WEBVTT - Whatever, Slutever

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Mila.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy hump Day, Happy hump dayby you guys. It's the

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<v Speaker 2>last week of the May Dick Talks.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you feeling, dear.

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<v Speaker 4>I miss humping. I miss humping a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I've just been a mediator because I've been getting fucked.

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<v Speaker 3>Woll Lisa. I didn't lie about it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't let you, you know, I would put it

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<v Speaker 2>on a blast my favorite pastime. Yeah, it's uh, it's

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<v Speaker 2>been good. It's been great. It's been so cool to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to everybody weekly on the Zoom calls, and.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to miss it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, like, maybe we'll do like monthly check ins,

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<v Speaker 2>not necessarily just for like the Dick Talks, but just

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<v Speaker 2>monthly check ins with our community at Patreon, because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, like, I just I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, now I'm happy that we have like because of

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<v Speaker 3>the Dick Talks.

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<v Speaker 1>We started as slack so we can chat because bitches

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<v Speaker 1>love chatting.

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<v Speaker 3>And now we're over there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just in the conversation, not talking about Dick because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to make everybody all bothered. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in there just checking channels black with multiple channels and Slack.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, the Slack has been really so.

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<v Speaker 2>We just we started a message board is basically through

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<v Speaker 2>Slack and it's a place where all everyone can talk

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<v Speaker 2>like people.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it because there's other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Just starting conversations and like basically moderating conversations.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm connecting. I see people changing.

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<v Speaker 4>I geez.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's that's the whole reason we're here, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's the whole point.

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<v Speaker 2>Is not just to hear us talk shit all day,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, go meet some mamas in your city

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<v Speaker 2>and like, you know, get an advice from other moms

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<v Speaker 2>like that are even more seasoned than us, because you know, truthfully,

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<v Speaker 2>we're new moms essentially, we're new to the game. We're

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<v Speaker 2>only six years in and uh yeah it's been It's

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<v Speaker 2>been pretty cool over there. So but I do miss

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<v Speaker 2>fucking I miss sex. However, I don't think I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>hopping back into the saddle anytime soon.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you miss most?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Sex?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>What part dick in vagina?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, I got it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, what is making you take this past the thirty

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<v Speaker 1>days and take this into the I don't know, is

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<v Speaker 1>it indefinite?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it going to be the thing that makes

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<v Speaker 1>you put the dick in the vagina?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, honestly, because I don't feel compelled to

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<v Speaker 2>have a dick in my vagina. I mean, like because

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<v Speaker 2>I am seeing someone and like we are into we

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<v Speaker 2>have intimacy, you know obviously, like fine, I'll tell I.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't say shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so guys, I didn't break the dick talks. But

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<v Speaker 2>technically I didn't have sex, but I did give someone

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<v Speaker 2>head and it was fine. I was fine with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I shared this in the slack community because that's where

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<v Speaker 2>I tell my business. But here I am talking to

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<v Speaker 2>all seventy thousand of you. I did that, and then

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<v Speaker 2>shortly after that, had an exchange with that person that

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<v Speaker 2>I did not like, and there and started immediately regretting it,

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<v Speaker 2>like immediately, like why did I do that?

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<v Speaker 4>Like why did I do that? Why did I share

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<v Speaker 4>that with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you don't even fucking deserve it, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you don't give me, like you don't really

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<v Speaker 2>give me much anyway, which is probably why I did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I love niggas that like are emotionally unavailable. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was telling Jamila, like this person like when they

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<v Speaker 2>are joyful, it feels like a treat to me, like

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<v Speaker 2>like they're giving me a treat, a fucking puppy or something.

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<v Speaker 2>And my hope is always that, like we'll be able

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<v Speaker 2>to extend the joy like because I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>look he's happy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, Like I knew he had joy in him.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at him, look at him being joyful, and or

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like you've brought it out, like, oh he

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<v Speaker 1>just liked me. Oh yeah, I knew that. I can

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<v Speaker 1>get deeper.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not even about like I mean, part of it

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<v Speaker 2>is about like if you like me, but it's more

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<v Speaker 2>so like it's that fucking savior shit that women that

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<v Speaker 2>we do, like oh my.

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<v Speaker 4>God, are you you are okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow?

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<v Speaker 4>You are happy? Like, oh, look at that smile.

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<v Speaker 3>Told you if you just breathe through it.

