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Speaker 1: Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought, what's up? Girl?

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Speaker 1: Got that money green on? Looking like money, smelling like money?

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Speaker 1: Your heat? I got this as always, per huge, per huge,

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Speaker 1: what's up girl, girl? We just had our shows. Let's

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Speaker 1: go okay, so y'all, we just had yes and it

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Speaker 1: was so lit, y'all, like it fun. Yes, it was

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Speaker 1: like the kickoff to our tour. And when I tell y'all,

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Speaker 1: y'all cannot miss the tour, Like it really went above

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Speaker 1: my own expectations, Like I know it was gonna be good,

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Speaker 1: but I was like, damn, we did that. We did

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Speaker 1: this sheet. I was amazed. Yeah, it was really good.

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Speaker 1: I feel like out of all the showers that we had,

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Speaker 1: this was the show you know what's crazy too? And

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Speaker 1: I always like, I don't know, I guess I thought

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Speaker 1: that the other two showers, the other two shows were fire,

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Speaker 1: but this was like on another level. This was like

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Speaker 1: some level and you know what's crazy? Little Parky shows

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Speaker 1: up to every show. She do a little so, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we have we have. She probably gonna be into Houston.

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Speaker 1: She did. She was like, I'll see y'all in Houston.

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Speaker 2: So, y'all we have a listener and she be so

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Speaker 2: lit because we say she'd be off the parks. So

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Speaker 2: we call a little Parky, she said, front row and

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Speaker 1: I said, is that a little Parky? She was like,

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Speaker 1: with you, that's a true supporter. Shout out to a

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Speaker 1: little Parky. But yeah, the show was lit. A big

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Speaker 1: boss big came through our girl. Yes, now y'all know

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Speaker 1: now is the third member and he's gonna be at

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Speaker 1: the Houston show too. Yeah, he's gonna be at the

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Speaker 1: Hoaston show. Really, he might be in a few more

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Speaker 1: of the show for sure. For sure are Dj Rich

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Speaker 1: killed the amazing music soul y'all pulled up, y'all it

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Speaker 1: was just a good time when I tell you all,

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Speaker 1: just production teams. Yeah, everybody was like it just ran

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Speaker 1: so smooth, like y'all just came into any of those shows.

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Speaker 1: I just that's all I got to say. The movie

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Speaker 1: Big Facts and the Bodies was Audien. I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: that anyway because that's how I am. Everybody walked up said, boy,

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Speaker 1: we had a time last night. We did, We really did.

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Speaker 1: Then we went out afterwards, we went to the club.

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Speaker 1: Was oh yeah, it was a good night. It was

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Speaker 1: a great weekend. I'm excited about the tour. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: to go to Houston next So again, if y'all haven't

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Speaker 1: got y'all tickets yet, make sure y'all get y'all tickets.

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Speaker 1: Were gonna put the link in the description box. And

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Speaker 1: we got new new teams, we got new March the

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Speaker 1: March win Christy. We sold out of all the March Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the March on and we're gonna read Yeah, of course

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Speaker 1: we're gonna re up for the Houston show. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: we saw the fun out of this sheet. This she hard,

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Speaker 1: though it is harder than hard. I feel like people,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's the hardest piece of merch that

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Speaker 1: we've had so far. Yeah, I like it. They did,

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Speaker 1: they did. Mm. But other than that, since what's being up,

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Speaker 1: what's tea? What's growing? I mean, that's really just being

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Speaker 1: yea working the show. Like I'm still kind of like floating. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's crazy, Like some of the videos, I was like, wow,

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Speaker 1: like crazy, people still reposting us, people still tagging us

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Speaker 1: about the show. I'm just excited about tour. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: that I'm about to launch my cosmetics. Really really, so

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Speaker 1: you know, girls just working, work, work, work, a working queen.

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Speaker 1: I decided, you know what, I know. We talk about

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Speaker 1: turning up in the summer time and having a good summer.

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Speaker 1: It's about to be my men, my men, my man,

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Speaker 1: summer for you. No, for a lot of people. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying, like, I don't feel like dating around and

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Speaker 1: It's too hot for that. It is too my check

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Speaker 1: all light on on my coaching. It's running low, bitch

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Speaker 1: My man's summer. You having my man summer. I don't

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Speaker 1: back from where do you go? He went to Italy?

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Speaker 1: Now he trying to go somewhere else. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: But there is a big difference from like niggas who

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Speaker 2: take you to Jamaica and Mexico and niggas who take

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Speaker 1: And like, you know, that's that's what I said about Drake.

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Speaker 1: albums took. I said, yeah, that's because this is what

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Speaker 1: well maybe not culture, but I mean exposed to it. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's like he doesn't make good house music. But I'm like, honestly,

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Speaker 1: But it also wasn't his first stab in house music.

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Speaker 1: album wasn't trash. It wasn't trash.

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Speaker 2: I think everybody was being a little dramatic because we

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Speaker 1: One Ban savage song. I don't know what you'all talking about.

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Speaker 1: Who is you know? We all we be showing our age.

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Speaker 1: I don't fist pump pumpy. You have never en f

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Speaker 1: pumpy in the club and the club is a wild

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Speaker 1: was twenty sweety two, But you be pumpy. You're such

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Speaker 1: a liner, all right? When I pull out this video foddage.

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Speaker 1: I don't hear next ers in the Yeah, exactly, I'm weak,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it's a one man's summer for me. And

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Speaker 1: like I said, don't get me wrong, Jamaica and Mexico

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Speaker 1: are great baconas Miami. Cause like I said, how are

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Speaker 1: but they're like very It's very like skip over real

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Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying, Like, don't get it twisted.

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Speaker 1: Jamaica and Mexico are very much good trips.

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Speaker 2: Like I have like some international some of my best trips. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying there's a difference between like and.

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Speaker 1: I haven't been off of Collins so many times. I

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Speaker 1: It's not a vacation to me. But if you're taking

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Speaker 1: and visa is expensive. I thought it was. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was fucking You're going to jail for that. You're

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Speaker 1: going to jail because why are you trying to go

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Speaker 1: somewhere you can't for same reason? Why you do? We

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Speaker 1: all have been places I think or want to go,

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Speaker 1: places that we don't necessarily. No, you don't worry ship.

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Speaker 1: You don't know how to pronounce Jeffrey. But me down,

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Speaker 1: but sae me down. And when I go, I'm like, fucking,

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Speaker 1: I'm been fucking you are so good. I'm weak. Okay, No,

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Speaker 1: do not play with me. No, but no, I feel

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Speaker 1: you on that now. To me, I still think Miami's

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Speaker 1: a vacation, especially a vacation. We talked about this before.

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Speaker 1: Miami has a lot of like hitting gems. I feel

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Speaker 1: on vacation. I'm having a good song, but it's levels

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Speaker 1: like I am, honestly, but where I'm at right now Mentally,

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Speaker 1: the next time I hop on a flight, I need

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Speaker 2: I'm saying some people, some of the women that reacted

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Speaker 1: I feel like it all just boils down to women

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Speaker 1: Like what? Like what? I just feel like. But I also,

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Speaker 2: But that's not the only thing I look for in

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Speaker 1: Like if y'all are on that level, Like if y'all

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Speaker 1: and sneezing, feughting? I did not fall. I heard a

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Speaker 1: I know we did, But no, I was to blame

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Speaker 1: me and you forty Now why would you lie? You

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Speaker 1: Put this wrong? Take down? Did you eat today? I

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Speaker 1: I was saying, I do feel what was what was

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Speaker 1: I saying? I forgot? I did too, but they know

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Speaker 1: all of being messy and alliance? Why you don't forgot

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Speaker 1: your point?

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Speaker 2: But no, going back to what we were saying, I

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Speaker 2: That's how you end up wasting your time. But these

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Speaker 2: make a month? How much do you bring in monthly?

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00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 2: How much this is how much I bring in monthly.

425
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 1: Let's stop being embarrassed to talk to our partners about

426
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 1: how much we make. And if you're not reaching your goal,

427
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 1: you're not.

428
00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 2: Making how much money that you want to make, why

429
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 2: can't we work on increasing that together?

430
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,439
Speaker 1: Two brains is better than one because I feel I'm

431
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,360
Speaker 1: not trying to even be funny like me and you,

432
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 1: we put our brains together and started making more money together.

433
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: You could do that with your with your partner, you

434
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,959
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I just feel like, but

435
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, But that's I mean. I guess, yeah,

436
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: if you looking at marriage like it's a business, then yeah,

437
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: you could absolutely start a business with your partner. But

438
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 1: I feel like most people are not married to people

439
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,880
Speaker 1: who are equipped to be business owners, right right, right,

440
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 1: That's that's another because if you look at marriage the

441
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 1: way they and not to say the way I look

442
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 1: at marriage. It's just one hundred percent right, rigs. But

443
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: if you look at marriage from a standpoint like it's

444
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: a business, then you're gonna marry somebody who you feel like, yeah,

445
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: we can run it up because we understand business. Because

446
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 1: we both understand I would never marry a man who

447
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: is not a successful entrepreneur. Right, that goes back to them.

448
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:55,959
Speaker 1: You know what we talked about a long time ago

449
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 1: with beimone.

