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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject to my man is still better

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Speaker 1: than yours. Dear Stephen, Sure, Dear Stephen Shirley. I got

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Speaker 1: married for the first time when I was fifty eight years.

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Speaker 2: Old, and I've been married for four years.

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Speaker 1: My husband had a car accident six months ago and

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Speaker 1: he had his mistress in the car with him. That's

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Speaker 1: how I found out he was cheating on me. We

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Speaker 1: had to pay her medical bills and cover her injuries

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Speaker 1: on our insurance. I was embarrassed because my sister was

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Speaker 1: all ways waiting for me to lose. See, she dated

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Speaker 1: my husband back in the mid nineties. He said it

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Speaker 1: was just a sex thing, but I could tell that

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Speaker 1: she really liked him. He and I were always cool,

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Speaker 1: but nothing sexual ever went down until we decided to

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Speaker 1: be more than friends. About ten years ago. We went

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Speaker 1: out and the rest is history. My hating sister has

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Speaker 1: six kids and she's been married for years, but she

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Speaker 1: still got upset after my husband and I eloped. She

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Speaker 1: started bragging about how much her husband spends on her

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Speaker 1: and how he can't get enough of her.

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Speaker 2: In the bedroom after all these years.

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Speaker 1: After months of hearing that, I finally told her that

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Speaker 1: her husband is sleeping with two ladies. As she knows,

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Speaker 1: I showed her the receipts with text messages and pictures

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Speaker 1: of them hugged up. She had the nerve to tell

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Speaker 1: me that her man was still better than mine by

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Speaker 1: the looks of things, where even we both live with cheaters.

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Speaker 1: I'm heared of beefing with my sister over my husband.

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Speaker 1: I don't see how she can hold a grudge for

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Speaker 1: this long. If I could do things over I'd still

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Speaker 1: marry my husband. And I don't care that she dated

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Speaker 1: him over thirty years ago. Why is she constantly hating

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Speaker 1: on me over a man that never wanted her.

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Speaker 2: How do we resolve our feud?

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Speaker 1: Well, well, well, yeah, I mean don't you understand that

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Speaker 1: you broke the girl code and the sister.

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Speaker 2: Code here I mean period. That's what this is.

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Speaker 1: It's not that your sister's a hater or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: She's upset that you dated someone she dated to her.

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Speaker 1: So what if it was thirty years ago to her,

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Speaker 1: it feels still feels like yesterday when she was with him,

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Speaker 1: So you can't be mad at her for this.

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Speaker 2: I'm just surprised how you don't see any of this.

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Speaker 2: You don't know, So I'm going to tell you.

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Speaker 1: The girl code is an unspoken rule, okay, amongst women.

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Speaker 1: We don't date our sister's men, our girlfriend's men, our cousins.

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Speaker 2: We don't do that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The girl code has been broken many times with the friendships.

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Speaker 2: We know that. Families all that, and if you or

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Speaker 2: anyone else.

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Speaker 1: Does break it, don't expect to still be friends with

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Speaker 1: these people.

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Speaker 2: It just doesn't work like that. So that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: If your sister wasn't blood, I'm sure she probably would

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Speaker 1: have canceled you a long time ago. Your sister feels

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Speaker 1: betrayed by you because you married a man she dated

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Speaker 1: in her past. It doesn't matter that your husband said

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Speaker 1: it was.

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Speaker 2: Just for sex.

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Speaker 1: Your sister thought it was more than that. Obviously, really, really,

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Speaker 1: you're the hater in my opinion. I'm just gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you you're the hater because of all the things you've

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Speaker 1: done to your sister with showing her the pictures of

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Speaker 1: her husband and telling her about that, you're the hater.

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Speaker 2: Steve.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 4: First of all, let me start by saying, Sureley knows

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Speaker 4: the girl code. I really don't, but it sounds like

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Speaker 4: she knows what she's talking about in there to card,

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Speaker 4: So obviously you must have broke the girl code. Got

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Speaker 4: all that? Now me not knowing the girl code and

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Speaker 4: all like that. Let me just tell you somebody here,

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Speaker 4: this letter right here ain't none but some mess. I

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Speaker 4: can't help you. I don't want to help you. I

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Speaker 4: don't know how to help you. Let me just start

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Speaker 4: off with the title of this letter. My man is

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Speaker 4: still better than yours.

