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Speaker 1: And we've got a brand new second date update for you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks so much for being here on the podcast. And

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Speaker 1: Man and today is like a little unusual because the

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Speaker 1: first date that this couple had was eleven months ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, usually we know it's like two weeks. We're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: that's kind of long.

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Speaker 1: Ye is eleven months And you'll find out why it's

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Speaker 1: been that long. I mean, I don't know that the

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Speaker 1: reason is going to make the guy feel good, but

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Speaker 1: you'll hear it in just a second. But first, let's

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Speaker 1: get to some of our favorite comments of the week. Alexis,

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Speaker 1: what do you got?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Jamil Raymond said, Hi from Pakistan. Dating in the

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Speaker 2: US is getting crazier to craziest. That is so true.

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Speaker 2: I will say it really helps because we are a radio.

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Speaker 1: Show and we're syndicated in over like fifty cities and

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Speaker 1: that has like changed the game for us in order

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Speaker 1: to find all these people. And not to mention dating apps, Yes,

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Speaker 1: dating apps have added a new level of crazy that

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Speaker 1: never was there before. I could set my location to

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Speaker 1: Pakistan right now and see who's there and cause some

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Speaker 1: drama there you go, We're bringing crazy to you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let's get this show started.

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Speaker 3: Right now, second date up date. In terms of the

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Speaker 3: amount of time it takes between the first date and

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Speaker 3: the second date, what do you think is optimal? Like

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Speaker 3: three to four days, at least a week.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Go back to back? Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing

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Speaker 3: it too long?

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Speaker 5: I think?

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Speaker 3: Okay, because for our listener, Nuss, you're like out of town.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's delicate though, because you don't want to lose

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Speaker 1: the momentum.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the hard part.

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Speaker 3: Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her

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Speaker 3: Well, hold on, because she says she has a good

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Speaker 3: reason for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda,

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Speaker 3: thanks for being on with us. Start at the very

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Speaker 3: beginning here. Tell us who is this guy and how

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Speaker 2: And how do you remember his name after eleven months?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Yes, if you waited eleven months to get back together

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Speaker 3: with well, his.

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Speaker 4: Name is Jordan, so you know it reminds me of basketball,

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Speaker 4: so I cann't forget him.

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Speaker 1: Wowron, this is eleven months ago.

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Speaker 2: You went on a date with this guy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I did?

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Speaker 3: And where did you meet? Him.

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Speaker 4: I met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,

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Speaker 4: like our interactions were kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: Actually, are you sure you remembering right since it was

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Speaker 4: Yes, because usually I won't go on a date with

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Speaker 3: Okay, he checks nice and kind of funny. I know

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Speaker 3: you find out he was funny.

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Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.

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Speaker 1: That's actually, yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be with someone who was boring.

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Speaker 3: What did you guys do for a date?

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Speaker 4: So what we ended up going on a coffee date,

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Speaker 4: and yeah, that's my thing. I love you.

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Speaker 5: That's good because sometimes if I from a guy perspective,

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Speaker 3: I just want a quick fit high.

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Speaker 1: I'm not away feel like it's I'm not sure if

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Speaker 4: Well that's the face time. But we've moved past that.

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Speaker 4: So okay, we met up, and I kept thinking, like, honestly,

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Speaker 2: What do you mean, like in a good way or

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your league.

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Speaker 4: So I know this sounds like maybe stupid, but I

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Speaker 4: just thought he could dress better, Like I didn't really

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Speaker 3: You know, that's actually really common.

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Speaker 5: I actually have friends, and I'm sure I'm in the

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Speaker 2: Always Here's the thing, clothes are always fixable.

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Speaker 4: That's true, I know. But I made a comment about

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, I don't think it's no

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Speaker 4: It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess I was

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Speaker 4: I'm like, get out of your head, like it's the style.

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Speaker 4: I like, I can fix him, but I don't want

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Speaker 3: Yeah, second or third day. So I mean, like the

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,

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Speaker 1: I thought you've been finding over this guy for the

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Speaker 1: last eleven months.

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Speaker 2: You didn't even like him the day you hung out

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Speaker 4: So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the

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Speaker 4: and he was following up with me texting me a

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Speaker 5: All Okay, that's actually really kind of you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Well, what did you say before we start praising you,

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Speaker 4: I just said I didn't feel as smart, like we

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and how do you take it?

