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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: It's twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 1: It's twenty twenty two, and it's me and it's.

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Speaker 2: You, but not together because Tanya has come down with

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Speaker 2: a mysterious.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I have, but I really don't

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Speaker 1: feel good. I feel super congested and I feel like

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Speaker 1: I have a cold or allergies. I haven't gotten my

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Speaker 1: test yet, so I told Beka not to come near

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Speaker 1: me until I do get a test.

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Speaker 4: So it's hard to say I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, of course I would not want you near me

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Speaker 1: because especially because I'm sneezing so much, it just feels

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Speaker 1: not spready.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, feel spready.

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Speaker 4: Feels very spready. But you know, I was in the

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Speaker 4: cold recently.

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Speaker 1: I was a week I was like in the snow,

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Speaker 1: and I haven't been in in a really long time,

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Speaker 1: so it really could be a cold. But these days,

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Speaker 1: you never know.

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Speaker 3: You you really never know. Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: I flew back from Louisiana, which was truly a nightmare experience,

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Speaker 2: but we can get to that later. But I just

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Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to see anybody, because the

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Speaker 2: airports and everything was so insane that I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna kind of do my own thing, chill

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Speaker 2: for a little week or so, make sure I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, so we're all good.

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Speaker 3: We're all good. Mark back from Hawaii.

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Speaker 5: Back from Hawaii. Yes, thank you, feeling good. Had a

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Speaker 5: really nice couple of weeks with the family in Hawaii

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Speaker 5: and my in laws and my wife's brother's family. There

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Speaker 5: were ten of us in an Airbnb RBA or something.

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Speaker 3: Was there plenty of room or was it like plenty

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Speaker 3: was ready?

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Speaker 5: Okay, no, no, no, it was good. It was very good.

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Speaker 5: And there's plenty of room and had a pool and

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Speaker 5: so the kids were in the pool with their cousins

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Speaker 5: all day every day. It was really it was a

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Speaker 5: really great time.

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Speaker 3: Did Joe love Hawaii? Wasn't that ever? Was that everyone's

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Speaker 3: first time?

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Speaker 5: It was my it was my wife had been there.

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Speaker 5: I think the rest of us it was our first time.

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Speaker 3: Did everyone have a great time?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was very good. We did that. We're there

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Speaker 5: for twelve days. We did a lot of stuff. We

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Speaker 5: really saw a lot of Wahu.

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Speaker 3: A lot of the low halls and yeah, a lot

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Speaker 3: of shakas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was doing that in the mountains.

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Speaker 2: Tanya does it wherever she goes, it doesn't matter. She's

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Speaker 2: always in the Shaka spirit, the Aloha spirit.

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Speaker 4: But I do have a really exciting story to share.

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Speaker 3: Wait, I haven't said hey to Easton yet.

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Speaker 4: I think not here.

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Speaker 5: Easton has split attention today.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay by Easton. Easton came back from hosting the.

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Speaker 5: East Awards this year.

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Speaker 2: Congrats another successful Easty Awards.

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Speaker 3: All right, Tanya's story time.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, that's okay, But I need I need any scrubber

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Speaker 1: that is has a good eye, that is like a

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Speaker 1: mountain woman who knows her slopes, to really do some

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Speaker 1: investigating here, because I think I had a star sighting

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Speaker 1: on my extravaganza and if that is, if it is correct,

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Speaker 1: that is him. I don't even know what to do

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Speaker 1: with myself. So I went to Tahoe, which is it's now.

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Speaker 4: It used to be called Squaw.

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Speaker 1: They changed the name to Palisades Tahoe, so I don't

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Speaker 1: really know what it is now, but I think that

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Speaker 1: I think it's Palisades Tahoe.

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Speaker 4: And the first few.

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Speaker 1: Days, mind you, my dad sent sent a photo of

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Speaker 1: the last time I skied to Red Star and said

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Speaker 1: good luck because the last time I skied, I was

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Speaker 1: four years old. And then the photo I look like

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Speaker 1: possessed and like evil, like a bully.

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Speaker 3: You a bully.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So he basically said it like, good luck taking

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Speaker 1: this one skiing. Right. So the first day we're there,

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Speaker 1: and it's me. I'm the bunny slopes like all these

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 4: So the first day I'm on that thing.

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Speaker 1: The second day there's a little bit there's like a

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Speaker 1: hill next to it, right, and that's a little bit

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm thinking, that's what an actual mountain looks like.

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Speaker 4: It's really not.

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Speaker 1: It's still bunny slope, but it's like a little bit

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Speaker 4: So there were like ten year olds on that, right.

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Speaker 1: So the second day I'm on this other bunny slope

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Speaker 1: with his seven year old and I look and I

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Speaker 1: keep seeing this guy that looks like Patrick Dempsey, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I'm not gonna he his

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Speaker 1: So I'm not good with the cold, and I had

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Speaker 1: I texted Amy. We had Amy, Danielle and Becca and

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Speaker 1: I have a group chat, and I was like, I

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Speaker 1: think I see Patrick Dempsey on the slopes with me.

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Speaker 1: I really think it's him. So I'm going through my

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Speaker 1: head and I'm like, does he have kids? Why would

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Speaker 1: he be on the Bunny slopes? You know, why is

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Speaker 1: But then I was like, those aren't his really kids?

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Speaker 1: So then I'm trying to like google in real life

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Speaker 1: so I'm just like, God, I really think that's him.

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Speaker 4: Cut two.

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Speaker 1: The next day, Becca sends me a screenshot at frantic

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Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey posts a photo on his Instagram that he's

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Speaker 1: on a chair lift of his goggles with sunny or

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Speaker 1: sonny with snowy trees in the background, and I can't

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Speaker 1: tell I don't know. I haven't been like, I haven't

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Speaker 1: been a shudder for too long. I've only shredded for

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Speaker 1: about a week, so I'm not well versed in the

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Speaker 1: mountains across the country. But it looks like it could

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Speaker 1: be Palisades Tahoe in his goggles and if it is,

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Speaker 1: I saw Patrick Dempsey.

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Speaker 4: But does he have a child and.

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Speaker 3: As many kids? He has like five kids?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he could have been on the bunny slopes.

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Speaker 4: Yes, what do we do with this information?

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Speaker 5: Tie? Weren't you just hanging out with him in a

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Speaker 5: baseball game last summer, in a long conversation with him,

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Speaker 5: It'd be.

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Speaker 3: Way more exciting it was me because I haven't met him.

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Speaker 1: If you understand how like cumbersome skis are. You can't

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Speaker 1: just like pop on over and be like, hey, let

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Speaker 1: me remove my goggles and my mask and my whole

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Speaker 1: gear and be like, remember me, you met me on

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Speaker 1: a baseball softball tournament two years ago, where you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like he's gonna be like, who are you?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm saying the like this like you've already met him.

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Speaker 2: So this was just like, hey, my friend Patrick is

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Speaker 2: on the slopes of me.

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Speaker 1: No to have the street cred to say I went sloping.

