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Speaker 1: it all, Right.

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Speaker 2: So remind, me asshole for the more thing that my

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Speaker 2: cheating husband after being separated for several. Months, okay so

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Speaker 2: basically it's the long and short of. It me and

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Speaker 2: my husband we got, married and shortly into our.

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Speaker 3: Marriage we decided if we wanted to depicing, up and

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Speaker 3: so we introduced the. Third shortly after introducing the, THIRD i.

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Speaker 4: Told HIM i was.

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Speaker 3: DONE i didn't want to do it no. MORE i

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Speaker 3: cut it. Off, well we moved her, in but because

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Speaker 3: her baby daddy was abusive and.

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Speaker 1: How shortly after.

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Speaker 3: Oh and, yeah THEN i found out later on that

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Speaker 3: he had been cheating on me with her the entire.

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Speaker 1: Time oh, no oh, Sorry and.

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Speaker 3: ONCE i found out about, IT i had taken her

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Speaker 3: to go get her fallopian tube type AND i found

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Speaker 3: out watching in. SURGERY i somewhat have as con fronted

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Speaker 3: him on, it and me and him gotten to a

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Speaker 3: big glove by he kicksme out of the. HOUSE i

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Speaker 3: sent my dog and some of my stuff, left came

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Speaker 3: back like two days later and got the rest of my,

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Speaker 3: stuff and then WHEN i hit that, day CAN.

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Speaker 5: I got the rest but?

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Speaker 3: Stuff he basically told me he wanted a divorce and

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Speaker 3: been separated ever, since and he's been slaking out on

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Speaker 3: signing our divorce. Papers so WOULD i be the apple

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Speaker 3: IF i sent IF i served him to divorce papers

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Speaker 3: right before he goes on a trip with his dude?

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Speaker 1: Chick oh, Man all, right we need to call her

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Speaker 1: right now BECAUSE i have so many questions like, one

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Speaker 1: how quickly after you got? Married did you introduce the? Third?

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Speaker 1: Two where did things go wrong like with this new

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Speaker 1: relationship set? Up did you have any? Rules and? Three

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Speaker 1: based on? Whatever so, FAR i don't. KNOW i DON'T

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Speaker 1: i don't think you're the a hill for serving divorce.

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Speaker 1: Papers it seems like it's not working, Out but let's

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Speaker 1: call her and find. Out, Hello, hey this Is sam

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Speaker 1: from the Okop. Show, hi you gotta? Seck, yeah what's?

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Speaker 1: UP i heard your voicemail AND i wanted to hear

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Speaker 1: a little bit more about how everything went Down.

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Speaker 5: All, right what do you want to?

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Speaker 1: Know, Okay so, first like how did you decide to

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Speaker 1: open up the? Marriage so basically like you had been

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Speaker 1: married with your husband for a little bit and then

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Speaker 1: you decide to spice things. Up like how did you

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Speaker 1: guys make that? Decision and were there any rules that

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Speaker 1: you created once you had that decision? Made?

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Speaker 6: So, Okay so me and my soon to be ex

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Speaker 6: husband we are both bisexual and he just we noticed

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Speaker 6: that something was lacking in the bedroom and we were

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Speaker 6: only married for like we were married in like all

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Speaker 6: this all happened in Like, september so few. Months, yeah

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Speaker 6: and then he wanted to do that and then we

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Speaker 6: had some ground. Rules basically the ground rules, were you,

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Speaker 6: know we come before the third you, know our marriage

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Speaker 6: is top, priority like, YadA, YadA, YadA all that cheesy normal.

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Speaker 6: Stuff and the big rule was when one of us

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Speaker 6: got uncomfortable with, it we would cut it.

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Speaker 1: Off what were the other, rules, like were there were?

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Speaker 1: There was there like a did you write them? Down

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Speaker 1: did you discuss? Them like how did you decide to do?

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Speaker 5: This we?

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Speaker 6: Well we just one night we had a barbecue and

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Speaker 6: we ended up sleeping with her and her baby daddy

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Speaker 6: at the, time well her baby, daddy and we decided

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Speaker 6: that we liked how having more than just us, felt

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Speaker 6: and so we decided to add. Her and the bad

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Speaker 6: thing is that she was a close friend of.

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Speaker 1: Mine mm, hmmm so got that seems pretty. Complicated and

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Speaker 1: the baby daddy was there, Too, like were you considering

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no actually we didn't because we did not like

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Speaker 5: It but we liked so she was.

