Speaker 1: What utlift Services Time for woman on Top. And today
Speaker 1: we are doing a very special Delian toast to a
Speaker 1: woman who was a single black mom from New York City,
Speaker 1: Paula McCarthy. She's the owner of Y S. S water Works.
Speaker 1: It's a spring water bottling plant in upstate New York.
Speaker 1: And she's the first black woman to own and operate
Speaker 1: this type of water business in the entire state. So
Speaker 1: she actually acquired the water plant and aquifer uh in
Speaker 1: October during the pandemic. That's really big. You know, we
Speaker 1: gotta show love to our assisted and make sure everybody
Speaker 1: know that they on a top. Yeah, and you know
Speaker 1: the main thing is this right, As you know, water
Speaker 1: is always valuable, and some major water companies have actually
Speaker 1: been trying to buy her company for twenty her property
Speaker 1: for twenty million dollars, but she said she's determined to
Speaker 1: keep it. She values the importance to black ownership and
Speaker 1: natural resources. And this all happened and I love a
Speaker 1: sorry like this very organically. Now, this happened because she
Speaker 1: had a series of unplanned events. You've seen kids selling water, right,
Speaker 1: but she was buying these pillots of water for her twins,
Speaker 1: and she gave them sixteen hundred dollars to sell these
Speaker 1: palets from b days during the pandemic. They called their
Speaker 1: company the New York Water Boys, and they were selling
Speaker 1: their palets of water on the street. Then they worked
Speaker 1: their way up to selling palaces of supermarkets and bodega's.
Speaker 1: They also made home deliveries, and then they actually became
Speaker 1: successful enough that they got a pancheck selling what it
Speaker 1: is twenty one supermarkets. So at this time, water was
Speaker 1: very hard to find during the pandemic, and she looked
Speaker 1: at this is a way to fund her nonprofit. It's
Speaker 1: called Youth Saving Society. That's why it's wiss water. So
Speaker 1: she also, besides being a nurse, was teaching financial literacy
Speaker 1: and workshops to youth in schools on her days off
Speaker 1: until COVID hit. So I love the fact that she's
Speaker 1: into financial empowerment. She wanted to teach her twins just
Speaker 1: to empower themselves financially. And then she took that flifted
Speaker 1: and ended up buying an aquafer, which is where you
Speaker 1: can get water from. So she said she was able
Speaker 1: to raise a hundred and thirty thousand dollars in two days.
Speaker 1: Fat crazy, So shout out to entrepreneurship and shout out
Speaker 1: to Paul McCarthy, the owner of Why says, whatever a
Speaker 1: nice Dlian toast to you. What's happen to let's service.
Speaker 1: I'm Angela GHI, I'm Stephinite in Santiago. I'm Larrya and
Speaker 1: today been doing a specially just checking in episode because
Speaker 1: I know there's been a lot going on during this
Speaker 1: pandemic and we're always into doing people, but we never
Speaker 1: have a chance to just check in with each other,
Speaker 1: so I feel like that's important. I see you with
Speaker 1: the y'all really just fancy for this. I'm on a honey,
Speaker 1: I just want to add on, Yeah, you look like
Speaker 1: you about to do a video detefinitely. I don't know
Speaker 1: what she got on? A dr jacket hat, the bags
Speaker 1: in the background. Girls on, have y'all changed your style
Speaker 1: like during this this pandemic you think you've changed your
Speaker 1: style permanently as far as like what you spend money on? Um,
Speaker 1: even though I was wearing a lot of sneakers before pandemic,
Speaker 1: but now she's like high heels. I've been like, I've
Speaker 1: just thought about it. I haven't brought a pair of
Speaker 1: hot heels and months and I used to buy heels
Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, I can't even remember the last
Speaker 1: time I had to wear a pair of shoes. I'm
Speaker 1: also not going to the club or nothing. I've seen
Speaker 1: uh somebody and lived the other night and it was
Speaker 1: just crazy and I was like, yo, when when was this?
Speaker 1: And it was like Sunday to those videos from Live too.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. Yeah, And you know what I
Speaker 1: realized too, Like I used to waste a lot of
Speaker 1: money on clothes and bags and things like that. I
Speaker 1: think I bought one bag this whole time, and that's
Speaker 1: because I had a gift card to Louis Vutton and
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I bought a bag, because someone
Speaker 1: had given me a gift card for my birthday. And
Speaker 1: it took me like months to even go to the
Speaker 1: story and buy it. So I finally even and brought
Speaker 1: I bought a little piece of luggage. It's cute. I
Speaker 1: was just thinking about it the other day, like, Damn,
Speaker 1: I got all these bags. I don't even go nowhere.
Speaker 1: That's the bad thing. You're spending money on stuff that
Speaker 1: you don't even you can't and even get to where
Speaker 1: I do feel like I've picked up or maybe a
Speaker 1: worst spending have it since quarantine. I'm gonna tell you why,
Speaker 1: Because one, I'm saving money from not doing other things,
Speaker 1: and then I'll be feeling kind of bored, like with
Speaker 1: my own personal life because it's like I'm working, working, working,
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what can I do to make myself happy?
Speaker 1: And it's like, uh, these this nice little bag, or yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy something nice, and you know what, Glasses
Speaker 1: have become my go to thing, especially I see and
Speaker 1: has makeup artists already when she gets to work. I
Speaker 1: ain't there yet. We are a year too, so I'm
Speaker 1: I'm wearing glasses because I'm not trying to show my
Speaker 1: face looking all tired. So I always say, yeah, this
Speaker 1: is break up this interview, I mean not this, but
Speaker 1: these episodes when we wear glasses, they're like they must
Speaker 1: not have their makeup done. God, I should have bought
Speaker 1: us some glasses today because I did not get my
Speaker 1: make I've done today. It really looks like I did
Speaker 1: it myself, but it's not. I gotta learn how to
Speaker 1: do that myself. Now, I want to ask you guys.