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Speaker 1: I went shredding with Patrick Dempsey. Is something I need

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Speaker 1: in my bio. Yeahs called it sloping sloping.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I was like, I text her. I was like,

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Speaker 2: follow him. I got into a frantic, scary mood. You know,

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Speaker 2: I do, like when I show up to Sunset Tower

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Speaker 2: for Jennifer Iniston.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I felt like one of those one of

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Speaker 1: shredding with Patrick Dempsey.

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Speaker 5: And also, by the way, his kids seem to be

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Speaker 5: fourteen and nineteen, so I'm not sure the how well

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Speaker 3: No, he has twins that are like young.

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Speaker 5: I think the twins are fourteen.

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Speaker 3: There's no way those twins are fourteen.

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Speaker 5: Are You're welcome to look it up, but it looks

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Speaker 5: to me like they were born in two thousand and seven.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Just time flies old, Yeah, time flies. That's my only

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Speaker 1: thing that threw me off is why see on the

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Speaker 1: he was taking down.

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Speaker 2: I just thought, I'm just sticking with the story that

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Speaker 2: you saw him, because like, what are the chances that

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Speaker 2: you say you see him, and then I go to

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Speaker 2: his Instagram and he or he posts him on a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think. I don't think there's any question it

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Speaker 4: You guys. I mean I went shredding with Patrick Dempsey. Sloping, sloping, sloping, Wow.

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Speaker 3: What a story. I mean, you went all over like

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Speaker 3: you were like in Mexico.

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Speaker 1: So they call it fire and ice when you do

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Speaker 3: Who does who calls it that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Some people, some people I actually met. I met them

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Speaker 1: in Mexico. There are listeners of On Earth Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: They recognized me and I started talking to them and

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Speaker 1: they listened to the Morning show and they live in

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Speaker 1: New York and yeah, they were super super cute. And

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Speaker 1: I told them what we were doing over winter break

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Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, yeah, fire and ice cool.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm gonna start saying that fire

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Speaker 1: and ice.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so there's an official day.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were just saying like you and Red

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Speaker 2: Star golf, fire and ice.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's like an official thing. Who knows

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Speaker 1: if it's official, but they were using it, so I'm

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Speaker 5: So you didn't know for sure if it was Patrick Dempsey.

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Speaker 5: But if you I'd known that, would you have gone

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Speaker 5: up to him and said, hey, Patrick gets Tany. We

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Speaker 5: met at the Softball benefit last year.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, I went through my head and I texted

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Speaker 1: Red Star and I was like, what do I do?

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Speaker 1: And that's why he said the same thing. He goes,

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Speaker 1: didn't you meet him already? Can't you say hi? But

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Speaker 1: I'm like, skis are so annoying.

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Speaker 4: They're not.

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Speaker 1: It's not like your feet. Skis are like not feet long.

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Speaker 1: They're like long, so long, and you can't like I

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Speaker 1: can't side shuffle. I can barely scurry, And so I

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Speaker 1: was like, there's no way I can get to him

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Speaker 1: in like a not fall or you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like if if he had been in front of me

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Speaker 1: I maybe would have said something, but it would have

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Speaker 1: been really a challenge.

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Speaker 2: So me, Tanya and Red Star in a group chat,

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Speaker 2: and Red Star will send me videos and photos of

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Speaker 2: Tanya updating me on their trips, because if I don't

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Speaker 2: Like it looked like she was like a you know

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Speaker 3: She is she's gonna have a lucky year. I can

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Speaker 3: I just went for it.

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Speaker 5: And all the skiing though too. In general, it's not

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Speaker 5: Because didn't you and Patrick have a memorable interaction too

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well Chris Harrison introduced me to him and he

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Speaker 3: Are you catching the ball?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And then you rode up on a ski lift with

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Speaker 4: Like these kids are fine?

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Speaker 3: Was It's like I'm too advanced for this since she

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Speaker 1: But apparently kids can't go on the chair lift without

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Speaker 2: You know, Tanya, that's people. That's not just kids. Some

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Speaker 4: It's so fascinating.

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Speaker 3: I'm getting home.

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Speaker 2: So they were like, we're gonna have buses to take

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Speaker 2: The girl, I swear she was an angel, like I've

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Speaker 2: She didn't start the ride till I got in my

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Speaker 2: this is such a Tawnyan thing for you to do.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm channeling more of my Tanya

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Speaker 3: Want to try and talk to people.

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Speaker 5: It's like Nancy spielberg'sdriving a Uberg.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was Nancy Spielberg, but not but not.

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Speaker 4: I love that your little angel.

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Speaker 5: See.

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Speaker 1: I think I think talking to people benefits more than not.

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Speaker 1: Like sometimes you'll get a dud and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: in Mexico, we were at this restaurant and there was

443
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Speaker 1: this couple that sat down right next to us, and

444
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,359
Speaker 1: sometimes Redstar and I will like kind of have these

445
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,679
Speaker 1: we'll play these games like how long do you think

446
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,880
Speaker 1: they've been dating, you know, like a year, less than

447
00:19:58,960 --> 00:19:59,280
Speaker 1: it's the.

448
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 4: First date whatever.

449
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 1: They were like made this little yeah, we made this

450
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 1: little wager on this couple that sat down, and so

451
00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,479
Speaker 1: obviously we need to get to the bottom of it

452
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 1: to figure it out. So we start chatting, chatting them

453
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 1: up blah blah blah. We ended up talking to them

454
00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 1: for over an hour. The guy starts sending us tequila shots.

455
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,280
Speaker 1: We're taking tequila shots with these people that are like

456
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,840
Speaker 1: sitting you know whatever. Turns out they're not a couple

457
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,679
Speaker 1: at all. They're just friends. The girl wants to be

458
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 1: with him, he's commitment foe whatever. But they we ended

459
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 1: up taking one tequila shop too many, and I literally

460
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 1: was like I got to go, like I have got

461
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:35,720
Speaker 1: to go home.

462
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 4: So Red Star like rushes me home.

463
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 1: I start I'm puking for like an hour, Like I

464
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:44,439
Speaker 1: was like, oh horrible, it was horrible, But what's so

465
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 1: funny is we went back to that restaurant like two

466
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,479
Speaker 1: nights later and are we had the same waiter and

467
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 1: he was like, uh, I thought that they were swingers

468
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 1: that they were trying to kind of and he go,

469
00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 1: I was really happy when I saw you take your girl, like,

470
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 1: you know, at home, that you guys were going home,

471
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 1: you know together, And I was like, no, I was

472
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 1: just so drunk. I couldn't even stay there anymore, Like

473
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 1: I needed to go home.

474
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,680
Speaker 4: But they had this It's just funny because.

475
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 1: I had this whole theory that these people were swingers

476
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 1: trying to hit on us and we were, but.

477
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 2: They probably they probably see it all the time, so

478
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,439
Speaker 2: they probably do have like a good read on people.

479
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 5: Totally.

480
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 4: I feel like that was so not what was happening

481
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:22,640
Speaker 4: at all.

482
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

483
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 2: Well, luckily Danielle and I have no, we can't relate

484
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,119
Speaker 2: to having too much tequila.

