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Speaker 1: Last weekend, I attended the first ever Black Effect Podcast

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Speaker 1: Festival in Atlanta, and y'all, it was absolutely amazing. Not

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Speaker 1: only did I have the opportunity to be a part

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Speaker 1: of the Women in Podcasting panel with some amazing women,

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Speaker 1: but I also got a chance to meet tons of

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Speaker 1: new people. Shout out to my professional homegirls for pulling up,

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Speaker 1: Thank y'all for always holding me down and not up.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to the cousins that was in the audience,

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Speaker 1: and last but not least, shout out to my family

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Speaker 1: from Black Effect Podcast Network. The festival was sold out okay,

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Speaker 1: and the energy y'all was fire. Trust me when I

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Speaker 1: say this, If you didn't make it to this year's festival,

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Speaker 1: you do not, I repeat, you do not want to

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Speaker 1: miss out on next year's event. Now let's get into

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Speaker 1: this week's episode as my guest shares her experiences with

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Speaker 1: sex parties. Sex parties have a history dating back to

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Speaker 1: the sexual liberation movement in the nineteen seventies in nineteen eighties,

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Speaker 1: during which they began to gain popularity. While these events

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Speaker 1: can take on different forms, they often involve in the

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Speaker 1: environment that promotes openness, exploration, and sexual expression. Our guest

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Speaker 1: today will share her personal experiences and insights on attending

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Speaker 1: sex parties. It is important to remember that participation in

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Speaker 1: these events should always be consensual, safe, and legal. To

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Speaker 1: my guests, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I am good? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm all as well? All is cute. I can't complain,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm really excited to have this conversation with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited as well. I love y'all. All is cute.

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Speaker 2: I'm all cute too.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's all about the cuteness. Okay, keeping it cute, y'all. Now,

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Speaker 1: please describe what a sex party is and how it works.

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Speaker 3: So, a sex party or a play party is basically

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Speaker 3: when a lot of open minded, free you know, free

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Speaker 2: For the purposes of I want to say that it's.

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Speaker 3: For the purpose of like networking and meeting other people

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Speaker 3: with like similar interests.

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Speaker 2: And during these.

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Speaker 3: Parties, people might, you know, you might meet a new partner,

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Speaker 3: you might change yourself with some partners, maybe you just

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Speaker 3: watch the way that it looks. Often varies depending on

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Speaker 3: who you are, but in general, I want to say

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Speaker 3: it's like a networking event for people with you know,

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Speaker 3: same interests.

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Speaker 2: Sexual interests.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, because I'm like, when you say networking,

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Speaker 1: are you talking about like not business now, I mean,

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Speaker 1: but that happens, but that could happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but the I guess the main purpose is

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Speaker 1: Okay, Now do you think sex parties are still taboo?

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Speaker 1: And if so, why so?

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Speaker 3: I want to say fifty fifty on this because I

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Speaker 3: do believe that in this eraror, people are like more

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Speaker 3: open with their sexuality. I Also what I've also noticed

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Speaker 3: is that people are more interested in sex parties, like

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Speaker 2: They're like, I don't know, it's I feel like it's much.

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Speaker 3: Less taboo than it has been in the past, but

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Speaker 3: it still is tabooed.

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Speaker 1: I feel like in New York is very common.

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Speaker 3: Right, And that's why I'm like, I don't know if

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Speaker 3: this is just because I'm a New Yorker, so it's

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Speaker 2: Know, you know, at like I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I can invited to one of these

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Speaker 3: things damn near every week at this.

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Speaker 1: Point, right, and I feel like anything yeah, right, Like it's.

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Speaker 4: Not even people that I know it, Like if you

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Speaker 4: have really, Yes, girl, I was in a whole other

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Speaker 4: country and people was asking. But that's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 4: Like I was in another country and people were like

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Speaker 2: So that's why I think it's less taboo.

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Speaker 5: Because it's just like mm hmm, I wasn't doing anything

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Speaker 5: particularly like I don't know, I wasn't doing anything at

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Speaker 1: Party right now? Are there different types of sex parties?

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Speaker 1: And if so, which ones do you go to?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I'm actually not sure if there's different kinds.

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Speaker 3: The different kinds that I know, I call them the

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Speaker 3: safe ones and the unsafe ones.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I prefer the safe ones.

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Speaker 3: But when I say there's there's safe ones and unsafe ones,

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Speaker 3: I feel like some of them they have where there's

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Speaker 3: there's not like condments available. That's not like Russian roule, right,

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Speaker 3: So like those those are called the unsafe ones, but

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Speaker 3: then there are also but then there's the opposite where

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Speaker 2: I've seen ones where you have to get a background checked,

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Speaker 3: One was, Yeah, that that one was like they were

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Speaker 3: on it, on it. But I also it's it's much

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Speaker 3: more of a pleasurable experience knowing that like all these

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Speaker 3: you know, is safe because not everyone has those conversations

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Speaker 3: that everyone's comfortable with asking people.

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Speaker 2: Of their status and things of that nature.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, to me, it's more comfortable, but

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Speaker 3: I guess now that I'm talking about it and thinking

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Speaker 3: about it, there's also like impromptu shit because I like

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Speaker 3: to hope. I like to host events a lot, and

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Speaker 3: I've noticed that some of my like regular vanilla events

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Speaker 3: have turned you know, a little wild. I do so

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Speaker 3: I don't host, I don't host play parties, but I

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Speaker 3: do host gay nights. I used to do gay nights

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Speaker 3: like throughout the city, and then some of my game

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Speaker 3: nights will get a little wild at the end.

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Speaker 1: Learn something new every day on the Professional Homegirl podcast

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Speaker 1: something knowing this girl for how long?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: But go ahead, learn something new every day.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just my personality.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I make people feel like very comfortable,

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Speaker 3: So I don't know it should just be happening.

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like with the safe parties it

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Speaker 1: brings out a certain crowd because I feel like when

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Speaker 1: you have less restrictions and rules, it brings out a

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Speaker 1: whole different type of crowd that I'm pretty sure a

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Speaker 1: lot of people are kind of like, Eh.

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Speaker 2: It's true.

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Speaker 3: So I've noticed the ones with a lot of rules

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Speaker 2: Like those are the parties.

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Speaker 3: Where I'm usually around doctors, lawyers, people from shreet like

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Speaker 3: the ones that are kind of like not just easy breezy, right,

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Speaker 3: let's see what's gonna like, what's gonna go down? Those

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Speaker 2: I get into, I go taking an argument or somebody

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Speaker 2: happened often right right that part, but it doesn't happened often.

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Speaker 3: But I will say that I've seen that more at

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Speaker 2: M hmm.

