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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Good afternoon you, sexy beach. Good afternoon U, sixy beach.

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Speaker 3: You saying, beach, Sydney. Do you see anything different about

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Speaker 3: my apartment?

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Speaker 2: It looks cleaner.

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Speaker 3: No, the bike is gone.

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Speaker 2: Oh well that's why it's cleaner. It looks cleaner because

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Speaker 2: you ain't got me.

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Speaker 3: I sold my bike yesterday, that giant, raggedy beach.

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Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. I mean, I was happy

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Speaker 2: that you got a bike, and then I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: the bike is really it's not really your style, not biking,

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Speaker 2: but the bike style was not you.

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Speaker 3: Well, it was black and skinny and simple, and that's

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Speaker 3: what I wanted, or I wanted like a bright red bike,

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Speaker 3: so they complete opposite. But it was also it was

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Speaker 3: too big for me and it was taking up too

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Speaker 3: much space in my apartment because my aggy ass landlord

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Speaker 3: would not let me leave it in the hallway, that crusty,

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Speaker 3: dusty beach.

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Speaker 2: Well, the craziest thing is that that's most landlords. They

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Speaker 2: said I can't have my shit near my door either.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, but it was in the hallway.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in my building, mines was in the hallway as well.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but yours and your landlord's bike was in

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Speaker 3: that hallway for literally like six years.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but she could have moved her bike. I live downstairs,

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Speaker 2: she does not, So who complained? Because I remember coming

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Speaker 2: in and out of your apartment. It was like an

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Speaker 2: episode of Legends of the Hidden Temple. So how who?

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Speaker 2: Her dad said something? Yeah, her dad said something. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: not only was it a fire hazard, but allegedly somebody

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Speaker 2: lives downstairs or real live downstairs. And I'm like, never

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Speaker 2: see them, they never come up that way. Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, you ain't got to Craig, you

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Speaker 2: ain't got to lie. Don't you hate landlords that lie? M.

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Speaker 3: I don't like my landlord, but I think she really

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Speaker 3: wants me to like her. She keeps bringing me gifts, gifts,

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Speaker 3: Like in the day she knocked on my door and

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Speaker 3: gave me rubber dish gloves. She's like, oh, you have

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Speaker 3: the smallest hands in the building and these are too

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Speaker 3: small for me. And I was like, do I have

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Speaker 3: the smallest hands?

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Speaker 2: There are people with.

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Speaker 4: That you buy for like two dollars.

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Speaker 2: Right right?

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Speaker 3: And then she gave me every couple of months or

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Speaker 3: every like Christmas or whatever. She'll bring me like a

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Speaker 3: bottle of wine. But it's like that wine that you

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Speaker 3: sell they sell near the cash register at like a CVS. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Chateau Diana exactly, And it's like a super alcohol, right,

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Speaker 3: and it's like a it's juice. It's juice in a

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Speaker 3: wine bottle.

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Speaker 2: She's trying. I mean, first of all, she's older, and

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Speaker 2: she's cheap. We know that she is cheap.

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Speaker 3: We know she's cheap.

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Speaker 2: She don't want to spend no kind of money. So

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Speaker 2: you're lucky that somebody didn't give her that bottle of

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Speaker 2: wine and then she regifted it to you. Right.

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Speaker 3: But I honestly, the first time she gave me a bottle,

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Speaker 3: that's what I thought had happened. But she gives me

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Speaker 3: a bottle frequently enough that I'm like, oh, she just

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Speaker 3: got this at the Dwayne Read before she came here.

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Speaker 3: But I do truly think that she wants me to

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Speaker 3: like her, which makes me like her less.

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Speaker 2: Oh is that the key to Maurice's heart? Not trying

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Speaker 2: to impress you.

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Speaker 3: Listen, if you really want me to like you, you

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Speaker 3: should make me not pay no rent, babe, or make

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Speaker 3: it easier for me to pay rent, Because she only

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Speaker 3: wants to check every month and it's like, Babe Venmo

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Speaker 3: is the future.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree, but also there's Zelle. There's Zelle, like,

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Speaker 2: I mean, just make it easier for me to pay,

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Speaker 2: so when I'm late, you can be like there should

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Speaker 2: be no excuse while you're exactly exactly you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean. I'm gonna be late with the check because

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Speaker 2: I gotta go find the check. Then I gotta go

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Speaker 2: write the check. Then I gotta go.

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Speaker 3: Then I got first I gotta remember how to completely

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Speaker 3: the check.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I don't like girl,

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Speaker 2: I haven't. I haven't filled out a check ever.

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Speaker 3: Every month I do it. Every month, I do it

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Speaker 3: and I'm like.

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Speaker 2: What name? Yeah, don't you cross through the X? Like,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, we gotta talk to her. We gotta hang

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Speaker 2: at the inviter to the knit, have her come out,

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Speaker 2: invite her to the nit. Yeah, she's got to like

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Speaker 2: loosen up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's really she's a religious Caribbean lady, so her

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Speaker 3: at the knit would be like, oh, you guys need

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Speaker 3: prayer and Jesus, and you know she's throwing holy water

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Speaker 3: at the stage and we slipping and sliding up there I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, honestly, I might need it. I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 2: opposed to that. At where I am in my life.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe some good prayer and a really homophobic

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Speaker 2: religious woman can change my life. How it's the energy.

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Speaker 2: It's the energy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that answered the question.

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Speaker 2: It's powerful energy.

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Speaker 3: Homophobic old people is powerful energy.

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Speaker 2: Yes. Let me tell you. Ooh ooh, this is a

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Speaker 2: good story. This is me. And when I was with

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Speaker 2: you know, my ex Adrian. We're in the airport, it's

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Speaker 2: like so early in the morning, it's like six o'clock

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Speaker 2: in the morning, and we're there for a flight or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and there's this old like I think she was Trinidadian. Yes,

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Speaker 2: that sounds about right. Yeah, a lady at the like

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Speaker 2: you know, making the bagels or making the breakfast and

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Speaker 2: stuff like that. And she's talking us. She's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's so nice you girls together. You know, a buddy

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Speaker 2: system is so important while traveling. And she really like

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Speaker 2: thought we were friends. And I had ordered a bagel

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Speaker 2: with cream cheese, and she was just talking and putting

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Speaker 2: more cream cheese on the bagel. And I know that

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Speaker 2: cream cheese costs more money, Like she should have charged

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Speaker 2: us extra, but I was like, I will be straight

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Speaker 2: to get this bagel with more cream cheese with no payment.

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Speaker 2: So she thought you guys were friends, but you guys

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Speaker 2: were like hugged up on.

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Speaker 3: Each other at the airport.

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Speaker 2: I mean, when she started talking to us, it was

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Speaker 2: just like, damn, this is so uncomfortable. Like I wanted,

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Speaker 2: I wanted to be close Stagrian, but I immediately like

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Speaker 3: It was like, yeah, girl, yeah, friend, And you're saying

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Speaker 3: you need more of that energy. Yes, yeah, actually, hmm, interesting,

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Speaker 3: that's an interesting What terminal were you?

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Speaker 2: Insists with? Yeah, interesting terminal five? Actually I have no

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Speaker 2: idea what that means. But okay, well, well obviously we

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Speaker 2: have to talk about our expertises. No, we actually don't

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Speaker 2: because I don't have one.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, I was gonna use your gay ass story

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Speaker 3: to segue into another gay ass story.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, that feels good.

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Speaker 3: Rita Ara and Tessa Thompson, Thompson, Thomas, Thomas.

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Speaker 4: There's a p in there, Thompson, I would imagine Thompson. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 4: you know, I don't know how to spell. I know

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Speaker 4: that the guy's name is really I always forget how

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Speaker 4: to say his name the director actor.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't matter. To be honest, he remains nameless. It's

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Speaker 2: about the women. No, he's a director, yeah, director and actor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And everything that I had read about him was calling

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Speaker 3: him her boyfriend, slash a director.

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Speaker 2: It's Tessa Thompson's boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: No, it's Rita Aurra's boyfriend. Oh lord wow sis. Which

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Speaker 3: is the most I've ever talked about Rita Aura in

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Speaker 3: my life.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she's she's making a comeback. She's making a comeback.

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Speaker 2: This is how you do it. This is how you

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Speaker 2: splash back into the pool. I don't know a single

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Speaker 2: rider or a song, No, not one. Andrewsident resident.

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Speaker 4: I think Black Widow, but I think that's an Iggy

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Speaker 4: Azalea featuring Rita Aura.

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Speaker 3: Definitely don't know it if it's an Iggy.

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Speaker 2: Sign Okay, but Marie explained everything that happened because we

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Speaker 2: didn't even get into it.

