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Speaker 1: But have you heard I'm sure you've heard of the
Speaker 1: site Only Fans correct, of course, right, sexy get you get.
Speaker 2: Sexy things? Did Chris Did Chris Brown have one? Did
Speaker 2: I make that out?
Speaker 1: I don't know he does have one. So anyway, Only
Speaker 1: Fans was known for those of you who are like,
Speaker 1: ah my Christian ears for being like basically the subscription
Speaker 1: site where you could follow folks and basically pay them
Speaker 1: for like stuff that they would put behind a paywall.
Speaker 1: Now I didn't have to be like sex related things,
Speaker 1: but quite honestly, that's how they got known. A lot
Speaker 1: of sex workers you know, went to only fans and
Speaker 1: like you know, and the truth is it provided a
Speaker 1: safe space because you know, one, you know, COVID was
Speaker 1: out and about two you know, I'm sure as you
Speaker 1: guys know, being a sex worker is dangerous because someone
Speaker 1: could kill you, rape you, take advantage of you. It
Speaker 1: allowed people to have ownership because there are some sex workers,
Speaker 1: unfortunately that have people who feel like they have dominion
Speaker 1: over their bodies, you know. But here was like I
Speaker 1: get to decide in a safe space what I want
Speaker 1: to do or not do. So however you feel about
Speaker 1: sex work, I'm not here to judge one way or
Speaker 1: the other. But I'm just giving you guys the backstory.
Speaker 1: Now only fans really blew up as a result of
Speaker 1: sex workers, and they've made millions. And some sex workers
Speaker 1: were making like six figures a month, you know, people
Speaker 1: paying like five ten bucks a month to see their
Speaker 1: feet or whatever, you know. And now only fans and
Speaker 1: all their raggediness has decided that they gonna be KFC
Speaker 1: without chicken, Popeyes without the biscuit, a black hair dresser
Speaker 1: without the weight. You already know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: I went natural because I couldn't wait no more. But no,
Speaker 1: for real that they are kicking off.
Speaker 2: Wait, I was like the weight you calling them?
Speaker 1: Oh, yes, you like the way you know You're like,
Speaker 1: they're like, we'll come at six am. Girl, you don't
Speaker 1: get into that seat until nine.
Speaker 2: Oh, we're just gonna put you under the dryer.
Speaker 1: So but I'll just say this the like, so what
Speaker 1: do you think about that? Mandy? And I've read it's
Speaker 1: because only fans is like wanting obviously to get either
Speaker 1: access to additional capital and traditional capital. Feels very like
Speaker 1: although I'm sure all those men with access to traditional capital
Speaker 1: is on only fans getting a life.
Speaker 2: But you know, you didn't tell me what chicken was.
Speaker 2: We got caught up on the.
Speaker 1: Now I said. I said chicken for like Popeyes without No,
Speaker 1: I said KFC without chicken, Popeyes without the biscuit.
Speaker 2: So they're getting rid of like you can't put sexy
Speaker 2: stuff on it anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're kicking off. They said, no more sex stuff
Speaker 1: what they want, So they want like Hilson, which I'm like,
Speaker 1: that's not what only pants. It's almost like going to
Speaker 1: pornhub and being like oh no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: more porn here because they want to attract I guess
Speaker 1: more traditional means of capital money. So I was just thinking, like,
Speaker 1: what do you think about that? That letting this particular
Speaker 1: you know, segment of the population sex workers build up
Speaker 1: their their platform, like like honestly Tumblr, right, So it's
Speaker 1: my understanding that Tumblr. I did not know this, but
Speaker 1: there was a huge, you know, adult component to Tumblr.
Speaker 1: Tumblr was sold to who who bought Tumblr? I want
Speaker 1: to save a Verizon?
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody, but the Horizon, right, like.
Speaker 1: For like a billion dollars and then Yahoo was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, no more sexy time. So as
Speaker 1: a result, everybody left Tumblr and then they sold it
Speaker 1: to Rizon for three million. Can you imagine buying something
Speaker 1: for a billion? So after kicking off, you know, the
Speaker 1: adult element, and so now only fans is going to
Speaker 1: kick off their adult element. Do you think one that
Speaker 1: it's okay? And and two do you think they're going
Speaker 1: to be able to survive this because that's what they're
Speaker 1: known for.
Speaker 2: I mean, businesses are gonna business no matter what. So
Speaker 2: it doesn't sound like it's illegal. It sounds shisty, and
Speaker 2: it sucks because I read stories about how during the pandemic,
Speaker 2: especially when you know, sex work just wasn't really as possible,
Speaker 2: it was even less safe. And on top of that,
Speaker 2: you know exotic dancer strippers, you know, they were actually
Speaker 2: bringing in an income by building a fan base on OnlyFans,
Speaker 2: and for them it was actually a way to make money.
Speaker 2: And yeah, I mean judgment free zone, you know, as
Speaker 2: far as how they're making money, but it sucks. It
Speaker 2: definitely sucks. I wonder how like prescriptive they're going to
Speaker 2: be about what kind of content you know, how on
Speaker 2: Instagram basically anything but a nipple is okay. I see
Speaker 2: some stuff on ig and I'm just like, what is
Speaker 2: this follow It seems like everyone's tits an ass are
Speaker 2: out now because that's like the look, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean, like celebrities and influencers or whoever. Anyway, it's
Speaker 2: it's like sex sells and people are obsessed with building
Speaker 2: their their I mean, you're not going to see any
Speaker 2: of that on Mandy Money. I'm sorry. I mean you'll
Speaker 2: have to be a little bit better first, But.
Speaker 1: So only fans actually vote a tweet on August twenty first,
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this real? It is? It says dear
Speaker 1: sex workers. The only Fans community would not be what
Speaker 1: it is today without you. The policy change was necessary
Speaker 1: to secure banking and payment services to support you. We
Speaker 1: are working around the clock to come up with solutions,
Speaker 1: are they though.
Speaker 2: Because they already seem to like take the banks money.