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Speaker 1: Now have you noticed any changes in the sex party

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Speaker 1: scenes since you've been going, And if so, what are they.

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Speaker 3: Not?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 3: I think no, not really it's still no phones, Like

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Speaker 3: I haven't been to any where phones have been allowed.

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Speaker 3: It's still be respectful, it's still always asked for consent. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: I haven't really seen a big difference. But I also

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Speaker 3: won't want to say, maybe three four years enough time.

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Speaker 2: Really, what's been the same for the four years of

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Speaker 2: and involved?

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Speaker 1: Now, how were you introduced to these parties?

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Speaker 2: So my man, my man, my man, my man, my man.

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Speaker 3: Bless that man's heart. So one day, this fine young

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Speaker 2: Yo, we're gonna go to a party. I'm like like right,

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just like okay.

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Speaker 3: And then the outfit he got us was like we

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Speaker 3: had like this mansion outfit with the Halloween party. So

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Speaker 3: we have this mansion out that mind you. I will disclaimer.

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Speaker 3: I have been I have been a part of a

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Speaker 3: lot of like group sex things, so like a bunch

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Speaker 2: So I've had I guess, but we didn't switch partners.

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Speaker 2: Nobody was switching partners.

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Speaker 3: It was just I've been in like I've been in

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Speaker 1: And you're having sex too.

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Speaker 3: M hmm, Okay, I've had people like watching, so I

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Speaker 3: just wanted to prenote that I've already had those experiences just.

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Speaker 2: So people don't be like dam ye man, he set

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Speaker 3: He was aware that I've been in these type of situations.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, s flashboard or whatever. So it's a Halloween party.

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Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, we're going.

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Speaker 3: And I'm just like whatever, it's Halloween, Like, I'm not

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Speaker 3: thinking too much of it, right, And we.

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Speaker 2: Drive hours It was probably like a two hours drive.

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Speaker 1: Wow, right, like upstate man, not upstate.

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Speaker 2: It was younger at the time.

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Speaker 2: So going on quick whatever. We get to the front door.

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Speaker 3: He rings the bell or whatever, and he looks at

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Speaker 3: me and he says, I just met these people last week,

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I don't know who's crooky at

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Speaker 3: So I was the first like what is happening? And

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Speaker 3: then before I could even say anything, the couple opens

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Speaker 3: couple opens the door and there they have like the

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Speaker 3: same outfit that we have one that was funny.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's giving swingers.

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Speaker 2: So we go in.

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Speaker 3: So my party, you know, I'm like, I'm from the city.

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Speaker 3: Like I've been to a bunch of parties. You know, parties,

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Speaker 3: there's usually a bunch of different people. Want to see singles,

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Speaker 3: you're gonna see couples, You're gonna you want to see

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Speaker 3: a bunch.

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Speaker 1: Offer it's a party.

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Speaker 2: It's a party. And this man told me that we

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Speaker 2: were going to a party. I walk in. It's nothing

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Speaker 2: but couples.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: So I sit down, I look at him. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm whispered. I'm like, where are we And he was like,

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Speaker 2: I think this might be a sweater party.

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Speaker 3: Like this is like he's whispering back because like I

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Speaker 3: think we're in a sweager party. I said, what's our rules?

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Speaker 3: He said, what's your rules? I said no rules? And

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Speaker 3: he was like, I got no rules.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, come on, let me out.

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Speaker 3: And communication is important, Like if you ever go to

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Speaker 3: communication is very very important.

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Speaker 2: You need to figure out those rules.

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Speaker 1: Which we're going to talk about later, because I feel

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Speaker 1: like when you do go with your partner. It can

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Speaker 1: go good, or it can go left real quick.

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Speaker 3: But then that night, though we didn't like, we didn't

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Speaker 2: But by this time people were like starting to like

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you can be like very experienced, like you

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Speaker 3: I'm not really interested in like partying today, like I

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Speaker 1: So how do you decide whether or not to attend one?

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Speaker 3: It's really whenever they pop up and get invited to

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Speaker 1: Good Friday Vigilation.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even realize that they planned them for Good Friday.

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Speaker 1: Listen, don't even get me started. The time is going

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Speaker 3: I was surprised because once passed away today?

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Speaker 2: Who else whatever?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: All these holidays? But what you gonna call it? I

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Speaker 2: But the ones that typically goes so I feel like

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, whatever, And how do they invite you?

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Speaker 3: He's he like he plans them out like he really

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Speaker 2: He also takes like so when I go to play parties, I.

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Speaker 2: So right, like there's a bunch of different stuff.

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Speaker 2: So I'm paranoid, right.

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Speaker 3: No, because my friends make fun of me because like what

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Speaker 3: and it was just like, you know, that's pointless, right,

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Speaker 3: And I was just like I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because that Sh'S like gonna show up, chaw. I

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Speaker 2: That's okay, So let's just be like, well, I don't care,

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Speaker 2: I'm out safe. So it's funny. So I used to

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Speaker 2: I've grown up. I'll stop doing that, but.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest with girls like I've never used

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Speaker 1: like do girls really use protection?

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Speaker 2: In my opinion?

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Speaker 3: No, Like I've never in all in all my living years, right,

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Speaker 3: I have never seen girls use protection with each other.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not saying that that's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: And you're also not saying that all girls don't do this.

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Speaker 1: Some girls do use protection.

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Speaker 3: Right, but I just never I've never seen it, right. So,

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Speaker 3: and then it's so I'm gonna tell you something like

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Speaker 2: So like I'll I'll have a girl eat.

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Speaker 3: Me out or whatever, no protection or whatever. I'll eat

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Speaker 3: her out without protection. But then I'll make my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: But the fluens have already.

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Speaker 1: Swapped, Like Yo, bitches are annoying. Now you ate some box,

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Speaker 1: but you want them to put a condom? You might

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Speaker 1: tell let him at that ship raw.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. In my head, I'm just like, oh.

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Speaker 1: You, but he don't be saying like, oh, you need

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Speaker 1: no goes on the china and you looking at watch

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Speaker 1: something like covering it, but it's not the same. Does

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Speaker 2: I've never done that, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like the contact is so close, so

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just to me, I've never done it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I should be doing it. I need to look

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Speaker 1: I mean, we're here, now, how long you been doing this?

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Speaker 2: So yes, please learn how to use it. That's so good, y'all,

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Speaker 3: But we've had like people that we frequent, like we

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Speaker 1: But she was your girlfriend, right, but she was your girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So with that.

