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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mila.

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Speaker 2: Happy hump Day, Happy hump dayby you guys. It's the

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Speaker 2: last week of the May Dick Talks.

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Speaker 3: How are you feeling, dear.

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Speaker 4: I miss humping. I miss humping a lot.

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Speaker 1: I've just been a mediator because I've been getting fucked.

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Speaker 3: Woll Lisa. I didn't lie about it.

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Speaker 4: No, we didn't.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't let you, you know, I would put it

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Speaker 2: on a blast my favorite pastime. Yeah, it's uh, it's

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Speaker 2: been good. It's been great. It's been so cool to

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Speaker 2: talk to everybody weekly on the Zoom calls, and.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to miss it.

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Speaker 2: I think, like, maybe we'll do like monthly check ins,

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Speaker 2: not necessarily just for like the Dick Talks, but just

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Speaker 2: monthly check ins with our community at Patreon, because I

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Speaker 2: don't know, like, I just I love you guys.

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Speaker 3: Well, now I'm happy that we have like because of

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Speaker 3: the Dick Talks.

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Speaker 1: We started as slack so we can chat because bitches

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Speaker 1: love chatting.

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Speaker 3: And now we're over there.

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Speaker 1: I'm just in the conversation, not talking about Dick because

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Speaker 1: I don't want to make everybody all bothered. But I'm

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Speaker 1: in there just checking channels black with multiple channels and Slack.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, the Slack has been really so.

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Speaker 2: We just we started a message board is basically through

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Speaker 2: Slack and it's a place where all everyone can talk

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Speaker 2: like people.

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Speaker 4: I love it because there's other people.

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Speaker 2: Just starting conversations and like basically moderating conversations.

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Speaker 3: I'm connecting. I see people changing.

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Speaker 4: I geez.

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Speaker 3: And that's that's the whole reason we're here, guys.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the whole point.

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Speaker 2: Is not just to hear us talk shit all day,

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Speaker 2: but you know, go meet some mamas in your city

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Speaker 2: and like, you know, get an advice from other moms

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Speaker 2: like that are even more seasoned than us, because you know, truthfully,

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Speaker 2: we're new moms essentially, we're new to the game. We're

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Speaker 2: only six years in and uh yeah it's been It's

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Speaker 2: been pretty cool over there. So but I do miss

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Speaker 2: fucking I miss sex. However, I don't think I'm like

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Speaker 2: hopping back into the saddle anytime soon.

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Speaker 3: What do you miss most?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Sex?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 4: What part dick in vagina?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I got it?

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Speaker 1: Like, what is making you take this past the thirty

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Speaker 1: days and take this into the I don't know, is

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Speaker 1: it indefinite?

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Speaker 3: How are you feeling?

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Speaker 1: What is it going to be the thing that makes

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Speaker 1: you put the dick in the vagina?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, honestly, because I don't feel compelled to

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Speaker 2: have a dick in my vagina. I mean, like because

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Speaker 2: I am seeing someone and like we are into we

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Speaker 2: have intimacy, you know obviously, like fine, I'll tell I.

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Speaker 3: Didn't say shit.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so guys, I didn't break the dick talks. But

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Speaker 2: technically I didn't have sex, but I did give someone

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Speaker 2: head and it was fine. I was fine with it.

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Speaker 2: I shared this in the slack community because that's where

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Speaker 2: I tell my business. But here I am talking to

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Speaker 2: all seventy thousand of you. I did that, and then

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Speaker 2: shortly after that, had an exchange with that person that

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Speaker 2: I did not like, and there and started immediately regretting it,

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Speaker 2: like immediately, like why did I do that?

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Speaker 4: Like why did I do that? Why did I share

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Speaker 4: that with you?

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Speaker 2: Like you don't even fucking deserve it, you know, and

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Speaker 2: it's like you don't give me, like you don't really

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Speaker 2: give me much anyway, which is probably why I did it.

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Speaker 2: Because I love niggas that like are emotionally unavailable. And

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Speaker 2: I was telling Jamila, like this person like when they

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Speaker 2: are joyful, it feels like a treat to me, like

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Speaker 2: like they're giving me a treat, a fucking puppy or something.