450
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 2: Said when she said she didn't want a date a

451
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 2: nine to five god, But she said, it wasn't about

452
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 2: you know, his actual occupation, but it was about his mindset.

453
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 2: It's really about your mindset because but that goes into that.

454
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 1: So I get it.

455
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 2: While she said that, like, it makes sense if you

456
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: look at it from that way, it has nothing to

457
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,880
Speaker 2: do with your checks, because a lot of people who

458
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: have none to fives make a lot of fucking money.

459
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's I mean, it's people who are working nine

460
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 1: to five jobs who are on salary making like three

461
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. Shit't make them more to me, That's

462
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They've making like three hundred thousand dollars

463
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,159
Speaker 1: a year, and sheit. But it's like, but if you

464
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 1: ain't never ran a company, you don't understands the mentality

465
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: of what I'm coming from from when I say, this

466
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: is a business and we can grow and we can

467
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 1: do a lot together. Because I don't know about y'all, But.

468
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: For me, whenever I get married, oh, we're we're starting

469
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 2: a business together, like we're doing something together.

470
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: We're you gonna have your endeavors.

471
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 2: Of course I'm gonna have mine, but also we're gonna

472
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 2: take the money and we're gonna invest in more because I.

473
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: Always want more, right, I always want more. If my

474
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 1: partner doesn't always want more, it doesn't make sense to me.

475
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm marrying for money because not only I'm

476
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 1: not marrying you for just your money, though, I'm marrying

477
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: for the potential money that we can make together. You

478
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like going back to like, okay,

479
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: well what are the benefits? But I will say these

480
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: some people really just want love, Like some people really

481
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: just want want love a companionship.

482
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 2: And the way you going to jail as soon as

483
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: we hit that red button and stop recording is ridiculous.

484
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: Locked up, they won't want to let you out because why.

485
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 1: Would you laugh? Because that's wild to me, like when

486
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: you didn't know what you know? Like because I feel

487
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 1: like older generations you ain't no like you if you

488
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 1: don't know something, you don't know but you have. But

489
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 1: just like you said, what some people now, I just

490
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 1: feel like what?

491
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 2: But what some people want? What do we just say?

492
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: Not everybody has the same wants. Some people don't care

493
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: about being millionaires. Some people don't care about travel in

494
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 2: the world. Some people, well, they're well, all they want

495
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,479
Speaker 2: is love us. We want to see the world. We

496
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,199
Speaker 2: want money, we won't love. We want companionship. But there's

497
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: a lot of things that we want layers. It's a

498
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 2: lot of different layers. Some people just simply want love.

499
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 2: They want to live in their.

500
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: Cottage on the creek with the roosters roosting in the

501
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: morning and I would literally die and the corn rooster

502
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: every morning and the wolf in the blue corn moon.

503
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: You know, I love me an, that's wild. I don't know.

504
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you're right. Everybody doesn't want different things.

505
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: That's but I just feel like that's just not free.

506
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: Isn't a bad point, But what's not a bad point

507
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: the tweet all and all, if you really die secty,

508
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know how she meant it, but

509
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: now that we're dissecting you in the way, it's I mean, yeah,

510
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: you can't just only marry for love. I mean literally

511
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 1: a smart idea, but it's not.

512
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: Marriage is literally a contract though, just like you said,

513
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 2: it's a business all round.

514
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: Like you have so many people who are successful who

515
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: are married to one another, and I'm sure that they've

516
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: been through all types of trials and tribulations in their relationship,

517
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: all types of things that they've had to work through.

518
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: But it's a business. And if it wasn't a business,

519
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: they probably if they was only married to each other

520
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: because they loved each other, they probably would have got

521
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: a divorce. Right now, I can think of at least

522
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: three successful couples that I'm thinking of right now that

523
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: I'm sure if it was no business involved, they probably

524
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: I already know who one are you thinking about. But

525
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: but being that marriage is a business to a lot

526
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: of people, to people a lot of people that are successful,

527
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, that's why they're still married. And

528
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: I also could see myself being in a situation like

529
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: that I know. I could definitely see myself being get

530
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 1: a mean ariage where it's like, y'all, I love you,

531
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 1: but like the business, the legacy is more. But see,

532
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't want it to be more important.

533
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 2: I wanted to be like, there's the love and there's

534
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: the business. I want it to be just as important.

535
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like one gonna outweigh the other,

536
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: not necessarily. Okay, I love you just as much as

537
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: I love this business. Do you not feel the same.

538
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: That's debatable. You don't think I love you. I do

539
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: think you love me. You don't love me more than

540
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 1: poor mine. I do love you. I feel like you

541
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: love me. But I feel like when we were like

542
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: going through our room, we're not going through that no more,

543
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 1: though we're now. That was like that was like a

544
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 1: breaking point. Though that could have been a breaking board.

545
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like we knew. We seen them dollar fids, Like, okay,

546
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: we say eighty dollars, but we knew what are you

547
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: talking about? We knew the potential of the show if

548
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: we kept growing, We knew we were gonna make money.

549
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: So I already like this, but I'm gonna keep doing.

550
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: The show, right, But now look at us. We you

551
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 2: love me more than ever.

552
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: Fixed, they're gonna be like I knew dread like lys

553
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: because they's fynna be like I do it because but

554
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: now for real tho. I feel like those are like

555
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: the breaking points of relationships. Like when we weren't getting

556
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: along right, I feel like we still did the business

557
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: held us together, yes, but I feel like it was

558
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: because we knew we could make money doing the shit right.

559
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: We didn't care about the money and it was just like, damn,

560
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: I love this bit. She hurt me. I don't want

561
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: to fuck hurt no word. But at the same time,

562
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: we did get to a point to where we were like, Okay,

563
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,239
Speaker 1: this business is not worth our mental because it got

564
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: hard on us mentally, so we was like, are we

565
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: gonna fix this or what are we gonna do? We

566
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: did get to that point. Let's play Devil's advocate. Let

567
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: me try to put it on it like and then

568
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: from a different perspective so people can understand what I'm saying.

569
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: Like when people aren't in marriages and somebody cheats and

570
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: they get a divorce because somebody cheated, I feel like

571
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: that's because you married that person for love. Yeah, if

572
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: I had more at steak, if it's a lot of

573
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: a steak and you cheated on me, it depends. I

574
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: don't know. I need to figure out the parameters, like

575
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: exactly what happened, what was going on. I'm not necessarily

576
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: saying I would divorce you if we have a fifty

577
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: million dollar five hundred million dollar estates. Okay, but like

578
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: you said, you stretched it. But what about fifty million

579
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: dollars a steak? Okay, fifty million dollars right, I just

580
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: said five hundred million, because that's why I'm trying to

581
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: get right, right, But if we had fifty million dollars

582
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: that we share in assets and all of that, I

583
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: don't know if I would be so quick to jump

584
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: to get a divorce because it's a lot, especially if

585
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 1: we didn't sign the printup. I'm signing the printup. I'm

586
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: definitely signing the press. I mean what everybody didn't because

587
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: I mean it's some people who got married and then

588
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: they made the fifty million dollars to get there. Why

589
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: But that's why you gotta equally yoked. But yeah, So

590
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: all I was saying is if it wasn't nothing, as

591
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: if it's not anything at stake and you just love

592
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: this person and y'all got married. You're like, oh my god,

593
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,719
Speaker 1: they betrayed me. We understand the business of a relationship.

594
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: It's like, you betrayed me, but let's get this money. Yeah.

595
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, but that's not why we worked it out, bitch.

596
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: That's no. No. We held on for a long time

597
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: just for the business.

598
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: But once we got to like our breaking point, we

599
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 2: was like, okay, bitch, like when we went on that

600
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 2: Jamaica trip, like when I lost my job. I mean,

601
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 2: I feel like it's obvious to the audiences people and

602
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: we love each other.

603
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're joking because we get those comments all the time.

604
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: In the comments, we're literally like sisters. But I'm just saying,

605
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: playing Devil's advocate, I can understand why sometimes people stay

606
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: and sitch and they aren't. It's not an ideal sitch auations.

607
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: Not somebody need shit because we gotta be. It's just

608
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: to protegue. We got a legacy to protege. But I know,

609
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: for me, I need them. Why did my voice shake

610
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: like that? That was weird? I know for me shaking

611
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: the time. I need a little bit of both, not

612
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: a little bit. I need a lot of both.

613
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: I need a lot of love and a lot of

614
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,959
Speaker 2: that have equal parts on both sides, because right I'm

615
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 2: not the reason I say that. I believe that it's

616
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 2: possible because I'm doing it and it's not a romantic

617
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: type of love. But it's like I love her, we're

618
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: running a business together.

619
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: It's possible.

620
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 2: It's very fucking possible, like the ship that we've done

621
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: together and this amount of time.

622
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: Yes, you can. You can hurt my feelings. Though it's

623
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,479
Speaker 1: not about just cheating. It's about you can hurt my feelings.

624
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 2: You can do things to me that makes me feel uncomfortable,

625
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: Like I like a friendship love and a romantic love

626
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 2: is very different.

627
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,239
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I hold my friends at

628
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: the same standard that.

629
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,719
Speaker 2: I hold these niggas to. Like my friend can very

630
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: much hurt my feelings. I've always talks about this on

631
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 2: the show. I don't have a big family. My friends

632
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 2: are like my family to me. You know what I'm saying.