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Speaker 3: I just with that, I feel like it was the

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Speaker 2: And we would move from there. So it's it's really

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: I did an episode with someone, a young lady. She

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's frequent conversations as well, because something that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And just a lot of factors getting like you

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Speaker 7: and also like yourself, like as you're growing as a person,

444
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 7: right I low key feel like I'm kind of like

445
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 7: outgrowing up parties kind of now, like I don't get as.

446
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: Much enjoyment out of them. M M. That's random. Like

447
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 2: I'm not sure.

448
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm very much in like a settling

449
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 3: down phase in my life right now.

450
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,640
Speaker 2: So it's like I just kind of want to like.

451
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 3: Focus on one thing, but it's not I don't want

452
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 3: to like stop going and I'm not. I'm also not

453
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 3: saying that just because you're blocked in with your partner,

454
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 3: that does they mean that you can't go see these

455
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,159
Speaker 3: things and these things make you less than But I

456
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 3: think for me right now, in this moment of my life,

457
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 3: I just kind of like want to focus on my partners,

458
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 3: focus on our goals and kind of figure shit out.

459
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 3: But at the same trump, we still talking about going

460
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 3: to them. So it's like it's fay faty, but.

461
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 2: I don't know.

462
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 3: It takes time, Like it takes time to go see

463
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:55,119
Speaker 3: these things. Work has to be put into it. They

464
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 3: are often themed, so oftentimes they are the themes. So

465
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 3: they got to go buy a costume or buy outfit

466
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 3: and if you wanted. The girls who don't like to

467
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 3: repeat off, it's like me, like you're constantly buying these outfits,

468
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 3: but the thing like it's just another thing on my plate, right,

469
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 3: So I think I'm just like, oh my, I don't

470
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 3: really want to do this, like this weekend.

471
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's money, right, Like I'm just like for.

472
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,199
Speaker 3: Something that like, I don't know, you can't I mean,

473
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 3: I guess you can't recycle launch, right, but certain things

474
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 3: I'm like.

475
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 2: I mean I don't know.

476
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: If you got a good night and that piece of drawers, baby,

477
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 1: I might not be able to.

478
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 2: Recycle those, right, Like all right, you see what I be.

479
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, after a good night, I just have to

480
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: throw them away, hang them up.

481
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 2: Like you you served your purpose? Right?

482
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: So are drugs and alcohol available at these parties?

483
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 2: Yes?

484
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes yes so typically so, but it

485
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 3: depends on the party. I've seen parties where there's limits,

486
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 3: Like so if if someone feels like you've been drinking

487
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 3: too much or taking to drugs, you have to sit

488
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 3: out or they'll like call you a uber home or something.

489
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: I have seen that. Yeah, okay, people they want I

490
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 2: love it.

491
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, the ones where there's lots and lots and lots

492
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 3: of rules, like some people be like, oh, isn't it

493
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 3: lots of fun?

494
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,439
Speaker 2: Know the fuck is not? I feel so safe.

495
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 3: Yo, I'm having more fun because I'm so comfortable. Like

496
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, shit, go last stuff. They have my back,

497
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 3: like I know someone's gonna happen, right.

498
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: You know.

499
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 1: What's so funny? I wonder if the host is really

500
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 1: enjoying themselves because they have to be. They have to

501
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: pretty much monitor the party and make sure that everybody

502
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: is having a good time, but also everybody is safe

503
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: and everything is consensual.

504
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

505
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 3: I've seen hosts that I feel like they look stressed.

506
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 3: They don't not that they look stressed, but.

507
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: I can see that they're busy, like that's a big responsibility.

508
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 2: They're checking in on people every two seconds.

509
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 3: They're they're making sure people have like enough like I

510
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 3: don't know, bob or toys or whatever, like if things

511
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 3: are being given out, Like they're constantly checking in on people.

512
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: I've also seen hosts.

513
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 3: I guess I maybe it's the more seasoned hosts, right

514
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 3: that I've seen, like they're they're kind of more balanced,

515
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 3: like they're able to play and kind of still watch

516
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 3: the room. They'll tap into other people to also watch

517
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 3: the room, so there'll be like several people that you

518
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 3: can go to.

519
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 2: Those are a little bit Yeah, those are.

520
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,199
Speaker 3: The company ones too, when there's multiple kind of like

521
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 3: multiple holes because you don't just.

522
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: Have to go to this one person and you feel

523
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: like you're wading someone.

524
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine you sucking the hose and you got the

525
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: bust and nut and the nigga's down because he sees

526
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: some ship that's about the.

527
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 2: You'd be like, what the fun.

528
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:37,719
Speaker 1: Could you imagine?

529
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 2: I've never seen that, but I would be so upset, like.

530
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: You almost at the peak, like.

531
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 3: I see some hocking sexual Oh my god.

532
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: So wait, are the people that are attractive.

533
00:25:55,560 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: So deef thesis right, So I've been to ones where

534
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 3: I wasn't attractive to not.

535
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: A damn soul. I've also so this.

536
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 3: I feel like I've seen it's a fucking trend. No

537
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 3: no shade to nobody.

538
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: But all shade, all teeth.

539
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 4: Oh.

540
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 2: But I've noticed like sometimes I'm the youngest person in

541
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: the room. There's a lot of like older people don't

542
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: and like just to me, they're not that.

543
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: Don't be an age just now, I mean, but what

544
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: do you what do you mean by older? Like I

545
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,400
Speaker 1: don't so like because you're in your thirties.

546
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm in my thirties. I want to say, like

547
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 2: they'd be like fifties.

548
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:46,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, they'd be like fifties or late forties yeah, or

549
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 3: mid forties. But remember I started going to these in

550
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 3: my mid twenties, right, oh, mid twenties, going or being

551
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: around people that's in their mid forties, I'm like, oh

552
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 3: yeah old Like.

553
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 1: M h, it ain't not attractive.

554
00:26:59,440 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 2: Something of that.

555
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 3: So I'm like, I know, I'm gon attracted this to

556
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 3: like one host, one host's wife, like she's a little baddie.

557
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 3: But then everybody else I'll be like yeah, like I'm not,

558
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 3: like I'm not interested.

559
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: How do they come like, because I feel like if

560
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 1: I was going to one of these parties, like I'm

561
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: gonna come on point, like I had to be the

562
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 1: baddest bitch in the room when I step in, Like,

563
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: like do they put effort in to themselves?

564
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 2: So it just be like no, they definitely put effort

565
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 2: into themselves.

566
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 3: I've never I've never seen like someone who dressed flocky

567
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 3: like everyone.

568
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like people be having.

569
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 3: Like they make up all okay, some people be like

570
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 3: people be bare faced too. So I've been to like

571
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 3: like extravagant like playing parties where people like are done

572
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 3: to the tea, and I've also seen white people who

573
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 3: like you know.

