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Speaker 1: Looking Jewels. Second date. You know, there's very few times

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Speaker 1: then fine, whatever. But it's when you've been texting with

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Speaker 1: what happened that we were like flirting and everything else,

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Speaker 1: usually what I go. You're correct there, Um, we've got

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Speaker 1: Kate on the phone right now. I say that because

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Speaker 1: she emailed us about a guy named Trent who did

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Speaker 1: the same thing to her. Now, your email says, you

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Speaker 1: guys hooked up Kate, Yeah we did. Was it a

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Speaker 1: date or a one night stand? That lingered? Lingering? When

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Speaker 1: I stand? I met him at the bar that he

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Speaker 1: so you said that you guys are texting back and

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Speaker 1: no explanation. I mean we've been texting literally every day

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Speaker 1: what happened. Were they like CUTEI texts, you know, like

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Speaker 1: again or you know, get together again. Whatever. So he

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Speaker 1: Do you know anything about this guy? I just know

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Speaker 1: that he works at the bar, that's his main gig.

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Speaker 1: You don't know if he's married, if he's single, if

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Speaker 1: he lives with his mom. No, I know he doesn't

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Speaker 1: I don't know that the other stuff. All right, Katie, Well,

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Speaker 1: him why he stopped texting you. Okay, great, thank you

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Speaker 1: focking jubil in the morning. All right, Kate's on the phone.

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Speaker 1: She emailed us about a guy named Trent who works

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Speaker 1: at a bar. Um. They hooked up, had a one

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Speaker 1: night stand and texted back and forth for how long, Kate?

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Speaker 1: About two weeks? About two weeks, and it was pretty

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Speaker 1: flirty and stuff. You guys liked each other, kind of

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Speaker 1: getting alright. Oh yeah, Kate, you realize a one night

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Speaker 1: stand with a bartender is never going to end very well. Right,

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Speaker 1: he seemed different. I hate to say that, but he

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, wait a minute, that's kind of offensive, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: good bartenders out there. Every girl that's dated a bartender

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Speaker 1: knows exactly what I'm talking about. He texted her for

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Speaker 1: Oh hello, hello? Oh uh? Can I speak to Trent please? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: He went out for a run. Is this yeah? Who's this?

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Speaker 1: This is Tran's girlfriend? Um? Oh my god, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: what what's your name? Trent? Trent's girlfriend? You know what?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Um? This is Jewil from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five.

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good. I'm confused. Do you normally

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Who is that? What's your name? Tina?

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Speaker 1: Who is this? Is this? This is cheap? I I

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I I don't even know what to

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Speaker 1: say a girlfriend, Kate. I'll explain to Tina. Tina on

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Speaker 1: our show, we do a thing called second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: So say you go on a date with somebody, or

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to say this. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I I'm sorry. Trent. Yeah, yeah, look, I don't know

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Speaker 1: a print called. Kate emailed us because her and Trent

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not a liar. I'm not trying to get

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Speaker 1: I don't know what this little slut. I don't know

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Speaker 1: But I don't want any part of it. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: just stay just out. Okay, Tina, you don't believe Kate

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Speaker 1: radio dj another time. Also, oh god, these two girls

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Speaker 1: I'm living proof. They will lie to you. Definitely. In

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Speaker 1: good News today, it's a lifeless I would agree with that.

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Speaker 1: You are one walking life less him. See you finally

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