633
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: So, yes, bitch, you can hurt my feelings worse than

634
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: these niggas can.

635
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 3: So.

636
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,959
Speaker 1: Honestly, a nigga cheating on me. Niggas cheat every day,

637
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: that's whatever, But you doing something to me.

638
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: I actually cheat every day they do, but you hurting

639
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 2: my feelings are doing something to me actually hurts worse

640
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 2: than a man cheating on me. So if we can

641
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 2: get through what we got through, bitch, I can get

642
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: through anything that what niggas can do to me is

643
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: light work because literally, like my friends have my heart

644
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: like deep on another level. So it's a little harder

645
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: like for me losing I've always said that losing a

646
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: friend is harder than losing a nigga, you know what

647
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: I mean.

648
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: So that's just how I look at it. So I

649
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: feel like, if I can do this with you, bitch,

650
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: I can do this with anybody, right Yeah, and now

651
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: I feel you. So let us know how y'all feel.

652
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 2: If you aren't marrying for money, what are the benefits

653
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Speaker 2: as a straight woman. We're talking about straight women because

654
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655
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656
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698
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Speaker 1: living with your significant other in your twenties isn't a

699
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: good idea? And how old should you talk and how

700
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: old should you be when you decide to move in

701
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 1: with your partner?

702
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so I used to live with my significant other

703
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: when I was in and when I as soon as

704
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: I graduated high school, me and my boyfriend at the

705
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 2: time moved in together. We lived together for three years

706
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 2: eighteen nineteen twenty ye until I was twenty.

707
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna be funny, like, I don't think

708
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: it was it too young, Absolutely, But was it a

709
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: bad idea? No.

710
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 2: I enjoyed it, me and him honestly if I could.

711
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 2: Of course, I would never even look his way if

712
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: I saw him again. But we had real love and

713
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 2: it was an experience.

714
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 3: In it.

715
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: I learned a lot and I changed a lot, and

716
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I learned a lot how to be

717
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: like a woman a little bit. So I feel like

718
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: it wasn't a bad idea. It's just what you take

719
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: from situations. I feel like the thing about life is

720
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't want to learn from situations

721
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,919
Speaker 1: just because the situation fucks you up, you get hurt.

722
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 2: People look at it like, oh, I wasn't supposed to

723
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: do that and it fucked me up. No, take your

724
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 2: lessons from that. So I feel like, even though you

725
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 2: might live with somebody in your twenties, this may not

726
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 2: be the person you're with for the rest of your life.

727
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 1: But there's some lessons in that. So I took my

728
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: lessons from the relationship. How you feel, I don't. I

729
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: don't know. I've never wanted to live with Nigga. Yeah,

730
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: like when I was in my twenties. Never And I

731
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: was in a few relationships in my twenties, but I

732
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: just never wanted to live with him niggause. I just

733
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: didn't see not anything right, like not just I mean,

734
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I honestly think some people live with

735
00:36:58,640 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: each other just so they can sleep.

736
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, I'm not gonna lie, but people are

737
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 2: doing that in their thirties. Yeah, it's expensive out here.

738
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 2: I'm not judging, but no, nothing is wrong with that.

739
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

740
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: I think some people live solely live with people just

741
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 1: so that they can split the bills. I saw somebody ain't.

742
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: Never wanted to live with no Nigga, Like it was

743
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: never no real benefit for me. I fuck in my

744
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: twenties cause I feel like you're immature. We're like we

745
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: still kind of immature, right, you don't know what, you

746
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: don't want to know how to run the household for real.

747
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 1: We showed it.

748
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 2: I was in that bitch cooking hamburger helper both fine.

749
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 2: His stomach probably still fucked up to this day.

750
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: Not like you just said, these people there's forty still

751
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,720
Speaker 1: cooking hamburger helphood, no shame, but no, I've seen somebody

752
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: that ain't an age. But I seen somebody tweet other that.

753
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,240
Speaker 1: I was like, who want to be in a relationship

754
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: so we can split this bills? You can cheat on me.

755
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: I don't care. It's hard out here, Like honestly, that's

756
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 1: where people are at at this point, Like it's hard

757
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: out here. I get it, But I still want to

758
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: live with a man, Like I'm ready to live with

759
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: a man again. I am. I ain't never wanted to

760
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 1: live with no dude until I knew we was gonna

761
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: be together. Yeah, yeah, that's just kind of why.

762
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 2: But that's the thing though, Ho's be living and niggas

763
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 2: be living with other people that they know they're not

764
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 2: about to be with, but just because they're trying to

765
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 2: save money too, Like yeah.

766
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: I feel like that's why a lot of people in

767
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: a twenties live together. If you're living, think this is

768
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 1: my soul made not about to be with this person.

769
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 1: Like people be doing what they gotta do. If you

770
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: need to live with somebody to save money. Just get

771
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: you a roommate, because that sucks. Not only do you

772
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: gotta split rent, but you gotta give him Kouchie toobe.

773
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: You need to pick one. Maybe he's de fired though,

774
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: no pick one. You getting this. If you're getting this Kouchie,

775
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: you're paying the rent.

776
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 2: If we're in the same place and I'm giving you Kouchie,

777
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 2: I'm not paying no rent, dug.

778
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So to we wasn't even living

779
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: in the same place and I wasn't paying no. But

780
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So to live under the same roof,

781
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: I gotta give you Kouchie and I gotta split the rent.

782
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 1: It's absurd to me, And I think that's why I

783
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: never really cared to live. I get a nigga to

784
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 1: pay my rennie and I ain't gotta live. Why I

785
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: need the movie with you, right, That's what I'm saying.

786
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: But for me, like I said, but I think it's

787
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 2: just like you also need a big space in your twenties.

788
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: Like it was me and my boyfriend we were in

789
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 2: a verir it was it was just like it was

790
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 2: the living conditions weren't ideal. I would never live there

791
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 2: ever again, not that it was like a trash No,

792
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 2: it was no. See, it wasn't even that it was

793
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 2: just a packed house. It was like my sister we

794
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 2: had a two bedroom and then my boyfriend had moved

795
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 2: in with me, and it was just a line.

796
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: It was just a lot of bodies there. And when

797
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: me and him was fighting, he would have to be

798
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: in a living room. I would be in my room.

799
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 1: So my sister was like confined to her room because

800
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: we was taking up all the space. It was just

801
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 1: a lot.

802
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 2: We were young though, we were so young. Like I said,

803
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: I was eighteen, my sister was twenty one.

804
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: What a time, What a time.

805
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 2: But I also feel like whenever I move in with

806
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: somebody again, we're gonna have space.

807
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: I need a big home. I'm not moving into somebody

808
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: until I have a house. Agree, Like I.

809
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 2: Need a space to where, like you know, you can

810
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: have your man cave, I can have my area whenever

811
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 2: my girls come over, Like I'm gonna have a hosting

812
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 2: house too. My man needs to know that on Sundays

813
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 2: my friends coming over, we having drinks, were gonna be

814
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 2: about the pool, like, but we need some space because

815
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 2: I don't like to be up under.

816
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: My man all day every day. I don't. Yeah, I

817
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: think that's why I never really cared to live with

818
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: nobody either. I don't know if I want to like

819
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 1: until I like am really I don't. I've never been

820
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: in a relationship where I felt like I met my

821
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: soulmates or met the person that I'm really supposed to

822
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 1: be with. And until I feel like I meet that person,

823
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 1: why the fuck I want to be around you the monds. Yeah,

824
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: that makes a difference in each other's space like that, right,

825
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: But when you meet that person, you're gonna feel it,

826
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: of course, And I know when I'm gonna and I

827
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: know that I haven't found it.

828
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 2: That's except for me. I don't want to live with

829
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 2: you neither. You lived with me and you had a

830
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 2: good time. You live, we lived with each other.

831
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: You lived with me two for three weeks, and we

832
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: had a we had a time at night, we had

833
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: a grand You were being mean to me.

834
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 3: No, I was nice.

835
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: Your fuck it was? Were you that man on it?

836
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: And I told you to actually I'm traumatized, said no,

837
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: you're not talking makes at least I had a door

838
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 1: I got I was living in a loss. That's all

839
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: I can affoid. God, damn strength this mother, y'all. I

840
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: had to live with X for three weeks because my

841
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: lease was up in my fucking apartment and my new apartment.

842
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 4: Wasn't gonna be ready for another three weeks. I had

843
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 4: to move my shitt in storage and I had to

844
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 4: live with this bitch for three weeks and we had

845
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 4: no we denied.

846
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: You fucked that man when and you didn't have no door.

847
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: You're sick and told me to act like I was

848
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: sleeve and laying there with the pillows over my ears, like,

849
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can I you have lighted in

850
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: the bed with me. Don't do that, and he was

851
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: like this, it is getting too low. Did but then

852
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: what did you do? What did you do though I

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Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about this because I think this

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920
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Speaker 2: only look at it from one point of view.

921
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 1: Do you judge men who pay for sex?

922
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 4: You do?

923
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't. I really do. Not Tell me why

924
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: you judge men who pay for sex? If you try

925
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Speaker 1: to be my man, yes, my man like ever in

926
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Speaker 1: his life. Why don't nobody want to fuck you for free?