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Speaker 1: Interesting what was like what what was the? Difference the? Difference,

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Speaker 1: yeah like what what did he do that was? Like, oh,

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Speaker 6: Okay SO i don't know if you know much about

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Speaker 6: the king community and all, that but me and my

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Speaker 6: ex we are both. Switches and the other girl she

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Speaker 6: was also a, switch whereas he was just a straight up.

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Speaker 1: Sub and a switch is like when you can switch

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Speaker 1: between being a dom and a. Sub, yes, okay.

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Speaker 6: And you know he just he Didn't he wasn't the

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Speaker 1: Coming? Huh did he feel bad about being left? Out

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Speaker 1: what do you, mean like because he was the baby

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Speaker 1: daddy of your friend and you all had like an encounter,

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Speaker 6: That so, okay at first it was all four of,

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Speaker 6: the pieces, together he was, LIKE i, MEAN i get.

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Speaker 1: It but like you have told, Me, yeah do you

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Speaker 6: Him there are days WHERE i did go bad AND

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Speaker 1: Him it's also a super complex, situation SO i understand

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Speaker 6: Plus plus at the, time plus at the, time we

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Speaker 6: So her and the baby dad either trying to get

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Speaker 6: know killed, that and then she ended up having this

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Speaker 1: A crush on her people, Whole and did you confront

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Speaker 6: Apart, no, actually SO i confronted her about, it and

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Speaker 6: she basically was, like you, know this is what. Happened

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Speaker 6: she didn't want anything to do with.

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Speaker 1: Me wait till the friendship.

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Speaker 6: Eroded, yeah the friendship like went down during. Everything and you,

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Speaker 6: KNOW i told him THAT i wasn't exactly comfortable with

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Speaker 1: Me he said that the relationship being. Opened, huh with

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Speaker 1: the relationship being, open like you weren't comfortable with doing that? Anymore?

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Speaker 6: Correct AND i told. HIM i told HIM i wasn't

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Speaker 5: Fine.

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Speaker 6: Well prior to that, discussion we had moved her in

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Speaker 6: to get away from her baby daddy and her roommates

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Speaker 1: Egg oh, cheez what was? Happening? Like what did Did,

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Speaker 1: like was there a moment where you're, like, oh, shit

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Speaker 5: Us?

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Speaker 6: Yeah exactly that she had threatened to come back to

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Speaker 6: THAT i don't, Remember, God.

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Speaker 1: And so you took her in and then, like but

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Speaker 1: HEY i don't know if this threatle thing is going

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Speaker 6: ANYMORE i had mentioned, it and you, know we all agreed,

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Speaker 1: Went, yeah and then just did you find out that

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Speaker 1: your husband and her had been doing stuff without your? Knowledge?

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Speaker 6: Yeah so my husband ended up making me quit my,

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Speaker 6: so say a home wife for a few. Months and

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Speaker 6: it turned out good for her because she had a

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Speaker 6: babysitter for her.

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Speaker 1: Kid what was she doing was she?

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Speaker 6: Working, yeah she was. Working, well they both, worked and

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Speaker 6: they made me the a stay at home wife and

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Speaker 1: Kids did you want to do that at the?

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Speaker 6: TIME i was okay with it BECAUSE i was burnt

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Speaker 6: out from my. Job but the more and more THAT

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Speaker 6: Kids that turned into a whole other.

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Speaker 6: SO i had started working at a strip club as

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Speaker 6: a cook because they wanted me to get a JOB

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Speaker 6: i wanted out of the.

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Speaker 1: House is that a crazy environment to be a? Cook

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Speaker 1: it's not as bad.

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Speaker 4: As you, think.

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Speaker 6: Not as bad as You, yeah the year has been

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Speaker 1: Me oh my, kidness a strip club as a? Cook

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Speaker 1: do you do you dress as a cook or a?

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Speaker 6: Stripper you dressed like how you normally, would a little

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Speaker 6: bit more sloody if you want. It, Yeah i'd be

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Speaker 6: wearing like skinny jeans and a flannel tighten and eye

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Speaker 1: Thing oh. Man but no no glitter in the, cooking,

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Speaker 1: Right we keep the glitter away from all the cooking.

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Speaker 6: Utensils, actually strip clubs don't allow, glitter what at least

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Speaker 6: the ONE i worked. At, yeah they did not allow.

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Speaker 1: The glitter because glittering strip clubs go hand in. Hand

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Speaker 1: i've also never been to a strip, club SO i

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Speaker 1: DON'T i don't really don't know What i'm talking.

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Speaker 6: About, well if you, do be careful some of.

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Speaker 1: Wild, Okay so you were now a cook at a

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Speaker 1: strip club with your flannel and your skinny.

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Speaker 5: Jeans, Yep i'd.

