WEBVTT - Episode 301: Your D*ck Fell Off 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.279 What utlift Services Time for woman on Top. And today 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:07.800 we are doing a very special Delian toast to a 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:10.360 woman who was a single black mom from New York City, 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:14.000 Paula McCarthy. She's the owner of Y S. S water Works. 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:16.680 It's a spring water bottling plant in upstate New York. 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:19.400 And she's the first black woman to own and operate 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:22.360 this type of water business in the entire state. So 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:26.239 she actually acquired the water plant and aquifer uh in 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:29.440 October during the pandemic. That's really big. You know, we 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:32.280 gotta show love to our assisted and make sure everybody 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:34.800 know that they on a top. Yeah, and you know 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:37.000 the main thing is this right, As you know, water 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.920 is always valuable, and some major water companies have actually 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.240 been trying to buy her company for twenty her property 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.960 for twenty million dollars, but she said she's determined to 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:48.479 keep it. She values the importance to black ownership and 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:51.600 natural resources. And this all happened and I love a 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:55.240 sorry like this very organically. Now, this happened because she 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:59.080 had a series of unplanned events. You've seen kids selling water, right, 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:02.440 but she was buying these pillots of water for her twins, 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:05.280 and she gave them sixteen hundred dollars to sell these 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:08.360 palets from b days during the pandemic. They called their 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.880 company the New York Water Boys, and they were selling 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:12.759 their palets of water on the street. Then they worked 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:15.240 their way up to selling palaces of supermarkets and bodega's. 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.639 They also made home deliveries, and then they actually became 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:21.400 successful enough that they got a pancheck selling what it 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:24.320 is twenty one supermarkets. So at this time, water was 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:27.600 very hard to find during the pandemic, and she looked 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:29.440 at this is a way to fund her nonprofit. It's 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.399 called Youth Saving Society. That's why it's wiss water. So 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:36.080 she also, besides being a nurse, was teaching financial literacy 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:38.399 and workshops to youth in schools on her days off 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:40.759 until COVID hit. So I love the fact that she's 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:44.200 into financial empowerment. She wanted to teach her twins just 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:47.600 to empower themselves financially. And then she took that flifted 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:50.400 and ended up buying an aquafer, which is where you 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:52.600 can get water from. So she said she was able 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:55.080 to raise a hundred and thirty thousand dollars in two days. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:59.600 Fat crazy, So shout out to entrepreneurship and shout out 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:04.400 to Paul McCarthy, the owner of Why says, whatever a 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:09.120 nice Dlian toast to you. What's happen to let's service. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:13.280 I'm Angela GHI, I'm Stephinite in Santiago. I'm Larrya and 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:16.160 today been doing a specially just checking in episode because 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:17.920 I know there's been a lot going on during this 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.320 pandemic and we're always into doing people, but we never 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.560 have a chance to just check in with each other, 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.120 so I feel like that's important. I see you with 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:30.040 the y'all really just fancy for this. I'm on a honey, 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.160 I just want to add on, Yeah, you look like 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.640 you about to do a video detefinitely. I don't know 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:42.280 what she got on? A dr jacket hat, the bags 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:48.640 in the background. Girls on, have y'all changed your style 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.680 like during this this pandemic you think you've changed your 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:54.760 style permanently as far as like what you spend money on? Um, 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:57.200 even though I was wearing a lot of sneakers before pandemic, 0:02:57.280 --> 0:03:00.480 but now she's like high heels. I've been like, I've 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:02.320 just thought about it. I haven't brought a pair of 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:04.680 hot heels and months and I used to buy heels 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.000 all the time. Yeah, I can't even remember the last 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:08.840 time I had to wear a pair of shoes. I'm 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:11.040 also not going to the club or nothing. I've seen 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:14.360 uh somebody and lived the other night and it was 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:18.920 just crazy and I was like, yo, when when was this? 