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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Sam. This is John, the og story

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my girlfriend wants me to sleep with her

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Speaker 3: twin to improve her confidence.

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Speaker 4: So I, twenty three male, am in.

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Speaker 3: This very bizarre situation right now. I've been dating this

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Speaker 3: amazing girl twenty two female for a little over two years,

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Speaker 3: and it's been an absolute blast.

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Speaker 4: She's attractive, cheerful.

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Speaker 3: Kind, supportive. We have a great relationship. She also happens

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Speaker 3: to have an identical twin and they're pretty close.

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Speaker 4: By the way.

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Speaker 3: This comes from throw a twin twenty two on the

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Speaker 3: r slash Showka Storytime Separated. So they've been staying together

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Speaker 3: here since they started university. They go to different universities

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Speaker 3: though they're a bit different personality wise. But the twin

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Speaker 3: is also a very kind girl, and we get along

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Speaker 3: pretty well naturally. We all hang out together very often,

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Speaker 3: and I'm pretty comfortable with both of them. I think

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Speaker 3: of her twin as my own sister in a way. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: the twin was dating this guy, thirty male, for almost

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Speaker 3: a year. I never particularly liked him. I thought he

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Speaker 3: all hung out together for drinks once in a while.

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Speaker 3: Well turns out I was correct. He was cheating on

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Speaker 3: her with his ex, and they eventually broke up. This

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Speaker 3: was six months ago. Needless to say that the girl

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Speaker 3: was devastated. She took it very hard. She became kind

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Speaker 3: of depressed, and her self esteem and self worth weren't

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Speaker 3: doing that great. The fact that it was her first

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Speaker 3: relationship didn't help either. I guess you started not wanting

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Speaker 3: to go out that much. We tried to do our

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Speaker 3: best to drag her out, of course, to see and

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Speaker 3: meet new people, and why not even hooked up with someone.

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Speaker 3: I even tried to set her up with one of

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Speaker 3: my friends, who was single at the time and honestly

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Speaker 3: a great guy overall. But no bueno. It's not only us.

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Speaker 3: Her own friends also tried to help her, but she

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Speaker 3: just won't cooperate. She says she wants to meet nice guys,

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Speaker 3: yet she's always being in a bee and whiny about it,

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Speaker 3: never liking anyone. She keeps comparing them to that prick simultaneously,

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Speaker 3: she keeps whining and saying she's not pretty nice and

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Speaker 3: other crap like that, which is not even remotely true,

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Speaker 3: but no matter how many times we tell her, she

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Speaker 3: just won't believe it. Now, I know she's feeling pretty

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Speaker 3: down about the whole thing, and I understand that and

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Speaker 3: don't hate her, but I'd be lying if I said

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Speaker 3: I didn't find it annoying because it's starting to affect

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Speaker 3: our relationship. My girlfriend always worries about her and tries

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Speaker 3: to help her a little too much. They proceed to fight,

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Speaker 3: and then my girlfriend takes it out on me and

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Speaker 3: we're not even at the good part yet. No, no, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think you need to as it's there's more, obviously,

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Speaker 3: but I think you need to set up some boundaries

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Speaker 3: to have a talk with your girlfriend because pretty exhausting

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Speaker 3: when you have one friend who's just always kind of

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Speaker 3: putting the same burden on you. Yeah, and you're like, okay, well,

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you how to fix it, and you're not

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Speaker 3: taking any of that advice. So I don't know why

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Speaker 3: you're telling me over and over then, Right, So, yesterday

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Speaker 3: my girlfriend was staying at my place. We had spicy

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Speaker 3: sleep and afterwards, we were lying down talking, you know,

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Speaker 3: usual stuff, until she says she wants to ask me

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Speaker 5: Oh oh, oh, oh weird.

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Speaker 4: Weird.

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Speaker 3: At first, like any sane man, I thought that either

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Speaker 3: with twins. Sadly, she wasn't joking at all, and I

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Speaker 3: was wide awake. She probably realized I had a WTF

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Speaker 3: look on my face and then proceeded to rationalize it.

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Speaker 3: She told me that her twin already had a slight

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 3: No, She told me she already talked about it with

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Speaker 4: Ikey, akay with it? No ikey. I want to know

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Speaker 4: who first came, who said this, Whose idea was it?

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Speaker 4: Who offered yeah?

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Speaker 5: Because he asked if the girlfriend is saying that like

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Speaker 5: I guess, and like what, yeah, why was that?

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Speaker 4: Why was that your thought?

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Speaker 3: Or if the sister came to Opie's right, my friend

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Speaker 3: was like, hey, I want to sleep with your boyfriend, right,

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Speaker 3: Like both of these are bad.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, weird situations all around, no matter how you look

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Speaker 3: She reassured me multiple times she won't get mad about

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Speaker 3: it and she won't even be present. I hope that, yeah, what,

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Speaker 3: I hope she wouldn't be present. I hope this hasn't happened.

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Speaker 3: But geez, she could just stay at my place while

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Speaker 3: I go to theirs and do the deed. It would

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Speaker 3: only be one time, and I could just pretend her

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Speaker 3: sister was her. She said, Heck, I don't even have

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Speaker 3: to take the whole thing seriously, I just need to

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Speaker 3: have Spicy sleep with her sister and then hold her

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Speaker 4: Crap like that.

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Speaker 3: She was practically begging me to bang herself. Oh my gosh, Honestly,

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Speaker 3: I would break up. Yeah, I think it would break

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Speaker 3: up over this. I would too, absolutely, I would. Actually

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Speaker 3: In the end, I said, I'll think about it for

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Speaker 3: a bit and left it at that. I couldn't effing

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Speaker 3: sleep that night. That was yesterday. Today, I'm kind of

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Speaker 3: avoiding my girlfriend. We texted a bit, and thank god,

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Speaker 3: she hasn't mentioned anything about it yet. I'm freaking out.

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Speaker 3: Twin sus jokes aside, I don't think this is normal.

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Speaker 3: She was talking about it like it was nothing. The

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Speaker 3: spicy sleep itself is not such a big deal for me.

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Speaker 3: I mean, they look almost exactly the same, and I'm

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Speaker 3: pretty comfortable with her twin. I think if I accepted,

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Speaker 3: it can potentially ruin our relationship. I'm sorry, wait, wait,

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Speaker 3: wait wait, So if he was like, I'm actually kind

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Speaker 5: I feel like it wouldn't be like that. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 5: just well, but that's just crazy. She says she won't

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Speaker 5: get mad, but I heavily doubt it, and I also

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Speaker 5: heavily doubt it will help her sister, unless something suspicious

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Speaker 5: am fearing that if I have Spicy Sleep with the twin,

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, honestly, my.

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Speaker 3: Girlfriend was pretty serious about the whole thing, though, she

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Speaker 3: like she really wanted me to do it. I am

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Speaker 3: having some really dark thoughts right now. Perhaps the twin

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Speaker 3: my girlfriend. Perhaps my girlfriend is weirder than usual. I

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Speaker 4: Oh man, I think have no clue what to do.

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Speaker 3: I am thinking of suggesting that we get her to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sounds like a good plan.

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Speaker 3: I've talked about this with two of my friends, but

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Speaker 3: the efforts just won't take the situation. Seriously, I'm getting

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Speaker 3: paranoid at this point, but I just don't want to

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Speaker 4: That's all.

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Speaker 3: And there is an update to finish this story off.

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Speaker 3: But honestly, I think I would still break up in

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Speaker 3: this situation. Yeah, just like really, I don't know, it's

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Speaker 3: just like weird. It's just weird. Yeah, Like I feel

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Speaker 5: If OP is down, then like maybe their relationship isn't

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Speaker 5: that serious to begin with. Yeah, So like I guess

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Speaker 5: maybe in their situation, they don't need to break up

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Speaker 5: if it's just not that serious at all.