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Speaker 3: Oh all I saw they were trending on Twitter the

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Speaker 3: other day, or actually have been trending for the last

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Speaker 3: couple of days because they look like they're in a

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Speaker 3: three way relationship, or at least the man who is

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Speaker 3: Rita's boyfriend was kissing her and kissing Tessa and Tessa

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Speaker 3: and Rita were very hugged up on each other. When

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Speaker 3: he got up from the table, I saw a couple

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Speaker 3: of Momosa's on the table. So it's giving brunch and

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Speaker 3: now people are talking about poly relationships. But also more importantly,

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Speaker 3: they're talking about Rita because that's a name we have

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Speaker 3: not said in a while.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually happy for her, because you know, press is press, press, press, press, press, press.

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Speaker 2: Rita needs some press. Rita or needs so much press, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she does, so whatever she needs to do to get

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Speaker 2: out there. I truly believe that they were doing that

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Speaker 2: for the camera. I don't necessarily believe that they're in

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Speaker 2: a three way relationship.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that they're doing anything for cameras. I

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Speaker 3: think I don't think it necessarily means that they're in

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Speaker 2: Do think that they are probably hooking up.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what country or what island they were in,

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Speaker 3: but Tessa is somebody who's pretty private about her business,

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Speaker 3: so I do think that it's more than just a photograph.

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Speaker 3: I don't think they were posing this Tessa remember her

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Speaker 3: at her little Janelle mon fez. And then I was

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Speaker 3: reading the tweets and people were connecting Lupita to it,

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Speaker 3: and I said, oh, Lupita was with Tesla.

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Speaker 2: Were just friends. She's like, that's my sister.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, that's what I would say.

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Speaker 3: Somebody was like, are you sleeping with this person?

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, this is my friend, this is Si Marie.

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Speaker 2: But like there's so many pictures of us together, people like,

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Speaker 2: you guys are the you guys are a relationship.

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Speaker 3: It's like, that's because they know that you're a lesbian

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Speaker 3: cist and they think that I might be. That's all

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Speaker 3: that is, That's all that is. He was fully making

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Speaker 2: Both of them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that it was just pictures they

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Speaker 3: I mean only maybe two of them. People need press,

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Speaker 3: Tessa don't need that.

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Speaker 2: When the when the corbell is in the system, ain't

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Speaker 2: no telling when.

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Speaker 3: The corbell was. That is that the wine that they

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Speaker 3: sell at Yeah, Champagne, that's.

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Speaker 2: The champagne that's actually good with mimosas well. That's when

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Speaker 2: I can remember good mimosas.

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Speaker 3: Sidney, do you think you could ever do a poly relationship?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say a strong no. I am. I'm a

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Speaker 2: jealous person. I actually am very jealous. It doesn't seem

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Speaker 2: like it at times, but I'm extremely jealous, and my

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Speaker 2: fear is feeling like the third will and that could

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Speaker 2: possibly happen in a in a poly situation because I

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Speaker 2: can be boring at times and lazy.

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Speaker 3: That's so interesting because in now Lands, when Carolina calls

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Speaker 3: you an auntie or said you give Auntie energy, you

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Speaker 3: were like legit offended by that.

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Speaker 2: No, what she was trying to do is say that

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Speaker 3: I'm not apologizing, Sydney. You cannot demand an apology because

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Speaker 3: The outfit was wrong.

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Speaker 2: I think poly relationships are for people who are so

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Speaker 2: does probably only make three? Or can it be four?

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Speaker 2: That just feels like you need to get your priorities

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Speaker 3: I don't know if polly equals good house, but maybe

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but Polly means like everybody could be with multiple people,

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Speaker 4: Huh, that's just an open relationship, right, That's like that's

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Speaker 3: It's exclusive, it's exclusively Polly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I understand.

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Speaker 2: Okay, exclusively Polly, got it? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, because like otherwise, we're not in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I actually know a couple of people who are Polly,

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's is it open?

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Speaker 3: That sounds open? Sis.

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Speaker 3: The other wife doesn't have anybody. See this That doesn't

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Speaker 3: work for me because if you banging somebody else were

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the problem with the situation is I I just

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Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying, Like, if I'm hooking up,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, sis I think I have. I have

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Speaker 3: the wherewithal to spread myself that thing, all right, all

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Speaker 3: prepared for Tuesdays with Tyler, Wednesdays with Wayne, Thursdays. Maybe

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Speaker 3: I just feel like we we we did it before,

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Speaker 4: Wait, do you do you want Tyler, Wayne and Philip

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Speaker 2: Yes, because that's the Polly.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that I want to beat Polly.

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Speaker 2: That's not what I said.

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Speaker 3: I said, I have the wherewithal to spread myself. Think, well,

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Speaker 3: I was with multiple people.

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Speaker 2: Well when I was talking about spread myself, then I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, dating is actually it's something I

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Speaker 3: like going on dates.

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Speaker 2: But men are.

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Speaker 3: Dumb, like something. Y'all are really dumb. Like the other day,

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Speaker 3: I was in bed.

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Speaker 2: It was Saturday.

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Speaker 3: I woke up and I got a text from this

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Speaker 3: want to come over and make out? And I was like, no,

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Speaker 3: that's the text that you send at night when people

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Speaker 2: Now that's hot person privilege. They're like, I feel like

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Speaker 4: That is not No. They are beyond they're delusional.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: No, no, don't do that.

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Speaker 3: No, just because he was delusional, because I said, no,

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Speaker 3: I don't really want to come over there.

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Speaker 2: Well she showed me a picture of him, and I

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Speaker 4: He is.

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Speaker 2: I think he would look good at eleven am.

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Speaker 4: Also, I feel like this is important question. Is that

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Speaker 3: Yeah all right, but I said I said no, not really,

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Speaker 2: But did you did you try?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: That was it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you sent a text like I had never

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Speaker 2: Hung out, we've never facetimed.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if he's missing a tooth in the back,

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Speaker 3: I don't know how tall he is, I don't know

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Speaker 2: I've never met him in real life.

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Speaker 3: And then got that text and it was like, what

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Speaker 2: I'm in New York. I'm not making those moves right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: He's right away, you want to make out?

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Speaker 3: Like that's I think he was just trying to test,

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Speaker 2: Hyeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, honestly and truly. I sent them his

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Speaker 2: List it?

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Speaker 3: I mean it was like, uh, don't listen to Carolina.

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Speaker 3: But if he had caught me, if he had caught

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Speaker 3: me on a better day, no, not that. If he

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Speaker 3: lived closer to my house, I might have gone okay,

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Speaker 3: but he was.

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Speaker 2: It was like, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Going all the way out there. The uber's gonna cause

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Speaker 3: how much. Yeah, I'm not transferring trains. I'm If he

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Speaker 3: I'll come get you, that's a com Yeah, the come

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Speaker 2: What he should have said is can I make you breakfast?

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Speaker 2: Can I pick you up? And then let's make out right.

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Speaker 3: Well that the can I make you breakfast thing happen

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Speaker 3: that's wild. And he said I can cook for you

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Speaker 3: and I was like, can you cook? And he said, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I can eat too. And that's when I said, let

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Speaker 2: I like that. I mean, the guy seems flirty, like

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Speaker 2: people He probably had the message to get to you

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Speaker 3: Am Sydney, so he had just been texting everybody since

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Speaker 4: Yeah it does sound like that, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you not. I know, I should be at

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Speaker 2: That's delusion. I don't want to be the every that

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Speaker 2: should be number one. Bitch, what excuse we almost die? Oh? Whoa?

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Speaker 3: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Excuse you? If you are.

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Speaker 3: Horny in the morning when you wake up, I should

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Speaker 3: be the first person you text, not the fourth. If

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Speaker 3: I'm if I'm if you texted somebody else before me,

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Speaker 3: that means I'm runner up to some other lonely not

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Speaker 2: Girl, No, you should be texting me first. That's what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm sorry, honey, are we in a relationship?

440
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: I'm why Why would you be the first?

441
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 3: Because I'm hot in my box is moist? That's why, girl.

442
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 3: That is I'm sorry. That's not the grounds for number one.

443
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 3: If you said yes, if you said that you're the

444
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 3: most amazing person besides just sex, I mean.

445
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 2: Which you are, but just sex exactly.

446
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 3: It's just we're going off of what I look like

447
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 3: and what you think I'm capable of in the bedroom.

448
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 3: You should be texting me first, That's what I'm saying.

449
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 3: That's how confident I am in what I'm capable of.

450
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 3: You're saying I'm out of my mind because I think

451
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 3: that it's fun.

452
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 2: And I'm hot.

453
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 3: Yes, that to me, I think I deserve an apology.

454
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 2: No, no, I'm not. It's not just you. It's not

455
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 2: just you, it's everybody. Like I mean, I'm sure there's

456
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: so many people who have WOP and are beautiful and

457
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 2: they still get cheated on left and right. That is

458
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 2: not grounds for number one sis.

459
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 3: I'm not talking about a relationship. I'm talking about who

460
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 3: are you swiping on on these apps that we were like, Oh,

461
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 3: we would have a good time together.

462
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 2: Oh she seems fun. That that's all I'm talking about.