574
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: Bare face or whatever comfortable but they still look like

575
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 2: very presentable, right. Yeah. But I don't know. I just

576
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: don't be attracted all the time.

577
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 3: But then I have been to parties where it's like

578
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 3: nothing but like just beautiful people like all around. But

579
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 3: I want to say, more often than not, I find

580
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 3: myself in parties where people aren't that attractive.

581
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, I know you be tight. I do be

582
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 2: tight because people like.

583
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 1: While'll be here so you won't miss with any men

584
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: only women only women. Yeah, but why not men.

585
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm very much like my man is my man,

586
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 3: and that's like the only penis I want.

587
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 2: Have I thought about it, yes, but I've never. I

588
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: don't know.

589
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 3: It's just it just doesn't do it for me, like

590
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 3: I don't I can't imagine double penetration, so I can't

591
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 3: imagine like I with another guy, all right, I also

592
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: and then I just can't imagine like being with a

593
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: guy outside my partner. And then and then I'm just

594
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 3: like wildly attracted to women, but I'm not in a

595
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 3: relationship with a women. But like let's say, let's say

596
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 3: my partner with a woman, I probably I probably wouldn't

597
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: keep dealing with women. I'm probably would deal with a

598
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 3: man like at the parties.

599
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: Oh, I get it, I get it.

600
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: So I guess I just don't double that on the scene.

601
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: All right, right, okay, I understand. So what kind of

602
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: conversations do you typically have with other participants before engaging

603
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: in sexual activity? Like do you do small talk with

604
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: the bitch? Or like yeah, or y'all just get things popping?

605
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: You know, she opened a leg up.

606
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 3: Right, So so funny enough, I feel like I typically

607
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 3: have conversations with people I'm not going to play with,

608
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 3: but I might still find them attractive. But like, I

609
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 3: don't know, I just rap. Sometimes conversation is very stimulating

610
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 3: for me.

611
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 2: Right, So as you know, you deep chaw, I am,

612
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 2: I am a little deep.

613
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 3: We got like a whole conversational like crystals and like

614
00:29:55,080 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 3: all this other stuff, uh talking about like.

615
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: Like when we first met, we was on the phone

616
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: for like I think two hours talking about some of

617
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: the deepest ship.

618
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 2: We were talking about selling souls.

619
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: Shurecause that's stimulates, right, so so then I could do that.

620
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 2: But then, like I remember, like the last part of y'all.

621
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 3: Went to like I just walked up to go. I

622
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 3: was like, can I kiss you? And she was like yes,

623
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 3: and then I kissed her and then we just we

624
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 3: should started, but.

625
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,959
Speaker 1: We had no conversation, Like he was attracted to her,

626
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: like you liked her, Yeah, I liked her.

627
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 3: I liked her like she was like Amazonian, Like she

628
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 3: was not tall, Like was she pretty?

629
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah she was decent. I'm not she wasn't like, but.

630
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: Don't be trying to flex on the show.

631
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 2: Now, come on, now, I'm really not. I'm really not.

632
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 2: I'm really not.

633
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 3: But so I tell people this all the time, I'm

634
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 3: less attracted to like physical appearance and more attracted to

635
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 3: like confidence.

636
00:30:55,600 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 2: So like walked into the room, Yes, oh my god,

637
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: that turned me on. So clearly give me a napkin

638
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: sis sorry about it.

639
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: I can tell Yeah, she get a little fluster, but

640
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: she was gonna see I gave you. You end up

641
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: kissing her.

642
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 3: Randed up kissing should have given me like a lap dance.

643
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 3: We start going to each other's b us. She like

644
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 3: play with my jina cous see whatever was like eating

645
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 3: me out. It was like it was the time, but

646
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 3: we didn't really talk like it was. I didn't get

647
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: her number at that end, like we might never see

648
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 3: each other ever again.

649
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: I was just about to ask you that, like do

650
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: you keep in contact with the people that you meet

651
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: or it's just a one time thank you ma'am and

652
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: were good.

653
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 3: For me personally Half the time, I'll keep on contact

654
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 3: with these people, not only the people that typically keep

655
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 3: on contact are like hosts.

656
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: Okay, well obviously yeah right, but like.

657
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 3: I'm typically like friends with the wholes and something type

658
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 3: of capacity, like we can keep key and be on

659
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 3: the phone.

660
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 2: I've never I've never made a friend with anyone party,

661
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 2: but I've seen people do it, like people make friends.

662
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: Are you open to that or nah?

663
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 2: I am I'm just not a very social person. You

664
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 2: think I'm social, I'm really not. You're social with me,

665
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: but I like you, but I like you.

666
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: So what kind of impact if any has attending sex

667
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: parties had on your sexual preferences or desires.

668
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: See, I don't really like this question.

669
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you why because I feel like my

670
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 3: preferences is.

671
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: What makes me go to the parties, not the other

672
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 2: way around. M hmm.

673
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 3: Like i feel like I've always been into king, Like

674
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 3: I've always been into the like bed bds, some stuff

675
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 3: like bondage.

676
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 2: I'm very submissius, so I've always been into that.

677
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 3: And I think because I've always been into that, I like,

678
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 3: I look for things that relate to those right and

679
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 3: like and parties came with that. So I've never went

680
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 3: to a party and was like, oh, like now now

681
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 3: I'm suddenly interested in this thing.

682
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: Like no, I've always been interested and now I'm not

683
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 2: a party learning more about it, you know what I'm saying, right, Yeah,

684
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 2: but I wonder I'm maybe apparently I've turned a girl out.

685
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: I wanted them, so she told you good.

686
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like, I've never been with a girl before,

687
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 3: like this is my first son. And then her best

688
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 3: friend like confirmed it because her best friend was also

689
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 3: there and she was like, yeah.

690
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: I've never seen her. What she what you do? I

691
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: ain't do shit.

692
00:33:55,400 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 3: I really I promised you I'm just talking. That was

693
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 3: one of the girls I was just talking to, Like,

694
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 3: I was just talking to her, and then she started,

695
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: like she started kissing.

696
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 2: She did not ask, She did not ask. I mean,

697
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: you didn't stop though, I didn't stop. But she had me.

698
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: You're aggressive, I'm like this, but she probably was nervous.

699
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe, but.

700
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,760
Speaker 3: Like I could also tell that she had a girl before,

701
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 3: because even like right, she like bit my vagina.

702
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 2: She did it. She did good.

703
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: You should have punched it.

704
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 8: I was like, it's okay, oh my god, I mean

705
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:35,959
Speaker 8: she lying.

