:19.760 --> 0:38:22.759
<v Speaker 1>like oh, dreaming about Game of Thrones. But yeah, it's

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:25.839
<v Speaker 1>just been great. So thank you Game of Thrones, Thank

0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 1>you Hbow.

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<v Speaker 2>Fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know we have a really good question we do?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you I send it? Did I send it to?

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<v Speaker 2>I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, No you did. It was very, very very juicy.

0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like, whoa, somebody twists and turns?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So yeah, Berne read today's question. If you guys

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:53.440
<v Speaker 2>want to leave a question, go to brandanbishpodcast dot com,

0:38:53.520 --> 0:38:57.400
<v Speaker 2>hit ask us anything and send us your question. This

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<v Speaker 2>question is from someone who'd like to be called Tracy

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<v Speaker 2>fair enough, really interesting. I'm not even sure if I

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<v Speaker 2>have a good answer, but I think that this is

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<v Speaker 2>definitely a situation where I feel for her, and so

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<v Speaker 2>let's get to Tracy's question, so she says, I'm twenty

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<v Speaker 2>six twenty six years old, and I have a three

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 2>year old son his dad. My boyfriend and I have

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:19.879
<v Speaker 2>been together for the past five years. Neither of us

0:39:19.920 --> 0:39:22.600
<v Speaker 2>have very good credit, but we're working to improve our scores.

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<v Speaker 2>We both have dreams of home ownership, but right now

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<v Speaker 2>we're renting a house from a private owner. But let's

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<v Speaker 2>just say our dream house went to our worst nightmare

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<v Speaker 2>really quickly. We initially signed a twelve month lease. Everything

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<v Speaker 2>was fine at first, we had hardly any contact with

0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:41.520
<v Speaker 2>our landlord, but when it came time for us to

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<v Speaker 2>sign a new lease, the landlord told us we'd now

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<v Speaker 2>be on a month to month contract instead of the

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:48.800
<v Speaker 2>traditional one year lease. I felt like something was fishy

0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:51.120
<v Speaker 2>at that point, but I continued on with the agreement.

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<v Speaker 2>So flash forward to two Flash forward to two months later.

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<v Speaker 2>After the lease was signed, my boyfriend came home one

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<v Speaker 2>day and realized that we had an eviction notice on

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<v Speaker 2>our door. After the first eviction notice we received, there

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 2>was one more, and then another one in person. Our

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<v Speaker 2>landlord told us that the house was costing more money

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<v Speaker 2>than he was making, and we had thirty days to move. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>this is my worst this is any parents worst nightmare.

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<v Speaker 2>A week later, we discovered the house was actually in

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning stages of foreclosure and really within thirty days,

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<v Speaker 2>and within those thirty days we were unable to find

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<v Speaker 2>a new place. So here's her question. Here's sort of

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<v Speaker 2>what she's going through. My family is religious and wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>let both of us move back in due to us

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<v Speaker 2>not being married. My boyfriend is from a different state

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<v Speaker 2>where we live, and we don't have a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>family here who could help us. We have decent jobs,

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<v Speaker 2>but we live in different households and it's been impossible

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<v Speaker 2>for us to save. We both have limited time at

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<v Speaker 2>our We have limited time at our current living situation,

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<v Speaker 2>so it sounds like they're both living separately until they

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<v Speaker 2>figure out a permanent place to stay. And due to

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:56.040
<v Speaker 2>our credit not being the best around five hundred and twenty,

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<v Speaker 2>we also have limited options on rental places that we

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<v Speaker 2>prove us. Do you have any tips or advice on

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<v Speaker 2>how we can try to save for a new place

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<v Speaker 2>quickly without having any backup savings. Poor Tracy, that sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, well, one I was just taking like a

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 1>quick like like Googles, and so I'm on the Consumer

0:41:17.080 --> 0:41:20.320
<v Speaker 1>Finance dot gov website and it says, like, what should

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<v Speaker 1>I do with my house or the apartment I'm renting?

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<v Speaker 1>Goals into foreclosure. So one, I don't know if you're

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 1>already out of the home, but if you're not, it

0:41:27.280 --> 0:41:30.680
<v Speaker 1>says if your landlord stops paying the mortgage for closing

0:41:30.840 --> 0:41:34.320
<v Speaker 1>proceedings may happen. Some state and local law may offer

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:38.479
<v Speaker 1>protection for renters in the foreclosure process. More information about

0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:40.880
<v Speaker 1>the landlord tenant laws in your state is available here.