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Speaker 6: Go and cook and that'd be their time where they were,

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Speaker 6: ALONE i. Guess and something just started not feeling. Right

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Speaker 6: and then at the beginning of this, YEAR i took

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Speaker 6: her to get her filopian tubes.

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Speaker 5: Removed.

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Speaker 6: Why she had two kids and she didn't want any,

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Speaker 6: more and she just didn't want to risk having more, kids,

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Speaker 6: right she wanted to have UNPROTECTED i can not have

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Speaker 6: to worry about having a third.

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Speaker 1: Kid unprotected sex with whom my. Husband oh oh, No i'm. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah by the, way huh what was your? Name or

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Speaker 1: you could be anonymous if you.

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Speaker 5: Name, sure, yeah we'll go With. Felicia all, Right?

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Speaker 1: Alissa, sure? Okay So, alissa you were uh getting Her

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Speaker 6: Saying, well she goes in and she's having her. Surgery,

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Speaker 1: On your three year anniversary. Day, no, yep.

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Speaker 6: Yep she had told, him, like you, know we don't

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Speaker 1: He didn't tell you anything about, this no fucking. Dick,

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Speaker 1: Okay so how did how did? Does how did that

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Speaker 5: OH i was.

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Speaker 6: PISSED i was. INFURIATED i was, devastated like my entire

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Speaker 1: YEAH i, Mean we've read a ton of stories about open.

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Speaker 6: Basically, yeah, basically BECAUSE i knew IF i didn't let

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Speaker 1: Worse. Yeah so, yeah did you know that you wanted

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Speaker 6: The thing naive me wanted to try and work things

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Speaker 6: Happened we had the idea to try and have a

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Speaker 6: Not, No i've actually decided no, more no more.

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Speaker 1: Threads, YEAH i once had an experienced with a couple

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Speaker 1: of friends that it made things. Awkward. Yeah, yeah, yeah but.

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Speaker 6: No so after her surgery was, done he was still

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Speaker 6: Postop i'm texting him, like, hey she's out a. Surgery

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Speaker 6: come see, her come. Here, WELL i get back there

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Speaker 6: and they started handing me, paperwork design and just basically

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Speaker 6: checking her. Out he gets pitched and yells at me

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Speaker 1: Surgery oh my. God, yeah at least he could show

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Speaker 1: some concern for. Someone it's not his, wife BUT i.

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Speaker 6: Mean, well and the crazy parted that it literally. Went

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Speaker 1: Design you're having to manage so. Much oh my. Goodness so,

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Speaker 1: like when are you Like i'm? Done what was the

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Speaker 6: A little bit more billet up to that. Point, Okay

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Speaker 6: him got into a big old screaming. MATCH i left

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Speaker 6: to go get her, medication came. Back there was more, yelling. Arguing,

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Speaker 1: He say when he kicked you? Out like like this

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Speaker 1: your house? Too?

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Speaker 5: No, actually so we.

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Speaker 6: Had moved out of our house into her house because

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Speaker 1: Bigger oh oh. Fuck, okay so he just got kicked,

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Speaker 6: Yeah and SO i was trying to get my stuff

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Speaker 1: Ensue, Okay so you you left and then did? It

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Speaker 6: WORK i was still, naive and like two days after

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Speaker 6: look me at for. Lunch we need to. TALK i went,

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Speaker 5: WOW i looked.

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Speaker 6: At him And, i'm you, know talking to, him trying

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Speaker 6: to talk him out of, it and you, know it

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Speaker 6: just wasn't. Clicking it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Vibing, then you, know after you know you deserve better, Though,

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Speaker 1: yeah like like, YEAH i, guess like you, don't you,

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Speaker 6: Yeah and, well several months LATER i was finally, like

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Speaker 6: you know, What i'm. DONE i want a. Divorce and

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Speaker 6: the funny thing is that so he doesn't know THAT

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Speaker 6: our divorce. Done but he doesn't KNOW i, know and

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Speaker 6: he keeps flaking out on, her telling like he keeps

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Speaker 6: flaking out on getting the divorce. Done it's like he

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Speaker 1: All weird because he was so adamant about it, beforehand

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Speaker 1: but now he's, like, eh Like i'm having second. Thoughts

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Speaker 1: MAYBE i watched you. Back, Guys has he said anything to?

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Speaker 6: You, no the one time we have. Talked, okay we've

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Speaker 1: Me oh, no this is a he doesn't love death

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Speaker 6: Now, well and the fun part is that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: Didn't happen of you guys in the act, yep.