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Speaker 4: I think this is why I can't get him out

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Speaker 4: think that you're a great woman and whoever ends up

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Speaker 4: just so gracious that like almost made me cry, touched

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Speaker 2: So that he was nice and not mean at the end.

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Speaker 3: Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a

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Speaker 2: That's top three most common responses response.

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Speaker 4: When I've done it before with other guys. They just

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Speaker 3: Really, No, if it's me, I'm just giving your number

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Speaker 3: to one of those like scam call centers and having

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Speaker 3: going to try to fight for Yeah, well you reject me,

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Speaker 3: then I'm going to get you a million scam calls.

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Speaker 3: It just looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.

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Speaker 1: Now, she just said you were There was no spark,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't even Oh you don't.

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Speaker 3: Have to double down. That hurts, but it's nice that

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Speaker 2: That's pretty cool and it should be expected.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, So that happened. That happened eleven months ago, and

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Speaker 3: now you're reaching out to us like, I don't understand

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Speaker 4: I just can't get him out of my head. He's

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Speaker 4: like looking there like super glue. So I don't know,

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Speaker 4: it's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm

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Speaker 4: So I really need some help because I feel like

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Speaker 4: I was kind of judgmental, that makes sense, and I'd

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Speaker 1: I mean it is going to be hard to come

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Speaker 1: back from saying there's no spark. Yeah, Like it means

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Speaker 2: Eleven months, Like do we know if you're single?

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Speaker 3: It's possible, Well, we need to call him to find out.

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Speaker 3: This is definitely different than what we would normally do

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Speaker 3: in this segment, but person, Yeah, we'll call Jordan and

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Speaker 3: be like, Amanda has decided to slum it and go

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Speaker 3: down a level from where she normally would date to

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Speaker 3: we'll see what he has to say when we do

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Speaker 3: your second date update after this hold on second Date update.

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Speaker 3: They say the best things in life take time. That's true,

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Speaker 3: Like an aged bottle of wine, medium sized wheel of

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Speaker 3: two of the legs missing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I still have extra screws.

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Speaker 3: And of course, finding the right person to date, not

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Speaker 3: just a good one, but the right person. And it's

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Speaker 3: taken our listener, Amanda eleven months to come to the

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Speaker 5: You know what else, They also say, Jeff, timing is everything. Yes,

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Speaker 5: maybe they needed a little eleven month break.

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Speaker 3: True, So it's possible all the things could align, the

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Speaker 2: You know, I think it's sweet.

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Speaker 1: I think it shows that you have a lot of

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Speaker 1: growth from eleven months ago. You know, like a little

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Speaker 1: months ago you were judging somebody's clothes, not you today.

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Speaker 4: Right now, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but

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Speaker 4: I'm in a vulnerable say I'm lonely and I just

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Speaker 4: missed Jordan, and I just think that you guys can

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, well what willing to do that. I'm just

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Speaker 5: You actually wearing crocodiles on her feet.

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Speaker 1: I will say, I like the houses where I was

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Speaker 1: like this is I've done better.

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Speaker 3: We've matured from that immature girl that she was eleven

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Speaker 4: She just knows I have zebra pants on.

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Speaker 3: You guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe exotic

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Speaker 3: brook Is. I love this bonding time that we're having.

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Speaker 3: But we got to call Jordan here and hopefully he

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Speaker 3: picks up. I'm gonna dial his number right now here

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Speaker 3: we go. Hello, Hey, is this Jordan?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Mass is calling.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you may ask.

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Speaker 2: Such a dad joke.

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Speaker 3: Ask you just having normal conversation. He can ask you

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Speaker 3: this is how bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you

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Speaker 3: for politely asking that. To answer your well, if you're

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Speaker 3: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning with high brow comedy. Okay,

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Speaker 3: And what is this in regards to? Oh, this is

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Speaker 3: actually in regards to a woman who's been trying to

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Speaker 3: get a hold of you. Well, actually she has been trying,

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Speaker 3: Yes she has. It's the usual. Not sure if you'll remember.

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Speaker 3: This is a woman named Amanda.

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Speaker 4: Uh, you know there's a lot of Amanda's right.

