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Speaker 2: Randy is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Rose.
Speaker 2: And I really hope that they go out again, because
Speaker 2: Randy and Rose a double Randy. Before we find out
Speaker 2: about your date and why you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2: How long has it been since you talked to Rose?
Speaker 3: It's been It's been about a month.
Speaker 2: WHOA.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I just was like, you know, a week or two
Speaker 4: is understandable, but after about a month, it's like, Okay,
Speaker 4: I think I did something really wrong here some things.
Speaker 4: I just you know, I really want to find out
Speaker 4: what what happened.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: Sure, so we know you're getting ghosted, we just need
Speaker 2: to know why. But if it's been a whole month,
Speaker 2: why do you want to still get a hold of her.
Speaker 3: There's just something about her.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 3: I'm a podcast here and I and I had to
Speaker 3: reviews on movies and stuff.
Speaker 4: And she commented on one of my stories on the
Speaker 4: podcast and we just got talking and there was just
Speaker 4: such a strong connection that I just I couldn't like, oh,
Speaker 4: I can't stop thinking about it, I need to know.
Speaker 4: It's like, everything seemed so great. Why why did disappear
Speaker 4: on me?
Speaker 6: Like something?
Speaker 2: Tell us about the date?
Speaker 7: Then?
Speaker 3: So we got to.
Speaker 4: Talk in and I found out that she lived close by.
Speaker 4: I had a movie I was reviewing. It was a
Speaker 4: horror film, you know. I asked, hey, do you want
Speaker 4: to do you want to go to this movie with me?
Speaker 4: We can get drinks at the bar beforehand and everything
Speaker 4: like that, and she was down and I was like,
Speaker 4: that's perfect, and you know, everything went off without a hitch.
Speaker 4: We went to the bar, had a few drinks, and
Speaker 4: I'm a movie buff and so finding someone that is
Speaker 4: also passionate about movies, the conversation flows so perfectly. We
Speaker 4: had a few drinks, really getting along. We went to
Speaker 4: the movie early, we were ready. The movie was pretty good,
Speaker 4: and again there was a horror film, and so she
Speaker 4: did get a little scared.
Speaker 2: And did she jump into your lap at any point
Speaker 2: or your arms?
Speaker 3: Well, you know, there was one moment. There was one.
Speaker 3: There was one really big scare moment, you know the
Speaker 3: jump scares in movies. Yeah, so that's the big.
Speaker 4: Jump scare moment. And she grabbed my hand really tight.
Speaker 4: Then and it just it felt really good. And I
Speaker 4: was like, you know, she might not be into horror films. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but I kind of like the he's a little scared.
Speaker 4: She's like holding on.
Speaker 2: Did she keep her hand on or take it off?
Speaker 4: After well, she grabbed my hand really really tight and
Speaker 4: it actually hurt how ground it. But after that it
Speaker 4: was kind of like deadpans. She's like, nope, done, and
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I guess, I guess that was
Speaker 4: too much.
Speaker 2: Was one of the best feelings for me, at least
Speaker 2: when I've gone on dates before to the movies and
Speaker 2: is it's a scary movie. They jump and grab your
Speaker 2: hand and then they leave it there on your hand.
Speaker 3: You're like, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4: So then she asked, She's like, I need to use
Speaker 4: the restroom, and I was like, okay, okay, go ahead,
Speaker 4: do you think Then ten minutes go by, twenty minutes
Speaker 4: go by, the movie ends, I'm like, Rose, where are you?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 4: And so it was like kind of weird, just like
Speaker 4: everything seemed to be going so smoothly and then out
Speaker 4: of nowhere, you just disappear on me, Like did she
Speaker 4: just bounce? Yeah, she just bounced, And so I like
Speaker 4: you know, at first, I was scared. I was like,
Speaker 4: is she okay? Did something bad happen? Where did she go?
Speaker 4: But you know, text, you know, callback, no, no, nothing,
Speaker 4: And I thought about, you know, because I wrote the
Speaker 4: review it was an okay movie, But I thought about
Speaker 4: like mentioning something. But it's like, I don't want to
Speaker 4: bring anything up on my podcast.
Speaker 2: Do not bring a date today? This movie?
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, not a data movie is a movie for friends,
Speaker 4: you know. So I just am at a loss, and
Speaker 4: I just I really just want to know what did
Speaker 4: I do wrong? Because if I did something incredibly wrong,
Speaker 4: I need to know because I don't want to miss
Speaker 4: out on another another person if she's done, you.