463
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 3: Looking at my profile, looking at what I'm bringing to

464
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 3: the table based on my personality. It's like, oh, Marie

465
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 3: will be fun this morning. If you text who else?

466
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 3: Could he possibly be texting City?

467
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 2: Who else?

468
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 4: Who?

469
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: In Brooklyn? From Tinder Girl?

470
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 3: The way these people be on the app all fucking day,

471
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 3: you be surprised.

472
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: I was at a comedy show and not one, but

473
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 2: three dudes were on Hinge during the comedy Hinge. Yes,

474
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 2: it was crazy, and I was like, I was like,

475
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 2: there's a full on comedian giving jokes going back to

476
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: back with bits that they've been working on through the pandemic,

477
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 2: and this man is just.

478
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 3: The first time I ever saw a dude on Tinder

479
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 3: was a party. Was at a party, yeah, And the

480
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 3: way he was swiping, I thought he was playing a

481
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: video game.

482
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's all people around, like.

483
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 3: Actual women, actual men in the room, and he was

484
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 3: swiping so fast, and I was like, what game are

485
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 3: you playing? And he was like, oh, it's tender And

486
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 3: I was like, you looking for hose while there are

487
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: hoes around. But that's how insane they are. That's why

488
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I'm like to hold these people's attention.

489
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 3: I don't know, I truly looking good and having WOP

490
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 3: is or the possibility of wop if they've never even

491
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 3: hooked up.

492
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 2: How do they know?

493
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 3: Listen, Sydney. I mean, I don't know how you think

494
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 3: about you in the morning when you wake up, But

495
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 3: when I wake up in the morning, I'm like, at

496
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 3: least at least ten people, maybe ten is generous. At

497
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 3: least ten people woke up and my name or my

498
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 3: face popped into their brain. And really, I think that's

499
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 3: how you should wake up in the morning.

500
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 2: Cyst. You need to channel a little bit of that,

501
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: you know, some of that cocky energy into into your life.

502
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: It'll change your life. Your fridge will be cleaner. Yeah, yeah,

503
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I actually finally cleaned my refrigerator,

504
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 2: so I am feeling more confident about myself. I mean

505
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 2: it's like, how could you walk out confidently, you know,

506
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 2: with your eyebrows drawn on, knowing that you have the dingiest,

507
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 2: nastiest refrigerator for months?

508
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 3: Can we talk about the fridge? Why was there so

509
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 3: much stuff? You are a family of one any family.

510
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: And two cats? Why was your fridge so full? I

511
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: am a hoarder, Marie.

512
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 2: I am a hoarder. It's really hard for me to

513
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: throw things out and then things pilot and like considering

514
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: you know that all the sid can cook stuff, it

515
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I was used to things being used

516
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,959
Speaker 2: and then I don't have any more of it. But

517
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: towards the end, I was only doing it once a month.

518
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 2: So I buy all this stuff, and you know, all

519
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 2: of it is not getting used. So I have like

520
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: onions and peppers and random butters and sauces and doubles

521
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 2: of things that I forgot that I had bought. But Sidney,

522
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 2: I also feel you were you were always over buying.

523
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 2: Yes you can cook, true, absolutely, you were always.

524
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 3: Yes, truly truly, it was like, oh, I'm gonna make

525
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 3: this thing. I'm gonna buy seven pounds of bud And.

526
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 2: It was like what, yeah, why true? So you know

527
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 2: the thing that I never bought enough of wings. We

528
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: would always be out of wings. Well wings is you know, yeah,

529
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 2: everybody's eating like six But it was so much and

530
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 2: it was so nasty, and it was just like.

531
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 3: The the what's the what are some of the nest

532
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 3: what are some of the things you pulled out of

533
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 3: the fridge that the listeners who maybe weren't.

534
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 4: Aren't on a g missed some salmonario.

535
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 3: There was a couple bental boxes of the salmon sariokey

536
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 3: was gone, but like you know, the little the other

537
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 3: like the tempora or like two California rolls, like.

538
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 2: Pieces of California roll. It was God, just I just.

539
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 3: Don't understand why you weren't eating that stuff. Later in

540
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: the day, like.

541
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: I think this is my this is my issue, right,

542
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: Like I'll be hungry and then the food will get

543
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: here and I'll eat some of the food and it's like, well,

544
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 2: I'm not I don't have a big enough appetite for everything.

545
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: So then I'm like I don't want to throw it

546
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 2: away because I will be hungry again. So I put

547
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 2: it in the refrigerator and what oh not and left

548
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 2: the house. Now we go on to a show and

549
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: I'm eating outside now, so I don't need that food.

550
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but system Bental boxes was from before. Don't do

551
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 3: that outside your fridge looked like that the whole pandemic.

552
00:28:58,240 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 2: Don't do that.

553
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 4: How long were they in there, the seminary karaokey how about.

554
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: Two weeks to two to three weeks. Yeah, that's good, Maurice,

555
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: Maurice's face.

556
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 3: I think that one of those boxes was the seminaryoky

557
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 3: box from the Langston.

558
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: No it's I had of like there was like a

559
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: pan of macaroni and cheese, but just the edges of

560
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: the macaroni and cheese. I had eaten all. It was

561
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: pretty much done. But like, oh my god, the mole.

562
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 2: The mole, Oh my god, the mole was so nasty.

563
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: And then like, you know where you put your vegetables,

564
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god. They they lifted up and screamed at me.

565
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: Draws at the bottom of the draw Yes, yeah, you

566
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 2: had vegetables in your fridge. Stunned.

567
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 4: I love that.

568
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,959
Speaker 2: Study, thank you. But yeah, obviously I posted on instant

569
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 2: Stories for the contents and it was so many people

570
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 2: messaging like, oh my god, I thought I was the

571
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: only one. So many A lot of them were beige,

572
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: but yeah, well.

573
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 3: You did post some that were disgusting, like not only

574
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 3: was the fridge full of stuff, but the actual fridge

575
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 3: was dirty, nasty. It's like, babe, it is leaking, so

576
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 3: that shaga lug assault it is.

577
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: It is nasty. But also I think it sheds light

578
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 2: on being like a high functioning depressed person where oh,

579
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: you can get up and do certain things, and then

580
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 2: there's other stuff that it's like you just it is

581
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 2: such a chore to get to and it piles up

582
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 2: and then you're like, oh, I'm that old lady that

583
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 2: hoarders is coming in trying to like save the the

584
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 2: fifteen cats that are underneath, and there's ash.

585
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 3: There's always a smushed cat behind the fridge.

586
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 2: Yeah mm hmmm. So like it's well, it's a real thing.

587
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 2: I finally got my closet cleaned. You know, Manny came

588
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: and he cleaned out everything. He threw everything away. I

589
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 2: have I have some boxes that's in the closet, but

590
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: for the most part, all the clothes and everything is gone.

591
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 3: Why are the boxes in the closet. Why can't we

592
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 3: just cut them up and fold them flatinum?

593
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 2: Well, there's a Christmas tree that I didn't unbox. You, Sydney,

594
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 2: you got a Christmas tree.

595
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 3: I didn't see a single Christmas tree in that apartment

596
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 3: for Kwanza or what's the other one, Hanukkah. I didn't

597
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: see you got a full sized Christmas tree.

598
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's an it's like, you know, artificial.

599
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would hope, so and Andrews looking like excuse me,

600
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 3: I would hope so.

601
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 4: So wait, you had this when the holiday season rolled around,

602
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 4: but you didn't unpack it.

603
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 2: Right, because then I went to.

604
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 4: La oh okay, then understandable.

605
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 2: And I didn't want to throw it away because it's like,

606
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: well it's a whole tree.

607
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 4: Yeah of course, right, But what was.

608
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: The return policy on the tree when you got it?

609
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: Well that's another thing. It's really hard for me to

610
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:08,959
Speaker 2: return stuff.

611
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 3: It's very easy for me to return stuff.

612
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: That's where we're different because I will get my money

613
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 2: back and I do not. I don't like clutter. My

614
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: apartment is too small for all of that clutter.

615
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 3: So and I have a mom who's a low key hoarder. Yeah,

616
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 3: and every time I go to her house, I'm trying

617
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 3: to throw things away. She'd be holding on the things

618
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 3: like this is the newspaper that came out when Obama

619
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 3: was elected, and it's like, Sis, we have Google.

620
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 2: We don't need this old ass newspaper. She'll save the

621
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: whole thing.

622
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 3: She'll be like, oh, this is when Princess Diana was murdered.

623
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 2: This is the girl.

624
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 3: There's a beanie baby. We do not need all of

625
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 3: these pages of newspaper.

626
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: That's how my auntie was. That's how my auntie, my uncles,

627
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: my mom. Like, I think it's hereditary, Like it's just

628
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 2: in my veins to be the auntie.

629
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no.

630
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 2: Andrew and juw Andrew. As much as I don't like

631
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 2: silencing a white gay, i'm silencing you.

