1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,279 Speaker 1: What utlift Services Time for woman on Top. And today 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: we are doing a very special Delian toast to a 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 1: woman who was a single black mom from New York City, 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Paula McCarthy. She's the owner of Y S. S water Works. 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 1: It's a spring water bottling plant in upstate New York. 6 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: And she's the first black woman to own and operate 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: this type of water business in the entire state. So 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: she actually acquired the water plant and aquifer uh in 9 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: October during the pandemic. That's really big. You know, we 10 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: gotta show love to our assisted and make sure everybody 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: know that they on a top. Yeah, and you know 12 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: the main thing is this right, As you know, water 13 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: is always valuable, and some major water companies have actually 14 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: been trying to buy her company for twenty her property 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: for twenty million dollars, but she said she's determined to 16 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: keep it. She values the importance to black ownership and 17 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: natural resources. And this all happened and I love a 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: sorry like this very organically. Now, this happened because she 19 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: had a series of unplanned events. You've seen kids selling water, right, 20 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: but she was buying these pillots of water for her twins, 21 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: and she gave them sixteen hundred dollars to sell these 22 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: palets from b days during the pandemic. They called their 23 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: company the New York Water Boys, and they were selling 24 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 1: their palets of water on the street. Then they worked 25 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: their way up to selling palaces of supermarkets and bodega's. 26 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,639 Speaker 1: They also made home deliveries, and then they actually became 27 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: successful enough that they got a pancheck selling what it 28 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: is twenty one supermarkets. So at this time, water was 29 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: very hard to find during the pandemic, and she looked 30 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: at this is a way to fund her nonprofit. It's 31 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: called Youth Saving Society. That's why it's wiss water. So 32 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: she also, besides being a nurse, was teaching financial literacy 33 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: and workshops to youth in schools on her days off 34 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 1: until COVID hit. So I love the fact that she's 35 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: into financial empowerment. She wanted to teach her twins just 36 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: to empower themselves financially. And then she took that flifted 37 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: and ended up buying an aquafer, which is where you 38 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: can get water from. So she said she was able 39 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: to raise a hundred and thirty thousand dollars in two days. 40 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: Fat crazy, So shout out to entrepreneurship and shout out 41 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: to Paul McCarthy, the owner of Why says, whatever a 42 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: nice Dlian toast to you. What's happen to let's service. 43 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: I'm Angela GHI, I'm Stephinite in Santiago. I'm Larrya and 44 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: today been doing a specially just checking in episode because 45 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: I know there's been a lot going on during this 46 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: pandemic and we're always into doing people, but we never 47 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: have a chance to just check in with each other, 48 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: so I feel like that's important. I see you with 49 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: the y'all really just fancy for this. I'm on a honey, 50 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: I just want to add on, Yeah, you look like 51 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: you about to do a video detefinitely. I don't know 52 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: what she got on? A dr jacket hat, the bags 53 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: in the background. Girls on, have y'all changed your style 54 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: like during this this pandemic you think you've changed your 55 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: style permanently as far as like what you spend money on? Um, 56 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: even though I was wearing a lot of sneakers before pandemic, 57 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: but now she's like high heels. I've been like, I've 58 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: just thought about it. I haven't brought a pair of 59 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: hot heels and months and I used to buy heels 60 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, I can't even remember the last 61 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: time I had to wear a pair of shoes. I'm 62 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: also not going to the club or nothing. I've seen 63 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: uh somebody and lived the other night and it was 64 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: just crazy and I was like, yo, when when was this? 65 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: And it was like Sunday to those videos from Live too. 66 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. Yeah, And you know what I 67 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: realized too, Like I used to waste a lot of 68 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: money on clothes and bags and things like that. I 69 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: think I bought one bag this whole time, and that's 70 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: because I had a gift card to Louis Vutton and 71 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: that's the only reason I bought a bag, because someone 72 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: had given me a gift card for my birthday. And 73 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: it took me like months to even go to the 74 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: story and buy it. So I finally even and brought 75 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: I bought a little piece of luggage. It's cute. I 76 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: was just thinking about it the other day, like, Damn, 77 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: I got all these bags. I don't even go nowhere. 78 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: That's the bad thing. You're spending money on stuff that 79 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: you don't even you can't and even get to where 80 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: I do feel like I've picked up or maybe a 81 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: worst spending have it since quarantine. I'm gonna tell you why, 82 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: Because one, I'm saving money from not doing other things, 83 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: and then I'll be feeling kind of bored, like with 84 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: my own personal life because it's like I'm working, working, working, 85 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what can I do to make myself happy? 86 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: And it's like, uh, these this nice little bag, or yeah, 87 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy something nice, and you know what, Glasses 88 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: have become my go to thing, especially I see and 89 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: has makeup artists already when she gets to work. I 90 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: ain't there yet. We are a year too, so I'm 91 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: I'm wearing glasses because I'm not trying to show my 92 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: face looking all tired. So I always say, yeah, this 93 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: is break up this interview, I mean not this, but 94 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: these episodes when we wear glasses, they're like they must 95 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: not have their makeup done. God, I should have bought 96 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: us some glasses today because I did not get my 97 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: make I've done today. It really looks like I did 98 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: it myself, but it's not. I gotta learn how to 99 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: do that myself. Now, I want to ask you guys. 100 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: You know, obviously we're looking at a lot of things 101 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: happening on social media, and one thing that came up 102 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: is having your man shaved your vagina. Obviously we've seen 103 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: Tyree's doing that for his girlfriend and posting it on 104 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: social media. And I know, I didn't you know somebody 105 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 1: that had a one night stand with this guy and 106 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: he's a celebrity. And she came back and told me 107 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 1: that he had a fetish and he asked it if 108 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: he could shave her vagina. And I don't know if 109 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: he wanted to do it because she was harry or 110 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: if it's just like something he likes to do. But 111 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: people have fetishes like that. I'm like a loss for words. 