485
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 3: In any capacity. But so do you?

486
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

487
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 2: Bad?

488
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,679
Speaker 3: What did y'all do for New Year's? Do you like

489
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 3: New Year's? Are you the New Year celebrator?

490
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 2: No, Like I'm saying, like the event of New Year's

491
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 2: do you find it overrated? Or do you I'm not

492
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: talking about like your setting intentions.

493
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,919
Speaker 1: And no, no, I love a new year, like the

494
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 1: new year is just such a refreshing feeling. It's just

495
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 1: a new chapter, a new page, a new book.

496
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 4: Per se. I love a new Year.

497
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,120
Speaker 1: But we didn't really do much because we just got

498
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,879
Speaker 1: back from the from skiing, and so we were all

499
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: kind of just kind of like tired, and so we

500
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 1: did stay up till midnight. We watched Ryan on New

501
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 1: Year's Rock and Eve and went to sleep at twelve

502
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 1: oh one and wore the twenty twenty two glasses and

503
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 1: the hats and basically it.

504
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 3: We didn't.

505
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: We went up to Three Helen and I went to

506
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 2: Three Rivers because I've never been to the Sequoia trees.

507
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 2: It's been like a dream of mine forever, and so

508
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 2: we went and it was like it looked like a

509
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 2: winter wonderland up there. It was like where we stayed

510
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 2: it wasn't snowing, which was so nice because it was

511
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 2: just like calm and peaceful. But then we drove up

512
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 2: and it was snowing so much.

513
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 3: And yeah, I didn't. I think I fell.

514
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 2: Asleep at ten thirty on New Year's Eve, which I

515
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 2: was so happy about. I had no like, I had

516
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,159
Speaker 2: no hesitation about going to sleep before midnight and to

517
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: be honest, so I always take edibles if I'm gonna

518
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: if I'm gonna partake and weed, I take edibles. And

519
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 2: I know my limitations, like I know what's gonna make

520
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 2: me feel just like relax and go to sleep. I

521
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 2: know what's gonna make me high and like want to

522
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: like eat and laugh. But for the first time I

523
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 2: try to joint and it was an absolute nightmare. I

524
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: started coughing so bad I thought I was gonna die.

525
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 3: I was like, how do people do this?

526
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: Apparently I did it wrong and I was like, I

527
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 2: don't feel anything. And then like twenty minutes after the fact,

528
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 2: I was cruising.

529
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,719
Speaker 1: It was a good time cruising for a bruising.

530
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 3: So you want cruising for a bruson a joint?

531
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: Do you smoke it like a cigarette? Like you smoke

532
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: it down to the bottom.

533
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 3: I literally don't know, Like I just took. I took.

534
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: Haley goes do it like this. I did it and

535
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 2: nothing happened, and she goes, you didn't. You didn't like,

536
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 2: you didn't suck any in, And I was like, okay,

537
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: so I do it again. I start coughing. I have

538
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: it on video. I start coughing and like, do you

539
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: know when you get too much pool water in your

540
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: mouth and you do like that gag like choke thing.

541
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did that. It was like a night.

542
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,880
Speaker 2: It was a disaster, but but I felt really good

543
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 2: and had a great time. And that's why I fell

544
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 2: asleep at ten thirty, relaxed, ready for the new year.

545
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: And then how do you feel the next day? Do

546
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 1: you get hungover from a joint?

547
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 3: No, you don't get hungover at all.

548
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 2: That's the best part is Like, that's my argument of

549
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: people who have an issue with weed, is that, like

550
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,160
Speaker 2: alcohol is so much more destructive.

551
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: That's the next day after my tequila explosion, I was

552
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: just not there. Like we stayed in bed watching Breaking

553
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 1: Bad till like one o'clock.

554
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good vacation though. I love that.

555
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was actually quite nice.

556
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 3: I get room service, yeah, because they.

557
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: Have the TV where you can hook it up to

558
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: your phone, so we just put on you know where

559
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: we were.

560
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was great and like I'm a Breaking Bad

561
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 4: stand now.

562
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 3: Well, apparently people are obsessed with the show.

563
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: So good and it's like on paper, you would never

564
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: think it's a Tanya show, and I'm obsessed, Like I'm

565
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: right now, I haven't watched it in a couple of days,

566
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, what's walled up to right now?

567
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,640
Speaker 1: What's to get into I'm almost done, We're almost Uh,

568
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, yeah, I think I'm on the last season.

569
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 2: I might try to get into it again. I started

570
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: it and it was a little dark for me.

571
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 3: But I know, but I think it's weird.

572
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: It's like this weird darkness where you're rooting for the

573
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:37,719
Speaker 1: dark people.

574
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

575
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, it's weird.

576
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: We have a lot of TV to discuss, or like

577
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: two specific TVs chose to discuss. But we're going to

578
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 2: take a break and we'll be right back with that.

579
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 2: All right, we're back. First, I think we need to

580
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 2: get to Tanya left a huge cliffhanger teaser at the

581
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 2: end of our last episode, and a lot of people

582
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 2: guessed on the scrubbing and Instagram what they thought was happening.

583
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 3: Which a lot of people thought y'all were.

584
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 2: Moving in together. I guess you had red star. Yeah,

585
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 2: but that's.

586
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 4: Not that's not no, that is not it.

587
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 5: Uh.

588
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: What was really funny though, is I think people were

589
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: guessing that because I've been posting on my Instagram like

590
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 1: diary of a girlfriend every time I come home from

591
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: Red Star's house, and I have like ten bags on

592
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: my shoulders.

593
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 4: So I have like all my bags because I have.

594
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: A bunch of I have all my toiletries, and I

595
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: have like underwear and all the like necessities. But in

596
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: terms of outfits and stuff, I don't really have anything there.

597
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: So I slept, you know, things back and forth, so

598
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: I always just have a ton of bags. I've been

599
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: taking photos of myself in the beer with like all

600
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: my bags, and people will respond to me like I

601
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 1: can relate. This is my life, da da, So it's

602
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: been really funny. So I think that was like the

603
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: number one guess that we're moving in together, but we

604
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: are not. We are getting a puppy.

605
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 3: Hell a puppy.

606
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 2: I think a puppy might be bigger than moving in

607
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 2: together at this point.

608
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: I know, I'm really excited because I obviously been talking

609
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: about it for a while and he was kind of

610
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: on the same page. He wanted to get a puppy,

611
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: but he didn't want to do it alone, and I

612
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: was kind of the same way, and so we were like,

613
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: let's do it together and we ended up actually I

614
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 1: found a scrubbing and listener shout out Sarah, and we

615
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: just found the most perfect puppy for us. We fell

616
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: in love with her and we're gonna get her very soon,

617
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: in a couple days. And it's just been like really

618
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: really fun. We've been watching videos, We've been taking courses

619
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: of how to train, like we want her to be

620
00:27:54,800 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 1: really well behaved, arguing over different really arguing but having

621
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: different opinions on where she should pee and where she

622
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,959
Speaker 1: you know, like where like all those different spots are

623
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: gonna be.