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Speaker 6: Yep the funny thing IS i was just going to

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Speaker 6: AS i got out of the. Car we weren't even

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Speaker 1: Bone oh my, god what are you going to do

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Speaker 1: with that?

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Speaker 6: Recording, Honestly i'm going to hold on to it and

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Speaker 6: if he ever says something about, it probably play it in.

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Speaker 1: Court oh my, God oh my, God, ALYSSA i, know

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Speaker 1: listen in your real, name But, Alyssa holy, shit at

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Speaker 1: least you got the receipts.

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Speaker 5: Exactly so.

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Speaker 6: Any of our tech messages.

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Speaker 1: Either but Now i'm assuming you guys are like not like.

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Speaker 1: You you fully know that you do not want anything

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Speaker 1: to do with this. Guy, yeah, YEAH i.

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Speaker 6: Fully don't want anything to do with. Him Now i'm

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Speaker 6: like a.

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Speaker 1: Goddess, Melissa thank, god you deserve someone. Good so question for,

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Speaker 1: you what have you learned this clusterfuck and this?

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Speaker 6: CLUSTERFUCK i have learned not to do threesome at. ALL

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Speaker 6: i have learned not to engage in relationships with someone

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Speaker 6: from high. School, yeah AND i have learned that sorry

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Speaker 6: for your, gender but men or, dick, WELL.

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Speaker 1: I apologize on behalf of all. MEN i hope you

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Speaker 1: can continue to find the good ones out. There and,

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Speaker 1: also thank you so much for leaving your. STORY i

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Speaker 1: really appreciate. It and thanks for calling.

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Speaker 6: In, yeah AND i appreciate your.

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Speaker 5: Calling i'm happy to. Share you.

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Speaker 6: Know hopefully someone out there hears this and realizes that

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Speaker 6: they don't need to be in their toxic relationship.

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Speaker 1: Anymore, yeah, YEAH i THINK i think like everyone can

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Speaker 1: can be, helped just knowing that they deserve, better you,

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Speaker 1: know like you don't deserve. Shit and, yeah thanks for.

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Speaker 1: Sharing have a good, Night. Melissa thank you so. Much

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Speaker 1: thank you thanks for listening to the. Show we really appreciate. It.

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Speaker 5: Bye go all, Right So i've been listening to you

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Speaker 5: guys for over a, year back when you had like

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Speaker 5: two thousand.

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Speaker 6: FOLLOWERS i love you.

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Speaker 5: Guys but, anyway, here that's. WEIRD i just got back

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Speaker 5: from a cruise and AM i asshole for not telling

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Speaker 5: my best friend everything my brother was doing on this

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Speaker 5: trip on the cruise because she's dating my.

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Speaker 1: Brother, okay, okay, okay your friend's dating your.

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Speaker 5: BROTHER a year, ago my brother was dating this crazy

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Speaker 5: girl for eight. Years they broke.

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Speaker 4: Up he was, LIKE i have.

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Speaker 5: This cruise book and you want to go with. Me

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Speaker 5: i'm his little. Sister he's twenty years, old he's, forty

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Speaker 5: AND i am twenty. Two, okay, anyway we're going on this.

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Speaker 5: Cruise and like two weeks, ago he hadn't started dating

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Speaker 5: my best friend Since i've been best friends with hurta.

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Speaker 5: Thirteen HE i know it sounds kind of crazy because

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Speaker 5: relationship like long term. Relationship he's really WHAT i thought

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00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:57,680
Speaker 5: a little.

442
00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 1: GUY i think he's a guy. Different that's. Crazy they

443
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 1: just kind of.

444
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 5: Start seeing each. Other he spends the night at his

445
00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,600
Speaker 5: place every day for like the past two. Weeks and

446
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 5: where we just got back from the. Cruise it was

447
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 5: an insane cruise with me and my brother because we're

448
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 5: wild and by the time we left the, cruise everyone

449
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 5: knew who is.

450
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,479
Speaker 1: HOW i want to know?

451
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 5: How and he was kind of flirting with every girl

452
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 5: he possibly. Could he didn't hook up with ANYONE.

453
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 1: I, did but you, KNOW i want to hear the

454
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,680
Speaker 1: hook up. STORIES i was trying.

455
00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,080
Speaker 5: To and so maybe if he was on a vacation

456
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,440
Speaker 5: WITH i don't, know instead of his sister that his

457
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:40,159
Speaker 5: best friend with the girl he's seeing now would have,

458
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:43,679
Speaker 5: been would be. Different and AM i the astphole for

459
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 5: not telling her? Everything? OKAY i think that's. Okay there's

460
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 5: a lot more juicy, bits.

