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Speaker 1: This is John.

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Speaker 3: I broke up with my boyfriend because he wanted to

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Speaker 3: marry me.

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Speaker 1: I guess you weren't ready.

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Speaker 3: So me and my ex boyfriend had a very fun,

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Speaker 3: awesome relationship about seven months ago. We broke up because

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Speaker 3: I found an engagement ring in his bedside drawer with

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Speaker 3: its receipt documents, et cetera, and also a piece of

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Speaker 3: paper with different speeches and ways he was planning to

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Speaker 3: ask me to marry him. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 3: long story short, I got scared and I left him.

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Speaker 3: I essentially broke his heart because I was scared, and

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Speaker 3: I feel awful for it, and it hurts because I

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Speaker 3: still love him and I can't believe I hurt him

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Speaker 3: over my own insecurities.

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Speaker 1: Tell them that, yeah, fix it.

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Speaker 4: There's a really easy solution here, op and it's just

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Speaker 4: go tell your boyfriend that you got scared.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's called communication. And to be honest, last seven

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Speaker 3: months or so have been awful without him, and I've

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Speaker 3: been all over the play dating guys I didn't like

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Speaker 3: but got with just to feel better about the breakup.

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Speaker 3: The breakup was totally my fault. I have no excuses

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Speaker 3: as to why I did what I did, nor am

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Speaker 3: I trying to make any My reasoning at the time

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Speaker 3: was I had a big work trip coming up in

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Speaker 3: a different country, which I ended up finishing early because

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Speaker 3: I hated it, and that I'm terrified of commitment due

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Speaker 3: to coming from a broken family with a harmful father,

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Speaker 3: and I'm scared of ending up like my mom. And

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Speaker 3: the thing is, I know those two things aren't valid reasons,

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Speaker 3: and I know they're completely rational, but at the time

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Speaker 3: I panicked, I didn't even tell him I found the ring.

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Speaker 3: I just made up a BS fake reason. Okay, Easy

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Speaker 3: solution Therapy tell him all of that, yeap. Since I

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Speaker 3: returned from my work trip, I've met with him quite

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Speaker 3: a lot. We've had coffee talk, gone to parties together,

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Speaker 3: and we still hang out together with our same friend group.

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Speaker 1: Weird Therapy.

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Speaker 3: Tell him all that and every bit of time I

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Speaker 3: spend with him, I regret my decision more and more.

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Speaker 3: All this bad story brings me Today. He messaged me

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Speaker 3: and asked me if he could meet me on my

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Speaker 3: lunch break. So I said, yeah, sure. So I took

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Speaker 3: my lunch with me and went and sat on a

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Speaker 3: picnic bench, which I always do during my lunch in

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Speaker 3: the summer, and texted him saying where I was. He

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Speaker 3: turns up and sits down next to me. Man, he

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Speaker 3: just talk. He tells me he misses me, that he

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Speaker 3: still loves me and that he wants me back. I

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Speaker 3: told him I feel the same, but it's complicated. Tell

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Speaker 3: him the truth not complicated. Then he pulled out a

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Speaker 3: ring box and opened it and asked me to marry him,

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Speaker 3: the same ring I saw on his drawer. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you can go from broken up the marriage.

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Speaker 4: Like that guy God, but like I appreciate the sentiment,

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Speaker 4: and as soon as I saw it, I felt the

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Speaker 4: same panic in the pit of my stomach that I

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Speaker 4: felt when I first laid eyes on it.

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Speaker 3: I told him the truth of why I left, because

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Speaker 3: I was scared of what would happen. But then I

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Speaker 3: do love him, and then I never stopped loving him,

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Speaker 3: and I hate that when we're not together, but I'm

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Speaker 3: terrified at the thought of commitment in case I end

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Speaker 3: up like my parents. He told me he's happy that's

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Speaker 3: the reason I left, because he knows now that I

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Speaker 3: did not leave because I didn't love him anymore, and

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Speaker 3: that we can work through it if I'm willing to you.

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Speaker 1: Can you can go?

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Speaker 3: You can't girl talk to him?

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Speaker 1: Come on?

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Speaker 3: We ended up kissing for the first time since the

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Speaker 3: day we broke up, and honestly, it was amazing and

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Speaker 3: I can't stop thinking about it. He gave me the

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Speaker 3: ring box, told me to think about it, and then left.

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Speaker 3: So now I'm sitting at home, looking at the gorgeous

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Speaker 3: sapphire ring he picked out, and thinking, what the heck

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Speaker 3: is so wrong with me? What should I do? How

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Speaker 3: do I go about this? How do I get over

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Speaker 3: my fear of commitment and end up with the only

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Speaker 3: man I've ever loved? And it Please stop commenting slash private,

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Speaker 3: messaging me about how it will be different when I

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Speaker 3: have kids of my own, or saying stuff along those lines.

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Speaker 3: I can't have children and at a two from reading

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Speaker 3: more and more comments. Now I'm questioning everything, his motives,

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Speaker 3: his behavior. Wait what, there's like a way more to

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Speaker 3: this story? But wait, wait, wait what I mean? Yeah? Yes,

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Speaker 3: it is odd that he went straight.

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Speaker 1: For proposing proposal, but he was already ready to propose.

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Speaker 3: Was already to propose. I'm confused. I don't know if

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Speaker 3: I saw any red flags.

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Speaker 4: I mean that read yeah, I read like maybe oh

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Speaker 4: peces more. But like she's saying the comments.

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Speaker 3: Cell, Okay, okay, all right, let's let's let's keep going.

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Speaker 3: I feel so stupid. I didn't see all these red

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Speaker 3: flags because I was blinded by love. Now I'm also

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Speaker 3: wondering if he even loved me, or if I was

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Speaker 3: just a young lay for him.

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Speaker 1: What he wants to marry you at three?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I know I may bee jumping to conclusions about

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Speaker 3: the red flags, but this is a brief snippet of

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Speaker 3: her time together, and I'm having red flags from his

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Speaker 3: behavior during the relationship and certain warning signs I didn't see.

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Speaker 1: Is this I didn't see them?

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Speaker 3: Maybe this is the the her being afraid of of

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Speaker 3: commitment again.

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Speaker 1: I think it is, because what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: I'm so confused. Yeah, Kim Fine says that came out

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Speaker 1: Nowhere.

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Speaker 3: The dogs are.

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Speaker 4: Out are ring too, Like, dude, I want I want

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Speaker 4: an emerald ring.

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Speaker 5: I that's the first thing I got for sapphire ring,

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Speaker 5: and that's beautiful. I would love a golden emerald ring.

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Speaker 3: Can you look at golden emerald ring?

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Speaker 1: My idea?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've looked it up. She wants what did you

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Speaker 5: want around it?

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Speaker 4: Like the I just wanted to look like an elvish ring.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what it was. We found it like a

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Speaker 5: dainty something.

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Speaker 1: Dainty.

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Speaker 3: E Chan's ring is beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Really beautiful. I was looking at the close up. I

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Speaker 4: don't know if you saw on steps. Sorry, no, there's

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Speaker 4: a close up from the place that they bought it

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Speaker 4: from posted and it's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Damn. That's I mean, if the place you bought it

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Speaker 3: from posted it, that's how you know it's good. It's

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Speaker 3: only because I'm getting an outside perspective without emotion that

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Speaker 3: I'm seeing the other side. I was emotional at first

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Speaker 3: when I wrote the post. As you can tell, I'm

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Speaker 3: all over the place because the situation isn't exactly normal.