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:24.200 And it was like Sunday to those videos from Live too. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.920 I'm not doing that. Yeah, And you know what I 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.160 realized too, Like I used to waste a lot of 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:34.160 money on clothes and bags and things like that. I 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.640 think I bought one bag this whole time, and that's 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:39.040 because I had a gift card to Louis Vutton and 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.360 that's the only reason I bought a bag, because someone 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:43.840 had given me a gift card for my birthday. And 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:45.840 it took me like months to even go to the 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.680 story and buy it. So I finally even and brought 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:50.960 I bought a little piece of luggage. It's cute. I 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.000 was just thinking about it the other day, like, Damn, 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:54.960 I got all these bags. I don't even go nowhere. 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.400 That's the bad thing. You're spending money on stuff that 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:00.840 you don't even you can't and even get to where 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:03.880 I do feel like I've picked up or maybe a 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:07.160 worst spending have it since quarantine. I'm gonna tell you why, 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.960 Because one, I'm saving money from not doing other things, 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:14.280 and then I'll be feeling kind of bored, like with 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:17.640 my own personal life because it's like I'm working, working, working, 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:19.880 I'm like, well, what can I do to make myself happy? 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:24.960 And it's like, uh, these this nice little bag, or yeah, 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.560 I'm gonna buy something nice, and you know what, Glasses 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:30.919 have become my go to thing, especially I see and 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:34.320 has makeup artists already when she gets to work. I 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.920 ain't there yet. We are a year too, so I'm 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:40.839 I'm wearing glasses because I'm not trying to show my 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:45.680 face looking all tired. So I always say, yeah, this 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:50.440 is break up this interview, I mean not this, but 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.560 these episodes when we wear glasses, they're like they must 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:57.080 not have their makeup done. God, I should have bought 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:59.760 us some glasses today because I did not get my 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:03.400 make I've done today. It really looks like I did 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:07.640 it myself, but it's not. I gotta learn how to 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.560 do that myself. Now, I want to ask you guys. 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.680 You know, obviously we're looking at a lot of things 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:13.960 happening on social media, and one thing that came up 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:17.920 is having your man shaved your vagina. Obviously we've seen 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:21.240 Tyree's doing that for his girlfriend and posting it on 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:25.719 social media. And I know, I didn't you know somebody 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:27.919 that had a one night stand with this guy and 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:30.200 he's a celebrity. And she came back and told me 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:31.919 that he had a fetish and he asked it if 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:33.400 he could shave her vagina. And I don't know if 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:35.760 he wanted to do it because she was harry or 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:37.960 if it's just like something he likes to do. But 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:42.000 people have fetishes like that. I'm like a loss for words. 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:46.280 You can't shoot my vagina. The only one time I've 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:50.000 had I tried because it was a disaster when I 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:53.120 was pregnant, because when you get pregnant, I thought, while 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:56.640 you can't even reach in the right places, you can't see. 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.760 So I asked right before I gave birth, I told 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:01.880 my on his father like, all right, you have to 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:05.480 do this, And it was ashauster. I ended up doing 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.719 it myself with a mirror. What do you mean a disaster? 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:11.600 It was ebshasting. He just didn't know what he was doing. 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.320 I was like, bro alright, forget it. He was right scared. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:17.400 I was. I'm not scared to lest somebody shape it 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.800 because they might what if they k what if they 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:24.039 like nick your your hood or something. You know, when 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:27.360 you shave, you know which way your hairs go. You 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:29.479 know what I mean? And which way to shave in 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:33.000 certain areas, Guys, I would never let a guy do whatever. 