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Speaker 3: No he ain't.

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Speaker 4: No, he ain't, ain't neither one y'all got nothing, neither one, y'all.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know what you're writing for. I got

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Speaker 4: married for the first time when I was fifty eight

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Speaker 4: years old, right there, right there. You don't know how

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Speaker 4: to pick a man fifty eight, You ain't. You ain't

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Speaker 4: been in a relationship up until now that has led

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Speaker 4: to a marriage or anything.

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Speaker 3: So you been married four years now. Listen to this.

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Speaker 4: Your husband had a car accident six months ago. He

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Speaker 4: had his mistress in the car with him. Tyler, this

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Speaker 4: letter is my man is still better than yours.

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Speaker 3: My answer to that is no, he ain't mistress in

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Speaker 3: the car.

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Speaker 4: I can't tell you when that car crashed how he

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Speaker 4: was trying to figure out how to get her out

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Speaker 4: of there and make sure she was okay. I boy,

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Speaker 4: I wish i'd have been there and he had his

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Speaker 4: mistress in the car.

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Speaker 3: That's how I found out he was cheating on me.

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Speaker 4: Then you had to pay a medical bills couver of

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Speaker 4: injuries on our insurance. I was in bass because my

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Speaker 4: sister was always waiting for me to lose Why because

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Speaker 4: she dated my husband back in the mid nineties. He

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Speaker 4: said it was just sex thing, but I could tell

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Speaker 4: she really liked him.

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Speaker 3: Why you win him?

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Speaker 4: That's the girl called that Shirley's talking about.

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Speaker 3: Shirley called this out. Why you win him?

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Speaker 4: He and I were always cool, but nothing sexual ever

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Speaker 4: went down until we decided to be moting friends about

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Speaker 4: ten years ago. We went out and the rest is history.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, ain't no, we went out and the

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Speaker 4: rest is history. No you messing with a man to

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Speaker 4: dated your sister. Then here we go. My hating sister

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Speaker 4: has six kids.

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Speaker 3: She been married for.

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Speaker 4: Years, but she got upset about me and my husband

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Speaker 4: and I eloped. You know, you had to elop because

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Speaker 4: you couldn't get nobody in the family to come.

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Speaker 3: To this wed R.

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Speaker 4: So you had to elope because you couldn't get nobody

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Speaker 4: in your family to come to this. Now, why are

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Speaker 4: you calling your sister hater? I don't know anyway, all right,

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Speaker 4: I'll be.

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Speaker 2: Hang on, Steve.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter title,

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Speaker 1: my man is still better than yours.

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Speaker 2: All right, come on, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is my man,

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Speaker 1: my man is still better than yours, And.

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Speaker 2: My answer is no, he ain't one and the same.

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Speaker 4: This woman got married for the first time when she

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Speaker 4: was fifty eight. What that's kind of it happens, but damn,

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Speaker 4: you've been married for four years. My husband had a

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Speaker 4: car accident six months ago, and he had his mistress

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Speaker 4: in the car with him. That's how I found out

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Speaker 4: he was cheating. And then we had to pay all

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Speaker 4: her medical bills and everything on our insurance and had

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Speaker 4: to cover all the stuff for her.

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Speaker 3: All right, I was embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: Okay, now that right there, right there, right there, Let's

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Speaker 4: go back to the title my husband is better than yours.

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Speaker 3: My answer is no, he ain't. He in car accidents.

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Speaker 4: He don't even dry good with girls in the car

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Speaker 4: that we was supposed to slow down.

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Speaker 3: You supposed to take backstreets alley all this.

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Speaker 4: He all out on the main street going fast to it.

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Speaker 3: There with his stupid.

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Speaker 4: Behind drive there in the car laughing. You ain't supposed

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Speaker 4: to laugh with your mistress in the car. You're supposed

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Speaker 4: to be quiet. Backstreets alleys, turn off one ways.

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Speaker 2: Stupid.

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Speaker 4: I was embarrassed because my sister's always waiting on me

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Speaker 4: to lose Why because she dated my husband back in

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Speaker 4: the mid nineties. He said it was just a sex thing,

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Speaker 4: but I could tell she really liked him. Okay, if

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Speaker 4: you could tell your sister really liked him. Why are

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Speaker 4: you dating this man? Shirley said, this is girl cold

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Speaker 4: you broke. I see why. He and I were always cool,

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Speaker 4: but nothing sexual went down until we decided to be

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Speaker 4: moting friends about ten years ago. Tell y'all all this

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Speaker 4: we just friends. Okay, we went out and the rest

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Speaker 4: is history. No, it's not.