Speaker 1: Yes, run so people are like, so instead of dropping
Speaker 1: Visa and Massacre, you chose to drop us, the people
Speaker 1: who put your platform on the map. You never promoted
Speaker 1: us only random fitness instructors and celebrities. We brought the
Speaker 1: traffic and you kicked us to the curb instead of
Speaker 1: standing up for us against the payment services platform.
Speaker 2: I'm like the time for them to start their Patreon account.
Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to think of other ways a good
Speaker 2: a sub stack. Crazy. Sex is just sex and menstrual
Speaker 2: periods are like the two biggest taboos. It's like corporate
Speaker 2: America does not want to give any money to these
Speaker 2: two causes. It's a it's a shame A.
Speaker 1: Sex Work of Rope wrote like, all you super conservative
Speaker 1: people who wanted to get rid of you know, like
Speaker 1: only fans, and now we're just going to have to
Speaker 1: have sex with your husbands again. I was like, Sis,
Speaker 1: you had to do them like that's She was like,
Speaker 1: what you think, who do you think supporting us? You know,
Speaker 1: like and I'm just like wow that, you know, It's
Speaker 1: what's so crazy to me. I remember like reading the
Speaker 1: stat or something. I was like watching a video where
Speaker 1: they were saying that, you know, as much as people
Speaker 1: pretend to be conservative in their outward lives, someone said
Speaker 1: that when church conventions come to hotels that they actually
Speaker 1: see a spike in pornography sales on like you know,
Speaker 1: like which I mean, And so it's just really hypocritical. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm not here to judge what you
Speaker 1: do or how you do as a grown person with
Speaker 1: other grown people. You know, that's consensual, but you know
Speaker 1: people love to judge and then they you know, then
Speaker 1: you look at their history, their computer history, and you're like,
Speaker 1: oh wow a system, Mary Clarence.
Speaker 2: I mean, it just it just really yeah. It just
Speaker 2: underlines and underscores why sex work is so dangerous because
Speaker 2: people will only admit that they pay for it or
Speaker 2: that it just it lives in the margins, and then
Speaker 2: they are by doing this, they are again marginalizing this
Speaker 2: sex work. And even if the people running these VC
Speaker 2: firms and these financial institutions that are backing only fans,
Speaker 2: they don't want to back them, you know, publicly. But
Speaker 2: I bet you people who work there would have no
Speaker 2: problem in the margins, you know, in the dark corners
Speaker 2: taking advantage of you know, women or other people who
Speaker 2: are offering these services or this content, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean, in a place that they wouldn't have any
Speaker 2: oversight and they'd be less safe in doing so. So
Speaker 2: just another step back for giving sex workers the protection
Speaker 2: you know, and the visibility that makes the profession a
Speaker 2: little bit more safe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I thought that. I was just like, well,
Speaker 1: we'll see, we'll see if this is another tumbler moment
Speaker 1: where if this you know, if sex workers leave in
Speaker 1: masks and only fans, if they're even able. Because here's
Speaker 1: the thing, like I wouldn't start at only fans, like
Speaker 1: you know, you and I talked about starting a Patreon
Speaker 1: for brand Ambition, which we've done it y'all will see soon, okay,
Speaker 1: But you know, like if we had it never even
Speaker 1: occurred to me, well, oh, Mandy, we should start an
Speaker 1: only fans for Brown Ambission, Like you'd be like, what
Speaker 1: because I associate only fans with sex work which is fine,
Speaker 1: but I would say that's not a platform that that
Speaker 1: Branna vission falls under. So I don't even know if
Speaker 1: they're going to be able to attract you know, like
Speaker 1: and I don't know. I guess time will tell if
Speaker 1: they'll be able to attract enough traffic new kind of
Speaker 1: traffic to not be Tumblr. So we else.
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say I was there when y'all
Speaker 2: who bought Tumblr? Yeah, that was Mandy's heyday. It was
Speaker 2: quite sad, quite sad.
Speaker 1: Now, did you have you heard of broke Bobby?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Ooh girl, I'm barely on social I was just catch
Speaker 1: a girl. Okay, let me, let me set the set
Speaker 1: the stage. So youngish white dude, I think he's right,
Speaker 1: goals on TikTok and says, hey guys, me and my
Speaker 1: friends created this spreadsheet to try to figure out if
Speaker 1: we can go on vacation. Here's what the spreadsheet looks like.
Speaker 1: It's a list of I want to say, maybe like
Speaker 1: twenty friends and it says their name, their income. The
Speaker 1: highest paid friend is five million dollars a year. The
Speaker 1: lowest paid friend is one hundred and twenty five thousand
Speaker 1: dollars a year. Like they have paid time off, if
Speaker 1: they're gonna get maybe like any like bonuses they also have,
Speaker 1: if they're willing to go to a third world country,
Speaker 1: if they are willing to pry fly private, how much
Speaker 1: they're willing to spend on a one day vacation, a
Speaker 1: seven day vacation versus a three day vacation, if they
Speaker 1: have a significant other, So something.
Speaker 2: In the organization. This is like, I wish my friend
Speaker 2: group had a friend like this.
Speaker 1: No, you don't. We're gonna back it on up because
Speaker 1: this guy says so. The guy on here, I'm guessing
Speaker 1: he his name is t Cruz, and it looks like
Speaker 1: he's probably number three on the list. He makes three
Speaker 1: million plus a year, right, the last guy on the
Speaker 1: list who makes one hundred and twenty five thousand dollars
Speaker 1: a year. His name on here is broke Bobby. That's
Speaker 1: what he called. That's what they call him because broke
Speaker 1: Bobby makes a hundred and twenty five thousand dollars a year,
Speaker 1: and Kiki Key, isn't that so funny because he's poor
Speaker 1: and any one of their friends that there's about ten
Speaker 1: friends that make an under a hundred and they call
Speaker 1: them the welfare ten because just when you're like, ohh.
Speaker 2: Why is their income need to be on this spreadsheet?
Speaker 1: Exactly because they want to see whose penis is bigger obviously.