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<v Speaker 1>So one thing I do know. So, for example, in

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey, I remember when I was house hunting, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a house in particular where the woman there was

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who was living there and the part of

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<v Speaker 1>I guess selling the house, the man who was owning

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<v Speaker 1>the house didn't want to be in charge of evicting

0:42:03.640 --> 0:42:05.960
<v Speaker 1>her if we wanted to buy the house. And I

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<v Speaker 1>remember specifically one of my friends, who is a real

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 1>estate investor, said what kind of lease do they have?

0:42:11.600 --> 0:42:14.040
<v Speaker 1>And I said, you know, is it? It's I think

0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:16.640
<v Speaker 1>it's month to month. That's better, right, And she was like, no,

0:42:16.760 --> 0:42:21.920
<v Speaker 1>actually that it's actually easier to guess. I guess remove

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 1>someone who has a it's harder to remove someone who

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:25.960
<v Speaker 1>has a month to monthly like you have to give

0:42:26.000 --> 0:42:28.719
<v Speaker 1>them like more time than someone who actually has an

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:31.759
<v Speaker 1>annual least that you're breaking. So one just figure out

0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:33.359
<v Speaker 1>the law in your state if you haven't moved out,

0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:35.839
<v Speaker 1>because you might not have to move out in Latin

0:42:35.920 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>least until the foreclosure proceeding is fully concluded and that

0:42:39.360 --> 0:42:41.279
<v Speaker 1>might take a while. So if you haven't moved yet,

0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't because he cannot forcibly remove you depending on

0:42:44.560 --> 0:42:47.320
<v Speaker 1>what state that you live in if you have already

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:50.279
<v Speaker 1>kind of are like, you know, moving what I One

0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:52.239
<v Speaker 1>of the places that I look for when I or

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 1>that when I didn't have great credit and I was

0:42:54.239 --> 0:42:58.919
<v Speaker 1>looking to rent. A great place to look, honestly is Craigflist,

0:42:59.320 --> 0:43:02.440
<v Speaker 1>because you can a lot of Yes, you're not gonna

0:43:02.480 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 1>likely get an apartment in like an apartment building, but

0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:11.960
<v Speaker 1>oftentimes if you find another homeowner, they're willing to kind

0:43:11.960 --> 0:43:14.080
<v Speaker 1>of work with the fact that you don't have the

0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:16.040
<v Speaker 1>greatest credit. Because I didn't, so I used to be

0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:18.000
<v Speaker 1>able to call the homeowner and once they meet me

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and they say, oh, she's a nice young lady. My

0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:22.480
<v Speaker 1>credit's not that great, but I am able to you know,

0:43:22.840 --> 0:43:25.560
<v Speaker 1>pay rent. Here's how let me show you, like, you know, like,

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:28.000
<v Speaker 1>if you paid this. I'm assuming you paid this other guy.

0:43:28.040 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was cash or or check

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. If you could bring your bake statements showing

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:35.160
<v Speaker 1>that every month it was paid, A person is more

0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:38.200
<v Speaker 1>likely to say okay than than a rental office. So

0:43:38.239 --> 0:43:42.280
<v Speaker 1>I would definitely look at Craigslist, looking at potentially running

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:44.759
<v Speaker 1>from another homeowner until you guys can figure out what

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 1>to do. But those would be my two suggestions.

0:43:48.280 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I went through this. I went through something similar

0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:51.879
<v Speaker 2>when I moved to New York. I'm a little bit

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:54.520
<v Speaker 2>kind of similar. I didn't realize I had such bad

0:43:54.560 --> 0:43:57.600
<v Speaker 2>credit because I was twenty two when I moved here,

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:01.040
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't realize during college because I never really

0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:03.279
<v Speaker 2>used credit that someone opened up a credit card in

0:44:03.320 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 2>my name and I had and hadn't paid it in

0:44:06.239 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 2>like five years, and this is on my credit report,

0:44:08.160 --> 0:44:10.319
<v Speaker 2>and I had no idea. So when I when I like,

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:13.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, brown eye, blue, what do you call it?