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<v Speaker 4>Told you you could be happy because you have no

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<v Speaker 4>reason to not fucking be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I did that and immediately regretted it and like basically

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<v Speaker 2>put me back on the straight and arrow of Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good, I'm really good. I don't have any desire

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<v Speaker 2>to share that to share myself in that way because

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<v Speaker 2>I did not like how it made me feel. I

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<v Speaker 2>did not like how like it left me feeling. And

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<v Speaker 2>honestly the moment that, like, after we did that, the

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<v Speaker 2>next day, I felt crazy. Oh I felt a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like thinking about him more.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just dumb, dumb, dumb dick makes you dumb.

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<v Speaker 4>Dicks are dumb, love.

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<v Speaker 3>Dickney Dick, Dicks are dumb.

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<v Speaker 4>Sled Ever June.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really proud and happy to announce that June. The

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<v Speaker 3>theme of June is.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever, yep, whatever, you heard it right. You heard it

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<v Speaker 1>first May with the Master. What was my masturbation? May?

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<v Speaker 3>Dick talks May, and we're just gonna roll right into

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<v Speaker 3>sledover June.

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<v Speaker 4>We had money March, we had like well miess April

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<v Speaker 4>we had masturbation.

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<v Speaker 3>May, and now slat ever June.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, sled ever June. I feel like this is this

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<v Speaker 4>is gonna be a great month.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I'm gonna be probably not sledding, sledding sledding ever.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like sleddever, Like whatever works for you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to like dive into the dicks, go crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>do it intentionally, if you want to withdraw from the

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<v Speaker 1>dicks do that too, a lot of them. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Eric and I have began reading The Ethical Slut, which

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<v Speaker 1>is now our favorite book. Yes, and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>encourage our community to buy the book right now, go

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<v Speaker 1>on Amazon while you're listening or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not, we're not supposed to support them.

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<v Speaker 1>Right go to your local black bookstore order Ethical Slut

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know if they're going to have it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then join us next month for a book club.

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<v Speaker 3>It's free every Like we're we going to do a

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<v Speaker 3>zoom Yeah, Like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think we're gonna maybe meet like once every two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to take a while to get through it.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll start in July. But the book is life changing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm only like maybe thirty pages in feels like a

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<v Speaker 2>very empowering way to enter into your relationships and be

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<v Speaker 2>able to kind of analyze your relationships and decide what's

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<v Speaker 2>best for you moving forward.

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<v Speaker 1>And also it kind of like releases a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stigma around whatever you think that like, whatever you may

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<v Speaker 1>think that you want is strange and not traditional, just

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<v Speaker 1>releases a lot of stigma between like alternative relationships, platonic love,

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<v Speaker 1>romantic love, love for self. It's just, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>different approach to the everyday monogamy and to self love.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like it's deep, it's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>one and I think that's why it's sled ever June,

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<v Speaker 1>because whatever you want to do is fine with us,

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<v Speaker 1>and I should be fine with you too.

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<v Speaker 4>Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>A shout out for the girl on Tinder who put

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<v Speaker 1>in her bio what.

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<v Speaker 3>Is she right?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, she's like I can touch your buddy, you touch

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<v Speaker 1>mine or a sledover and me and Erica never forgot it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's coined, it's in our vocabulary and else luedever June.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been very hyper focused whatever needs to get done.

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<v Speaker 2>I think not having the distraction of having sex almost

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<v Speaker 2>need to like recalibrate that as well. Okay, so you're

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<v Speaker 2>not doing this, so now falling all the way into

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<v Speaker 2>something else.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just such an extreme person.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm not extremely loving someone, then I'm extremely putting

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<v Speaker 2>everything into like work and what needs to be done.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to like fine the balance.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good way to think of it, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>just pour your energy into one place or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see how I my deep love for love

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<v Speaker 1>makes me like dive headfirst into people, and like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I can be distracting from other things, but like it's

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<v Speaker 1>obviously the point, that's why, that's why I dive in.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been really exploring just my relationships with the people

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<v Speaker 1>why I do things. And I was talking to Smaya

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<v Speaker 1>from Sexual Essentials to shout out to fucking Semaya because

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, she yo yo her.

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<v Speaker 2>So last week we did a zoom call, our weekly

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<v Speaker 2>zoom call for our Dicktoks people.

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<v Speaker 3>Where she led us through masturbation manifestation. Yo. I'm on

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<v Speaker 3>her Patreon because I needed she had.

