WEBVTT - Second Date Update: One Year Later To Rejection King

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<v Speaker 1>And we've got a brand new second date update for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for being here on the podcast. And

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<v Speaker 1>Man and today is like a little unusual because the

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<v Speaker 1>first date that this couple had was eleven months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, usually we know it's like two weeks. We're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's kind of long.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye is eleven months And you'll find out why it's

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<v Speaker 1>been that long. I mean, I don't know that the

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<v Speaker 1>reason is going to make the guy feel good, but

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<v Speaker 1>you'll hear it in just a second. But first, let's

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<v Speaker 1>get to some of our favorite comments of the week. Alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you got?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Jamil Raymond said, Hi from Pakistan. Dating in the

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<v Speaker 2>US is getting crazier to craziest. That is so true.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say it really helps because we are a radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Show and we're syndicated in over like fifty cities and

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<v Speaker 1>that has like changed the game for us in order

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<v Speaker 1>to find all these people. And not to mention dating apps, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps have added a new level of crazy that

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<v Speaker 1>never was there before. I could set my location to

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<v Speaker 1>Pakistan right now and see who's there and cause some

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<v Speaker 1>drama there you go, We're bringing crazy to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, let's get this show started.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, second date up date. In terms of the

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<v Speaker 3>amount of time it takes between the first date and

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<v Speaker 3>the second date, what do you think is optimal? Like

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<v Speaker 3>three to four days, at least a week.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Go back to back? Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing

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<v Speaker 3>it too long?

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<v Speaker 5>I think?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, because for our listener, Nuss, you're like out of town.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's delicate though, because you don't want to lose

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<v Speaker 1>the momentum.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the hard part.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her

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<v Speaker 1>to move on at this point?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, hold on, because she says she has a good

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<v Speaker 3>reason for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda,

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<v Speaker 3>thanks for being on with us. Start at the very

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<v Speaker 3>beginning here. Tell us who is this guy and how

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<v Speaker 3>did you meet him?

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<v Speaker 2>And how do you remember his name after eleven months?

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<v Speaker 4>Hello?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, if you waited eleven months to get back together

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<v Speaker 3>with well, his.

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<v Speaker 4>Name is Jordan, so you know it reminds me of basketball,

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<v Speaker 4>so I cann't forget him.

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<v Speaker 1>Wowron, this is eleven months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>You went on a date with this guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I did?

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<v Speaker 3>And where did you meet? Him.

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<v Speaker 4>I met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,

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<v Speaker 4>like our interactions were kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, are you sure you remembering right since it was

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<v Speaker 2>so long.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, because usually I won't go on a date with

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<v Speaker 4>them unless they're funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, he checks nice and kind of funny. I know

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<v Speaker 3>you find out he was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually, yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be with someone who was boring.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you guys do for a date?

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<v Speaker 4>So what we ended up going on a coffee date,

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<v Speaker 4>and yeah, that's my thing. I love you.

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<v Speaker 5>That's good because sometimes if I from a guy perspective,

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<v Speaker 5>if a girl says coffee date, that means I want

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<v Speaker 5>to be very slow.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want a quick fit high.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not away feel like it's I'm not sure if

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<v Speaker 1>you're hot from your picture or let me see you

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<v Speaker 1>in the daytime.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that's the face time. But we've moved past that.

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<v Speaker 4>So okay, we met up, and I kept thinking, like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>like I don't know if this guy's in my league,

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<v Speaker 4>Like there was something.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like in a good way or

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<v Speaker 2>a bad way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, your league.

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<v Speaker 4>So I know this sounds like maybe stupid, but I

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<v Speaker 4>just thought he could dress better, Like I didn't really

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<v Speaker 4>like his styal.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's actually really common.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually have friends, and I'm sure I'm in the

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<v Speaker 5>same boat where like you realize we don't really know

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<v Speaker 5>how to dress up than the way we.

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<v Speaker 2>Always Here's the thing, clothes are always fixable.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true, I know. But I made a comment about

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<v Speaker 4>the crocs and I'm like, I don't know about that cross.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I mean, I don't think it's no

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<v Speaker 2>to show up to a coffee dat rugs. Yeah, you text.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess I was

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<v Speaker 4>being dedgmental because you know, he was so humble and nice.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, get out of your head, like it's the style.