927
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 1: It's not about that, it's not it's not about it.

928
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: It is not about no, it's not yes it is

929
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 1: Why does nobody want to fuck you for free? A

930
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: lot of times men are not paying. They're paying for

931
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: the peace of mind. They just want they dig, suck,

932
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: they want to nothing, and they want you to go

933
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Speaker 1: about your business.

934
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 2: Because a lot of times men feel like when they

935
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 2: have sex with somebody, it comes with attack, phone calls.

936
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 2: I gotta court you, I gotta least, I gotta that.

937
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes they just want to bust some up. You give

938
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: me some money. You really gonna have to call on

939
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: me now. But you don't really know what I was

940
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: talking about. You don't expect more than now. No, But

941
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: I mean I'm talking about paying like sex workers, like

942
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: people who do that for a living. If you pay

943
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: a sex worker for sex like I pay you, you

944
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 1: come do what you gotta do with and I'm sending

945
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: you on your lane. Why nobody want to fuck you

946
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: for free? They probably don't. But he doesn't want the

947
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: attachment to that. He don't want to take you to

948
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: fucking stk bitch, you don't want to take you to Gucci.

949
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: If I gotta fuck you, I gotta pay your red.

950
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: I gotta take you to fuck It. I gotta take you.

951
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:46,360
Speaker 1: You do gotta take no, I'm not fucking you. Definitely

952
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 1: let me take my friend. You definitely about to take

953
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: me to Poot Poo Cat fuck it. Anyways, I'm not

954
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: doing me need to sound like that, then they wouldn't

955
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 1: post it like this, because that's what people are posting.

956
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: Fuck me what I'm saying.

957
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 2: If I gotta fuck you and I gotta do all

958
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: this versus I can just fuck this girl, pay her

959
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 2: three hundred dollars, get my dick wet, and sit on the.

960
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: Way, and I ain't gotta do nothing else. And I

961
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: just want a little I'm a little horny. I'm not

962
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 1: judging on niggas for doing that. Sometimes he got a

963
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 1: lot of shit going on. Now it's different. I'm not

964
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: talking about the niggas who be super super horny and

965
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: like nobody want to fuck them. I'm not talking about that, bros.

966
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's some desirable men who make a lot of money,

967
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 1: who are attractive that will pay for pussy I'm telling

968
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,240
Speaker 1: y'all a lot of men are out here buying pussy,

969
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: and y'all thinking that they that nigga. Sometimes they just

970
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Speaker 1: don't want to be bothered.

971
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: They just want to get They dick, wet and move around.

972
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 2: A lot of a lot of niggas pay for pussy

973
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: more than y'all think that they are. Y'all be thinking

974
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 2: that it's just these in cells and these weird ass niggas.

975
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: That's paying for pussy.

976
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 2: If like in cels ain't paying for pussy, well, I

977
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 2: don't know, but any I mean whatever. But I'm just

978
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 2: saying it's a lot more men paying for pussy than

979
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:58,760
Speaker 2: women like to believe.

980
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: I'll say that, yeah for sure.

981
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 2: If anybody is out there like sell it like a

982
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 2: prostitute where it's legal, I would love for them to

983
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 2: come on the show and talk about this. No, I

984
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 2: would too, because, like I said, a lot of men

985
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: are buying pussy because they want the peace of mind.

986
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying every woman that fucks you it

987
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: comes with a long list of things. But I'm not

988
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: saying nothing wrong with buying pussy. Do what you want

989
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: to do with your You just said you're judging I

990
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: just said I'm not that's not gonna be my man.

991
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: But you might be in a relationship with a nigga

992
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: that I'm bought pussy before and you just don't know it.

993
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: And that's fine if you bought it before, but you

994
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: ain't buying it now. But it could be. It could

995
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: be looking at it like he's buying it. He gotta

996
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: take you to fuck it. That's a two thousand dollars flight.

997
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: He gotta buy you. If you my man, you just

998
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: doing your duties to please that booty period. You know,

999
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: a buyer, he just doing what he got. Okay, I

1000
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: just paying for sex is strange to me. Okay, you

1001
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 1: know what's crazy. Nothing is wrong with it. I worked

1002
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: in the strip, was normal to This is what I'm

1003
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: trying to tell you, Like, I don't look down on it.

1004
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:20,720
Speaker 1: It's just strange to me. Like I'm not selling no pussy.

1005
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: I ain't never sold no pussy. I ain't never got

1006
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: money in exchange for pussy life. Yeah, I ain't never

1007
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 1: done that either. Yeah, it's never It's never been like, oh,

1008
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: here goes some money, you give me some pussy. Now.

1009
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy though?

1010
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 2: The reason I think it's more normal because, like I said,

1011
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 2: I worked in the strip club. I don't see some

1012
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,439
Speaker 2: of the baddest bitches, some of the bitches that y'all

1013
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 2: be in they comments starting over some of the bitches

1014
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: that y'all be in.

1015
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: The commons talking about. Yes, bitch, you be having your

1016
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 1: way with these niggas. You be putting that shit on

1017
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,919
Speaker 1: and they be selling pussy. Girl, Like I don't seen

1018
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: it all. I have literally seen it all. And the

1019
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: niggas that y'all for the two honey, yes, yes, exactly,

1020
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: and the niggas that y'all be talking about. Oh, he

1021
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: a BDB. I love him. I want to fuck with him.

1022
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: They be buying the pussy. They be their main customers. Yeah,

1023
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: I just it's it's strange to me. I mean, but

1024
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: I guess like if you just need some money and

1025
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: that nigga just need some pussy, then cool. But it's

1026
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: even exchange. Yeah, I don't know. That's wild. And I

1027
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: don't want no parts and I don't want my mans

1028
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: to have no parts, and I don't want your man

1029
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: is gonna have some parts if you marry a bd B,

1030
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: he done bought some pussy at least one I know.

1031
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: I don't. At least one a few niggas that I

1032
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,720
Speaker 1: know was buying pussy, but at least they was bonding

1033
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: for the low.

1034
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: My thing is thoh no, this is the thing though,

1035
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 2: because you a suck ass nigga. You let a bitch

1036
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 2: get you for like fifteen twenty k You a sucker.

1037
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: Come on now, So what's like a good what's a

1038
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: good ballpark for you for your man to buy some?

1039
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 4: No?

1040
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,879
Speaker 1: No, and that's Hyen. That's Hyen. That's the main bitch

1041
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: at the club. I was thinking more like a honie,

1042
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: that's the main. But no, I'm talking about like if

1043
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 1: he fucked the main bit at the club, Like if

1044
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: he fucked the main bitch at the club. Doll. Now

1045
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: that's it, that's it. Anything above that you are? You

1046
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: a pussy ass nipple like you got got I don't

1047
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: wanna fuck with no nigga who got got niggas? We

1048
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: all have paying fifteen Yes, bro, yes, oh real, I'm

1049
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: telling you, yes, I'm not making this up. This is

1050
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: what this is when inflation was low. I'm funny cause

1051
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm sitting over here acting like I really don't know.

1052
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: This is when inflation was low. You know what I'm

1053
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 1: saying inflation a little hot now. So you know the prices,

1054
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 1: you know, the flat prices an't changed. Nah. Yeah, I

1055
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: ain't never been in no situation like that, but I

1056
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: very much been in these I'll say this, I've had things.

1057
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,320
Speaker 1: I feel like I've had men and men spend extreme

1058
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 1: amounts of money on me because they thought they were

1059
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 1: gonna get some boots. That nigga watching this thing right now,

1060
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: like damn, damn, dam you get a god. But that's

1061
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: that's another thing. So let me say this. I don't

1062
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: know where actually, I feel like I haven't gave no nigga,

1063
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 1: no pussy, any shage for money. But I've had niggas

1064
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: do things off the hope of getting some pussy from me,

1065
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: but I just didn't give it. Yeah, I mean, it's

1066
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: the finesse game. It's the game. I think that's a finanse.

1067
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Everybody thinks, Oh, you have

1068
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: to get your body done, get your lips done, get

1069
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: your this and this done to get a BDB and

1070
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: get money out these niggas. No, it don't matter how

1071
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 1: you look. If your finesse game is on point, you

1072
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: can get what you want from a man. And that

1073
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: just is what it is. That's why it be a

1074
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: lot of girls out here traveling the world, get that

1075
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,319
Speaker 1: rent paid driving g wagons, and you feel like, oh,

1076
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: they're not attractive. It's not about how attractive you are,

1077
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: It's about your personality and your finest game. That's why

1078
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't understand why women are spending exactly all A

1079
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: lot of women spend all this money on their bodies

1080
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: and their looks and this and that, and they feel like,

1081
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,919
Speaker 1: but nigga won't what a nigga won't? Bro. The looks

1082
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 1: can get you in the door easier. But if you

1083
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: a bitch just used of soda and chicken nuggets, that

1084
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: niggas about to give you soda and chicken nuggets. I

1085
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: don't care how fat your asses and how small your waisted,

1086
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 1: you're gonna get the same shit.

1087
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 4: Now.

