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Speaker 1: All right, neph you thank you. The subject the lady
Speaker 1: out back. We've been wondering what this letter was all about.
Speaker 1: Well here we go. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been with
Speaker 1: my fiance for seven years and we live together. I
Speaker 1: work out of town for two weeks out of the month.
Speaker 1: But never in a million years would I ever expect
Speaker 1: him to cheat on me. I'm surprised. I surprised him
Speaker 1: by coming home a day early this week. I got
Speaker 1: an uber and when I got home there was a
Speaker 1: car parked on the side of the house, so I
Speaker 1: assumed that my neighbor had company inside. My fiance was
Speaker 1: on the couch drinking a beer with two candles lit.
Speaker 1: It looked like he had a rough day at work,
Speaker 1: but he acted like he was glad to.
Speaker 3: See me, and he gave me a big bear hug.
Speaker 1: As I went toward our bedroom to change clothes, I
Speaker 1: saw something dash across the backyard and it scared the
Speaker 1: crap out of me. My fiance said it was probably
Speaker 1: just a dog, and he didn't get up to check
Speaker 1: it out.
Speaker 3: Then I heard a car cranking up.
Speaker 1: I went to the side window to see if it
Speaker 1: was a burglar and saw a black woman in the
Speaker 1: car that was on the side of our house. My
Speaker 1: fiance still didn't get up off the couch to help
Speaker 1: me investigate. He said the mystery woman was probably at
Speaker 1: Miss Pea's house visiting her. Miss p is an older,
Speaker 1: single white woman, and when I called her, she said
Speaker 1: she was at her daughter's house. My fiance said I
Speaker 1: was stressing myself out and I needed to relax. A
Speaker 1: day later, I had a camera installed in the back.
Speaker 1: My fiance said it was unnecessary, but I did it anyway.
Speaker 1: I asked him over and over if he had another
Speaker 1: woman in our house. He said that I'm delusional. Did
Speaker 1: I come home early and interrupt my fiance and his girlfriend. Yes, ma'am,
Speaker 1: you did. And I don't know about his girlfriend. It
Speaker 1: could have been some random you know. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but you did interrupt him and a woman for sure.
Speaker 1: And the fact that he tried to play it so cool,
Speaker 1: not get up and help you investigate. To me, those
Speaker 1: are all red flags. Believe your eyes. Please believe your eyes.
Speaker 1: You know what you saw. You saw the car, You
Speaker 1: saw the figure, the dash in the backyard that would
Speaker 1: have scared the mess out of me. You saw and
Speaker 1: heard a black woman cranking up the car on the
Speaker 1: side of the house. No, it was not Miss Peas
Speaker 1: anybody visiting her because Miss Pea was at her daughter's house.
Speaker 3: She wasn't even there. So you heard and saw all this.
Speaker 1: No matter what lies he told you, you know what
Speaker 1: you saw. And I say, after seven years of being
Speaker 1: engaged and with your crazy schedule two weeks on and
Speaker 1: two weeks off, he has plenty of time to do
Speaker 1: whatever he wants to do. This cheating has probably been
Speaker 1: going on for a while. Seven years is a long
Speaker 1: long time to be engaged, and from the looks of it,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you have a future with this
Speaker 1: guy after this Tommy.
Speaker 2: He's been a player for a long time and he's
Speaker 2: gotten sloppy with his actions.
Speaker 4: He's not the player he thinks he is.
Speaker 2: And it's all falling apart, and we see every step
Speaker 2: of the way it falls apart. First of all, what
Speaker 2: I don't understand play on, say for seven years? When
Speaker 2: when when do we getting married? On one of these
Speaker 2: two weeks you come home? When we're gonna get married?
Speaker 2: That should be somewhere in the equations, some questions that
Speaker 2: you should have.
Speaker 4: But here we go.
Speaker 2: Call on the side of the house. That's a sign,
Speaker 2: bad player. Und that car should have been two streets over.
Speaker 2: You should have never seen that. Come okay, I'm just
Speaker 2: giving you the signs that you should have been looking for.
Speaker 4: He'll go next. What was the next one? Candles lick?
Speaker 2: When he's big behind being at home with some candles
Speaker 2: drinking beer by himself? Who do that? Who's sitting around
Speaker 2: with give me a flavor of a candle? Who out
Speaker 2: there with some sweet smelling candles drinking a bill by?
Speaker 4: They said? Lavender?
Speaker 2: Who out there with lavender? By themself? That don't make
Speaker 2: Here's another thing. When the last time he gave you
Speaker 2: a big bath hood like that, like he just been
Speaker 2: missing you forever.