624
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 4: So it's been really really fun. But big deal.

625
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 2: She's honestly one of the cutest dogs I have ever seen.

626
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: Like her face is unreal. People are gonna die, I know.

627
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: I just like, I'm like, literally so in love with her,

628
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: Like I just like stare at photos of her all

629
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: the time.

630
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 4: It's the weirdest thing.

631
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, she's so cute. I can't wait to meet her.

632
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 2: And she'll be smaller than Phoebe for a second, so

633
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 2: Phoebe will feel like an alpha for two seconds.

634
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we want to, like we wanna.

635
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: We already set up playdates with other dogs that we

636
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: know are vaccinated because when they're probably Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

637
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: so she can she and Phoebe can have a playdate.

638
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 4: I really excited about that.

639
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 3: But yeah, so do you have a name picked out?

640
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, her name's gonna be Sunny.

641
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 5: I would like to know more about that process.

642
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

643
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: So she's a sunny girl. So she just brings sunshine

644
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 1: into your life. You look at her and she is

645
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: just a ball of sunshine and her collar is yellow.

646
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: So it just all felt very serendipitous, you know what

647
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: I mean.

648
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 2: I was really rooting for Monica or Rachel or Chandler

649
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: because Chandler is also cute for a girl. But I

650
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 2: had told our friend Taylor Banks has a puppy, a

651
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 2: dog too, and I was like, her name's Rue. But

652
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: I was like, could Rue's real name be Rachel? But

653
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 2: she goes by Rue, So that then we could have

654
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: a Chandler in Monica. And then Paulina has Joey, I

655
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 2: have Phoebe. We were really getting somewhere, and then Tanya

656
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: throw me a curveball with Sonny.

657
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: I know, so I did throw Rachel was in played

658
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: for a while. I really wanted Rachel, but we all

659
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: needed to agree on it, so it was me, Red

660
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: Star and his kids, and so all of us needed

661
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:05,719
Speaker 1: to agree on something. Rachel wasn't totally really ever in

662
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: the mix.

663
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 3: So yeah, I didn't think so, but my star.

664
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 4: Was like, if you really want Rachel, I can push

665
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 4: for it.

666
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, No, she's such

667
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: a sunny girl, like I loved, She's just such a

668
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: little sunshine girl, and so it just it works.

669
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I represent yellow and sunshiny honestly when I think

670
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 2: at the cast of Friends with Phoebe, so that would

671
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: have been the most like sunshiny cast member. Unfortunately that's

672
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 2: already taken. So Sonny is great. We're very excited for

673
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 2: Sunshine Girl. And she'll have many other nicknames as she grows,

674
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: I promise, I know.

675
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: But the best part is is like I don't know

676
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: if Becka, if I told you this, but you know

677
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: how they tell you about this like snuggle pupp there's

678
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: this like snuggle puppy that you snuggle like you want

679
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: your scent on it. And so we all took turn

680
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: sleeping with it at night, and so I slept with

681
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: it for a night and I was like, this thing

682
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: is so soft. I love sleeping with a stuffed animal,

683
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: and I kind of want one now. And I used

684
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: to judge people that slept the stuffed animals as adults.

685
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 4: So that's where I'm at in life.

686
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 3: So when you're alone, or when you're even with Red Star, I.

687
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 4: Mean, when I'm with him, weird?

688
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: Is it too weird?

689
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 5: So you slept it? Teddy Bear? Is that what it is?

690
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: No, it's like a little puppy that you It's it's like,

691
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: this is a soft little puppy and it has like a heartbeat.

692
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 2: Oh this is okay, wait, okay, I take back my

693
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 2: judgment because they're soft. My sister just recently got a

694
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: puppy and for Christmas, she wanted this heartbeat dog to

695
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 2: put in to train her dog with. And I put

696
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 2: it up against me and it's like the most calming,

697
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 2: comforting feeling and sound.

698
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I do.

699
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: I don't know that you need that, I know every night,

700
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: I know.

701
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 2: But the dog would probably benefit from it. Yeah, no

702
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: judgment to anyone who sleeps with anything. I just when

703
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: you turn thirty four and you start that habit, I

704
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 2: find it it's like, why why add something to be

705
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 2: dependent on?

706
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 3: You know?

707
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 4: Oh, that's a good way of putting it.

708
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a modern woman and I don't want

709
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: to be dependent on anyone, even if it is a

710
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: stuffed animal that's.

711
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 3: Like me, I'm dependent on Melowtonin to sleep.

712
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not good.

713
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 3: I know, but get ready or sleep's about to change forever.

714
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 3: I know it is it really like I used to sleep.

715
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: I could sleep through anything, like nothing woke me up

716
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: as soon as I got Phoebe.

717
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 3: If she even moves.

718
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: In my bed, I'm like up and alert, like I

719
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: know at all times, you know she is.

720
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: You know what's interesting is like because we've been watching

721
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: all these videos and doing all these courses, and there's

722
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: so many different ways to like train a dog or

723
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: how you know what I mean, Like different things you

724
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: can do with your dog that I'm like, how do

725
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: you choose the best one? I'm like, this is I

726
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: guess how parenting is too. There's all these different methods

727
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: and ways, you know what I mean. It's like it's

728
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: up to you what you want to do.

729
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 3: Well the dog just adapts to your lifestyle.

730
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: I mean, it's like you can you can do so

731
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: much people people pay like thousands of dollars for training

732
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: and if your dog is like Nah, that's gonna be

733
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 2: like no.

734
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: Like, we want to train her to hit the bell

735
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: on the door to tell us that she has to

736
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: pee outside.

737
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 4: Does it works right?

738
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 5: Yes, she does do that, but sometimes it appears that

739
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 5: she does it just for attention, like she was just

740
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 5: out ten minutes ago, but she's going bang bang bang

741
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 5: on the bell because she just wants us to pay

742
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 5: attention to her.

743
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: But when you did it, did to train her. Basically

744
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: every time you took her out, you hit the bell

745
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: and then took her out.

746
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, okause that's what My wife is a puppy trainer,

747
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 5: So she has all kinds of these tricks.

748
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 3: Oh, I might need to talk to her about her thanks.

749
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 3: Does she train for year old dogs?

750
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 5: I mean she's pretty good with dogs. I mean she's

751
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 5: very good at like, you know, the basics, you know,

752
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 5: sit and roll over and wear to pee. She's really

753
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 5: good at that stuff.

754
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 3: Babe's got that down.

755
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 2: She's mostly just doesn't come like when we need her,

756
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 2: and she'll hide into the couch, which can really delay

757
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: me getting anywhere on time if she's coming.

758
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have really high hopes for our dog.

759
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: We're like, we're gonna train her not to jump on

760
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 1: people when they walk in.

761
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 3: So little I don't see.

762
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: I don't like that because that's what dogs do, Like,

763
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 2: that's what makes them happy. So I feel like you're

764
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: taking away what makes them a dog, which is.

765
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 4: Like no, because she's still like lay.