Speaker 2: And they have to like self report there. I have
Speaker 2: a lot of thoughts. I actually did see this. I
Speaker 2: didn't know that his name was broke Bobby. I'm sorry
Speaker 2: I saw something on this making its way across TikTok. I.
Speaker 2: First of all, pay transparency among friends cool. I'm kind
Speaker 2: of down with that, which I think that's dope. I've
Speaker 2: always had. I always had that one friend who I
Speaker 2: would actually tell what I was earning to and vice versa.
Speaker 2: That's good, but no, not if you're gonna make people
Speaker 2: feel bad for where they're at compared to you. I mean,
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, broke Bobby needs some new friends unless they're
Speaker 2: gonna pay for all of his vacations. And that's why
Speaker 2: he's friends with them.
Speaker 1: And so some people were like, wait, I make that
Speaker 1: I'm the rich one in my friend or you know,
Speaker 1: I think there's a statistic statistic that says, like, you know,
Speaker 1: the average American makes like less than one quarter of
Speaker 1: what quote unquote broke Bobby is bringing in. And there's
Speaker 1: a lot of other problematic things like willing to go
Speaker 1: to a third world country, like what is that about?
Speaker 1: And then there was one interesting component where it was
Speaker 1: like they said, like, you know, are you single married girlfriend?
Speaker 1: One guy was seventy percent single whatever that means. I'm
Speaker 1: sure his girlfriend is thrilled.
Speaker 2: It's this a joke, now, jo No, and why did
Speaker 2: they publish it? I have so many questions.
Speaker 1: Yes, so I honestly I think that obviously the guy
Speaker 1: who published it wanted to show, hey, look at me,
Speaker 1: I make three million dollars a year, you know, And
Speaker 1: he later on came back on and said, oh, you
Speaker 1: guys are so sensitive. It's an inside joke. Now, here's
Speaker 1: the thing about inside jokes. They're meant for inside. TikTok
Speaker 1: is outside. And maybe Bobby doesn't want everybody to know
Speaker 1: or his business, or even your friends for people to
Speaker 1: know their business. Because some friends, you know, you have
Speaker 1: their real names on here how much they make, and
Speaker 1: you know, if they're in a relationship, you know, the
Speaker 1: person with the friend, the person in the seventy percent
Speaker 1: relationship with with that person might be like oh wow,
Speaker 1: And so I don't know, I think raking your friend
Speaker 1: it seemed less like, because here's the thing to me,
Speaker 1: if it was really Mandy, for like, hey, Mandy, you
Speaker 1: and ten of our friends we're trying to decide on
Speaker 1: vacations every year. Why can't you just say, in the
Speaker 1: beginning of the year, here's my vacation budget. Now, yes,
Speaker 1: having knowing how much you make whatever something that we
Speaker 1: might talk about. But to pretend like this sheet is
Speaker 1: to figure out if we can go on vacation. I
Speaker 1: don't need to know how much you make, you know,
Speaker 1: if I'm just figuring out your vacation budget, you know,
Speaker 1: like you might say.
Speaker 2: It can't even matter how much you make. It's more
Speaker 2: about what's your cash flow, what's your Never salary is
Speaker 2: not the whole story. We're so obsessed with salary.
Speaker 1: Yes we are. And it's just and I just thought
Speaker 1: the fact that like calling somebody broke Bobby, it's just
Speaker 1: also too It's like, are we quantifying how important our
Speaker 1: friends are to us? It seems like you get to
Speaker 1: be at the top of the wrong if you make
Speaker 1: the most, but you might be like the worst friend
Speaker 1: or like the friend that's like you know, least available,
Speaker 1: or you know, like it's just yeah, you know and
Speaker 1: I just was like, wow, so yeah, so broke Bobby's
Speaker 1: trending for all the wrong reasons. And it's just I
Speaker 1: just thought like, oh, so the guy's name is he's
Speaker 1: a real estate agent. His name is Tom Cruise, and
Speaker 1: I just think, quite honestly, he wanted people to see
Speaker 1: how much he makes. And he said, like, for example,
Speaker 1: he said, I if the trip and I get this.
Speaker 1: If there's gonna be a trip that's going to cost
Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars and a friend only wanted to spend five,
Speaker 1: he wouldn't invite them. But you don't need all this
Speaker 1: back information in order to know. That's just something to ask, Hey,
Speaker 1: this trip is going to cost five do you want
Speaker 1: to come? That's it, And then people can decide from
Speaker 1: themselves versus you trying to publicly shame them so you
Speaker 1: can say, hey, look at me, I make good money.
Speaker 2: This one goes out to all that broke Bobby. It's
Speaker 2: the broke Brenda's the broke Brandon's out there. But the
Speaker 2: dynamic in your friend group, and not even in friends group,
Speaker 2: but in family groups, when your income starts to surpass
Speaker 2: a certain like starts to surpass what's normal in your group.
Speaker 2: I mean that can make things awkward. And I even
Speaker 2: like had posted about this recently. The more transparent I've
Speaker 2: become about my income, I have had people reach out
Speaker 2: to me, like even friends or just randos from the internet,
Speaker 2: which is fine, and ask you know, aren't you worried
Speaker 2: about people knowing your net worth or how much you
Speaker 2: make or that you're successful and whatnot? And I guess
Speaker 2: I just made a decision that I'm not worried. And
Speaker 2: their insinuation is that once people know how much you make,
Speaker 2: they're just going to come and ask you for things,
Speaker 2: you know, ask for money. That has not been my
Speaker 2: situation at all. But even if it were, what else
Speaker 2: is the money for if not to create a comfortable
Speaker 2: life and to help others you know, when I need it.
Speaker 2: Call me a dirty liberal socialist whatever you want to
Speaker 2: call me, but I'm not here to I'm not here
Speaker 2: to hide it as if there's only enough for me
Speaker 2: and there's not enough for anyone else. Like the whole point,
Speaker 2: And I think what can be inspiring to a way
Speaker 2: of looking at so if you're the broke Bobby and
Speaker 2: your friend group, instead of maybe comparing yourself and feeling down,
Speaker 2: look at it more as Okay, this is what's possible,
Speaker 2: and maybe I should ask so and so some questions
Speaker 2: about how they approach their finances or do they even
Speaker 2: you know, you make three million dollars a year? Do
Speaker 2: you like your job? Are you happy? Those are the
Speaker 2: questions I'd be asking on top of that, you know,
Speaker 2: do you maybe.