461
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:51,760
Speaker 1: BUT i want to get so if you want to hear,

462
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,440
Speaker 1: more let me. Do all, Right i'm gonna call you right.

463
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 1: Now get those juicy. Bits but like my question is,

464
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,199
Speaker 1: how like what was the? Flirting what hue you? Off

465
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 1: because like some people are just like flirtatious people in

466
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:09,159
Speaker 1: their lunations with, everyone and like was it? Egregious and

467
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 1: also if the positions were, switched would you want to?

468
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: Know let's Call, Hello, hey this Is sam from The Okyop.

469
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 5: Show oh my, gosh We.

470
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 1: Hi how's it? Going?

471
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 5: No no?

472
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 4: Way?

473
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 1: Hi what are you up?

474
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:34,159
Speaker 5: To wasn't? EXPECTED i am cleaning my.

475
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 1: Ferret you're cleaning your fav our? Ferrets? Stinky do they

476
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 1: need to be cleaned? Often they're they're a little. Stinky,

477
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: okay so they need baths. REGULARLY i keep, UP i keep.

478
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 1: Up all, Right i'm glad the ferret hygiene is, high

479
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 1: but that is not WHY i. Called ALTHOUGH i love

480
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: hearing about ferret. BATHS i want to know about this.

481
00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,160
Speaker 1: Cruise how do you know it was? Flirting like like

482
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 1: like what what like queued you? Into because like some

483
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 1: people are just like flirtatious, People like what actually was?

484
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: Happening or, like oh, shit that's he's really laying it

485
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: on thick like.

486
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 5: Flirting, yeah like how do you?

487
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 4: Know?

488
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:19,360
Speaker 5: Damn you got me in a really difficult situation because

489
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:19,959
Speaker 5: is he?

490
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 1: Here or is your friend?

491
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 5: Here it's worse.

492
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 1: Sp, okay is your best friend right next to. You

493
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 1: she's not next to, you is.

494
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 4: She, no she's not next to.

495
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 5: Me, no, no, No i'm by. Myself but she doesn't

496
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 5: know that he kissed This asian girl on the.

497
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 7: Cruise on the, cruse and you still haven't told. Her

498
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 7: how long has it been since the? Cruise three? Days, okay,

499
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 7: okay you're? Processing, no, yeah.

500
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, NO i. HAVEN'T i saw her once and it's been.

501
00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 5: Long it's been very. Exciting well this things have.

502
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: Happened, okay let's let's back. Up let's LET'S i want

503
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 1: to get some more. Context let's back. Up so tell,

504
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: me like what this cruise is like like to give

505
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 1: you the give me the laydown of all, right you

506
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: get on the. Cruise is it like all young? People

507
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 1: is it like a party? Boat? Like, what what's the?

508
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: Deal this is a.

509
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 5: Cruise it's a huge cruise, ship like like like a

510
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 5: huge cruise. Line my brother got it a year ago

511
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 5: because he was dating this girl for eight years and

512
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 5: she sucking cheated him on. It, Yikes and she manipulated

513
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 5: him to where all the family couldn't talk to, him

514
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 5: and all his friends were and she.

515
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: Like cut him off from.

516
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 5: Everyone it's terrible totally cut him off from.

517
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 1: Everyone and he was going to take her on a.

518
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: Cruise she could have had all the seven, seas BUT

519
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: i guess not.

520
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 5: Exactly he could have been she has been with.

521
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: Him, yeah but honestly blessing in disguise that he got

522
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: cheated on because she sounds, Terrible so he takes you.

523
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: Instead you guys are on this, cruise have you like

524
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: partied with your brother? Before so fucking.

525
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 5: Lily, Okay so there's a little Age.

526
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: Yeah twenty years. Difference, yeah that's.

527
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:35,640
Speaker 5: Crazy he's he's forty And i'm twenty Because i'm, adopted, Right.

528
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: So, Yeah, so, uh what was it? Like was there

529
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: a different vibe on this cruise like then than the

530
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: parties that you had been with him in the? Past?

531
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 5: Okay, no we go, hard no matter what we want

532
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 5: to best at some, festival like we go.

533
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: Hard what does hard mean to.

534
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 5: Me and my? Brother we know how the Party, Okay

535
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 5: and by the end of this cruise we are all

536
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 5: dressed in. White AND i did the split to me

537
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 5: and my brother's song on Flow rider because a couple

538
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 5: of months, ago me and my brother did a concert

539
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 5: to Flow rider In, Aurora, illinois AND i did the

540
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 5: split on stage with Slow? Rider then wait now on the, Crew, yes.