706
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Anybody that's been with I feel like if

707
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: you if this is your first time being with a girl,

708
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: like I'm not eating box.

709
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 2: On the first time, Okay, that's you. She lying?

710
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: She being a girl before.

711
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 3: I don't think so, because any girl would have told her,

712
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 3: please don't ever bite, like I mean, actually, let me

713
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 3: not say that, because people have different preferences.

714
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 2: Maybe there are people a true like the deep bet.

715
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: The first time she was ready to go.

716
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 8: Down, yes, job, yes, oh my gosh, but you got

717
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 8: a party like this was random, Like you know what I.

718
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: Want to ask you? Where are the parties at? Like

719
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: is it that people houses or clubs.

720
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 3: Okay, people, I believe I've never been to town, but

721
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 3: I believe there's clubs in New York. Yeah, you know,

722
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 3: there's like houses dedicated to it in New York. Like

723
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 3: I've heard of them, and people haven't buying me.

724
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 2: I just haven't gone yet. But and then some people

725
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: have it in.

726
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 3: Their houses or in their apartment, and some people runs

727
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: house spaces. I like it when people runs out spaces,

728
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 3: but it's pretty like people like do it all right,

729
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: the fancy ones.

730
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: I do want to go to a club. I just

731
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: want to go and just see it because I feel

732
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: like I, you know, just from doing research and like

733
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: talking to so many people and having so many different

734
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: type of friends in my life. Like I heard the

735
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: clubs be like popping and not even on like some

736
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 1: and not even on some sex shit, Like it's just

737
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: be a vibe there, like it's really like a legit party.

738
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 3: No, I've heard the same. I just they be costing bread.

739
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 3: O D they costing bread. That's that's why I don't

740
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 3: be going.

741
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: And if I'm paying that much money, I've been a

742
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 1: bust of nut.

743
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and some of them you need like memberships.

744
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, that is I heard that too. Facts, facts

745
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: you need like a membership. So do you have any

746
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,919
Speaker 1: type of boundaries? I know you said earlier that you don't,

747
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: but you so you don't have no boundaries boundaries when

748
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: you go into these clubs or parties.

749
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 2: For my partner, you're saying like rules.

750
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 1: No for you, Like do you have batteries for yourself?

751
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: Or like.

752
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 2: What do you mean by a boundary?

753
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 1: Like do you have any like like are you pretty

754
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: much open to anything or do you have like certain

755
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: things that you wouldn't do, Like I know you're not

756
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: really interested in men.

757
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, so that's one, like I don't mess I

758
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 3: won't mess with a man unless I'm single, unless i'm

759
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 3: dating or woman at the time. But not really, it's

760
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 3: really just the moved that I'm in for that night, right,

761
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 3: because like I said, like something I've gone and sometimes

762
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 3: I don't participate in much and then I've gone and

763
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:09,439
Speaker 3: we participated in a lot.

764
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 2: But it really depends on my mood.

765
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

766
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

767
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: And what was the best night that you had at

768
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: a party?

769
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:23,800
Speaker 2: The best night I was I was with my partner

770
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 2: and we have went and we met this girl.

771
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 3: She's really pretty. She had a fat ass. I like ass.

772
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:30,439
Speaker 3: I like titties too.

773
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 2: You like body? I like body. I do. I'm very like.

774
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: Visual Yeah a body girl, so like body, YadA yaddy.

775
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 2: So yeah.

776
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 3: So this girl she had her ass was fucking around

777
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 3: in fact, and she had like nice titties and nice

778
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 3: nibbles and.

779
00:37:52,320 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 2: Child. I love to be like wow, but like, wow,

780
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 2: you sound like our friend straight up go ahead.

781
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 3: It's funny because people don't. People believe me, Like they

782
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 3: be like, you're not fine. I'm like, I might like

783
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 3: women more than I.

784
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 1: No, I definitely think you like women more than men.

785
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: I think I do too.

786
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 1: I think when it comes to family, it's all about

787
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: your partner being a man. But when it comes to

788
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: like that intimacy and like the overall feeling and stuff

789
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: and the attraction, it'd be women for you.

790
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do, like you know, when I'm on the street,

791
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 3: I rarely ever check out men.

792
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 2: I'm always checking out women.

793
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: Like, but women are pretty to look at though, Yeah.

794
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 3: I mean, but I feel like straight women or like

795
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 3: there's also somebody sexual woman. I feel like sometimes like

796
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 3: they be looking at me, like I've heard like my

797
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: homeegirls be like, oh, look at him, he's so fine

798
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 3: look at each other, and I just like, I look.

799
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: At I ain't seen the fine nigga yet. Really, I

800
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: haven't seen the find again so long.

801
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 2: Oh maybe man are slacking out here.

802
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

803
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,959
Speaker 1: I mean it's I've been seeing a lot of pretty women.

804
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's a beautiful woman. She's mad pretty.

805
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: But I have not seen a niggy when I be like,

806
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: oh my god, nigga's fine, Like, oh that's unfortunate.

807
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've seen any other side. I haven't seen one

808
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 2: in a while. After the last party I went to,

809
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: I've seen the fine one. He was fine. I was

810
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 2: staring at him like I with the with the Amazonian goddess.

811
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 2: It was both of them. I was like, damn, I

812
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: look like God, not zeus. Oh my god.

813
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: Okay, so the best night. So he saw Shorty saw Shorty.

814
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 3: She was interacting with my man at first or whatever.

815
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 3: They was talking, they had started kissing or whatever.

816
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 2: So a real nigga pulled up.

817
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, step aside, nigga.

818
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 3: So I come over all, keep tea or whatever, because

819
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 3: I'm also I'm not I wouldn't consider myself sexy.

820
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm very like cute, like and goofy.

821
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 3: So I feel like that's another thing why people be

822
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: comfortable abound because I'm just a google.

823
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: So I go around like, oh, like can I have

824
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: some two or whatever? I said something corny and then

825
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,479
Speaker 2: she was like, of course, and then.

826
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 3: She did the she did like the States palm, like

827
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 3: you know when like they got me by the kind

828
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 3: of things and they.

829
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 2: Pull you and they she did it. She did what

830
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: she did it to me.

831
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 3: So we started kissing or whatever, and so we had

832
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 3: like some toys with us, and like it was just

833
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 3: to night, like it was just I don't know, the

834
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 3: energy was real good like and she was just beautiful.

835
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 3: So that was my best night.

836
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: Now, have you had any negative experiences and if so,

837
00:40:58,800 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: how did you handle it?