112 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: You can't shoot my vagina. The only one time I've 113 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: had I tried because it was a disaster when I 114 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: was pregnant, because when you get pregnant, I thought, while 115 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: you can't even reach in the right places, you can't see. 116 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: So I asked right before I gave birth, I told 117 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: my on his father like, all right, you have to 118 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: do this, And it was ashauster. I ended up doing 119 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: it myself with a mirror. What do you mean a disaster? 120 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 1: It was ebshasting. He just didn't know what he was doing. 121 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: I was like, bro alright, forget it. He was right scared. 122 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: I was. I'm not scared to lest somebody shape it 123 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: because they might what if they k what if they 124 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: like nick your your hood or something. You know, when 125 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: you shave, you know which way your hairs go. You 126 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 1: know what I mean? And which way to shave in 127 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: certain areas, Guys, I would never let a guy do whatever. 128 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: And what if you get an inground here? That's it 129 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: is the word, you know what? At one time, I'm 130 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: not gonna like it. And I think I told you 131 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: when this happened. My nails were long and I was 132 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: had them like really plainty. And so I was watching 133 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: myself in the shower and you know how you like 134 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: open up your vagina and Washington side, Well you're supposed to. 135 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: I scratched this ship out of myself. Oh my good, 136 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: go it, oh Andrew. And then I don't I wear 137 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: my nails short. Just recently, just in the past couple 138 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 1: of months, out decided to put crelics on them, and 139 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: they got a little they got long, and I was 140 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: consistently scratching myself with those fucking mails. Frustrated. Yeah, that's 141 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: why I took the wolf. I think they were beautiful 142 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: like you know, no shape God brus the girls that 143 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: know how to do it without hurting themselves. But I 144 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: was really hurting my souls, well my name like that, 145 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 1: just because mine grow. So it's not because I put 146 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: a crelic onto. I'm just used to the length. Like 147 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: right now, these are shirt to me. Yeah, those are 148 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: usually usually my nails are really long. But I broke 149 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: ontide cut them all down. And but like I don't 150 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: scratch myself with them because I'm so used to it. 151 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: I know how to move, Yeah, how to be used 152 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: to it? Because I how do you how do you 153 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: clean it? You go like that, like how do you clean? 154 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: You just had to be gentle. You just gotta go 155 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: you you go in there and just be gentle. You 156 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: can't be rushing and jamming that thing. Like yeah, And 157 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: when it comes to the shaving situation, I get wax 158 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: up to have mad bumps like that would leave raizor 159 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: bumps and that would be torture for me. So I 160 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: would never let nobody shade me. And I'm definitely not 161 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: letting the nigga wax me, Oh my god, definitely not. 162 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: I would not let him wax me. Imagine all right 163 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: now We're gonna do a little game, so get your 164 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: little shots. Have you ever did we sign up for this? Okay? 165 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: Have you ever missed work to spend time with your man? 166 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: If you did, you gotta take a little sip. I 167 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: mean you're lying. No, I'm not. I don't play. You 168 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: know why I have. That's some made me realize it 169 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: was time to leave him alone because he was arguing 170 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: with me, and we were arguing so much. I just 171 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: didn't go to work, and I was like, you know what, 172 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: it's probably not a good relationship for me to be 173 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: in because I was just so he had me up 174 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: all night the argument, and I was so tired the 175 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: next day I just couldn't even make it. And he 176 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: was arguing with me from the night before until like 177 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: four pm, so I missed the whole day. I'll be 178 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: crying at work before I miss work, Like and I've 179 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: done that before, Like I've been mad, fucked up, but 180 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: still had to do what I had to do. And 181 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: I think, like when I'm when I was younger, of 182 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: course you had the guys that I was always you know, 183 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: I was being dumb with the oh, I'll pay whatever 184 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: you make so you don't have to go to work. 185 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: But those are bullshit jobs. I didn't give a funk. 186 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't. Yeah, I ain't gonna rest school. No, like, 187 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: I'll give you twelve dollars an hour. I know. Have 188 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: you ever paid a guy's bills? You know, guys will 189 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: pay for some stuff for you, But have you ever 190 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 1: paid a bill for a guy? No? I'm not you 191 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: know what so I know this one, but I'm gonna 192 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: tell you what happened. It was in my name, and 193 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: he went to jail and didn't pay it, so that 194 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: doesn't really count. Like who else was gonna say he 195 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 1: was in jail. You also told me about a guy 196 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: who his license off and you had to pay his 197 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: life bill. I did not say I had to pay 198 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: his life I said that I was at his house. 199 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 1: I was at his house and they came in turn 200 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: his power off, and I called him and he was 201 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: at the studio. He was like, well, just give them 202 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: the money, and I was like me, I'm like, I'll 203 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: just sit here in the damn He like, and it 204 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: was it's in Miami at that it was like a 205 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: hundred degrees. I was like, I'm not giving them ship. 206 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: So I did that in that house like until my 207 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: ready to go, and like that was the last time 208 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: I've seen him. Yeah, I wouldn't pay that ship the 209 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: funk I look like the last time you've seen him 210 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: because the life was out. You couldn't see nothing. I 211 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: couldn't see that nigga, And I should have been seeing 212 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: him in the first my fucking place, somebody, Steven, and 213 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: you pay somebody's bills. When I was a teenager, I 214 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: used to pay for my first boyfriend to live in 215 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: the whole town. So yeah, I was like seventeen eighteen. 