Speaker 1: Know, I mean, are you sure you don't want to
Speaker 1: just cut your losses? I mean, this girl bounced on
Speaker 1: you in the middle of a movie, which should be
Speaker 1: a red flag to you, and is not responding in
Speaker 1: a month, which should also be a red flag to you.
Speaker 2: So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, nine times out of ten, i'd be like, all right,
Speaker 3: it's over, it's fine.
Speaker 4: But there was just something about the way we connected
Speaker 4: over our love of movies that I was like, I
Speaker 4: can't I can't let this go.
Speaker 2: I just can't well, which I figured out. Man, We'll
Speaker 2: play a song come Back, and then call her and
Speaker 2: see if she answers, and see if she'll tell us
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you and why she's skipped out on
Speaker 2: the movie, and then maybe get you another date if
Speaker 2: you still want them. Okay, yeah, yeah, all right, we'll
Speaker 2: play a song come back to you first, Ay, follow
Speaker 2: up next. I'm really interested in finding out what happened
Speaker 2: to Rose. Rose is the girl that Randy went out
Speaker 2: with for the first eight follow up. Today, we're about
Speaker 2: to call her and ask her why she's ghosting him
Speaker 2: and see if we can get him another date if
Speaker 2: he still wants one after he finds out the reason.
Speaker 2: But Rose just took off in the middle of their date. Randy,
Speaker 2: why don't you recap the date real quick to refresh
Speaker 2: everybody's memory before we call her? Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4: So I met Rose via a comment on the podcast
Speaker 4: that I work, and we hit it off. I thought
Speaker 4: we had grab a couple of drinks before a movie
Speaker 4: that I had a review, had a drink, great conversation,
Speaker 4: great start to the movie.
Speaker 3: In the middle of the movie, for some odd reason,
Speaker 3: she said she had to.
Speaker 4: Use the restroom and just never came back, and I
Speaker 4: don't know what happened.
Speaker 2: It's like scary or heartbreaking or both. All right, we'll
Speaker 2: try to figure out where you're going to call the
Speaker 2: number right now, see if she answers, and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting. Okay, you ready?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Man, I speak to
Speaker 2: Rose please she Hey, Rose, how are you? My name
Speaker 2: is Jubal and I'm calling from a radio show. It's
Speaker 2: called The Jebel Show. Hi, Rose, this is the show too.
Speaker 2: My name is Hi. I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3: How you Hi?
Speaker 5: Guys, It's fine, I guess, Oh my gosh, the show
Speaker 5: I do.
Speaker 2: I do you appreciate that?
Speaker 4: Rose?
Speaker 7: So why are you calling me?
Speaker 3: I guess like.
Speaker 2: We're just wondering why you ran out of a date
Speaker 2: in the middle of it. Oh my gosh. This is
Speaker 2: the first date follow up and Randy about you, cause
Speaker 2: you guys went out and you were at a movie
Speaker 2: and then you went to the bathroom and you were gone.
Speaker 2: You have talked to him since then. Randy is wondering
Speaker 2: if you would tell us the reason that you're ghosting.
Speaker 2: It well, we're glad to hear you. Okay, little bit.
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 5: No, okay, so, oh my gosh, I have no idea
Speaker 5: like what he may have shared with you. But yeah,
Speaker 5: I mean I know I know the show, and so
Speaker 5: I okay, we're going to talk about this. Okay, what
Speaker 5: did he say? I mean, what did he say? Because
Speaker 5: I love the date? I mean I absolutely loved the date.
Speaker 2: Why did you leave it?
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5: Well, like, first of all, Randy, I don't know, you know,
Speaker 5: if he mentioned that he's a podcaster so kind of
Speaker 5: like you guys, like he's on the radio and has
Speaker 5: like this really sexy voice, he was even sexier in person.
Speaker 5: So like we would help for drinks before our date,
Speaker 5: you know, and I'm not a big drinker, but I
Speaker 5: knew that I needed to kind of like loosen up.
Speaker 5: And everything was perfect. I mean, everything was perfect, and
Speaker 5: I was feeling like loose. I was feeling, you know,
Speaker 5: just comfortable. You're not a huge Hora fan. I mean
Speaker 5: I haven't watched like horror movies since like high school.
Speaker 5: But like whatever, it's not that big of a deal.
Speaker 5: I don't feel like they're that you know, there's not
Speaker 5: that much artistic stuff that goes into it, you know.
Speaker 5: So I'm not into like dumb slash reflects or anything
Speaker 5: like that.
Speaker 7: But this movie was okay.