632
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 4: Don't know you don't like it by all means. If

633
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 4: that's the hill that you want to die, what.

634
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 3: You said that on Sydney, I think I deserve an apology.

635
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

636
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 3: We've been shutting white men down since nineteen ninety nine.

637
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 3: I know, shout out to the Beije male listeners.

638
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: But it was scary. It was definitely scary to see

639
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: and like at the bottom of the refrigerator, like there's

640
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 2: just another cat. No dead fruitflies like it was bad.

641
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 3: It was bad.

642
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 2: You murdered the fruit The fruit.

643
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: Flies so well fed in that refrigerator that they died.

644
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 2: Well, it was like a whole family of them at

645
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: the bottom.

646
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 3: I think it's because in the summer, you know, I

647
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: had a lot of them, and then they would probably

648
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 3: just get trapped.

649
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: You know what else I need to do the freezer,

650
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 2: the freezer.

651
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 3: You did the fridge, but not the freezer.

652
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: Oh girl, I take step baby steps. Okay, I got

653
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 2: a crawl before I walk. Okay, Okay.

654
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 3: I think that I think it's important to talk about

655
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 3: like how high functioning depression looks like, because I feel

656
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 3: like I have like a mild form of that, with

657
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: very basic things that I need to do in my

658
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 3: apartment and I'll walk by them, step over them, I'll

659
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 3: look at them and say.

660
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 2: I'm going to do that tomorrow, and then.

661
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 3: Days turn into weeks.

662
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 2: But also emails too, emails. Oh you could do that

663
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: as well with emails. I am doing that with emails,

664
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 2: and you're like, all I have to do is open

665
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 2: it up and respond, and for some reason, my heart

666
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: stops and I'm like, I cannot not right now, not today.

667
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 2: And then I'll get an alert like oh, this is

668
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,839
Speaker 2: from fifteen days ago. I'm like fuck. And then I

669
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 2: open it and it's like, oh that pass passed.

670
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:09,760
Speaker 3: Right, Google is annoying about that. You gotta dismiss the nudge,

671
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 3: replied seventeen days ago. Follow up, No, I'll open the email.

672
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll read it and I say, oh, I'm a

673
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna respond, and I mark it as unread and

674
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 2: I leave. When I come back, oh a lot, because

675
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 2: I just keep getting more emails and not responding to

676
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 2: the old ones. But it's like, when you know people

677
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 2: were messaging me, they're like, what is it that breaks

678
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 2: you out of that terrible cycle? Because it's good to

679
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 2: talk about the issues, right, but what are the solutions?

680
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: How do you fight it? How do you combat it?

681
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 2: And for me, right, like, I have to look at

682
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 2: myself and say, is this a reflection of who I

683
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: really am? I am not this person that like ignores

684
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 2: opportunities or that's not work stuff. Yeah, that's not the

685
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 2: person who I want to be, right, And then I say,

686
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 2: I looked at my refrigerator refrigerator yesterday and I said

687
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,959
Speaker 2: this is disgusting. I have to put it on into

688
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 2: stories because that's the only way I'm going to hold

689
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 2: myself accountable. And I was like, and I was like, no,

690
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 2: it was no, it was shameful, Marie. I was very ashamed.

691
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, how are people going to look

692
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 2: at me? This is nasty. But I was like, I

693
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,959
Speaker 2: also had to make fun of the fact that it's like, bitch,

694
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 2: you put you put on little rhinestones perfectly on your

695
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 2: fucking lids, but you can't clean out your refrigerator. You

696
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 2: disgusting horror A.

697
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 3: Word, you disgusting horror. I'm gonna put my name in

698
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 3: the ring for it.

699
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh yeah, that's a great, disgusting, disgusting. I

700
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,760
Speaker 2: love that. That's great. But it was it was only

701
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 2: for me to be like solution oriented, like if I

702
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 2: talk to myself like this, this will fight the urge

703
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 2: to be like I'm just gonna lay back down and

704
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 2: get to it later, you know.

705
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 3: So it was a major steps is.

706
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is. It was like, but I really was like, damn,

707
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 2: are people gonna think I'm crazy? Are people going to

708
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: like not want to work with me? Are people going

709
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 2: to think all these bad things about me. And it's

710
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: like Sydney, because of your refrigerator, you think, because of

711
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 2: your French people are going to be like, honestly, I

712
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 2: was about to offer her this gig, but I see

713
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 2: that she has a milkshake in there from seven weeks ago.

714
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: What delete the draft? Marie. You've never like watched somebody

715
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 2: on social media and you thought they were cool and

716
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 2: then you're like, actually, I'm good on them.

717
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 3: Never I've seen people that I was like, wow, they're

718
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 3: very like they seem cool or they're very attractive, and

719
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 3: then I hear them speak and I'm like, oh, that's true,

720
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 3: and they like go down a couple of pegs.

721
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 2: In my brain.

722
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 3: But you really truly thought that it wasn't even like

723
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 3: your friend was dirty.

724
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 2: Well it isn't. It didn't look dirty. I didn't show

725
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 2: you at the bottom of it.

726
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm sure there was.

727
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 2: Like there was like pink juice at the bottom, pink juice,

728
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 2: black juice.

729
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 3: It's like it was like peals of stuff that like disintegrated,

730
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 3: oh like garlic, ma'am, ma'am.

731
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 2: And it was like so wasteful. And I felt bad

732
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 2: because wasting like that, guilty of waste, being so wasteful.

733
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:46,399
Speaker 2: But I also was like, truly, truly this, I want

734
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 2: to be honest, like this is a disease, a default,

735
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 2: Like it sucks. It's not like I'm purposely buying food

736
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 2: and then throwing it in the trash. This was like

737
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 2: months of me like, damn, maybe I'll get to it. No.

738
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but see I hate throwing food away. Yes, so

739
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 3: I am also and I'm the opposite of you. Right now,

740
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 3: my fridge, I keep not going to the supermarket, so

741
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 3: my fridge is bis empty. There's a couple bottles of weed, tea,

742
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 3: a bottle of rose, a bottle la vino verde. It's

743
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 3: it's bottles of things in there.

744
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: People were sending me fridges of like just beverages, and

745
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: I was like, you're never home. You're never home, and

746
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 2: then you have a few guests and that's why you

747
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 2: have beverages. No, I'm home.

748
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 3: I'm just like like like every day, literally every day

749
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 3: I wake up and I say, I'm gonna have a

750
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: salad tomorrow, Right tomorrow, I'm gonna have it tomorrow. I'm

751
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 3: gonna make it every single day, and last night I

752
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 3: made it. I finally made a tiny ass salad, and

753
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 3: I was like, wow.

754
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: Victims, Oh my god, we have to clap, we have

755
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: to snap and twenty salad. Wait.

756
00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 3: Speaking of tiny salads, some Walker had a baby and

757
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 3: she's feeding it shrooms, hemp seeds and honey.

758
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 2: That's what the the internet is saying. I know.

759
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 3: That's the photo that she posted in her stories, blending it,

760
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:16,240
Speaker 3: blending it up, and she said breast milk was toxic.

761
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, if you believe that you're a

762
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 2: toxic person, maybe that's what she thought. She's like, I

763
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,240
Speaker 2: am bad, so I don't want to feed my baby

764
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 2: this energy.

765
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 3: But people are mad because they're saying that the baby's

766
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 3: way too young. You're not supposed to give a baby

767
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 3: honey before the age of one, apparently because baby it's

768
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 3: so tiny.

769
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, the baby's Tiny's summer baby, What are you doing

770
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 2: sum summer baby? Walker? Is the baby going to be

771
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: able to walk?

772
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 3: Like?

773
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: What's going on?

774
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 4: Like?

775
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 2: She it just it's scary. But also it's it's a

776
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:55,399
Speaker 2: sensitive subject, right because which party. I am not a mother.

777
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 2: I'm not a mother, but I know some of the

778
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: things that my mom did, I'm sure or somebody could

779
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 2: have been like that is raw that's not how you

780
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 2: treat da da da da. You know so, But was

781
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 2: your mother feeding you?

782
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 3: Because the other ways that you discipline and raise your kid.

783
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 3: That's everybody has an opinion about how everybody does everything.

784
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 3: And you know people love shaming a woman, right, But

785
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 3: the full thing, since you have breast milk or you

786
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 3: can buy formula, you not doing that. We're blending the

787
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: hemp seeds that I put in my smoothies to make

788
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 3: me less anxious, like can a baby even?

789
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 4: Like?

790
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 3: What are the hemp seeds doing to the digestive tract?

791
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 4: Like?

792
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 2: I truly I thought hemp was good for like your

793
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 2: hair and motion. So I don't even know the purpose

794
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 2: of hemp.

795
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 3: I don't have them in my fridge anymore. Wait, no,

796
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 3: maybe I do. Hold on, it might be the only

797
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 3: thing in there.