Speaker 1: You know, obviously we're looking at a lot of things
Speaker 1: happening on social media, and one thing that came up
Speaker 1: is having your man shaved your vagina. Obviously we've seen
Speaker 1: Tyree's doing that for his girlfriend and posting it on
Speaker 1: social media. And I know, I didn't you know somebody
Speaker 1: that had a one night stand with this guy and
Speaker 1: he's a celebrity. And she came back and told me
Speaker 1: that he had a fetish and he asked it if
Speaker 1: he could shave her vagina. And I don't know if
Speaker 1: he wanted to do it because she was harry or
Speaker 1: if it's just like something he likes to do. But
Speaker 1: people have fetishes like that. I'm like a loss for words.
Speaker 1: You can't shoot my vagina. The only one time I've
Speaker 1: had I tried because it was a disaster when I
Speaker 1: was pregnant, because when you get pregnant, I thought, while
Speaker 1: you can't even reach in the right places, you can't see.
Speaker 1: So I asked right before I gave birth, I told
Speaker 1: my on his father like, all right, you have to
Speaker 1: do this, And it was ashauster. I ended up doing
Speaker 1: it myself with a mirror. What do you mean a disaster?
Speaker 1: It was ebshasting. He just didn't know what he was doing.
Speaker 1: I was like, bro alright, forget it. He was right scared.
Speaker 1: I was. I'm not scared to lest somebody shape it
Speaker 1: because they might what if they k what if they
Speaker 1: like nick your your hood or something. You know, when
Speaker 1: you shave, you know which way your hairs go. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And which way to shave in
Speaker 1: certain areas, Guys, I would never let a guy do whatever.
Speaker 1: And what if you get an inground here? That's it
Speaker 1: is the word, you know what? At one time, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna like it. And I think I told you
Speaker 1: when this happened. My nails were long and I was
Speaker 1: had them like really plainty. And so I was watching
Speaker 1: myself in the shower and you know how you like
Speaker 1: open up your vagina and Washington side, Well you're supposed to.
Speaker 1: I scratched this ship out of myself. Oh my good,
Speaker 1: go it, oh Andrew. And then I don't I wear
Speaker 1: my nails short. Just recently, just in the past couple
Speaker 1: of months, out decided to put crelics on them, and
Speaker 1: they got a little they got long, and I was
Speaker 1: consistently scratching myself with those fucking mails. Frustrated. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: why I took the wolf. I think they were beautiful
Speaker 1: like you know, no shape God brus the girls that
Speaker 1: know how to do it without hurting themselves. But I
Speaker 1: was really hurting my souls, well my name like that,
Speaker 1: just because mine grow. So it's not because I put
Speaker 1: a crelic onto. I'm just used to the length. Like
Speaker 1: right now, these are shirt to me. Yeah, those are
Speaker 1: usually usually my nails are really long. But I broke
Speaker 1: ontide cut them all down. And but like I don't
Speaker 1: scratch myself with them because I'm so used to it.
Speaker 1: I know how to move, Yeah, how to be used
Speaker 1: to it? Because I how do you how do you
Speaker 1: clean it? You go like that, like how do you clean?
Speaker 1: You just had to be gentle. You just gotta go
Speaker 1: you you go in there and just be gentle. You
Speaker 1: can't be rushing and jamming that thing. Like yeah, And
Speaker 1: when it comes to the shaving situation, I get wax
Speaker 1: up to have mad bumps like that would leave raizor
Speaker 1: bumps and that would be torture for me. So I
Speaker 1: would never let nobody shade me. And I'm definitely not
Speaker 1: letting the nigga wax me, Oh my god, definitely not.
Speaker 1: I would not let him wax me. Imagine all right
Speaker 1: now We're gonna do a little game, so get your
Speaker 1: little shots. Have you ever did we sign up for this? Okay?
Speaker 1: Have you ever missed work to spend time with your man?
Speaker 1: If you did, you gotta take a little sip. I
Speaker 1: mean you're lying. No, I'm not. I don't play. You
Speaker 1: know why I have. That's some made me realize it
Speaker 1: was time to leave him alone because he was arguing
Speaker 1: with me, and we were arguing so much. I just
Speaker 1: didn't go to work, and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: it's probably not a good relationship for me to be
Speaker 1: in because I was just so he had me up
Speaker 1: all night the argument, and I was so tired the
Speaker 1: next day I just couldn't even make it. And he
Speaker 1: was arguing with me from the night before until like
Speaker 1: four pm, so I missed the whole day. I'll be
Speaker 1: crying at work before I miss work, Like and I've
Speaker 1: done that before, Like I've been mad, fucked up, but
Speaker 1: still had to do what I had to do. And
Speaker 1: I think, like when I'm when I was younger, of
Speaker 1: course you had the guys that I was always you know,
Speaker 1: I was being dumb with the oh, I'll pay whatever
Speaker 1: you make so you don't have to go to work.
Speaker 1: But those are bullshit jobs. I didn't give a funk.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't. Yeah, I ain't gonna rest school. No, like,
Speaker 1: I'll give you twelve dollars an hour. I know. Have
Speaker 1: you ever paid a guy's bills? You know, guys will
Speaker 1: pay for some stuff for you, But have you ever
Speaker 1: paid a bill for a guy? No? I'm not you
Speaker 1: know what so I know this one, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you what happened. It was in my name, and
Speaker 1: he went to jail and didn't pay it, so that
Speaker 1: doesn't really count. Like who else was gonna say he
Speaker 1: was in jail. You also told me about a guy
Speaker 1: who his license off and you had to pay his
Speaker 1: life bill. I did not say I had to pay
Speaker 1: his life I said that I was at his house.
Speaker 1: I was at his house and they came in turn
Speaker 1: his power off, and I called him and he was
Speaker 1: at the studio. He was like, well, just give them
Speaker 1: the money, and I was like me, I'm like, I'll
Speaker 1: just sit here in the damn He like, and it
Speaker 1: was it's in Miami at that it was like a
Speaker 1: hundred degrees. I was like, I'm not giving them ship.