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<v Speaker 1>She she like played a little a little sample of

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<v Speaker 1>her manifest it can we play that? I wish she

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<v Speaker 1>should send that to us, A little clip of her

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<v Speaker 1>manifestation masturbation and that ship is powerful and sexy and

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<v Speaker 1>the Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was basically like her talking good to you, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's just like.

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<v Speaker 1>You are fucking amazing, You're fucking beautiful, you can do

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<v Speaker 1>anything you fucking wanna do. I'm like, I can what

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Gonna touch my pussy and now let me go work.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 2>I posted the zoom call on our Patreon so if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to go back and basically take the class,

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<v Speaker 2>because she doesn't offer that class on her Patreon anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>It's only she did a special class for us, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was so impactful, so amazing. I've been using manifestation

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<v Speaker 2>masturbation for a while, but I mean just listening to

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<v Speaker 2>her and her perspective on you know, how she incorporates

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<v Speaker 2>it into her life, just gave me more tools.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's just I don't know, it's just amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I rubbed my eye, yeah, and how you can incorporate

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<v Speaker 1>it in a relationship, and like she's just shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to Samia in general for just being so smart and

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<v Speaker 1>open minded. She called me the other day and I

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<v Speaker 1>was with my new boo and she was like, oh wow.

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<v Speaker 3>He looks he looks like sex on the stick. Do

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<v Speaker 3>you need help over there?

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<v Speaker 1>If you need help, I can come out there. Then

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, and then she checked on on me.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, how is it? Do you really like him?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I really do, I really do love him.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I really love that for you. She's like, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, as a polyamorous person, a lot of our

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<v Speaker 1>friends don't take our loves seriously. She's like, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to know I take your love seriously. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know that if you say that you feel that way,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. And I've been I've been a victim of

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<v Speaker 1>my friends not taking my many loves seriously. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll ask me about one boyfriend, but they won't ask

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<v Speaker 1>me about the other boyfriend. And then I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>about my other boyfriend? And she's like, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that I check on you and support

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<v Speaker 1>you with you know, your polyamory. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you are my soul sister, and I love you and

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for being an ethical slut. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>why I need to cultivate my community perfectly, because you

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<v Speaker 1>care about my boyfriends. It's only one right now, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's just nice to be affirmed in your community that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's no way that love should look and

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<v Speaker 1>just exploring deepening our relationships. I really had an epiphany

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<v Speaker 1>this week that was like I was driving and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, huh, you know, like relationships, romantic relationships are

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<v Speaker 1>just like a regular relationship that you extend with sex.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's just like, well they should be.

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<v Speaker 3>They should be.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's like my friend, what a side of sex,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and if you were, like a friend would

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<v Speaker 1>a side of sex with a baby, A friend would

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<v Speaker 1>side of sex with a baby in a house?

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<v Speaker 3>My friend a side of sex? But you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, but people are always like starting at the the sex.

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<v Speaker 3>And then they're like what they're like, like me, love me?

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<v Speaker 3>Do I look good? You like her more? I look

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<v Speaker 3>better than her? You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>But instead it's just like what if we just started

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<v Speaker 1>a friend and then if I want to deepen my

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<v Speaker 1>relationship in certain ways, but then there's like no expectation

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<v Speaker 1>to pretend to be a certain way or to like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I just I think I'm gonna just

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<v Speaker 1>have X.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what the dicktoks has shown me. I mean, I've

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<v Speaker 2>kind of I got a little confused mine. But the one,

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<v Speaker 2>the other one that's exactly what we're doing, is that

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<v Speaker 2>we are really friends. We're not there's no side of

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<v Speaker 2>sex right now, but like we're really friends and I

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<v Speaker 2>really like love him, like I truly love this person,

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<v Speaker 2>and I would be his friend regardless of the sex

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<v Speaker 2>or not.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no like strings attached.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we know the story of boy meets a girl,

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<v Speaker 2>but what about girl meets girl or maybe boy meets

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<v Speaker 2>a girl and then they meet another girl. Dipsy is

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<v Speaker 2>an audio app full of short, sexy stories designed to

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<v Speaker 2>turn you on, and I am fucking loving this app.

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<v Speaker 1>Each Dipsy audio story features characters that feel like real

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna say my favorite characters are Freddie and Damon.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I love a dom and they go there

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<v Speaker 2>exists where they are literally talking nasty.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, sounds like my kind of app.