766
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 1: We still want her to play with people, but we

767
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 1: just want her to just be a well behaved little

768
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: sunshine girl.

769
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,919
Speaker 2: Like if she was a great Dane, I'd be like, yeah,

770
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: that's probably very important not to jumple people.

771
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 3: But she's gonna be like a ten pound dog. Okay,

772
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,320
Speaker 3: there's like a lot, there's a lot to digest.

773
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, well there's a lot. There's just a lot happening.

774
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 2: Did did y'all did you.

775
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 3: Watch just like that?

776
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 4: No? Honestly, this is I haven't.

777
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 3: Marked in either Anisson's gone, so I'm alone in this.

778
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:08,919
Speaker 4: How many episodes have I missed? Two?

779
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 3: Maybe three? I don't know, there's five.

780
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 2: The third episode made me I was about to quit,

781
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 2: and then Easton text me it was like the fourth episode,

782
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: I feel like it's given me. It's it's may have

783
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 2: saved the whole season, so it's getting back to what

784
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 2: it is. But there is some really disappointing stuff in

785
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 2: the last episode. That I wanted to discuss. But I'm

786
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 2: just gonna have to wait till you're caught up. But

787
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 2: Grey's Anatomy. Did everyone watch grays.

788
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 3: Tonya? Okay?

789
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 1: You know what, though I did not have time, I

790
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 1: was out and about.

791
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 3: Well, if you had time to watch freaking bad, you had.

792
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 5: Time, That's right, that's right exactly. Plus you had flights,

793
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 5: you could have watched it on. I'm with Becca, that's true.

794
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 4: I should You're right, You're right, you know what.

795
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: You're right.

796
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 4: I don't plan on my flights.

797
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: I play like stupid, like I I do, Like I

798
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: did my vision board on my flight home, you know

799
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like I should have. I should have

800
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: prepared better off with the flights.

801
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, spoiler alert, Mark and I are going to

802
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 3: talk about it.

803
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 4: That's I already know what happens.

804
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 2: Oh you do, okay, Mark? Yes, the main thing is

805
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,439
Speaker 2: that is Owen dead.

806
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 5: Oh okay, thank you, because I honestly, I was racking

807
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 5: my brain trying to remember what happened in that last episode.

808
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 3: Don't remember anything else.

809
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 5: I just know that I got to tell you, and

810
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 5: I know that I have a reputation on this show

811
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 5: for being kind of the defender of Gray's Anatomy. I

812
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,280
Speaker 5: thought this episode was a low point.

813
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 4: Oh no, I heard it was good.

814
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 2: Wait, I'm shocked. I thought it was one of the

815
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 2: best they've had recently.

816
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 5: To me, it was extremely telegraphed because, uh so they're

817
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 5: trying to get a a liver for a care a heart.

818
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,879
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, trying to get a heart for this kid. Oh,

819
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 5: we got one. It's great. And then they're driving back

820
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 5: and Kim Raver keeps saying, everything's going to be fine,

821
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 5: don't worry, We've got the heart now, Everything's going to

822
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 5: be just fine. And I'm thinking to myself, clearly, it's

823
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 5: not going to be just fine, or you wouldn't be

824
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 5: saying over and over again it's gonna be just fine.

825
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 5: And sure enough, because it's a season well mid season finale,

826
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 5: the guy driving their car has a heart attack and

827
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 5: they go flying off the road. It's like, this doesn't

828
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 5: happen in the world as much as it happens to

829
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 5: these things.

830
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 2: This is literally Gray's Anatomy to an absolute tea.

831
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 5: But to the point they're becoming a parody of themselves.

832
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: Oh, trying to say in the last episode that you

833
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: defended where I said they were in that place.

834
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: That's what they did in the very beginning of the

835
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: series with like the shooter in the hospital and the

836
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: bomb and like those are the epic seasons.

837
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 2: I think writing this is the thing. The writing has

838
00:37:55,560 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 2: changed because it's the same idea. It's no different. It's

839
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 2: been this way from the beginning, but the delivery and

840
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 2: the writing and the dare I say the acting, I

841
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: don't know. Possibly it's more about the writing though, because.

842
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 5: Haven't we done this one before where their car veers

843
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 5: off the road and is stuck on a cliff. Because,

844
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 5: by the way, just because your driver has a heart

845
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 5: attack doesn't mean you goa end up hanging from a

846
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,919
Speaker 5: tree on a cliff. Just it just seems stupid to.

847
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 3: Me, Okay, it is stupid. And also we're on season eighteen.

848
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 3: We are having to repurpose every storyline we could think

849
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 3: of it.

850
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: No, there are lots of storylines that they have not

851
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: gone down, like getting stuck inside somebody or constipated people,

852
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 1: or there's a.

853
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 3: Lot of something more drastic than constipation.

854
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: I will say though, when the car fell and you

855
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 2: heard the landing, I was like, this is not looking

856
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 2: good for owas.

857
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 5: Way they're not killing.

858
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not killing no way no, and.

859
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 5: When when Owen and what's his name? Karmik? Is that

860
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 5: his name? Yeah? Yeah. When they were having that like no,

861
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 5: you have to go, No, I can't leave you. No,

862
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 5: you have a family, but wait, I can't leave you,

863
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 5: I was like, how are you guys doing this with

864
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 5: the straight face honestly, Like this had to be a

865
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 5: challenge for you too.

866
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: I'm with you, but like you defend episodes that are

867
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,280
Speaker 2: so much worse than this. So I'm just like shocked

868
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 2: to hear this.

869
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: I'm shook to my core because I heard this was

870
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:27,240
Speaker 1: a really good one.

871
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,479
Speaker 5: No, I was rolling my eyes the whole time.

872
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: Well, I feel as though I roll my eyes a lot,

873
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 2: durk face a lot this year or.

874
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 3: Lately, but I do.

875
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: Oh and then Amelia and the new doctor make out

876
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 2: and Link Link was like trying to find Amelia to

877
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: basically be like, I don't need to be married to you.

878
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 2: I just want to be with you. I love you,

879
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 2: and he walks out and sees them kissing.

880
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: Ye Oh, that's a good storyline, though. I'm kind of

881
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: enjoying that.

882
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 2: Joe is into Link and he's like pining over Amelia.

883
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: So that's gonna be a good little triangle situation. But

884
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 2: I think that I don't like about shows right now,

885
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 2: and just like just like that did this as well.

886
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 2: They rush storylines. So there's something even though it's frustrating

887
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,879
Speaker 2: as a viewer when things are dragged out and you're

888
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,800
Speaker 2: waiting for that inevitable moment, like we're gonna be waiting

889
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: for I hope we're gonna be waiting for Link.

890
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,439
Speaker 3: And Joe to get together.

891
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 2: Longer than them just like rushing it because it feels obvious,

892
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like back in the day

893
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: when Meredith and Derek weren't together, we waited a long

894
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 2: time for them to have their like moment.

895
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, remember when I went skiing with him?

896
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,439
Speaker 3: Remember when he played like softball with him? Yes, right,

897
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 3: and talked and Chris Harrison got photos.