Speaker 1: So I did that in that house like until my
Speaker 1: ready to go, and like that was the last time
Speaker 1: I've seen him. Yeah, I wouldn't pay that ship the
Speaker 1: funk I look like the last time you've seen him
Speaker 1: because the life was out. You couldn't see nothing. I
Speaker 1: couldn't see that nigga, And I should have been seeing
Speaker 1: him in the first my fucking place, somebody, Steven, and
Speaker 1: you pay somebody's bills. When I was a teenager, I
Speaker 1: used to pay for my first boyfriend to live in
Speaker 1: the whole town. So yeah, I was like seventeen eighteen.
Speaker 1: How long I was like seventeen eight teen for like
Speaker 1: probably like a month, you know, like three weeks until
Speaker 1: my perread came, and then we will fight and I
Speaker 1: wouldn't see him for like two three weeks and then
Speaker 1: we will get back together, and then my period would
Speaker 1: come and we will break up. It was just so weird.
Speaker 1: It was you know what I'm doing while you were
Speaker 1: on your period? Yeah, Well, for some reason, whenever I
Speaker 1: would get my period, like we it's not he wentn't
Speaker 1: tell me. I know, I know, crazy fight with me,
Speaker 1: Like you would just start fighting with me and I'll
Speaker 1: be like all right, like I'm not gonna pay for
Speaker 1: you to stay in the hotel by yourself. So even
Speaker 1: though I didn't end up giving the money to stay
Speaker 1: by myself, a few times, for sure, goodness, for sure.
Speaker 1: It was my first boyfriend. I was like seventeen years old.
Speaker 1: He came up one time, you know, one time another
Speaker 1: another thing. I defited this guy, the same guy. He
Speaker 1: told me he was going through something rough and he
Speaker 1: needed to borrow some money. And I was making money,
Speaker 1: you know, I was. That's one thing about me. Always
Speaker 1: found the way to have money on me, you know, right,
Speaker 1: you see this girl? No, but so so he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: like so I gave him like three or four hundred dollars, right,
Speaker 1: I gave him like three hundred two or four hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, I'll see you later.
Speaker 1: I went back to the block and I bumped into him,
Speaker 1: and can you believe this man hat on a pair
Speaker 1: of fresh up towns. He went and bought up pair sneakers,
Speaker 1: went up pair sneakers. I was like, really, you're going
Speaker 1: through something and you went him without a pair of sneakers.
Speaker 1: I was so mad. I was so fucking mad. I'll
Speaker 1: never forget that ship what about you. And I don't
Speaker 1: think I've never paid anybody's bills. But I remember one
Speaker 1: time I left this gotten money because he said, oh,
Speaker 1: I had just um came back and I was on tour.
Speaker 1: I was working at Woutang at the time, and I
Speaker 1: said I had catch on me, and so he knew
Speaker 1: I had like a bunch of cash. He was like, oh,
Speaker 1: let me borrow five dollars. I'll give it right back
Speaker 1: to you. And then I never got it back. Uh cheerfully.
Speaker 1: He died, he got killed. That's a good reason not
Speaker 1: to have to pay someone back. Yeah, back, Like I
Speaker 1: knew when I was younger, I had to slow my
Speaker 1: role on having friends that had too much money because
Speaker 1: I was really cool with this boy and he like,
Speaker 1: he's like, has money because it's Pomps his richest. Fuck
Speaker 1: that we went somewhere and he went shopping and was like, oh, ship,
Speaker 1: I don't have my card, but I'm talking about legit.
Speaker 1: This person had paid for mask stuff, then mas stuff.
Speaker 1: He like, can I just use your card real quick
Speaker 1: for like a thousand dollars? So to me, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, a lot. That's all my money in
Speaker 1: the world. So I was in college. I'm like, that's
Speaker 1: all my money in the world. What am I gonna do?
Speaker 1: But like I couldn't say no, because like this I'm
Speaker 1: talking about everything used to come out of pocket for everything.
Speaker 1: Don't you out this motherfucking never gave me that motherfucking
Speaker 1: money back. Man, Remember the Pursuit of Happiness. Remember in
Speaker 1: the Pursuit of Happiness, I never saw that. Oh you
Speaker 1: gotta watch it. There's a scene where um, the dude
Speaker 1: Chris will Smith character, the boss asked him, like, or
Speaker 1: has him paid for the food? I think it was
Speaker 1: like he paid for the food, but he didn't have
Speaker 1: no money. He was like living in you know, I
Speaker 1: sheltered with his son. But they didn't know that. So
Speaker 1: for some people it might be like yeah, no big deal,
Speaker 1: a hundred dollars, but for other exam yeah, but he
Speaker 1: didn't want to say anything, so he ended up having
Speaker 1: to like use his all. You know, this is an
Speaker 1: interesting story. When I used to work as serious, right,
Speaker 1: and this is when Bob had first just got signed
Speaker 1: and his manager be rich this is my guy. But
Speaker 1: back then him and t J and he he had
Speaker 1: said this public to be of course, I don't mind
Speaker 1: saying it. But after I interviewed them on serious, I
Speaker 1: interviewed B O B. We went out to eat and
Speaker 1: at that point they had just signed, so they didn't
Speaker 1: really have it like that. And so be Rich tell
Speaker 1: me like he was going through all kind of financial
Speaker 1: stuff and I was like, let's get another round of drinks,
Speaker 1: and they were paying for it. But I didn't tell
Speaker 1: them to pay for it. I guess they just felt
Speaker 1: like they had to. And he was like, and nobody
Speaker 1: else wanted to drink but me, So I felt bad,
Speaker 1: but he told me later it was because we just
Speaker 1: didn't have it like I didn't have. Yeah. So you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes you don't know people's situations like that, and we've
Speaker 1: all been in that situation, because I have to say,
Speaker 1: I'm sure we've all been broken at some point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure a couple points. I was pretty broken my twenties, man, right,
Speaker 1: I wish I was twenty one. I wish I was
Speaker 1: twenty two. I'm like, damn, I was stupid and I
Speaker 1: was broken, Like, no, I don't want to be that.