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Speaker 4: But if it was, then yeah, you should probably break up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah if you were like, this is someone I care

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Speaker 3: for her confidence, right, I guess Like what it just

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Speaker 3: feels like really like just like Op's girlfriend is using

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Speaker 3: him to make her sister feel better. But there is

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Speaker 3: an update. I read and skimmed through most of your comments.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, here's a brief update. So I met with my

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Speaker 3: She started crying, saying she was regretting it all day

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Speaker 3: Once things calm down a bit, we talked about what

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Speaker 3: to be fair, throughout the relationship, I never once got

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Speaker 3: joined us live every weekday at three PMPST on YouTube

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Speaker 3: just tap our profile and there's just a teensy bit more.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like Op's girlfriend needs to pay attention

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Speaker 3: to the red flags her sister is demonstrating, because it's

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Speaker 3: really not normal to be like, ooh, you're friend so hot.

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Speaker 3: I was thinking about how it would be, like what

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Speaker 3: it would be like to like sleep with them, right,

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Speaker 3: But there's a little bit left to the story. Things

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Speaker 3: got more intense this last month, though, and the sister

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Speaker 3: was way more vocal about it. My girlfriend eventually started

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Speaker 3: entertaining the idea of me getting intimate with her sister,

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Speaker 3: not in a it's hot kind of way, but more

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Speaker 3: of a wanting to share something I greatly treasure kind

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Speaker 3: of way. As per her worts. They talked about it

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Speaker 3: and the sister was very on board with it. That's

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Speaker 3: pretty much it. We're both meeting the sister in the

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Speaker 3: evening to clear things up. Hopefully things go back the

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Speaker 3: way they were. I mean, it's not like anything bad

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Speaker 3: has actually happened. Opie is too chill about this. This

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Speaker 4: But like, I guess it's so good to you. And

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Speaker 4: But that's the end of that story.

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Speaker 5: My fiance has sent spicy pigs to his guy friend.

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Speaker 5: But Tyler sent my fiance a photo of his wiener

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Speaker 5: he is cheating on me with Tyler. Edit. I don't

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Speaker 4: I'll update later when I know my plan.

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Speaker 5: I hope this turns out all to be some sort

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Speaker 4: I think like maybe they just haven't realized exactly.

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Speaker 5: I feel like maybe it's something like in the back

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sleep, but I'm not gay gay?

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Speaker 5: But then like later maybe they'll find out like, Oh,

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Speaker 4: I actually I like it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but update number one this is on October ninth,

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Speaker 5: I didn't say anything when they were together. I was

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Speaker 5: just couldn't do it. I brought it up this morning

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Speaker 5: love to know why you two are spicy texting with

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Speaker 5: to talk about this. Are you gay or He literally

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Speaker 5: this is all a big joke. He says that this

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Speaker 5: whole thing started because they were making fun of some

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Speaker 5: it went from jokes to full on wiener picks.

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Speaker 4: He said.

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Speaker 5: They talk about how it's so funny that seeing a

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Speaker 5: in fact it's no different than a picture of an

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Speaker 4: Are just insecure or childish?

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Speaker 5: He says that it started with just sending pictures of

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Speaker 4: The shock value. I literally do not know what to

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Speaker 5: I told him to stop it now, and he said

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Speaker 3: That's fair, that that's hard is fair. But still, I mean,

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Speaker 3: you are sending intimate pictures, right. I did see him

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Speaker 3: probably moaning about me. And there is another update. But

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Speaker 3: what do we think? Do we think he's cheating or

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Speaker 3: do we think I don't think he's cheating, But I

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Speaker 3: really think he should look at I just like, I

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Speaker 3: totally understand, because I do think that a lot of people,

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Speaker 3: you get if you do this, it makes you get.

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Speaker 3: The only thing that makes you get is if you're gay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But let's get into the next update, shall we. Now?

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Speaker 5: This is now oh an update from the fiance on

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Speaker 5: October eleventh, whoa you.

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 5: So I sent this to my soon to be wife

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Speaker 5: to post for me. We had a heartfelt and serious

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Speaker 4: Me about her Reddit posts. I will be honest.

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Speaker 5: I've shared these with Tyler and we find this all

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Speaker 5: super hilarious, as.

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Speaker 4: Well as my fiance now that she understands.

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Speaker 5: All three of us hung out a few days ago

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Speaker 5: and talked about it and we shared a good laugh. Conclusion,

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Speaker 3: Guys are, so they're just so they're just like just

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and a lot of people said gay humor between

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Speaker 5: hard wiener when they're not expecting it is too far

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Speaker 5: and not funny. People on these posts are the ones

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Speaker 5: making it spicy, not us. We just find it hilarious

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Speaker 5: because it's unexpecting and shocking, and people's reactions when we

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Speaker 5: tell them we do this, like all of yours, is

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Speaker 5: funny asv to us. This is not a secret among

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Speaker 5: our group of guy friends. And a handful of other

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Speaker 5: dudes have seen our widers besides just us too. Okay, Sure,

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Speaker 5: After my conversation with my fiance and Tyler, we agreed

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Speaker 5: we wouldn't behave like this anymore if it made her uncomfortable.

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Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with being gay, and if either of

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Speaker 4: It's not our fault.

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Speaker 5: We've unlocked peak humor and you guys are projecting all

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it seems like Opie's partner is very secure, so

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Speaker 5: And I'm not sure a lot of the men in

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Speaker 5: in school growing up. Your fear of people thinking you're

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Speaker 4: But if my bud Tyler wants to hit one of.

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Speaker 5: Our bros with a Weier pick randomly every six months

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Speaker 5: You have a weak sense of humor. You see a

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Speaker 5: peepy and think of it as inherently spicy, then that

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Speaker 5: says more about you than it does. That's funny to

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Speaker 5: answer a lot of people's questions. No, I would not

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Speaker 5: jay Jay to one of her girlfriends as a joke. Literally,

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Speaker 5: wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If it bothers you,

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Speaker 4: She thought was gay. Oh what we're talking about? That's okay, Yeah, No,

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Speaker 4: that does not.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so obviously the understanding.

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Speaker 4: Of second the community is limited.

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Speaker 5: A man and woman engaging in a spicy act is

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Speaker 5: pigs in a spicy capacity?

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Speaker 4: Obviously? Sometimes it's just funny. Get over it. Sorry, you're

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Speaker 1: It's just a peepee.

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Speaker 4: Like my Wiena's great.

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Speaker 5: I want everyone to see it because I think that's

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Speaker 4: It's not going to urt you.

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Speaker 5: This is a very weird, backwards Puritan society we live in.

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Speaker 4: After speaking about it with my fiance and Tyler together, she.

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Speaker 5: Understands it's just a big joke to us, even though

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Speaker 5: we won't act like that anymore. She's my soulmate and

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Speaker 5: I love her very much. Everyone telling her to run

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Speaker 5: projecting their own crappy relationship experiences onto us.

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Speaker 4: Maybe learn to give advice objectively instead of projecting. Next time.

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Speaker 4: You don't know us.

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Speaker 5: You don't know the dynamics of my relationship or of

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Speaker 5: that you can join us live every weekday at three PMPST.