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Speaker 2: And my hope is always that, like we'll be able

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Speaker 2: to extend the joy like because I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Like I knew he had joy in him.

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Speaker 1: Look at him, look at him being joyful, and or

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Speaker 1: it feels like you've brought it out, like, oh he

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Speaker 1: just liked me. Oh yeah, I knew that. I can

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Speaker 1: get deeper.

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Speaker 2: It's not even about like I mean, part of it

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Speaker 2: is about like if you like me, but it's more

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Speaker 2: so like it's that fucking savior shit that women that

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Speaker 2: we do, like oh my.

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Speaker 4: God, are you you are okay?

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Speaker 5: Wow?

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Speaker 4: You are happy? Like, oh, look at that smile.

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Speaker 3: Told you if you just breathe through it.

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Speaker 4: Told you you could be happy because you have no

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Speaker 4: reason to not fucking be happy.

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Speaker 2: I did that and immediately regretted it and like basically

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Speaker 2: put me back on the straight and arrow of Yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm really good. I don't have any desire

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Speaker 2: to share that to share myself in that way because

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Speaker 2: I did not like how it made me feel. I

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Speaker 2: did not like how like it left me feeling. And

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Speaker 2: honestly the moment that, like, after we did that, the

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Speaker 2: next day, I felt crazy. Oh I felt a little crazy.

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Speaker 2: I was like thinking about him more.

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Speaker 3: It was just dumb, dumb, dumb dick makes you dumb.

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Speaker 4: Dicks are dumb, love.

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Speaker 3: Dickney Dick, Dicks are dumb.

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Speaker 4: Sled Ever June.

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Speaker 3: I'm really proud and happy to announce that June. The

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Speaker 3: theme of June is.

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Speaker 1: Whatever, yep, whatever, you heard it right. You heard it

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Speaker 1: first May with the Master. What was my masturbation? May?

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Speaker 3: Dick talks May, and we're just gonna roll right into

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Speaker 3: sledover June.

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Speaker 4: We had money March, we had like well miess April

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Speaker 4: we had masturbation.

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Speaker 3: May, and now slat ever June.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sled ever June. I feel like this is this

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Speaker 4: is gonna be a great month.

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm gonna be probably not sledding, sledding sledding ever.

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Speaker 3: It's just like sleddever, Like whatever works for you.

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Speaker 1: If you want to like dive into the dicks, go crazy,

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Speaker 1: do it intentionally, if you want to withdraw from the

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Speaker 1: dicks do that too, a lot of them. You know,

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Speaker 1: Eric and I have began reading The Ethical Slut, which

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Speaker 1: is now our favorite book. Yes, and we're going to

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Speaker 1: encourage our community to buy the book right now, go

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Speaker 1: on Amazon while you're listening or whatever.

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Speaker 3: No, not, we're not supposed to support them.

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Speaker 1: Right go to your local black bookstore order Ethical Slut

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Speaker 1: because I don't know if they're going to have it,

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Speaker 1: and then join us next month for a book club.

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Speaker 3: It's free every Like we're we going to do a

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Speaker 3: zoom Yeah, Like I.

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Speaker 2: Think we're gonna maybe meet like once every two weeks.

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Speaker 2: It's going to take a while to get through it.

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Speaker 2: We'll start in July. But the book is life changing.

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Speaker 2: I'm only like maybe thirty pages in feels like a

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Speaker 2: very empowering way to enter into your relationships and be

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Speaker 2: able to kind of analyze your relationships and decide what's

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Speaker 2: best for you moving forward.

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Speaker 1: And also it kind of like releases a lot of

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Speaker 1: stigma around whatever you think that like, whatever you may

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Speaker 1: think that you want is strange and not traditional, just

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Speaker 1: releases a lot of stigma between like alternative relationships, platonic love,

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Speaker 1: romantic love, love for self. It's just, you know, a

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Speaker 1: different approach to the everyday monogamy and to self love.

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Speaker 1: I think it's like it's deep, it's a really good

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Speaker 1: one and I think that's why it's sled ever June,

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Speaker 1: because whatever you want to do is fine with us,

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Speaker 1: and I should be fine with you too.