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Speaker 3: He's reading all these comments and we've spoken on the

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Speaker 3: phone since, but he won't discuss it with me over

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Speaker 3: the phone, So until I've finished work, he's come over

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Speaker 3: to my house, I can't come to a solution with

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Speaker 3: him or even get answers on his intentions. He wants

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Speaker 3: to marry you, dang.

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Speaker 4: He literally just wants to marry you. And he's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: what does he want? What are you talking about? He

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Speaker 4: just wants a quick lay.

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Speaker 1: He's trying to marry you.

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Speaker 5: This is what Sophia wants.

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Speaker 3: But I also I was like what I don't like

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Speaker 4: I wanted to be like, yeah, this is wrong. Also

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Speaker 4: Serenity equine horse. No way was it Serenity Horse Ranch.

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Speaker 1: That's sad.

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Speaker 3: Dang.

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Speaker 4: I'll just be careful, but we got. I've never been

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Speaker 4: known to bump into anything.

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Speaker 3: An update. If he kept her the last post and

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Speaker 3: follow to any extent, then you will know that I

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Speaker 3: was meeting with my ex after work today to discuss

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Speaker 3: the whole proposal and to discuss the whole relationship in general.

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Speaker 3: Well I did he game to my place after work,

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Speaker 3: And I'm crying as I type this because most of

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Speaker 3: you were right about him.

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Speaker 1: What are you taking? Where did you guys get all this.

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Speaker 3: My heart feels broken and I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 3: From here, I can go into more detail on this

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Speaker 3: post as opposed to my last one, and I can

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Speaker 3: clarify things more now because I'm no longer defending him.

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Speaker 5: Do we miss something.

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Speaker 3: It's going to be a long post, so I'm warning

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Speaker 3: you now. It may be long, all right, I'm gendering

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Speaker 3: your contest now. But I'm so confused. When he came

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Speaker 3: I told him that's the only way I'll speak is

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Speaker 3: if she's there, because I don't think being alone together

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Speaker 3: is appropriate. But you were just hanging out friend. I'm confused.

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Speaker 3: First of all, he went on a tangent about how

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Speaker 3: I should never have made a post and that was

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Speaker 3: was getting incredibly irate, such as pacing back and forth,

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Speaker 3: puffing and puffing, throwing things, and then the conversation moved

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Speaker 3: onto the gosh dang ring. I told him that it

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Speaker 3: was inappropriate and unfair of him that, after seven months

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Speaker 3: of no romantic contact or talk, that he would propose

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Speaker 3: out of the blue.

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Speaker 4: I'm like real, like, yeah, it was weird move. But

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Speaker 4: he went from being about to propose to you, to

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Speaker 4: you running away because you were scared, then to you

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Speaker 4: guys clearly having unresolved romantic feelings for each other, like

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Speaker 4: both of you had that feeling. You said yourself that

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Speaker 4: you still were in love with him and missed him.

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Speaker 3: He didn't like that and got aggressive with me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's not cool.

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Speaker 3: Told me I'd never find anyone like him. How no

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Speaker 3: one would ever marry me, especially because I can't have kids,

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Speaker 3: so I'm useless to most men.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he sucks, so.

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Speaker 3: I should marry him because he loves me more than life.

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Speaker 3: What a sales pitch.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, well there it is. He sucks.

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Speaker 3: It would never hurt me. All else an attempt to

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Speaker 3: make me feel small and like he's in charge. I

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Speaker 3: kept telling him on what planet. Does he think he

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Speaker 3: can do all this then expect me to roll over

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Speaker 3: and take it? And his response was you already did.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: The majority of you were right to him. I was

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Speaker 3: literally just some inexperienced girl he could manipulate and take

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Speaker 3: advantage of. He clearly didn't love me, and all this

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Speaker 3: actually hurts because I genuinely love this person. And now

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Speaker 1: Wow came out of nowhere?

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Speaker 3: Came out of nowhere?

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Speaker 4: Came also op I want to say, like be nicer

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Speaker 1: So like Opie's like, I should have seen it, you

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Speaker 5: Oh, it doesn't.

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Speaker 4: They've been dating all the dating just yeah, it doesn't

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Speaker 3: Charlie James is also, of course at twenty two, you

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Speaker 3: Stay away from him, OPI.

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Speaker 5: I'm getting right now?

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Speaker 4: I refuse to help my friend cheat, don't help. I'm

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Speaker 4: From my interactions with Jen, I know she's a wonderful person.

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Speaker 3: I hate it because you're lying.

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Speaker 3: This is I mean, are you friends with Jen?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, he's just spent in a late night studying.

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Speaker 5: How does the Yeah, let me study the woman?

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Speaker 4: I think you tell him, I'm sorry. If this is

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Speaker 1: Here's the issue.

446
00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:20,720
Speaker 4: Jen and her roommates don't live that far from us,

447
00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,399
Speaker 4: about a seven minute walk, so there's a good chance

448
00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,520
Speaker 4: she'll come by looking for him. According to Matt, Therefore,

449
00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,320
Speaker 4: he wants us all to make excuses for his absences

450
00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,080
Speaker 4: and potentially reassure Jen that he isn't up to anything

451
00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:33,879
Speaker 4: bad worse.

452
00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,200
Speaker 1: You guys suck. You are a whole friend much.

453
00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:37,240
Speaker 3: I collaborate this.

454
00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,400
Speaker 4: Kyle and Robert are fully on board with this, as

455
00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:44,960
Speaker 4: they consider it the bro code. They say, code you

456
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,000
Speaker 4: are explicit in cheating, and you guys suck. Omar is

457
00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:51,400
Speaker 4: fully against this. Omar kind of sucks because he's still

458
00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:52,760
Speaker 4: been going on with this for a while.

459
00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:54,119
Speaker 3: It seems no, I don't know.

460
00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,720
Speaker 4: Well, Matt has been cheating on like all of his

461
00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,040
Speaker 4: girlfriends and they at least know about it. Well, they

462
00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,840
Speaker 4: could have just been roommates. It's like, I don't think

463
00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:04,040
Speaker 4: can have just been root maze okay, Omar. It's the

464
00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:06,680
Speaker 4: jury's still out. And while he has not said he'd

465
00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,520
Speaker 4: tell Jen, he has refused to lie for Matt and

466
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,320
Speaker 4: has been urging him to end things with Cindy. I

467
00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,639
Speaker 4: would say, I'm more neutral. You kind of suck. I

468
00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:16,760
Speaker 4: don't think what Matt's doing is appropriate, but I don't

469
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,919
Speaker 4: think it's my place to tell Matt how to manage

470
00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:19,840
Speaker 4: his relationships.

471
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:22,399
Speaker 1: You're his friend. You're his friend.

472
00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,680
Speaker 4: If you disagree with him, you can say, hey, that's

473
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,919
Speaker 4: not cool to Doude it's whack, or stop being friends

474
00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:29,320
Speaker 4: with him.

475
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:30,280
Speaker 1: I don't like you.