838
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 3: The most negative experience was I was at a party

839
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 3: with my partner, and my partner, like me and him

840
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 3: were not in a good space, so like I kept

841
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: looking at him and I was just like disgusted. As

842
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 3: your partner, my partner, I was looking at him and

843
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 3: I was disgusted. So I didn't really have fun that night.

844
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 3: And so I suggest, like, if you're in.

845
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 2: A bad space with your person, y'all should not go.

846
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 2: Y'all should not go because that's shit.

847
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,399
Speaker 3: You're gonna think like you can handle it and it's

848
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 3: gonna be fine. But like and granted we've been to

849
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 3: these things already, so it's not like, oh I was

850
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 3: uncomfortable with something happening. It was just because we were

851
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 3: in a bad space. I was like, like, I like

852
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: I want to I'm like sucking piece of shit.

853
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 2: Shit. That was like my worst night.

854
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 3: But then there was another one. I guess it was

855
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 3: just a funny night. Like we was having a three

856
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 3: somewhere a girl and.

857
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 2: He just couldn't get hard for her. But she was beautiful.

858
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 2: The girl was beautiful, like and she's small bay nothing,

859
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 2: but like like no, because you know, like sometimes you

860
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 2: could be beautiful, but if you smell.

861
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 9: I mean yeah when twadden right, like day yeah, but

862
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 9: he yeah, he couldn't get hard like with her specifically,

863
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 9: like because when he would like switch back over to me,

864
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 9: like he would get aroused again and then like he

865
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 9: would try to like mess with her and like specifically

866
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 9: with like penetration, Like he just did not.

867
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 2: Say hard for her, And I was like, I was like,

868
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, hmm, what's happening here?

869
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: Like, right, does he enjoy these parties.

870
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know anymore.

871
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like y'all go to these a

872
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: lot or y'all been going to these for a certain

873
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: amount of years, and especially with that situation like you

874
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: got too fine bitches in front of you, But that

875
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: might be a lot though.

876
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 2: I definitely especially for not sweat because I'm he called

877
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 2: me the quote unqute for anyone. Like he's like, Yo,

878
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 2: you always want to do some ship. You always like

879
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 2: doing all these sexual things things that might be.

880
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 3: But he's never expressed that, Like he's never he's never

881
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 3: said those words like oh this is intendating or I'm

882
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 3: not comfortable. He'll say stuff like oh, like I don't

883
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 3: need to go to these things, like I do it

884
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 3: like for you because I don't you enjoy them. But yeah,

885
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 3: because he he definitely like he's never like I was

886
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 3: his first street, so like he's never had a three before.

887
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 3: So it's so interesting though, because that that's something I

888
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 3: would say, like people to all, I don't want three songs.

889
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 3: I love to be I had love to have two

890
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 3: bitches and oh I have this, and but like when

891
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 3: you really put the pressure on these niggas, like put

892
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 3: them in the situation.

893
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you was asking for this right though?

894
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: Be real limp, Okay, they can't.

895
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 2: Or they panic, or they just don't know what to do.

896
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 2: They don't know.

897
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: Do you think he's gonna stop going with you soon?

898
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 2: Or I don't know because I think he's more into

899
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: it now.

900
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: Mm yeah, why he's in it, I don't know because.

901
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 2: Not asking me.

902
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 3: But before it would be me asking him, like it

903
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 3: would be like, oh, like you like, has any come up?

904
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 2: Like has anyone hit you up? Now he's the one

905
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 2: asking me like has anyone hit you up? Or are

906
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,240
Speaker 2: you interested in going? So I feel like he's getting amble.

907
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 3: And the last one we went to he was like

908
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 3: on his own, like he wasn't like I feel like

909
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 3: before he would like stay kind of like near my hip,

910
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 3: like he always wanted to be.

911
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 2: Next to me, And now he's just like exploring.

912
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: So I'm like, Okay, does that bother you?

913
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 4: No?

914
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,800
Speaker 10: I just don't like, don't leave me completely alone, like

915
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 10: right unless we like, unless we have like a conversation

916
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 10: like me, if you dip off into a room to

917
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 10: like have sex with someone, that's fine, Like one time,

918
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 10: he like the thoughts that like have a conversation with someone.

919
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,479
Speaker 3: And left me alone and I'm just like really good,

920
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 3: like right, like wrong with you. But that's just more

921
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,360
Speaker 3: so like I'm very much like I like being protected.

922
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 3: Like so it's just like, oh, you wouldn't protective like

923
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 3: you would to make sure you wouldn't make it what

924
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 3: are kidnapped?

925
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 2: Like kidnapping? I'm not dramatic. I'm a dramatic.

926
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm looking up for me in a truck

927
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 3: and you would not have no because you was not

928
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 3: in the room or you I wasn't in distance.

929
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 2: Of I was like, that's something I would say. I'm

930
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 2: mad dramatic.

931
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 1: So wait, so do y'all have any rules as a

932
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: couple or it's pretty much like he can just do

933
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: what he wants.

934
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 2: He can do whatever he wants. I'm a watch like

935
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: I like to watch. I love to watch.

936
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 3: So I actually prefer when he he doesn't like this this,

937
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 3: I will say he doesn't like because he always.

938
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 2: Wants me involved. He's like come here, like he was

939
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 2: like come here, come here, Like I'm just like a

940
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 2: lot like yeah, like I want to see my person

941
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: in action, and I also like seeing my person being pleased.

942
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 2: So well, I'm asking what do you ask me? You

943
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 2: asked me if there are rules?

944
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: There any rules?

945
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 2: Look, you got me, Yeah, she reminiscent Chia. But rules. Yeah,

946
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: so I don't mess with men. He also wouldn't want

947
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 2: me messing with the man, right, which won't call it?

948
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 1: You okay with him kissing the bitch? Yeah, because you know,

949
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 1: some people don't like their man kissing another woman because

950
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:38,320
Speaker 1: that's very intimate.

951
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 2: No, I don't mind. Like he's given girls head in

952
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: front of me.

953
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 3: He's kissed girls, so really, I guess for me, the

954
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 3: really only thing is you got to use a condom

955
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 3: for penetration.

956
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: Does he like to use condoms for penetration?

957
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 3: Well?

958
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:53,479
Speaker 2: Other people?

959
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 3: Because like I feel like he has more fun when

960
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 3: we're dating someone, like when we have our own person,

961
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 3: because he can fuck them wrong like those girls, he

962
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 3: can walk wrong.

963
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 2: I feel like he prefers that. But yeah, I don't know.

964
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 2: I just I don't like the idea of you fucking

965
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 2: somebody wrong that you met tonight. Again, I don't like that.

966
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,439
Speaker 1: Just now, you know, you sound like a little hypocrite, Now.

967
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 2: I know, I know, because we.