Speaker 1: Are you guys hiding? Shoot? Because if you're taking home
Speaker 1: for you a million, you know, my assumption is your
Speaker 1: business is maybe making twenty million, you know. And so
Speaker 1: you're right. I don't think inherently having a sheet or
Speaker 1: talking about your finances your friends is a bad thing.
Speaker 1: I think using it as a way to shame and
Speaker 1: say I am inherently better than you because I make more.
Speaker 1: That's not true. Yeah, that's is not true. You're not
Speaker 1: in you know, because that was the tone. Like I
Speaker 1: look at Brooke, Bobby. He can't go anywhere with us,
Speaker 1: he he And it's just like that's your friend, that's
Speaker 1: your manson them. What if they call the others the
Speaker 1: welfare the welfare ten, anybody who made less.
Speaker 2: Than welfare ten. That's highly offensive to anyone who's ever
Speaker 2: gotten public benefits, because they're that's just stupid and offensive.
Speaker 2: I mean, this also reminds me of that that guy
Speaker 2: on TikTok who goes around to people's big mansions and
Speaker 2: knocks on their door and says, oh hi. You know,
Speaker 2: first of all, he had to be white. There's no
Speaker 2: way to.
Speaker 1: Imagine call the police like the neighbors across the.
Speaker 2: Streets, just like the little the little curtain moves or
Speaker 2: no one ever comes. But anyway, he's a nice guy.
Speaker 2: I just want to know what you do for a living.
Speaker 2: Your home is so beautiful and it bothers me so
Speaker 2: damn much. And I and it took me a while
Speaker 2: to realize why this series pissed me off so much.
Speaker 2: And it's just because it doesn't matter what kind of
Speaker 2: house you have. There are plenty of millionaires next door
Speaker 2: who do not have the spectacular mansions. And I wish why, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I wish that he would knock on some regular ass
Speaker 2: people's homes and say, hey, what's your net worth? Or
Speaker 2: just knock on the mansion, you know, knock on the
Speaker 2: people's mansion and say, just wondering, you know, what's your
Speaker 2: cash flow? Like, are you are your house poor? I
Speaker 2: know they're not gonna tell, but it just gives us
Speaker 2: perception that and still in America, like this idealization of
Speaker 2: like the home being the like the trophy of all
Speaker 2: trophies for success, and how so many people's version of success.
Speaker 2: You could have a millionaire living in a tiny home,
Speaker 2: you know, or a tree house in the in the
Speaker 2: forest or whatever. I just I don't like it because
Speaker 2: I feel like it does proliferate that idea that wealth
Speaker 2: is home ownership and spectacular homeownership is the way to wealth,
Speaker 2: because that is just not the case.
Speaker 1: Yes, or that's a that's a result of because I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I could have a mansion if I wanted it.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I'll have to live in a mansion. Certainly,
Speaker 1: this is probably not our final house, but maybe the
Speaker 1: next house, you know. And the only thing different I like,
Speaker 1: the size of this house is twenty two hundred square feet,
Speaker 1: which is not huge. It's only three of us, and
Speaker 1: the Lista's gonna be going away to college soon, so
Speaker 1: it's gonna be like two of us. So I don't
Speaker 1: want some huge base. I never see my husband. But
Speaker 1: we went to a house this weekend and their house
Speaker 1: was about the same size of ours. And that they
Speaker 1: had a pool, and I was like, you know, what
Speaker 1: if when we do get a next house, I would
Speaker 1: like a pool because the pool was really nice. It
Speaker 1: was in ground and it was salt water. It was
Speaker 1: just a record pool. But she just switched it out
Speaker 1: for salt water. But I thought, hmmm, because I grew
Speaker 1: up with a big backyard and I kind of missed
Speaker 1: that because we don't have a big backyard here with
Speaker 1: grass and stuff, and so ours is all paved and
Speaker 1: so that's probably like the next move because I think
Speaker 1: one of the reasons why I've been spending less time
Speaker 1: on social media. So if you've been following me lately,
Speaker 1: you know that, like I've been doing lives when I
Speaker 1: feel like it. But at the at the suggestion of
Speaker 1: doctor Green, my coach and she's also a therapist, she said,
Speaker 1: you know, like cause I was just like, I've just
Speaker 1: I go on social media and then you see terrible
Speaker 1: things like someone's being killed or harassed, or people are
Speaker 1: posting in ways it's just not edifying to me anymore.
Speaker 1: It used to be so much fun, but it's not.
Speaker 1: But I told her I missed like teaching, you know,
Speaker 1: and lives where they're one of the main ways that
Speaker 1: I used to like teach. If I learned a lesson,
Speaker 1: I would teach it, whether it's financial education lesson, a
Speaker 1: lesson in business. And she suggested why not go live
Speaker 1: and then come off? And I tried, but I found
Speaker 1: myself like, you know, like cause it's almost like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's that one bag of chips. So then I try this.
