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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to a.

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Speaker 3: Very special episode of the Almost Famous Podcast. We have

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Speaker 3: both Ashley and Jared here with us today to talk

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Speaker 3: about all things baby number two. They announced this yesterday,

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Speaker 3: but we wanted to give you our listeners though, people

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Speaker 3: we love so much, all the exclusive details.

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Speaker 4: Hey, everyone, welcome to the Almost in this podcast today,

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Speaker 4: Jared is here with me and we're just gonna talk

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Speaker 4: about pregnancy number two.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna be a family.

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Speaker 2: Of four, family of four or five?

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Speaker 4: Do you want to count lois? Is that the thing

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Speaker 4: like do you count the dog well when you have kids?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, no, I mean we're going the kids get older.

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Speaker 2: Let's I don't know who the hell knows. Anyway, we're

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Speaker 2: growing into a family of four. It's me, Ashley, Dawson,

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Speaker 2: and the new one and is.

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Speaker 4: Part of the doesn't have a name. By the way,

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Speaker 4: we have no names picked out for this kid. I

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Speaker 4: thought we thought we may have had a name, but no,

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Speaker 4: So we're not revealing whether it's a girl or boy.

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Speaker 5: That reveal will come later.

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Speaker 4: We had we did, We did our reveal, our reveal,

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Speaker 4: the baby reveal with Amazon Live. We love working with them,

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Speaker 4: it's so much fun. So I have basically if you

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Speaker 4: go and click the link it's on my Instagram, you'll

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Speaker 4: find it. You can see the live where we talk

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Speaker 4: about a lot of things. But we also have like

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Speaker 4: our full blown registry blow not our registry like for

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Speaker 4: this baby, because we have everything, but it's everything that

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Speaker 4: we loved that we used with Dawson and plan on

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Speaker 4: bringing up from the basement again for this baby. It's

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Speaker 4: so nice to have everything, but now I just want

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Speaker 4: to set up other parents to be out there with

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Speaker 4: what we think are.

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Speaker 5: The absolute essentials. So did check that out? All right? Babe?

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Speaker 5: Do you want to like which? How should we do this?

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Speaker 4: No? I no know.

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Speaker 2: Let's just talk all right.

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Speaker 4: So we were we had we Jared so Jared, so

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Speaker 4: we knew we wanted the kid to be ideally two

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Speaker 4: and a half years apart from Dawson, because Jared and

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Speaker 4: I are two and a half years apart from our siblings,

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Speaker 4: and that.

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Speaker 5: Was a big deal for me. Apparently not a big

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Speaker 5: deal for you.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean it would be it's nice to get

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Speaker 2: them close, n age, but also it's just ideal to

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Speaker 2: get it over with.

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Speaker 4: You know you definitely put them in a similarish phase

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Speaker 4: together at the same time.

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Speaker 2: Could you imagine trying to do this three or four

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Speaker 2: years from now, we would only have one kid, We

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Speaker 2: wouldn't do it.

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Speaker 5: Well, that sounds sad, No it's not. It's not reality.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of people that have kids that part

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Speaker 5: far apart.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not sad. I'm saying just for us. If

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Speaker 2: we were out of the baby phase, I think we

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Speaker 2: would be like, we don't want to go back in.

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Speaker 2: But now it's perfect because he's starting to be a

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Speaker 2: little bit more independent and we're like, all right, kids.

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Speaker 5: Best Like he's just better and better every day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he gets better and better every day. I mean

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Speaker 2: he throws he throws temper trantrums down so like he

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Speaker 2: throws himself on the floor, but those are easy. We

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Speaker 2: literally step right over him. And it's like, bro, if

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Speaker 2: of cheese, then just cry.

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Speaker 4: He's so dramatic, guys, He's just he is us. It's

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Speaker 4: just so crazy.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 5: Don't think that Jared's you don't think that Jared's dramatic.

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Speaker 4: But the thing is, like he's very emotional, so imagine

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Speaker 4: what are offspring's like.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, we are so happy that this that this.

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Speaker 4: Kid will be two and a half years exactly, like crazy,

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Speaker 4: like almost to Dawson's like half birthday. I think he's

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Speaker 4: like basically due on Dawson's half birthday. Yeah, so's July.

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Speaker 5: The exact six months.

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Speaker 2: Would be July thirty first, right.

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Speaker 5: So I'm due July twenty ninth.

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Speaker 2: How many days in July is their thirty one?

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Speaker 4: I think there is thirty one, I think yeah, so,

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Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I don't want the kid to come

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Speaker 4: on thirty first, though, you know, I'm two days late.

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Speaker 4: I'm just let's just I just love the way that

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Speaker 2: That'd be a fun game. Tell me how many days

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Speaker 2: are in each month.

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Speaker 5: I'm not that great at it, obviously.

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Speaker 2: It's thirty one in January, it's twenty in February. There's

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Speaker 2: thirty one in March. It's definitely right, March thirty first.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think so that'd yeah, I think April thirty thirty. Okay, well,

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Speaker 5: all we're here to talk about.

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Speaker 2: I think I think Maay's thirty one.

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Speaker 5: The trivia, babe, this is good trivia for Audrey's thirty one,

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Speaker 5: all right, so other things.