968
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's gonna find her a professional

969
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 6: here and yo, crying.

970
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 2: I've got a probviously, I have not the pro is

971
00:47:55,320 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 2: going to talk as coming from my guy. Yeah, because

972
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: this bitch got the fucking nerve, y'all. It's you crying

973
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 2: for me. Oh man, I'm crying. Oh man? Yeah, alright, man,

974
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: come on else got it together? All right?

975
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 3: Now?

976
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 1: Do you think that attendany sex parties parties with your

977
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: partner affected your relationship in any way?

978
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 2: Well, we were going on to them like frequently. I

979
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 2: feel like it made it better.

980
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 3: I feel like it made it so much better because

981
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 3: I feel like our communication wasn't always so great and

982
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 3: it forced us to be better communicators. And we were

983
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 3: also learning like more about.

984
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 2: Like sex right together. Yeah, And I don't think I

985
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 2: don't know how everybody but for me, I don't.

986
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 3: I wasn't really having those conversations like when I get

987
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 3: into a relationship, I'm not really asking like I mean,

988
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 3: I guess like I'll ask like little stuff like.

989
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 2: This feel good, but I'm never like, hey, like what

990
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 2: area of your body do you like to touch?

991
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 3: Or like even like paying attention to cause a lot

992
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 3: of it is like this sensual play where like you're

993
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 3: really exploring people's bodies like, and I'm also like learning

994
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 3: from Oh, I guess I kind of release to your

995
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 3: question from earlier.

996
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 2: But I'm also learning, like I'm learning from other women,

997
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 2: like things that I take away from the parties, right

998
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:35,760
Speaker 2: cause like I don't know, like I never.

999
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 3: Like, I like, I'm goofy, so like I've given lap

1000
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 3: dances as a joke, like let me radimly give you

1001
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 3: a lap dance while you're watching the game.

1002
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 2: But like these girls, like I used to, I don't

1003
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 2: love watching them, love watching them.

1004
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,720
Speaker 3: They look like strippers, Like they look like professional fucking

1005
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 3: dancers sometimes, like the way that they was giving you

1006
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 3: lat dances and being so sensual.

1007
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 2: So I pick that's something I learned from them.

1008
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, like that's not just something I could

1009
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 3: do when I'm being goofy and joking around, like.

1010
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: That's a partner everyday life.

1011
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like I never I never even thought of it.

1012
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,839
Speaker 1: I know how to tap into my sensual side now

1013
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: if I want something. But I think this also just

1014
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: plays into with your charisma or just being witty or

1015
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: just being a woman, like just tapping into your woman's

1016
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: side and like you know, get doing what you gotta do.

1017
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: Get what you want.

1018
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 3: I started picking up so many different steps, like touching

1019
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 3: someone with like just the very tip of your nail

1020
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 3: and just going up and like that's not something like

1021
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 3: I used to do that with my finger, but like

1022
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 3: with the very edge of it for your nail.

1023
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,719
Speaker 2: Right, wonder if apparently, like would I never do that?

1024
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm like in a relationship and

1025
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: I like that's my nigga, Like I feel like I

1026
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: try my best to like ask questions like what do

1027
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 1: you like? Like what turns you on? Like what can

1028
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: I do to make you more happier when it comes

1029
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: to you know anything?

1030
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 3: Oh, nigga, I'm self fished because I was I was

1031
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 3: doing before attending these parties.

1032
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 2: Now I do like now really before, No, I'm clearly

1033
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: you gonna get what you get.

1034
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 3: Because I also feel like I'm very I'm very confident

1035
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 3: in my sex game. Like I'll say, so, I'm just like,

1036
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 3: why am I asking you what feels good when everything

1037
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 3: I've done already?

1038
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 2: Right?

1039
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: I think you know what's so funny? You make a

1040
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:22,919
Speaker 1: good point because I'm the same way. But I feel

1041
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 1: like as I started to get older and started to

1042
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: understand the value in communication, that's when I started to

1043
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: do it, because I didn't always do it because I

1044
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: always feel like I'm the gift nigga, Like it don't

1045
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: get no better than this, But I feel like right,

1046
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like, you know, when you get older

1047
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: and you start to explore things and you become more

1048
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: not sexually active, but like more what's the word, when

1049
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: you're like really into like exploring your sexuality. I feel

1050
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: like that's when I started to be like, oh, so

1051
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: what do you like or like what's your fantasy and

1052
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: stuff like that.

1053
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 2: Maybe it's something that comes with age.

1054
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: I think so, because as you get older, your body

1055
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: gets older, you start to want to do more things.

1056
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: Are you more both to different things or you know,

1057
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: you be with different people and they like different things,

1058
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,760
Speaker 1: they introduce you to some things and get that thing banging.

1059
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I feel like something with the parties, they're

1060
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 3: they're showing both of us because like if he's not

1061
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 3: that experience because also girl, like I said, I'm learning

1062
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 3: so much, Like men be thinking they're so experienced until

1063
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 3: they realize that they not so experienced. Like just because

1064
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 3: you've had sex with multiple people does not mean that

1065
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 3: you're experience, right, it's the act of actually trying new

1066
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,760
Speaker 3: things and being comfortable with your skin.

1067
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 1: And also knowing what that person like, Yes, because everybody's

1068
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: body is yes. And trust for sure, because if I

1069
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 1: FUX with you and I trust you, like we can

1070
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: do whatever. Like because sex is supposed to be fun like. So,

1071
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 1: but I feel like when you don't have that that communication,

1072
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: that trust, that's a dub. Like when I trust you,

1073
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, we might have to we might have

1074
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 1: to get a little test, a little pregnancy test.

1075
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 2: I'm having a good time I'm having.

1076
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: But that's not supposed to be It's supposed to be

1077
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 1: fun like, but it's definitely involved trust and communication for sure.

1078
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1079
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 3: Big the two biggest things, two biggest, biggest things. Like

1080
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 3: you also trust that your partner has your bag, yeah,

1081
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 3: that they have your best intentions at heart, Like you

1082
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 3: guys need to communicate what's okay and what's not okay?

1083
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: Right, So, how can someone find out about sex parties?

1084
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: And what's the process for attended one?

1085
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 3: So and so when I first first started, like that,

1086
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 3: that very first one that we went to, like we

1087
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 3: didn't even know right, right, But now there's like all

1088
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 3: these different.

1089
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 1: Apps so I feel like it's so easy to find, right.

1090
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 3: It's it's much easier to find now, right, I'm actually

1091
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 3: trying to find the name of one of that I

1092
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 3: can't remember.

1093
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:54,720
Speaker 1: The we ain't doing no free promo.