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<v Speaker 4>That's amazing. I don't even need porn anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I told you I bought my man a razor,

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<v Speaker 1>but this particular razor from Landscape that comes with like

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<v Speaker 1>an exfoliant, a trimmer, and a shaving cream. Mmmm. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was at his house the other day and I

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<v Speaker 1>use it and I was like, damn, I might need

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<v Speaker 1>to take this back.

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<v Speaker 3>It's all a little and cute and gets the crevices perfectly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you know what I heard about the lawnmower

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<v Speaker 4>four point zero.

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<v Speaker 2>It even allows you to customize your trim through additional

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<v Speaker 2>guard length.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and it has a little light at the end.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you see that blue led light that it hasn't be?

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<v Speaker 4>And so you can really get into.

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<v Speaker 2>All the precisions and you can really see what is

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<v Speaker 2>going on down there.

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<v Speaker 1>I even got sexy and I did it for him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just trim those balls a little, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>guys forget to do that. So honestly, if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are looking for a gift for your man for Father's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>manscaped is where it's at.

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<v Speaker 4>Ladies, This is the perfect gift.

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<v Speaker 2>shipping at manscaped dot com and use code GMBC.

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<v Speaker 4>To that to that part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But even with that said, like I'm not really ready

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<v Speaker 2>to give the sex the side of sex even past

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<v Speaker 2>this month.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>That side of sex gets pretty confusing.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck, good good luck to all your people having

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<v Speaker 2>sex out there whatever sphere, because sleddin is confusing.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what sledding does get confusing. Sledding is

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<v Speaker 1>a very confusing place. So I'm seeing someone who's like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just call him religion.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I say. You did ever name your bay.

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<v Speaker 2>You made me name all my bays, and you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even name your bae.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like religious base. He's moving out of that. He's

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<v Speaker 1>like former religious base. So I thinks he has some

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<v Speaker 1>like ideas he needs to break out of. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>bitch is a professional break intig out of an old

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<v Speaker 1>way of thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>Come here, I may help you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me not, let me open up the freaky welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the open mindedness of things. There are parts of

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<v Speaker 1>me that if I have a data guy who's like

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<v Speaker 1>judgy or because generally I did guys, or a judgy

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm kind of wild a traditional label, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to make you like me. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to have to. I don't I'm just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is it. If you don't like it, cool, But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also thinking about compromise and like the purpose of

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<v Speaker 1>friendships and what am I supposed to learn here and

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<v Speaker 1>if it's worth it?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you honor me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I trust you? I don't really care if you

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with anyone else. Honestly, do you like me? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you trust me? Do I trust you? I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be less like jealous and crazy because you know I

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<v Speaker 1>have that in me too, So ethical slut.

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<v Speaker 3>Has just helped me in many ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Just reala is jealousy and you know, just be friends

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<v Speaker 1>because like if you when you get niggas, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get jealous.

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<v Speaker 3>I just get their merch.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't shut the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 3>All I've told Erica kept like bring every week. She's

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<v Speaker 3>bringing me like new T shirts and sweatsuits. I'm like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>all your niggas have merch. You got all the cool

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<v Speaker 3>niggas they come at merch. Keep at small date fashion

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<v Speaker 3>and bitch, only dates fashion niggas that come with merch.

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<v Speaker 1>If your nigga don't got no merch, she not a

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<v Speaker 1>chance try.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't start a line nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Start a light on the side.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you do during the day, but

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you have a T shirt light on the side,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope it's cool because if not, Eric isn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Plug me with that T shirt. We need we need

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<v Speaker 4>a new brint.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, every nigga has a merch and everyone we're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh, well he has a new printer.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, well, get it from him. He has a

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<v Speaker 3>new tag guy, We'll get it. So all of her

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<v Speaker 3>niggas are sourcing our.

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<v Speaker 4>And it looks great.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut out shout out to my soul sister wife because

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<v Speaker 1>we get all the merch.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't lose over here.

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<v Speaker 4>What's in the cards for us? I was going to say,

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<v Speaker 4>what's in the cars? Let's pull a card?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see, we're doing a virtual card today because

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<v Speaker 1>we're in the stew We're at lock Create Space right

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<v Speaker 1>now in Englewood.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, if you guys are interested in podcasting, you're

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<v Speaker 2>coming to LA. You need to shoot some content, need

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<v Speaker 2>to record. Make sure you check out lock Create Space.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll leave the info in this episode description, but they

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<v Speaker 2>got it all here. That's why our sound sounds good.