476
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,560
Speaker 4: I told him that while I wouldn't seek Jen out

477
00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 4: and tell her what's going on, I wouldn't lie to

478
00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,240
Speaker 4: her either about where he is and instead say I

479
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:39,920
Speaker 4: don't know, I don't like you. We all argued about

480
00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,160
Speaker 4: this for a while, and the general gist of things

481
00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,600
Speaker 4: is that Kyle, Robert and Matt all think I'm being

482
00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,000
Speaker 4: a bit of a butt for not being more cooperative.

483
00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:53,000
Speaker 3: It's the bro code, you gotta be cooperative, minon. I

484
00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 3: think that's whack whack whack.

485
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:56,840
Speaker 4: Aside from this, I don't think there's really much I

486
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,639
Speaker 4: can do. Moving to somewhere else is both economically and

487
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 4: logistically unfeasible. So I think trying to avoid stirring the

488
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 4: pot is my best bet.

489
00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,440
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Yeah, a little bit.

490
00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:11,040
Speaker 3: I think you. I think if you don't have a

491
00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 3: relationship with Jen, it's not your responsibility to go out

492
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,000
Speaker 3: and tell her, Like if it's just like, oh, this

493
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,840
Speaker 3: is another person that he's like, this guy's cheating on.

494
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 3: I think if you do have any kind of relationship

495
00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 3: or any kind of friendship, you should tell Jen because

496
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,840
Speaker 3: then that's your that's your duty to your your friend,

497
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 3: also to this person that you're calling your friend. Like,

498
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,280
Speaker 3: I mean, I think you could be friends with a

499
00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 3: lot of different kinds of people. Should this be a

500
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 3: close friend? Probably not if they have like this big

501
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,679
Speaker 3: of a character flaw, and you should definitely be a

502
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 3: friend you should have Yeah, I mean, I don't know,

503
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 3: like I think, I think, I don't Yeah, I don't.

504
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 3: I don't think you should be. I mean, if this

505
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,480
Speaker 3: is like a serial cheater, it's like, this is not

506
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 3: it's not like a.

507
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:53,960
Speaker 1: Why would you want to be friends with this person?

508
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,359
Speaker 4: I understand that you are in a living situation with

509
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,439
Speaker 4: him that maybe you're not able to get out of.

510
00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean how to be friends with them.

511
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think, like, what what do you what

512
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 3: do you say to this guy because you have to

513
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 3: live with him?

514
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you say, if you are friends with him,

515
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 4: you say, stop that, go tell her? Yeah, or I will?

516
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 5: I will.

517
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 4: I don't even personally, I don't even think even if

518
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 4: you aren't friends with her, I think that personally, if

519
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 4: I were in this situation, We're a friend who was

520
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 4: cheating on their partner, and she's coming over. I've met her,

521
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 4: presumably they've been dating.

522
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 3: To tell her if she if she comes over.

523
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 1: They've been dating a while.

524
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 4: She's obviously coming over, she's obvious, Like, it doesn't matter

525
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 4: if they're not like friends, she's coming up.

526
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 3: If you have any kind of relationship, you tell. But

527
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 3: if it's just like he's gallivanting around town, you don't

528
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,679
Speaker 3: have to. You don't have to be it doesn't. It's

529
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 3: not your responsibility to tell everyone that he's like hooking

530
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 3: up with that he's a cheater. Like, I don't think

531
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 3: that's but if you have any kind of relationship with her,

532
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 3: I think you should say, including a relationship of like acquaintances.

533
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 4: I think that yes, I think I think he should

534
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,360
Speaker 4: tell her because they clearly have some sort of relationship

535
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 4: where he knows her. And I think that if you

536
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 4: don't feel comfortable telling a part like a friend's partner,

537
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,640
Speaker 4: that they're cheating, then you shouldn't be, Like, you shouldn't

538
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 4: be friends with that person. Like if you're like, well,

539
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 4: I can't tell them because I'm not part of that,

540
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 4: then like get out of the friendship. There's it's either

541
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 4: you tell them or you leave the friendship. There is

542
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 4: no in between. For me personally, have.

543
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 3: You ever told someone.

544
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 1: No, I'm none of my friends I've ever cheated?

545
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 3: Well get that.

546
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 4: No, I've never had to be in a situation where

547
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 4: I knew about cheating.

548
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:25,880
Speaker 1: Fortunately for me.

549
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 3: I knew a guy on my study abroad program that

550
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,639
Speaker 3: had a girlfriend that I didn't I didn't know, but

551
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 3: was like, like, this guy was an acquaintance in my

552
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 3: thing and I'm curious in this situation. You know a guy,

553
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 3: not a really close friend, but like in your study

554
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 3: a broad program, you know he has a girlfriend. You

555
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 3: could probably find his girlfriend on Instagram. Would you go

556
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 3: and message her on Instagram? Thing, hmmm, he's cheating. If

557
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 3: this isn't a friend, it's not a friend, and you

558
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 3: don't know the person. I mean, I don't think you

559
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 3: would be wrong for doing it. Yeah, I don't think

560
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: you necessarily, Like, I don't think. I don't think you're

561
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 3: a bad person for not you ended it. What I didn't,

562
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 3: I didn't do anything I was I really if.

563
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 4: You don't know them and you don't know the girlfriend,

564
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 4: it's like, ah, but I don't.

565
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 3: Think you would think if you have a friendship with

566
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 3: the guy, you should tell him to do it, And

567
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 3: if you have any kind of relationship with the girl,

568
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 3: you should.

569
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 4: Yes, I absolutely should tell her. Yeah, but there is

570
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 4: an update. I'll start this update by saying Jen found

571
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 4: out last night. Like Matt predicted, she came over to

572
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 4: our house Tuesday evening. I saw her pretty quickly, since

573
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 4: I was also coming back from buying some food. She

574
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 4: asked me if I knew where Matt was, and I

575
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,479
Speaker 4: said I didn't know, because I genuinely didn't know at

576
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,719
Speaker 4: the time. She mentioned how he wasn't responding to her

577
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,479
Speaker 4: text and that she was worried about him.

578
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: And I feel pretty bad hearing Matt.

579
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 4: Kyle, who was inside, came out at this point and

580
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 4: so that Matt was in his anatomy lab and then

581
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 4: reassured her that he'd contact her once he was finished.

582
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 3: I hate that is so wack.

583
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: I hate this crip so whack. Hate them.

584
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 4: She didn't seem entirely satisfied with that answer, but thanked

585
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 4: us anyway and left.

586
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: Once she was.

587
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 4: Gone, Kyle told me that Matt was actually on a

588
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,360
Speaker 4: day with Cindy. These men are terrible. These men are terrible.

589
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 3: Also, Like I feel like you being in that environment

590
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 3: is just gonna Like it's like easy to be a

591
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 3: good person when you're around for people, but like when

592
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 3: you are in this situation, you just get caught up and.

593
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: Well, you think this is normal.

594
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 4: And also they're all telling you that you're the a

595
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 4: hole for wanting to not cooperate a story.

596
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 3: A bush has ug men, but I've heard this same

597
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 3: behavior from women. Well, no, it's one of my friends.

598
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 3: I always tell you about her her what of her

599
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 3: friends that are her friend's friends that literally like cheats

600
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 3: on her boyfriend every time she goes on a trip,

601
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 3: like every time, and talks about it really with all

602
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 3: their girlfriends. It is not a gender thing at his age. Yeah, crappy.