Speaker 1: It's I feel like I had my times, like it
Speaker 1: would be like I would be real good and then
Speaker 1: some shot will be it would happen, and then I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be good, and then I'd be real good again,
Speaker 1: and and then some ship would happen and I'm doing
Speaker 1: bad like and then you just gotta keep picking yourself
Speaker 1: up out of the situation. But each and every time
Speaker 1: I will say that I've come back from anything, I've
Speaker 1: always come back literally times ten or way better than
Speaker 1: I was even at the time before, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So I think that sometimes you do need
Speaker 1: those down times to kind of like even get yourself
Speaker 1: together or push you to work a little harder or
Speaker 1: even sometimes humble yourself depending on the person to be
Speaker 1: grateful and they're grateful. In those times, you get like
Speaker 1: you start turn fold. I had a good time when
Speaker 1: I was broke. I remember, like, people'll be having birthday
Speaker 1: dinners and you'll be like, I don't know because I
Speaker 1: can't split no bill right now. So I would always
Speaker 1: go like at the end and be like, I might
Speaker 1: just come back at the end. And that's when you
Speaker 1: don't have to pay for everybody, you know, because sometimes
Speaker 1: you just pick from the table at that point and
Speaker 1: I don't even reply the seafood that's the expensive stuff
Speaker 1: the menu, so you're not feeling just drink like a fish. No,
Speaker 1: not back then, after I didn't have no I didn't
Speaker 1: have no money, so I really didn't like if I
Speaker 1: was gonna have a drink. I always used to drink
Speaker 1: like an Amaido sour, and I would have one drink
Speaker 1: because I couldn't afford it, and so I would go
Speaker 1: buy at the end, after everything was the I would
Speaker 1: buy a drink like from the bar and then walk
Speaker 1: over and be like, Okay, I just want to make
Speaker 1: shot came by and said because I couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: When if they was like, okay, that's gonna be a
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, I'd be like everything in my bill listen.
Speaker 1: But let's just say you are at a dinner, right though,
Speaker 1: and there's somebody's birthday, and there's twelve of y'all. Let's
Speaker 1: just say, and you come late, you sit down, and
Speaker 1: you don't really eat anything right, and you just get
Speaker 1: dessert and a drink. Should you still pay the same
Speaker 1: amount as everybody else? If you don't, they're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about you. And I've definitely had to do that more
Speaker 1: than one time before, and that ship as whack as fuck.
Speaker 1: You'd be like, how am I paying two hundred dollars
Speaker 1: and all I had was a fucking and then it
Speaker 1: will be the birthday person, like I know the round
Speaker 1: like two bro, you listen, I pay for people. I
Speaker 1: definitely do so I'm very but I think I'm very
Speaker 1: um aware of that. Like I always, I never really
Speaker 1: try to overorder things, especially if I know I'm with
Speaker 1: people and I don't want to. Like I have friends
Speaker 1: that I know I might have more money than them,
Speaker 1: so I don't want to order stuff and then make
Speaker 1: them pay for it. Like if I do that, I
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna pay for it. I will never be
Speaker 1: like nicety for you two now you pay for it.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. People do that ship drink all
Speaker 1: you or I want ninety people talk. You do that
Speaker 1: to a nigga. You don't do that to your friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that if I went to that to
Speaker 1: a guy. Maybe you know I've done it to plenty.
Speaker 1: And let me tell you. Remember we was in Atlanta
Speaker 1: and I will bring my own bottle to and hide it.
Speaker 1: We have bottles. We was just in the snake regions.
Speaker 1: Talk about something. I'm not gonna lie always full. That's
Speaker 1: why it's like I'll be having a bag next to me,
Speaker 1: and then I'll be looking at me, like if I
Speaker 1: go on vacation, because they already they charged so much
Speaker 1: for drinks at the pool, right, it'd be like eighteen
Speaker 1: twenty dollars plus gratuity, trust and believe. I will get
Speaker 1: a bottle of some top shop liquor, have it in
Speaker 1: my beach bag, and I order one drink, and then
Speaker 1: that's you know, that's anymore as a genius, what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. I just need a lemonade, and then you'll
Speaker 1: be mixing a lemonade, because look, you make you a
Speaker 1: drink as strong as you want. You know, you got
Speaker 1: your choice of preference of whatever you're drinking. I think
Speaker 1: it's the smartest, most logical thing to do. You're already
Speaker 1: paying to stay there. They don't need twenty dollars every drink.
Speaker 1: What's one drink and du nothing you need several, So
Speaker 1: bring your own bottle. You'll be fine. Just keep it low. Genius,
Speaker 1: have you ever known that your man was cheating but
Speaker 1: kept quiet about it and didn't confront him right away?
Speaker 1: I can't even be quiet. I wish you as soon
Speaker 1: as I find out. Sometimes I wish I held it
Speaker 1: down me till every time. Right, Why did you say something?
Speaker 1: I just can't hold it in. I know one of
Speaker 1: my friends, she's holds it in for years. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she got home homeboards passwords, so she see all the
Speaker 1: ship he do online at hotel meet ups, all kinds
Speaker 1: of show, know everything, and never say nothing because she
Speaker 1: don't want to below her spot and lose the passwords.
Speaker 1: I see a half of clue, y'all. I'm coming right
Speaker 1: to this us and it's now, but it's sucked up
Speaker 1: because sometimes you suppose to build a case like I'll
Speaker 1: be coming with a courtas of paper like yo, this,
Speaker 1: and he come with yeah, he comes with an easy
Speaker 1: excuse and then you could just slide or another of that.
Speaker 1: You gotta be quiet and wait at least to build
Speaker 1: your legitimate motherfucking case because it always has. You gotta drink,
Speaker 1: so you gotta take a step because you haven't it
Speaker 1: to be the case. You haven't. Yeah, you haven't told
Speaker 1: right away. No, I'm saying that I don't do that.