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<v Speaker 4>I like, I can fix him, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to come in like, hey we need new wardrobe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, second or third day. So I mean, like the

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<v Speaker 3>bond that you had with him, like personality wise, did

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<v Speaker 3>you feel that? So?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like the fireworks you know when you meet

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<v Speaker 4>someone you're like, ooh.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you've been finding over this guy for the

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<v Speaker 1>last eleven months.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't even like him the day you hung out

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<v Speaker 2>with him.

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<v Speaker 4>So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the day, we gave each other a hug

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<v Speaker 4>and he was following up with me texting me a

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<v Speaker 4>whole bunch, and I just felt like I didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to lead him.

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<v Speaker 5>All Okay, that's actually really kind of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, what did you say before we start praising you,

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<v Speaker 3>how kind you are?

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<v Speaker 4>I just said I didn't feel as smart, like we

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<v Speaker 4>can be friends, but like no romantic interests.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, and how do you take it?

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<v Speaker 4>I think this is why I can't get him out

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<v Speaker 4>of my head. I think because he just says I

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<v Speaker 4>think that you're a great woman and whoever ends up

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<v Speaker 4>with you as a lucky man. And his response is

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<v Speaker 4>just so gracious that like almost made me cry, touched

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<v Speaker 4>my heart.

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<v Speaker 2>So that he was nice and not mean at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a

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<v Speaker 3>guy to be like, oh, you don't like me, but

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, I wish the best for you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's top three most common responses response.

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<v Speaker 4>When I've done it before with other guys. They just

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<v Speaker 4>react so like immature, and they honestly like try to

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<v Speaker 4>get me harder, they start texting me more. It just

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<v Speaker 4>makes it weird awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, No, if it's me, I'm just giving your number

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<v Speaker 3>to one of those like scam call centers and having

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<v Speaker 3>them spam you than crying about it. Yeah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to try to fight for Yeah, well you reject me,

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<v Speaker 3>then I'm going to get you a million scam calls.

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<v Speaker 3>It just looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, she just said you were There was no spark,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't even Oh you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Have to double down. That hurts, but it's nice that

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<v Speaker 3>he was so gracious with you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty cool and it should be expected.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, So that happened. That happened eleven months ago, and

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<v Speaker 3>now you're reaching out to us like, I don't understand

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<v Speaker 3>what's changed.

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<v Speaker 4>I just can't get him out of my head. He's

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<v Speaker 4>like looking there like super glue. So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>kind of shy now and I feel bad for rejecting him,

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<v Speaker 4>So I really need some help because I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I was kind of judgmental, that makes sense, and I'd

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<v Speaker 4>like to go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it is going to be hard to come

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<v Speaker 1>back from saying there's no spark. Yeah, Like it means

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have to put in a little extra.

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<v Speaker 2>Eleven months, Like do we know if you're single?

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<v Speaker 3>It's possible, Well, we need to call him to find out.

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<v Speaker 3>This is definitely different than what we would normally do

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<v Speaker 3>in this segment, but person, Yeah, we'll call Jordan and

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<v Speaker 3>be like, Amanda has decided to slum it and go

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<v Speaker 3>down a level from where she normally would date to

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<v Speaker 3>go out with you one more time of those crocs. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll see what he has to say when we do

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<v Speaker 3>your second date update after this hold on second Date update.

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<v Speaker 3>They say the best things in life take time. That's true,

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<v Speaker 3>Like an aged bottle of wine, medium sized wheel of

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<v Speaker 3>European cheese, putting together a dresser from Ikea with just

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<v Speaker 3>two of the legs missing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but I still have extra screws.

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<v Speaker 3>And of course, finding the right person to date, not

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<v Speaker 3>just a good one, but the right person. And it's

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<v Speaker 3>taken our listener, Amanda eleven months to come to the

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<v Speaker 3>realization that that guy could have been the one in

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<v Speaker 3>the coffee shop the day that she rejected him.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what else, They also say, Jeff, timing is everything. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe they needed a little eleven month break.