603
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 4: I have like friend not my personal friends, but like

604
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,479
Speaker 4: friend of friends and they'll be like oh yeah, like

605
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 4: oh yeah, she was flirting with this guy or like whatever,

606
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 4: and I'm like that person like with a boyfriend, I'm

607
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 4: like what, It's just it's very Yeah, no anyone could

608
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 4: do it.

609
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: It's not okay. Ever, it's not no one.

610
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 4: Your friends should not be allowing or encouraging cheating in

611
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,719
Speaker 4: any form. If you, I don't know, you just want

612
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 4: to surround yourself with good people. Why would you want

613
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 4: to surround yourself with people like this?

614
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 3: I mean again, it sounds like he's stuck in this

615
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 3: living situation.

616
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 4: Absolutely, but it does like it doesn't sound like, Oh,

617
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 4: I'm stuck with these sucky people and uh, they want

618
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 4: me to corroborate those stories and I hate it.

619
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: It sounds like.

620
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 3: He's doing that.

621
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 1: It sounds like he's saying these are my friends.

622
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,199
Speaker 3: Is he saying that?

623
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, he started with these are my friends, since Matt

624
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 4: sometimes brings Cindy over and he'll text the house group

625
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 4: chat before they come over to ensure that Jen isn't around.

626
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 4: He did this on Tuesday night and Kyle did alert

627
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 4: him that Jen had stuck by looking for him, so

628
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 4: he stayed over with Cindy on Tuesday night. Wednesday evening,

629
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,199
Speaker 4: only Omar and I are home, Kyle was with his

630
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 4: own girlfriend, and Robert had an exam. Around seven pm,

631
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 4: we got a text on the group chat from Matt

632
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 4: saying he plans up ringing Cindy over around eight thirty,

633
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 4: and he asked if Jen came by. I told him

634
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 4: that I hadn't seen her, and things went on as usual.

635
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 4: I'll add that Omar has refused to respond to those

636
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 4: specific text messages for Matt cool. Omar okay, didn't tell Jen,

637
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 4: so not quite that cool. But you know you're not

638
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,679
Speaker 4: on mccrawby so bad.

639
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 3: I would be so bad in this situation.

640
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 4: I would like every time I did that, I'd be like, uh,

641
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 4: I'm not doing this for you. Don't involve me in

642
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 4: this at all, Like literally, just stop talking to me.

643
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 4: So there was an expectation on me to clarify if

644
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 4: Jen was here or not. A little after eight pm,

645
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 4: Jen comes by with one of her friends, Carly female

646
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 4: twenty one. They asked us where Matt was, since Jen

647
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 4: hasn't seen him a lot lately. Before I could even

648
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 4: say anything, Omar told him to come back after a

649
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 4: thirty in match. Should be home, Omar, let's go, Omar.

650
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 4: Omar is the only person.

651
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: I like w for Omar.

652
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 4: You own Oky, You kind of sucked because you're a bystander.

653
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: But Omar.

654
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 4: They left and I did argue with Omar about his

655
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 4: decision to tell them to come back, since it would

656
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 4: inevitably cause drama, but he didn't care. I wouldn't care

657
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 4: if I was in this situation. Let's say I'm like

658
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 4: in a world where I wouldn't tell the girlfriend like

659
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 4: I'm Omar, I'm pissed off, man, I have to cooberate

660
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 4: for my cheating roommate who.

661
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: Keeps making me involved in his schemes.

662
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 4: I'd be like, you know what, I want to create

663
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 4: drama because I'm sick of living in this.

664
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 3: The one thing I would say is in creating drama,

665
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 3: if this guy is already an unscrupulous person and you've

666
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 3: pissed off this unscrupulous person who two.

667
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: Other people in the house agree with.

668
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you probably are going to make that living situation

669
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 3: like really bad for yourself.

670
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: I think Omar's done, though, I think he's gonna move out.

671
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: I think you should. He should. I honestly think you should,

672
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 3: like if you can, but it might be super expensive.

673
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 3: But yeah, Omar is lighting the house on fire and

674
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 3: he's inside.

675
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:14,439
Speaker 4: I did text Matt and told him about Jen potentially returning,

676
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 4: but since he was driving, he didn't read the message.

677
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 1: You suckopy.

678
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 4: At this stage, I gave up trying to contact Matt

679
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 4: and went up to my room. A little after eight thirty,

680
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 4: Matt walked in with Cindy, and not that long afterward,

681
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 4: Jen and Carly returned.

682
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: Omar let them in.

683
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 3: Let's go Olar, Oh, go to the fire, the.

684
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 4: Thunderdome, Duretzi's Omar just wants to watch the world burn.

685
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 4: Long story short. There was a lot of Jen yelling

686
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 4: and Matt lying and apologizing. I didn't bother coming down

687
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 4: since I could hear it all from my room. After

688
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 4: about ten minutes of this, Jen and Carly left. Matt

689
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 4: sent Cindy home after this and was pretty pissed at

690
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 4: what happened. I reminded him that I sent text messages

691
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 4: which he now saw, and Omar played dumb, acting like

692
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 4: you didn't see Matt's message about him asking if Joan

693
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 4: was home, but confirmed that he told Gen to come

694
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 4: back after the first time she came back because you

695
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 4: didn't think Matt was dumb enough to go out with

696
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 4: Cindy two knights back to back.

697
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,479
Speaker 1: Omar, Yeah, I dropped the phone for you.

698
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 3: I hate Op, who is an a hole? Says Pattis Yeah.

699
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,719
Speaker 3: I mean like you could have been in Omar.

700
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: Could have been Omar, you almost swayed that way, could

701
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: have been you were a fall on bro code Robert

702
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: and Kyle.

703
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 3: That's not even broken. I don't want to do this

704
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: bro code.

705
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: It was like bro code is like, don't date your

706
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: Bros's X. That's broken. This is this is just cheater code.

707
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 3: Cheater yeah, cheater code, cheat code, cheat code, cheat peak code.

708
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 4: Robert and Kyle came home after this point and I

709
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 4: filled them in with what happened. There was definitely some

710
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 4: tension in the house this morning, as Matt thinks this

711
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 4: all could have been avoided at Omar been more.

712
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: Helpful, helpful in cheating, helpful in lying. Why don't involve

713
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: other people in your lies? You don't, Yeah, you know,

714
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: if you're gonna, if you're gonna cheat, if you're gonna, like,

715
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 3: you know, do all this stuff, be sneaky so you don't,

716
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: like just spill your cheating garbage onto everyone else.

717
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 4: The more people who know your secret secrets, the more people, yeah,

718
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 4: you know, the more it's gonna get out.

719
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

720
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, So this is a message, like, be sneaky with

721
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 3: it so you don't spread your cheatingness on me, but

722
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 3: also don't cheat. Also don't cheat. But if you gotta

723
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 3: do it, no, don't cheat.

724
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 4: He also partially blames Cindy for wanting to come over

725
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 4: so often. What Overall, Matt doesn't really seem to care

726
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 4: that Jen found out and broke things off with him.

727
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: He said that I'll.

728
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 4: Try apologizing one more time, as he does prefer Jen

729
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 4: to Cindy. I hate this man so much, and if

730
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 4: she doesn't accept, I'll loose things as they are. As

731
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 4: for Cindy, Matt has already told Kyle, Robert and Me

732
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 4: this morning that he plans on ending things with her

733
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 4: after the December exam season He says that he wants

734
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 4: to be single again by New Year's so we.