Speaker 5: But I do get scared easily. I mean I felt
Speaker 5: comfortable holding his hand. Randy was so like good to
Speaker 5: me and gentle, and it felt so like perfect. There
Speaker 5: was like no judgment or anything. But there was this
Speaker 5: point in the movie that I got scared. And I
Speaker 5: don't know if any other woman out there, I mean,
Speaker 5: my doctor said, okay, I peed myself.
Speaker 2: We got it. Been there, girl, it's okay, laughing too hard?
Speaker 7: Did I peed my pants?
Speaker 3: Oh my god?
Speaker 7: And I didn't know what to do.
Speaker 5: And I thought about it a second because you know,
Speaker 5: like it was dark.
Speaker 7: And it just happened. I didn't mean to happen.
Speaker 5: And so I excused myself to the bathroom. And when
Speaker 5: I made it to the bathroom, I was mortified because
Speaker 5: it wasn't like I was going to be able to
Speaker 5: go under the hand dryer. I wore this skirt and
Speaker 5: I guess I just had too many drinks. I don't know,
Speaker 5: and I was completely covered and I'm sitting there thinking,
Speaker 5: like my chair is wet, my entire skirt is wet
Speaker 5: like being is so said, See, he's going to think
Speaker 5: I'm a crazy person. And I just was. I was
Speaker 5: too embarrassed, you know what I mean. I just slipped
Speaker 5: out when no one was looking, thank god. I mean,
Speaker 5: and I just I had to run to my car.
Speaker 5: I had to go home.
Speaker 3: I had to.
Speaker 5: Completely change, completely change.
Speaker 2: And I you know that. I mean, that's how it is,
Speaker 2: when like a little bit comes out and you can't
Speaker 2: stop it, and then it's like literally sometimes and then
Speaker 2: it just keeps going.
Speaker 1: I know this is after the fact, but if it
Speaker 1: ever happens again, just get a soda and dump it
Speaker 1: on your side in the future, right, It might save
Speaker 1: you a little bit.
Speaker 5: And I guess I just I was not thinking that's
Speaker 5: a great idea, by the way, I was so flustered
Speaker 5: that And I mean I got Randy's text. I did.
Speaker 5: I just did not know what to say because I
Speaker 5: don't want to start off with like lies, you know.
Speaker 5: And he didn't say anything about it on his movie review,
Speaker 5: so and I listened for it, like I did.
Speaker 2: That's cool. At least he didn't say that you beat
Speaker 2: your pants on his podcast.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he wasn't like I took this crazy person out
Speaker 5: for a date and she peed me or something like hell,
Speaker 5: I wasn't the goal and yeah, so I don't know
Speaker 5: what to say.
Speaker 2: Well, I think you said it all. Basically. You also
Speaker 2: said it to Randy because he's been on the phone
Speaker 2: listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, Hi hello, Cirose. I am so sorry.
Speaker 7: Am I am so sorry.
Speaker 4: I've been trying hard not to laugh, Like, oh, I
Speaker 4: understand completely.
Speaker 3: I am just.
Speaker 4: So happy that it was not something crazy or that
Speaker 4: I did something wrong.
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, no, no, it comes in my head.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know when Adam Stander goes your pants, you know,
Speaker 4: And I was.
Speaker 5: Like doing Madison moment too, but like I didn't know
Speaker 5: if it would be. It's not funny, it's not cool.
Speaker 5: It's so not funn.
Speaker 4: Like now that I've had I mean, I wish you
Speaker 4: would have said something and like, hey, I had an emergency,
Speaker 4: I need to go home.
Speaker 3: Can schedule.
Speaker 4: But I just honestly, the biggest thing I feel right
Speaker 4: now is relief, Like I feel really connected to you,
Speaker 4: and it's like it's funny now, like we if you'll
Speaker 4: have me, I would love to go on another date
Speaker 4: and we can laugh about this you know.
Speaker 2: Rose, would you like to go on another date with Randy?
Speaker 2: Will pay for it?
Speaker 5: Absolutely? Absolutely, I would, just as long as this does
Speaker 5: not become our story of how we met, like we're
Speaker 5: going to need to come up with something else.
Speaker 3: We'll do another one.
Speaker 4: So I have I have kind of review that I'm
Speaker 4: doing next week, and it's a comedy, so maybe we'll
Speaker 4: just try it again and we'll watch it comedy.
Speaker 1: That's when it really happens, Rose maybends.
Speaker 7: I will be prepared.
Speaker 6: I will be prepared A pendanty School considered me, Miles Davis,
Speaker 6: that was the grossest thing I ever
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