0:44:13.160 --> 0:44:16.520
<v Speaker 2>Bright eyed and bushy tail, like, strolled up to this apartment,

0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:19.719
<v Speaker 2>you know application and was denied I was like, what

0:44:19.760 --> 0:44:22.600
<v Speaker 2>the heck is happening? How could you deny me? And

0:44:22.640 --> 0:44:24.840
<v Speaker 2>I discovered this issue and I had to like dispute

0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:26.640
<v Speaker 2>it on my credit report, and that can take like

0:44:26.760 --> 0:44:28.960
<v Speaker 2>forty five to sixty days or something like that. So

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 2>I ended up having to make an appeal to my landlord.

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:34.160
<v Speaker 2>And it was a private owner, like she was working

0:44:34.200 --> 0:44:36.000
<v Speaker 2>with an attorney who was, you know, working on the

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:38.480
<v Speaker 2>contract or the least. But I went to her and

0:44:38.520 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 2>I showed her a copy of the dispute. I showed

0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:44.160
<v Speaker 2>her my bank statements, and I had a reference letter

0:44:44.160 --> 0:44:46.080
<v Speaker 2>from a prior landlord that I gave her, and that

0:44:46.200 --> 0:44:48.120
<v Speaker 2>was enough for her to say, Okay, I'm going to

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:51.759
<v Speaker 2>take a chance on you, you know I I you know,

0:44:52.000 --> 0:44:54.160
<v Speaker 2>I kind of she kind of felt bad for me. So,

0:44:54.920 --> 0:44:57.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean, the least this landlord, maybe you can at

0:44:57.280 --> 0:44:59.800
<v Speaker 2>least get him to write your reference letter, you know, yeah,

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:03.359
<v Speaker 2>and write you know, they were always always on time

0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:07.160
<v Speaker 2>with their rental payments, and you know, or prior landlord

0:45:07.239 --> 0:45:12.399
<v Speaker 2>or anyone who can sort of vouch for your responsibility. Yeah,

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:15.239
<v Speaker 2>I think that. I So I agree with what you're saying,

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:17.720
<v Speaker 2>like trying to find another private owner, which is probably

0:45:17.760 --> 0:45:20.440
<v Speaker 2>why they had a private owner in the first place, and.

0:45:20.480 --> 0:45:22.879
<v Speaker 1>Lots of people go that round, so look for that

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:25.239
<v Speaker 1>private owner. You know what, I don't know if there's

0:45:25.280 --> 0:45:30.600
<v Speaker 1>any schools or universities in your city or neighboring city,

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:33.520
<v Speaker 1>because here's why, because like, for example, New York, New Jersey,

0:45:33.560 --> 0:45:35.360
<v Speaker 1>where I live, is a college town. There's like maybe

0:45:35.360 --> 0:45:38.759
<v Speaker 1>like five or six colleges, and so they tend to

0:45:38.800 --> 0:45:40.480
<v Speaker 1>be a little bit more laxed when it comes to

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:42.920
<v Speaker 1>renting because you know, students don't have the best credit.

0:45:43.360 --> 0:45:45.360
<v Speaker 1>So it was easier for me when my credit was

0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:46.719
<v Speaker 1>bad and I didn't have a whole lot of money

0:45:46.760 --> 0:45:51.319
<v Speaker 1>to find more affordable housing and more flexible landlords in

0:45:51.440 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 1>like a college town because it was like they were

0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:56.759
<v Speaker 1>used to dealing with that type of renter, you see

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.480
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So just like you know, so yeah,

0:45:59.480 --> 0:46:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I would say that too. And like sometimes your local

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:03.720
<v Speaker 1>like I know, we have NJ dot Com. That's another

0:46:03.719 --> 0:46:07.120
<v Speaker 1>place that a lot of private homeowners, So your local

0:46:07.200 --> 0:46:12.160
<v Speaker 1>newspapers some like private homeowners will post there too. So

0:46:12.160 --> 0:46:13.759
<v Speaker 1>if you're looking, because you're likely going to have to

0:46:13.800 --> 0:46:16.080
<v Speaker 1>go with another private homeowner, but find out where they

0:46:16.120 --> 0:46:21.360
<v Speaker 1>post and look there, Tracy.