898
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 6: Of the stairs with me and p them. You know, Yeah,

899
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 6: I love him. I'm like obsessed with him. And I

900
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 6: remember that I have this like signed autographed shirt that

901
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 6: I paid an absurd amount of money to auction to

902
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 6: win this auction and I won, and the shirt is

903
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 6: like an extra extra small so I can't do anything

904
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 6: with it excepting.

905
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 3: In my closet.

906
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: Just frame it.

907
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 3: That doesn't really go with my decor.

908
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 5: Oh, I liked I liked the link Joe Amelia Triangle.

909
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 5: I like that and Er. I don't remember the character's name,

910
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 5: but I love that. This person's name in real life

911
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 5: is Eer fight Master. It's the greatest name I've ever heard.

912
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 5: And the fact that their name is Er and they

913
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 5: run Gray's Anatomy is pretty sweet too. But anyway, really

914
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 5: that's their name. Yes, that's their name, Er fight Master.

915
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: Is that their Instagram handle?

916
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 5: I don't know. Oh, I don't follow them on Instagram,

917
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 5: but I just know their name. Anyway. I like that.

918
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 5: I also liked Schmid killing that person. Not that I

919
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 5: enjoyed the death, but I found that compelling me too.

920
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 2: But that was a terrifying amount of blood on the floor.

921
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 2: I was like this, I felt like I was watching

922
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 2: Dexter for a second. Oh, Like, I don't know if

923
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 2: that happened and if people can weigh in, but.

924
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 3: That I don't know. I have so much.

925
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: I've always had respect for the medical field, and I

926
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: really wanted to be a part of it, even though

927
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: I don't think I could make it through medical school.

928
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 2: But seeing some of the scenes and grays anatomy. I'm like,

929
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 2: I know it's dramatic because it's TV, but I also

930
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of that stuff happens and it's

931
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 2: really gruesome.

932
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 5: Wait.

933
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: Do you know what I've realized about myself is I'm

934
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: one of those people where if I start watching a

935
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: new show, I start thinking I see all the characters

936
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: out in real life. So like when I started watching

937
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: Breaking Bad, I went to my coffee shop that I

938
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: go to all the time, and I was like, I

939
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: texted Red Star and I said, oh, my gosh, two

940
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 1: ghost uncles here.

941
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 4: He's in line.

942
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: Behind and I was like, I swear it's him. It

943
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: looks exactly like him. And he was like, go up

944
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: to him and say something. But it's like COVID and

945
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: I want to go up to him. And he goes,

946
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:53,439
Speaker 1: does he look exactly like he does in the show?

947
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,760
Speaker 1: And I said, exactly like, and he goes, this show

948
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 1: was it's ten years old.

949
00:42:58,840 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: He's not.

950
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: He doesn't look the same anymore, this guy. And I

951
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: was like, oh, and then.

952
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 5: When that hector is that Hector Salamanca with the bell?

953
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, with the bell so good. And then when

954
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 1: we saw when we were in Mexico. There was somebody

955
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: like walk past us and I was like, oh my gosh,

956
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:16,479
Speaker 1: that's one of uh Jesse, what's his name, Jesse. Aaron

957
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: paul I was like, that's one of Jesse Pinkman's dealers.

958
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I swear that's him. And he was

959
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: just like, you keep seeing these people and it's not them,

960
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: and I was like, I swear that's him.

961
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: Wow, you probably could have Like me, Aaron Paul, I

962
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 2: feel like y'all are similar circles.

963
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: Like no, yeah, I've come to realize that we are

964
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: a little bit in a similar circle.

965
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot of friends.

966
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 2: So you're just breaking bad. Unexpected twists of twenty twenty

967
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 2: two is Tanya being obsessed with Breaking Bad.

968
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 4: A really unexpected turn of twenty twenty two.

969
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 3: And Marn saying that this episode of Greece is bad.

970
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, what is that?

971
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 4: What is going on?

972
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 5: All right? But Tanya, when you're done, you can watch

973
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 5: El Camino, which is the movie they did kind of

974
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 5: the PS movie on Breaking Bad, which is great, and

975
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 5: then you can watch Better Call Saul, which I think

976
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 5: is phenomenal.

977
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: So I don't like him in this this show, so

978
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm.

979
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 5: Put all that aside. Yep, you got to put all

980
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 5: that aside because it's it's I care about him in

981
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 5: the world. And I totally agree, and that's why I

982
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 5: held off on Better Call Saul for years, all right,

983
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 5: but my dad talked me into it, and I really

984
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 5: was happy with it. If Breaking Bad is a ten,

985
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 5: Better Call Saul is a solid eight and a half.

986
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 4: And it's not what downgrade.

987
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 5: It's not as good as Breaking Bad. I will keep

988
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 5: He's keeping your as great. Breaking Bad is legendary sopranos,

989
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 5: legendary classic show. Better Call Soul is in the neighborhood,

990
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 5: but also just continues that world, and you will find

991
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 5: yourself wanting to continue to be in that world.

992
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: Okay, it's kind of like Love Island, like I'm itching

993
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 1: for season three now exactly.

994
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 5: Those two have ever been. But it's the socas are

995
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 5: in it, and what's his name, Erman Trout, Mike erman

996
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 5: Trout is in it. Like a lot of the characters

997
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 5: you really like from Breaking Bad, you see them years

998
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 5: earlier on Better Call Saul.

999
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: All right, Wow, I wish Easton was Did anyone see

1000
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 2: Spider Man The New Spider Man?

1001
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 3: Yes? Oh, my god, wasn't it amazing?

1002
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 5: Phenomenal? First time in a theater in two years? And

1003
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 5: I thought that was worth it. And I brought my kids,

1004
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 5: who have never seen a Marvel movie of any kind,

1005
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 5: and they loved it. They want to see it again.

1006
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 5: They thought it was fantastic.

1007
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 3: I could go see it again.

1008
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: Have either of you seen don't look up.

1009
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,919
Speaker 3: No, but I've heard mixed reviews.

1010
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: Mixed mixed, Okay, so I really want to That's like

1011
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,240
Speaker 1: my number one I want to watch.

1012
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 4: And then Emily and Paris season two.

1013
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 3: Wow, you really go all over the board.

1014
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 5: And here all over the board.

1015
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 2: I love, and Queer Eye has a new season which

1016
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: I love Queer Eye and so we watched three episode

1017
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 2: Ora Kai.

1018
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 5: I watched nine and a half episodes on the flight

1019
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 5: back from Honolulu. I almost got through the season, but

1020
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 5: it didn't quite make it. But it's great.

1021
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: Wow, it really is all over the board. And I

1022
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: have to really pick and choose because stuff I watched

1023
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: with Red Star and then things things that he won't

1024
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: watch that have to watch my own, which my alone

1025
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: time is becoming less and less these days, so I

1026
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: really have to be choosy.

1027
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta you really got to keep up because

1028
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: you know Grayson Grayson just like that or once a week.