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<v Speaker 1>I want an app that pulls three Okay, whatever, let

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<v Speaker 1>me just get the reading.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>The Tower Revelation Sudden Change Awakening.

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<v Speaker 1>Financially speaking, the Tower warns to you to be careful

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<v Speaker 1>with money. Okay, yes, avoid risky investments.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I tell me WoT that contract?

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<v Speaker 4>So we shouldn't putll our money in bitcoin?

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<v Speaker 3>The fuck that was our plan.

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<v Speaker 1>There may be an unexpected upheaval coming in financial terms,

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<v Speaker 1>so if you haven't put any money aside for a

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<v Speaker 1>rainy day, you'd better do so quickly. This is not

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<v Speaker 1>for us, Satan, you're confused, I rebuke you.

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<v Speaker 3>Try again. I don't know who this is for, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's just.

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<v Speaker 4>Saying we need to be mindful with our money.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, and save it. Okay, that's true. We knew that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're cheap best bitches anyway. We're scared. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>pay ourselves. We've been doing this five years. You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm broke. I'm so broke, Like should we? I don't know?

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<v Speaker 3>Pay that shelves.

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<v Speaker 2>Put it all back in merch, put it all back

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone else except us.

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<v Speaker 3>One day we'll get there. Okay, there's another one. This

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<v Speaker 3>one's upside.

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<v Speaker 4>We're done with that. You're just done I mean, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We got it and put some money for a morny

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<v Speaker 1>day and not. I feel like maybe it's about that

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<v Speaker 1>contract avoid risky investments.

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<v Speaker 4>It's already signed. We signed it.

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<v Speaker 5>We know.

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<v Speaker 3>Not that. Not that one.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh the other contract?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we don't like business woman. So many contracts.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh the other one, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean the third one.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's a contracts. Get your pen out. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The other one is the magician, but it's upside down.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like the I don't like that latent talent, skill, adaptation, manipulation.

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<v Speaker 1>The magician Tara will be Verse suggests that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be afraid of the risks involved in giving

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<v Speaker 1>a new venture ago. You should just use the skills

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<v Speaker 1>and abilities you have to make the best of the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities available to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, shit, now I'm confused. Maybe the contract. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Damn. You don't have to be afraid

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<v Speaker 3>of the risk involved in giving a new adventure a go.

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<v Speaker 3>You should just use the skills and abilities you have

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<v Speaker 3>to make the best of the opportunities available to you. Whispering,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not I had to rethinking, you know what? Shout

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<v Speaker 3>out to me. Our producer because.

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<v Speaker 1>She sent me this article about like, if you have ADHD,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably think like this, and it's like I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do laundry. It's like, fuck, I don't have any detergent.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I pay the bill as a high the water hot?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>Did I slippers? I'm like, oh my god, that's really

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<v Speaker 3>how I saying.

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<v Speaker 1>And then to re reading this in my head but

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<v Speaker 1>out loud while podcasting, I'm like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, people are listening. Hello, Okay, I'm back.

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<v Speaker 1>But all that to say I might have ADHD. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you shout out to me for pointing it out.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we all do the food. I blame blamed American.

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<v Speaker 1>For the anxiety and the ADHD. It's true they're against us.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know about the contracts. I don't know about

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<v Speaker 2>outside down magician, but I do have an affirmation.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it?

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<v Speaker 4>The day day's affirmation is fuck niggas, get money.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously we're not going to say that anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm back to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well I guess I should join you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in love, though, love niggas get money.

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<v Speaker 4>Fuck niggas get money. You know which? Everyone works for you?

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<v Speaker 2>You whatever, Everyone speaks to your heart and your current

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<v Speaker 2>state do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I don't hate Nix. I love Nix. I really do.

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<v Speaker 3>Black love, I have love ill love.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually really focusing on Actually, you know what, So

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<v Speaker 2>we a lot last night. I was listening to the

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<v Speaker 2>dipsy app and and uh.

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<v Speaker 4>They what was the one I posted? I posted one.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it was some something, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>like manifesting after I couldn't figure out what I wanted

0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:27.479
<v Speaker 2>to manifest.

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<v Speaker 4>I kept like going back and forth in my head.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh, so should I do this? I

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<v Speaker 4>should think about Jamila and like what we're doing. Or

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<v Speaker 4>should I like just a lesbian for my future man.