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Speaker 4: Just trap our profot tap it.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate everyone who actually tried to offer her thoughtful,

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Speaker 5: we could move past it. For the men messaging her

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Speaker 5: on here and flirting, I would like to say you

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Speaker 5: told me about how she played into this and will

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Speaker 5: not do it again. I don't have a Reddit, but

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Speaker 5: my wife will show me this post later tonight, and

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Speaker 4: BS. Good bye, we turn around my hand drop.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my girlfriend lied about being on a trip. Is

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Speaker 3: her first date about a year and a half ago,

440
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 3: took things slowly while being exclusive, and have been officially dating. Overall,

441
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,320
Speaker 3: the relationship has been pretty good, minus some small hiccups

442
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 3: in communication that she chalks up to her neuro day.

443
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,199
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from throwaway lying locate on

444
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,040
Speaker 3: the Okay storytime subvert it. So.

445
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 4: Amy isn't great with.

446
00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 3: Texting, which I thought was a red flag at first

447
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,920
Speaker 3: until I found out She's like that with almost everyone,

448
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 3: most of her friends and family included. To give a

449
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,919
Speaker 3: little background, Amy and a few of her girlfriends go

450
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,120
Speaker 3: to this conference a few states over twice per year.

451
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,800
Speaker 3: It's a two day event, which they usually turn into

452
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,679
Speaker 3: a five day vacation because it requires a flight and

453
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 3: hotel and.

454
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,480
Speaker 4: Is in a nice city.

455
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 3: Amy's friend group is typically very active on social media,

456
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 3: during these trips, posting on their Instagram story during All

457
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 3: Points Flights Conference Beach, et cetera. This weekend was supposed

458
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 3: to be their third time attending. Amy and her friends

459
00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 3: have had their flights and hotels booked for a few months,

460
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 3: confirmed by some of their posts on social media, being

461
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 3: excited about having everything booked. Unfortunately, the conference was canceled,

462
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 3: but they already booked everything, so they decided to still

463
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 3: enjoy vacation. My girlfriend and I had a date night

464
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,680
Speaker 3: last weekend. She was telling me about how excited she was.

465
00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 4: For her trip.

466
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 3: All was good, but at the end of the date

467
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,480
Speaker 3: I caught a glimpse of Amy's phone. She was on

468
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,879
Speaker 3: her airline app and it looked like she was reading

469
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,359
Speaker 3: cancelation policies. We had a long day and I was

470
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 3: tired and felt like I was snooping slash being nosy,

471
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 3: so I didn't say anything. During the week I asked

472
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 3: Amy to hang out the day before the flight, emphasizing

473
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 3: that I wanted to see her before her trip. Unfortunately,

474
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 3: she was meeting up with her group of coworker friends,

475
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 3: so she couldn't.

476
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 4: No worries.

477
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,880
Speaker 3: The morning of her flight, I texted her wishing her

478
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 3: a safe flight and a happy trip, and she liked

479
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 3: my message. We haven't talked since. As I said, she's

480
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 3: not a big Texter, so we usually don't text much

481
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 3: besides planning dates and in emergencies. I figured she was

482
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 3: on her trip, so I haven't texted to plan a date.

483
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,159
Speaker 4: Now on to the meat of the issue. Uh oh.

484
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 3: Amy is now supposed to be a few days into

485
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 3: her trip and I noticed none.

486
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 4: Of her friends were posting on Instagram.

487
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 3: I thought that was weird because they usually post a lot,

488
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 3: but I shrugged it off. That was until tonight Amy

489
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 3: started posting videos of her at a show. Oh it

490
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 3: looked fun, and I didn't think twice about it until

491
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,439
Speaker 3: the ending, where the show host called out thank you,

492
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 3: and then the name of the major city nearby where

493
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 3: we live. Approximately thirty minute dry. I looked up the

494
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 3: name of the show, and of course it was in

495
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 3: that nearby city this weekend, meaning she wasn't on that

496
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 3: vacation after all, and never thought to say anything to

497
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 3: me about it.

498
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 4: WHOA, why not?

499
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you're just going to a concert, why not

500
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 5: say say something.

501
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 4: Is going fishes? She out of the concert.

502
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:31,880
Speaker 1: Win.

503
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 3: I did a little snooping on Venmo and found out

504
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 3: that over two weeks ago, Amy's friend paid her back

505
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 3: the money that Amy had sent her for the hotel

506
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 3: and car rental, So she's known the trip was canceled

507
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 3: for two weeks and hasn't said anything to me every

508
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 3: time I brought it up. Where do I go from here?

509
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm suddenly spiraling, going crazy, overthinking everything

510
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 3: lately to see if I've missed any signs. I've already

511
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 3: started assuming the worst, and I'm panicking. I'm out of

512
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 3: town for the weekend, and I feel like this is

513
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 3: totally thrown off my trip. Is this worth a conversation

514
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 3: or is the relationship already over? Is there any reason

515
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 3: she would have not said something by now? Even if

516
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 3: she tells me the trip was canceled right when I

517
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 3: see her before I confront her, would that still justify

518
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 3: not telling me until after the trip?

519
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 4: Please?

520
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 3: Any advice is greatly appreciated. And edit, her best friend

521
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 3: just uploaded a picture of them during the show, so

522
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 3: I know she wasn't there with some guy, but that

523
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 3: doesn't explain the lying. And there is an update to

524
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 3: finish this story off. Wow, but like such a weird lie,

525
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 3: such a weird like why so.

526
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 4: Wait did it say something about her being with the guy?

527
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: I know?

528
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 4: She wasn't she was? I mean that we know of that.

529
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 5: We know because I feel like an evil scheme like this,

530
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 5: it would be it would be like, oh, great, he

531
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 5: already knows I'm going on the trip.

532
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 4: It didn't work out, but that's fine.

533
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 5: He doesn't need to know that because I'm gonna spend

534
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 5: this time with this other guy instead.

535
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 3: Yes, it would be the evil scheme, which may or

536
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 3: may not be what she has done.

537
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm gonna guess.

538
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 3: That's the theory. I think that might be my guess

539
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 3: as well. Why else would you lie?

540
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 4: But there is an update.

541
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 3: Hey everyone, I had some dms asking for an update,

542
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 3: so here it is to quickly summarize my last post.

543
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,199
Speaker 3: A few weeks back, my girlfriend was supposed to go

544
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 3: on a trip a few states away to go to

545
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 3: a conference. I came to find out that the conference

546
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 3: was canceled and she didn't actually go, and never even

547
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 3: bothered to tell me. She lied by omission about it

548
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 3: by not telling me. When I texted her to have

549
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 3: a good flight, I found out she didn't go because

550
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 3: her best friend posted a picture of them at a

551
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 3: show in a local nearby city. So here we are

552
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 3: almost a month later. I was a wreck and spiraling

553
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 3: these past few weeks, and after being together for almost

554
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 3: two years, I was too panic to reach out and

555
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,719
Speaker 3: ask to see her. During the three weeks since her

556
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 3: plan trip, she hasn't reached out once to me.

557
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: WHOA.

558
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 3: That wasn'tuntil yesterday when she casually reached out like we

559
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 3: hadn't just ignored each other for three weeks and asked

560
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 3: to see a movie. So I I just finally saw

561
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 3: her tonight in the car I asked about her trip.

562
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 3: Her facial response was really weird, like she got caught

563
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 3: off guard. I'm guessing she was expecting me to forget

564
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 3: about it after a few weeks of not seeing her.

565
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 3: She just said it was okay, which instantly confirmed my suspicions.