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<v Speaker 3>True, So it's possible all the things could align, the

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<v Speaker 3>timing could be perfect today because she wants us to

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<v Speaker 3>help her get a second chance with Jordan.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I think it's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it shows that you have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>growth from eleven months ago. You know, like a little

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<v Speaker 1>months ago you were judging somebody's clothes, not you today.

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<v Speaker 4>Right now, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but

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<v Speaker 4>I need you to help me work my magic. Like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in a vulnerable say I'm lonely and I just

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<v Speaker 4>missed Jordan, and I just think that you guys can

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<v Speaker 4>help me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, well what willing to do that. I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>glad that we're talking to you over the phone so

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<v Speaker 3>that you can't see what Brook's wearing and be able

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<v Speaker 3>to judge it, like.

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<v Speaker 5>You actually wearing crocodiles on her feet.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I like the houses where I was

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<v Speaker 1>like this is I've done better.

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<v Speaker 3>We've matured from that immature girl that she was eleven

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<v Speaker 3>months ago. She can't even see and.

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<v Speaker 4>She just knows I have zebra pants on.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe exotic

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<v Speaker 3>brook Is. I love this bonding time that we're having.

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<v Speaker 3>But we got to call Jordan here and hopefully he

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<v Speaker 3>picks up. I'm gonna dial his number right now here

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<v Speaker 3>we go. Hello, Hey, is this Jordan?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mass is calling.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you may ask.

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<v Speaker 2>Such a dad joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Ask you just having normal conversation. He can ask you

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<v Speaker 3>this is how bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for politely asking that. To answer your well, if you're

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<v Speaker 3>still there to answer your question, We're a radio show

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<v Speaker 3>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning with high brow comedy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And what is this in regards to? Oh, this is

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<v Speaker 3>actually in regards to a woman who's been trying to

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<v Speaker 3>get a hold of you. Well, actually she has been trying,

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<v Speaker 3>Yes she has. It's the usual. Not sure if you'll remember.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a woman named Amanda.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, you know there's a lot of Amanda's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Fair, Okay, Well, this this is a woman that you

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<v Speaker 3>went on a date with eleven months ago.

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<v Speaker 4>A year ago, eleven months ago? Copy date?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, I'm probably was it.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a hinge date?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? Yeah, oh she did tell us that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, I think I yeah, I remember Amanda. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we grabbed coffee right a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right. What else do you remember from your time

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<v Speaker 3>with Amanda?

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>But honestly, I just remember her ditching be.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like when she said she didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to see you again?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like I mean I've been turned down before, so

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm kind of used to it. Oh buddy,

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<v Speaker 4>definitely was expecting this. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, can I just tell you, Jordan's the thing that

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<v Speaker 3>really stood out to Amanda about you was how graciously

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<v Speaker 3>you handled her rejection over text. Okay, I know you

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<v Speaker 3>said something like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends

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<v Speaker 3>up with you, he's going to be so lucky, and

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<v Speaker 3>you like just wished her well.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, you know what. I think I wrote that

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<v Speaker 4>with Ai. Actually, oh wow.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a good It was good feedback.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good idea to put that day.

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<v Speaker 3>I first, I had been quick on my feet still

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<v Speaker 3>for Amanda, it was a big moment, and you know

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<v Speaker 3>how like sometimes women aren't as emotionally mature as us

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<v Speaker 3>men are. The case, she has taken all this time

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<v Speaker 3>and realized that it's possible she made a huge mistake

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<v Speaker 3>in turning.

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<v Speaker 2>You away, which is kind of sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she said that, yeah, yeah, basically yeah, she actually

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<v Speaker 1>has even said she's really been thinking about you a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 3>This is like the third time that's happened this year?

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<v Speaker 2>What what do you mean time?

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<v Speaker 3>What's happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I again.

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<v Speaker 5>I I'm used to rejection, you know, so weirdly enough,

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of these girls they reject.

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<v Speaker 4>Me end up calling me back say like, hey, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>we should get another shot.

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<v Speaker 3>What, Oh, this isn't the first time.

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<v Speaker 2>No, are you complimented by it? Or is it like

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<v Speaker 2>almost kind of a backhanded compliment?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean, I'm more surprised than anything. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you take that personally? Or well, if you

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<v Speaker 3>want to be the most surprised, here's a shocker for you,

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<v Speaker 3>because Amanda is on the other line right now, listening

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<v Speaker 3>to this entire conversation, hoping to jump in and talk

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<v Speaker 3>to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Amanda's surprise surprise, it's to me. Hello, how are you.