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Speaker 4: Amen.

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Speaker 1: A shout out for the girl on Tinder who put

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Speaker 1: in her bio what.

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Speaker 3: Is she right?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Oh, she's like I can touch your buddy, you touch

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Speaker 1: mine or a sledover and me and Erica never forgot it.

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Speaker 1: It's coined, it's in our vocabulary and else luedever June.

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: I've been very hyper focused whatever needs to get done.

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Speaker 2: I think not having the distraction of having sex almost

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Speaker 2: need to like recalibrate that as well. Okay, so you're

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Speaker 4: I'm just such an extreme person.

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Speaker 2: If I'm not extremely loving someone, then I'm extremely putting

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Speaker 2: everything into like work and what needs to be done.

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Speaker 4: I have to like fine the balance.

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Speaker 1: That's a good way to think of it, Like you

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Speaker 1: I could see how I my deep love for love

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Speaker 1: I can be distracting from other things, but like it's

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Speaker 1: I've been really exploring just my relationships with the people

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Speaker 1: why I do things. And I was talking to Smaya

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Speaker 1: from Sexual Essentials to shout out to fucking Semaya because

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Speaker 2: So last week we did a zoom call, our weekly

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Speaker 2: zoom call for our Dicktoks people.

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Speaker 3: Where she led us through masturbation manifestation. Yo. I'm on

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Speaker 3: her Patreon because I needed she had.

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Speaker 1: She she like played a little a little sample of

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Speaker 1: her manifest it can we play that? I wish she

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Speaker 1: should send that to us, A little clip of her

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Speaker 1: manifestation masturbation and that ship is powerful and sexy and

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Speaker 2: I was basically like her talking good to you, and

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Speaker 2: it's it's just like.

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Speaker 1: You are fucking amazing, You're fucking beautiful, you can do

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Speaker 1: anything you fucking wanna do. I'm like, I can what

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Speaker 1: what I'm.

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Speaker 3: Gonna touch my pussy and now let me go work.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm confused.

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Speaker 2: I posted the zoom call on our Patreon so if

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Speaker 2: because she doesn't offer that class on her Patreon anymore.

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Speaker 2: It's only she did a special class for us, and

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Speaker 2: it was so impactful, so amazing. I've been using manifestation

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Speaker 2: masturbation for a while, but I mean just listening to

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Speaker 4: So it's just I don't know, it's just amazing.

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Speaker 1: I rubbed my eye, yeah, and how you can incorporate

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Speaker 1: it in a relationship, and like she's just shout out

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Speaker 1: to Samia in general for just being so smart and

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Speaker 1: open minded. She called me the other day and I

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Speaker 1: was with my new boo and she was like, oh wow.

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Speaker 3: He looks he looks like sex on the stick. Do

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Speaker 1: If you need help, I can come out there. Then

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Speaker 1: She's like, how is it? Do you really like him?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I really do, I really do love him.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I really love that for you. She's like, listen,

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Speaker 1: Like it's like my friend, what a side of sex,

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Speaker 1: But instead it's just like what if we just started

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Speaker 4: There's no like strings attached.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we know the story of boy meets a girl,

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Speaker 2: but what about girl meets girl or maybe boy meets

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Speaker 2: Good luck, good good luck to all your people having

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Speaker 1: But you know what sledding does get confusing. Sledding is

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Speaker 4: That's what I say. You did ever name your bay.

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Speaker 3: Come here, I may help you.

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Speaker 1: Let me not, let me open up the freaky welcome

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Speaker 3: Do you honor me?

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Speaker 1: Do I trust you? I don't really care if you

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Speaker 3: Has just helped me in many ways.

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Speaker 1: Just reala is jealousy and you know, just be friends

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Speaker 3: I just get their merch.

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Speaker 4: You don't shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 3: All I've told Erica kept like bring every week. She's

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Speaker 3: niggas they come at merch. Keep at small date fashion

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Speaker 3: and bitch, only dates fashion niggas that come with merch.

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Speaker 4: I can't start a line nigga.