566
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 3: I asked her what she had done, and she said

567
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 3: she went to that conference one day, which, as I

568
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 3: said in my last post, was canceled, and went to

569
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 3: a show after before returning home. The day after I

570
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 3: made my original post, I asked her which and she

571
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 3: claimed the show that was in our local city. I

572
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 3: was driving at the time and it was dark out,

573
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 3: so I waited to confront her as I didn't want

574
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 3: to get emotional and endangerous. I confronted her for lying

575
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 3: about the trip, doubling down and lying about the conference,

576
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 3: and trippling down to lie about the show. Her immediate

577
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 3: response was to start deflecting, saying that if this is

578
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 3: making me upset, to imagine how she felt that her

579
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 3: conference and trip were canceled. Sorry, How that makes no

580
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: sense what she said, how she was so heartbroken and

581
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 3: upset that the conference was canceled, which was canceled five

582
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 3: weeks ago, that she didn't want to talk about it.

583
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 3: She kept saying that she doesn't owe it to me

584
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 3: or anybody else to tell us about her business and

585
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 3: what's going on in her life. But you're dating him,

586
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 3: You've been dating him for a year and a half.

587
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, And like I could see being upset about

588
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 5: a trip, being sure, but a conference a common your friend,

589
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 5: Oh sad about a conference?

590
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 4: Pa, good about this conference? Gonna stop talking to your boyfriend? Yeah? Insane?

591
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 3: I'm so Also, I just don't think that's true about

592
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 3: like her saying, oh, I don't know, I don't know

593
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 3: anyone information about my life. When you're in a relationship

594
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 3: with someone, there is a certain expectation that you're going

595
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 3: to share about each other's, like what's going on around,

596
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 3: especially when it regards like.

597
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 4: Where you are, what you're doing.

598
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 3: I of course called her out for gaslighting me, to

599
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 3: which her response was, she's not gaslighting me. Kind of ironic,

600
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 3: I guess. When I talked about how it made me

601
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 3: feel and that she damaged my trust for her, she

602
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 3: again tried to belittle my feelings by rolling her eyes

603
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 3: and saying that it was only a show. This conversation

604
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 3: ended up opening a much bigger issue in our relationship

605
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: that I didn't mention in my last post. Generally, Amy

606
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 3: treated me really poorly throughout the relationship. She was hot

607
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 3: and cold, put zero effort into communication, and it never

608
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 3: felt like she made a priority. She gave me zero

609
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 3: affection or compliments, despite drooling and crushing over male celebrities

610
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 3: all day. She's made little effort to connect me and

611
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,239
Speaker 3: her family and friends. We've talked about all of this

612
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 3: a few times now. She would always say she was

613
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 3: overwhelmed with some new excuse and promise it would get better.

614
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 3: I would cave and agree to work through things. As expected,

615
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 3: things never got better. This time was the same where

616
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: she blamed a new job for being overwhelmed and that's

617
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 3: why she's been so distant.

618
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 4: But this time was different.

619
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 3: I guess her blatant line to my face and your

620
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 3: guys's comments in the back of my mind gave me

621
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 3: power to put my foot down. I broke up with

622
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 3: her then and there she kept begging me for one

623
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 3: more chance to think on it for a few days,

624
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 3: that she cares about me and didn't intend to hurt me,

625
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 3: all that nonsense. But the whole time I was the

626
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 3: one bawling, and there wasn't a tear on her face. Wow,

627
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,959
Speaker 3: your face, come watch our faces. Every weekday, anth at

628
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 3: the NPST does stap farv woo. That's so messed up,

629
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 3: And there's a little bit the story, but it just

630
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 3: feels like she just didn't really care about this relationship.

631
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 3: It really broke my heart, ending things. But I've also

632
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 3: really grown to hate myself for putting up with her

633
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 3: treatment for so long. I'm hurting a lot right now,

634
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 3: and I'm scared to get back into the dating world

635
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 3: after two years of aging and some weight gain. I

636
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 3: really loved her with every bit of my heart, and

637
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 3: I'm terrified to picture my life without her. I really

638
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 3: want to call her up again and give her one

639
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 3: final chance to get things right, but I know I'd

640
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 3: never forgive myself if she didn't change and broke my

641
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 3: heart again. I'm hurting bad and I could really use

642
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 3: some words of encouragement right now.

643
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 4: Thank you. And that is the end of the story. Sam.

644
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,920
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648
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649
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Speaker 2: I bring from home so I don't have to use

650
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Speaker 2: the snack machine or walk across the street to McDonald's

651
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Speaker 2: noticed someone had been gradually taking some of my food.

655
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 2: One out of three slices of pizza gone, twenty percent

656
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: of my soup gone, Cheeto's bag completely gone, etc. I

657
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658
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Speaker 2: attach a please don't touch paper sign up my stuff August.

659
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: In the second month, at the start of the month,

660
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: my food became untouched, but progressively went back to the

661
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: usual September. At the beginning of the third month, I

662
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: asked coworkers if they had taken or knew who was

663
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 2: taking my food, and no one had a clue, which

664
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 2: is kind of believable, as most of us take our

665
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 2: lunches separately. I decided to eat McDonald's or go to

666
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 2: seven eleven and stop bringing food. But then it started

667
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 2: effing with my financial stability. Ten days of paycheck working

668
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: day paycheck, consistantly buying food. October third, Thursday, I decided

669
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 2: to take matters into my own hands. Last week, my

670
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 2: friend told me about an Instagram reel that she saw

671
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 2: where a girl put laxative into her own food to

672
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 2: see who is the culprit. That's exactly what I did today.

673
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: What I wasn't expecting was for the girl late twenties

674
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: to have an allergic reaction to an ingredient and ended

675
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: up going to the hospital. You got caught.

676
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: I don't know about laxatives. I'm not a fan of

677
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: spicy food. You can do spicy food laxatives because I

678
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: saw a video of this guy that didn't want trespassors

679
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: on his land and people that were stilling like his

680
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: forerunners and stuff. So we put a bear trap down.

681
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: You can't do that.

682
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 2: Oh that that's crazy.

683
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 5: Yeah.

684
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: No, he said, I'm gonna put this bear trap down,

685
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,479
Speaker 1: and then he like explained the process, and then at

686
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: the end of the video he's like, actually, this is illegal.

687
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: You can't do that. It was like a good like oh,

688
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: just like it's like an education thing, like he was

689
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: like this and then at the end and he stated, actually,

690
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: you can't do this. This is illegal, and this is

691
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: a good education video.

692
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 2: But I feel like he should put that the very

693
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 2: beginning of the video first.

694
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: Well, it was it was for engagement. It was people

695
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: were gonna be like, you can't do that, and then

696
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: he'd be like, did you watch the end of the video. Anyways,

697
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: that's what this feels like.

698
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 2: After work, all of us went to visit her in

699
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: the hospital, where we all talked about what happened and

700
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: admitting to putting laxative into my own food. Six out

701
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 2: of the eight co workers, all girls, were disgusted by

702
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 2: my actions and we're on her side. One girl's whatever

703
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 2: about it, and the last guy said she shouldn't have

704
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 2: been touching my food to begin with. I told the

705
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: girl that I hope she gets better and went home,

706
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 2: but I didn't apologize for what I did, and I'm

707
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: not going to October fourth. This is the next day. Today,

708
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 2: day off. I received a phone call from our supervisor,

709
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 2: who I spoke to about my issue between after the

710
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 2: first month, and told me she can't help me there

711
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: because she's not our mom, and essentially told me I

712
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 2: had to apologize to her or else I wouldn't be

713
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: able to come back to work until I do, and

714
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 2: I'm assuming if I take too many days off, I'd

715
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: just be fired for not coming to work. Update number one.

716
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: I just received a text from my supervisor telling me

717
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: the coworker doesn't need to apologize and it's up to

718
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 2: her discretion if she chooses to apologize or not for

719
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 2: stealing my food. I hate this.

720
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: I do not agree with setting traps. I agree with

721
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: the spicy trap, but not the lax of trap. No,

722
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: they shouldn't have been doing this anyways. If you were

723
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: anticipating someone to do this.