1029
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 2: So it's pretty easy to manage if you just stay

1030
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 2: on top of it. The binging shows are different.

1031
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1032
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 2: I made a vision board and I accidentally left on

1033
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 2: top of my car last night, so it charged in

1034
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 2: the sun.

1035
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 3: So it's like all bent and weird.

1036
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 1: But that feels no, but this feels in my driveway.

1037
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 5: So all night, all day and all night there was

1038
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 5: a car and your driver with a vision board on

1039
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 5: top of it.

1040
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 3: No one stole.

1041
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm not ware are people stealing it? But like

1042
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: the fact that it's being like charred by the sun

1043
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:57,800
Speaker 1: and like in the rough.

1044
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 2: Charge or charged, not charred like it's it's charge the manifestation,

1045
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 2: I don't know about that. And on the top, on

1046
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 2: the top it says follow this, I will follow the sun.

1047
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 3: That's pretty crazy.

1048
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 5: Wow, it's like a solar battery.

1049
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 3: This thing is powerful.

1050
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 2: Y'all don't need to be anywhere near me if you

1051
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 2: don't want power.

1052
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 3: And son Sonny and Sonny. That's our girl.

1053
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: But maybe next week, our next podcast, we should do

1054
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: a deep dive. Because I picked my word for the

1055
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: year I have I finished phase one. On my board,

1056
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: I saw phase two and three to finish, so that'll

1057
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: be perfect for next week.

1058
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 3: Great.

1059
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, I have I have some additions to my

1060
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 2: word And you just said something that I was gonna

1061
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 2: say and I can't remember what it was.

1062
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh oh.

1063
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 2: Because we talked about we're gonna do two episodes, so

1064
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 2: we're gonna be testing it out. We're gonna do an

1065
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 2: episode where it's just us, and then we're gonna do

1066
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 2: when we have a guest. There will be two episodes

1067
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 2: that week, so it'll kind of as we're like navigating

1068
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 2: it and testing it out. We're gonna be keeping you

1069
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 2: updated on when we will have the extra episodes.

1070
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 5: So basically, Mondays are going to be this, yeah, and

1071
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 5: then if we have a guest, that'll be later in

1072
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 5: the week. You'll have a guest bonus episode exactly.

1073
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: Because I mean, honestly, I have a lot of things

1074
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: to say. I actually made a list of things to

1075
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: talk about while we were gone.

1076
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 4: I felt very mark.

1077
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: I did it on my phone though I didn't have

1078
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: a post it and I just like kept a little

1079
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: sheet of things. But most importantly, my new congestion nasal

1080
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: strips have been causing quite the stir on my Instagram,

1081
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: and it's very funny.

1082
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 3: People don't support.

1083
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: Them, no, because I'm scared my nose is going to

1084
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: get stuck open like that. I don't want it to

1085
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,479
Speaker 1: like permanently like open my nose like that. But people

1086
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: are commenting on the honeymoon phase of relationship, like when

1087
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:52,439
Speaker 1: it really is over.

1088
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good topic.

1089
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, because the.

1090
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 3: Goal is that it's never over. But is that realistic?

1091
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: So that was my I said, yes, it's over with

1092
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: my nasal strip. No, it never ends, and red Star

1093
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: voted no, it never ends.

1094
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 3: Cute?

1095
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 4: Why do you roll your eyes? Mark hater it?

1096
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 5: I mean, good for him telling you what you want

1097
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 5: to hear. But that that's not possible.

1098
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 4: That the honeymoon stage never ends. Correct, that's not true.

1099
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 5: That is true. It cannot never end.

1100
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 4: Says you.

1101
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: I know people that have been married for sixty years

1102
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 1: to say they're still in their honeymoon phase.

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Speaker 5: I don't. I don't believe that's true. I think that

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00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 5: the honeymoon phase by definition, has to have an ending

1105
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 5: to it, and it's it's not a hard end, it's

1106
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 5: just gradual. Yeah.

1107
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,240
Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you with my with my nasal strip,

1108
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: my drippy nose and like this is it on the

1109
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: side of my face was really coming strong last night.

1110
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Speaker 2: This is a good conversation though, and I think we

1111
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 2: could deep dive into it because.

1112
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Speaker 3: I still feel.

1113
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 2: Definitely like honeymoon, but I do feel like it's so

1114
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 2: different at the beginning, because once you get to know

1115
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 2: certain things about each other, it's like that like skiddy

1116
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 2: blinder thing that you have during the honeymoon phase is gone.

1117
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 2: But it's it's not necessarily a bad thing, right, So

1118
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,200
Speaker 2: that's a good that's a good.

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00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's yeah, you're right, it's not a bad thing.

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Speaker 5: And I don't mean to imply that it's a bad

1121
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 5: thing when the honeymoon phase goes away, but it's gonna

1122
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 5: go away, and it's going to get and it gets

1123
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 5: deeper at that point.

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Speaker 1: Right, Like at this point, I like stopped plucking my

1125
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 1: plucking my nipple hairs.

1126
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 2: Oh you just went straight to laser wax or just

1127
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:38,720
Speaker 2: they're they're there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's when you know.

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00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I used I was like I was singing about

1130
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,879
Speaker 2: this the other day. I would be like I would

1131
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 2: do like the body scrubs to where my skin was

1132
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 2: like so soft, and then I get a tan and

1133
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 2: I was like lasered.

1134
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 3: Everything was just like tight and bright and tight. And

1135
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 3: now I'm just like, yeah, I'm like, I'm so pack

1136
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 3: a razor.

1137
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: Didn't even pack a razor for a ski trip.

1138
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 2: Okay, I do always pack a razor, but that you

1139
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 2: may have Yeah, you may have exited the phase of honeymoon.

1140
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 3: You're onto the next phase, whatever that is. I don't know.

1141
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 3: Do we have time to do an email.

1142
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,760
Speaker 1: I mean we're already, Oh, we're pushing fifty minutes.

1143
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 5: Well, now that you've said it, we probably should. Otherwise

1144
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 5: people be like, oh, there was an email and you

1145
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 5: guys didn't read it. You're right, You're right, Kirsten says, I,

1146
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,760
Speaker 5: like Becca, grew up in a conservative household. My parents

1147
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 5: taught me sex is bad unless you're married. Well, now

1148
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 5: I'm thirty in a happy relationship, and I'm struggling feeling

1149
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 5: comfortable with sex. I think it has a lot to

1150
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 5: do with my upbringing. My partner is very patient, but

1151
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 5: it's hard for me to open up in the bedroom. Becca.

1152
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 5: After your upbringing, do you have the same problems or

1153
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 5: do you feel like you've moved past that mentality? How

1154
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 5: do you move past it now? Also, how do your

1155
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 5: parents feel about you being more open with sex and

1156
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 5: do they now agree with that in your life?