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Speaker 3: Start a light on the side.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you do during the day, but

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Speaker 4: Plug me with that T shirt. We need we need

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Speaker 1: Wait, every nigga has a merch and everyone we're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: new tag guy, We'll get it. So all of her

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Speaker 4: And it looks great.

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Speaker 1: Shut out shout out to my soul sister wife because

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Speaker 4: What's in the cards for us? I was going to say,

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Speaker 4: what's in the cars? Let's pull a card?

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's see, we're doing a virtual card today because

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Speaker 2: I'll leave the info in this episode description, but they

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Speaker 1: I want an app that pulls three Okay, whatever, let

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Speaker 1: me just get the reading.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: The Tower Revelation Sudden Change Awakening.

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Speaker 1: Financially speaking, the Tower warns to you to be careful

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I tell me WoT that contract?

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Speaker 4: So we shouldn't putll our money in bitcoin?

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Speaker 3: The fuck that was our plan.

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Speaker 1: There may be an unexpected upheaval coming in financial terms,

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Speaker 1: for us, Satan, you're confused, I rebuke you.

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Speaker 3: Try again. I don't know who this is for, but

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Speaker 4: Saying we need to be mindful with our money.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, and save it. Okay, that's true. We knew that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're cheap best bitches anyway. We're scared. We don't

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Speaker 1: pay ourselves. We've been doing this five years. You know.

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Speaker 3: I'm broke. I'm so broke, Like should we? I don't know?

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Speaker 3: Pay that shelves.

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Speaker 2: Put it all back in merch, put it all back

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Speaker 2: and everyone else except us.

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Speaker 3: One day we'll get there. Okay, there's another one. This

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Speaker 3: one's upside.

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Speaker 4: We're done with that. You're just done I mean, okay.

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Speaker 1: We got it and put some money for a morny

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Speaker 1: day and not. I feel like maybe it's about that

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Speaker 4: It's already signed. We signed it.

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Speaker 5: We know.

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Speaker 3: Not that. Not that one.

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Speaker 4: Oh the other contract?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we don't like business woman. So many contracts.

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Speaker 3: Oh the other one, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean the third one.

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Speaker 3: Let's a contracts. Get your pen out. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The other one is the magician, but it's upside down.

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Speaker 1: I don't like the I don't like that latent talent, skill, adaptation, manipulation.

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Speaker 1: The magician Tara will be Verse suggests that you don't

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Speaker 3: Well, shit, now I'm confused. Maybe the contract. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Damn. You don't have to be afraid

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Speaker 3: of the risk involved in giving a new adventure a go.

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Speaker 3: You should just use the skills and abilities you have

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Speaker 3: I'm not I had to rethinking, you know what? Shout

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Speaker 1: She sent me this article about like, if you have ADHD,

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Speaker 1: to do laundry. It's like, fuck, I don't have any detergent.

445
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 1: Did I pay the bill as a high the water hot?

446
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 5: Oh?

447
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 4: Fuck?

448
00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 3: Did I slippers? I'm like, oh my god, that's really

449
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:00,280
Speaker 3: how I saying.

450
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,359
Speaker 1: And then to re reading this in my head but

451
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,359
Speaker 1: out loud while podcasting, I'm like, oh.

452
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, people are listening. Hello, Okay, I'm back.

453
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 1: But all that to say I might have ADHD. Thank

454
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 1: you shout out to me for pointing it out.

455
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 4: I think we all do the food. I blame blamed American.

456
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,400
Speaker 1: For the anxiety and the ADHD. It's true they're against us.

457
00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 2: I don't know about the contracts. I don't know about

458
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 2: outside down magician, but I do have an affirmation.

459
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 3: What is it?

460
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:36,920
Speaker 4: The day day's affirmation is fuck niggas, get money.

461
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:38,960
Speaker 3: Obviously we're not going to say that anymore.

462
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 4: I'm back to it.

463
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:42,679
Speaker 3: Okay, well I guess I should join you.

464
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm in love, though, love niggas get money.

465
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,200
Speaker 4: Fuck niggas get money. You know which? Everyone works for you?