Speaker 1: I go live, and then I actually take the app
Speaker 1: off my phone, so I uninstall the app, so it
Speaker 1: for me to go scroll again, I have to like
Speaker 1: go actively install it, and so that's helped tremendously. So
Speaker 1: I have found myself going live more and more. So
Speaker 1: I've been doing like cause I get a lot of
Speaker 1: requests for people to mentor for me to mentor people,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, I don't have as much capacity,
Speaker 1: but during the lives, because I don't say them to
Speaker 1: the I just go live and I come off. I
Speaker 1: don't save them to the feed. During the lives, I've
Speaker 1: just been doing like mentorship and it's been so much
Speaker 1: fun where somebody will like, you know, send me a
Speaker 1: question about there. Typically for me, most of my lives
Speaker 1: revolve around personal finance and but largely business you know,
Speaker 1: and I get to answer these questions that normally I
Speaker 1: would only have like about five mentees that I talk
Speaker 1: to on a weekly basis. And so I've just been
Speaker 1: really enjoying it and that's been my way to kind
Speaker 1: of like protect my peace but then doing something that
Speaker 1: I really enjoy which is like this kind of like
Speaker 1: digital mentorship viaized. But then I get to jump off
Speaker 1: and like, you know, take my you know, take myself
Speaker 1: off Instagram and let the team do what they do.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I just there has to be ways around
Speaker 1: figuring out how you get to show up for you
Speaker 1: so you can be a millionaire and say I don't
Speaker 1: want the big house. I feel like it's so hard
Speaker 1: for us to be cause people, you know, we all
Speaker 1: kind of follow the trends and sometimes it's really not
Speaker 1: to our benefit, you know. Like I had to ask myself, Okay, Tiffany,
Speaker 1: like you want to I always say baby millionaire, but
Speaker 1: I only say that because it makes me uncomfortable. But
Speaker 1: the truth is I'm not a baby millionaire. I'm just
Speaker 1: a millionaire millionaire, you know, And like, okay, and I
Speaker 1: don't necessarily want the big old house. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: is that wrong? I have like, like literally, I was
Speaker 1: picking up a young woman from the train station who
Speaker 1: wanted to be my mentee, and she said, what does
Speaker 1: she say, because my car is a two thousand and
Speaker 1: I want to say fifteen or sixteen Lincoln MKZ right.
Speaker 2: Fer standards, it's a luxury. Yeah, because you were driving
Speaker 2: glorified scrap metal before for real.
Speaker 1: But she was like, wow, you are so humble. I
Speaker 1: was like, what do you mean? She was like this car.
Speaker 1: I was like, meanwhile, I was like, I'm not Evenna.
Speaker 2: Just said nothing. I was trying to be humble.
Speaker 1: I was like, like, my car, this is I'm not
Speaker 1: making a humble statement. I was like, but this car
Speaker 1: is cute though it's sporting.
Speaker 2: You called the budgetista. It's in your title, okay.
Speaker 1: But she was making like a statement like look at
Speaker 1: me a little broke down core out here. And I
Speaker 1: was like, get out my car. But no, But I want.
Speaker 1: What I'm wanting for everyone is to kind of decide
Speaker 1: for themselves how they want their life to go, despot
Speaker 1: what your bank account might say. You know, now, if
Speaker 1: your bank accounts holding you back, I'm living their life
Speaker 1: that you want. Obviously, you want to make a move there,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I just and for me it just pulling
Speaker 1: off social media. It's helping me become more aware of
Speaker 1: how do you actually want to live, Tiffany, despite what
Speaker 1: your bank account might say, like how do you align that?
Speaker 2: You know, I discovered a very handy tool if you
Speaker 2: do not want to have to go through the trouble
Speaker 2: of deleting apps or whatnot, and if you have some
Speaker 2: amount of self control on your iPhone, at least you
Speaker 2: can set a time limit for your apps. So I've
Speaker 2: now set a one hour TikTok and a one hour
Speaker 2: Instagram limit, and it is embarrassing to me how quickly
Speaker 2: I reach it. For example, when I wake up in
Speaker 2: the middle of the night for whatever reason and I
Speaker 2: can't go back to sleep, I usually get on TikTok
Speaker 2: and then yesterday it was like it wasn't even daylight yet,
Speaker 2: and it's like, your limit has been reached for the day. Meanwhile,
Speaker 2: I know I had some tiktoks. Most later you're like, say,
Speaker 2: how I just really like extraction videos. But anyway, so
Speaker 2: that's a good hack and it has saved me because
Speaker 2: my screen time between that and uh Rio wanting to
Speaker 2: use my phone to watch TV all the time to
Speaker 2: watch Pepa. My screen time was like seven hours a day.
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, he's gonna have an accent now,
Speaker 1: but you know you remember all the kids that we are.
Speaker 2: Oh he's not, but we will because we go around
Speaker 2: the house just yelling dad, day peg, take out the garbage.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, yeah, my niece.
Speaker 1: I'm always like, are you Canadian? Because a million my
Speaker 1: niece's four, her accent is like what are you watching?
Speaker 1: So my sister calls it ratchet baby TV. She's like,
Speaker 1: a million likes ratchet baby TV. I'm like, what is
Speaker 1: ratchet baby TV? So apparently there's like reality shows but
Speaker 1: for babies who like, you know, like so she likes
Speaker 1: to watch like like you know, like if you're watching
Speaker 1: Real Housewives, it's like grown women doing row women things.
Speaker 1: So she will. There are shows where kids who were
Speaker 1: her age play with toys and interact with each other
Speaker 1: that there are four and five, and so she doesn't
Speaker 1: like roam in. Her brother, who six, likes to watch
Speaker 1: educational TV, but she's like, no, I want to see
Speaker 1: these kids play these tools. Oh, look at them in
Speaker 1: the pool. Okay, splash. I call it ratchet baby TV.
Speaker 1: I'm like, but you need to learn something. She's like,
Speaker 1: I want to see my friends. But yeah, but no,
Speaker 1: it's just really like, yeah, it's interesting, how you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes you can wake up and find that you might
Speaker 1: not be living actually your life, just someone else's idea
Speaker 1: of life and resetting because social media really almost encourages that.
Speaker 1: And so whatever your tools are, whether it's your off
Speaker 1: social medium, for the most part, you have that timer.
Speaker 1: Like Mandy said, I wanted there's a timer y'all. Let
Speaker 1: us know. Is there a timer like that for androids?
Speaker 1: I wonder if there is.
Speaker 2: TikTok itself has a time or functional in the app. Yeah,
Speaker 2: in the settings you can. And they also not that
Speaker 2: I know, but if you're scrolling in the wee hours
Speaker 2: of the morning, they actually will still one of the
Speaker 2: videos you get will eventually be Hey, you don't worry,
Speaker 2: those videos will be either tomorrow.