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Speaker 3: No what you mean.

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Speaker 4: We went out and the rest is history. Now, my

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Speaker 4: hating sister got six keys and she been married for years,

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Speaker 4: and she still got upset after me and my husband eloped.

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Speaker 4: You had to eloap because everybody in the family know

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Speaker 4: your sister used to date the man that really like him,

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Speaker 4: and now you have scooped him up with your old

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Speaker 4: behind at fifty eight, thinking you got something here in

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Speaker 4: congress with mistresses, and now y'all be eloped.

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Speaker 3: Got girl, you had the load.

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Speaker 4: She started bragging about how much our husband spills on

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Speaker 4: her and how much he can't get enough for her

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Speaker 4: in the bedroom after all these years.

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Speaker 3: Well they got six kids.

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Speaker 4: I think that he can't get enough of her statement,

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Speaker 4: it's very true. Yeah, and then how much he's spinning

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Speaker 4: on her. Hell, they got six kids, all his check

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Speaker 4: is gone? How much he's spinning on me, and you

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Speaker 4: got six kids to every quarter he makes spin on y'all.

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Speaker 4: After months of hearing that, I finally told her that

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Speaker 4: I it's sleeping with two ladies that she knows.

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Speaker 3: Why would you do that?

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Speaker 2: Because she's the hater.

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Speaker 3: I showed her.

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Speaker 4: The receipts with text messages and pictures of them hugged up.

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Speaker 4: She had to nerd and tell me that her man

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Speaker 4: was still better than mine by the.

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Speaker 3: Looks of things.

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Speaker 4: We even, Well, ain't you paying for the woman's injuries

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Speaker 4: that was in the car accident because your husband had

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Speaker 4: a chick in the car? Well, so what are you

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Speaker 4: talking about? She had the nerve to tell me that

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Speaker 4: her man was still better than mine by the looks

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Speaker 4: of things, we even even ain't Neither one of y'all

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Speaker 4: got nothing?

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Speaker 3: What did you even? We both live with cheaterahs? So what?

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Speaker 3: So what's okay?

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Speaker 4: What do you want me to surely we both live

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Speaker 4: with cheatahs. I'm tired of beef with my sister over

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Speaker 4: my husband. Well, if you hadn't marry this man who

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Speaker 4: is a cheatah, who was dating your sister back in

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Speaker 4: the nineties, who your sister really liked, we wouldn't even

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Speaker 4: be here, right. I don't see how she can hold

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Speaker 4: a grudge for this loan. It ain't a grudge. It's

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Speaker 4: what you did. No, this ain't no grudge. This is

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Speaker 4: what you did. If I could do things over, I

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Speaker 4: still married my husband.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, Now it's what you did and you.

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Speaker 4: Ain't never apologized or tried to explain yourself. You just

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Speaker 4: want her to get over it. Well, when you're gonna

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Speaker 4: go in there.

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Speaker 3: And say, sis, can I talk to you? My bad?

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Speaker 4: But I did fall in love with him. I'd marry

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Speaker 4: him again, but I won't apologize if I hurt you.

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Speaker 3: But you ain't dead that.

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Speaker 4: That's probably all your sister want, you know, women like closure,

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Speaker 4: just coming here and admit to me that you hurt

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Speaker 4: me and you knew I was wrong or something. I

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Speaker 4: don't see how she can hold a grudge for this loan.

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Speaker 4: If I could do things, I still married my husband

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Speaker 4: and I don't care that she dated him over the

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Speaker 4: thirty years ago. Okay, then we're back to you not

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Speaker 4: caring how your sister feel, which is what This ain't

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Speaker 4: a grudge.

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Speaker 3: This is what you did. Why is she constantly hating.

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Speaker 4: On me over a man that never wanted her, but

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Speaker 4: she wanted him. Yeah, and now you got him. How

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Speaker 4: to resolve our feud? I don't know, nor do I

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Speaker 4: care on today because it don't seem like you want

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Speaker 4: to work nothing out anyway. You ain't got no sister

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Speaker 4: and your man and.

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