466
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 2: You whatever, Everyone speaks to your heart and your current

467
00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 2: state do that?

468
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I don't.

469
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't hate Nix. I love Nix. I really do.

470
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 3: Black love, I have love ill love.

471
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 2: I'm actually really focusing on Actually, you know what, So

472
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 2: we a lot last night. I was listening to the

473
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 2: dipsy app and and uh.

474
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 4: They what was the one I posted? I posted one.

475
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 2: I don't know, it was some something, and I was

476
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 2: like manifesting after I couldn't figure out what I wanted

477
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:27,479
Speaker 2: to manifest.

478
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 4: I kept like going back and forth in my head.

479
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, so should I do this? I

480
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 4: should think about Jamila and like what we're doing. Or

481
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 4: should I like just a lesbian for my future man.

482
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 2: Or should I like just like think about Dick and

483
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 2: just like enjoy them not stop trying to manifest a

484
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 2: whole fucking time. But then I started thinking about my partner,

485
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 2: like my future partner, and I was like it was

486
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 2: kind of hard because like I was trying to like

487
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 2: picture what he looked like and.

488
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 4: I couldn't focus.

489
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 2: I think it's a qualities, you know, I like bald,

490
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 2: dark man, so I was just like make him all

491
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 2: he's dark and he's bearded.

492
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 3: He has no face.

493
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 2: But but and then the guy who was talking, so

494
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 2: Dipsy is the erotic app that I love you guys,

495
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 2: and the guy that was talking like he's oh my god,

496
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 2: his name's Freddy, which is his name is the voice

497
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 2: on the app is called Freddy because they have different characters,

498
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 2: and Freddy is the ship.

499
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 4: Because Freddy's a dom and he's nasty.

500
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: I like, he's a nasty mount. Nasty, you know, I

501
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 1: love a nasty fucking mount.

502
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 4: Well, then go on Dipsy and listen to Freddy.

503
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 3: I write that down.

504
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 2: And he was he had he had what's her fucking name,

505
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: Lisa in the dungeon, So you know, I was like

506
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 2: fulfilling my like my dungeon dom dreams through Freddy and

507
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 2: thinking that Freddy, which this is all fucked up because

508
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 2: Freddy's my baby dock.

509
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 3: Can you just call him a different name.

510
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 4: It's a fucking name. And Freddie he called.

511
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 2: Something else that's using him to manifest my partner. And

512
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 2: I was thinking about him, and I was thinking like,

513
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 2: this is how my partner would talk to me. And

514
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,400
Speaker 2: he would tell me like he would tell me.

515
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 4: The fuck down, shut the fuck up. And then I

516
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 4: was like, what does he look like?

517
00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 2: And then and and I kept like envisioning him and

518
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 2: he wasn't that cute, because you know, I don't want to.

519
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 4: Like cute niggas that much.

520
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 3: You love but not cute nigga no, because I don't know, Like,

521
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is they can get the

522
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,719
Speaker 3: trustworthy they're not, they're not.

523
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,400
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter if you're cute or attractive.

524
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: So it's not just it's not fuck niggers, it's just

525
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: fuck fuck niggers, fuck fuck niggers. I'm not just talking

526
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 2: about men, you guys. I'm talking about women because there's

527
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 2: some trash ass women out here too.

528
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 4: Luckily I don't know those women.

529
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 2: I don't know her because I have manifested an amazing

530
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: group of women in my life that I don't really

531
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: have issues with.

532
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 4: I don't.

533
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 2: I actually don't really even encounter weird women in my life,

534
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 2: like I have really great luck.

535
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 4: Maybe that's because I don't say fuck bitches a lot.

536
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 1: Don't invite fuck people into your life and then when

537
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: they do fuck shit, be like fuck people. You know

538
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You gotta be like intentional about who

539
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: you choose. You don't want fuck results, get good people.

540
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,360
Speaker 4: So anyway, he's on the way. Freddy's on the way,

541
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 4: my new Freddie.

542
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 3: Can you stop? You're confusing me. I'm like, why is

543
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 3: it coming?

544
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 4: Act on the way?