798
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 2: Ree, you should show us show us your friend. I'll

799
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 2: show you my fridge if Andrew shows us his fridge too.

800
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Andrew, what the fuck is in your fridge?

801
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 4: I just cleaned it yesterday when I saw your stories,

802
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 4: So it is, and throw.

803
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 3: Away you it's a new fridge though you just have it.

804
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 4: It is a new fridge. But like I guess, like recently,

805
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 4: like going out to like more like restaurants and everything.

806
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 2: You had Chick fil A in there, Okay, got it?

807
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 4: Yea exposed me. But like you know, when they come

808
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 4: to your table and you didn't finish everything, they're like,

809
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 4: do you want a to go box? And it's like,

810
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 4: you feel like bad if you don't say yes because

811
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 4: it's wasting food. But I know by taking it home,

812
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:40,240
Speaker 4: it's never gonna get touched.

813
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 3: You got to give it to a homeless person.

814
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 2: That's what I do.

815
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 4: But I feel that every time, every time that you're

816
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 4: looking for a homeless person, you can never find one.

817
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, but then you gotta leave it in a homeless hotspot, Babe.

818
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 3: You gotta be like, oh, it's gonna be maybe gathering

819
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 3: here there in a knife and a little napkin set.

820
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 4: I have to become aware of where the homeless hotspots are.

821
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 2: I want to say in New York. Maybe I'm not

822
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 2: walking enough, but I've been in New York and I'm

823
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 2: this is the less I've ever seen homeless people compared

824
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 2: to LA I rarely see any homeless people in my neighborhood.

825
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 2: And I would say there's parts of you know, Easter

826
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: New York that's very like low income and dingy. But

827
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 2: there's homes all around like where I'm at, and I

828
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 2: do not see homeless people. Well, I might see a

829
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 2: drunk you know, Jamaican man talking to himself. Oh he's

830
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 2: not homeless, gotza. It wasn't me. It wasn't me.

831
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 3: Yes, But LA is the homeless capital of the world.

832
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 3: I feel like mainly and or in part because you know,

833
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 3: Mayor Giuliani like bust them out there, the mayor of

834
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 3: New York. That's what they claimed he did. He just

835
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: gave all the homeless people in Times Square like a ticket,

836
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 3: one way ticket to La Plus. You know, people go

837
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 3: to LA to be stars, and sometimes the pressure gets

838
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 3: too much for them, or I don't know, people stop

839
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 3: taking their meds, or people make they go to LA

840
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 3: with a backpack and a guitar and it's not what

841
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 3: it what. It's not giving what it meant to give. So,

842
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 3: but I don't like thrown food away, so I always

843
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 3: take it. But I'm usually gonna eat it if I

844
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 3: take it. But if I know I'm not gonna eat it,

845
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 3: then I look for homeless person. Have you tried walking

846
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 3: through Penn Station?

847
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 2: Babe Facts that's a good place. Times Square, Times Square.

848
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 3: Terminal, baby, Yeah, Andrew Yang's favorite subway station.

849
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 2: Times Square. Yeah. Any any bus stop, any bus stop

850
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 2: on the Lower east Side. You know it's different.

851
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 3: A lot more women are proposing to the men in

852
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 3: their lives. Can we talk about this, well, I think

853
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 3: it's it's probably different because you date women. So would

854
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 3: you propose to your like partner or would you just

855
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 3: assume they were going to propose to you?

856
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 2: I mean, say, for instance, I had like I got

857
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 2: all this money or whatever, and I felt like very

858
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 2: successful and content with myself. I would propose. Okay, I

859
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 2: wouldn't get on my knees.

860
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,439
Speaker 3: Why I'm not going I don't.

861
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 2: I'm not subscribing to that getting on your knee shit.

862
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't even want whoever's going to propose

863
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 2: to me to get on their knees. You don't need

864
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 2: to get your knees. Open the box and show me

865
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,479
Speaker 2: beautiful ring. Oh my god, everybody's around, Thank you so much.

866
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,360
Speaker 2: This is gorgeous. I don't need the knee thing. What

867
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 2: is the knee thing about? Who started that? Bullshit?

868
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 4: You?

869
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 3: So you just want them to slide the ring across

870
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 3: the table.

871
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 2: No, No, you can hold my hand. You can say

872
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 2: you're beach and have dignity and hold my hand. It's fine.

873
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 3: Well, I think that's you want her to have dignity

874
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: because it's a woman. I want the man to get

875
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 3: on his knees like he does in all of the movies,

876
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 3: in all the rom comes.

877
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 2: I need I need to be like, oh, like, what.

878
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:16,760
Speaker 3: Are you tying your shoe?

879
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 2: Real slow?

880
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 3: I mean I don't even know if I want to

881
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 3: get married, but I know that when you propose to me,

882
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 3: whether I say yes or no, I need you to

883
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 3: get on your knees. Don't look across the table at

884
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 3: Chipotle and be like, you know, I've been having a

885
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 3: lot of fun these last couple of weeks.

886
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 2: And weeks, she's that good. She's that good. Folks they're

887
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 2: proposing after a couple of weeks in Chippotle, got it?

888
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, Ariana Grande just got married, and wasn't

889
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: she with her dude for like a couple of months.

890
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 3: Like people, people move at the pace they want to move,

891
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 3: and sometimes they be like, well, you know, you know.

892
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's all I mean, she was constantly getting engaged, right,

893
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 2: But she's actually just that she's just that girl. She's

894
00:46:59,160 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 2: just that girl.

895
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 4: She's actually like wifed up.

896
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, no, I know that, I know that, but

897
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying after the third engagement, I think I think

898
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 2: it's time to be like, we're going to really do this.

899
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 4: The punch card.

900
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the punch card. I hope that.

901
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 3: I hope to be a woman that's engaged multiple times.

902
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 2: I think that you've married like that for my future,

903
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 2: that's whoa. This is the first time I heard this.

904
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 2: This is what I want. So you want to be

905
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 2: Polly poly engaged?

906
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I just want to be like

907
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 3: because like Jlo's been engaged and married a couple of times,

908
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 3: laur Harvey's been engaged before, a lot of people just

909
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 3: been engaged and it's like, yeah, let's get married, and

910
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 3: then you start to plan stuff, and then you're like,

911
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 3: or this is how I think it'll happen for me

912
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 3: is I'll be like.

913
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 2: Do I really want to plan a wedding? No, well,

914
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: you don't get someone. You get someone to plan it

915
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 2: for you, right.

916
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 3: But then you look at somebody one day, maybe you

917
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 3: get up, you wake up before them, and they're sleeping

918
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 3: next to you with their mouth open and maybe they

919
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 3: got a little crust in their eyes, and you're like,

920
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 3: do I want let's spend the rest of my life

921
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 3: with him? And then you brush your teeth and you're like,

922
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 3: I don't know. And then breakfast he's chewing you like

923
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 3: he's chewing too loud. I don't like how he moves

924
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 3: his lips when he reads his text messages. I don't know,

925
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 3: but like, well, that's when you fall That's when you

926
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 3: know you've fallen out of love with somebody.

927
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 2: I'll say that, when you are in love with someone,

928
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 2: you can't see any of that shit. But as soon

929
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 2: as that that, like that shoe drops, that one shoe

930
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 2: just bloop, that Steve Madden just plump, You're like, yeah,

931
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: You're like, I fucking hate your forehead, like your breastinks.

932
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 2: When you can tell that they breastink, that's when you

933
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 2: know the veil of love has just been removed.

934
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 3: The veil of love. Okay, I'm also putting that down

935
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 3: a title.

936
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 2: It's true. It's true. Every time I've like have been

937
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 2: out of it with someone, I started noticing the things

938
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 2: that I just was not at all. And I feel

939
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: that way about friends too. Like I know when I'm like, okay,

940
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 2: the friendship might have ran its course when I'm thinking

941
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: these things about them.

942
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Well, I mean we grow up and we

943
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 3: become wiser, less patient people. Every day that we're alive,

944
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 3: we're getting we're turning. We're a little bit closer to

945
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 3: being a cranky old person yelling at a kid for

946
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 3: being on the lawn. Like every day we get closer

947
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 3: and closer to that.

948
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 2: But I think, I don't know. I don't think the

949
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 2: crazy thing is, Marie, you've had more patience now since

950
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: like our friendship, I will say that I'll give you that.

951
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 2: You give more grace now And you pause before you

952
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 2: say something sometimes and you're like, now, I don't know

953
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 2: if you're doing that to everybody else, but I know with.

954
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 3: Me you do that with everybody else. And you're saying

955
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 3: it's the flip of the lip. Well, sometimes I pause

956
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,919
Speaker 3: because I forgot what I was about to say. Other

957
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 3: times I pause because it's like, is that.

958
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 2: What I want to say? Right? So that? But yeah,

959
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: I mean I'm not seeing everybody. The older you get,

960
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 2: the the angrier you.

