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Speaker 1: Second date updated. You know, on dating apps now, where

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Speaker 1: the average decent looking woman gets two thousand matches per day,

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Speaker 1: and that's like two thousand guys messaging her and complimenting her,

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Speaker 1: trying to take her out. It's more important than ever

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Speaker 1: for guys to be creative and witty when they're talking,

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Speaker 1: or at least google something creative and witty and then

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Speaker 2: So it's like, Hi, how are you not enough?

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Speaker 1: Oh you're getting blocked?

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Speaker 2: Stop stop yeah no all lower case letters ew.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's exactly what happened to one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners May recently when she matched with a guy online

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Speaker 1: named Doug, and their conversation apparently got pretty interesting, but

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Speaker 1: his first line was just straight up asking her out.

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Speaker 1: And May, what did you immediately notice from Doug's dating profile?

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Speaker 3: Well, there is a couple funny things on his profile.

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Speaker 3: One of his pictures he had a woman in it.

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Speaker 2: WI. Yeah, that's a bold thing put on a dating app,

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Speaker 3: No, it seemed like like maybe a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Or girls do this too, And you know, I always

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Speaker 1: slept left. I'm like, why would your main profile be

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Speaker 2: You can actually go out with someone.

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Speaker 1: So what did you write back when you saw that

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Speaker 3: I frankly said, is your girlfriend going to be okay

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you still wrote him back, you know,

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Speaker 2: but like, okay, give me back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good to call somebody out to ye like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know, did he have a response?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he responded that he doesn't have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well I would believe him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: Just trust just whatever guys say, and all the time,

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Speaker 2: So who is the woman? What did he say she was?

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Speaker 4: What was the explanation?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 3: So I obviously asked, who's this woman in the photo?

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Speaker 3: And he responds, Oh, that's my wife. But we're just friends.

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Speaker 3: With a laughing emoji.

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Speaker 1: Joke. It's called sarcasm, and sarcasm he doubled down.

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Speaker 2: Don't have to down like it's so.

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Speaker 1: That or did you think it was funny?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: I thought it was funny. I obviously knew it was

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Speaker 2: Explain the joke after he said it. So that's cool though,

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Speaker 2: So you guys are on the same page.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I really liked his humor, and he did this

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Speaker 3: he's ghosted so many times.

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Speaker 1: Sorry to say that he's been ghosted or he has

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Speaker 3: He said that he's been okay, but he.

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Speaker 2: Really meant both.

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Speaker 3: He sent me a photo of him at a table

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Speaker 2: Oh flat, it's funny.

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Speaker 1: I think he's being self deprecating, saying like, see, nobody

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Speaker 2: It's a dangerous area to tread because at some point

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Speaker 2: Right at some point, like it's not funny anymore. You

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Speaker 1: Well, how many people showed up to my birthday party?

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Speaker 1: I'm alone? Brooke just helped me realize it's probably my problem.

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Speaker 1: You just make fun of yourself a little too much.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't feel that way. May you felt like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you have to get somebody's at tension.

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Speaker 6: You know, it's hard.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of options out there, and so that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, well so you did you guys end

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Speaker 2: He's writing. That's interesting, he'd.

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Speaker 3: He seemed like a really good guy. He's interesting. He's

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 1: They're talented.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not talking about parody songs.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's cool that he's in a band.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I thought it was cool. I really enjoyed the conversation.

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Speaker 1: And musicians never wow. Okay, So what's happened since the date?

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Speaker 3: I honestly just haven't really been able to get a

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Speaker 1: Is ghost you the iron that he's the one can play?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's a weird thing. Like he's like talking

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Speaker 3: I just want to quickly correct myself. I'm not able

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it's not totally silent.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the thing is, I have a lot of options.

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Speaker 2: Or right, like like there's always some truth in every joke, right,

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Speaker 2: Maybe he's just so used to being ghosted he doesn't

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Speaker 1: She's like, let's go out again. He's like, don't mock me. Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I hope I didn't duction by actually

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Speaker 1: We'll find out. We'll come back call him and try

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Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Right after this second

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Speaker 1: date update, if you're just joining us, we're on the

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Speaker 1: phone with one of our listeners, May, who, in her

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Speaker 2: I mean, so she's a woman.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she is quite the woman. Her bumble hinge notifications

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Speaker 1: She's thinking about one guy named Doug, funny, simple, nice

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Speaker 2: Even though Doug went on and on about how terrible

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Speaker 1: Which has May worried that maybe he actually might be married.