1088
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: She really just out here, thugget exactly, it's a lot

1089
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: of holes out babing because I'll be seeing some girls

1090
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: like that's what you're doing? Nah? I agree though I've

1091
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 1: always said that thought people will look at other women

1092
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: and feel like, oh this I look bitter than this

1093
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: person are. Oh she I mean she cute? Well, she

1094
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: ain't all that or she whatever, But it's like, but

1095
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 1: it be the mindset, it be the mentality. And then

1096
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: I also feel like you just never what we always say,

1097
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: you never really know what go on behind two people behind.

1098
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 1: You don't know how that nigga feel about me. You

1099
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: don't know why you want to fuck with me. You

1100
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 1: don't know why they wanted to by me there or

1101
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 1: that kind of money on me. You don't know why

1102
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: he can't live, can't you? But then yeah, also that's

1103
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: why you didn't get it though, because it's about them.

1104
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 1: For this game, this can get this can get real messy.

1105
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,320
Speaker 1: How is it gonna get missed? I'm just saying it

1106
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: can't because because some girls don't feel like they gonna

1107
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: catch some strays and this motherfucker not anybody that we

1108
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: know personally, I'm just saying personally, yeah, But I just

1109
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: feel like, honestly, it's not bad though. I mean, it's

1110
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: not about the way you look. I've been seeing so

1111
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: many girls that personally I don't find attractive, but they

1112
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: be having all the ship everything, putting that ship on vacations, vacations,

1113
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: how this that whatever. But I don't judge her and

1114
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: I don't be mad. I'm like, get that ship, girl,

1115
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: because you know what they be having personality and they're

1116
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: not a brick wall. I don't know how to make

1117
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: a nigga feel real good. That really what's important. Feel good.

1118
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:21,399
Speaker 1: You gotta make him feel like you worked the ship

1119
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 1: that you want. Yes, but honestly, but that's but that

1120
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: goes to another level though. It's like when you care

1121
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: about it, you can have solely d ship for me

1122
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:31,919
Speaker 1: because I made them feel like, yeah, she be talking

1123
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,439
Speaker 1: that ship, but she worked you. Yeah, like I love.

1124
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 1: I love making my man feel good, my man, my man, baby.

1125
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 2: I love making my man feel good girl day Oh,

1126
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 2: I love but I mean it too.

1127
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: I don't be playing. I'll be like, baby, you put

1128
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: that ship on and he did, and he do. I

1129
00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 1: love him down that one time, baby, don't. My band

1130
00:56:55,800 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 1: always puts that. I hope he see this and beat

1131
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 1: your ass. He not because I fun with him. I

1132
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: like him, but that one time. Okay about leave my

1133
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 1: man aloud? Okay, So now we're gonna get into the

1134
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: about a. Oh my god, I'm gonna get dunk. I

1135
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: hate this show. Oh you know your mind? Oh my god,

1136
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 1: Now he about to ask me you don't even watch.

1137
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 1: I think he watches like little stuff when especially when

1138
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 1: we talk about him, somebody gonna watch it and send

1139
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: it to him. This is what happens every time he

1140
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: like tur T. He said my name, I didn't say you,

1141
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: but you can tell him what we talk about. Know

1142
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: he don't care. But because he don't wear it no more.

1143
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lisp and it's your

1144
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: girl Tray and the call and Dallas were coming to

1145
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: see y'all on July thirtieth, and we turning h period.

1146
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: I ain't from Dallas, but I need time. Hey, I'm

1147
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 1: from Dallas. Period. I don't know, but that was if

1148
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: y'all do. We're gonna try this ship while we out there,

1149
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 1: period and we are turning. I can't wait. I'm so excited. Yeah,

1150
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 1: I love that. I love Dallas. I feel like y'all

1151
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: gonna show us so good time we all turn up,

1152
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a good lead. So July thirtieth, we

1153
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: are an Echo Lounge at Music Hall. The show starts

1154
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,959
Speaker 1: at seven p m. Doors open at six. I'm telling

1155
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: y'all get there on time because we have some special

1156
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: guests coming. It's gonna be so lit, let me live.

1157
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 1: We got the new marriage. We're gonna have these shirts

1158
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: on sale, period And if you ain't never been to

1159
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,439
Speaker 1: a poor mind sho, you ain't never had a good song.

1160
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: So make sure y'all get y'all tickets. Go to www

1161
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: Dot poor Minds dot com and we'll see y'all July thirtieth, periods. Okay,

1162
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into the bop. Ow bow

1163
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: bow Bow bow bow. Okay, my bop of the week.

1164
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: I just discovered this artist.

1165
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 2: You know, the best thing I love about this show

1166
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 2: is that y'all know what kind of music I like now,

1167
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 2: So honestly, I don't even have to research anymore because

1168
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 2: I always like research artists.

1169
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: But my research goes a little bit beyond listening to

1170
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: their music because I like to see what they about

1171
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: and see like are you just singing words or are

1172
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 1: you just singing? Are you singing this because you've been

1173
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: through this? So I found an artist's name, well I didn't,

1174
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: somebody sent him to me. His name is Kent James

1175
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: and he has a song called set Up. And the

1176
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:52,480
Speaker 1: reason I love this song is because he told a story,

1177
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 1: and storytelling and music is so dead. I think that's

1178
00:59:57,680 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: one thing I'm not trying to be funny that I

1179
00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: liked about King Vaughan because he would tell stories in

1180
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: his music. No, literally, it was like from the top.

1181
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: He was like, just got some top from what happened,

1182
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: What happened, what happened next? You know what I'm saying.

1183
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: I was like, what happened next? So this is video too.

1184
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 1: Was a storyteller. So I feel like with kN he

1185
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: told a story because like the song opens up, he's like, yeah,

1186
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: on her big toe, she has some some nail polish.

1187
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: It was chipped a little bit, and then she has

1188
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 1: some tight so on. They had a hole at the top.

1189
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: So he's like describing this girl. He's describing alraggedy. But

1190
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So the story, he starts his story,

1191
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: he's like talking about like he met a girl and

1192
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: maybe she wasn't it was painted off the way. It

1193
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: was crazy and it was old and but listening she

1194
01:00:56,440 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: from Chico Hills, right, but or whatever. I can't see

1195
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: y'all know, I ain't got bad beach.

1196
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 2: But anyway, so he starts the song, he's talking about

1197
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 2: how thick she is and how she like fuck these niggas.

1198
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 2: She get her money. It don't matter, It don't matter

1199
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,959
Speaker 2: how you get your money. Just get your money, baby,

1200
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 2: like he fucking with it. He fucking with her vibe,

1201
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 2: she bout her money, and then as the song goes on,

1202
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 2: he finds out like she's robbing him. So he's like, wait, wait,

1203
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 2: I said, I don't give a fuck how you get

1204
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 2: your money, but you set me up, bitch like this,

1205
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 2: how you get your money. It's just I love a

1206
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 2: good story.

1207
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: So as the song goes on, it changes, and I

1208
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: love that. I love that, I really do. I love

1209
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: a good story. But he should have known better at all,

1210
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:42,439
Speaker 1: because he said it was cracked and it was old

1211
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 1: talking about her. Yeah, but sometimes why she ain't got

1212
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: her fither in along time. So what I'm saying is

1213
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: sometimes you see somebody and they vibe and they you

1214
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: know everything about proceeded to say what I feel like,

1215
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: I love now that we be breaking down, he said,

1216
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,439
Speaker 1: I been her pussy tastes like Gucci m and did,

1217
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: and it probably did. Bit y'all pussy smell like you York.

1218
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 1: Why you feel like that one told because it's been

1219
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 1: done behind pussy. We already know that it's like Nigga,

1220
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: you knew what the fuck he got got he got got,

1221
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 1: she got his ass, and I'm rooting for her. Okay,

1222
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: now see, I'm not rooting for her. I am rooting

1223
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: for her.

1224
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 2: Shout out to Ken James. The song is called set

1225
01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 2: Up and I like it. Go ahead, Little Drea, Are

1226
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 2: you ready girl?

1227
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: Go ahead? No? Okay? So my body is Jimmy Cooks

1228
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: by Drake in twenty one Savage. I love that song.

1229
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: I love it twenty one eat every time. I love it.

1230
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 1: I love that You're a sick fish. You love that

1231
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: get that meme you?

1232
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 3: I love you?

1233
01:02:56,840 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: Know no fantation was in love? Why does you do

1234
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 1: it like that? I don't know, the bitch. Whatever kind

1235
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: of love that is? That a type of love I

1236
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 1: want to be in. I need to experience that at

1237
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 1: least once in my life. I ain't never, ever, ever

1238
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: I felt that way about Nigga. I love it. No, never,

1239
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 1: but I love this song though. This song made me

1240
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: feel that way. Okay, so I was sitting with it.

1241
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty one, I feel like he kills all his features.

1242
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 2: I feel like Drake and twenty one needs to come

1243
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 2: out with a collap album.

1244
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: Absolutely. I'm ready, just like what was the name of

1245
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: the album by Drake in Future to be alive? They

1246
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: need to come out with that. Yeah, they do, they do.