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.800 And what if you get an inground here? That's it 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.160 is the word, you know what? At one time, I'm 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:40.960 not gonna like it. And I think I told you 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:43.560 when this happened. My nails were long and I was 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.560 had them like really plainty. And so I was watching 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:48.120 myself in the shower and you know how you like 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.960 open up your vagina and Washington side, Well you're supposed to. 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:55.440 I scratched this ship out of myself. Oh my good, 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:59.080 go it, oh Andrew. And then I don't I wear 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.240 my nails short. Just recently, just in the past couple 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.160 of months, out decided to put crelics on them, and 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:06.479 they got a little they got long, and I was 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:11.280 consistently scratching myself with those fucking mails. Frustrated. Yeah, that's 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.960 why I took the wolf. I think they were beautiful 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.360 like you know, no shape God brus the girls that 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.800 know how to do it without hurting themselves. But I 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:22.320 was really hurting my souls, well my name like that, 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:25.000 just because mine grow. So it's not because I put 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:27.600 a crelic onto. I'm just used to the length. Like 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.400 right now, these are shirt to me. Yeah, those are 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:33.480 usually usually my nails are really long. But I broke 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:37.080 ontide cut them all down. And but like I don't 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:39.200 scratch myself with them because I'm so used to it. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.000 I know how to move, Yeah, how to be used 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.400 to it? Because I how do you how do you 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:46.240 clean it? You go like that, like how do you clean? 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:48.960 You just had to be gentle. You just gotta go 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:50.840 you you go in there and just be gentle. You 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:55.520 can't be rushing and jamming that thing. Like yeah, And 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:58.400 when it comes to the shaving situation, I get wax 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:02.040 up to have mad bumps like that would leave raizor 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:05.560 bumps and that would be torture for me. So I 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:08.000 would never let nobody shade me. And I'm definitely not 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:13.000 letting the nigga wax me, Oh my god, definitely not. 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:17.200 I would not let him wax me. Imagine all right 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:19.040 now We're gonna do a little game, so get your 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:26.840 little shots. Have you ever did we sign up for this? Okay? 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:30.280 Have you ever missed work to spend time with your man? 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:33.840 If you did, you gotta take a little sip. I 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:38.079 mean you're lying. No, I'm not. I don't play. You 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:48.960 know why I have. That's some made me realize it 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:50.720 was time to leave him alone because he was arguing 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:53.120 with me, and we were arguing so much. I just 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.079 didn't go to work, and I was like, you know what, 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.200 it's probably not a good relationship for me to be 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:59.360 in because I was just so he had me up 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.120 all night the argument, and I was so tired the 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:04.360 next day I just couldn't even make it. And he 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.160 was arguing with me from the night before until like 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:09.080 four pm, so I missed the whole day. I'll be 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.960 crying at work before I miss work, Like and I've 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:15.200 done that before, Like I've been mad, fucked up, but 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:17.160 still had to do what I had to do. And 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:19.000 I think, like when I'm when I was younger, of 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:22.200 course you had the guys that I was always you know, 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:25.280 I was being dumb with the oh, I'll pay whatever 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.480 you make so you don't have to go to work. 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.480 But those are bullshit jobs. I didn't give a funk. 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:34.560 I'm like, I don't. Yeah, I ain't gonna rest school. No, like, 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:40.240 I'll give you twelve dollars an hour. I know. Have 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.480 you ever paid a guy's bills? You know, guys will 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:45.280 pay for some stuff for you, But have you ever 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:50.400 paid a bill for a guy? No? I'm not you 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:53.960 know what so I know this one, but I'm gonna 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:56.760 tell you what happened. It was in my name, and 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:58.840 he went to jail and didn't pay it, so that 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.720 doesn't really count. Like who else was gonna say he 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.959 was in jail. You also told me about a guy 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:05.760 who his license off and you had to pay his 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:08.040 life bill. I did not say I had to pay 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:11.360 his life I said that I was at his house. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.320 I was at his house and they came in turn 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:17.000 his power off, and I called him and he was 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:19.320 at the studio. He was like, well, just give them 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:21.800 the money, and I was like me, I'm like, I'll 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:24.240 just sit here in the damn He like, and it 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.520 was it's in Miami at that it was like a 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:28.720 hundred degrees. I was like, I'm not giving them ship. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:31.520 So I did that in that house like until my 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.040 ready to go, and like that was the last time 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:37.240 I've seen him. Yeah, I wouldn't pay that ship the 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.040 funk I look like the last time you've seen him 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:41.040 because the life was out. You couldn't see nothing. I 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:43.920 couldn't see that nigga, And I should have been seeing 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:47.040 him in the first my fucking place, somebody, Steven, and 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.240 you pay somebody's bills. When I was a teenager, I 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:53.160 used to pay for my first boyfriend to live in 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:56.840 the whole town. So yeah, I was like seventeen eighteen. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.880 How long I was like seventeen eight teen for like 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:03.200 probably like a month, you know, like three weeks until 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:05.199 my perread came, and then we will fight and I 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:08.679 wouldn't see him for like two three weeks and then 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.040 we will get back together, and then my period would 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.040 come and we will break up. It was just so weird. 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:16.559 It was you know what I'm doing while you were 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:20.560 on your period? Yeah, Well, for some reason, whenever I 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.040 would get my period, like we it's not he wentn't 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:28.560 tell me. I know, I know, crazy fight with me, 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:30.559 Like you would just start fighting with me and I'll 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:33.000 be like all right, like I'm not gonna pay for 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:35.559 you to stay in the hotel by yourself. So even 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:37.360 though I didn't end up giving the money to stay 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:40.600 by myself, a few times, for sure, goodness, for sure. 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:45.280 It was my first boyfriend. I was like seventeen years old. 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:49.400 He came up one time, you know, one time another 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.520 another thing. I defited this guy, the same guy. He 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.400 told me he was going through something rough and he 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:58.400 needed to borrow some money. And I was making money, 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:00.640 you know, I was. That's one thing about me. Always 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:04.160 found the way to have money on me, you know, right, 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:12.920 you see this girl? No, but so so he's like, oh, 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:16.240 like so I gave him like three or four hundred dollars, right, 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:18.480 I gave him like three hundred two or four hundred dollars. 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.000 And I was like, all right, I'll see you later. 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:23.439 I went back to the block and I bumped into him, 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.960 and can you believe this man hat on a pair 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:29.839 of fresh up towns. He went and bought up pair sneakers, 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:35.800 went up pair sneakers. I was like, really, you're going 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.559 through something and you went him without a pair of sneakers. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.800 I was so mad. I was so fucking mad. I'll 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.800 never forget that ship what about you. And I don't 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.160 think I've never paid anybody's bills. But I remember one 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.520 time I left this gotten money because he said, oh, 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:53.880 I had just um came back and I was on tour. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.000 I was working at Woutang at the time, and I 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.040 said I had catch on me, and so he knew 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.080 I had like a bunch of cash. He was like, oh, 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:03.600 let me borrow five dollars. I'll give it right back 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:08.840 to you. And then I never got it back. Uh cheerfully. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:12.079 He died, he got killed. That's a good reason not 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:17.920 to have to pay someone back. Yeah, back, Like I 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:19.960 knew when I was younger, I had to slow my 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.880 role on having friends that had too much money because 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.880 I was really cool with this boy and he like, 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:29.000 he's like, has money because it's Pomps his richest. Fuck 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:33.240 that we went somewhere and he went shopping and was like, oh, ship, 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:35.920 I don't have my card, but I'm talking about legit. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:39.199 This person had paid for mask stuff, then mas stuff. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.160 He like, can I just use your card real quick 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.880 for like a thousand dollars? So to me, I'm like, 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.600 oh my god, a lot. That's all my money in 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.920 the world. So I was in college. I'm like, that's 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:51.920 all my money in the world. What am I gonna do? 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.760 But like I couldn't say no, because like this I'm 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.920 talking about everything used to come out of pocket for everything. 0:13:59.520 --> 0:14:01.960 Don't you out this motherfucking never gave me that motherfucking 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:06.360 money back. Man, Remember the Pursuit of Happiness. Remember in 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:09.240 the Pursuit of Happiness, I never saw that. Oh you 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:12.280 gotta watch it. There's a scene where um, the dude 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:15.880 Chris will Smith character, the boss asked him, like, or 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:17.640 has him paid for the food? I think it was 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:19.040 like he paid for the food, but he didn't have 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.360 no money. He was like living in you know, I 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:24.400 sheltered with his son. But they didn't know that. So 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:27.560 for some people it might be like yeah, no big deal, 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:30.400 a hundred dollars, but for other exam yeah, but he 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.360 didn't want to say anything, so he ended up having 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:34.640 to like use his all. You know, this is an 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:37.960 interesting story. When I used to work as serious, right, 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:41.520 and this is when Bob had first just got signed 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:46.960 and his manager be rich this is my guy. But 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.760 back then him and t J and he he had 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:51.920 said this public to be of course, I don't mind 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:55.040 saying it. But after I interviewed them on serious, I 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.080 interviewed B O B. We went out to eat and 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.280 at that point they had just signed, so they didn't 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:02.000 really have it like that. And so be Rich tell 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.040 me like he was going through all kind of financial 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:06.040 stuff and I was like, let's get another round of drinks, 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:08.200 and they were paying for it. But I didn't tell 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:09.760 them to pay for it. I guess they just felt 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.640 like they had to. And he was like, and nobody 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.360 else wanted to drink but me, So I felt bad, 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:17.000 but he told me later it was because we just 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:21.880 didn't have it like I didn't have. Yeah. So you know, 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:27.160 sometimes you don't know people's situations like that, and we've 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:29.040 all been in that situation, because I have to say, 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.400 I'm sure we've all been broken at some point. Yeah, 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:37.640 for sure a couple points. I was pretty broken my twenties, man, right, 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:41.400 I wish I was twenty one. I wish I was 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:44.320 twenty two. I'm like, damn, I was stupid and I 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:49.000 was broken, Like, no, I don't want to be that. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:52.280 It's I feel like I had my times, like it 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:55.440 would be like I would be real good and then 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:57.520 some shot will be it would happen, and then I 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.960 wouldn't be good, and then I'd be real good again, 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.560 and and then some ship would happen and I'm doing 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:05.160 bad like and then you just gotta keep picking yourself 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:07.720 up out of the situation. But each and every time 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:11.360 I will say that I've come back from anything, I've 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:17.160 always come back literally times ten or way better than 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.720 I was even at the time before, you know what 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.360 I mean. So I think that sometimes you do need 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:25.560 those down times to kind of like even get yourself 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.520 together or push you to work a little harder or 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:32.840 even sometimes humble yourself depending on the person to be 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:36.200 grateful and they're grateful. In those times, you get like 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:39.240 you start turn fold. I had a good time when 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.240 I was broke. I remember, like, people'll be having birthday 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:44.360 dinners and you'll be like, I don't know because I 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.240 can't split no bill right now. So I would always 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:48.760 go like at the end and be like, I might 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.040 just come back at