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Speaker 1: Right because they joked about the woman in his profile

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Speaker 2: It's one of those things where he's like, well, I.

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Speaker 2: Not as upset as his wife would be. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: Who would be angrier?

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Speaker 3: His wife?

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Speaker 1: Maybe we'll find out in a couple of minutes. Here

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Speaker 1: we make it a really angry Texan. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: my husband. But now let's just call it Doug and

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Speaker 1: Okay, good job, Jeff. Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Doug?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? This is Doug.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Doug. You don't have to sound so skeptical. It's okay,

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Speaker 1: nothing sinister going on on our end. We're just a

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Speaker 2: Hey, Doug, what's.

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Speaker 5: What's going on here?

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Speaker 1: What's going on is a segment we do called the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update, and you're gonna be our featured star

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Speaker 1: for the day. No, I don't believe you, Doug.

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Speaker 4: He's honest.

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Speaker 1: I think you're more excited than you're letting on because

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Speaker 1: Her name's May.

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Speaker 5: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she sounds dolling and it sounds like you guys

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Speaker 1: Yes, with all the noises, Doug, she's into you. That's

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Speaker 2: I thought dating was so hard for you, Like this

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Speaker 5: I was like, you guys know a lot about me.

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Speaker 1: Well, we've heard some stuff from you. From May herself.

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Speaker 1: She we asked her to describe your date and she

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Speaker 2: Honestly, she said you're really funny, and.

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Speaker 1: She thought your profile's funny too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she talked about the profile.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it came up, Yeah, that you had a funny

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Speaker 2: Well, we asked because we thought that the girl was

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Speaker 2: a read. Yeah, yeah, you should change that.

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Speaker 1: That's not the reason why we're calling. We're not calling

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Speaker 1: we're we're really focused on May because she's really confused.

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Speaker 1: She wants to see you. She feels like she's been

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Speaker 2: Is she reading that right?

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Speaker 5: I mean she does keep suggesting nights, you know.

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Speaker 2: great for me.

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Speaker 1: Unless you're not into her. If there's some other problem.

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Speaker 5: So that's two Friday night. She asked to see my

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Speaker 6: She wants to come to me and perform, and like

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Speaker 1: That's nice, you have a show.

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Speaker 2: She's even interested in, like your hobbies.

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Speaker 1: Saying you're saying it like it's a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't, I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 6: do you mean? You know? She was even asking for

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Speaker 1: That's her flirting with you, Doug. That means she wants

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Speaker 2: Don't maybe on the stage in my house too much pressure.

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Speaker 1: You probably have to put on an entire concert. She

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Speaker 3: I don't think she cares about the basic bro.

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Speaker 6: Oh there's pressure when like she thinks that I know

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Speaker 1: You said you're not. You told her that you're in

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Speaker 6: Well, I need something to sound cool, like make me

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Speaker 1: My God, chose.

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Speaker 2: Do something that you actually do. I'm sure there's something

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's cool things about me, Like but you gotta

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I get it, like you're in a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I really liked her and I didn't know

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Speaker 1: That's why you're not getting this date because she's asking

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Speaker 1: based on the lie that you've told her that you're

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Speaker 2: But that's a lot better lie than he was married,

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Speaker 2: It really is. Yeah, I think it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: Know, And that's that's a rough lie to go with though,

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Speaker 1: Like if you're not in a band, how are you

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Speaker 2: Your panicked Jeff Okay came to mind.

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Speaker 5: Is he gonna go with that?

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Speaker 6: Or be a Formula one race car driver?

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Speaker 2: That is, those jackets are brilliant style.

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Speaker 1: Right now, girls and a guy that lives dangerously on

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Speaker 5: But at least I could have said. I was in

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Speaker 2: Just driving your Kia around.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I've heard enough.