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Speaker 3: Fair, Okay, Well, this this is a woman that you

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Speaker 4: A year ago, eleven months ago? Copy date?

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Speaker 3: Uh, I'm probably was it.

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Speaker 4: Like a hinge date?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, oh she did tell us that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I think I yeah, I remember Amanda. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: we grabbed coffee right a long time ago.

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Speaker 3: That's right. What else do you remember from your time

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Speaker 2: It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.

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Speaker 4: But honestly, I just remember her ditching be.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean, like when she said she didn't

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Speaker 5: Oh that? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I mean I've been turned down before, so

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Speaker 4: you know, I'm kind of used to it. Oh buddy,

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Speaker 3: Well, can I just tell you, Jordan's the thing that

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Speaker 3: you handled her rejection over text. Okay, I know you

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Speaker 3: said something like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know what. I think I wrote that

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Speaker 3: It was a good It was good feedback.

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Speaker 2: That's a good idea to put that day.

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Speaker 3: I first, I had been quick on my feet still

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Speaker 3: for Amanda, it was a big moment, and you know

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Speaker 3: how like sometimes women aren't as emotionally mature as us

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Speaker 2: You away, which is kind of sweet.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she said that, yeah, yeah, basically yeah, she actually

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 3: This is like the third time that's happened this year?

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Speaker 3: What's happened?

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Speaker 4: You know, I again.

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Speaker 5: I I'm used to rejection, you know, so weirdly enough,

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Speaker 3: What, Oh, this isn't the first time.

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Speaker 2: No, are you complimented by it? Or is it like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Amanda's surprise surprise, it's to me. Hello, how are you.

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Speaker 4: Good to you hear from you again? Yeah, you're excited

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Speaker 4: I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm stuttering and

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Speaker 3: Why are you like asking me out?

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Speaker 4: Or is this?

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Speaker 4: What this is? I mean I needed their help. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it might be like a little crazy. It's been like

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Speaker 1: What a nice.

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Speaker 3: So that was a lot, Jordan. I know that she

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Speaker 4: Honest, a man, it's been a while since I've seen

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Speaker 4: you or seen your picture.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. One way that I really jogged my memory is, uh.

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Speaker 4: Do you still have that nice butt.

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Speaker 1: Out?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Well, So I was just telling them about these

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Speaker 2: Work for do zebra pants make it look bigger?

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Speaker 3: Like an optical illusion?

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Speaker 2: Ask you for a friend?

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Speaker 4: You know, I messed up, so I'm trying to like,

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Speaker 4: you know, clean slight here I come.

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Speaker 1: The clean slate includes picks. So I was like, you're

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Speaker 2: Right now, George.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you. She's

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Speaker 3: at this point, we'd like to offer to send you

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Speaker 3: and Amanda out on another date, and we would.

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Speaker 4: Pay for it.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date

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Speaker 1: on the phone right now.

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Speaker 3: I know, Saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.

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Speaker 3: I'm open to that, Okay, the hair and the rejection Amanda,

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Speaker 3: Now the ball's in your court.

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Speaker 4: Heavens, No, you know this was nice, but now I

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Speaker 4: cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No way, I want

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Speaker 2: It's going to be a little competition for you, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, if you know a way. Hoh, say, I'm not

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Speaker 3: Are you ditching him now? Twice in one year.

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Speaker 4: I was just hoping that we could be at just

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, we're missing it.

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Speaker 5: Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to her,

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Speaker 5: and I'll probably call you in.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you'll have six leftovers.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it

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Speaker 3: to you later, Amanda. Check your text message.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, he's like the rejection king.

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Speaker 3: I hope you will have a nice life and a

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Speaker 3: nice day. Oh your melting hearts right now. Jordan's hang

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Speaker 2: Back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I think the lesson that we all learned from that

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a good lesson. It is shocking that

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Speaker 3: It would be yeah, totally, But it would be funny

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Speaker 3: if she does text him though, in like a couple

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Speaker 3: I thought for sure they were going to go out

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Speaker 2: I thought it was a yes before we even asked.

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Speaker 2: I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: It was yes, he just said to the.

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Speaker 2: Team, she said no.

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Speaker 3: But that's the thing about love. It's weird and unpredictable sometimes.

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