735
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 3: Could have a fresh start. Man needs fresh starts in

736
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 3: so many ways.

737
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 4: We need to like rinse out this man's brain. Le

738
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 4: and Robert think this is pretty hilarious. Considering how much

739
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 4: trouble you got in to be with her, things have

740
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 4: ended more smoothly than I thought, and I have made

741
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 4: it abundantly clear to Matt to keep me out of

742
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 4: his relationship woes.

743
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: You suck, you OPU.

744
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 4: I have also asked Carlee how Jen was holding up

745
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 4: this morning as we share a class together.

746
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: You still suck. I'm sorry.

747
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 4: If I were Jen and I knew, and we we

748
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 4: had even talked, and we had been friendly or something,

749
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 4: and I knew that you knew.

750
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 3: And then you had the audacity want to talk to you.

751
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 4: You have the audacity to come say, oh, how are

752
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 4: you feeling, I'd be like, shut up, don't talk to me, ma'am.

753
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 3: You are you contributed to the feelings that I'm vealing the.

754
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 4: Amount of times I asked you where he was and

755
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 4: you said, I don't know. You lied for him. As expected,

756
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 4: Jen was very upset about the entire deal, and she

757
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 4: and her friends consider everyone at her house aside from Omar,

758
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 4: to be complicit and awful.

759
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: She's right.

760
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 3: Omar is goaded. Oh my yeah, Amar is goaded as

761
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 3: she should, dude, Omar is goaded.

762
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 4: Quick update Kyle texted the group chat. His girl friend

763
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 4: knows and she isn't happy.

764
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

765
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: I would break up with everyone in this house except

766
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: for Omar. Love you. Omar update too.

767
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 3: Hey y'all, it's John og Host here.

768
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to the story, but here's a

769
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 2: quick three minute break from asp form response.

770
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 3: Also, it seems like Omar did the right thing and

771
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 3: it doesn't feel like there's much black hitting him.

772
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: Well, I think he lied. He was like, he just

773
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: played dumb. He was like, oh, I didn't know.

774
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 4: I don't know you're coming back with Sydney as Cindya.

775
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 4: I didn't respond, And he has the deniability because he

776
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 4: never responded the chat. He never responds. He's like, oh

777
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 4: I just didn't read it. Sorry, I thought you wanted

778
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 4: to see your girlfriend. Sorry, Omar king Omar.

779
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 3: Omar knows how to do it. Yeah, he played the

780
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 3: politics both ways.

781
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 4: I don't think Omar is friends with any of them.

782
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 4: I think he just lives in this house and he's like,

783
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 4: these people suck.

784
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 3: And that's what dude, that's what sucks about Like, yeah,

785
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 3: I'm going look like because he could get random and yeah.

786
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 4: Like he's probably in college, has these terrible roomance and he's.

787
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: Like, well, he's got to suck.

788
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 3: Rathhead. Omar is the MVP, says Vran. Kind of bet

789
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 3: money Omar and Jenner smash. That's kid fine, I mean

790
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 3: it would make sense. Hannah, he kind of did, or

791
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 3: Hannah Hannah, Hannah, he did kind of did it sneakily.

792
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: H Yeah.

793
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 3: I do think honestly, if there was the best way

794
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 3: to go about this and in the least blow up

795
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: in your face way, it was the Omar way.

796
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: I agree.

797
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,479
Speaker 4: I personally I probably would have been gone about it

798
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 4: of the way of direct directness.

799
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but uh, Omar, do it directly, you have a

800
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 3: high chance of it making like a really awkward living

801
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: for you.

802
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 4: Yes, you, Because he's living in this situation. I understand

803
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 4: why he did it the way did it, which is

804
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 4: why he's got it.

805
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 3: He's goaded new bro code, says Kimberly Rockwood. Don't cheat,

806
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 3: don't the bro code.

807
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 4: Don't encourage your friends to cheat, don't cover them. Update

808
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 4: to I've been receiving a lot of d ms from

809
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 4: people wondering how things turned out after the big reveal,

810
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 4: So here's a quick recap. Jen did not accept Matt's

811
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 4: apology shock. She has indicated that she infect he never

812
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 4: wants to see him again. Matt is still with Cindy

813
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 4: and he still plans on breaking up with her after

814
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 4: Exam season. According to him, Sindy's starting to feel pretty

815
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 4: secure now that Matt's no longer with Jen and has

816
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 4: expressed her desire to form a serious relationship with him.

817
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 4: While he does feel a bit guilty, he thinks it's

818
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 4: best for both of them that he ends things with

819
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,320
Speaker 4: her before New Year's.

820
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 3: This is ugh, I hate this. I hate this.

821
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 4: Despite feeling guilty, Matt has attempted to reactivate his Tender account,

822
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 4: but Kyle made him take it down. Okay, Kyle thinks

823
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 4: it's too soon for Matt to do this since someone

824
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,240
Speaker 4: we know is bound to see him there. See, Kyle

825
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 4: doesn't actually care that he wants to be on Tinder.

826
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 4: He's just like, dude, that's stupid. People are gonna see

827
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 4: that you're chatting, and according to Kyle, Matt needs to

828
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 4: play up the angle that he's heartbroken and falling out

829
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 4: with Jen.

830
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 3: Lay up the angle. Ah, These conversations are gross.

831
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 4: Kyle has smooth things over with his girlfriend by claiming

832
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 4: he had no idea Matt was cheating. Robert backed him

833
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 4: up on this and expressed that nobody aside from Matt knew.

834
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 4: While I did plan on telling Carly the truth about

835
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 4: what was going on, considering how quickly Matt, Kyle, and

836
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 4: Robert have been moving, I opted against this OPI you're

837
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 4: a coward. Instead, I've told Carly that I also did

838
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 4: not know about Matt's cheating. Coward. Yes, it's a lie,

839
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,879
Speaker 4: but since I was against Matt's cheating, I don't think

840
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 4: it's fair for me to go down with the ship.

841
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 3: Well you should. You should go down with it.

842
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: You should go down with the ship because you set

843
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: it on fire.

844
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 3: Ship exactly. You put a little flame to that chip.

845
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 4: Considering that both Kyle and Robert are getting off relatively

846
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 4: scott free, Apparently I was convincing enough, as Carly told

847
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 4: me that while she herself doesn't think I'm so bad,

848
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 4: Jen will need time to process what went down, so

849
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 4: it's best to give her space.

850
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: Again.

851
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 4: I get it isn't the most appropriate measure, but I

852
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 4: really don't think I deserve to be in the splash zone.

853
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: You deserve to be in the water.

854
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 3: You deserve to be in the tsunami, to be under

855
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 3: the water. You deserve a tsunami to just.

856
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 1: Wipe you away. You over Wow, Bath.

857
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 4: I hope all the comments were just just asserting right now,

858
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 4: the comments weren't eviscerating him, which.

859
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Or maybe he's just not reading them. Yeah,

860
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: maybe he's not ignoring them.

861
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, classic classic op, classic op. Omar has expressed his

862
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 4: strong disappointment in all of us.

863
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 3: There we go Omar set in the bar somewhere, but at.