1247
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: We just need like six songs. We just need like

1248
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 1: six songs. Yeah, six, six of them, six of them,

1249
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 1: six of them. That's it. Yeah. Nah, we need a

1250
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: no heed a wrong no no. We need six songs

1251
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: that we can shake our ass to. That's it. I'm

1252
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: talking popping pussy niggas throwing money. I need it on

1253
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: the floor. Yeah, that nasty, nasty. I'm sorry, I'm just

1254
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 1: run into some poppy pussy music and drop. Where are

1255
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: y'all at? Bring it back? Where is Luke at le

1256
01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's time the shirt is giving like Uncle

1257
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 1: Luke days, just giving cash money taking over for the nine,

1258
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: nine and two thouars. We do need that nasty, nasty

1259
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: see what you are doing. I see what you're doing.

1260
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 1: A little period, bring that ship back. So, speaking of

1261
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 1: people who have long ass EPs, Chris Brown. I love

1262
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 1: Chris Brown, me too, Bro, nobody's about to listen to

1263
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,520
Speaker 1: forty songs. Why does he do that? He do that

1264
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 1: every time, every time, every time he leaves the studio. Boy,

1265
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 1: we had a time last night, the engineer leaving like this.

1266
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 1: But I appreciate I actually really appreciate that about Chris

1267
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: Brown though. I love the fact that whenever he gives

1268
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 1: us the album an album, he gives us a lot

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Speaker 1: of shit to listen to. He gives us a lot

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Speaker 1: of music. That's why he don't come out with albums

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01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 1: for like every three But I liked give us so

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01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: much shit. No, I need a good ten to thirteen

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01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 1: songs for an album album. Anything over ten to thirteen

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01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: it's a little too much. I mean, I feel you.

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01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: But one thing about Chris Brown too, I feel like

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01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: he'd be having gems on his album. No he does,

1277
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: like it's not like you be twenty four trash song.

1278
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. That song that he got with

1279
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: Jack Harlow is flames facts. I like the song with

1280
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 1: Little Baby. Y'all knew that hated here. I haven't listened

1281
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 1: to it all the way through. The only one with

1282
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 1: Wiz Kids, Well, somebody, oh yeah, the one with wiz

1283
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 1: Kids fighting, the one with Blue and Little Wayne, Well,

1284
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 1: I'll listen to the one with Jack Harlow because somebody

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01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 1: sent it to him. There was like, oh my god

1286
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: Jack was talking about you yeah, and I was like,

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01:05:57,240 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: it is giving me. I mean, honestly and truly it's

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01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 1: a few so I'm on this album that I could

1289
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 1: just be like, okay, yeah, so I like Chris Brown's

1290
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 1: album too. I just wanted to start that out there,

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01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: shout out to all Right. So now we're gonna get

1292
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: into I'm you can't say that word. I'm sorry. I'm

1293
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 1: slow because I was here make a make a mark,

1294
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 1: let me get canceled. I'm sorry. Okay, I mean to

1295
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 1: say so when you said seve breezy, I supposed to

1296
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 1: say about to take it easy, but that was a jeez.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna get into the point your heart out

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01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 2: segments of the show. Make sure you email us ask

1299
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:52,160
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Speaker 2: dropping Louis Bell, all the good stuff.

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Speaker 1: a Patreon member, you also get to skip the line

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Speaker 1: of the questions. We'd be having a lot of questions

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Speaker 1: you get access to tickets, all that good stuff. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you want to go first, You want to go first. Hello,

1311
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 1: poor girls. I'm so fed up. I'm so fed up

1312
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: with my homegirl because she keeps fucking a lot of

1313
01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: niggas And it wouldn't be my business if she didn't

1314
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: stay asking me for money. If she had one boyfriend

1315
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 1: and both are trying to level up, then I wouldn't

1316
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 1: have a problem helping her, helping her out. But it's

1317
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 1: like a different nigga every week at this point. And

1318
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 1: what's the point if none of them help you out

1319
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: in your times of need? How can you be fucking

1320
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 1: so much but wanting for so many things priorities. I

1321
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: spoke to her about it in a nice, gentle way,

1322
01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 1: but it seems like he didn't seek because a week

1323
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: after that, people was back being Beggy Bundy again. How

1324
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: would you deal with this situation? She must follow cass.

1325
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 1: Beggy Bundy is definitely cast. I'll say this.

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01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 2: I had this situation before with somebody who I'm not

1327
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 2: really close with anymore because one thing about me, I'm

1328
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 2: on my own pussy. I don't care how many niggas

1329
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 2: you are funny, how many as you not fucking, But

1330
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:27,160
Speaker 2: I will say in this situation, it was definitely like, okay, bitch,

1331
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 2: you need a wake up call.

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01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 1: And honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I was that friend

1333
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 1: before I had a nigga and it was just like, bitch,

1334
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 1: I'm still needing help and I had to wake up.

1335
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 1: It just like, why are you fucking with somebody who

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01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:37,879
Speaker 1: not who doesn't.

1337
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 2: Want to help you so you can You can't want

1338
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 2: more for people than they want for themselves. So if

1339
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 2: it's bothering you that much, create boundaries with people, just

1340
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 2: tell her, Hey, you know what, I'm not in the

1341
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 2: space to help you and for you to be asking

1342
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 2: me for this stuff all the time, so I would

1343
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 2: appreciate it if you stop.

1344
01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 1: Asking me for things. Create a boundary. People need to

1345
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 1: learn boundary trees. Agreed. I feel like people who'll be

1346
01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: asking their friends for money and shit all the time.

1347
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 1: Why are you asking me for money? Why? Why? Why you?

1348
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: Of all the people you could ask you want to

1349
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: come ask me? Why you want to ask me? Go

1350
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:17,679
Speaker 1: ask somebody else.

1351
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 2: And don't get me wrong, if you're my friend, and

1352
01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:22,719
Speaker 2: I fuck with you like you can ask me for anything,

1353
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 2: but at the same time, if you're actively fucking someone,

1354
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 2: that's the thing she said that she's asking.

1355
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 1: So it's given me by I was like, you've helped

1356
01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 1: her a few times, probably like you did what you could,

1357
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 1: but it's like, girl, get it together. Yeah, can too.

1358
01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck how many people my friends

1359
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 1: be fucking. That's just the type of person I always mean.

1360
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: But if you asking me all the time, then I

1361
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 1: would be like, girl, what happened to that nigga? That?

1362
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 2: What happened to that nigga that you was fucking last week?

1363
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 2: You'd be having all these niggas in and out?

1364
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 1: What's up? Yeah? So yeah, I create boundaries with this person.

1365
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: It sounds like you still you know you want to

1366
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 1: be friend end with her, but create boundaries with her. Okay.

1367
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:03,559
Speaker 1: Question two.

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Speaker 2: Hello, ladies, My name is Roy from DC and I

1369
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 2: have a question that I know you ladies can help

1370
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 2: me with, So let's get into it.

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01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: I right, so I've been with my girlfriend for almost

1372
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:17,519
Speaker 1: ten years. Yeah, I know ten but like anyway, great book,

1373
01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 1: it's way more to it than just ten years together.

1374
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: But Anyway, we have a two year old son, and

1375
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: being the man in the relationship, you know I'm gonna

1376
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:26,639
Speaker 1: hold that shit down.

1377
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 2: So my problem is sex. She doesn't care for it

1378
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 2: like she used to. She told me, has nothing to

1379
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 2: do with me just being a mom and work then

1380
01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 2: home duties. So when it comes to my needs, she

1381
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 2: says she has to choose between my son or my needs.

1382
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 1: So you know who's going to win. I'm left with

1383
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: a hard dick and swollen balls. Then I have to

1384
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: go work at Howard University. How am I supposed to

1385
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:51,960
Speaker 1: handle the pressure of not getting what I need at

1386
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:54,880
Speaker 1: home and going to work being surrounded by so many

1387
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: beautiful queens. So ladies, please help your boy out.

1388
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 2: I love my woman and I want to grow old

1389
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 2: with her, but I like, fucking what options do I have?

1390
01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 2: Fucking uh no, see, no, no, see, this is the thing.

1391
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 2: It seems like her check engine light is on. Her

1392
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 2: check engine light is on.

1393
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:19,799
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't realize after women have children

1394
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: that you know that sex drivet can go down a lot.

1395
01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 2: And I know you said he's too, But that shit

1396
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:27,599
Speaker 2: doesn't have a time limit on it. Sometimes it lasts

1397
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 2: a long time. So maybe something is going on with

1398
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 2: her body that needs to be addressed. I would suggest

1399
01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 2: maybe trying sex therapy. One thing, I'm not assuming I'm

1400
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,759
Speaker 2: gonna assume that you're black cause you said Howard University

1401
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 2: and you said beautiful queens.

1402
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 1: I'm just how many white people you know name roy.

1403
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to assume.

1404
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, so I'll say this, and I'm

1405
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 2: just assuming. Maybe I hope your a woman is black.

1406
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: I don't know. You didn't say that, but anyways, that

1407
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:54,439
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. All I'm saying is I feel like a

1408
01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 1: lot of times the black people are scared of the

1409
01:11:56,240 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 1: word therapy, like get a sex therapist, figure out what's

1410
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 1: going on on. It's not a lot of balance. And also,

1411
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: like you said, she she's busy with the home duties

1412
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: being a mom.