Speaker 1: When does she go to bed? I know you're like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm like, let me good night, TikTok. Just
Speaker 2: one more extraction video, pimple pop yo, I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: can don't get me started. Okay, we only have so
Speaker 2: much time for this show.
Speaker 1: I love extraction videos.
Speaker 2: But I am obsessed. There's something so satisfying about the
Speaker 2: really good ones and doctor pimple Popper I know, but
Speaker 2: she doesn't update fast enough, so I need I go
Speaker 2: to like I go to like the discount section of TikTok.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm just like, what are you doing? Where
Speaker 1: are your gloves? Where's your tools? I'm like, but yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I don't. That is so strange that people like are obsessed.
Speaker 1: You would never know. Social media has brought like remember
Speaker 1: a s m R. No one knew, and then social
Speaker 1: media brought that to the forefront. Like yo, there are
Speaker 1: people who that sound. All of that makes you.
Speaker 2: Start fiending for it around midnight if I'm still awake
Speaker 2: and it's like, let me get let me see a
Speaker 2: couple ingrown hairs. It's disgusting, all right.
Speaker 1: That that's what we make The transition to a brin
Speaker 1: boosting and breaking. Okay, now it's time to boost up.
Speaker 1: Oh boost up, oh boost oh break, oh boot break.
Speaker 1: For those who don't know, many like real rhythm, okay,
Speaker 1: oh yeah yeah, I also did. I saw you dancing
Speaker 1: on tick I said, oh that's right, man. He show
Speaker 1: them that you hear the beat, you feel the beat,
Speaker 1: you move to the beat.
Speaker 2: Okay, tell me you did zoomba all through college without
Speaker 2: telling me. Yeah, I have the rhythm of like a
Speaker 2: nice like your you know, sixty year old aunt.
Speaker 1: No, no, you got good with them. I'm like, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: don't don't do that to yourself. You got good with it,
Speaker 1: I said, look at man, so thank you. Except are
Speaker 1: we gonna boost? Are you going to to break on? Today?
Speaker 2: I would like to do a boost and a break
Speaker 2: please scuse you?
Speaker 1: Got me doing now? All right? Pepa? Come on, PEPs.
Speaker 2: That is so embarrassing. I cannot even Oh my god,
Speaker 2: my cousin's gonna give me so much shit for that,
Speaker 2: because oh, we're just like, we can't become these people. Anyway.
Speaker 2: I want to do a boost first and foremost, because
Speaker 2: we're on the TikTok theme. I have got to boost
Speaker 2: my favorite TikToker, Alexis Nicole, the black female forager on
Speaker 2: TikTok Woman. She is. She is a gift. She is
Speaker 2: a gift to the universe. I cannot wait for her
Speaker 2: cooking show on Netflix. I'm going to manifest it for her,
Speaker 2: but she will she literally, I mean, and first of all,
Speaker 2: she is just entertaining as hell, because she runs out
Speaker 2: into nature or her backyard or your backyard or these
Speaker 2: random street corners and finds edible food, finds edible plants, plants, fungi,
Speaker 2: all this stuff and flowers and whatnot. And she comes
Speaker 2: back and she does like a mini cooking show, and
Speaker 2: she'll cook something like a plant cracker or like a
Speaker 2: seaweed cracker or whatever. But she is so entertaining and
Speaker 2: so full of life and energy and just joy. And
Speaker 2: what I love most about her is that I was.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: I took Rio on a bike ride the other day.
Speaker 2: I just you know, down this just regular bike path
Speaker 2: near our house, and I was so happy being on
Speaker 2: a bike with my son for one thing. But I
Speaker 2: was looking at these weeds and these like things growing,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, is that it is that Queen
Speaker 2: Anne's lace. I could make some fried cauliflower, you know,
Speaker 2: substitute with that, you know, or I'm seeing, you know,
Speaker 2: even just on my walk, She's making me look and
Speaker 2: enjoy nature in a way that I hadn't been doing
Speaker 2: it so far. So she's truly educating Alexis Nicole. If
Speaker 2: you don't follow her, she's on Tiktoks.
Speaker 1: And she's someone she has an institute because I feel
Speaker 1: like I've seen.
Speaker 2: Her probably I feel like everyone kind of repost stuff
Speaker 2: from TikTok on Insta, but TikTok is where she lives,
Speaker 2: and she's so funny and smart. And The New York
Speaker 2: Times had featured her recently in a story about the
Speaker 2: resurgence of foraging and all that. Yeah, love it, love it,
Speaker 2: go ahead, And then just a quick breaking break because
Speaker 2: I struck a bit of a chord when I was pitching.
Speaker 2: And so I'm a Yahoo Finance contributor. Now I mean
Speaker 2: not to speaking back, not to sneak another boost in there,
Speaker 2: but I was pitching ideas because now I'm going to
Speaker 2: be writing an article that I want to write which
Speaker 2: is so exciting, so topics that I like, and then
Speaker 2: also appearing on their Yahoo Finance Live segment once a week.
Speaker 2: And anyway, I was pitching ideas. Struck a little bit
Speaker 2: of a chord this week because people still are hung
Speaker 2: up on this myth that job hopping switching jobs is
Speaker 2: going to make you unemployable, and that recruiters will look
Speaker 2: at your resume and be like, ooh, I don't know
Speaker 2: five jobs and ten years. Can't trust this one. She's shifty.