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Speaker 4: So, yeah, it was it was great for us because

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Speaker 4: it was two months trying. Dawson was seven months of

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Speaker 4: trying to get pregnant, so this was like such a

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Speaker 4: surprise and so awesome. So what happened was I actually

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Speaker 4: had a chemical pregnancy in October, which was the first

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Speaker 4: like a very early miscarriage. It's like specifically during week five.

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Speaker 4: So if you are familiar with the pregnancy cycle, your

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Speaker 4: or it's like the first day of your period something

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Speaker 4: like that, so like you're technically not actually pregnant the

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Speaker 4: the actual start of your cycle, but like the egg's

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Speaker 5: So anyway, in.

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Speaker 4: Week five, what happens usually in week five is that

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Speaker 4: women take pregnancy tests going into week five, or you

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Speaker 4: of week before. So I took a pregnancy test a

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Speaker 4: Positive, and I just knew it in my bones that

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Speaker 5: We've been blessed. Okay, so perspective, thank you.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, first month, we have Dawson. This

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Speaker 4: huge deal. And my midwife was like, you know a

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Speaker 4: lot of women get pregnant the month after a chemical pregnancy,

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Speaker 4: and I kind of had that positivity in my brain

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Speaker 5: I knew Jared wouldn't respond the same way.

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Speaker 4: So I just like took a shower, took a pregnancy test,

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Speaker 4: I was like, yes, I'm a woman. I know that

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Speaker 2: He had, the one with the lines, so he doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Like the one with the line like pregnant, the one

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Speaker 4: that I gave him in the gift box.

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Speaker 5: Whatever, was that pregnant? He needs words? So whatever.

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Speaker 4: But then a couple of weeks a week without my period,

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Speaker 4: he started to believe it. It's been a lot better,

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Speaker 4: but poor Jared now has to deal with pregnant Ashley.

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Speaker 5: It's not that great, babe, No, that's not great.

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Speaker 2: But I'll be fun. I'm fun.

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Speaker 5: We had this question in the Good Advice this week.

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Speaker 5: It was just like.

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Speaker 4: My Ben was like, you have to like, you know,

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Speaker 4: like you know, and said no, no, no, no, like as

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Speaker 4: like vice versa. You know, you have to like care

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Speaker 5: And I was like, and I wanted to be like.

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Speaker 4: Ben I I say audios to like wife hould while

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Speaker 4: I'm pregnant, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: Like, I'm like, i'll see you in nine months.

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Speaker 4: Every time I offer Jared to be like, I could

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Speaker 4: go live at my parents.

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Speaker 5: You don't have to deal and see with me see

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Speaker 5: me like this, I mean.

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Speaker 2: I definitely give it a second thought for a good

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well right now, you can't. Like I'm not going

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Speaker 4: actually do it, but like it would be like nice,

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Speaker 4: you know, and then you'd be so excited to see

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Speaker 4: me once the baby came.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I didn't see you for like yeah seven

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Speaker 2: he's so fresh, and then like the great you know,

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Speaker 2: distance makes a hard crew fonder.

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Speaker 5: Yeah I know.

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Speaker 4: So anyway, guys, this is just who I am when

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Speaker 4: I'm pregnant. I don't I don't feel good on the inside.

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Speaker 5: I don't, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Stop that, I mean, I do you know, I don't

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Speaker 5: On the inside. So like that you don't feel good

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Speaker 5: and then sucks.

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Speaker 4: I don't and then I don't feel like I look

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Speaker 4: I just you're real sick.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with just being like, yeah, I'm sick,

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Speaker 2: I'm bloated. I feel like crap, I'm throwing up.

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Speaker 5: My face is blown, like you know, like I know it.

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Speaker 4: I have almost fifteen pounds, so it's like, who knows

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Speaker 4: when it's gonna look you do. I look like I've

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Speaker 5: I'm you know, it's.

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Speaker 4: You're growing life inside. But like I don't feel my best.

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Speaker 4: So when I don't feel my best, then I don't

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Speaker 4: This is what happens to me. If I don't feel

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Speaker 5: And so that was evident at the Golden Backs.

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Speaker 2: It was the lighting.

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Speaker 4: Well, guys, the Golden Bachelor wedding was the worst day

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Speaker 2: But that was really I mean, you've been that was

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Speaker 5: In the waters aren't next When that's sneeze.

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Speaker 5: Pee when I cough.

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Speaker 4: And I cough when I'm nauseous, and you hate that

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Speaker 5: It's not all, no, it is, it is. I would

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Speaker 5: No, he doesn't like it. When I dry heave, it's.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, you're cough. It's first of all,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because no one's around.

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Speaker 5: It's not a germy cough either.

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Speaker 2: It's not germs.

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: No, you can have a child, you know. And I'm like,

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Speaker 4: And every time I peed my pants, so I would

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Speaker 4: No, I was genuinely happy that Jared got to go

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so much fun. But it made me

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yea, yeah, I we're very nervous.

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Speaker 2: Well, just because like everybody tells us, and I always

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Speaker 5: Six months to move to Virginia.

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Speaker 2: Six months to move to Virginia, get my affairs in

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Speaker 5: That would be his gift for moving to my family.

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Speaker 4: It's a good time, all right, guys, Well, thank you

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Speaker 4: We appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Caring and appreciate the support.

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Speaker 5: Like it's it's unreal, Like it's just crazy.

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Speaker 2: It is crazy. Anybody who watched them the Amazon Live.

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Speaker 2: Ashley and I want you guys to know what that

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Speaker 2: told him to Mike. He say, football, you just disconnect.

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