1157
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 2: Just kicked Phoebe. Yeah, sex is such a it's so

1158
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 2: I don't I think if you're in a conservative household

1159
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 2: and grow up like in a Christian household, it's definitely

1160
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 2: one of those things that is uncomfortable. It's an uncomfortable

1161
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: topic to talk about. But I also think sex in

1162
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 2: general kind of has like that feeling for a lot

1163
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 2: of people, regardless of how you grew up. But I

1164
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 2: was very scared of intimacy, and I think because I

1165
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 2: was waiting for marriage for a long time, I was

1166
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 2: able to kind of hide behind that as like a

1167
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 2: like defense mechanism because I was scared.

1168
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 3: And there was a lot of like I guess.

1169
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 2: Shame associated with sex, And it wasn't even so much

1170
00:52:56,719 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: for my parents, Like my parents weren't I'm made my

1171
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: decisions on sex based on church and like going to

1172
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 2: Bible study and youth group and all that stuff, So

1173
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 2: my parents weren't so much like you need to. I

1174
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 2: never really even had a sex talk with my parents,

1175
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 2: so most of that came from other people.

1176
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 3: I have moved past it.

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00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 5: I don't.

1178
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: My parents are probably very envious of yours, by the way,

1179
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: because I asked all the sex questions to mine.

1180
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think it's important to have those conversations.

1181
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 2: And I don't think it's supposed to be like this

1182
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 2: super comfortab it's always gonna be like this comfortable thing.

1183
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 2: But I think it's to have that open dialogue is

1184
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 2: really important. But I don't know if my parents agreed

1185
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 2: with my lifestyle, but I kind of have had to

1186
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 2: accept that I am, you know, a thirty three year

1187
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 2: old woman and able to make decisions that are best

1188
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 2: for me.

1189
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 3: And they love me.

1190
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 2: And we don't always agree on everything, that's for sure,

1191
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:03,319
Speaker 2: but I think at a certain age, you kind of

1192
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 2: decide who you're living for and like make your own decisions.

1193
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of times we worry about

1194
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 2: disappointing our parents, and we kind of we disappoint ourselves

1195
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 2: because we're so worried about disappointing other people. So I

1196
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 2: think I even had a conversation with Robert where I

1197
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 2: apologize because I was like, I was so scared of

1198
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 2: being open and intimate that I feel like I was

1199
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 2: so shut out and you were so patient with me,

1200
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 2: and like, you know, I apologize them.

1201
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 3: I was like, thank you for being so.

1202
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 2: Patient, and also like you got a very scared, you know,

1203
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 2: version of me when it came to intimacy. So I

1204
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 2: do think it's something to navigate and work through. And

1205
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 2: even if you talk to a therapist or talk to

1206
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 2: someone who you feel comfortable with, I think it's I

1207
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 2: think it's really important.

1208
00:54:57,960 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: I think, Becka at the nail on the head, it's like,

1209
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: who are you living for? And I think whether it's

1210
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: your parents, whether it's your church, whether it's people on Instagram,

1211
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: whatever it is. And in your case, you can do

1212
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: things that other people approve of. But if it doesn't

1213
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: feel good to you and it doesn't feel genuine to you,

1214
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: then at the end of the day, like what are

1215
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: you doing it for?

1216
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 2: That's so true because it's like, if you don't want

1217
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 2: to have sex till you're married, and that's really what

1218
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: you want to do, regardless of what other people or

1219
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 2: society or what anyone's telling you, stick to what feels

1220
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,760
Speaker 2: right to you. But if you are not doing something

1221
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 2: based on disappointing other people, believe me, let me tell

1222
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 2: you from experience it's just going to weigh on you

1223
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 2: and it's not worth the wait that you carry when

1224
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 2: you do that.

1225
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 3: All right, Well, it's the new year. Hopefully next week

1226
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 3: will be together in person.

1227
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, same.

1228
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 2: I hope everyone is staying healthy and happy. And you know,

1229
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 2: I was thinking, even if last year, like, regardless of

1230
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 2: if it was good, the best year ever, the worst

1231
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 2: you're ever, just okay, it's in the past. Yeah, right,

1232
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 2: one has happened, and now we're in a new year,

1233
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 2: and I hope that it's amazing for everybody. But just know,

1234
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 2: I was standing on the river the other day and

1235
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 2: there were ebbs and flows, and there's moments where the

1236
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 2: river was very still but it was still moving but

1237
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 2: you couldn't really see where it was moving. And then

1238
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 2: it hit the rocks and it was flowing effortlessly, and

1239
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 2: I was thinking, like, that's how life is like. You

1240
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,439
Speaker 2: feel sometimes like you're not moving forward, but you are,

1241
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: even if.

1242
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 4: You feel in that joint right now.

1243
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 5: That is a fantastic metaphor.

1244
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1245
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 2: I really was like, deep in my thoughts, sober, and

1246
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 2: it's so true.

1247
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 3: I was watching the water.

1248
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 2: I was like, it looks very still, but it's all

1249
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 2: moving in different directions, but it all comes to this

1250
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 2: one direction where all of a sudden and it starts

1251
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: flowing fast.

1252
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 5: And that's what we're trying to achieve, isn't it. That's

1253
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 5: stillness while still moving forward. Ye, we're looking forward.

1254
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,240
Speaker 1: But I do think a lot of people feel stuck

1255
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: like they were stuck in the last two years. Like

1256
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: nobody everybody felt like they lost years of their lives,

1257
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: Like they didn't do any they didn't propel forward, They

1258
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: just kind of like stayed.

1259
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: But I guarantee you, if you if you think about

1260
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 2: if if you're able to really like get into your

1261
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 2: head and think about those times there there is an

1262
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 2: area where you moved forward. It might not be the

1263
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: area where you were focused on moving forward, but in

1264
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 2: some capacity everyone was still moving. As long as no

1265
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 2: one quit, you were still moving forward. It just didn't go.

1266
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 2: It wasn't It didn't look how you thought it was

1267
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 2: going to look.

1268
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 4: That's right.

1269
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 3: And on that note, I am literally inspiration one O one.

1270
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 3: I was off you all. No, I'm not.

1271
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 5: Not that.

1272
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: She's like New Year's you've watched in the water smoking

1273
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 1: a doobie.

1274
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 2: Honestly, I wish I had done that while I smoked

1275
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 2: because that I would have seen way more inspirational things,

1276
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 2: more prolific.

1277
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 3: Yes, I would have been way more prolific.

1278
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 2: All right, hope everyone has a great week first week

1279
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 2: of the new year, and we'll be.

1280
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 1: Back next week with a great show.

1281
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 3: What's a great show? This podcast?

1282
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 2: This year, this year's podcast is going to be the

1283
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 2: greatest you've ever seen.

1284
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not getting any duds, like you know, like

1285
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: sometimes we're like, oh, that one.

1286
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: Likes was a dud. Like this year, we say that

1287
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 3: we get the most messages.

1288
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: That's true, that is true.

1289
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 4: No more of that, no more. In twenty twenty two,

1290
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 4: we say.

1291
00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 2: New Yeah it ain't great. If it ain't great, it

1292
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 2: ain't getting released.

1293
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: It ain't.

1294
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 4: Bye Nate. No, that's our motto.

1295
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what that means that was good? All right?

1296
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 3: We love you, We love you.