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<v Speaker 2>Or should I like just like think about Dick and

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<v Speaker 2>just like enjoy them not stop trying to manifest a

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<v Speaker 2>whole fucking time. But then I started thinking about my partner,

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<v Speaker 2>like my future partner, and I was like it was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of hard because like I was trying to like

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<v Speaker 2>picture what he looked like and.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't focus.

0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:50.800
<v Speaker 2>I think it's a qualities, you know, I like bald,

0:21:50.880 --> 0:21:53.120
<v Speaker 2>dark man, so I was just like make him all

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<v Speaker 2>he's dark and he's bearded.

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<v Speaker 3>He has no face.

0:21:57.600 --> 0:21:59.359
<v Speaker 2>But but and then the guy who was talking, so

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<v Speaker 2>Dipsy is the erotic app that I love you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>and the guy that was talking like he's oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>his name's Freddy, which is his name is the voice

0:22:08.720 --> 0:22:10.960
<v Speaker 2>on the app is called Freddy because they have different characters,

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<v Speaker 2>and Freddy is the ship.

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<v Speaker 4>Because Freddy's a dom and he's nasty.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, he's a nasty mount. Nasty, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>love a nasty fucking mount.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, then go on Dipsy and listen to Freddy.

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<v Speaker 3>I write that down.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was he had he had what's her fucking name,

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<v Speaker 2>Lisa in the dungeon, So you know, I was like

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<v Speaker 2>fulfilling my like my dungeon dom dreams through Freddy and

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<v Speaker 2>thinking that Freddy, which this is all fucked up because

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<v Speaker 2>Freddy's my baby dock.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you just call him a different name.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a fucking name. And Freddie he called.

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<v Speaker 2>Something else that's using him to manifest my partner. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about him, and I was thinking like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is how my partner would talk to me. And

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<v Speaker 2>he would tell me like he would tell me.

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<v Speaker 4>The fuck down, shut the fuck up. And then I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, what does he look like?

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<v Speaker 2>And then and and I kept like envisioning him and

0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:02.240
<v Speaker 2>he wasn't that cute, because you know, I don't want to.

0:23:02.200 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 4>Like cute niggas that much.

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<v Speaker 3>You love but not cute nigga no, because I don't know, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is they can get the

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<v Speaker 3>trustworthy they're not, they're not.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't matter if you're cute or attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not just it's not fuck niggers, it's just

0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:17.840
<v Speaker 2>fuck fuck niggers, fuck fuck niggers. I'm not just talking

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<v Speaker 2>about men, you guys. I'm talking about women because there's

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<v Speaker 2>some trash ass women out here too.

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<v Speaker 4>Luckily I don't know those women.

0:23:23.200 --> 0:23:25.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know her because I have manifested an amazing

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<v Speaker 2>group of women in my life that I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>have issues with.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually don't really even encounter weird women in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>like I have really great luck.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's because I don't say fuck bitches a lot.

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Don't invite fuck people into your life and then when

0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:42.080
<v Speaker 1>they do fuck shit, be like fuck people. You know

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:44.360
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. You gotta be like intentional about who

0:23:44.400 --> 0:23:47.399
<v Speaker 1>you choose. You don't want fuck results, get good people.

0:23:47.480 --> 0:23:50.360
<v Speaker 4>So anyway, he's on the way. Freddy's on the way,

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<v Speaker 4>my new Freddie.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you stop? You're confusing me. I'm like, why is

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<v Speaker 3>it coming?

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<v Speaker 4>Act on the way?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've been I've been masturbating or in my case,

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<v Speaker 1>having sex, because you guys know, I masturbate very little

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<v Speaker 1>about like the house that I'm gonna be getting fucked in,

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<v Speaker 1>and like my future house in the view and just

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<v Speaker 1>like waking up naked and overlooking the city and like

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<v Speaker 1>pressing a button and my Florida ceiling door.

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<v Speaker 3>Is just open, like get me some orange juice, and

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<v Speaker 3>then he just comes, yes, fresh, squeezed and all. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's really getting me. It's really getting me there.

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<v Speaker 2>I've shared this that like I usually usually starts sexual

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<v Speaker 2>when i'm masturbating, and then it shifts into like whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it is that I'm manifesting. And so in my in

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<v Speaker 2>my manifestation, it was like I was having sex with

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<v Speaker 2>my my partner, whoever the fuck it was, but whoever

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<v Speaker 2>I was fantasizing about that time. And then I got

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<v Speaker 2>off of him and I went into my bathroom. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I went in my bathroom and it was this

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful bathroom and it had like this huge bathtub, and

0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:48.919
<v Speaker 2>then it opened up to another door, and then suddenly

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<v Speaker 2>I was walking through my beautiful home and it had

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<v Speaker 2>like my beautiful, spacious open kitchen with Florida ceiling windows

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<v Speaker 2>to my backyard with my view of the ocean.