Speaker 4: When when did he do that? He ain't done that, lady.
Speaker 2: Right now, you go in the bedroom, you changing clothes.
Speaker 2: Something dashes across the backyard. Now, well I'm upset with you.
Speaker 2: Is why you didn't dash? Why you didn't get out
Speaker 2: there so you can see what's going on. You know,
Speaker 2: dog gonna Well that wasn't no dog dashing across that backyard. Now,
Speaker 2: problem he had is once again what I said. She
Speaker 2: should have parked two streets, so she'd have parked two streets,
Speaker 2: so he could have went out to sidegate. She could
Speaker 2: have went out the sidegate, walked around the back. She'd
Speaker 2: have never seen this late. This is this bad player
Speaker 2: all together. But I'm giving you your what you should
Speaker 2: have been doing. You should have been out there. Why
Speaker 2: when she was out there cranking up on the side
Speaker 2: of the house, you couldn't go out there you could
Speaker 2: see what's going on. You got if you're gonna start
Speaker 2: CSI had like like this camera thing you're doing. Now,
Speaker 2: it's too late for that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's too late. This ain't gonna happen again at
Speaker 4: that house.
Speaker 2: Ever, It's not gonna happen ever again, because you then
Speaker 2: semi called it, your semi called it, and you're moving
Speaker 2: too fast. You got to know what you're doing if
Speaker 2: you're gonna be precise. Now, do you know who knows?
Speaker 2: Do you know who knows? Miss p No, that white lady,
Speaker 2: Miss Pete, she knows. Now she ain't there this week,
Speaker 2: but she's always dare Miss Pino that car ben being
Speaker 2: parked on the side of the house for hours at
Speaker 2: a time in those two weeks that you are normally
Speaker 2: gone when you're working in another.
Speaker 4: City, Miss pen Everything.
Speaker 2: I suggest you get real acquainted with the white lady
Speaker 2: that live next door because ms p gonna fill you
Speaker 2: in on everything you need to know. But as far
Speaker 2: as the cameras and stuff, maybe you're too late.
Speaker 4: You too late.
Speaker 2: You're too late. And watch him for the next two weeks.
Speaker 2: You ain't finising no cameras league, watch what he do.
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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject the Lady out Back.
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Speaker 1: we're gonna recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is the
Speaker 1: Lady out Back. A young lady wrote in she's been
Speaker 1: with her fiance for seven years. They've been engaged for
Speaker 1: seven years. They live together. She works out of town
Speaker 1: two weeks and then she's in town for two weeks.
Speaker 1: So that's what they've been doing for the past seven years.
Speaker 1: And she says, never in a million years would she
Speaker 1: think that her fiance would be cheating on her. But
Speaker 1: one day, one day she came home early, she looked
Speaker 1: through the window. Well, first of all, she saw a
Speaker 1: car parked in the drive way. And that's not normal.
Speaker 1: An unrecognizable car in the driveway. Then she looks to
Speaker 1: the window in the house. Yeah, on the side of
Speaker 1: the house. And you gotta be specific when you're cheating, right,
Speaker 1: And then she looks through the window and she sees
Speaker 1: her man drinking a beer by himself. Looks like he
Speaker 1: had a hard day, and he has some candles lit. Okay,
Speaker 1: another red flag besides the car on the side of
Speaker 1: the house. She goes in to her husband. Her fiance
Speaker 1: gives her a big bear hug. Then she makes her
Speaker 1: way to the bedroom and she looks out the window
Speaker 1: and she sees something dash across the backyard, and the
Speaker 1: fiance says, oh, that's probably a dog. Then she sees
Speaker 1: and hears a black woman get in the car that
Speaker 1: was on side of the house and crank it up
Speaker 1: and drive away. Still the fiance doesn't move off the couch. Oh,
Speaker 1: that's probably someone at the neighbor's house leaving.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Come to find out, the air wasn't even home. So anyway,
Speaker 1: bottom line is yeah, her name is miss p. Bottom
Speaker 1: line that she wants to know is she delusional? Did
Speaker 1: she come home too early and interrupt her fiance and
Speaker 1: his girlfriend. So that's where we are with this one.
Speaker 3: Junior.
Speaker 5: All right, let's say the question is did I come
Speaker 5: home early and interrupt my fiance and his girlfriend? Okay, well,
Speaker 5: if it ain't the girlfriend, let's just go back to
Speaker 5: the statement in the letter. I saw something dash across
Speaker 5: the backyard and it scared the crap.