the end. And that's when you 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.520 don't have to pay for everybody, you know, because sometimes 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:57.520 you just pick from the table at that point and 0:16:57.560 --> 0:17:00.000 I don't even reply the seafood that's the expensive stuff 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:04.480 the menu, so you're not feeling just drink like a fish. No, 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:08.560 not back then, after I didn't have no I didn't 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:10.399 have no money, so I really didn't like if I 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.200 was gonna have a drink. I always used to drink 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:14.040 like an Amaido sour, and I would have one drink 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:16.399 because I couldn't afford it, and so I would go 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:18.600 buy at the end, after everything was the I would 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:20.800 buy a drink like from the bar and then walk 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:22.320 over and be like, Okay, I just want to make 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:25.240 shot came by and said because I couldn't do it. 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:27.119 When if they was like, okay, that's gonna be a 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:31.439 hundred dollars, I'd be like everything in my bill listen. 0:17:31.520 --> 0:17:35.600 But let's just say you are at a dinner, right though, 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:38.200 and there's somebody's birthday, and there's twelve of y'all. Let's 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:42.080 just say, and you come late, you sit down, and 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:44.880 you don't really eat anything right, and you just get 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:47.320 dessert and a drink. Should you still pay the same 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:50.280 amount as everybody else? If you don't, they're gonna talk 0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:52.679 about you. And I've definitely had to do that more 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:55.120 than one time before, and that ship as whack as fuck. 0:17:55.560 --> 0:17:58.000 You'd be like, how am I paying two hundred dollars 0:17:58.040 --> 0:18:00.399 and all I had was a fucking and then it 0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:02.480 will be the birthday person, like I know the round 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:16.600 like two bro, you listen, I pay for people. I 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:19.720 definitely do so I'm very but I think I'm very 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:22.840 um aware of that. Like I always, I never really 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:25.240 try to overorder things, especially if I know I'm with 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:27.280 people and I don't want to. Like I have friends 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:28.840 that I know I might have more money than them, 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:30.480 so I don't want to order stuff and then make 0:18:30.480 --> 0:18:32.359 them pay for it. Like if I do that, I 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:34.080 know I'm gonna pay for it. I will never be 0:18:34.160 --> 0:18:36.440 like nicety for you two now you pay for it. 0:18:36.600 --> 0:18:39.560 I wouldn't do it. People do that ship drink all 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:45.360 you or I want ninety people talk. You do that 0:18:45.400 --> 0:18:47.600 to a nigga. You don't do that to your friend. Yeah, 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:49.359 I wouldn't do that if I went to that to 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:51.880 a guy. Maybe you know I've done it to plenty. 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:54.240 And let me tell you. Remember we was in Atlanta 0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:57.280 and I will bring my own bottle to and hide it. 0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:03.680 We have bottles. We was just in the snake regions. 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:11.760 Talk about something. I'm not gonna lie always full. That's 0:19:11.800 --> 0:19:14.600 why it's like I'll be having a bag next to me, 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:18.240 and then I'll be looking at me, like if I 0:19:18.320 --> 0:19:20.480 go on vacation, because they already they charged so much 0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:22.600 for drinks at the pool, right, it'd be like eighteen 0:19:22.720 --> 0:19:26.080 twenty dollars plus gratuity, trust and believe. I will get 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:28.080 a bottle of some top shop liquor, have it in 0:19:28.119 --> 0:19:31.360 my beach bag, and I order one drink, and then 0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:37.199 that's you know, that's anymore as a genius, what you're 0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:40.800 talking about. I just need a lemonade, and then you'll 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:43.399 be mixing a lemonade, because look, you make you a 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:46.040 drink as strong as you want. You know, you got 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:48.880 your choice of preference of whatever you're drinking. I think 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:52.040 it's the smartest, most logical thing to do. You're already 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:55.399 paying to stay there. They don't need twenty dollars every drink. 0:19:55.600 --> 0:19:58.679 What's one drink and du nothing you need several, So 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:02.200 bring your own bottle. You'll be fine. Just keep it low. Genius, 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:06.879 have you ever known that your man was cheating but 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:09.960 kept quiet about it and didn't confront him right away? 0:20:11.560 --> 0:20:15.880 I can't even be quiet. I wish you as soon 0:20:15.920 --> 0:20:18.159 as I find out. Sometimes I wish I held it 0:20:18.200 --> 0:20:24.879 down me till every time. Right, Why did you say something? 0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:27.080 I just can't hold it in. I know one of 0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:33.640 my friends, she's holds it in for years. Yeah. Yeah, 0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:36.760 she got home homeboards passwords, so she see all the 0:20:36.800 --> 0:20:41.440 ship he do online at hotel meet ups, all kinds 0:20:41.440 --> 0:20:44.159