1094
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 2: Oh, we're not doing free promo.

1095
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 3: Well, there's apps, y'all find the apps also, regular datating apps.

1096
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 2: Just put it in your profile. People will hit you up,

1097
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:09,439
Speaker 2: like if you just put it in your bio. So yeah,

1098
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 2: you could do it that way.

1099
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:12,959
Speaker 3: And then when you actually go to one, you're gonna

1100
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 3: meet people again networking.

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00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: Just putting yourself out there, mm hmm.

1102
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 2: You're gonna find out.

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00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 3: And then just being able to like open honest communication

1104
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 3: with people when you're out because, like I said, I

1105
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 3: was in a whole nother country and.

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00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 2: The things that transpire, but we was also having like open,

1107
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 2: candid communication and conversation. So mm hmm.

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00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: Conversation rules the nation. Yes, And what is your advice

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00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: for maintaining privacy and discretion when attending sex parties?

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00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 3: So I know we for a long time we use

1111
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 3: fake names, but we stopped doing that because I don't

1112
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 3: tell you why. At these things, everyone's kind of on

1113
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 3: the same page. Nobody wants their business all. I'll a

1114
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 3: lot of us have like careers, like career careers, right,

1115
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 3: so like again, like phones do not feel allowed, Like

1116
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 3: you can't take any pictures, you can't take videos. A

1117
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 3: lot of it is what happens here stays here. So

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00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:17,720
Speaker 3: people aren't saying like, oh, I've seen Vanessa and George

1119
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 3: a party, like you don't do that. Like if you

1120
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 3: do have conversations about that, you're not mentioning it. You're

1121
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 3: not really mentioning the exact location.

1122
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 2: And things for that.

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00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: Can you get banned if that was to happen.

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00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can.

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00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 3: Like so someone like let's say you took a picture

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00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 3: without someone's it like shows up. You will not fee allowed,

1127
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,840
Speaker 3: you will not be Yeah, you're not invited to another party.

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00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 2: But I've never in the four years, I've never seen

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00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 2: that happen, Like it's.

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00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: Never gone out of hand where someone's trying to host

1131
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 3: something or tell people's business.

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00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. And what is your advice that you would

1133
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: give to someone who's curious about attending their first sex party?

1134
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: Because when I put this up on my page on Instagram,

1135
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: when I tell you, the dms were crazy. Everybody was

1136
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: super excited. About this conversation. Really, I said, just give

1137
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: a PHGF the dark child.

1138
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 2: I'll be careful. You're the AGA eighteen careful out here.

1139
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 3: But definitely have a conversation with yourself right like, really

1140
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 3: think about like what am I going to be comfortable with?

1141
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 2: What I am not going to be comfortable with. Definitely

1142
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 2: have opening, candid communication with the host. Let them know

1143
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 2: what you're comfortable with and not comfortable.

1144
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 3: With, because they'll put you in areas where you're going

1145
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 3: to feel the most comfortable, and they'll introduce you to

1146
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 3: people who's going to make sure that you feel comfortable.

1147
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 2: So let's say the first time that you attend, you

1148
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 2: just want to watch.

1149
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 3: Just make that known at the beginning of the night

1150
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 3: or tell the host beforehand. They'll make sure that that's

1151
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 3: all that happens. And if they see you participating in something,

1152
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 3: they're going to check on you. They want to say, hey,

1153
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 3: I know you had.

1154
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 2: Said you just wanted to watch. Are you comfortable right now?

1155
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 2: And then you know you can speak to them.

1156
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 3: You can also have like a cold like a little

1157
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 3: co word beforehand that's made just in case, like because

1158
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 3: some people also they're not what's the word I want,

1159
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 3: they're easily influenced sometimes, like they have a hard time

1160
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 3: saying no, so those.

1161
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: Co words are helpful for that, or they don't want

1162
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: to be the person that saying no.

1163
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 3: Exactly, So it's helpful to like check the whole your

1164
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 3: your host, the host is your best friend.

1165
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 2: The host is going to make sure that you're good.

1166
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 3: So I definitely recommend that you get close with your

1167
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 3: host during your first party and then you know, go

1168
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:39,959
Speaker 3: there with open session, have fun.

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00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: I also don't suggest that you do a bunch of

1170
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 2: drugs and get drunk.

1171
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,800
Speaker 3: I don't suggest that I think that you're you're your

1172
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 3: best when you're sober, especially when it's your first time.

1173
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: You know, if you want to.

1174
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 3: Drink a little wine and get like a little tips,

1175
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 3: that's yeah, Like if you want to get the bus,

1176
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 3: that's fine. But I don't suggest you get drunk or

1177
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 3: in coherent, because I don't want anyone doing something and

1178
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 3: they wake up the next morning they regret what happened

1179
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 3: or they feel that they was taking advantage of. So

1180
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 3: you want to you know, you want to be clear,

1181
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 3: clear minded. And then some of these parties, you know,

1182
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 3: people do do a lot of drugs and people's not

1183
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 3: really want to do it.

1184
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 2: It's great when they are, but sometimes they don't.

1185
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: What type of drugs are you doing?

1186
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:22,919
Speaker 2: It's a lot of weird I've seen. I've seen cold,

1187
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 2: I've seen molly. I've seen someone taking perks before.

1188
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 1: Oh, nigga, not coming off no perks now, right, he.

1189
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 2: Right, nothing.

1190
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 11: I've seen like people drinking a lot, not that I know, girl, right,

1191
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 11: go ahead, now, that's it.

1192
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 2: That was it. I really don't know, y'all. Let me

1193
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 2: stop playing with y'all. Give these women a feel war.

1194
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, that's the whole purpose of these conversations, because

1195
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: you don't want to go into a situation blindly think

1196
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: you're about to have a good time and you just

1197
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 1: like what the fuck is going on? Because people do

1198
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: do a lot of drugs like these. We're not all

1199
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: these parties, but people like to have a good time.

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00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And honestly, I haven't been to many parties where

1201
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 3: people are getting like like Odie hot, like right, It's

1202
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 3: been a few.

1203
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 2: I have seen it, but not most of them.

1204
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 3: Know.

1205
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: Most of the time people are just walking FARSI. Yeah, yeah, Well,

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00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: I think this was an amazing conversation. It was definitely fun.

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Speaker 1: To my guests, thank you so much for being a

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Speaker 1: part of the Professional Homegirl Podcast, and to the listeners.

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Speaker 1: If you have any questions, comments or concerns or you

1210
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 1: want to say hey girl, Hey, please make sure to

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Speaker 1: email me at hello at the PSHG podcast dot com

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Speaker 1: And until next time, everyone.

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Speaker 3: Later.

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