216 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: How long I was like seventeen eight teen for like 217 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: probably like a month, you know, like three weeks until 218 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 1: my perread came, and then we will fight and I 219 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,679 Speaker 1: wouldn't see him for like two three weeks and then 220 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: we will get back together, and then my period would 221 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: come and we will break up. It was just so weird. 222 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 1: It was you know what I'm doing while you were 223 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: on your period? Yeah, Well, for some reason, whenever I 224 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: would get my period, like we it's not he wentn't 225 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: tell me. I know, I know, crazy fight with me, 226 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: Like you would just start fighting with me and I'll 227 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: be like all right, like I'm not gonna pay for 228 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 1: you to stay in the hotel by yourself. So even 229 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: though I didn't end up giving the money to stay 230 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: by myself, a few times, for sure, goodness, for sure. 231 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: It was my first boyfriend. I was like seventeen years old. 232 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: He came up one time, you know, one time another 233 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 1: another thing. I defited this guy, the same guy. He 234 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: told me he was going through something rough and he 235 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: needed to borrow some money. And I was making money, 236 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: you know, I was. That's one thing about me. Always 237 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: found the way to have money on me, you know, right, 238 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: you see this girl? No, but so so he's like, oh, 239 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: like so I gave him like three or four hundred dollars, right, 240 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: I gave him like three hundred two or four hundred dollars. 241 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, I'll see you later. 242 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 1: I went back to the block and I bumped into him, 243 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: and can you believe this man hat on a pair 244 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 1: of fresh up towns. He went and bought up pair sneakers, 245 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: went up pair sneakers. I was like, really, you're going 246 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 1: through something and you went him without a pair of sneakers. 247 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: I was so mad. I was so fucking mad. I'll 248 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: never forget that ship what about you. And I don't 249 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: think I've never paid anybody's bills. But I remember one 250 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: time I left this gotten money because he said, oh, 251 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: I had just um came back and I was on tour. 252 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: I was working at Woutang at the time, and I 253 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: said I had catch on me, and so he knew 254 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: I had like a bunch of cash. He was like, oh, 255 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: let me borrow five dollars. I'll give it right back 256 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: to you. And then I never got it back. Uh cheerfully. 257 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 1: He died, he got killed. That's a good reason not 258 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: to have to pay someone back. Yeah, back, Like I 259 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 1: knew when I was younger, I had to slow my 260 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: role on having friends that had too much money because 261 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: I was really cool with this boy and he like, 262 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: he's like, has money because it's Pomps his richest. Fuck 263 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: that we went somewhere and he went shopping and was like, oh, ship, 264 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: I don't have my card, but I'm talking about legit. 265 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 1: This person had paid for mask stuff, then mas stuff. 266 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: He like, can I just use your card real quick 267 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: for like a thousand dollars? So to me, I'm like, 268 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, a lot. That's all my money in 269 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: the world. So I was in college. I'm like, that's 270 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: all my money in the world. What am I gonna do? 271 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: But like I couldn't say no, because like this I'm 272 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: talking about everything used to come out of pocket for everything. 273 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: Don't you out this motherfucking never gave me that motherfucking 274 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: money back. Man, Remember the Pursuit of Happiness. Remember in 275 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: the Pursuit of Happiness, I never saw that. Oh you 276 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: gotta watch it. There's a scene where um, the dude 277 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: Chris will Smith character, the boss asked him, like, or 278 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: has him paid for the food? I think it was 279 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: like he paid for the food, but he didn't have 280 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: no money. He was like living in you know, I 281 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: sheltered with his son. But they didn't know that. So 282 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: for some people it might be like yeah, no big deal, 283 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: a hundred dollars, but for other exam yeah, but he 284 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: didn't want to say anything, so he ended up having 285 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: to like use his all. You know, this is an 286 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: interesting story. When I used to work as serious, right, 287 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 1: and this is when Bob had first just got signed 288 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: and his manager be rich this is my guy. But 289 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: back then him and t J and he he had 290 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: said this public to be of course, I don't mind 291 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: saying it. But after I interviewed them on serious, I 292 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: interviewed B O B. We went out to eat and 293 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: at that point they had just signed, so they didn't 294 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: really have it like that. And so be Rich tell 295 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: me like he was going through all kind of financial 296 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: stuff and I was like, let's get another round of drinks, 297 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: and they were paying for it. But I didn't tell 298 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: them to pay for it. I guess they just felt 299 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: like they had to. And he was like, and nobody 300 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: else wanted to drink but me, So I felt bad, 301 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: but he told me later it was because we just 302 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: didn't have it like I didn't have. Yeah. So you know, 303 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: sometimes you don't know people's situations like that, and we've 304 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: all been in that situation, because I have to say, 305 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm sure we've all been broken at some point. Yeah, 306 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: for sure a couple points. I was pretty broken my twenties, man, right, 307 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: I wish I was twenty one. I wish I was 308 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: twenty two. I'm like, damn, I was stupid and I 309 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: was broken, Like, no, I don't want to be that. 310 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: It's I feel like I had my times, like it 311 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: would be like I would be real good and then 312 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: some shot will be it would happen, and then I 313 00:15:57,520 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't be good, and then I'd be real good again, 314 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: and and then some ship would happen and I'm doing 315 