541
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: We're, Going we're, going and completely that was that's a

542
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: crazy side. TANGENT i so desperately want to explore how

543
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,439
Speaker 1: you got on stage doing the splits with Flow, rider but,

544
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 1: UH i need to stay focused on the thread that we.

545
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: HAVE i, KNOW i know you're enticing me with these

546
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: these side quest but, no we're main questic right. Now,

547
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: okay so you Did you're doing the splits on the

548
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 1: dance floor on this, cruise, yes.

549
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 5: Okay so he's making up with this you Know asian.

550
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 5: Girl after the, split.

551
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: Did you just like catch him like you you're you're

552
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: doing the splits and then you look around and you're,

553
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: like oh, no, okay like you.

554
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 5: Saw I'm I'm i'm in, between LIKE i saw them

555
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 5: flirting with each. Other and she's saying like she's, divorced

556
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 5: but she can you can see the, ring my, god

557
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 5: like the ring like around her. Finger like there's.

558
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: No laws at. Sea you know that that you're you're

559
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: an international WATERS i guess everyone everyone is. Divorced technically

560
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: when you're in the middle of the, ocean the laws

561
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: of apply. There it's the twilight.

562
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 5: ZONE i can't Believe i'm talking to. You i've been

563
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 5: listening to you for the past year and a, half

564
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 5: really like every single, day every single.

565
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: Day that means so, much every single.

566
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 5: DAY i will rewatch your. EPISODE i hope you.

567
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: Know you know you probably know more about me than

568
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 1: my like some of my closest, friends BECAUSE i tell

569
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: way too much on this. SHOW i am way Too

570
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: i'm way too on this on that.

571
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 5: Show, NO i love your.

572
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: AUNT i appreciate that.

573
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 5: Helps this weird. Connection what do you, MEAN i don't

574
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 5: know with people like really really well AND i always

575
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 5: really thought you would very well.

576
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: Together i'm sure we. Would all, right this is another

577
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: getting on bore side. Quest we could talk about our

578
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: vibe at the.

579
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 5: End sorry Fus.

580
00:27:54,640 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: Sam, alright all, right you're seeing this relationship between your

581
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: brother and this non married most likely married person, unfold

582
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: and is there any part of you that's LIKE i

583
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 1: should say SOMETHING i should Tell, Okay.

584
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 5: I've been friends with this, girl like SINCE i was.

585
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 5: Thirteen we were just looking at photos like to, day

586
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 5: like when we were at the beach And i'm from,

587
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 5: yeah so like we're just looking at these photos of

588
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:34,239
Speaker 5: us when we're like like, fourteen and how CAN i

589
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 5: not tell her that now she's seating my, brother but

590
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 5: he kissed This asian, girl yeah on the, cruise but

591
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 5: now they're getting. Serious, yeah what DO i? Do?

592
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: SAM i, MEAN i feel like so we actually were

593
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: the Talking john AND i were talking about this, story

594
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: like maybe a few days. Ago have you talked to

595
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: your brother about saying something to?

596
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 5: Her? DON'T i don't think she would. Mind, Okay So

597
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 5: i'm gonna get, real, like, PERSONALLY i don't think she

598
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 5: wouldn't mind because me and, her LIKE i used to

599
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 5: fuck her boyfriend for her because she was a virgin

600
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 5: until she was. Twenty, yeah so she would make out

601
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 5: with them and LIKE i would write them, like, yeah.

602
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: You guys are very close friends to be able to do.

603
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: That so you don't think she would mind if you

604
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: if you told her the.

605
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 5: TRUTH i should tell her the, truth especially if this

606
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 5: is going to Be does she watch too on? YouTube

607
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 5: i don't think she watched your?

608
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: Show, Okay so it's just it's just our little, secret

609
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: all all of us watching right. Now it doesn't matter

610
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: because you're gonna tell, her, Right, no you're gonna tell.

611
00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: Her i'm gonna because bonded friendship and by her. Boyfriends

612
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: you guys Are eskimo's, sisters And eskimo's sisters tell each

613
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: other everything.

614
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 8: Exactly we did, Exactly and, HONESTLY i don't think she's

615
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 8: gonna get mad for, him like literally just kissing a

616
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 8: girl like that's.

617
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: It, YEAH i MEAN i think he could you, know

618
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: you could be, like, hey it was super. Drong she,

619
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 1: did mean did she make the first? Move how long

620
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: was the?

621
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 5: Kiss, no it wasn't. Long it was like a little

622
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 5: makeoup session and it wasn't long because, actually do you

623
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 5: want there was another story like so we're at the

624
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 5: bar at this point after they made out AND i

625
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 5: made out with this girl and don't back and she

626
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 5: got raped what, No, no this Isn't, yeah she got.