545
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: You know, I've been I've been masturbating or in my case,

546
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: having sex, because you guys know, I masturbate very little

547
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: about like the house that I'm gonna be getting fucked in,

548
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: and like my future house in the view and just

549
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 1: like waking up naked and overlooking the city and like

550
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: pressing a button and my Florida ceiling door.

551
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 3: Is just open, like get me some orange juice, and

552
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,719
Speaker 3: then he just comes, yes, fresh, squeezed and all. And

553
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 3: that's really getting me. It's really getting me there.

554
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,919
Speaker 2: I've shared this that like I usually usually starts sexual

555
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 2: when i'm masturbating, and then it shifts into like whatever

556
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 2: it is that I'm manifesting. And so in my in

557
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,239
Speaker 2: my manifestation, it was like I was having sex with

558
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 2: my my partner, whoever the fuck it was, but whoever

559
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 2: I was fantasizing about that time. And then I got

560
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 2: off of him and I went into my bathroom. And

561
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 2: then I went in my bathroom and it was this

562
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 2: beautiful bathroom and it had like this huge bathtub, and

563
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: then it opened up to another door, and then suddenly

564
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 2: I was walking through my beautiful home and it had

565
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 2: like my beautiful, spacious open kitchen with Florida ceiling windows

566
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 2: to my backyard with my view of the ocean.

567
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 4: And then that so like I.

568
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 2: Was already like built up, and I was already like

569
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 2: on edging essentially, and then I started thinking of all

570
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 2: these different things and.

571
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 4: That eventually I came and then it was beautiful, and

572
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 4: then I felt.

573
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 3: Great, Yeah, that's beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. I'm sorry.

574
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,880
Speaker 1: I was still thinking about the dungeon and I'm telling you,

575
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: what is the name of somebody.

576
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 3: Told a nigga.

577
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: My nigga told me recently to worship his dick and

578
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: pray to it while we were having sex, and I

579
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: was into it.

580
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 3: It's like, I will do that, amen.

581
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 4: Not amen.

582
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 3: I think I'm a sub. I'm a swoitch, but I'm

583
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 3: a sub.

584
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 4: I'm a voyeur.

585
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 3: Do you like to watch or be watched?

586
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 4: I want to watch. I'm definitely. Oh wow, someone submitted

587
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 4: a horry and slack. Wow. This is long Jesus Christ

588
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 4: Secret rooms three.

589
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: That's what the dipsy and it's Carla and Freddy meet

590
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: up regularly, but how we actually?

591
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 4: Can I just play this real quick because I oh

592
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 4: my god, I'm playing this.

593
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 5: There's no relaxing yet. You're not going to get hold

594
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 5: of me just yet. I'm waiting to you, begging for it.

595
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 5: Do you candle it? I'm gonna reach you around, got

596
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 5: your pussy here like this. I'm not gonna go to

597
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 5: your favorite party just yet. Nah, I'm going to trace

598
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 5: you around, eatly all circle, tiss on the edge of it,

599
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 5: teazing you, mm hmm, a little water streaming down ver

600
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 5: you other part of you.

601
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 3: I think I like it. Think, I think I'm man.

602
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's Damon.

603
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 3: You know I love a dirty, dirty mouse.

604
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 4: So that Freddy's even dirtier than Damon.

605
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: So I'm looking I'm looking forward to getting over there

606
00:26:59,160 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: to the shower.

607
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 4: Your naga comes to pick you up right now?

608
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 3: You just turn it on?

609
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like, what the fuck?

610
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: Can you imagine going to pick up your child from

611
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: school and that ship place?

612
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 2: Actually I did, Actually we got when I got in

613
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 2: the car this morning. Oh no, when I got in

614
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 2: the car this morning, my Bluetooth connected and said dipsy

615
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 2: on like the screen and it's like this voice came

616
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: on and I immediately was.

617
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 1: Like, oh no, mama, what's that.

618
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 4: Be careful after you're done, please close out the app.

619
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: Everything's better than opening your computer every day and seeing

620
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: your plenty of porns. You're not gonna you need to

621
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 1: clear your browser, bitch, I know. I'm sorry, bitch, you

622
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: clear your browser.