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: bad like and then you just gotta keep picking yourself 316 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: up out of the situation. But each and every time 317 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: I will say that I've come back from anything, I've 318 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: always come back literally times ten or way better than 319 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: I was even at the time before, you know what 320 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: I mean. So I think that sometimes you do need 321 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: those down times to kind of like even get yourself 322 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: together or push you to work a little harder or 323 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: even sometimes humble yourself depending on the person to be 324 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: grateful and they're grateful. In those times, you get like 325 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 1: you start turn fold. I had a good time when 326 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: I was broke. I remember, like, people'll be having birthday 327 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: dinners and you'll be like, I don't know because I 328 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: can't split no bill right now. So I would always 329 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: go like at the end and be like, I might 330 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: just come back at the end. And that's when you 331 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: don't have to pay for everybody, you know, because sometimes 332 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 1: you just pick from the table at that point and 333 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: I don't even reply the seafood that's the expensive stuff 334 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: the menu, so you're not feeling just drink like a fish. No, 335 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: not back then, after I didn't have no I didn't 336 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: have no money, so I really didn't like if I 337 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: was gonna have a drink. I always used to drink 338 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: like an Amaido sour, and I would have one drink 339 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 1: because I couldn't afford it, and so I would go 340 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: buy at the end, after everything was the I would 341 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: buy a drink like from the bar and then walk 342 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: over and be like, Okay, I just want to make 343 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: shot came by and said because I couldn't do it. 344 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 1: When if they was like, okay, that's gonna be a 345 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 1: hundred dollars, I'd be like everything in my bill listen. 346 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: But let's just say you are at a dinner, right though, 347 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 1: and there's somebody's birthday, and there's twelve of y'all. Let's 348 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: just say, and you come late, you sit down, and 349 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 1: you don't really eat anything right, and you just get 350 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: dessert and a drink. Should you still pay the same 351 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: amount as everybody else? If you don't, they're gonna talk 352 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 1: about you. And I've definitely had to do that more 353 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 1: than one time before, and that ship as whack as fuck. 354 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: You'd be like, how am I paying two hundred dollars 355 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: and all I had was a fucking and then it 356 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: will be the birthday person, like I know the round 357 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 1: like two bro, you listen, I pay for people. I 358 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 1: definitely do so I'm very but I think I'm very 359 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: um aware of that. Like I always, I never really 360 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: try to overorder things, especially if I know I'm with 361 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: people and I don't want to. Like I have friends 362 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: that I know I might have more money than them, 363 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: so I don't want to order stuff and then make 364 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: them pay for it. Like if I do that, I 365 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: know I'm gonna pay for it. I will never be 366 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: like nicety for you two now you pay for it. 367 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. People do that ship drink all 368 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: you or I want ninety people talk. You do that 369 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: to a nigga. You don't do that to your friend. Yeah, 370 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that if I went to that to 371 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 1: a guy. Maybe you know I've done it to plenty. 372 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: And let me tell you. Remember we was in Atlanta 373 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: and I will bring my own bottle to and hide it. 374 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 1: We have bottles. We was just in the snake regions. 375 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: Talk about something. I'm not gonna lie always full. That's 376 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: why it's like I'll be having a bag next to me, 377 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: and then I'll be looking at me, like if I 378 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: go on vacation, because they already they charged so much 379 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: for drinks at the pool, right, it'd be like eighteen 380 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: twenty dollars plus gratuity, trust and believe. I will get 381 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: a bottle of some top shop liquor, have it in 382 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 1: my beach bag, and I order one drink, and then 383 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:37,199 Speaker 1: that's you know, that's anymore as a genius, what you're 384 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: talking about. I just need a lemonade, and then you'll 385 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 1: be mixing a lemonade, because look, you make you a 386 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: drink as strong as you want. You know, you got 387 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 1: your choice of preference of whatever you're drinking. I think 388 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: it's the smartest, most logical thing to do. You're already 389 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 1: paying to stay there. They don't need twenty dollars every drink. 390 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: What's one drink and du nothing you need several, So 391 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 1: bring your own bottle. You'll be fine. Just keep it low. Genius, 392 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: have you ever known that your man was cheating but 393 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: kept quiet about it and didn't confront him right away? 394 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:15,880 Speaker 1: I can't even be quiet. I wish you as soon 395 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: as I find out. Sometimes I wish I held it 396 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: down me till every time. Right, Why did you say something? 397 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: I just can't hold it in. I know one of 398 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: my friends, she's holds it in for years. Yeah. Yeah, 399 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: she got home homeboards passwords, so she see all the 400 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 1: ship he do online at hotel meet ups, all kinds 401 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 1: of show, know everything, and never say nothing because she 402 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,880 Speaker 1: don't want to below her spot and lose the passwords. 403 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: I see a half of clue, y'all. I'm coming right 404 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,479 Speaker 1: to this us and it's now, but it's sucked up 405 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: because sometimes you suppose to build a case like I'll 406 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: be coming with a courtas of paper like yo, this, 407 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 1: and he come with yeah, he comes with an easy 408 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 1: excuse and then you could just slide or another of that. 409 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 1: You gotta be quiet and wait at least to build 410 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: your legitimate motherfucking case because it always has. You gotta drink, 411 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,719 Speaker 1: so you gotta take a step because you haven't it 412 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: to be the case. You haven't. Yeah, you haven't told 413 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 1: right away. No, I'm saying that I don't do that. 414 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: I've I've wished that before. So what did you do 415 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,440 Speaker 1: that I want to hear? It is? No, I've definitely 416 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: not said anything at first, just to like gather up 417 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: all my evidence, because it is true. Sometimes you tell 418 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: somebody something right away and you don't know for sure, 419 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: and you know they're going to just deny it, deny it, 420 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: deny it, and so but I can't hold it for 421 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 1: that long, like like Stephanie said, I do know people 422 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 1: that have held it for like months, and I said, nothing, 423 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: I can't do that. I can hold it for maybe 424 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: a week and that's it. I remember one time I 425 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: didn't and then a seizure and then make you hate them, 426 00:21:55,920 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: right because sleep like right, like you ever seen that 427 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: clip on Instagram that the lady walks out to the 428 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: guy and slaps him. But I him I did it 429 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: because we were going on vacation, right. We were going 430 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: to Dominican Republic, And this was the first time a 431 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: guy was younger and he was he was like twelve 432 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 1: years older than me, and so he was taking me 433 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: on vacation and I had never, like you know, gone 434 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: on vacation like that with a guy before, and so 435 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: um I found out he was cheating on me, and 436 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm await until after the vacation to 437 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: say something. So I went on the vacation, and it's 438 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: I realized from that that's why I'll never go on 439 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: vacation again with somebody who I don't really like like that, 440 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: you know, because the whole time, the whole time I 441 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: was there, I like hated him, and then I kept 442 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: making him get super drunk, so every night he would 443 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: pass out, and I try to have said to me, 444 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: So every day we would like go out and I'd 445 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,880 Speaker 1: be like Marty Train, smart drank smart drinks, and then 446 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 1: he would get drunk and pass and then I would 447 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 1: go outside and be chilling by myself at the pool. 448 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, So when did you When did you 449 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 1: say something? As soon as we got back, I never 450 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: spoke to him. I saw him again, and then you 451 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: just let him go. No. I told him. I told 452 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 1: him that I knew, and then he tried to say 453 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: that he wanted to propose to me if I would 454 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,479 Speaker 1: take him back and forgive him. And I was like, 455 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm okay, always shying that sucker ship, Like why you 456 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 1: didn't just do right? Why do you guys think women 457 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 1: that like that's gonna always work on a woman, Like 458 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 1: we're so desperate to get married, Like I don't want 459 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: to marry you? Are you cheating? I don't even want 460 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 1: to go anywhere with you, So why then do I 461 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 1: want to marry you. I didn't even want to be 462 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: with you on vacase. I just wanted to be on vacation. 463 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 1: I just wanted to be on vacase. But they did backfire. 464 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: So you won't do nothing like that again. Never I would, 465 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: because I just it's not fun. Like I know some people, 466 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: some people could get fluid out go away with a 467 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: guy and not really like them, just to enjoy themselves. 468 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: I can't do it. Yeah, the worst being on vacasion 469 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 1: with a man you you're not, you don't like. It's 470 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: like sleeping with the enemy. Yeah, Ida tried that ship 471 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 1: one time. I learned my lesson. I made the dude 472 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: sleep with pillows in between us, and he was so 473 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: mad that he started treating me like shit. He downgraded 474 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: my ticket because we were both first class coming and 475 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: like because I put the pillows to me. That was 476 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: a little petty though, let's be real, but I lined 477 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 1: the pellows up like a wall, like a fort, and 478 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: he was so he downgraded my flight. Um, he started 479 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 1: being mad, mean, like just so not the first day, 480 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 1: but it was like the third I guess he was like, 481 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: all right, bit enough is enough? He trying knocked my 482 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: fort down and I was like, nah, like this is 483 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm good, like you stay on your side. And then 484 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 1: that's when he was just over. He started treating me 485 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: like ship and I was glad because like where we 486 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: were staying with all inclusive, so didn't matter. I was like, oh, 487 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 1: drinking and paid for already, stupid bitch, that's fine, I'll 488 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: be all right here. I wonder how guys feel about that. 489 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: Like I wonder how guys feel when they spend money 490 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 1: on a girl and take her like out of town 491 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 1: and then she puts pillows between them. I wonder if 492 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 1: they feel like, why did you come? How just that 493 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: I was coming to give you pussy? You asked me 494 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 1: to come on vacation and I said okay before we came. Period. Yeah, 495 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know pussy was the exchange in this motherfucker 496 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 1: like you just said that I want to go, but 497 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: I can I can respect that. He didn't try to 498 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,199 Speaker 1: like force anything. He just was an asshole and that 499 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: just made you be like all right, you know, yeah, 500 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: I mean he tried to he didn't try to like whatever. 501 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 1: He tried to make a move that night, that last time, 502 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 1: and I was like, he tried to lean in to 503 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: kiss me, and I was like, oh, like I almost 504 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: had a heart attack. It's crazy because Angela, when I 505 00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 1: tell you i'm talking about, you're gonna be when I 506 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: know it is okay. Yeah, I thought I was gonna die, okay, 507 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: like literally because even when he asked me to come. 508 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: This is the six Ship we like used to go 509 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 1: out to eat and stuff like that, but he had 510 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: never really made no move on me. So I'm thinking 511 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: I'm about to get my own room. I'm swere like 512 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 1: he just trying to have me be around so he 513 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: could look good. That's how I really took it, to 514 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: be honest. But then when we got there and I 515 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: was like, okay, he's keeping his front up a little 516 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 1: too hard. The same room, like the fellows are necessary, 517 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: all right? Now? Have you ever accidentally gone on a date? Why? 518 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: Everything's me? Oh you I don't think I've ever accidentally 519 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 1: gone date? Yes, I definitely have. You know how somebody 520 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 1: like you're going out and you think it's just a 521 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: friendship type of thing, or you think it's a work thing, 522 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 1: and they're like oh, let's go grab something