Speaker 2: And I'm excited to do the story because I'm ready
Speaker 2: to bust this myth. Wide open, wide open. I have
Speaker 2: had seven jobs in ten years, seven and I have
Speaker 2: not I haven't quit all of them. I quit most
Speaker 2: of them. I was laid off once. That sucked. But
Speaker 2: you definitely can job hop. And what I'm trying to
Speaker 2: get a what I'm trying to get across is that
Speaker 2: one corporate America would love or not any I mean
Speaker 2: just anyone who relies on employees for their work, nonprofit,
Speaker 2: small business, big corporations, they would love if we believe this,
Speaker 2: because it means that we'll be reliable and we're gonna
Speaker 2: stick around. So I'm not. And first of all, as
Speaker 2: a hiring manager who hired dozens of people and used
Speaker 2: to run a team, I get it. It sucks when
Speaker 2: people quit and you have to go and do the
Speaker 2: work of recruiting all over again. That is part and
Speaker 2: parcel with being a manager and having a business. But
Speaker 2: from the employees perspective, it is so important to job hop,
Speaker 2: not just because you have you stand to earn such
Speaker 2: big pay raises when you job from when you jump
Speaker 2: from one job to the next, but you have to
Speaker 2: put your career ambitions and your career goals, and if
Speaker 2: you are not getting what you need from a job,
Speaker 2: you shouldn't let this idea that a future hiring manager
Speaker 2: may worry about you leaving a job keep you in
Speaker 2: a bad situation, not getting the you know, not getting
Speaker 2: the investment in your career and your skills that you need,
Speaker 2: working in a toxic environment, you know, working in a
Speaker 2: place where you don't feel accepted or your ideas you
Speaker 2: know are not appreciated, you need to get out of there.
Speaker 2: The key. The key is so if you're a hiring
Speaker 2: manager and I'm not going to say that I didn't
Speaker 2: look at a resume when I was hiring, and maybe
Speaker 2: Tiffany you have too, and see, you know, okay, so
Speaker 2: many jobs you were there for six months here, nine
Speaker 2: months there. I might ask what happened because I'm interested,
Speaker 2: But you need to be prepared to have a true,
Speaker 2: honest story of why you left. And I think that
Speaker 2: telling that story is what is going to help you
Speaker 2: remove any little, you know, whisper of doubt that could
Speaker 2: be in the recruiter's mind. If you don't have a good, honest,
Speaker 2: compelling story. If it's just I don't really like that much,
Speaker 2: or you know, I wasn't sure, I don't really want
Speaker 2: to do that anymore. Like if you're wishy washy, that
Speaker 2: in and of itself would turn me off as a
Speaker 2: hiring manager. But if you were very confident and you said, oh, okay, well,
Speaker 2: in that one job, I was really excited to try
Speaker 2: this new skill set and I was told that wasn't
Speaker 2: something that I could do in my existing role, so
Speaker 2: I had to pivot and move to a new company.
Speaker 2: Or you know, in this particular role, I was up
Speaker 2: for promotion, I was passed over for X y Z reason,
Speaker 2: So I'm really looking to take the next you know,
Speaker 2: look for a new career challenge. So like, tell a compelling,
Speaker 2: honest story, and that whole myth that you're going to
Speaker 2: be you know, penalized or you know, your resume is
Speaker 2: just going to be pushed to the bottom of the
Speaker 2: pile because you you moved around a lot. It's just
Speaker 2: it's it's Bosky or bo Hockey.
Speaker 1: As we said, you know who you should look up,
Speaker 1: look look to. Like, So I remember ad we tried
Speaker 1: to cover for Bosama st John. She's the CMO of Netflix,
Speaker 1: and that's not home girl, habo. I know we got
Speaker 1: to do our live sim girl. I won't forget. I've
Speaker 1: forgotten so ad. We had a shady clickbait title talking
Speaker 1: about Bosama Saint John new CMO of Netflix, the woman
Speaker 1: that can't stay in place or something like that, because
Speaker 1: she's had four jobs. I think it's like five years
Speaker 1: or something to that effect. And I was like, when
Speaker 1: I love how the Black Women contingency rose up, was like,
Speaker 1: not on today? Will you come from both? Not bos
Speaker 1: She's one of the sweetest, kindest, most genuine people. Despite
Speaker 1: all this, She's accomplished that I've ever met. And so, yeah,
Speaker 1: they dragged, we banged them against the wall and a
Speaker 1: week you know, ended apologizing, ended up apologizing and like
Speaker 1: re I guess rewording their terrible title of the article.
Speaker 1: Yeah and so, but yeah, she's a great one to
Speaker 1: watch because you see as she I mean, she's worked
Speaker 1: everywhere from ubern as CMO, from Endeavor and there was
Speaker 1: a huge, a huge what is those companies called the
Speaker 1: represent like celebrities like publicist, no agency agency. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like but like huge celebrities are at Endeavor She also
Speaker 1: came from Apple, where she really blew up as a
Speaker 1: result because she she spoke on stage at Apple like
Speaker 1: during one of their like launches whatever, and she I
Speaker 1: think she was like with Apple Music in particular, but
Speaker 1: both of them is amazing. And you see some of
Speaker 1: the major companies that she's come from, and she's hot
Speaker 1: because people have requested her presence because at that level,
Speaker 1: you're not applying randomly. They're literally tapping you on your
Speaker 1: shoulders say please come here. We have a coin that
Speaker 1: we'd like to give you because in exchange for your brilliance.
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's just I think I can't wait to
Speaker 1: read it and I can't wait to see you. Yeah
Speaker 1: who yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Who Wednesday that one pm Eastern stating her time. I
Speaker 2: love But yes, I love that example too because just
Speaker 2: real quick, like the point that you made, tell that
Speaker 2: as part of your story. Oh yeah, I've been really
Speaker 2: fortunate to get so many great opportunities because of my
Speaker 2: particular set of skill sets. I mean, is ultimately why
Speaker 2: I switch jobs seven times in ten years. And there's
Speaker 2: no shame in that. Just tell the truth and say
Speaker 2: it with your chest, like, just be confident, you know,
Speaker 2: be confident in your story, make like they won't challenge
Speaker 2: you on it, I promise you. So I'm excited about that.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. So my boost is like just really like
Speaker 1: it's kind of light. So I had been really enjoying mentorship.
Speaker 1: It was so crazy because when I came back from
Speaker 1: my six weeks off the Hyataughs if you will, I
Speaker 1: remember one of the things I like, doctor Green had
Speaker 1: me write down kind of like what does my ideal
Speaker 1: kind of like week and day and stuff look like?