0:46:21.400 --> 0:46:24.920
<v Speaker 2>I know, Tracy, rebuild that credit man credits power.

0:46:25.120 --> 0:46:28.080
<v Speaker 1>It is it is, are you now? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to say one last one, last resort,

0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:32.840
<v Speaker 2>although it sounds like maybe their family isn't so helpful

0:46:32.880 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 2>as they could potentially ask for someone to co sign Elise.

0:46:37.200 --> 0:46:39.319
<v Speaker 2>Of course that puts that person at risk, but that's

0:46:39.360 --> 0:46:42.600
<v Speaker 2>just that's another option. So Tracy, good luck, follow up

0:46:42.640 --> 0:46:44.400
<v Speaker 2>with us. Let us know if you are able to

0:46:44.440 --> 0:46:46.880
<v Speaker 2>find a place, let us know. And the rest of

0:46:46.920 --> 0:46:50.440
<v Speaker 2>you guys leave us your questions at runimbition podcast dot

0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:53.800
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0:47:04.080 --> 0:47:07.320
<v Speaker 1>It's Winds as in when, well, we should call it

0:47:07.400 --> 0:47:15.319
<v Speaker 1>Wednesday since we're on Wednesdays now, I'm here all night,

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:18.600
<v Speaker 1>ladies and gentlemen, did up dumb chain Wednesday?

0:47:19.239 --> 0:47:19.600
<v Speaker 2>All right?

0:47:19.640 --> 0:47:21.799
<v Speaker 1>So I've been excited. I have been aching to share

0:47:21.840 --> 0:47:24.560
<v Speaker 1>this wins because I think it's so dope. So those

0:47:24.600 --> 0:47:26.640
<v Speaker 1>of you you already have heard of travel Noir.

0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 2>Right, oh yeah, yep.

0:47:29.360 --> 0:47:31.120
<v Speaker 1>And then most of us have heard of Blavity because

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:32.799
<v Speaker 1>we actually had working on the other one of the

0:47:32.800 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 1>founders of Blavity, didn't we have working.

0:47:34.480 --> 0:47:36.279
<v Speaker 2>On we've had both of them on right.

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:39.239
<v Speaker 1>No, we no, we didn't have Travel Noir. Her name

0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:43.360
<v Speaker 1>is Zim. We've had no madness. We had a Vita.

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I know, don't worry, it's you know. But

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:53.879
<v Speaker 1>so anyway, what's so dope is Blavity has purchased Travel Noir,

0:47:53.920 --> 0:47:56.799
<v Speaker 1>which is like so awesome because Blavity is this I

0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:57.920
<v Speaker 1>can't I don't even think you can call it a

0:47:57.960 --> 0:48:02.360
<v Speaker 1>startup anymore, but it's this dope media center for black millennials.

0:48:02.920 --> 0:48:09.719
<v Speaker 1>And Travenoir is a black millennial focused travel I don't

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:11.200
<v Speaker 1>even know if you could call it, like I guess

0:48:11.239 --> 0:48:15.799
<v Speaker 1>it's a movement. But you know, they host trips, they

0:48:15.840 --> 0:48:17.960
<v Speaker 1>have all these kind of educational sessions where they teach

0:48:17.960 --> 0:48:20.600
<v Speaker 1>people how to travel and live abroad. And they have

0:48:20.680 --> 0:48:24.800
<v Speaker 1>like a really robust social media component where you know,

0:48:24.880 --> 0:48:28.959
<v Speaker 1>they post really beautiful pictures and so they've combined their

0:48:29.000 --> 0:48:32.560
<v Speaker 1>their their powers and them. Who is the founder of Travenoir.

0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:35.640
<v Speaker 1>She is still going to be obviously a major part.

0:48:35.680 --> 0:48:38.759
<v Speaker 1>I think she's a chief brand officer. But yeah, but

0:48:38.840 --> 0:48:41.319
<v Speaker 1>that's just so awesome that a Brown company purchased a

0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Brown company.

0:48:42.040 --> 0:48:45.040
<v Speaker 2>I was about to say, you never hear that it's right.