to eat, 523 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 1: and you in your head you're just grabbing something to 524 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: eat with a friend, or you're just like, okay, this 525 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 1: is a good connection, you know, let's sit down and talk. 526 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 1: Because I'd be going on like girl, I guess girl 527 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: dates all the time, but when a guy does it, 528 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 1: I feel like you should be able to do the 529 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: same thing right in the line of work that were 530 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,159 Speaker 1: I should be able to be like, but yes, it 531 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,239 Speaker 1: has definitely happened to me where the guy has like 532 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,959 Speaker 1: came to get me and was dressed up and I 533 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 1: was like in sweats, like I thought we was going 534 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 1: right down the street. That's on me if he come 535 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: to get you as a date. I was at work 536 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: because that the rule. That's what I think, Like, I'm 537 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 1: not getting in the tower with you. Yeah, but if 538 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 1: you're at work and then like I'll come get you. 539 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 1: And it's like not that far because it was only 540 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: a few blocks. I was like, okay, cool, I'll come down. 541 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: Like to me, I look at things, you know, I 542 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: have a lot of guy friends, so it's not a 543 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: big deal to me, Like I don't look at it 544 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: like that. So I'm just thinking, all right, cool, this 545 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: is a good connection, Like we'll go grab a drink, 546 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: talk about what he has going on. Because I always 547 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: assume first. I always assume that people want to talk 548 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: about work or like business stuff. I know other people 549 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 1: first think like he's trying to holler. I think. I 550 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: don't think that right away. I think that right away. 551 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,199 Speaker 1: And that's why I just a boy going out with 552 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 1: guys by myself, because even if I don't think it's 553 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 1: a day, they probably think it's a day. Some people 554 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 1: get besides theirselves. Like I definitely had people that I 555 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: thought was my friend and they thought we were dating, 556 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: and I'm like, why would you think that? Like, at 557 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: no point I thought we were cool, Like I talked 558 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: to you about other people, but what happened with me 559 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:31,360 Speaker 1: was fucked up. It was real fucked up. So I 560 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: have met two guys in one week, right, one at 561 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: the airport and one at the club. It was a 562 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 1: while ago, so I didn't realize, but both of them 563 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: had the same name. Like but I didn't realize this 564 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: because I don't really know the first guy. I just 565 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,480 Speaker 1: took his number real quick, put it in there whatever whatever. 566 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 1: So I was out with my family and um when 567 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 1: my nieces and I get a text and it's from 568 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: the guy. Not mind you. I meet the guy the 569 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: night before war, so naturally i'm gonna think it's, you know, 570 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: the last guy that I met, because it was the 571 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: very next day. Either way, he was like, I'm gonna 572 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: come pick you up. This just that and the thirst. 573 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool. I'm like, damn, he's like 574 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: really you know, going forward, moving forward with trying to 575 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 1: talk like this, this is moving fast quickly, you know 576 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: what I mean, first yesterday, now this. Yeah, the person 577 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: pulls up and I'm like, what are you doing here? 578 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking I'm talking to the nigga at the 579 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: club and then nigga from the airport. You're like, oh, 580 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: like but this was so crazy, No, it wasn't. This 581 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: was so crazy because because like in my mind, like 582 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: I'm I think so crazy, I thought I was being 583 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: set up. I'm like, oh my god, do they know 584 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: each other? And they but no, all along I went 585 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: and checked. I was like, these stupid motherfucker's have the 586 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: same damn name. So I was stuck on a date 587 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: with the guy that I gave my number just to 588 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 1: get away from me, Like you know how something as 589 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: you do. That was like, I was so mad you 590 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 1: conversation went thinking you were talking the other dude, and 591 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: then by the time that one hit me, I didn't 592 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,479 Speaker 1: even want to talk to him no more, forget it 593 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 1: already put in my work. Yeah, it was a fucking 594 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: disaster and I really had to go and like we 595 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: went to eat, but I was just like, this is 596 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: like I had nothing to say because the whole time 597 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: I was just stunned, Like with an idiot, I am 598 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: sitting here with the wrong that's hilarious. It's not Let 599 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: me ask you this. Have you ever let yourself go 600 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 1: in a relationship to the point where your man was like, uh, 601 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: what's going on here? No, Stephanie itself, skinny, I can't 602 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 1: even see that happening. I can't like they'd be falling off. 603 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 1: I'll be like, damn, all these I still look good. 604 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: What happened to you? Do you say something to them? Yeah, 605 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: I be like, oh, look at this, just like that, 606 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: I still look at what the fund happened to you? 607 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: What happened to you? For real? That has happened to 608 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: me with a couple of different almost, I think almost 609 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 1: for all of my relationships. They get fat, stopped dressing right, 610 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: like they get too comfortable. Yeah, I mean while I'm 611 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: still shopping and doing surgeries and wearing a waste trainer. 