627
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: Bathrooms oh my, god that's. TERRIBLE i know that's. Terrible.

628
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 5: Ye so my brother, like so she came out of

629
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 5: the bathroom and my brother, like, no this is it was?

630
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: Crazy oh my, god. Jeez, yes cruises are. DANGEROUS i

631
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: GUESS i don't know they were. Dangerous where's the where's the?

632
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: Security it seemed really?

633
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 5: Safe, okay it was very, safe it seemed like and

634
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 5: then she came out all frantic and, everything and so my.

635
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 6: Brother was, like you gotta go report.

636
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 5: This and so this is.

637
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: Not The asian girl that he was making out with, Someone.

638
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 6: No.

639
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 5: This is another GIRL i made out.

640
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: With you made out with this girl, before BEFORE.

641
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 6: I made out with her before this.

642
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:49,239
Speaker 1: Happened what is this cruise called video of? It you

643
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: have a video of? IT i have a.

644
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 5: Video making out with her before it.

645
00:31:54,640 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: Happened, yeah can you text it to? Us D, oh my,

646
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: god that's freakod that's, Insane. Troe, okay so.

647
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 5: Dude my life is. Insane i'm writing a.

648
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: Book you're writing a. Book, Actually i'm. Waiting i'm waiting

649
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: desperately for the. Memoir, Okay so does your brother know

650
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: that you're going to tell her your? Friend, Yes i'm Much, okay, yeah,

651
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: Okay so we've made the. Decision we have gone through

652
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: the whole crucible of of all the decisions that you can,

653
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: make and for the sake of Your eskimo's, sister you

654
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: are going to tell her and we'll probably be, fine

655
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: and then you will have this burning like whole in

656
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: your heart that you're, like, Oh i've been keeping something from, Her,

657
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: like then your relationship can be. Beautiful, yeah like a

658
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: butterfly floating into the. Sun. Exactly i'm glad we came

659
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: to a resolution stay safe on those cruise and, also

660
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: thank you for submitting your. STORY i really appreciate, it

661
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: AND i hope you send in. More, Oh i'll send

662
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: in so much. More but you can ask me any

663
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: question that you want before we.

664
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 5: Leave did you have a good?

665
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: DAY i had an excellent day and it was made

666
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: better by talking to, you SO i really appreciate. You

667
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:20,959
Speaker 1: pick it. Up thank you so, much and have a

668
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: beautiful rest of your. Night oh, allright. Bye that was.

669
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: Lovely that was lovely. Bred it's great talking to. You

670
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: if you want us to hear your story and you

671
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: want to tell, it call four four zero five zero

672
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: eight six' five. Six seven we would love to hear.

673
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: Your stories what. A joy that was. So fun, all

674
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: right let's get into the. Next, Caller, okay hi sorry late.

675
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 4: That NIGHT am i supposed to say?

676
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: MY name?

677
00:33:54,240 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 4: I know, No tipsy this. Is, Okay anyway i'm.

678
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: Glad we're going to get drunk calls.

679
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 4: Stories on is that? So Juicy but i'd like some insl,

680
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 4: in it but it's kind of a little, Too late

681
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 4: so my best friend's little brother is, a furry but,

682
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 4: he's underage so we're taking him to surry CON and

683
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 4: i thought it'd be a great idea to get a

684
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 4: lobster mask and some lobster claws to wear that that

685
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 4: but that's, tomorrow morning and my question would be IS

686
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 4: would i be the asshole to not be a furry

687
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 4: and show up as like? FURRY attire. I.

688
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: Guess okay so we're trying to, figure out uh what

689
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 1: the protocol is for this. Furry, convention, Hello, hey astor

690
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: This is sam from the. Okop show how's? It going it's.

691
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 9: It's good how's it going?

692
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: With you very. VERY well i have many questions about this,

693
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: furry excursion first being how did your best friend's little

694
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 1: brother determine that he was a furry and how did he.

695
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: Explore that i'm.

696
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 9: Not sure of. HIS journey i guess she would, call

697
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 9: IT but i mean he's like when you see like

698
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 9: things on the internet like, cringey fur that's not what.

699
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 9: He is he's like a.

700
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 5: Normal person he just starts a furst, suit sometimes like?

701
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: How often? And? Where oh just?

702
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 9: Like whenever like he doesn't do. It often it's.

703
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: Just aren't those super. Expensive, too well he just says

704
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: the head and not like the full. Get up so

705
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: how did you guys find out about?

706
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 5: This?