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<v Speaker 3>Exit? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 4>Good to you hear from you again? Yeah, you're excited

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<v Speaker 4>to hear from me. I mean it's been a while,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's definitely a surprise, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm stuttering and

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<v Speaker 4>like I don't know. But yes, I'm very nervous to

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<v Speaker 4>do this, and I'm glad that AI was able to

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<v Speaker 4>help you out. But there's no AI. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, thinking about his words before speaking. So it's

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<v Speaker 4>not like me, like I just kind of was impulsive

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<v Speaker 4>and was superficial. But I hope that we can maybe

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<v Speaker 4>see each other again. I'm not sure to that.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are you like asking me out?

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<v Speaker 4>Or is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this?

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<v Speaker 4>What this is? I mean I needed their help. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it might be like a little crazy. It's been like

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<v Speaker 4>almost a year, right, and maybe you can have amnesia

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<v Speaker 4>and dementia about what happened in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>What a nice.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was a lot, Jordan. I know that she

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<v Speaker 3>kind of dumped on you there, But you have anything

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<v Speaker 3>that you would like to say back to Amanda or

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<v Speaker 3>ask your Ai what to say back to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Honest, a man, it's been a while since I've seen

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<v Speaker 4>you or seen your picture.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. One way that I really jogged my memory is, uh.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you still have that nice butt.

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<v Speaker 1>Out?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Well, So I was just telling them about these

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<v Speaker 4>zebra pants that I'm wearing, and I could potentially send

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<v Speaker 4>you a selfie if he's lying.

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<v Speaker 2>Work for do zebra pants make it look bigger?

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<v Speaker 3>Like an optical illusion?

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<v Speaker 2>Ask you for a friend?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I messed up, so I'm trying to like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, clean slight here I come.

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<v Speaker 1>The clean slate includes picks. So I was like, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a winner.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, George.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you. She's

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<v Speaker 3>still got the same features and all the things that

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<v Speaker 3>you liked from the first time you met up. So

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<v Speaker 3>at this point, we'd like to offer to send you

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<v Speaker 3>and Amanda out on another date, and we would.

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<v Speaker 4>Pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, Saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if she's cooled me seeing the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Two girls they rejected me and her being the third,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm open to that, Okay, the hair and the rejection Amanda,

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<v Speaker 3>Now the ball's in your court.

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<v Speaker 4>Heavens, No, you know this was nice, but now I

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<v Speaker 4>cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No way, I want

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<v Speaker 4>you to myself.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be a little competition for you, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, if you know a way. Hoh, say, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>that desperate.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you ditching him now? Twice in one year.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just hoping that we could be at just

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<v Speaker 4>one on one monogamous, not you know, a trio.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, we're missing it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to her,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'll probably call you in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you'll have six leftovers.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it

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<v Speaker 3>to you later, Amanda. Check your text message.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my god, he's like the rejection king.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you will have a nice life and a

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<v Speaker 3>nice day. Oh your melting hearts right now. Jordan's hang

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<v Speaker 3>up so we can all call him.

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<v Speaker 2>Back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the lesson that we all learned from that

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<v Speaker 3>is you can let a nice butt in zebra print

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<v Speaker 3>walk away and still be gracious about it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was a good lesson. It is shocking that

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<v Speaker 1>she was so surprised. Yeah, like, I'm worried about her

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<v Speaker 1>choice and people to go out with if they're so rude.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be yeah, totally, But it would be funny

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<v Speaker 3>if she does text him though, in like a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of weeks or in a couple of minutes after that

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<v Speaker 3>call ended, just the I'd give him a third chance.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's gonna go on one more date with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that's a jerk and then yeah, yeah, But the.

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<v Speaker 3>Way they were flirting on the phone for a minute,

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<v Speaker 3>I thought for sure they were going to go out

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<v Speaker 3>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was a yes before we even asked.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>It was yes, he just said to the.

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<v Speaker 2>Team, she said no.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's the thing about love. It's weird and unpredictable sometimes.

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