612 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: Like boy, I mean people looking good at some But 613 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: you said it like that was working out with you. 614 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: I want to kill you. She was like, yeah, I'm 615 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: still getting surgery and he's just sitting their ears. Okay, 616 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 1: was like, I'm working out. What if he was like 617 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: heop me up at your doctor. What if he said, 618 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: help me up with your doctor, I'll be like, all right, 619 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: just both come over here with a fat What if 620 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: you did it on Instagram? Now like flex? What goes 621 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: on Instagram? Body saring it like he's like, yeah, yeah, 622 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: I'm getting life. I'm getting like my baby sent me 623 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 1: to the doctor. Yeah, how would you feel about that? 624 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: And we'll probably break up because I wouldn't feel very good. 625 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 1: That could be good. You're like like that's a good 626 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: like YouTube story, because then you could be honest to 627 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: like I hugged him up and my doctor so bays 628 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: going right now to get right, be about to get 629 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: his abs put in. I'm weak if he comes with 630 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: a butt though, that ship would be funny as out 631 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 1: there was a little extra. Women ever look at stuff 632 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: more than men, don't you think, Yeah, of course I 633 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: didn't leave him, Um, I pet you. A woman have 634 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: more of a chance of getting left single if they 635 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: fall off, even if through a depression. It's not even 636 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: their fault. I'll end up alone. A woman will stay 637 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: with her man. He's a fat blob. I had to 638 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: I had to tell my ex that he fell off 639 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: with sex like we would have it. But in the beginning, 640 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: it's like this nigger going to flip you around, do this, this, that, 641 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: and then there. And then it got to the point 642 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: where he's like, you do all the work. I'm just 643 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: gonna sit here and sit here, and I'm like, no, 644 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 1: like and then like, and then he would blame He's like, yo, like, 645 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 1: you know, I gained weight, so I felt a little 646 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: bit uncomfortable, but I'm like, nigga, your dick still works, though, 647 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: Why you can't? You could lose weight if you was 648 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: moving like you was before. All right, you aren't sweating, 649 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: and let's work this out, work that a little extra 650 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: out exactly. It still feel like guys did get sweller 651 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 1: when they gain weight. I don't know, but they definitely 652 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 1: seen bigger when they lose weight, yes, because then you 653 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: can see it. I don't know, I think it bigger. 654 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: He got abs now and now his dick is bigger. 655 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 1: You never had to have a conversation with somebody that 656 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: there dick fell off. Um, it's a hard thing to say. 657 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say your dick fell off like that. Of 658 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: course that's the sounds crazy. It sounds crazy from jump 659 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: like regardless of up, get up, pick it up. But 660 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying. The thing I mean, you know what sucks 661 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: is that, Like I know how to come in sex, 662 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: so I know I could do certain things and I'll 663 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: definitely come, and so I can always be okay. But 664 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: it's always better when they like go above and beyond. 665 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: But I also know because I work a lot, and 666 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 1: i'd be kind of lazy, so I don't mind that 667 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: I could just make myself come and be good with that, 668 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: like with him. You know what I'm saying, Like, I 669 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: know what angles I need to be at. I know 670 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: a positions work for me, so it doesn't bother me 671 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,399 Speaker 1: that much if I get to come, but sometimes it's 672 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: disappointing if I don't, and I have an attitude after 673 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: I'd be like asshole. Really, really, that's what you're wasting 674 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: my right all right now. The last thing I wanted 675 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 1: to talk about is, I know y'all have to see 676 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 1: this story about this guy in Japan and he was 677 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: dating thirty five different women at least, right, and he 678 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: was doing that because he wanted them to buy him present. 679 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: He gave them all like different birthdays and they were 680 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: buying him things. When you came until we added up, 681 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,760 Speaker 1: it didn't seem like he got that much ship. But anyway, 682 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 1: he's actually now in trouble for that. It's a scam 683 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: and it's um fraud. Which do you think that's fair? Right? 684 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: If you meet people, you're dating a bunch of different people, 685 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 1: you're not in a relationship, but they all buy you presents. 686 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 1: You may implied about your birthday, But do you think 687 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,880 Speaker 1: that's a crime. I don't think that's a crime. No, 688 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,400 Speaker 1: that's stupid if he's stealing it, like, oh it was 689 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,840 Speaker 1: my birthday, so are wearing your credit card? But otherwise 690 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 1: it's not a crime. I don't think it should be 691 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 1: a crime. He shouldn't go to jail for it. And 692 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,440 Speaker 1: I definitely feel like hilarious, Yeah, I think the girls 693 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 1: you're dumb if you're buying an expensive gift for somebody 694 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 1: that you can't even verify the damn birthday. You've never 695 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 1: seen that id or nothing? Yeah, nothing like with family 696 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 1: or nothing like. I'm not buying a big expensive gift 697 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 1: for somebody that I don't really know like that. I'm 698 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: doing that for a nigga I funk with like otherwise 699 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,399 Speaker 1: you just checking on nigga is like, but a lot 700 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 1: of women do you do that? They did say the scam, though, 701 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: is believed to have netted nearly one thousand dollars in 702 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:29,440 Speaker 1: cash and gifts. That's not a lot m So what 703 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,879 Speaker 1: did they suing him in civil court or something? They're 704 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 1: saying it's fraud, So that's not right broad So would 705 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: that make it a federal crime? Oh it's p I 706 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, have you ever have you ever 707 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,280 Speaker 1: used somebody to get a gift? Um on my birthday? 708 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 1: On my real birthday? No, your fake one. I've never 709 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: used a fake birthday to got a gift, but I've 710 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 1: definitely used my birthday like, oh, it's my birthday, I 711 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: want you to. I need something for sure for somebody. 712 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: I probably wasn't even gonna talk after my birthday. Yeah, 713 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 1: I've stayed with somebody to get a gift, Like, I 714 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,799 Speaker 1: know my birthday is about to come up. Yeah, break 715 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 1: up with him aster birthday pass, and if he don't 716 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 1: get me something good enough, then that could be a 717 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 1: reason to dump him. Like, and it's just more so 718 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: because I'm over that person at that point if I'm 719 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 1: thinking that way, because I'd rather just not deal with 720 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,959 Speaker 1: somebody that I don't like than to do it from 721 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,399 Speaker 1: something material, because I have too much of a bad 722 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 1: hattitude and I don't like someone. So I'm not about 723 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,359 Speaker 1: to be miserable. I can't even hide it with my 724 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: facial Yeah you know, I'm not being miserable for no 725 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 1: damn gift. But I will stay with the niggada I'm 726 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: with until my birthday pops up on Christmas and then 727 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 1: be like, all right, it was worth it because at 728 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: least I left out with this. Oh yeah, well listen, like, 729 00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm staying with him, so yeah, because that sucks if 730 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 1: you break up like right, but and you know what 731 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 1: that sucks when you start dating somebody right before their birthday. Yeah, 732 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:12,280 Speaker 1: you'd be like, that's a guy from Japan. Don't believe 733 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 1: that let me see. I saw the story on Instagram. 