707
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: Convention what how did you find out about like the

708
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: furry you said you're going to bring him to like a? Furrey,

709
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: cod well.

710
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 9: He went, last year but this year he just, turned

711
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 9: eighteen so he wanted. To go so me and my

712
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 9: best friend decided we would. Also go just you know?

713
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 4: Why not?

714
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: For wait so is, is like are are certain parts

715
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: of furry con barred from? Underage, people yeah.

716
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 9: There are certain events that it's like eighteenth plus, and yeah.

717
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: What happens at? THOSE events i do not.

718
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 9: KNOW exactly i know your some of them are, like

719
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 9: SEXUAL but i know a lot of them are just

720
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 9: like they don't want to hang out with kids and

721
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 9: look like weirdos PLAYING like D.

722
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: And d fair do you have do you have any

723
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: idea or insight into what the sexual? Ones are and did? You?

724
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 9: GO no i did not Go any okay.

725
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: YOU didn't i didn't wear the lobster costume and lobster

726
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: about slither. On, IN yeah i just know get Under. The,

727
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: sea no would you go to a? Furry?

728
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 9: CON yeah i do. It again there's one. Coming up

729
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 9: it's like the. Bigger one this is like a smaller what?

730
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: Was, it wait so did? You go, i'm confused did

731
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: you or did you? Not go? You went you went

732
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: to The. Furry con you just didn't go to the

733
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: eighteen plus. Furry, EVENTS.

734
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 9: No i did not.

735
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: Do, That okay so what was what Was The All Ages? Furry?

736
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 1: Con like and did you wear the?

737
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 9: LOBSTER mask i wore the lobster mask and plot.

738
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: Wow, heck YEAH well i.

739
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 9: Actually had PEOPLE like i had people in like full

740
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 9: furst suits asked to take pictures. With, me really and

741
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 9: it's like it did something to.

742
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: My ego, YOU'RE like i am the King Of, furry

743
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: Con The Queen. Queen lobster.

744
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 4: It was.

745
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: Sucking great where did you get this? Lobster? Costume Oh?

746
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 9: Just Amazon.

747
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: Just amazon is it like a lobster furry costume or

748
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 1: is it just like run of The mill halloween lobster costume?

749
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 9: Lobster, costumes, okay okay plastic like a.

750
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: Hard, Shell no i'm imagining a hard. Shell lobster i'll

751
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,720
Speaker 1: let you just. Put us.

752
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 9: It was just like a rubber mask and it was

753
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 9: like super tall because it has like the antennas.

754
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 5: Or whatever.

755
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: That's awesome did you meet, anyone that like you talked

756
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: TO and i, don't know discuss the lifestyle of?

757
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 9: A furry i did not really a lot OF the

758
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 9: I played uno with, the COUPLE but i didn't really

759
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 9: talk about their First, sonas.

760
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: Okay okay you you you didn't quite integrate into the

761
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: uh the furry lore and uh and in the depth

762
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: of the. Furry connection but, you perused you Were you

763
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 1: you were surface. Level furry can you even call yourself

764
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: a furry if you're wearing a? Lobster costume there's?

765
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 9: No, FUR well i actually thought. About it you know how. Their,

766
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 9: crustaceans Yeah crusty's.

767
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: Oh you just start crusty. Con Next crusty con needs to.

768
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:15,240
Speaker 1: Happen immediately, so overall would you recommend someone going to a? Furry?

769
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 9: Con hell. Fucking yes it'll change. Your, life yeah.

770
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: Change your, life again. That's bold change. Your life you will,

771
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:31,760
Speaker 1: get confident you. Have to it'll change your. Life someway

772
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: it could just go. To, Despair, well astra thank you

773
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: uh for calling in with. YOUR story i really, appreciate

774
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 1: IT and i hope you uh this isn't the last

775
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: furry con, you attend and you have many prosperous and

776
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: beautiful furry experiences eighteen plus or all ages in. The future,

777
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: all right thank you.

778
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 5: SO much i.

779
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 1: APPRECIATE it i have a. Good one, good night, yeah?

780
00:39:58,960 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 5: YouTube.

781
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: Goodnight YO am i crazy for saying furry con might

782
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: be like lit any furries in. THE audience i want

783
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: to tell. ME stories i actually would love more like, all,

784
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: RIGHT specifically i want. Furry stories if you have a,

785
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: furry story. CALL us i would love to hear from the.

786
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: KING community i was talking to someone yesterday about the.

787
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: Kink community any like kinky furry eighteen, Plus, EXPERIENCES colin

788
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: i want to, hear them. All right That was that

789
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: was a. Weird sentence let's go to the. Next caller