724
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 2: It's like saying, oh, someone keeps stealing my car and

725
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 2: takes it for personal use and they return it, like

726
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: and I'm paying for all the gas And then oh,

727
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: they got an accident in my car and it's my fault.

728
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 2: I didn't even let them drive the car.

729
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: But like you took the brakes out of your car,

730
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: that's it. You're harming them, like you're intentionally putting out

731
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 1: for value.

732
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 2: Again, op was like, who's eating my food? And no

733
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 2: one coughed up. Update number two, I'm a male for

734
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: those who keep referring to me as she, even though

735
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: I never mentioned my gender little Update three, the male

736
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 2: coworker who was on my side told me the girl

737
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: is going to take legal action for attempting to offer

738
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 2: he overheard the girls talking today at work. Update number four,

739
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 2: many of you, OPI is the Ahle voters are forgetting

740
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 2: the fact that my please do not touch sign never left.

741
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 2: Even though it stopped working eventually, it's I still kept

742
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 2: it there, so when she took my laxative food from

743
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: my plastic bag, the sign please do not touch my

744
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: food was still on it. Update number five. My supervisor

745
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 2: is HR. There's no one else in the HR Department

746
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: Update number six. It was pretty late last night, four am,

747
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 2: and was talking to family members to see what my

748
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 2: options are whether I should apologize and stay at my.

749
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: Job or leave.

750
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 2: But f that I'm not apologizing, you think they would know,

751
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 2: like if they opened it, they would see the ingredients,

752
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 2: or like if it was like that obvious, I want

753
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 2: to know what she was allergic to.

754
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, how's it Ritney I Celand. How's his legal action?

755
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: It's his food. He can put whatever he wants in

756
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: his food. Yeah, have allergies, don't touch other people's stuff. Yeah.

757
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 2: And here's a little more info about my work to

758
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 2: give more insight. I work at a senior facility where

759
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 2: I work as a medicine technician. Oh no, My coworkers

760
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: are nurses, caretakers, and front desk. The girl who stole

761
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: my food is front desk. We have an obsolete no

762
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: food or drinks rule outside the break room that's pretty small.

763
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 2: We can't use the kitchen to store our food due

764
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: to fear of cross contamination. I sort of have a

765
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 2: desk to put my stuff. But like I said, there's

766
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 2: a rule, and the HR slash supervisor is pretty strict

767
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 2: on that. The supervisor called me about an hour ago,

768
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: telling me she's with the girl in the hospital and

769
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: now it's my time to apologize, or I could come

770
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 2: in person to do it, and I said absolutely not,

771
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 2: absolutely not, absolutely not. She kept insisting, but in a

772
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 2: tone where I was one hundred percent at fault, not

773
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: her who has been stealing my food for two and

774
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 2: a half months straight. Number seven. Have been reading some

775
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 2: more comments with a lot of question so I'll answer

776
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,720
Speaker 2: them here so everyone can see. One, she's not poor.

777
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: She drives at twenty twenty at least lexus SUV LMO. Two.

778
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 2: My supervisor is HR. Our other manager works from home

779
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 2: and only comes home once or twice a week to

780
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: meet with the elderly's families. Yes, I could have spoken

781
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 2: to him, but knowing him as he's not around much,

782
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 2: would tell me to reach out to the HR lady

783
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: as she's a higher position than him. Three. I live

784
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 2: in South California, but not La.

785
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: San Diego, San Diego, Orange County.

786
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 2: Four doctors said the allergic reaction might have been the

787
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 2: laxative or my food, which was chicken noodle soup that

788
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: I made from scratch at home the morning of. They're

789
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 2: still running tests.

790
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 1: Okay, tom out, you made chicken to a suit the

791
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: morning off and put laxative in it? Why not just

792
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: like have a can? That doesn't makes sense.

793
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 2: He's a cook. It's his food.

794
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: But still like, I'm gonna make holemake homemade chicken soup

795
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 1: and then put laxs in it. Okay, I would have

796
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: got Campbell's and put laxes in it. I wanna I'm

797
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 1: wanna go over that far.

798
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 2: Maybe he doesn't like Campbells.

799
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 1: He's not gonna eat it.

800
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: It's his food. You can do whatever he wants.

801
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: He's not gonna eat he put laxes in it. Why

802
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: did he wasted some putting lass and food that's gonna

803
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: make that he?

804
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, what I think you're just come on, come on,

805
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 2: I feel like you like taking people's food.

806
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: No, I don't like taking people's food. I'm just saying,

807
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: why would you take the time. Okay, here we go. Okay,

808
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna put laxes or something, I'm gonna buy

809
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 1: like for breakfast, I'm gonna buy like a Chick fil

810
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: a burrito. I'm not gonna go handmade of gaburrito and

811
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: then put laxes in it.

812
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 2: Maybe he was just making one batch of soup, like

813
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 2: like while so, yeah, that could maybe he's just making it.

814
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: If he didn't make a batch of soup, I'm pissed. Yeah.

815
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 2: Five. She didn't go to the hospital because she was

816
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 2: crapping herself senseless from the laxative. She went because she

817
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: complained of a huge stomach ache in rash line from

818
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 2: below her belly button to between her rib cage. Six.

819
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 2: Shifts between employees and sometimes managers always aligned for those saying,

820
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 2: how we could all go to the hospital. You either

821
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: work six am to two pm, two pm to ten pm,

822
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: or ten pm to six am. Update number eight. One

823
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: of my coworkers is now in the hospital for the

824
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 2: same conditions, big stomach ache and rash line down the

825
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 2: stomach lining.

826
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: More than one person.

827
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 2: Doctors are now certain it wasn't the laxative, as she

828
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 2: didn't eat my soup compared to the first girl.

829
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 1: Interesting, so it's not his fault, not his fault. That's crazy.

830
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 1: I like, that's coincidental. What if someone else in the office.

831
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: It's like there's street people and the guy, the guy

832
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: that was like, you shouldn't have story your food. It's

833
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: been happening to him too.

834
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 2: We're gonna find out. Update number nine. Someone from Home

835
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: Office HQ is being sent down tomorrow morning to figure

836
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 2: out what's going on as our HR as a huge

837
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 2: crab stain on her hands. Doctors are running tests for

838
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 2: the second girl and trying to figure out why two

839
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 2: coworkers are having the same issues. Dave HR. Doctors and

840
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 2: male coworker now ruled out my soup as the cause

841
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 2: of all of this.

842
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: Okay, he's out.

843
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 2: It's ebola.

844
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: He's out. It's a bola not launched, it's an std OH.

845
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: Update number ten. Both girls are not under quarantine and

846
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 2: no one is allowed to visit them until the hospital

847
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: clears that they're not contagious. I'm required to report to

848
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: work tomorrow for a meeting between myself, HR, some of

849
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,720
Speaker 2: my coworkers, and the Home Office Rep. Update number eleven.

850
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 2: The Home Office rep called me to inform me that

851
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 2: I'm formerly being sue tomorrow by the first girl.

852
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: Why, but that your suit's ruled out. You know what,

853
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 1: go ahead and sue and then counter sue for mental exhaustion.

854
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, that I'm formerly being sued tomorrow by the first

855
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 2: girl and her husband, although she's unsure what I'm being

856
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 2: sued for.

857
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: She's Oh, that's hilarious that you know. The lawyer's really

858
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 1: gonna have a good take of that.

859
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 2: We want to sue him? Why I don't?

860
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: Noh, no things about right.