Speaker 1: I've I've wished that before. So what did you do
Speaker 1: that I want to hear? It is? No, I've definitely
Speaker 1: not said anything at first, just to like gather up
Speaker 1: all my evidence, because it is true. Sometimes you tell
Speaker 1: somebody something right away and you don't know for sure,
Speaker 1: and you know they're going to just deny it, deny it,
Speaker 1: deny it, and so but I can't hold it for
Speaker 1: that long, like like Stephanie said, I do know people
Speaker 1: that have held it for like months, and I said, nothing,
Speaker 1: I can't do that. I can hold it for maybe
Speaker 1: a week and that's it. I remember one time I
Speaker 1: didn't and then a seizure and then make you hate them,
Speaker 1: right because sleep like right, like you ever seen that
Speaker 1: clip on Instagram that the lady walks out to the
Speaker 1: guy and slaps him. But I him I did it
Speaker 1: because we were going on vacation, right. We were going
Speaker 1: to Dominican Republic, And this was the first time a
Speaker 1: guy was younger and he was he was like twelve
Speaker 1: years older than me, and so he was taking me
Speaker 1: on vacation and I had never, like you know, gone
Speaker 1: on vacation like that with a guy before, and so
Speaker 1: um I found out he was cheating on me, and
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm await until after the vacation to
Speaker 1: say something. So I went on the vacation, and it's
Speaker 1: I realized from that that's why I'll never go on
Speaker 1: vacation again with somebody who I don't really like like that,
Speaker 1: you know, because the whole time, the whole time I
Speaker 1: was there, I like hated him, and then I kept
Speaker 1: making him get super drunk, so every night he would
Speaker 1: pass out, and I try to have said to me,
Speaker 1: So every day we would like go out and I'd
Speaker 1: be like Marty Train, smart drank smart drinks, and then
Speaker 1: he would get drunk and pass and then I would
Speaker 1: go outside and be chilling by myself at the pool.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So when did you When did you
Speaker 1: say something? As soon as we got back, I never
Speaker 1: spoke to him. I saw him again, and then you
Speaker 1: just let him go. No. I told him. I told
Speaker 1: him that I knew, and then he tried to say
Speaker 1: that he wanted to propose to me if I would
Speaker 1: take him back and forgive him. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm okay, always shying that sucker ship, Like why you
Speaker 1: didn't just do right? Why do you guys think women
Speaker 1: that like that's gonna always work on a woman, Like
Speaker 1: we're so desperate to get married, Like I don't want
Speaker 1: to marry you? Are you cheating? I don't even want
Speaker 1: to go anywhere with you, So why then do I
Speaker 1: want to marry you. I didn't even want to be
Speaker 1: with you on vacase. I just wanted to be on vacation.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be on vacase. But they did backfire.
Speaker 1: So you won't do nothing like that again. Never I would,
Speaker 1: because I just it's not fun. Like I know some people,
Speaker 1: some people could get fluid out go away with a
Speaker 1: guy and not really like them, just to enjoy themselves.
Speaker 1: I can't do it. Yeah, the worst being on vacasion
Speaker 1: with a man you you're not, you don't like. It's
Speaker 1: like sleeping with the enemy. Yeah, Ida tried that ship
Speaker 1: one time. I learned my lesson. I made the dude
Speaker 1: sleep with pillows in between us, and he was so
Speaker 1: mad that he started treating me like shit. He downgraded
Speaker 1: my ticket because we were both first class coming and
Speaker 1: like because I put the pillows to me. That was
Speaker 1: a little petty though, let's be real, but I lined
Speaker 1: the pellows up like a wall, like a fort, and
Speaker 1: he was so he downgraded my flight. Um, he started
Speaker 1: being mad, mean, like just so not the first day,
Speaker 1: but it was like the third I guess he was like,
Speaker 1: all right, bit enough is enough? He trying knocked my
Speaker 1: fort down and I was like, nah, like this is
Speaker 1: I'm good, like you stay on your side. And then
Speaker 1: that's when he was just over. He started treating me
Speaker 1: like ship and I was glad because like where we
Speaker 1: were staying with all inclusive, so didn't matter. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: drinking and paid for already, stupid bitch, that's fine, I'll
Speaker 1: be all right here. I wonder how guys feel about that.
Speaker 1: Like I wonder how guys feel when they spend money
Speaker 1: on a girl and take her like out of town
Speaker 1: and then she puts pillows between them. I wonder if
Speaker 1: they feel like, why did you come? How just that
Speaker 1: I was coming to give you pussy? You asked me
Speaker 1: to come on vacation and I said okay before we came. Period. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know pussy was the exchange in this motherfucker
Speaker 1: like you just said that I want to go, but
Speaker 1: I can I can respect that. He didn't try to
Speaker 1: like force anything. He just was an asshole and that
Speaker 1: just made you be like all right, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean he tried to he didn't try to like whatever.
Speaker 1: He tried to make a move that night, that last time,
Speaker 1: and I was like, he tried to lean in to
Speaker 1: kiss me, and I was like, oh, like I almost
Speaker 1: had a heart attack. It's crazy because Angela, when I
Speaker 1: tell you i'm talking about, you're gonna be when I
Speaker 1: know it is okay. Yeah, I thought I was gonna die, okay,
Speaker 1: like literally because even when he asked me to come.
Speaker 1: This is the six Ship we like used to go
Speaker 1: out to eat and stuff like that, but he had
Speaker 1: never really made no move on me. So I'm thinking
Speaker 1: I'm about to get my own room. I'm swere like
Speaker 1: he just trying to have me be around so he
Speaker 1: could look good. That's how I really took it, to
Speaker 1: be honest. But then when we got there and I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, he's keeping his front up a little
Speaker 1: too hard. The same room, like the fellows are necessary,
Speaker 1: all right? Now? Have you ever accidentally gone on a date? Why?