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Speaker 1: Oh you have what?

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Speaker 5: What what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Doug, if you didn't know, that's May who's been

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Speaker 2: Being honest now, whether you wanted to or not.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, look, I'm I'm sorry. Like you were like so

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Speaker 3: But also we've spent half of the time I'm on

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 6: Bro, here's the thing though, like immediately after already, like

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Speaker 2: Can't count the band not quite as sexy, usually the

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Speaker 1: But did you say you played guitar in the band though, Doug.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, but the guitar lessons were more expunctive.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play the triangle.

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Speaker 4: May.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like you know anything about him?

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Speaker 3: I know, like a couple of things about where he

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Speaker 1: Do you hear that. Everything else he said was real,

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Speaker 1: like the wife and his photosy. No, not that, everything

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Speaker 3: I don't need any big, fancy career or any you know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And besides, Doug, do you know that when she told

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Speaker 2: red flag. It's true, red flag. You can't trust a

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Speaker 2: guy in a band. Apparently you can't trust a guy

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Speaker 5: Girls always loved mad boys.

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Speaker 2: In band, but not for long my friend.

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Speaker 1: Would you honestly have been interested in him if he

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: The thing that attracted me to him was his humor

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Speaker 2: Well did he come up with a good band name?

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Speaker 2: Maybe he had a funny band name?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah he did. They check a noodle tub check out.

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Speaker 1: I like it at the very least. May just talking

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Speaker 1: to him now, he seems like a nice, sincere guy.

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Speaker 1: He is coming clean. Yeah, and Doug, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: What do you want to say to.

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Speaker 4: May, I just I should have been up front. I'm

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Speaker 4: super sorry. If you give me a second chance, I

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Speaker 4: I'll just anything you want to know, straight honest truth,

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Speaker 4: and I'll be my goofy normal self and you can

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Speaker 4: either like me for.

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Speaker 5: That or no.

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Speaker 1: Plus, we're going to offer to pay to send you

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Speaker 3: I will say that I do not like liars, and

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Speaker 3: I also am very attracted to people who are super

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Speaker 3: secure with themselves and who they are. However, I really

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Speaker 3: a second chance.

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Speaker 1: Person. Yes, okay, so.

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Speaker 3: Yes, no, no, it's yes, I want to go on.

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Speaker 3: It's like okay.

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Speaker 1: To say, she's so excited to see you again. She

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Speaker 1: can't wait to hear your first piano lesson once you

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Speaker 1: figure it out.

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Speaker 6: Yes, man, you have no idea having this liar back

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Speaker 5: I feel that's really sweet. We can get together on

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Speaker 5: Friday if you want.

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Speaker 1: Piano lessons a weekdays and your wife's cool with that dog, Yes,

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Speaker 1: my wife.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: That may be the first self admitting, outright liar on

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Speaker 1: our show that our listeners were actually rooting for.

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Speaker 2: Because he's just so sweet, you know, and like earnest.

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Speaker 2: He was really earnest about the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Until he really was just like so nervous because he

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Speaker 1: liked her so much, just to make up an excuse. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it just goes to show. If you lie and you

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Speaker 1: do get caught, try to sound as pathetic and helpless

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Speaker 1: as you pasifly can, and people will feel so bad

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Speaker 1: for you that they'll actually be on.

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Speaker 2: Your team wrong or just have a good apology. That's

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Speaker 2: what he had you too. God, he wasn't pathetic.

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Speaker 1: He even won over Brook, which is hard for any

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Speaker 1: man to do. So serious, make sure to hit off

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Speaker 1: our YouTube TikTok, our Instagram Aprok and Jeffrey to see

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Speaker 1: clips from our show so you can lie to your

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Speaker 1: next date and that you're one of us and they

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Speaker 1: don't believe you. I Brook, I buy it.

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Speaker 2: I don't have to get more dates.

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Speaker 1: With that one of us. Maybe anyway, you can always

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Speaker 1: listen to our show up on our podcast wherever you

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Speaker 1: get yours at Brooke and Jeffrey Brooke

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Speaker 5: And Jeffrey in the Morning