734 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 1: You gotta show me. All you getting from me is dinner, 735 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 1: like if we first if we meet early on and 736 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: it's like nothing secure like that, and it's your birthday, Uh, 737 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: we call feed you cheeseburger. Yeah, I'll feed you. That's 738 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 1: about it, because I was gonna eat anyway, and I 739 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,840 Speaker 1: feed the people. Now, you know what, now that I 740 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,000 Speaker 1: think about it, you know what I have done. I 741 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 1: have known that I was about to break up with 742 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 1: somebody and butt them like a nice present before I 743 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 1: broke up with them because I felt bad and it 744 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,920 Speaker 1: being like a parding gift. Yeah, because I felt bad, Like, 745 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 1: I know we're about to break up, so let me 746 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: at least get them like something nice so I don't 747 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 1: feel so bad about it. Okay, when I'm not talking 748 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,759 Speaker 1: about anymore. That's really nice, Angela. I've never heard of 749 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 1: anything like. That's actually amazing. That's a good karma, you know, Yeah, 750 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 1: Because I remember I dated this one guy and he 751 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: used to buy me gifts all the time, and I 752 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 1: used to be like I told him because I knew 753 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna end up with him. I actually told 754 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,279 Speaker 1: him like stopped buying me things because it's making me uncomfortable. 755 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: And he used to buy me stop all the time. 756 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 1: So before I stopped talking to him, I bought him 757 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,319 Speaker 1: like a nice present because I felt bad because I 758 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: knew I wasn't going to toull him anymore. But I 759 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,280 Speaker 1: kind of felt like it was a little partial payback. 760 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 1: But like the stuff he already brought you so many things, 761 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: it's like, here you go, erme's handkerchief and what notes 762 00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: for for your tears when you're crying? But it's over 763 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: at least. Do you feel like y'all have met the 764 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 1: person that you're gonna marry yet? No? Me neither. I 765 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 1: don't know that would be married, get married? He said, No, 766 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,279 Speaker 1: I want to get married. You're confused if I am 767 00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,200 Speaker 1: gonna get married one day, I don't think I'm met 768 00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,720 Speaker 1: the person now I'm gonn to marry. If I marry 769 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 1: anybody that I already know, I would be shocked. I 770 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 1: was shocked, like, wow, I can't What if it's somebody 771 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: from me a past that comes down. Let me bring 772 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: the ring back, right, um, somebody from my past? Like 773 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 1: I tried that, Remember I tryed that like two years ago? 774 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that went, that didn't work, That didn't work. 775 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: It worked for like a week. It worked for like 776 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,280 Speaker 1: a week. We got it. We we got back together 777 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,440 Speaker 1: from from our past, and then we got engaged in 778 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 1: that week and then it was over the week the 779 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: following week after. Because that's a Nicki Minaj dead. So 780 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,400 Speaker 1: I think of stuff like that, like she really married 781 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,439 Speaker 1: somebody that she used the date back in the day, right, 782 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,920 Speaker 1: That actually probably feels good when you're as famous as 783 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 1: she is. When you don't know who you can trust, 784 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,799 Speaker 1: you know, but I don't. I can't trust them either. 785 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,439 Speaker 1: That was the comfortability that I found with the guy 786 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 1: that I was dating two years ago, as that we 787 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 1: didn't have to get to know each other. We know 788 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,279 Speaker 1: each other for forever. So it was like we just 789 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: skipped the whole beginning part of the relationship. But maybe 790 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: that's bad. No, of course I was horrible. Like in 791 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 1: the movie Casino, Remember she couldn't leave that guy alone 792 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 1: even though she was Yes, she could not. It was 793 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 1: like Larry or Leading. I feel like every woman has 794 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 1: that guy in her life that like he ain't ship, 795 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 1: but he can come back around and like squirm his 796 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 1: way in. Yeah. But that guy, Yeah, you don't usually 797 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:48,360 Speaker 1: marry that guy dressed with him and be like like 798 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:54,399 Speaker 1: in the movie back all right, Well, listen, ladies, I'm 799 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,040 Speaker 1: glad that we had a chance to have our little 800 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,879 Speaker 1: catch up because I do feel like during this pandemic, 801 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 1: you know, and I know Atlanta there's no pandemic, so Laura, 802 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 1: y'all is probably out and about, but I know says 803 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 1: I'm in the house. I just went back to the station. 804 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 1: I wasn't going to that motherfucker. We did our first 805 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: in person interview today, Oh damn. But I just wanted 806 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,800 Speaker 1: to make sure we catch up because it is important 807 00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 1: for people to like be in contact and have these 808 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:21,279 Speaker 1: little fun conversations so that later on tonight y'all could 809 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,320 Speaker 1: be like, all right, I feel like a little uplifted 810 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: from talking to my girls. Yes, we messed. She's recovering, 811 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:36,320 Speaker 1: she'll be back. Yeah, it's just work. Oh okay. I 812 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 1: didn't know what it was. Oh it was, it's done 813 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,759 Speaker 1: to work. She was like. G was like, I'm out 814 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,919 Speaker 1: of surgery. I'm like, oh my god, what because her 815 00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 1: face is gonna be swollen, So you know how it goes, 816 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 1: that's gonna be me in a couple of weeks too. 817 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:55,799 Speaker 1: Damn the two top filacial queens on the show. Just 818 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: you getting your teeth done to gotta keep that out right. No, 819 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 1: she's not even getting her teeth done, just done to work, 820 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: but just not yeah yeah, okay, alright, well, good luck 821 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,000 Speaker 1: and thank you all. Friend. It's a little check in 822 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,799 Speaker 1: and to keep our spirits up. And here is it. 823 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: Toasts you. I feel like I drink to everything, but 824 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,720 Speaker 1: I always drink to everything, chaired lady, I love you guys. 825 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,600 Speaker 1: I'll be drinking even if it don't pertain to me. 826 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:30,759 Speaker 1: I'd be like, did that, oh yeah, alright, by yeah