961
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 3: Get, I said, I mean wiser, So you can either

962
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 3: keep living your life and reacting to things the way

963
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 3: you've been reacting to things and fully turn into your

964
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 3: mother and father or you can, you know, talk to

965
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 3: Lydia once a week and fix what needs to be fixed.

966
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 3: But I sometimes I'll sit and I'll be like, oh,

967
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 3: like I should be nicer to my friends, or oh,

968
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 3: I'm not that nice to my sister. I could be

969
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 3: nicer to her, so you know, I mean, she's not

970
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 3: that nice to me, but.

971
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 2: I don't know.

972
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 3: It's that like the same way you got up and

973
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 3: you were like, I have to clean my fridge. I

974
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 3: will stand up sometimes and be like I need to

975
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,919
Speaker 3: be I need to think more about what I'm about

976
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 3: to say really, not like specifically that, but like I'm like,

977
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, specifically, give me an example where you're like,

978
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 3: I need because the people want to know Marie.

979
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 2: Well, I can't give you an example.

980
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 3: But what I can say is also there's less things

981
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 3: that I care about now, Like I know what I

982
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 3: don't give a damn about. So it's like sometimes it's

983
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 3: not worth it. It's not worth it to get into

984
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 3: it with somebody because you're like who cares? Yeah, truly,

985
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 3: at the peak of my like the center of my being.

986
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 2: That's what it is. I don't care, you don't care,

987
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 2: but that doesn't make you mean. And I actually want

988
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 2: to change the narrative that Marie Fauston is not mean.

989
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 2: That's the title, Marie Fossen is not mean. You're not mean.

990
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 2: I think that you are very lighthearted with things, and

991
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 2: people are not used to people being so free with

992
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 2: their words, and that is triggering. So it's just quick

993
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 2: to be like, you're mean, but like over the years,

994
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think you were maybe mean before,

995
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 2: but definitely not now. Wow, Sidney, the veil of love,

996
00:51:56,360 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 2: the veil of love. I'm being so I see, I

997
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 2: see with my bare eyes real mean people. Yes, just

998
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:08,839
Speaker 2: not good hearted, yes, just like has no regard for

999
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 2: anybody except themselves, especially in this industry. Yeah, is wild.

1000
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 3: It's wild how like people will talk to the people

1001
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 3: who work for them, or the crew on a set,

1002
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 3: or sometimes you'll be out and you'll see somebody's eyes

1003
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 3: just shifting around the room. They're just looking for somebody

1004
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 3: more famous than you to talk to, and it's like, girl,

1005
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 3: none of those people want to talk to you.

1006
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 2: What means mean? I said mean?

1007
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1008
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, not responding to your friends. But then like you're

1009
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 2: commenting on like every celebrities page that does not give

1010
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 2: a fuck about you. Come on, now, you're like get

1011
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 2: it together right or not supporting your friends? Yeah, but

1012
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,840
Speaker 2: quick to post a photo that you took with somebody

1013
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: that is like a degree of separation from you.

1014
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 3: But you're like, you know what I mean? Like there

1015
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 3: are people who just want to be adjacent to fame

1016
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,479
Speaker 3: or they think that when people see them with people

1017
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 3: who are famous or whatever successful.

1018
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 2: Adjacent to fame is a great title too, Just.

1019
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 4: Like, Okay, we have four options.

1020
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, we're working.

1021
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:19,399
Speaker 3: We're working, We're working at.

1022
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 2: What we're doing what needs to be done.

1023
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 4: For I'm not I'm not complaining. I love when there's options.

1024
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 3: But it sounded like a complaint, babe.

1025
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 4: Not finding a complaint mean.

1026
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 3: Something you want to take up with HR Babe.

1027
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 2: I just want to make.

1028
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 4: Sure not have an HR department.

1029
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, a lot of podcasts don't.

1030
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 3: Okay, can you read the titles for us and we

1031
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 3: can decide which one we want?

1032
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 4: Sure they are you Disgusting or The Veil of Love?

1033
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 4: Murray Fouston is not mean or adjacent to fame.

1034
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 2: Honestly, these are all books that I would read. These

1035
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 2: are so good. I feel like we've we have like

1036
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 2: ten more minutes left. I feel like there's another title.

1037
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:07,720
Speaker 3: There's a title on the horizon Sydney.

1038
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1039
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 4: I think that's the.

1040
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,879
Speaker 2: Title on the horizon love. I love that.

1041
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 4: Wow.

1042
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 2: And you know, we take a screenshot and we have

1043
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:23,720
Speaker 2: to post so people can get yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay,

1044
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:28,959
Speaker 2: should we read any of these questions that we've yes, yes,

1045
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 2: please for the pod. Yeah, we appreciate you. My alliterate,

1046
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 2: my literate, No, my literate, baby, I'm like illiterate. No,

1047
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 2: you squeeze me.

1048
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 3: Okay, wait uh writing to the pod. Okay, let's see

1049
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 3: this at the photo touged Okay, great. First of all,

1050
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 3: can I just say that people be People have been

1051
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 3: showing up to all of the Niche shows a lot

1052
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 3: of people who listen to the podcast, and y'all are

1053
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 3: y'all are like in.

1054
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 2: Wow, y'all are dope. We love y'all so much, like

1055
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 2: y'all really come out and the touching things that you say,

1056
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I know.

1057
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 3: We show up on this podcast, some of us, both

1058
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 3: of us, most of us, like right before we start

1059
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,959
Speaker 3: to record, and we sometimes don't have anything to talk about.

1060
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 3: We're just talking about how we feel. So to hear that,

1061
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 3: y'all are we got you through the pandemic. I mean

1062
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 3: for me, it's comedic, but I love that for us.

1063
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 3: I love that for us.

1064
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 2: Okay, it's so funny. It's funny. I mean it's great too,

1065
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 2: but it's like what Yeah. Also, someone left to comment

1066
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:48,800
Speaker 2: on iTunes and they said that we're the most underrated podcast,

1067
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 2: and I totally agree. I agree. But also we're pretty

1068
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 2: like we're kind of casual.

1069
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 3: We're not like, oh my god, we need to get

1070
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 3: the biggest celebrity we need to, which is probably not

1071
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 3: best in terms of marketing for us.

1072
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 2: But we're just so chill.

1073
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 3: Should we work on that, Marie, work on way being

1074
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 3: less chill, I think being motivated to post custody and

1075
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 3: be better about promoting the podcast. Yeah, we should probably

1076
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 3: work on that, you know. Yeah. But also it's like

1077
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 3: sometimes I go through like these phases of like social

1078
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 3: media is too much work and it's just like I'd

1079
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 3: rather just like not do anything on it.

1080
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,919
Speaker 2: But that's the high functioning depression in some of us,

1081
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,959
Speaker 2: or especially me. It's like I can get on there

1082
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 2: but I cannot post on there right or I can

1083
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 2: like see something and engage with it, but then I

1084
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 2: can't do my own shit.

1085
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, sick.

1086
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sick. It's like I feel embarrassed to promote myself.

1087
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 2: It's easier to promote a friend.

1088
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 3: Really, you feel promoting yourself? I do like sharing a picture,

1089
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 3: sharing one of the twelve thousand selfies in your phone.

1090
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 3: You feel embarrassed to like post one of those.

1091
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,240
Speaker 2: What you're saying, No, I think that's so easy because

1092
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 2: that's a very surface. I think like to promote my

1093
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 2: actual content or like you know, I had a clip

1094
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 2: for Comedy Central and I just I hate it myself.

1095
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 2: It's it's sad to say out loud. I was like,

1096
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: I hate I hate every little thing.

1097
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 3: About the set or about what you look like in

1098
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 3: the video.

1099
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 2: No, the set just me. I was like, I am annoying.

1100
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't see any good in me.

1101
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 2: It was sick, like, I was like, what are you

1102
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 2: about to say?

1103
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 3: I sussists. I think you've got to get you a

1104
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 3: little lydias is it's time.

1105
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1106
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 2: Well, I just got a response back to Sherry and

1107
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 2: she is unavailable, but she gave me a list of

1108
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 2: people to contacts there, right.

1109
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 3: Because I mean, yeah, you're doing the antidepressant thing, but

1110
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 3: I think that talking about how you feel and why

1111
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 3: you feel it is probably gonna be more helpful than

1112
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 3: just sitting in your house and hating me everything about

1113
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 3: what you're saying, you know, but also like, yeah, we

1114
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 3: watched these videos that they post of us that we

1115
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 3: stressed about before the shoot and stressed about on the

1116
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 3: day of, and like found an outfit for and then

1117
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 3: they posted and you're like, first of all, I felt

1118
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 3: funnier and I've never been less funny than I am

1119
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 3: in this video. That's how I feel anytime, you know,

1120
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 3: certain networks post me on, which is.