Speaker 1: Everything's me? Oh you I don't think I've ever accidentally
Speaker 1: gone date? Yes, I definitely have. You know how somebody
Speaker 1: like you're going out and you think it's just a
Speaker 1: friendship type of thing, or you think it's a work thing,
Speaker 1: and they're like oh, let's go grab something to eat,
Speaker 1: and you in your head you're just grabbing something to
Speaker 1: eat with a friend, or you're just like, okay, this
Speaker 1: is a good connection, you know, let's sit down and talk.
Speaker 1: Because I'd be going on like girl, I guess girl
Speaker 1: dates all the time, but when a guy does it,
Speaker 1: I feel like you should be able to do the
Speaker 1: same thing right in the line of work that were
Speaker 1: I should be able to be like, but yes, it
Speaker 1: has definitely happened to me where the guy has like
Speaker 1: came to get me and was dressed up and I
Speaker 1: was like in sweats, like I thought we was going
Speaker 1: right down the street. That's on me if he come
Speaker 1: to get you as a date. I was at work
Speaker 1: because that the rule. That's what I think, Like, I'm
Speaker 1: not getting in the tower with you. Yeah, but if
Speaker 1: you're at work and then like I'll come get you.
Speaker 1: And it's like not that far because it was only
Speaker 1: a few blocks. I was like, okay, cool, I'll come down.
Speaker 1: Like to me, I look at things, you know, I
Speaker 1: have a lot of guy friends, so it's not a
Speaker 1: big deal to me, Like I don't look at it
Speaker 1: like that. So I'm just thinking, all right, cool, this
Speaker 1: is a good connection, Like we'll go grab a drink,
Speaker 1: talk about what he has going on. Because I always
Speaker 1: assume first. I always assume that people want to talk
Speaker 1: about work or like business stuff. I know other people
Speaker 1: first think like he's trying to holler. I think. I
Speaker 1: don't think that right away. I think that right away.
Speaker 1: And that's why I just a boy going out with
Speaker 1: guys by myself, because even if I don't think it's
Speaker 1: a day, they probably think it's a day. Some people
Speaker 1: get besides theirselves. Like I definitely had people that I
Speaker 1: thought was my friend and they thought we were dating,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why would you think that? Like, at
Speaker 1: no point I thought we were cool, Like I talked
Speaker 1: to you about other people, but what happened with me
Speaker 1: was fucked up. It was real fucked up. So I
Speaker 1: have met two guys in one week, right, one at
Speaker 1: the airport and one at the club. It was a
Speaker 1: while ago, so I didn't realize, but both of them
Speaker 1: had the same name. Like but I didn't realize this
Speaker 1: because I don't really know the first guy. I just
Speaker 1: took his number real quick, put it in there whatever whatever.
Speaker 1: So I was out with my family and um when
Speaker 1: my nieces and I get a text and it's from
Speaker 1: the guy. Not mind you. I meet the guy the
Speaker 1: night before war, so naturally i'm gonna think it's, you know,
Speaker 1: the last guy that I met, because it was the
Speaker 1: very next day. Either way, he was like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: come pick you up. This just that and the thirst.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool. I'm like, damn, he's like
Speaker 1: really you know, going forward, moving forward with trying to
Speaker 1: talk like this, this is moving fast quickly, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, first yesterday, now this. Yeah, the person
Speaker 1: pulls up and I'm like, what are you doing here?
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking I'm talking to the nigga at the
Speaker 1: club and then nigga from the airport. You're like, oh,
Speaker 1: like but this was so crazy, No, it wasn't. This
Speaker 1: was so crazy because because like in my mind, like
Speaker 1: I'm I think so crazy, I thought I was being
Speaker 1: set up. I'm like, oh my god, do they know
Speaker 1: each other? And they but no, all along I went
Speaker 1: and checked. I was like, these stupid motherfucker's have the
Speaker 1: same damn name. So I was stuck on a date
Speaker 1: with the guy that I gave my number just to
Speaker 1: get away from me, Like you know how something as
Speaker 1: you do. That was like, I was so mad you
Speaker 1: conversation went thinking you were talking the other dude, and
Speaker 1: then by the time that one hit me, I didn't
Speaker 1: even want to talk to him no more, forget it
Speaker 1: already put in my work. Yeah, it was a fucking
Speaker 1: disaster and I really had to go and like we
Speaker 1: went to eat, but I was just like, this is
Speaker 1: like I had nothing to say because the whole time
Speaker 1: I was just stunned, Like with an idiot, I am
Speaker 1: sitting here with the wrong that's hilarious. It's not Let
Speaker 1: me ask you this. Have you ever let yourself go
Speaker 1: in a relationship to the point where your man was like, uh,
Speaker 1: what's going on here? No, Stephanie itself, skinny, I can't
Speaker 1: even see that happening. I can't like they'd be falling off.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, damn, all these I still look good.
Speaker 1: What happened to you? Do you say something to them? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I be like, oh, look at this, just like that,
Speaker 1: I still look at what the fund happened to you?
Speaker 1: What happened to you? For real? That has happened to
Speaker 1: me with a couple of different almost, I think almost
Speaker 1: for all of my relationships. They get fat, stopped dressing right,
Speaker 1: like they get too comfortable. Yeah, I mean while I'm
Speaker 1: still shopping and doing surgeries and wearing a waste trainer.
Speaker 1: Like boy, I mean people looking good at some But
Speaker 1: you said it like that was working out with you.
Speaker 1: I want to kill you. She was like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: still getting surgery and he's just sitting their ears. Okay,
Speaker 1: was like, I'm working out. What if he was like
Speaker 1: heop me up at your doctor. What if he said,
Speaker 1: help me up with your doctor, I'll be like, all right,
Speaker 1: just both come over here with a fat What if
Speaker 1: you did it on Instagram? Now like flex? What goes
Speaker 1: on Instagram? Body saring it like he's like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm getting life. I'm getting like my baby sent me
Speaker 1: to the doctor. Yeah, how would you feel about that?
Speaker 1: And we'll probably break up because I wouldn't feel very good.