1413
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 2: Maybe y'all could hire somebody to come help clean the house,

1414
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 2: cook dinner every now and then to help, you know,

1415
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 2: her with the stress of being a mom and cleaning

1416
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 2: and cooking and doing all that. So if you ease

1417
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:23,600
Speaker 2: up her load, she'll have more time to rest. I

1418
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:26,560
Speaker 2: saw this the other day. I was watching Expensivist with

1419
01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 2: two Chains, and they were talking about the most expensive

1420
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 2: bed in the world, and the lady was saying something

1421
01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 2: like a lot of times people's sex drive is low

1422
01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 2: because they don't get enough sleep, because they don't have

1423
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:42,679
Speaker 2: enough energy. So it's like, maybe she just needs some rest,

1424
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 2: So help her out. Hire somebody to come in clean

1425
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 2: the house, help with the kids one night. Maybe just

1426
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 2: hire a babysitter for one night or something, so y'all

1427
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:53,840
Speaker 2: can have some mommy and daddy town.

1428
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:57,639
Speaker 1: You know, women need to break.

1429
01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 2: Being a mom is hard, not that I know, but

1430
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 2: like I said, you know, when my when my first

1431
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:05,679
Speaker 2: nephew was first born, I was there all the time

1432
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:08,720
Speaker 2: and baby, it.

1433
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 1: Was a lot. So yeah, help her out a little bit,

1434
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 1: help her out, that's what I'll say. Yeah, I mean,

1435
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 1: I agree, But I do still feel like at the

1436
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:21,440
Speaker 1: same time, as a woman, if you in a relationship,

1437
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 1: you have to make time for your men. That's not

1438
01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 1: like to me, that's just not no excuse. It's not

1439
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:27,639
Speaker 1: an excuse.

1440
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 2: But children, Having a child is very different when you

1441
01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 2: add a child into the equation. That's why I said,

1442
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 2: hire a babysitting, hire a maid to come clean the house,

1443
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:37,240
Speaker 2: so she don't have to do it.

1444
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: You have to alleviate some of that stress, because I

1445
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: agree with you. I'm always fine, I'm always I'm always

1446
01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 1: make time for my man. And I told you I

1447
01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 1: don't ever deny my man. Six They got on my

1448
01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,680
Speaker 1: ass for that. Well, I didn't say, y'all me, that's

1449
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:59,120
Speaker 1: that's just me definitely. But things change, know when a

1450
01:13:59,160 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 1: baby's at it. Oh, but I definitely feel like, yeah,

1451
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna always find time to fuck my men.

1452
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 4: Hm.

1453
01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm not saying thathing is wrong with why are you

1454
01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 1: fucking I'm disagreeing with you cause period, I'm not saying

1455
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 1: that in is wrong with that, because I mean, at

1456
01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: the end of the day, a man should still respect

1457
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 1: your boundaries too. If you're tired, right and you don't

1458
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:23,600
Speaker 1: wanna have sex. But I feel like, yeah, like not

1459
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,000
Speaker 1: fucking your nigga, do what you think he gonna wanna do,

1460
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 1: right if you not fucking him. But I mean sometimes

1461
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 1: women fuck they man all day. They still go cheat.

1462
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:33,720
Speaker 1: But I'm saying on your end, if you're trying to

1463
01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: get in h but.

1464
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 2: If you're trying to do the right thing, help her

1465
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 2: alleviate some of that stress and see how it changes.

1466
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Question three, Go ahead, Hedrea and lex. I love

1467
01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:49,120
Speaker 1: listening to y'all, especially while I'm at work. It definitely

1468
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:52,360
Speaker 1: make my days go by faster. Anyway, I need y'all

1469
01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 1: help and deciding if I should cut this baby off

1470
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 1: or not. So before I met my husband, he was

1471
01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: with a woman that has a baby boy not by him,

1472
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 1: that he was helping her to take care of. And

1473
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 1: when I met him, oh shit, I don't sorry y'all

1474
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: for here. I don't know what just happened, okay, And

1475
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: when I met him, he made sure that I knew

1476
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:18,840
Speaker 1: whatever he did was strictly for the little boy because

1477
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:22,000
Speaker 1: they had a really tight bond with him. Now, fast

1478
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Speaker 1: forward six years later, the mother hasn't been very consistent

1479
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: on bringing him around. Recently, the baby got into a

1480
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:30,760
Speaker 1: really bad accident and the mom felt the need to

1481
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:33,920
Speaker 1: call my husband on Facebook because she doesn't have his number,

1482
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:37,280
Speaker 1: to let him know what happened. I didn't have a

1483
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: problem with this until she started requesting for my husband

1484
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 1: to start coming back around her son. I'm not jealous

1485
01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 1: of a child, but it pisces me off When she

1486
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:47,680
Speaker 1: tries to get in contact with my husband and I

1487
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 1: answered the Facebook call, she will hang up as if

1488
01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 1: she will hang up when she hears my boys, or

1489
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:55,799
Speaker 1: she tries to say things like he wants his daddy

1490
01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:59,959
Speaker 1: or daughter. Oh sorry, our daughter is the only biological

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01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 1: child my husband has, and I feel like the mom

1492
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:06,000
Speaker 1: is being a little extrap The reason why I'm having

1493
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 1: trouble deciding on what to do is because my daddy

1494
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:11,640
Speaker 1: was my mom's best friend and he adopted me when

1495
01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 1: I was a baby. His girlfriend treated me like her

1496
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: own and I couldn't imagine what my childhood would have

1497
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 1: been like was out my dad. My husband is a

1498
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 1: great father, and I spoke to him about it and

1499
01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 1: he gave me the option to shut shit down. I

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01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:27,599
Speaker 1: know he cares for the little boy, but will also

1501
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:31,240
Speaker 1: choose his family first if needy. So what should I'll do? Ladies?

1502
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 1: Oh and I will see y'all August twelfth in Chicago.

1503
01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:36,920
Speaker 1: And yes, I'm coming to Saint Louis just to see y'all.

1504
01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:39,800
Speaker 1: Oh she coming from Saint Louis. Yeah, Okay, So this

1505
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:45,240
Speaker 1: is a little tricky because I had a situation, you know,

1506
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:47,040
Speaker 1: when I was I talked about this before. When I

1507
01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 1: was younger, my mom was dating someone and.

1508
01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 2: It was like he was in our lives like cause

1509
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 2: they were together, like we all used to live together,

1510
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 2: and when they broke up, you know, he got a

1511
01:16:56,280 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 2: new relationship and he always promised us that he was

1512
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 2: going to be there, but I felt like his new

1513
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:04,160
Speaker 2: wife had a problem with it, so he kind of disappeared,

1514
01:17:04,439 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 2: and so that affected me for a very.

1515
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:10,200
Speaker 1: Very, very long time. So with that being said, I

1516
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 1: think that we need to get to the real reason

1517
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:19,360
Speaker 1: why she's acting like that, Because if you're calling for

1518
01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 1: your son, why are you hanging up when I answer

1519
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 1: the phone. If I answer the phone and it's just

1520
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:27,679
Speaker 1: your son trying to talk to him, what's the problem?

1521
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 1: What's the issue?

1522
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 2: So I think you and your husband need to have

1523
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 2: a really sit down conversation and really ask him, Hey,

1524
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 2: do you feel like she still has feelings for you?

1525
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:38,000
Speaker 1: What's going on? You said, it's been six years later,

1526
01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 1: So obviously the child is of age enough to have

1527
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 1: a cell phone. So maybe.

1528
01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:46,400
Speaker 2: To help the problem, you can get him a cell

1529
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 2: phone so he can reach out to your husband directly.

1530
01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:53,320
Speaker 1: But I feel like cutting it off like cold turkey,

1531
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:56,240
Speaker 1: then you kind of want to think about the child

1532
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 1: because that could have effects on him for like the

1533
01:17:58,080 --> 01:17:58,880
Speaker 1: rest of his life.

1534
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, But you gotta get to

1535
01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 2: the root of the problem. Cause the mom sound like

1536
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 2: she being sneaky and doing too much and I don't

1537
01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 2: like that. Cause bitch, cause if it comes down to it,

1538
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:09,479
Speaker 2: I'll beat your ass.

1539
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: And his ass. You will beat the little boy as Yeah,

1540
01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: cause you is you plot with your mama. Let's talk,

1541
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:26,040
Speaker 1: let's check. I feel like the three of y'all need

1542
01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:29,080
Speaker 1: to sit down and have a conversation. I agree. That's

1543
01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: just really my only opinion about it. Y'all need to

1544
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 1: sit down and have a conversation. Try to figure out

1545
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,679
Speaker 1: what is the best thing to do to move forward,

1546
01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: because you don't wanted to have a traumatic effect on

1547
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 1: the little boy and you know who he becomes as

1548
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 1: an adult and all that type of stuff. So I

1549
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,240
Speaker 1: definitely feel like, yeah, y'all need to have a conversation.

1550
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:51,320
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be no you answering the Facebook calls and

1551
01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:53,760
Speaker 1: all this stuff. Y'all need to all sit down. Mm

1552
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 1: I need to agree on the time a place, meet up,

1553
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 1: have a conversation, try to figure out what y'all could do.

1554
01:18:59,880 --> 01:19:08,400
Speaker 1: And if she not being mature about it, then yeah, yeah,

1555
01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: then then it might be a different situation, but if

1556
01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 1: she's being mature about it, then she really do just

1557
01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,280
Speaker 1: want him to be in the little boy's life because

1558
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 1: he doesn't have a father figure and because the little

1559
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 1: boy is so accustomed to being around him and stuff.