0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:47.320
<v Speaker 1>That is Honestly, it blew my mind and it was

0:48:47.360 --> 0:48:50.840
<v Speaker 1>on tech Crunch and I was like, how freaking awesome

0:48:50.920 --> 0:48:54.399
<v Speaker 1>is that? So yeah, just kudos that. And you could

0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:57.480
<v Speaker 1>just tell, like I like, if you follow her name

0:48:57.520 --> 0:49:00.200
<v Speaker 1>is I think if you follow either Traven Noir on

0:49:01.239 --> 0:49:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I believe on Instagram or maybe it was zim on Instagram,

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:06.319
<v Speaker 1>but if you follow her, you got to see like

0:49:06.400 --> 0:49:09.960
<v Speaker 1>how the reception at the office and how excited she was.

0:49:10.040 --> 0:49:13.240
<v Speaker 1>And it's just because it was clear that they bought

0:49:13.239 --> 0:49:16.239
<v Speaker 1>them a out of a space of like respect and

0:49:16.760 --> 0:49:19.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, it wasn't this like hostile takeover.

0:49:19.200 --> 0:49:21.360
<v Speaker 1>You know that, like I get you, you get me,

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:24.040
<v Speaker 1>We're even better together. So I'm just excited about that.

0:49:24.560 --> 0:49:30.480
<v Speaker 2>It seems like the perfect combination. Yeah, definitely, Well congrats, Yeah, congratt.

0:49:30.480 --> 0:49:30.920
<v Speaker 1>It's awesome.

0:49:30.920 --> 0:49:37.080
<v Speaker 2>Where absolutely my win is gonna be for the epic

0:49:37.160 --> 0:49:41.080
<v Speaker 2>nap I'm about to take. Now that's a week. I mean,

0:49:41.239 --> 0:49:43.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna I'm gonna do the obvious when that

0:49:43.400 --> 0:49:49.239
<v Speaker 2>we haven't even a knowledge. Happy two year anniversary, Dode, you.

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:53.919
<v Speaker 1>Know what, two days it's our anniversary.

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:56.640
<v Speaker 2>Technically five days ago but that's great fun. I guess

0:49:56.680 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 2>we're I guess we're getting too comfortable in our relationship.

0:49:58.840 --> 0:49:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:49:58.960 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 2>We didn't plan anything, so.

0:50:00.640 --> 0:50:04.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, we should plan something special. What should we do?

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:07.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, we're gonna have some new picks coming soon. We're

0:50:07.280 --> 0:50:08.799
<v Speaker 2>gonna have a nice, little new fresh look.

0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:11.400
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like we should still have a dinner

0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:13.040
<v Speaker 1>or something like we did last time. You know, it'd

0:50:13.040 --> 0:50:14.160
<v Speaker 1>be nice to see some folks.

0:50:14.360 --> 0:50:16.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'd love to do their dinner. I mean, are

0:50:16.040 --> 0:50:19.319
<v Speaker 2>we making the plan right now? Because I'm no, let's

0:50:19.320 --> 0:50:19.520
<v Speaker 2>do that.

0:50:19.600 --> 0:50:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Let's but we have to figure out a way. So,

0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:23.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, we've got to figure out a way to

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:27.160
<v Speaker 1>to like invite folks like last time, and you know,

0:50:27.280 --> 0:50:29.799
<v Speaker 1>something that they have to do in order to be

0:50:29.880 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>qualified to have dinsin with Mindy Mindy. Oh my god,

0:50:34.160 --> 0:50:37.840
<v Speaker 1>my bad. I was trying to like make it rhyme

0:50:38.239 --> 0:50:41.840
<v Speaker 1>din din with Mandy and Tiffany. But then men, you

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:44.680
<v Speaker 1>know that kind of anyway, we should have dinner and

0:50:44.719 --> 0:50:46.279
<v Speaker 1>we should force them to come to Jersey because now

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:47.280
<v Speaker 1>we're both Jersey girls.

0:50:47.600 --> 0:50:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's true. Yeah, I can't believe it' spent two years.

0:50:50.880 --> 0:50:53.799
<v Speaker 1>I know, we're all grown and stuff. You know, we're

0:50:53.840 --> 0:51:04.120
<v Speaker 1>walking we come yo, this is the same episode. I

0:51:04.120 --> 0:51:06.040
<v Speaker 1>feel like we haven't sung this month since the beginning.