Speaker 1: That could be good. You're like like that's a good
Speaker 1: like YouTube story, because then you could be honest to
Speaker 1: like I hugged him up and my doctor so bays
Speaker 1: going right now to get right, be about to get
Speaker 1: his abs put in. I'm weak if he comes with
Speaker 1: a butt though, that ship would be funny as out
Speaker 1: there was a little extra. Women ever look at stuff
Speaker 1: more than men, don't you think, Yeah, of course I
Speaker 1: didn't leave him, Um, I pet you. A woman have
Speaker 1: more of a chance of getting left single if they
Speaker 1: fall off, even if through a depression. It's not even
Speaker 1: their fault. I'll end up alone. A woman will stay
Speaker 1: with her man. He's a fat blob. I had to
Speaker 1: I had to tell my ex that he fell off
Speaker 1: with sex like we would have it. But in the beginning,
Speaker 1: it's like this nigger going to flip you around, do this, this, that,
Speaker 1: and then there. And then it got to the point
Speaker 1: where he's like, you do all the work. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna sit here and sit here, and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: like and then like, and then he would blame He's like, yo, like,
Speaker 1: you know, I gained weight, so I felt a little
Speaker 1: bit uncomfortable, but I'm like, nigga, your dick still works, though,
Speaker 1: Why you can't? You could lose weight if you was
Speaker 1: moving like you was before. All right, you aren't sweating,
Speaker 1: and let's work this out, work that a little extra
Speaker 1: out exactly. It still feel like guys did get sweller
Speaker 1: when they gain weight. I don't know, but they definitely
Speaker 1: seen bigger when they lose weight, yes, because then you
Speaker 1: can see it. I don't know, I think it bigger.
Speaker 1: He got abs now and now his dick is bigger.
Speaker 1: You never had to have a conversation with somebody that
Speaker 1: there dick fell off. Um, it's a hard thing to say.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say your dick fell off like that. Of
Speaker 1: course that's the sounds crazy. It sounds crazy from jump
Speaker 1: like regardless of up, get up, pick it up. But
Speaker 1: I'm trying. The thing I mean, you know what sucks
Speaker 1: is that, Like I know how to come in sex,
Speaker 1: so I know I could do certain things and I'll
Speaker 1: definitely come, and so I can always be okay. But
Speaker 1: it's always better when they like go above and beyond.
Speaker 1: But I also know because I work a lot, and
Speaker 1: i'd be kind of lazy, so I don't mind that
Speaker 1: I could just make myself come and be good with that,
Speaker 1: like with him. You know what I'm saying, Like, I
Speaker 1: know what angles I need to be at. I know
Speaker 1: a positions work for me, so it doesn't bother me
Speaker 1: that much if I get to come, but sometimes it's
Speaker 1: disappointing if I don't, and I have an attitude after
Speaker 1: I'd be like asshole. Really, really, that's what you're wasting
Speaker 1: my right all right now. The last thing I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about is, I know y'all have to see
Speaker 1: this story about this guy in Japan and he was
Speaker 1: dating thirty five different women at least, right, and he
Speaker 1: was doing that because he wanted them to buy him present.
Speaker 1: He gave them all like different birthdays and they were
Speaker 1: buying him things. When you came until we added up,
Speaker 1: it didn't seem like he got that much ship. But anyway,
Speaker 1: he's actually now in trouble for that. It's a scam
Speaker 1: and it's um fraud. Which do you think that's fair? Right?
Speaker 1: If you meet people, you're dating a bunch of different people,
Speaker 1: you're not in a relationship, but they all buy you presents.
Speaker 1: You may implied about your birthday, But do you think
Speaker 1: that's a crime. I don't think that's a crime. No,
Speaker 1: that's stupid if he's stealing it, like, oh it was
Speaker 1: my birthday, so are wearing your credit card? But otherwise
Speaker 1: it's not a crime. I don't think it should be
Speaker 1: a crime. He shouldn't go to jail for it. And
Speaker 1: I definitely feel like hilarious, Yeah, I think the girls
Speaker 1: you're dumb if you're buying an expensive gift for somebody
Speaker 1: that you can't even verify the damn birthday. You've never
Speaker 1: seen that id or nothing? Yeah, nothing like with family
Speaker 1: or nothing like. I'm not buying a big expensive gift
Speaker 1: for somebody that I don't really know like that. I'm
Speaker 1: doing that for a nigga I funk with like otherwise
Speaker 1: you just checking on nigga is like, but a lot
Speaker 1: of women do you do that? They did say the scam, though,
Speaker 1: is believed to have netted nearly one thousand dollars in
Speaker 1: cash and gifts. That's not a lot m So what
Speaker 1: did they suing him in civil court or something? They're
Speaker 1: saying it's fraud, So that's not right broad So would
Speaker 1: that make it a federal crime? Oh it's p I
Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, have you ever have you ever
Speaker 1: used somebody to get a gift? Um on my birthday?
Speaker 1: On my real birthday? No, your fake one. I've never
Speaker 1: used a fake birthday to got a gift, but I've
Speaker 1: definitely used my birthday like, oh, it's my birthday, I
Speaker 1: want you to. I need something for sure for somebody.
Speaker 1: I probably wasn't even gonna talk after my birthday. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've stayed with somebody to get a gift, Like, I
Speaker 1: know my birthday is about to come up. Yeah, break
Speaker 1: up with him aster birthday pass, and if he don't
Speaker 1: get me something good enough, then that could be a
Speaker 1: reason to dump him. Like, and it's just more so
Speaker 1: because I'm over that person at that point if I'm
Speaker 1: thinking that way, because I'd rather just not deal with
Speaker 1: somebody that I don't like than to do it from
Speaker 1: something material, because I have too much of a bad
Speaker 1: hattitude and I don't like someone. So I'm not about
Speaker 1: to be miserable. I can't even hide it with my
Speaker 1: facial Yeah you know, I'm not being miserable for no
Speaker 1: damn gift. But I will stay with the niggada I'm
Speaker 1: with until my birthday pops up on Christmas and then
Speaker 1: be like, all right, it was worth it because at
Speaker 1: least I left out with this. Oh yeah, well listen, like,
Speaker 1: I'm staying with him, so yeah, because that sucks if
Speaker 1: you break up like right, but and you know what
Speaker 1: that sucks when you start dating somebody right before their birthday. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, that's a guy from Japan. Don't believe
Speaker 1: that let me see. I saw the story on Instagram.