1560
01:19:21,400 --> 01:19:23,920
Speaker 1: I feel like y'all can probably figure something out. But

1561
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:32,240
Speaker 1: you also you know what what I feel like. Sometimes

1562
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 1: people be feeling a little some type of way when

1563
01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 1: it's a child that is not biologically somebody child. I mean,

1564
01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: but I mean, but can you blame her because, like

1565
01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 1: she said, he has one child and it's hers, so

1566
01:19:45,920 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 1: honestly she has and it comes down to it. But

1567
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:50,639
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I'm sorry, I don't

1568
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 1: mean to interrupt you, but it's not about how y'all

1569
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:56,400
Speaker 1: feel personally about each other. It's about this child. And

1570
01:19:56,520 --> 01:19:59,599
Speaker 1: I'm so tired. Yeah, I'm so tired of seeing people

1571
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 1: on the end they're talking about, Oh, that's not his responsibility,

1572
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:03,600
Speaker 1: that's not her responsibility.

1573
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 2: They should have thought about where his real daddy had

1574
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,639
Speaker 2: fucked that. Why can't we just be here and support

1575
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:11,719
Speaker 2: these fucking children who need it. A lot of kids

1576
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 2: do not have a father figure and it affects them so.

1577
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 1: Funny how you been who wants to be in a

1578
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 1: child's life? Why not let him be in a life?

1579
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:27,360
Speaker 1: Big facs. So yeah, question number four. Okay, it says

1580
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: Heydrea and Lex.

1581
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 2: I'm a twenty four year old mother of one maybe two.

1582
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:36,120
Speaker 2: I work and I provide for my family. My son's

1583
01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 2: dad is fifteen years older than me. I've never slept

1584
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:41,280
Speaker 2: with another man while I've been with my baby daddy.

1585
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 2: I've been caught texting guys and talking to people on

1586
01:20:44,360 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 2: social media, but the way I get caught is by

1587
01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:49,560
Speaker 2: him going through my stuff all the time. This was

1588
01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:51,960
Speaker 2: a problem before my son was ever in the picture.

1589
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 2: We've been together going on four years. I love my

1590
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,839
Speaker 2: God and everything, but I guess I just like the attention.

1591
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:01,120
Speaker 2: If I'm ever texting, someone goes beyond texting.

1592
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 1: When they talk about linking, I always go ghosts because

1593
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:07,080
Speaker 1: I really don't like them. I'm just bored. I'm a pisces,

1594
01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:09,040
Speaker 1: and I guess you can say I'm a flirt. I

1595
01:21:09,200 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: know I'm wrong for texting other people, but am I

1596
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 1: wrong for being mad at him for going through my stuff?

1597
01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:15,800
Speaker 1: Like I said, it's not the first or second time

1598
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,680
Speaker 1: he's going through my phone by watch my car and

1599
01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 1: my bags. It's just annoying, Like, what's he go white?

1600
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:27,960
Speaker 1: She got an apple white? Oh, it's just annoying. You

1601
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 1: thought she had a wrong legs? That nigga twisting evy?

1602
01:21:31,120 --> 01:21:33,599
Speaker 1: I mean no because I'm just I'm like, yo, watch

1603
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 1: what are you going to like? I have no privacy.

1604
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:38,000
Speaker 1: I've never gone through his phone because I feel like

1605
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:39,840
Speaker 1: if you go looking for something, you're gonna find something.

1606
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 1: It's gonna hurt your feelings. Stop. I feel like him, Yeah,

1607
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:48,479
Speaker 1: I feel like you. Absolutely. He's weird and y'all are

1608
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:52,280
Speaker 1: both weird because y'are both so weird because if you

1609
01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:55,719
Speaker 1: keep stop texting other people and talk to him about

1610
01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:58,200
Speaker 1: how you need attention and you don't feel like he's

1611
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:00,360
Speaker 1: giving it to you'll.

1612
01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 2: Y'all went together for over four years. You feel like

1613
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:05,320
Speaker 2: your relation is missing something. That's why you're texting somebody. Well,

1614
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,880
Speaker 2: talk to your man about it. He doesn't trust you

1615
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 2: at all.

1616
01:22:08,520 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: Y'all got issues. But he's strange too, because why are

1617
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 1: you going through my sheep? I don't want to be

1618
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 1: when no nigga is going through Why are you going

1619
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 1: through my phone? Why? Why are you going through my purse, Like, hell, nah,

1620
01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 1: that's childish, but I mean they are a twenty she's

1621
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 1: twenty four. Oh no, he fifty she said fifteen years

1622
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:37,840
Speaker 1: feet three. Hell he's like forty fifty three. He's old.

1623
01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 1: He was senior city.

1624
01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 2: See, y'all need to have a conversation. And honestly, I

1625
01:22:41,560 --> 01:22:44,040
Speaker 2: agree with you though you you y'r nigga.

1626
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:46,559
Speaker 1: You too old for that. You know, young girl, you's

1627
01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 1: twenty four, So I take that back, You ain't really,

1628
01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:51,599
Speaker 1: I mean, it makes sense, you know you might want

1629
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 1: you And honestly, like I always say, the kind of

1630
01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:56,519
Speaker 1: man you're attracted to in your early twenties is not

1631
01:22:56,600 --> 01:22:58,439
Speaker 1: the same type of man you're attracted to in your thirds.

1632
01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:03,120
Speaker 1: This one, my ain't sheet side be coming out cause

1633
01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe she just wanna have fun. Girls just

1634
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:09,880
Speaker 1: wanna have fun. Period. You just wanna have fun. So

1635
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:12,479
Speaker 1: like that doesn't make it okay that you're texting other

1636
01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:14,160
Speaker 1: people and stuff. But like you said, you don't ever

1637
01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:18,439
Speaker 1: take it any further than that. But that's still not okay. Yeah,

1638
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:21,679
Speaker 1: it's not over saying it's okay, But I'm just saying,

1639
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 1: you know, she'd just be gonna have fun. But here

1640
01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:29,800
Speaker 1: fucking weirdot and he out is hell girl. Okay, make

1641
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 1: sure y'all get tickets to the show. Go to www

1642
01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:34,639
Speaker 1: dot poorminds dot com.

1643
01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:37,680
Speaker 2: Make sure you like this video. Make sure y'all subscribe.

1644
01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:39,479
Speaker 2: Were trying to get to a hundred thousand subscribers. We

1645
01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 2: almost up, period, and hopefully we'll see y'all on tour.

1646
01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:48,599
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I believe we're on tour. It's crazy. Amen,

1647
01:23:48,760 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 1: my sister, you ready for this? How about it? Love

1648
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 1: it anyway? Yeah, even if y'all cannot stay, I think

1649
01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:03,160
Speaker 1: you'll uncle one from me. And here was wearing you

1650
01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:08,000
Speaker 1: all me. I just want to satisfy you, though you're

1651
01:24:08,160 --> 01:24:12,759
Speaker 1: not mine. I can't deny you. Don't you hear me talking? Baby?

1652
01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:19,240
Speaker 1: Love me? No? Or you go crazy? Oh sweet thing?

1653
01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:26,599
Speaker 1: Bad voice? Don't you know you? My everything? Girl? Oh

1654
01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:35,160
Speaker 1: sweet things? Don't know you? My everything? Yes?

1655
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 3: You won, I'll win you wear my lover rang soone

1656
01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 3: the cover, So love you? Trying my whole life long?

1657
01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:50,160
Speaker 3: Being right or being wrong?

1658
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:55,519
Speaker 1: I'm only what you make your baby walk away. Don't

1659
01:24:55,600 --> 01:25:00,719
Speaker 1: be so shady, don't watch hold on watch mine. Don't

1660
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:05,519
Speaker 1: want to these words I say they might sound funny, Oh,

1661
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:14,760
Speaker 1: sweet thing, God, don't you know you're my every Oh

1662
01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 1: who sweet things? Don't you know you my everything? Yes?

1663
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 1: You are sing Yes you are.

1664
01:25:28,280 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 3: You are my hate am the thin yo, make me

1665
01:25:32,600 --> 01:25:35,560
Speaker 3: weak with shrunk to tell you love you?

1666
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:41,840
Speaker 1: Try my whole lifelong being right, I'll being wrong. I

1667
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 1: just fallen the Sandi spy. Here you're and I'm mine

1668
01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:49,799
Speaker 1: and kids and night. You don't you him me talking? Baby,

1669
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:51,559
Speaker 1: love me now.

1670
01:25:53,200 --> 01:25:53,920
Speaker 3: Graz.

1671
01:25:57,160 --> 01:26:08,080
Speaker 1: Sweet sweet the hang because she did that, shut up shot.

1672
01:26:11,800 --> 01:26:15,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what is wrong. I don't know what

1673
01:26:15,400 --> 01:26:19,920
Speaker 1: kind of roll that was? A bob shut up to

1674
01:26:20,040 --> 01:26:24,840
Speaker 1: Chaka Khan, what's say y'all on tour? He said, we

1675
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:28,200
Speaker 1: love y'all, see y'all next week. Bye y'all. Winning the

1676
01:26:28,280 --> 01:26:33,360
Speaker 1: ball drop? Whoa fuck it? Whoa