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<v Speaker 4>And then that so like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was already like built up, and I was already like

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<v Speaker 2>on edging essentially, and then I started thinking of all

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<v Speaker 2>these different things and.

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<v Speaker 4>That eventually I came and then it was beautiful, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Great, Yeah, that's beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. I'm sorry.

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I was still thinking about the dungeon and I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 1>what is the name of somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>Told a nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>My nigga told me recently to worship his dick and

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<v Speaker 1>pray to it while we were having sex, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was into it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, I will do that, amen.

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<v Speaker 4>Not amen.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm a sub. I'm a swoitch, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a sub.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a voyeur.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you like to watch or be watched?

0:25:40.240 --> 0:25:44.160
<v Speaker 4>I want to watch. I'm definitely. Oh wow, someone submitted

0:25:44.160 --> 0:25:47.040
<v Speaker 4>a horry and slack. Wow. This is long Jesus Christ

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<v Speaker 4>Secret rooms three.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what the dipsy and it's Carla and Freddy meet

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<v Speaker 2>up regularly, but how we actually?

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<v Speaker 4>Can I just play this real quick because I oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god, I'm playing this.

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<v Speaker 5>There's no relaxing yet. You're not going to get hold

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<v Speaker 5>of me just yet. I'm waiting to you, begging for it.

0:26:10.359 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 5>Do you candle it? I'm gonna reach you around, got

0:26:14.840 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 5>your pussy here like this. I'm not gonna go to

0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:25.120
<v Speaker 5>your favorite party just yet. Nah, I'm going to trace

0:26:25.160 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 5>you around, eatly all circle, tiss on the edge of it,

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<v Speaker 5>teazing you, mm hmm, a little water streaming down ver

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<v Speaker 5>you other part of you.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I like it. Think, I think I'm man.

0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:50.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's Damon.

0:26:50.320 --> 0:26:52.440
<v Speaker 3>You know I love a dirty, dirty mouse.

0:26:52.480 --> 0:26:54.280
<v Speaker 4>So that Freddy's even dirtier than Damon.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm looking I'm looking forward to getting over there

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<v Speaker 1>to the shower.

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<v Speaker 4>Your naga comes to pick you up right now?

0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:02.920
<v Speaker 3>You just turn it on?

0:27:03.119 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I like, what the fuck?

0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine going to pick up your child from

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:11.600
<v Speaker 1>school and that ship place?

0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 2>Actually I did, Actually we got when I got in

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:16.840
<v Speaker 2>the car this morning. Oh no, when I got in

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:20.440
<v Speaker 2>the car this morning, my Bluetooth connected and said dipsy

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:24.000
<v Speaker 2>on like the screen and it's like this voice came

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<v Speaker 2>on and I immediately was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh no, mama, what's that.

0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:33.600
<v Speaker 4>Be careful after you're done, please close out the app.

0:27:34.080 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 1>Everything's better than opening your computer every day and seeing

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>your plenty of porns. You're not gonna you need to

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:43.679
<v Speaker 1>clear your browser, bitch, I know. I'm sorry, bitch, you

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 1>clear your browser.

0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:46.920
<v Speaker 4>I don't watch porn anymore though. I'm done. I'm retired.

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:48.200
<v Speaker 3>You're elevated.

0:27:48.440 --> 0:27:51.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm elevated. I'm much more into audio porn than visual porn.

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:53.120
<v Speaker 4>I can create my own porn in my head.

0:27:53.440 --> 0:27:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh, May's asking me on text message if someone since

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<v Speaker 1>I don't masturbate, am I going to start? Yes, yes

0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:01.520
<v Speaker 1>i am. I'm going to get to it. I'm going

0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 1>to take the time. I don't believe you, I am.

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 3>I've been like doing mutual masturbation too.

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:07.159
<v Speaker 4>That's not masturbation.

0:28:07.520 --> 0:28:10.040
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm masturbating myself while he's masturbating himself.