861
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 2: Update number twelve, just answering some more questions about the

862
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 2: whole situation. I contacted a family lawyer this morning, but

863
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: he's currently out of town until Monday morning, so I'll

864
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 2: be speaking to him soon. I told him the gist

865
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 2: of what's happening, including being sued for unknown reasons until

866
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 2: I'm served my papers. Both girls are fine, light diarrhea,

867
00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 2: and the rat seems to be going away from after

868
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,720
Speaker 2: giving them benadryl pepto invitamins through an IV. Some people

869
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 2: think they're on their deathbeds, although it's quite the opposite

870
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 2: lull from what my male coworker has told me, I

871
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: wasn't the only victim of getting their food stolen by

872
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: this girl. The only difference is I'm the only one

873
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 2: calling her out on it. October fifth, Saturday. This is

874
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: it's like three days.

875
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 1: It's a long three days. I think he's gonna get fired.

876
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,399
Speaker 2: I would sue if I got fired. I would sue

877
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: because what did you do? Nothing. Update number thirteen finished

878
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 2: my meeting with my supervisors and coworkers. The HR lady

879
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 2: is now under investigation and has been put under temporary leave.

880
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: What wait wait, the first girl.

881
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 2: The first girl will be fired by the end of

882
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: the day, although I'm still being supposedly sued and we're

883
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: still trying to figure out how they got sick.

884
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: HR guy, HR guy did it? HR Lady?

885
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 2: I think HR Lady is just in it with the girl.

886
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: We're trying to talk to the second girl on what

887
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 2: could have happened, but she doesn't want to say anything.

888
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,320
Speaker 2: Update number four Fourtine, not long after my last update,

889
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 2: the first girl's husband was sent to the hospital in

890
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 2: quarantine for the same symptoms as the other two. The

891
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: doctors are ninety percent sure that whatever is causing this

892
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: is transferable by bodily fluids.

893
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: You think you think, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

894
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 2: It makes sense for the husband to be sick in

895
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 2: this case, but we have no idea how the second

896
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 2: girl is sick. All three are now under quarantine. HR

897
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 2: has been fired. First girl has been fired. HR Lady

898
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 2: is going to sue the company for psychological trauma and

899
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 2: is stress. According to my coworker's lull. Update number fifteen.

900
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,439
Speaker 2: I'm currently at work for the time being, and Home

901
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 2: office rep is in charge. For those dumb enough to

902
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 2: ask in question how we'd know all this. That doctors

903
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 2: are keeping me and the Home office Rep informed, as

904
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm still considered the starting root cause of all this.

905
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 2: On top of that, the first girl is still gossiping

906
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:56,280
Speaker 2: to my coworkers. Do phones not exist now? Loll side note,

907
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 2: I've yet to be served any papers. I've never been

908
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 2: sued before, so I'm not sure sure how long this

909
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 2: takes or if the girls even started the process. HR

910
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: only gave me a heads up yesterday that she's going to,

911
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 2: not that she already has Saturday Night Update number sixteen.

912
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 2: All right, this has been a long two days for me,

913
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: and this might be the last update, at least for now,

914
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 2: until this whole thing blows over. I've been trying to

915
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: make sense of everything that has happened lately, but now

916
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 2: I don't know where to begin, so I'll try my best.

917
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 2: As I said earlier, the HR lady was being investigated,

918
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: and during the investigation they found out she had the

919
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 2: same symptom three weeks ago and quietly checked herself into

920
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 2: a hospital, but is now almost fully recovered. I don't

921
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 2: think she quarantined as she hasn't missed work since her

922
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 2: last vacation earlier this year. Apart from that, she also

923
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 2: confessed to having spicy sleep relationships with both girls in

924
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 2: the hospital for the past two months, so we both

925
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: called it and both girls having no idea of the

926
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: other's spicy relationship with HR. The home office rep believes

927
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 2: the husband got sick via the wife, as he's never

928
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 2: stepped foot into the facility, has never met any of

929
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 2: his wife's coworkers or supervisor.

930
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, the HR.

931
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 2: Lady has been arrested for knowingly spreading an infectious disease

932
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 2: without the knowledge of the other person twice. The hospital

933
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 2: will be contacted by the company to inform them of

934
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 2: this incident and see what medications slash treatment she was

935
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: given as HR goes to a fancier hospital and what

936
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 2: they are dealing with. HR has possibly dropped legal action

937
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 2: unless they were empty threats. From the beginning Monday morning,

938
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 2: I'll be talking to my lawyer to sue the wife

939
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 2: and the rest of the six women for emotional distress

940
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 2: and lying. As it seems none of this was my

941
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: fault to begin with, and I'm still not going to

942
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 2: apologize for anything. I've been standing my ground since day one,

943
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 2: as you should. Ope, good for you. I think I'll

944
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 2: do one more update once everyone is cleared from the

945
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 2: hospital and everything's back to normal.

946
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 5: Woo.

947
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 2: October sixth, Monday Night Update number seventeen the finale, the

948
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 2: final update.

949
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

950
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, someone that knows me or what's going on at

951
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: the company that I worked for finally saw my post

952
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: and sent it to home office, no, resulting in them

953
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 2: firing me, as California is an at will employee state.

954
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 1: No, you messed up.

955
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 2: You done messed up, Aaron. After talking things over with

956
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,280
Speaker 2: my lawyer and the company themselves, I could have sued

957
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 2: them and the girls for all the chaos that's transpired,

958
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 2: and they would have countersued basically their reputation as I

959
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 2: haven't revealed their employer versus me being in a debt.

960
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 2: As I don't have the funds to go against the

961
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 2: entire company or the time, so I decided to let

962
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 2: it go.

963
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: Dude, Come on, you could have cashed out.

964
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 2: No, that's that's a big that's a big. That's a

965
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 2: David vers Goliath kind of thing. I was going to

966
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 2: start looking for a new job anyways, once this crap

967
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,240
Speaker 2: show literally was over as for everyone else. Both girls

968
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 2: and the husband have now been released from the hospital

969
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 2: but are advised to stay home. The infection was found

970
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 2: out to be viral gastro and territis or something very

971
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 2: close to it, which would explain the stomach achees, diarrhea, fever,

972
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 2: and it being highly contagious, but not the rash and

973
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 2: why it took so long for them to get sick.

974
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,280
Speaker 2: The hr lady was never arrested as I originally assumed,

975
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 2: but was questioned and at some point called the wife

976
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 2: to tell her that she confessed everything, including that she

977
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: was seeing the second girl behind her back, but she

978
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,919
Speaker 2: loved her the wife and wanted to be with her.

979
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 2: The wife told her it was over and that she's

980
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 2: with her husband, as the husband was right next to

981
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 2: her at the time of the call. Unfortunately for her,

982
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: the husband is going forward with the divorce and in

983
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 2: the meantime has kicked out the wife from their home.

984
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 2: If the wife had a huge nervous breakdown, started throwing

985
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 2: crap around the house and admitted to not only having

986
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 2: a spicy relationship with HR, but the second girl from

987
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 2: the hospital without HR or anybody's knowledge for the past year.

988
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: This is messy, which.

989
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 2: Is hard to believe, and she might just be saying

990
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 2: crap to get the last laugh. Nevertheless, the wife is

991
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 2: now staying with a relative an hour away to figure

992
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: things out and calm down the husband. Myself and the

993
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 2: male ex coworker are currently at the husband's house helping

994
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: clean the mess she made, packing up the wive's belongings,

995
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: and sharing each other's side of the stories as we

996
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 2: might be all sick already anyways, got it. We've been

997
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 2: here for the past ten hours, laughing our butts off

998
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 2: and drinking Margarita's Beautiful. I show them my Reddit post

999
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 2: as it doesn't matter anymore now that I'm fired. Come

1000
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 2: to find out, the husband's a pretty chill guy, unlike

1001
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,320
Speaker 2: his crazy soon to be ex wife, food stealing ex wife.