864
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 4: This stage, his voice has become ambient noise. According to Kyle,

865
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 4: since I'm fortunately visiting my parents this weekend, I get

866
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 4: to be away from the drama and hopefully any potential fallout. Also,

867
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,919
Speaker 4: since it's relatively earlier, we have to wait and see

868
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: if anything else happens. But I pray the worst is over.

869
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,439
Speaker 4: There is a third update.

870
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 3: Another update, Wow, what possibly could be happening?

871
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 4: My dream is that everyone realized that Ope, Kyle and

872
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 4: whatever his other faces, they were all involved, and that everyone.

873
00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 3: Hat were involved, they all participate in covering up these lies.

874
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: You were complicit, You were complicit.

875
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 5: You know, I might think that happened. Might you know

876
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 5: Matt massachuator right, Yeah, Matt might throw everyone under the bus.

877
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: I bet you well. And then yeah, and that's all.

878
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 4: How sweet that would be, How sweet it would be

879
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 4: for Matt to be the one to get all of

880
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 4: them in trouble.

881
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 5: That'd be so poetic. Because we're Scott free, We're Scott three,

882
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 5: We're not in trouble.

883
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 4: It always comes to light. Update three. So there have

884
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 4: been a few developments since my last post. Before you ask, no,

885
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 4: I haven't told Kyle's girlfriend anything for obvious reasons. Yeah,

886
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 4: the obvious reason that you're a coward. Firstly, I don't

887
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 4: want to ruin my housing situation, so I can. It'd

888
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 4: be my word against Kyle's, Matt's and Roberts, so she

889
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 4: probably wouldn't believe what I have to say. Also, I've

890
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 4: started seeing a new girl myself and things are going smoothly.

891
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 4: Snitching on Kyle would probably ruin that as well.

892
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 3: I feel like you deserve it.

893
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 4: Though I asked Omar privately if he was going to

894
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 4: blow the whistle on Kyle, but he did give me

895
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 4: a particularly straightforward answer. Dude, Omar is working in the shadows.

896
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,720
Speaker 4: Omar is going to make it so you're looking around

897
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 4: every quarner else. I love what's gonna happen. I love

898
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 4: it right when he stripes, Omar is there. I love

899
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 4: that Omar has given them the chance to come forward.

900
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 4: He's like, I'm disappointed that you guys haven't told anyone this.

901
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: He gave them the chance, and him take it.

902
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 3: He's going to strike.

903
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, Omar, you're not gonna te anyone, right. I don't know, no, no,

904
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 5: I don't know.

905
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 3: I guess you'll find out.

906
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 4: He's hard to read, so I don't know what I'll do.

907
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 4: Kyle has begged him not to say anything, so we'll

908
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 4: see how that holds. I'm guessing Omar has probably already

909
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 4: told the girl he likes about the entire situation. Of course, yes,

910
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 4: they act like a married couple despite not really dating,

911
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 4: so if he knows, she probably knows as well, which

912
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 4: does put Kyle at some risk of being found out.

913
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: But this is only speculation and not my problem.

914
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 4: It is your problem. Matt's planned to dump Cindy. And

915
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 4: be single by the new year has completely fallen apart.

916
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 4: As you may recall, Cindy's Matt's lab partner, and the

917
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 4: anatomy class they're taking is a full year course. As

918
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 4: Omar so smugly pointed out, Matt wants the anatomy prof

919
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 4: to write him a ref letter eventually, since he has

920
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 4: done prior research with this prof and is doing well

921
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 4: in his class, and if he were to have conflict

922
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 4: with his lab partner that might spoil the letter.

923
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 3: This guy suck. I hate that he's smart too, and

924
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 3: he's winning.

925
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 4: Omar has been throwing this constantly in Matt's face by

926
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 4: saying things like Matt needs to pretend to love Cindy

927
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 4: even though he isn't capable of love, and how he

928
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 4: can't be a gardening tool anymore because it will affect

929
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 4: his academics.

930
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Oh.

931
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,760
Speaker 4: He says all this jokingly, but it is hilarious considering

932
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 4: how worke dot Matt gets. Jen and Carly are doing

933
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 4: all right. I saw them before leaving campus the other

934
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 4: day and we spoke briefly. I've heard that Jen is

935
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 4: starting to reconnect with the Rex, the guy before Matt.

936
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 4: Before you ask she didn't cheat on this guy with Matt.

937
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 4: She got with Matt a few months after she and

938
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 4: the guy ended things. Hopefully she finds happiness there. You

939
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 4: don't care. Since our winter break is started, we'll all

940
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 4: be headed our separate ways for most.

941
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 5: Of the break.

942
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 4: I do plan on hanging out with the guys a

943
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 4: few times, though, for now, as much as I love Tea,

944
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,240
Speaker 4: I need a break from their drama.

945
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 3: You need to get some scruples, my friend, because you

946
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:15,919
Speaker 3: have lost them.

947
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 1: There is a fourth update.

948
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 3: I think OPI needs to put some distance between all

949
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 3: these people. These are not These are not people that

950
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 3: you want to keep around. The problem is that Matt,

951
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 3: I mean OPI is one of these people.

952
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: That's the thing.

953
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 4: He doesn't see any problem with staying friends with them

954
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 4: because he's one.

955
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: He's one of them.

956
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty bad. It's pretty bad. Also, can we

957
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 3: turn on the ac? How are you not hot in

958
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 3: that thing?

959
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 5: It's the question we all ask her Sam, and she

960
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 5: just looks at us like we're weird.

961
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm damn you.

962
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 5: Rain in that, You're like, I'm cold?

963
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 4: I did I was hot when I was running. That

964
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 4: makes you feel better, But it was Wendy Kimberly. Rockwood says,

965
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 4: even if he thinks he can love, he can't. He

966
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 4: needs to stop and get right, be on his own,

967
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 4: keeping his own drama to himself.

968
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 5: Don't worry. Usually those type of people end up alone anyway.

969
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's never going to be happy in any of

970
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 4: his relationships because he doesn't know it to be in

971
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 4: a relationship.

972
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 1: But there's more, let's hit it and a fourth update.

973
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 4: Unsurprisingly, Matt male twenty two has cheated again.

974
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

975
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 3: Man cannot keep it in his pants for a few.

976
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 4: Days on his newest girlfriend, Cindy female twenty one.

977
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

978
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: Which is she so shocked about this?

979
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 4: I use the term girlfriend loosely because realistically, Matt only

980
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 4: stayed with Cindy because he needed a recommendation letter from

981
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 4: a certain prof and didn't want issues in the class

982
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 4: he shared with her. That's not a reason to use

983
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 4: the term girlfriend loosely. I don't care about the reasonings.

984
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 4: If Cindy is his girlfriend, she's his girlfriend. Cindy was

985
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 4: essentially a placeholder.

986
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Also, the language that OPI uses just

987
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,720
Speaker 3: shows how he thinks so bad girl.

988
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 4: And since Matt no longer needs that letter, Lucky him.

989
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 4: He's more or less done with her. He went on

990
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 4: a quite tirade about how annoying and clean she is,

991
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 4: and again mentioned how he still prefers his previous girlfriend,

992
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 4: Jen female twenty one or.

993
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: Her You had Jen, You had Jen.

994
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 4: Matt revealed this information during a completely unrelated conversation to

995
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 4: Me male twenty one and Omar male twenty one last night.