Speaker 1: You gotta show me. All you getting from me is dinner,
Speaker 1: like if we first if we meet early on and
Speaker 1: it's like nothing secure like that, and it's your birthday, Uh,
Speaker 1: we call feed you cheeseburger. Yeah, I'll feed you. That's
Speaker 1: about it, because I was gonna eat anyway, and I
Speaker 1: feed the people. Now, you know what, now that I
Speaker 1: think about it, you know what I have done. I
Speaker 1: have known that I was about to break up with
Speaker 1: somebody and butt them like a nice present before I
Speaker 1: broke up with them because I felt bad and it
Speaker 1: being like a parding gift. Yeah, because I felt bad, Like,
Speaker 1: I know we're about to break up, so let me
Speaker 1: at least get them like something nice so I don't
Speaker 1: feel so bad about it. Okay, when I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about anymore. That's really nice, Angela. I've never heard of
Speaker 1: anything like. That's actually amazing. That's a good karma, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Because I remember I dated this one guy and he
Speaker 1: used to buy me gifts all the time, and I
Speaker 1: used to be like I told him because I knew
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna end up with him. I actually told
Speaker 1: him like stopped buying me things because it's making me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: And he used to buy me stop all the time.
Speaker 1: So before I stopped talking to him, I bought him
Speaker 1: like a nice present because I felt bad because I
Speaker 1: knew I wasn't going to toull him anymore. But I
Speaker 1: kind of felt like it was a little partial payback.
Speaker 1: But like the stuff he already brought you so many things,
Speaker 1: it's like, here you go, erme's handkerchief and what notes
Speaker 1: for for your tears when you're crying? But it's over
Speaker 1: at least. Do you feel like y'all have met the
Speaker 1: person that you're gonna marry yet? No? Me neither. I
Speaker 1: don't know that would be married, get married? He said, No,
Speaker 1: I want to get married. You're confused if I am
Speaker 1: gonna get married one day, I don't think I'm met
Speaker 1: the person now I'm gonn to marry. If I marry
Speaker 1: anybody that I already know, I would be shocked. I
Speaker 1: was shocked, like, wow, I can't What if it's somebody
Speaker 1: from me a past that comes down. Let me bring
Speaker 1: the ring back, right, um, somebody from my past? Like
Speaker 1: I tried that, Remember I tryed that like two years ago?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that went, that didn't work, That didn't work.
Speaker 1: It worked for like a week. It worked for like
Speaker 1: a week. We got it. We we got back together
Speaker 1: from from our past, and then we got engaged in
Speaker 1: that week and then it was over the week the
Speaker 1: following week after. Because that's a Nicki Minaj dead. So
Speaker 1: I think of stuff like that, like she really married
Speaker 1: somebody that she used the date back in the day, right,
Speaker 1: That actually probably feels good when you're as famous as
Speaker 1: she is. When you don't know who you can trust,
Speaker 1: you know, but I don't. I can't trust them either.
Speaker 1: That was the comfortability that I found with the guy
Speaker 1: that I was dating two years ago, as that we
Speaker 1: didn't have to get to know each other. We know
Speaker 1: each other for forever. So it was like we just
Speaker 1: skipped the whole beginning part of the relationship. But maybe
Speaker 1: that's bad. No, of course I was horrible. Like in
Speaker 1: the movie Casino, Remember she couldn't leave that guy alone
Speaker 1: even though she was Yes, she could not. It was
Speaker 1: like Larry or Leading. I feel like every woman has
Speaker 1: that guy in her life that like he ain't ship,
Speaker 1: but he can come back around and like squirm his
Speaker 1: way in. Yeah. But that guy, Yeah, you don't usually
Speaker 1: marry that guy dressed with him and be like like
Speaker 1: in the movie back all right, Well, listen, ladies, I'm
Speaker 1: glad that we had a chance to have our little
Speaker 1: catch up because I do feel like during this pandemic,
Speaker 1: you know, and I know Atlanta there's no pandemic, so Laura,
Speaker 1: y'all is probably out and about, but I know says
Speaker 1: I'm in the house. I just went back to the station.
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to that motherfucker. We did our first
Speaker 1: in person interview today, Oh damn. But I just wanted
Speaker 1: to make sure we catch up because it is important
Speaker 1: for people to like be in contact and have these
Speaker 1: little fun conversations so that later on tonight y'all could
Speaker 1: be like, all right, I feel like a little uplifted
Speaker 1: from talking to my girls. Yes, we messed. She's recovering,
Speaker 1: she'll be back. Yeah, it's just work. Oh okay. I
Speaker 1: didn't know what it was. Oh it was, it's done
Speaker 1: to work. She was like. G was like, I'm out
Speaker 1: of surgery. I'm like, oh my god, what because her
Speaker 1: face is gonna be swollen, So you know how it goes,
Speaker 1: that's gonna be me in a couple of weeks too.
Speaker 1: Damn the two top filacial queens on the show. Just
Speaker 1: you getting your teeth done to gotta keep that out right. No,
Speaker 1: she's not even getting her teeth done, just done to work,
Speaker 1: but just not yeah yeah, okay, alright, well, good luck
Speaker 1: and thank you all. Friend. It's a little check in
Speaker 1: and to keep our spirits up. And here is it.
Speaker 1: Toasts you. I feel like I drink to everything, but
Speaker 1: I always drink to everything, chaired lady, I love you guys.
Speaker 1: I'll be drinking even if it don't pertain to me.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, did that, oh yeah, alright, by yeah