1002
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 2: He offered me his place to stay for free if

1003
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 2: I have a hard time finding a decent job and

1004
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 2: let me the Lexus his wife was using, as I've

1005
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,359
Speaker 2: been taking Uber a while after my car broke down

1006
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 2: a year ago and haven't been able to save up

1007
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 2: from how expensive uber is, dude, do you think this

1008
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: is real?

1009
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1010
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 2: Man, everything sounded everything sounded real until the end here

1011
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: where it's like, ah no, everyone's together everyone.

1012
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: I think I think it's raw. I think it's real.

1013
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 1: But dude, he looked out though. Oh yeah, he looked

1014
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: out big.

1015
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 2: This is why I was packing my lunches. And you

1016
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 2: can pack your lunches and eat it with us because

1017
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 2: we're live three pmpst every day, so have lunch with

1018
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 2: us and just tap our profile. I'm going to start

1019
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: looking for a new job tomorrow and a hoefully put

1020
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 2: this whole mess behind me. This weekend, me and the

1021
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: boys are planning to get drinks and watch some football

1022
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: at our local sports bar if we're all in good health.

1023
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 2: Thank you to all who supported me and rode this

1024
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: wild bat crap crazy rollercoaster with me. Thank you, Op.

1025
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 2: That was a wild one.

1026
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: That was beautiful. I like that a lot. I just

1027
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: got a new job and I am already feuding with

1028
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: one of my coworkers.

1029
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: Quit not worth it.

1030
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 1: I thirty one mal autistic, just started a new job

1031
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 1: hosting at a locally owned Italian restaurant. I really enjoy it.

1032
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: My coworkers and I are very well together. I found

1033
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: myself fitting in quite well compared to other jobs. At

1034
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: previous jobs, I have developed poor reputations because of my

1035
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: social awkwardness and lack of social awareness and such. Due

1036
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: to my previous jobs, I have taken to telling literally

1037
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: everyone I meet that I am autistic and let them

1038
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: know that it's okay to tell me if they feel

1039
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 1: uncomfortable or they think I act inappropriate, because that's how

1040
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 1: I learned. By the way, this comes from a big

1041
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 1: programmer ninety six to twenty three on the R Size Okay,

1042
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: storytime subriter. I have a few people I really get

1043
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: along with at the job, just more than a hey,

1044
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: how are you. One person shall be called Ignacious Twiny

1045
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: Mail likes to make fun of my weight, intelligence, and

1046
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: other such inappropriate aspects such as the size of my genitalia.

1047
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: He's young, and I don't really care. I definitely have

1048
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: grown to the point that I actually understand he doesn't

1049
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: actually mean anything he's saying. On Friday night, it was busy,

1050
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 1: and Ignacious decided to make a joke about my intelligence.

1051
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: Again attempted to prove I am smart by telling him

1052
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 1: a riddle with various few outcomes, which makes it seem

1053
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 1: like I am reading someone's mind. I followed him around

1054
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: to finish telling him the riddle. However, he began to

1055
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: grow very annoying. I did not initially perceive this any annoyance.

1056
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: I saw I wrote off as he's joking in our

1057
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: typical way. He was not joking, and he told me

1058
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: to shut up. I do not, as a hard rule,

1059
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: allow people to tell me to shut it up. He

1060
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,240
Speaker 1: told me to shut up. I told him I was serious,

1061
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: but he continued to tell me to shut up. I

1062
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: follow him into the kitchen and try to explain why

1063
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: this is such a sore spot for me. He told

1064
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: me to leave. I finish what I was trying to

1065
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: say and left to acquiesce to his demand and gave

1066
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,320
Speaker 1: him time to get over it. But the rest of

1067
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: the night I persevered on the issue, as people on

1068
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: the spectrum are prone to do. I told my coworkers

1069
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: so that everyone is informed about my feelings on this

1070
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: particular phrase. On Saturday, Ignacious began making noises that indicated

1071
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: that he thought I smell bad or I was obstructing

1072
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: his path because he was joking with me. I felt

1073
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: his ire had subsided. I told him he would need

1074
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,399
Speaker 1: to talk about the issue we had the previous night.

1075
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: He flat out said no no. I told him that

1076
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: in that case, our relationship would strictly be professional. I

1077
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: asked him if he understood though he had told me

1078
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: before he did not appreciate this phrase. When I realized this,

1079
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 1: I felt bad, but I did not say anything to apologize.

1080
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: I let the matager know that we were essentially feuding.

1081
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: This was to prime her for me coming to complain

1082
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: in the event that ignacious insulted me again. As part

1083
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: of our professional relationship. I do not want to accept

1084
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 1: his jokes as jokes if they include demeaning and vulgarity.

1085
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: She said, Okay, she's really good at understanding me, and

1086
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: I think she knows that. I just like to make

1087
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 1: sure everyone is informed. Okay, I like that that. I

1088
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: love that about you, Bop. I want to make sure

1089
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,280
Speaker 1: everyone's informed. Sometimes people aren't informed.

1090
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 2: I'm not informed. I didn't know my stories were that

1091
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 2: bad when I.

1092
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: Read no, No, it's not you, it's me too. It

1093
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: happens to me too.

1094
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 3: Bro.

1095
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, you're good, it's us. It's honestly, I will

1096
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: say it is the story you read like that when

1097
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: you read crazy. Okay, it's truly not you, I hope.

1098
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: So throughout the rest of the shift, Ignacious and I

1099
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: didn't make much eye contact, but we did speak politely

1100
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: with thank you and excuse me. I prefer we'd be

1101
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,240
Speaker 1: on good terms. But it does feel acceptable here. However,

1102
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: I still wonder if I handled this correctly. So am

1103
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: I the bad Apple and we have a bonus? Am

1104
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: I the bad Apple post? What do we think here?

1105
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 2: No, this is very odd behavior from Ignacious.

1106
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty, he's just a twenty year old teenager.

1107
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 2: That doesn't that's not an excuse to be rudude and

1108
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 2: bullying in a way.

1109
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 1: But it's a restaurant service. I mean, guys, if you

1110
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 1: guys have worked at a restaurant, you guys know that

1111
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: we have people like this.

1112
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 2: Come on, yeah, come on, I know, I know, I know,

1113
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 2: I know, but this is not okay. This is unprofessional.

1114
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: And even OP was like, let's be professional, and op

1115
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:25,399
Speaker 2: is doing the right thing.

1116
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 1: So no, yeah, I love what OPI's doing making it

1117
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 1: sure everyone's informed, like he knows about that. He's autistic

1118
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 1: and that's harder for people to relate with him. But

1119
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 1: I think he's doing a fantastic job of informing everyone,

1120
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: and I think, honestly that is probably why he's excelling

1121
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 1: at this job rather than others.

1122
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 2: That's great, Yeah, because he's doing they're doing something I

1123
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 2: don't think anyone else done before in the past. So

1124
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: there's oh, whoa, like you're actually speaking up. Yeah, and

1125
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 2: you want to whoa, You're doing this for the betterment

1126
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 2: of everyone.

1127
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And it's super sweet. He wants to be

1128
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: friends with this kid.

1129
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe the kid like if you guys were friends.

1130
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,839
Speaker 2: I get teasing, and I think that's what the kids

1131
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 2: trying to do.

1132
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: We're not like, hey you, We'll tell you a fat

1133
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: fuck Jesus Christ. That's why what you're saying.

1134
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: I mean, I know, but Jesus Christ or bro.

1135
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: You smell like uh uh, you smell like cat piss. Yeah,

1136
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 1: come on, God, Well that was horrible.