996
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 4: The two of us had no idea this was going on,

997
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 4: as Matt has been more secretive about whom he tells

998
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 4: his relationship info since the last time he cheated. Our

999
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 4: other roommate, Kyle male twenty one, told us that he

1000
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 4: has known about Matt cheating on Cindy for almost two

1001
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 4: weeks now.

1002
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: He and Matt are besties. I'm not sure if.

1003
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,879
Speaker 4: Our other roommate, Robert, who wasn't here last night when

1004
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 4: we were having this chat, knows about Matt cheating. Yet again,

1005
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 4: I didn't bother asking Matt or Kyle if he knew.

1006
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 4: Of course, Cindy has no clue that Matt's been unfaithful,

1007
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 4: nor does Kyle's own girlfriend, Olivia female twenty one, know

1008
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 4: that Kyle's been essentially helping Matt cheat on Cindy. I

1009
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 4: kind of knew Olivia wouldn't know for obvious reasons, but

1010
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 4: I didn't want Kyle to confirm this with me. The

1011
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 4: only reason I got this confirmation was because Omar stupidly asked, Kyle,

1012
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 4: does Olivia know? Realistically, Omar knew dang well that Olivia

1013
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 4: wouldn't know. She didn't know last time Kyle covered for Matt.

1014
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 4: But I guess he wanted to burden us with this

1015
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 4: information for whatever.

1016
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 3: Reason, because he's a good guy.

1017
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: Because he's a good person.

1018
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 3: He's actually the only one with any kind of backbone

1019
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:20,760
Speaker 3: in this entire house.

1020
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: Opie, you are like such a bad person. You're such

1021
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: a bad person, and you're walking around like you have

1022
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: this moral high ground and you don't. You really don't.

1023
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 4: Omar then asked Matt if he was going to break

1024
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 4: up with Cindy, and Matt only responded by saying eventually, yeah. Oh.

1025
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 4: I asked Matt what he meant by this, and he

1026
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 4: clarified that he wanted to be done with Cindy by

1027
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 4: Reading week, about two weeks away. That is Reading week,

1028
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 4: for those wondering. I'm still here for three more months

1029
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 4: until my lease is up. There is a fifth update.

1030
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and anonymous says, Omar, you know what

1031
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 4: you need to do.

1032
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 3: Implode it, implode it, write letters, get evidence.

1033
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: Need to you need a snowed in this.

1034
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 3: You know, you know what you need you know, Like

1035
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 3: when they would old timey like like an old timey

1036
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 3: mob boss would like go to a politician. He was like,

1037
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 3: I saw what you did with the last night And

1038
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 3: there's an envelope and there's a bunch of pictures taken

1039
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 3: by like a private eye of them doing some spicy

1040
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 3: sleep with some lady of the night. Like these pictures

1041
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 3: will go out in every newspaper if you don't do

1042
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 3: what I say. I think Omar needs to do that

1043
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 3: at this point.

1044
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then he has to also release them.

1045
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1046
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: Update five, Hey.

1047
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: John oge host, we're gonna get back to the stories,

1048
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 2: but a quick three minute break of ads from our sponsors.

1049
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 4: Probably last update. The second term UNI is finally starting

1050
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 4: to wrap up. Now. I had a few successful midterms,

1051
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 4: but for the most part, things seem to be calming

1052
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 4: down a bit. I only have about a month and

1053
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 4: a half left on my lease and then I'll be

1054
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 4: able to leave all my roommate drama in the past,

1055
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 4: as this is our last year of undergrad. Just a

1056
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 4: few days ago, Matt told me and the other guys

1057
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 4: that he had finally dumped Cindy. Came bit late, as

1058
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 4: I remember him saying something about being done with her

1059
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 4: by reading week, which ended on February twenty fifth. He

1060
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,720
Speaker 4: admitted that he kept her along partially for his lab class.

1061
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 4: Now only a few more lab sessions remain in the term,

1062
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 4: and most of them are independent work, according to Matt. Supposedly,

1063
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 4: Cindy is distraught, though since she knew about Matt's antics beforehand,

1064
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 4: perhaps she had the foresight to mentally prepare for this outcome.

1065
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 4: At least she doesn't know she was cheated on. Since

1066
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 4: stumping Hetty sucks, he sucks. Since stumping Cindy, Matt has

1067
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 4: started seeing a new girl. So far, he claims to

1068
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 4: like her, but since he's likely going to move the

1069
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 4: summer to attend med school, the relationship already as a

1070
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 4: predetermined expiration date. Omar asked him if the girl knew

1071
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 4: what she was signing up for, and Matt gave him

1072
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 4: a lame answer about.

1073
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: Not knowing the future and how she might prefer this

1074
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 1: sort of arrange.

1075
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 4: Omar was a bit annoyed by this and told Matt

1076
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,240
Speaker 4: that he was behaving like an ale shock.

1077
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that fork found in kitchen.

1078
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 4: I agreed with Omar and told Matt that he was

1079
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 4: probably already lining up potential of fair partners. He did

1080
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 4: and said that if things went well enough, he'd be

1081
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 4: open to trying a long distance relationship.

1082
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 3: Dude, please do not give this man a long.

1083
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: Distance can even handle a short distance relationship?

1084
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 4: Surel that he cheated on it was seven blocks away

1085
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 4: seven minute walk away, which is seven minute walk away.

1086
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 3: Less than that's like what three blocks.

1087
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 4: Assuming he moves out of province. All of us called

1088
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 4: bs on this, even Kyle and Robert. Speaking of Kyle,

1089
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 4: he has still not told Olivia about how he's been

1090
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 4: helping Matt cheat. Olivia is pretty friendly with Omar's so

1091
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 4: called future wife, Sarah, so maybe she tells Olivia.

1092
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1093
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 4: Kyle is worried about this outcome and asked Omar to

1094
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 4: help with damage control if this does happen.

1095
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 5: No.

1096
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,959
Speaker 3: Omar has Oldmar is gonna go wild, Omar is gonna

1097
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 3: go nasty on you.

1098
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 4: Omar has refused and claims he can't lie since he's

1099
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 4: fasting these days. He thinks that Kyle should just tell

1100
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 4: her so that way she'll maybe appreciate the transparency. Robert

1101
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 4: warned Kyle against this and said that it would probably

1102
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 4: just create dramas dress for him. I've been telling my

1103
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 4: own girlfriend some of what's been going on, and she

1104
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 4: has expressed to me several times that she doesn't like

1105
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 4: Matt or Kyle Looel. Between all the papers she writes

1106
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 4: for her courses and prepping for the elsat she'll be

1107
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 4: writing in the late summer, she's got enough to worry about.

1108
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 4: But she did tell me that she'd like me to

1109
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 4: be firmer with Matt, So I've been calling out his

1110
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 4: problematic behavior more often.

1111
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 3: I feel like not enough.

1112
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, He's like, hey, that's not cool, dude. Anyway, let's

1113
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 4: go get drinked. The last thing I'll add is that

1114
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 4: Jen is thankfully in a better place now. Sounds like

1115
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 4: she's tied. Carly told me that Jen started talking with

1116
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 4: a new guy a few weeks ago, so hopefully that

1117
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 4: works out well for Funnily enough, Matt knows this as

1118
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 4: well and seems bothered by it. But there isn't much

1119
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 4: she can do about it, aside from copin. I guess, guys,

1120
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,720
Speaker 4: there's another update. Oh my, this never ends. I really

1121
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 4: needa to end with Omar literally going nuclear. Yeah, I

1122
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,439
Speaker 4: needed to end that way. He has enough evidence, he's

1123
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 4: collected it.