623
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 4: I don't watch porn anymore though. I'm done. I'm retired.

624
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 3: You're elevated.

625
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 4: I'm elevated. I'm much more into audio porn than visual porn.

626
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 4: I can create my own porn in my head.

627
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: Oh, May's asking me on text message if someone since

628
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: I don't masturbate, am I going to start? Yes, yes

629
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: i am. I'm going to get to it. I'm going

630
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: to take the time. I don't believe you, I am.

631
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 3: I've been like doing mutual masturbation too.

632
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 4: That's not masturbation.

633
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 3: No, I'm masturbating myself while he's masturbating himself.

634
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 4: Oh like you guys are just like sitting next to

635
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 4: each other. Masterb huh. But then, but that's still like,

636
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 4: that's still in interactive.

637
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 2: No, it's still depending you're turned on because oh okay,

638
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 2: it's happening.

639
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 4: It's not really about you.

640
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, when we go on these trips that were

641
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: going on with no amends, I will intentionally do some

642
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: more masturbation. May this is specifically for you, since you

643
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: were very curious about how I'm going to step my

644
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: game up. I'm working on I'm going to be better

645
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: this summer. I feel like I'm going to do some

646
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: intentional masturbation work and get out of my funk and

647
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: just stop fucking people to masturbate. That's essentially that's what

648
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: I've been doing, using people to masturbate, which is not cool.

649
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 3: It's not nice. I could be a bit. I'm better

650
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 3: than that. I'm not toxic.

651
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I do love people genuinely too much.

652
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 2: Those that have joined me on this journey of you know,

653
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 2: choosing yourself for the next thirty one or for the

654
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: past thirty one days or however many days that it

655
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: has been enlightening and that you know, you've you know,

656
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,959
Speaker 2: unpacked some things and learned some things. If you're continuing

657
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: the journey, that's amazing, congratulations. And if not, then that's amazing, congratulations.

658
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:24,719
Speaker 4: You did it.

659
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 2: And if you fucked up like me, like you know,

660
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: I did the last week, because what the fuck?

661
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: You know what as I I don't even really think

662
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: you fucked up, but I will dig any your mouth.

663
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 3: It's not really a full sex.

664
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 2: Situation sex, but it is at least it's still penetration,

665
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Speaker 2: penetrating your mouth.

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Speaker 1: I don't know penetrating your mouth counts as penetration. Love never,

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Speaker 1: I've never counted that as penetration.

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to abstain from all sexual, like

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Speaker 2: anything sexual in that way. Like I've been making out,

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Speaker 2: We've been doing heavy petting, but like there's been no.

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Speaker 3: No I feel you. I understand. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 3: make you feel better. Thanks, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: It's fine, But congratulations, and you know, if you haven't,

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Speaker 2: like you said, join our our slack community.

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Speaker 4: We're having a lot of conversations over there.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to keep the Dicktalks channel going so we

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Speaker 2: can check in with one another, because I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 2: I'm going to keep it going until further notice, maybe

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Speaker 2: until my husband appears, so I might be solibate for

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Speaker 2: like three years, because apparently I'm not.

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Speaker 4: Going to oh, actually maybe it's next year.

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Speaker 2: Josh told me, I'm not going to meet my partner

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Speaker 2: until like two thousand, the end of twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 3: Juju, Well no, He's like, well, can you fucking give

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Speaker 3: me some timeframes?

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Speaker 1: It'suck.

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Speaker 4: I said, you're in love, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm gettet married and my love

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Speaker 1: right now, we're trying to figure out the contract. It's

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Speaker 1: we're having a hard time coming to an agreement, so

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Speaker 1: we're just playing it by ear because we want different things.

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Speaker 3: I think, got it.

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Speaker 4: Whatever you choose, we love you. I love you.

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Speaker 1: And join Patreon to join the slack community to talk

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Speaker 1: to us, and also welcome to whatever jud this is.

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Speaker 4: Sandio E Solo the lad the last of three s

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Speaker 4: Comboby Lamoiselle runs

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Speaker 5: And m HM.