Speaker 6: Out of me.
Speaker 5: My fiance said it was probably just a dog, and
Speaker 5: he didn't get up to go check it out.
Speaker 6: All right, welly're gonna ask a few questions.
Speaker 5: What dog five to eight run across the backyard on
Speaker 5: high legs?
Speaker 6: What car keys to a toyota?
Speaker 4: What dog?
Speaker 6: If it ain't a girlfriend? What dog? Just tell me?
Speaker 6: What dog exactly?
Speaker 5: When to sneak out of house and close the backslideing?
Speaker 6: Do quietly? If it ain't a girlfriend?
Speaker 3: Tiptoeing?
Speaker 6: When car key? What dog get up.
Speaker 3: To a gate?
Speaker 5: Opened it and then close? He hit that latch and
Speaker 5: then closed? Now the dog know how he understand what
Speaker 5: the data?
Speaker 6: All the end?
Speaker 5: The drive reverse neutral? What dog is we talking about?
Speaker 6: What dog?
Speaker 3: No mispeak?
Speaker 5: If it ain't the girlfriend? What dog just be visited?
Speaker 5: Why this dog that's doing all of this ain't on
Speaker 5: the news.
Speaker 6: Why this dog. Ain't nobody urrigan how to fox? Ain't
Speaker 6: coming this dog? That's just driving house to house?
Speaker 5: If it's just a dog, what dog know how to
Speaker 5: run in wedges?
Speaker 6: What dog is this? I just want to know what dog?
Speaker 6: If it ain't a girlfriend, lady? What dog? Tell me
Speaker 6: about the dog? Somebody's seen this dog?
Speaker 1: What dog?
Speaker 6: Get on?
Speaker 3: The fuck? Girl?
Speaker 4: Almost got caught?
Speaker 6: What dog is that?
Speaker 3: What dog?
Speaker 6: I ain't heard no answer? What of course his girlfriend?
Speaker 6: What man lay up in drake beer with two candles lit?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 6: Whatever? What you got a Heineken and two candles lit?
Speaker 6: Come on, now I've had a house. I ain't litt
Speaker 6: down candles.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the game is on.
Speaker 6: Yeah, this don't make no sense. Just tell me what dog?
Speaker 6: Just tell me what dog?
Speaker 3: This is?
Speaker 6: What dog?
Speaker 2: What dog?
Speaker 6: Whish was a boy?
Speaker 3: All this went down? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: What dog? Is this?
Speaker 6: What dog?
Speaker 4: Say?
Speaker 5: All?
Speaker 1: Hell?
Speaker 2: She here?
Speaker 6: Because you took an uber?
Speaker 1: Hon?
Speaker 4: Oh here I got.
Speaker 6: What dog listens actually listen to their master?
Speaker 4: I got a dog.
Speaker 6: I'll tell that dog to go over there and sit there. Dog,
Speaker 6: never go what dog? Just say go out the back
Speaker 6: and the dog go out the back?
Speaker 1: Come on?
Speaker 6: What dog is we talking about?
Speaker 3: That he told you. Yeah, yeah, this is this is crazy.
Speaker 6: Of course you caught him with his girlfriend. Yeah, that's
Speaker 6: not married. No, please do that dog gonna be back over.
Speaker 6: They're doing the same thing they trained Rand to come home.
Speaker 3: So, yeah, she's not delusional. She asked the question, Jr.
Speaker 3: Is she delusional? No, you saw what you saw.
Speaker 1: You know what you saw, you know what you saw,
Speaker 1: and yes, you came home early and interrupted him.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Charlie asked me this, Charlie, what dog't know?
Speaker 5: How to collect this purse, cell phone, and keys at
Speaker 5: one time?
Speaker 6: Got everybody? He didn't leave nothing of.
Speaker 3: All the animals he could have picked. Why did he
Speaker 3: say a dog? Why did he say a dog?
Speaker 6: And you know they went to dinner? What dog don't
Speaker 6: get they left? Or to go play and just take
Speaker 6: it home? What dog is this? What dog? How to
Speaker 6: operate a microwave? What do what dog? Got rent payments?
Speaker 2: What dog?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 6: If this had a girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and this has been going on for a while.
Speaker 1: They've been engaged for seven years and this is her job.
Speaker 1: Two weeks on, two weeks at the house, and two
Speaker 1: weeks on the road.
Speaker 6: So let's ask you. It's so smart though, this Scooby.
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, yeah, okay, the lady o't back, all right?
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