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00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 5: Omar does the Jersey Shore thing what where you probably

1125
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 5: don't know about it, where one of them leaves a

1126
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 5: note in the house and they like tell one of

1127
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 5: the people, Like it was like, Sam, we know that

1128
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 5: your boyfriend cheating on you. Multiple people in the house

1129
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 5: know you. Therefore you should know. That's pretty much the.

1130
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 3: Gist of it.

1131
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 5: And that was like a huge thing.

1132
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 4: That's what Omer's got to do it to do that,

1133
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,720
Speaker 4: He's got to do it. Oh lord, I can apply

1134
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 4: say that. After a pretty chaotic school year, things have

1135
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 4: settled down. We all completed our exams at the end

1136
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 4: of April and our lease ended, So the boys and

1137
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 4: I returned our keys and headed up for a well

1138
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 4: deserved summer vacation.

1139
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:40,760
Speaker 1: You deserve mud.

1140
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 3: You deserve to be jailed in a mud hut.

1141
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: Since then, I've been largely chilling.

1142
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:50,399
Speaker 4: Undergrad is done, allelujah, And since I've been accepted into

1143
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 4: med school, this summer has been the most relaxed one

1144
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 4: I've had since my high school days.

1145
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: Kyle and Matt have also gotten into med school.

1146
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 3: I don't like that.

1147
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 5: Don't like it, you're all.

1148
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 1: I don't like this.

1149
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 3: Oh no, I don't like it.

1150
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 4: And like me, I've been taking things easy. Matt actually

1151
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 4: ended up getting into quite a few offers, so he's

1152
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 4: off to his dream of school in late August. Predictably,

1153
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 4: since then, he's been all over bumble and hinge. He

1154
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 4: claims to have evolved passed tinder, but he's still largely

1155
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 4: up to the same antics shock. He also swears he's

1156
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 4: going to start and stay in a committed relationship once

1157
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,479
Speaker 4: he starts med school. But I'm not going to hold

1158
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 4: my breath.

1159
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 3: No one's holding their breath.

1160
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 1: If you held your breath for that.

1161
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:28,760
Speaker 3: You'd die, It'd pass away.

1162
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,760
Speaker 4: Kyle and I only got one acceptance, but who's counting.

1163
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 4: All three of us are going to different schools. Kyle

1164
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,280
Speaker 4: seems to have come clean to Olivia about his involvement

1165
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 4: with Matt cheating on Jen. Olivia and Sarah are kind

1166
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 4: of besties, and Omar tells Sarah essentially everything, So Kyle

1167
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 4: was worried Sarah would tell Olivia a greatly exaggerated version

1168
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 4: of events, or so he's sad.

1169
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 3: Even the baseline, most boring version of this would show

1170
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 3: how terrible you all are.

1171
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 4: Besides Omar, I learned this all from speaking with Robert

1172
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 4: back in May. Kyle was able to control the narrative,

1173
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 4: and Olivia was upset for a while, but decided to

1174
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 4: look past it since she wanted to maintain that relationship. Also,

1175
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 4: since Kyle's school's out of province, she wanted their transition

1176
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 4: to long distance to be smooth. Oh, they're not lasting. Omar, unfortunately,

1177
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 4: was not accepted this cycle. No, the old good guy

1178
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 4: no sucks. Instead, he's pursuing a course based master's program.

1179
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 4: I'm sure he'll do well since he's a hard worker,

1180
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 4: and I imagine he'll get medadmissions next year. Why did

1181
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 4: Matt get the most options? Why do bad people get

1182
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 4: good things? However, right now he's probably dealing with the

1183
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 4: most drama of any of us, but I'll get into

1184
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 4: that later. Robert is also doing a master's, though it

1185
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 4: is a thesis based one. He likes that sort of thing. Random,

1186
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 4: but Cybok Sado kinds though you can't pay me to

1187
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 4: do something like that. Rumor has it that Sarah is

1188
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,240
Speaker 4: getting very frustrated that Omar hasn't proposed to her or something.

1189
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 4: I didn't think their relationship was that serious, since it's

1190
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 4: not like they really dated or anything. But I digress.

1191
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 4: Omar doesn't want that sort of responsibility right now while

1192
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 4: he's still a student, and this has made Sarah very annoyed.

1193
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 4: I think they're in a relationship, opie, if she wants

1194
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 4: him to propose. I think they're in a relationship.

1195
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 3: Like a committed relationship.

1196
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie.

1197
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 4: This was probably the most interesting thing I've heard in

1198
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 4: the past few years, since Omar is the most reserved

1199
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 4: person I've ever met. I think he just didn't tell

1200
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 4: you that he has a girlfriend there.

1201
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also, I think is a reserved He's just not

1202
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 3: messy like all of you.

1203
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 4: I was curious, so I asked Kyle if he knew anything,

1204
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 4: since Olivia and Sarah are close, and he said that

1205
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 4: it checked out. Cindy has essentially fallen off the face

1206
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 4: of the planet. Some people say she's returning for another year.

1207
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 4: This would explain why nobody saw her at our recent

1208
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 4: graduation ceremony. I do know for Matt that she attempted

1209
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 4: to reach out to him a few times since their breakup,

1210
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 4: but he's ignored all our messages. I kind of feel

1211
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 4: bad for her. Speaking about graduation, it was recent and

1212
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,280
Speaker 4: Matt and Jen actually saw each other face to face

1213
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 4: for the first time in like six months. He said

1214
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,240
Speaker 4: hi to her and she returned his greeting, but didn't

1215
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 4: speak much after that. I honestly have a lot of

1216
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 4: respect for Jen. She handed herself with class and composure

1217
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 4: onlike Cindy, I have no respect for you, OPI. I

1218
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 4: still think Matt is a moron for giving up what

1219
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,919
Speaker 4: was clearly a good thing for someone like Cindy. But yeah,

1220
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 4: that's how things shaped up. I'm glad undergrad is done

1221
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 4: and feel like the whole situation was uncomfortable.

1222
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 1: But it made me more mature.

1223
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 3: No, it didn't.

1224
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 4: That's the end of that story. It did not make

1225
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,959
Speaker 4: you more mature. God, thank god. That's the end of that. Wow,

1226
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 4: you are so mature. You learn nothing that sucked. You

1227
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,359
Speaker 4: learned absolutely zilch.

1228
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 3: For someone who seems so smart. People who are going

1229
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 3: to be doctors, they are so dumb.

1230
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: So so dumb.

1231
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 3: Wow.

1232
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 4: But folks, that is finally the end of that story.

1233
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 3: Planya says, mature, Where.

1234
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 4: Do you see maturity? No, Kim Fine says Op. He's

1235
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 4: talking about Cindy like she's Haley's comment. Some say she's

1236
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 4: returning this year. Durred says, dishonor on Ope, dishonor on

1237
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:56,399
Speaker 4: Op's cow.

1238
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 3: Yep, so true, but that is where that's rients. So

1239
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1240
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