1121
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 2: Crazy because I look at I mean, it's probably just

1122
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 2: the veil of love that I like everything I see,

1123
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 2: like your stories, anything of I'm like the first person

1124
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 2: to like, like yell out loud. I'm like, she is

1125
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 2: so funny and well, I want to hang out with

1126
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 2: her right now.

1127
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 3: That's why, Sidney, that is definitely the fail of love.

1128
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 3: Because everybody is not saying that that's crazy.

1129
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 2: No, that's not true, Marie. You have so many like

1130
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 2: die hard fans, Sidney.

1131
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 3: I'm just saying everybody is not saying that. There are

1132
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 3: people who support me and they love what I do

1133
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 3: and they recognize me in New Orleans and that's fantastic, but.

1134
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 2: There are maybe I don't want to quantify.

1135
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 3: It, but I'm still I'll watch stuff and I'll be like,

1136
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 3: I'm funnier than that. Why did I save jokes? That's

1137
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 3: the thing saving jokes. You're like, oh, I want to

1138
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 3: do funny stuff, but I want to do my really

1139
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 3: funny stuff on the Tonight Show. I want to do

1140
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 3: my really funny stuff for Netflix. And then it's like,

1141
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 3: you just never do those jokes, Like, girl, what is

1142
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 3: this like crap that you put in out? You will

1143
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 3: come up with funnier stuff later eventually. That's my biggest

1144
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 3: problem is I keep trying to save jokes and.

1145
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 2: It's like, just do it, you know. Yeah, I hear.

1146
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 3: I thought that your video was funny, Sidney, and I

1147
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 3: was there when you recorded it and.

1148
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 2: I left, so I saw it and I immediately threw

1149
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 2: my phone. I threw my phone and I was like,

1150
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 2: the only good thing about this is that fucking coat.

1151
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 2: That's a lie.

1152
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 3: The coute is it's a nice coat.

1153
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, okay, wait, here, Here we go, Here we go,

1154
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 2: Here we go.

1155
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 3: Andrew, did you have anything that you wanted to add

1156
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 3: to what you just heard?

1157
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 4: Oh, I feel like it's like hard to say because

1158
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 4: I'm not obviously doing the same thing as either of you.

1159
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 4: But it's just like it's always difficult to hear when

1160
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 4: your guys are like feeling like not that confident about

1161
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 4: the work that you put out because I see obviously

1162
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 4: that it's it's great, it's great content and not just

1163
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 4: being facetious. And it's also like I see everybody else

1164
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 4: is also obsessed with you, So it's just like it's

1165
01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 4: it's just disappointing to hear that you you don't see

1166
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 4: the same thing. But it's like obviously we all have

1167
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 4: those days and it sucks, but it's just like, yeah, focus.

1168
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 3: On as a creative though we are our own worst critics.

1169
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 3: That's just what it is across the board. So we're

1170
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 3: already critiquing it differently than the other people who are

1171
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 3: just watching it to enjoy it. We're watching it to

1172
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 3: see what's wrong with it. I'm watching it to be

1173
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 3: like all of the things that I missed, all of

1174
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 3: the things that I did not say, but also It's

1175
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: like I laugh at things that I do and say

1176
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 3: all day long. I'm literally most of my day is

1177
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 3: me sitting in this house laughing at myself. So so

1178
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 3: to watch a video and not laugh once, it's like

1179
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 3: why did I say that?

1180
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 4: Like?

1181
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 2: Who is that? Wow? Why did I do that? You

1182
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 2: know what I mean? And it's like it just it

1183
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 2: sucks because you're like, I should be more confident than this,

1184
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 2: because I radiate confidence like usually. But at the end

1185
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 2: of the day, I'll see you know that stuff, and

1186
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just want to I just want to

1187
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 2: men in black erase everybody's memory of me and my

1188
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 2: jokes so that I can start over. Yeah, okay, and

1189
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 2: then black erase it.

1190
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 3: But I mean you could do the next best thing

1191
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 3: and just call your manager and be like, tell him

1192
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 3: to take it down. That's how. That's how you men

1193
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 3: in black erase.

1194
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 2: When you have management. Oh you have that.

1195
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 3: My laptop is about to die, so yeah, let's talk

1196
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 3: this out.

1197
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 2: It's at twelve percent.

1198
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 3: We have time. Let me lower the brightness. Yes, here

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01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 3: we go. This is from John Watson. I guess this

1200
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,920
Speaker 3: is the pods email. If not, I'm sorry for spamming you. Marie,

1201
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 3: it went to my inbox. I'm a very new listener.

1202
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 3: I think I started in March.

1203
01:02:57,400 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 2: Okay, so just got here.

1204
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 3: Still got the new listener smell. I found out about

1205
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 3: you guys through Sydney, who I saw through a couple

1206
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 3: of other podcasts, and Unbaited Baited whose podcast is Baited Baited?

1207
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 2: Z Ways I Abaited.

1208
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 3: Okay. It seems like you guys all know so many

1209
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 3: under the radar, talented and funny people, many of the

1210
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 3: same people who know others at the same fame level

1211
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 3: or slightly higher.

1212
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, where's this?

1213
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 4: Where is going?

1214
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 2: Okay? I'ma have to read it to you? Okay, Okay?

1215
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 3: How do I get like that? I live near Atlanta

1216
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 3: and want to be a showrunner one day, probably for sitcoms.

1217
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 3: I write scripts.

1218
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: I went to film school.

1219
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah. I'm on track to make

1220
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 3: something great. Okay, Tyler Perry Junior love this for you.

1221
01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 3: But how do I meet all the medium stars like

1222
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 3: you guys no offense before they become big stars. I

1223
01:03:56,760 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 3: think of your friends Lacey Mosley at Deboiris and Zway,

1224
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 3: who are blowing up right now. I want to be

1225
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 3: in situations where I can know and use those types

1226
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 3: of people to help my career and help their careers

1227
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 3: as well. Okay, where do I find those comics? Is

1228
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 3: it as simple as making a casting call? Am I

1229
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 3: overthinking it? I'm sorry if this came out the wrong way.

1230
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:25,479
Speaker 3: I'm grateful for any help that you can give. It's

1231
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 3: more in that, but I'm tired of reading.

1232
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:32,640
Speaker 2: Mmm. Hold on, hold on, Marie Andrew, what do you

1233
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 2: because you're this is impartial? Well, how do you feel

1234
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 2: about this email?

1235
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 4: I almost like, don't I want this to be cut?

1236
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 4: I don't think you want to.

1237
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 2: I don't. No, no, no, this is real.

1238
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 3: I just feel they hate send.

1239
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 4: So I feel like they were like they were dragging

1240
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 4: some of your past guests. I don't know a little

1241
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 4: bit with like the the medium stars. And also I

1242
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 4: don't I don't know. I didn't really like the way

1243
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 4: that John was saying, like using you as a connector.

1244
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1245
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 2: What do you think, Sydney. The first thing you need

1246
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 2: to learn about the industry is the way you ask

1247
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 2: for things. This was not the best way to ask

1248
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 2: for help, because not only are you not acknowledging really

1249
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 2: the people who you're asking for help. You're you're lumping

1250
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 2: us in with these people where you're like, I want

1251
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 2: to meet those people and work with those people. You

1252
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 2: didn't say, hey, I want to be a showrunner and

1253
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 2: work with you girls.

1254
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,959
Speaker 3: You're like, how do I get connected with these other people?

1255
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 4: Exactly?

1256
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 2: So it's a slap. It's a backhanded compliment because you're like, well,

1257
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 2: you guys are kind of in the running, but I

1258
01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 2: want to meet more of those people.

1259
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 3: This is this is what I got from that. We

1260
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 3: The way that you meet people in any industry that

1261
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 3: you work in is you all start around the same time.

1262
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 3: You work together on projects, you build a rapport as

1263
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 3: they start to book things. Everybody on that level starts

1264
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 3: to book things, and then you are a quote medium

1265
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 3: size medium. What do the same medium under the radar medial?

1266
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 2: I can't even Yeah, all.

1267
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 3: The medium stars, all the medium stars have been working

1268
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 3: for close to the same amount of years.

1269
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. So as we as.

1270
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 3: We spend more time working and people start to book things,

1271
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 3: it's not because Jay what's his name, John, John? You

1272
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 3: you gotta start at the beginning. You still have to

1273
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:50,959
Speaker 3: start at novice level. Whatever whatever it is that you're doing.

1274
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 3: And as you you start to become successful, the people

1275
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,440
Speaker 3: around you will also be more successful.

1276
01:06:56,520 --> 01:07:00,439
Speaker 2: Yes, And Lisa Ray said she doesn't want to work up,

1277
01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 2: she wants to work around so the people that she's with,

1278
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 2: that's who she wants to bring to the top. She

1279
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:08,360
Speaker 2: doesn't want to be at the bottom in a reach

1280
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 2: for the people at the top, because that that doesn't

1281
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:16,160
Speaker 2: that's not real. That's cloud chasing exactly.