Speaker 1: And I said, I would really like to take on
Speaker 1: more mentees. I just don't have the time, you know,
Speaker 1: Like I would really like to teach more, I just
Speaker 1: don't have the time. And she was like, hmmm, I
Speaker 1: don't believe that. And so I started to really look
Speaker 1: at my schedule and make them make changes. And as
Speaker 1: a result, I really do have Wednesdays light where I
Speaker 1: don't take any phone calls or any any no interviews,
Speaker 1: no nothing on Wednesdays, no meetings and Fridays off. But
Speaker 1: I can use those days do whatever it is that
Speaker 1: I want. And I found myself. So I started off
Speaker 1: pre hiatus with three three core mentees and now I've
Speaker 1: got like an additional three, and I'm like, I thought
Speaker 1: I didn't have the time, but that just was not true.
Speaker 1: And when I tell you, I'm enjoying myself so much,
Speaker 1: Mandy like, I just like my mentees don't put anything
Speaker 1: in my pocket. I just love seeing like them do well.
Speaker 1: So I love being not just a mentor but also
Speaker 1: a sponsor. So a mentor is I'm here to give
Speaker 1: you advice. Ideally, you want a mentor that's maybe ten
Speaker 1: steps ahead of you and they're like, ooh, chid Ben,
Speaker 1: they've done that. Oh don't do that, don't do that,
Speaker 1: you know, like or like, you know, here's some advice.
Speaker 1: Here's what I think right before you know taping today.
Speaker 1: That's why I was a little bit running a little late.
Speaker 1: I was just wrapping up with my mentee because she
Speaker 1: was letting me know that she had to let go
Speaker 1: of somebody on her team and she didn't want to
Speaker 1: do it. And I was like, that's the fuck, that's okay,
Speaker 1: you know, like, you don't have to let her go.
Speaker 1: It's only gonna get worse. But you ain't gotta let
Speaker 1: her gos this. But you sometimes you just gotta learn.
Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, hold on, it's gonna get
Speaker 1: worse than this. I was like, much worse. How ask
Speaker 1: me how? Psych Yes, but also because I know, because
Speaker 1: I know what it's like to need to let someone
Speaker 1: go and let them stay for months, if not years,
Speaker 1: and then for it to get really terrible and toxic.
Speaker 1: And so we were just I was just telling her that,
Speaker 1: just really proud of her because she finally made the move,
Speaker 1: but in a way that was kind so anyway, like
Speaker 1: I realizing how much I love that, and even like
Speaker 1: one day when I no longer work as budgetista or whatever,
Speaker 1: I would really love to create some sort of fund
Speaker 1: or whatever that doesn't just give you money but also
Speaker 1: gives you guidance. And so in the meantime, that's what
Speaker 1: I've been focusing my IG lives on, is that it's
Speaker 1: just me being a mentor. We talk a little personal finance,
Speaker 1: but mostly talking about business and how you as a
Speaker 1: woman can navigate. Like today the talk was why you
Speaker 1: should build a community before you build a business, and
Speaker 1: like what does that mean and how do you do?
Speaker 1: So so it's just been really like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: my boost is just like being able to show up
Speaker 1: the way I'm wanting. This new mentorship that I'm doing
Speaker 1: like for like the masses. Oh, it's just called that
Speaker 1: mental for the masses. Mental for the masses.
Speaker 2: And how many you're gonna accept them to your new
Speaker 2: mentorship program?
Speaker 1: You know I'm not mass? Yeah no, I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: we're not doing what I am doing, Tiffany. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't want I still got budget.
Speaker 2: You were just giving me so much CREP for my
Speaker 2: free career coaching.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I do not, won't it? That's why I
Speaker 1: do it live. But I will say that, like I
Speaker 1: use this. I'm sure you've heard of like the community app.
Speaker 1: And so if you're like so, because people are like,
Speaker 1: sometimes you go live, Tiffany, how am I supposed to know?
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even know what I'm gonna go live,
Speaker 1: but I have been just texting, Hey, I'm going live.
Speaker 1: And so if ever you're like, I want to free mentoring,
Speaker 1: we should do we use community Mandy, what do we use?
Speaker 2: Far do you not?
Speaker 1: We should look into it because it's just a great
Speaker 1: way to let people know. Like it's like and this
Speaker 1: is for anyone listening, this is like a great tool.
Speaker 1: They don't they're not paying us. But I just like
Speaker 1: the tool because it allows me to say. All I
Speaker 1: use community for is to say, hey, I'm about to
Speaker 1: go live right now. There are like four hundred people
Speaker 1: you know who have texted me. The number is nine
Speaker 1: zero eight three seven three eight three three four. You
Speaker 1: text live to that, and that just lets me know
Speaker 1: that everything my goal on to me?
Speaker 2: How do you remember that? But not our email acts.
Speaker 1: Because I've been saying it so much before we got on,
Speaker 1: I was like nine sevens and it's always like, but
Speaker 1: I now I put my text message too in all
Speaker 1: of my like my Instagram like bio, my Facebook bio,
Speaker 1: my Twitter bio. But I've just been really enjoying it
Speaker 1: and it just feels so great because it just feels
Speaker 1: nice to do something just to do something, not for
Speaker 1: some like desired outcome, because the desired outcome literally is
Speaker 1: the thing itself, and so I think I feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, to be reconnected back to that then, like
Speaker 1: just to do a thing because it's enjoyable to do
Speaker 1: a thing, not because there's anything on the back end
Speaker 1: to gain other than this is fun. I'll though I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie, and even though I tell people this
Speaker 1: is mentoring, this is it I'm getting way more requests
Speaker 1: for one on one mentorship, and I'm like, h y'all
Speaker 1: was supposed to leave me alone and.
Speaker 2: Just watch the live, just watch the well, oh ready
Speaker 2: until next week? Is this episode two eighty? I love
Speaker 2: a round number. Hope y'all enjoyed. Stay Brown, check us out,
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Speaker 2: let's just go with Bridget for now and I will
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Speaker 2: So yes, all right, until next week.
Speaker 1: Well, we'll wait until q a b a b a
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Speaker 2: Until until Friday. We'll see you Friday.
Speaker 1: Bye boy cock off