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:11.960
<v Speaker 4>Oh like you guys are just like sitting next to

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:16.000
<v Speaker 4>each other. Masterb huh. But then, but that's still like,

0:28:16.680 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 4>that's still in interactive.

0:28:18.800 --> 0:28:21.480
<v Speaker 2>No, it's still depending you're turned on because oh okay,

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 2>it's happening.

0:28:22.040 --> 0:28:23.159
<v Speaker 4>It's not really about you.

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, when we go on these trips that were

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:30.320
<v Speaker 1>going on with no amends, I will intentionally do some

0:28:30.480 --> 0:28:34.000
<v Speaker 1>more masturbation. May this is specifically for you, since you

0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:36.600
<v Speaker 1>were very curious about how I'm going to step my

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 1>game up. I'm working on I'm going to be better

0:28:38.320 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 1>this summer. I feel like I'm going to do some

0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:45.000
<v Speaker 1>intentional masturbation work and get out of my funk and

0:28:45.160 --> 0:28:47.840
<v Speaker 1>just stop fucking people to masturbate. That's essentially that's what

0:28:47.880 --> 0:28:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I've been doing, using people to masturbate, which is not cool.

0:28:52.800 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 3>It's not nice. I could be a bit. I'm better

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 3>than that. I'm not toxic.

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I swear to God, I do love people genuinely too much.

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Those that have joined me on this journey of you know,

0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:08.760
<v Speaker 2>choosing yourself for the next thirty one or for the

0:29:08.760 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 2>past thirty one days or however many days that it

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:14.120
<v Speaker 2>has been enlightening and that you know, you've you know,

0:29:14.240 --> 0:29:17.959
<v Speaker 2>unpacked some things and learned some things. If you're continuing

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 2>the journey, that's amazing, congratulations. And if not, then that's amazing, congratulations.

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:24.719
<v Speaker 4>You did it.

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 2>And if you fucked up like me, like you know,

0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 2>I did the last week, because what the fuck?

0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:31.600
<v Speaker 1>You know what as I I don't even really think

0:29:31.600 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 1>you fucked up, but I will dig any your mouth.

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:34.720
<v Speaker 3>It's not really a full sex.

0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Situation sex, but it is at least it's still penetration,

0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 2>penetrating your mouth.

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know penetrating your mouth counts as penetration. Love never,

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I've never counted that as penetration.

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 2>I was just trying to abstain from all sexual, like

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 2>anything sexual in that way. Like I've been making out,

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 2>We've been doing heavy petting, but like there's been no.

0:29:53.440 --> 0:29:55.040
<v Speaker 3>No I feel you. I understand. I'm just trying to

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:56.800
<v Speaker 3>make you feel better. Thanks, You're welcome.

0:29:56.880 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 2>It's fine, But congratulations, and you know, if you haven't,

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 2>like you said, join our our slack community.

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:05.720
<v Speaker 4>We're having a lot of conversations over there.

0:30:06.000 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to keep the Dicktalks channel going so we

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.120
<v Speaker 2>can check in with one another, because I'm pretty sure

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:13.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to keep it going until further notice, maybe

0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 2>until my husband appears, so I might be solibate for

0:30:17.120 --> 0:30:18.760
<v Speaker 2>like three years, because apparently I'm not.

0:30:18.680 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 4>Going to oh, actually maybe it's next year.

0:30:20.360 --> 0:30:21.920
<v Speaker 2>Josh told me, I'm not going to meet my partner

0:30:22.000 --> 0:30:24.000
<v Speaker 2>until like two thousand, the end of twenty twenty two.

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:28.200
<v Speaker 3>Juju, Well no, He's like, well, can you fucking give

0:30:28.240 --> 0:30:29.920
<v Speaker 3>me some timeframes?

0:30:30.040 --> 0:30:30.360
<v Speaker 1>It'suck.

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:31.840
<v Speaker 4>I said, you're in love, what are you talking about?

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm gettet married and my love

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:36.720
<v Speaker 1>right now, we're trying to figure out the contract. It's

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 1>we're having a hard time coming to an agreement, so

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:42.560
<v Speaker 1>we're just playing it by ear because we want different things.

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 3>I think, got it.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever you choose, we love you. I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>And join Patreon to join the slack community to talk

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:55.720
<v Speaker 1>to us, and also welcome to whatever jud this is.

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<v Speaker 4>Sandio E Solo the lad the last of three s

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<v Speaker 4>Comboby Lamoiselle runs

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<v Speaker 5>And m HM.