0:51:06.960 --> 0:51:09.239
<v Speaker 2>Well, you're welcome. It's a rare treat. We went right through.

0:51:10.480 --> 0:51:12.600
<v Speaker 1>No, that's so awesome. I mean, like, you know, who

0:51:12.640 --> 0:51:14.960
<v Speaker 1>would have dunke it that we would come this far?

0:51:15.560 --> 0:51:18.040
<v Speaker 1>All you awesome listeners. You know, you guys get so

0:51:18.120 --> 0:51:20.040
<v Speaker 1>much great feedback. You know. I love when, you know,

0:51:20.120 --> 0:51:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I get like the little ding on Facebook Messenger, like hey,

0:51:23.200 --> 0:51:25.000
<v Speaker 1>someone left you a message, and it's like, oh my god,

0:51:25.040 --> 0:51:27.720
<v Speaker 1>I love you guys so much. And I'm like, really,

0:51:28.239 --> 0:51:31.279
<v Speaker 1>because I was asking one of my staff members, YadA Leavese,

0:51:31.320 --> 0:51:35.399
<v Speaker 1>hey girl, she was like, you know, she was telling

0:51:35.400 --> 0:51:38.120
<v Speaker 1>me something that I said on the last podcast, and

0:51:38.160 --> 0:51:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I said that because I don't think you

0:51:40.360 --> 0:51:42.640
<v Speaker 1>guys realize I'm actually friends with Mandy in real life.

0:51:42.680 --> 0:51:45.239
<v Speaker 1>So sometimes we're just talking and then I'm like, wait,

0:51:45.800 --> 0:51:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I said that. So that's what makes it so awesome

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:50.160
<v Speaker 1>because it's like, oh, I get to talk to my

0:51:50.200 --> 0:51:53.240
<v Speaker 1>friend for a full hour and some change once a week,

0:51:53.320 --> 0:51:55.399
<v Speaker 1>and so it's like you guys get to peek in

0:51:55.800 --> 0:51:56.880
<v Speaker 1>to us chit chatting.

0:51:57.200 --> 0:51:58.800
<v Speaker 2>I think that's why the show works.

0:51:59.160 --> 0:52:03.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, so that's what's awesome. So yeah, so let's

0:52:03.440 --> 0:52:06.000
<v Speaker 1>definitely have a dinner. Maybe next time we can, well,

0:52:06.080 --> 0:52:07.880
<v Speaker 1>we'll have we'll work out the deeds about what that

0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:09.759
<v Speaker 1>should be, like something small like last time, you know,

0:52:09.840 --> 0:52:11.600
<v Speaker 1>like ten folks or something. It'll be on us.

0:52:12.080 --> 0:52:14.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's Popo in Jersey, right.

0:52:15.400 --> 0:52:18.400
<v Speaker 1>I know that was the list. Oh I'm vegan, now.

0:52:18.680 --> 0:52:20.240
<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna okay, we're still vegan?

0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:23.560
<v Speaker 1>All right, look I forgot, I'm like, wait, I'm vegan.

0:52:23.640 --> 0:52:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Now we gotta find someplace that like, well, we can

0:52:25.960 --> 0:52:27.440
<v Speaker 1>still do it as long as there's some because I

0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:30.640
<v Speaker 1>could have plant in rice, so we can still do it.

0:52:30.680 --> 0:52:32.319
<v Speaker 1>I would just have to make sure that, like, you know,

0:52:32.360 --> 0:52:35.239
<v Speaker 1>there's enough yumminess that I could eat that doesn't you know,

0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:38.240
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't involve meat or dairy.

0:52:38.719 --> 0:52:43.400
<v Speaker 2>We'll work it out. Yay, two years, almost half a

0:52:43.440 --> 0:52:48.600
<v Speaker 2>million downloads. Oh my good, big times.

0:52:48.680 --> 0:52:48.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:52:48.920 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, let's get to a million. I wanted if

0:52:52.160 --> 0:52:54.200
<v Speaker 2>we did we did half a million in two years,

0:52:54.320 --> 0:52:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Let's do a million in one year.

0:52:56.200 --> 0:52:58.239
<v Speaker 1>That is, we can do it, so that means we

0:52:58.280 --> 0:52:59.680
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