1282
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 3: Legit just talking about this, Yeah, that's what that is.

1283
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 4: Like.

1284
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 3: The people you're reaching up to work with, people who

1285
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 3: are more famous, or more successful or her more years

1286
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 3: in they get nothing out of working with you, nothing,

1287
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 3: literally nothing. They're working with the people who are on

1288
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 3: the same level as them. And that's what you need

1289
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 3: to be doing, mister mister dude man, okay.

1290
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I totally agree. I just yeah, you just

1291
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 4: need to just not be thinking of higher up. You

1292
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 4: need to start at the same level because there are

1293
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 4: going to be you know, the Lacey's, the iOS, those

1294
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 4: people in your presence, and they will if they like you.

1295
01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 4: I'm sure you're a very nice person to be around.

1296
01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 4: So it's like, okay, they'll want to work with you

1297
01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 4: if you have that relationship.

1298
01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 2: Well, are you? Are you a nice person?

1299
01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1300
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 2: Maybe it doesn't. I mean, you're like, I'm sorry this

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01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:10,520
Speaker 2: came out wrong, but you I tell people because I

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Speaker 2: have to do this to myself, write something and then

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01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 2: read it out loud. How does it sound when you're

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01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 2: saying it?

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01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 4: It?

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Speaker 3: Does it sound like rude or stepping over boundaries?

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Speaker 2: We don't know you from Adam? Did he even send

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Speaker 2: a picture? A picture? Okay? All right?

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Speaker 3: He said, I'm only twenty four despite my stature. You

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Speaker 3: guys are kind of underrated with how sweet Sydney is

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01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 3: and how smart Marie is. I hope, Oh sorry, I

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01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 3: should have read the rest of the email. It says wait,

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Speaker 3: hold on, It says I hope to cast you guys

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Speaker 3: one day because you're both so talented.

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Speaker 2: You know I should can We dragged it.

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Speaker 3: We dragged it, Marie dragged Oopsie, Daisy.

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Speaker 2: But he should have started up top. You should have

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01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 2: started up top without a love to work with you guys, right,

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01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 2: compliment sandwich. You gotta start with the good. Yeah, put

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01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:08,480
Speaker 2: the crap in the middle then and strong and strong. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: here's some of my work. Here's some of the things.

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Speaker 2: Here's like, give us something that we can click on

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01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,759
Speaker 2: and be like, okay, let me check your stuff out

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Speaker 2: right right right, cut all the middle stuff out about

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Speaker 2: like medium celebrity Like no, no, no, no, no no,

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Speaker 2: I leave the shade to us. You don't you don't

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Speaker 2: need to, you don't need to be shady.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, what a nice guy. My laptop was dying.

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01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: Wow. I took that personally. What I'm over here like,

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01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 2: I don't think. I hate what I look like, I

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01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 2: hate everything. And he's like, yeah, can you introduce me

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Speaker 2: to your other famous friends.

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Speaker 3: He wasn't asking for an introduction, he was saying how

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01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 3: does he get from where he is to people who

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01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,599
Speaker 3: are I guess at that level of about to pop off.

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Speaker 3: It's like, Babe, you got to put in the ten

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01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 3: thousand hours. And while you're putting in the work to

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01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 3: become a good showrunner or scriptwriter, the people that you

1339
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:15,360
Speaker 3: take these classes with will be to people that you

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01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 3: end up working with in the future.

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Speaker 2: Because they see what you do and they're always looking

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01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 2: and they're like they always want to work with.

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01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:24,680
Speaker 4: Someone totally and like always be down to just like

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01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 4: do whatever project with whoever. It doesn't matter. Like these

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01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 4: sort of statuses it's.

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01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't mean anything like people that you collaborate with, right, Yeah,

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01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 3: I mean that's all that it is. It's nothing more,

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Speaker 3: nothing less. But you have to be nice. And we

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01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 3: we did see that you're nice at the very end

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01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:51,080
Speaker 3: of the email, So andrew you before we go. I

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01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 3: guess yes, you have a podcast, Think of the Week.

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01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 4: I do.

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01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 3: And I was looking at clips. I was watching your

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01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 3: stories the other day and it was about how when

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01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:06,959
Speaker 3: you watch those shows and there's like a big audience

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01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 3: or a big as crowd, that most of the time

1357
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:10,639
Speaker 3: the audience is not real.

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01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 4: It's okay. So like in the early seasons of Glee,

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01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:16,680
Speaker 4: they would have like actual full audiences, but later on

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01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:20,639
Speaker 4: in later seasons, then budget cuts or whatever, they had

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01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 4: to fill in half of the audience with dummies. And

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01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 4: you pause for one second, you could see you see

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01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 4: that there's not real not real people. Uh. And so

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01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,959
Speaker 4: we had one of the cast members for this week's episode,

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01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 4: and it was fun to talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Gleick of the week Beach the Week Beach Sydney.

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01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 3: Is there something you want to lead the listeners with

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01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 3: before we get out of here, any final thoughts or words?

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01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we are underrated. But I think we are underrated,

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01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 2: but people see where we're going. But like it's just

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01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 2: easy to wait for someone to pop off and then

1372
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 2: hop on the bandwagon than to stay while they're kind

1373
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:12,519
Speaker 2: of like in that gray area. So it's like, I

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01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:15,759
Speaker 2: see the people who are like sticking by us right now,

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01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 2: Like I'm not gonna forget those fucking.

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01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 3: People, but people who are sticking by you, yeah, but

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01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 3: the people who catch on after the fact, hmm. But

1378
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:28,439
Speaker 3: it's like when you're like when you're a professional athlete

1379
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 3: and you make it big into the whatever, basketball, football, whatever,

1380
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,639
Speaker 3: and you're with the girl that you dated in high

1381
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 3: school versus when you're famous and rich, and then like

1382
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 3: all the groupies pop up and they're.

1383
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 2: Just like they just want to be around you.

1384
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 3: They just want to you know, they want to ride

1385
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 3: your coattails, they want to drink in your section, they

1386
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:54,599
Speaker 3: just want to be there. And it's like it's there's

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01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's better to be with people who

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01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 3: actually want to work with you and actually want you

1389
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:03,000
Speaker 3: to be around, So you know, that's it.

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01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 2: But I just said, I just can't fucking wait when

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01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:10,880
Speaker 2: the time does come, Oh man, I can't which time

1392
01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 2: when our time comes off, What you're gonna do? Sis,

1393
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:16,880
Speaker 2: I can't say. It's not for me to say, but

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01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 2: just just know that.

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01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:21,639
Speaker 4: Well, I think, Sydney, I think you could benefit from

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01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:24,679
Speaker 4: We talked about this before an unfollow spray. I really

1397
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:29,599
Speaker 4: again cannot stress enough your following number is it's too much.

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01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 4: So I think that when you pop off, I think

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01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:33,920
Speaker 4: that's the first thing you need to do.

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01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:36,599
Speaker 3: He's saying you need to do a purge bait.

1401
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 4: Let the row. You didn't make the cut.

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01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, mmm, you said it is too many people that

1403
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 3: you follow. Well, we've talked about this before. You know,

1404
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:50,799
Speaker 3: our good SIS is a supportive social media user.

1405
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 2: So it is what it is.

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01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 3: I'm the sweet one, Marie, and you're the smart one.

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01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,280
Speaker 4: But I think it's just like the refrigerator. You're just

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01:13:57,360 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 4: sweet and smart.

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01:13:58,880 --> 01:13:59,719
Speaker 2: Sweet and smart.

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01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 3: Okay, well that's it for me, babe. Yeah, sweet and smart.

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01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love that.

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01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,160
Speaker 3: Make sure you're right and you comment and you subscribe

1413
01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:12,479
Speaker 3: on other people's phones who are around you that are

1414
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 3: unlocked when they get.

1415
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 2: Up to go to the bathroom.

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01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 2: And if you think we're so underrated, like are you

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01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:19,679
Speaker 2: fucking reposting now? So are you telling people to listen

1419
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 2: to the pot like the fuck right.

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01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 3: Like the other day, this guy this we were at

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01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:28,480
Speaker 3: the AT and T store and this guy was like, uh,

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01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 3: what's your Instagram? And I added myself and then I

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01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 3: added the Unofficial Expert.

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01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 2: So good job.

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01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 3: I should have gone. If I was smart, I would

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01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:36,840
Speaker 3: have gone to his iTunes and I would have subscribed.

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01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 2: But I didn't do that.

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01:14:38,400 --> 01:14:40,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know, if you if you're if you're

1429
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:42,760
Speaker 3: going to be going through your man's phone anyway, just

1430
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 3: subscribe to the podcast.

1431
01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 2: If we're underrated, it's really y'all, it's your phone, and

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01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 2: you let the people know. Yeah, thank you, Sidney, thank

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01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:58,800
Speaker 2: you all right, Well, my friends love you. Bye Forever.

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01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:09,240
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01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:16,160
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01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:20,479
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