1137
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 2: There's no excuse for a kid to be rude and

1138
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: like like say mean things and throw things at people.

1139
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 2: But let's just keep reading. Let's see if the kid

1140
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 2: follows you know what.

1141
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: No, let's just I'm gonna keep reading now. I'm gonna

1142
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: keep reading now. Bonus, am I the bad Apple. On Saturday,

1143
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 1: the day before Father's Day, we began to get slammed.

1144
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: The restaurant's clientele is very persistent on where they want

1145
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 1: to sit and very rude when making requests. In addition

1146
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: to seating them, I need to make sure that all

1147
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: of the servers get an even amount of tables and

1148
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 1: bust the tables while the servers can't get to them.

1149
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: This actually is pretty easy. The hardest part is dealing

1150
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: with the aggressive mannerisms of our guests and processing them.

1151
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 1: My coworkers are very very gracious about listening to my complaints,

1152
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 1: but I feel like I've crossed a couple of lines.

1153
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: On Saturday, we had a group of women come in

1154
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 1: and requesting a table for five. I gave them exactly that.

1155
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: They then told me they needed a bigger table because

1156
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: additional guests would be joining them. The newest waitress will

1157
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 1: call her Sue eighteen female serve them. Apparently, there was

1158
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: an issue with a gift card and SEUs spent an

1159
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: ignoredant amount of time trying to fix it. Meanwhile, several

1160
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: tables were done and they needed to be bussed. I

1161
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: tried to keep up with bussing tables. But it got

1162
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: very confusing and overwhelming. I did my best to keep up.

1163
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: The way I tried to clear tables is to take

1164
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,839
Speaker 1: the trash than the cups, than the dishes. I then

1165
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: have to take and wipe and reset the silverware. I

1166
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 1: don't have any issues with this normally, but I felt

1167
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: like it was being left to do on my own

1168
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: throughout the shift. With so many tables, I needed to

1169
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: switch up my strategy to doing more at once and

1170
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,479
Speaker 1: focusing on one table out of time. However, I often

1171
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 1: forgot which tables I needed to work on. When returning

1172
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: from the dishpit, I just began resuming on the nearest table,

1173
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 1: and that leaves two unavailable tables that are half bussed,

1174
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:08,399
Speaker 1: as opposed to one unavailable table one unbus table. This

1175
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 1: became unbearably overwhelming when a table of twelve came in

1176
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:14,839
Speaker 1: for Father's Day and the only table we could set

1177
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: them had the seven women. Sue had no time to

1178
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 1: help me clear the table. I went to the server

1179
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: who was being promoted soon Devin. I told her that

1180
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: I had a table of twelve coming in and the

1181
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,399
Speaker 1: only place to sit them was not clean because Sue

1182
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 1: had been working on the gift card. Devin said she

1183
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: was too busy. I said I understood, and though I

1184
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: felt bad for interrupting her, I still needed help. I

1185
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: asked for guidance. She told me to work on my

1186
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: own pace and seat them when I was ready. This

1187
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: was actually very helpful, though not exactly what I was

1188
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: looking for. I got it ready in time for the

1189
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: bulk of the party to arrive. Then I had to

1190
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 1: work on several other tables I had not even been

1191
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,439
Speaker 1: able to get to. Veronica twenty eight female was working

1192
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: this section. Several times I saw her turn around and

1193
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: talking to one of the cooks. I did see her

1194
00:52:57,800 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: doing her work, but it felt like I had to

1195
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: beg her to help me clear the tables. I felt

1196
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: quite the same with Quinn twenty four mail. It was

1197
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: overwhelming and I had to take a break and collect myself,

1198
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 1: which makes me feel worse. Quinn is constantly playing on

1199
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:12,879
Speaker 1: his phone, but I asked him to help me as well.

1200
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: I only ask as a last resort because I know

1201
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: I can't handle all of them. A couple of people

1202
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:21,320
Speaker 1: came into Quinn's section and asked to sit at multiple

1203
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 1: other tables because she did not like where I sat. Them.

1204
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: I had to tell them that there were no other

1205
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: Quan tables. So after everything, I talked to Devin. Devin

1206
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: doesn't like conflict at all. I do not know how

1207
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: she's going to do with that as a manager, but

1208
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: I guess we'll find out. So I apologize for being

1209
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: abrasive and anxious. I complained that I felt that Quinn

1210
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 1: and Veronica were not helping when they should have. She

1211
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: told me to keep in mind that they pay me

1212
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:49,760
Speaker 1: to bust their tables. I had never heard this before,

1213
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 1: but I acted like I knew. I did know. I

1214
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 1: got a share of credit card tips, but it's truly

1215
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: not enough to justify leaving me overwhelmed. I do my

1216
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: best to bust the tables, but I might need some

1217
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 1: mother accommodations to make it smoother. Eventually, I calmed down,

1218
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: but I felt terrible for complaining, especially to Devin. I

1219
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: asked her later if we were okay. She said yes,

1220
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: But I still felt terrible because I have a hard

1221
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:15,959
Speaker 1: time forgiving myself. But I will forgive you if only

1222
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 1: you show up at three PMPSD Live when we are

1223
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:20,720
Speaker 1: on YouTube. Just tap our profile.

1224
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 2: Tap it, dude.

1225
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: I am so informed by every single scenario right now.

1226
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 2: It's very detailed like that.

1227
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 1: I wish I thought this way.

1228
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 2: I like the way that we're being told this. It's

1229
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 2: just I feel like at.

1230
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: This restaurant, they're just gonna be crazy.

1231
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 2: I think they're just hiring a lot of young ens,

1232
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 2: young ins.

1233
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:43,439
Speaker 1: And I like Op's attentiveness. This is a really good

1234
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 1: skill I wonder like outside of the restaurant industry where

1235
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: you could like put this to use. No, it is

1236
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: a good skill set.

1237
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 2: And but I just don't appreciate how they don't respect.

1238
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 1: Oh that's just restaurantize. People don't really respect people. Dev's awesome. No, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1239
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: but it's just ignacious.

1240
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 2: Come on, It's just like again, I feel like a

1241
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 2: lot of these kids are just or a lot of

1242
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: these people that are new hires or whatever working there

1243
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,479
Speaker 2: are just they're just kids. Yeah, they don't know how to act,

1244
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 2: and they're just like, oh, you're a little bit older.

1245
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: But uh, I think I think OPG is ranting.

1246
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1247
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 1: I also talked to Veronica about this. Veronica is super

1248
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: sweet and seems to genuinely like me. I told her

1249
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 1: I felt okay discussing this with her because she knows

1250
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 1: I love her, and I know she'll forgive me.

1251
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 2: Oh.

1252
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: So she explained that she is never just stopped and

1253
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: talking unless she is intentionally stopped to break from Mark.

1254
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 1: Other times she had other things to take care of.

1255
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 1: I understood this, and I felt terrible about again for complaining.

1256
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 1: I really appreciated her explaining it to me, but I

1257
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: still feel terrible. So am I the bad apple for complaining? Opie?

1258
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 1: You're just you're just gonna process this and you're good dude.

1259
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're You're definitely allowed to complain. You're

1260
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 2: not a bad apple for it. Nah, But if it

1261
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 2: can you know, if it persists, it's not. If it's

1262
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,720
Speaker 2: if it's stressing you out that much, yeah, leave. Yeah,

1263
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 2: it's not worth it.

1264
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, it's John og Host here. We're gonna get

1265
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 1: back to the stories. But here's a quick three minute

1266
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: break from as for more sponsors. Our newest coworker is

1267
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: a nightmare to work with. I reached my.

1268
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 2: Breaking point, no more nightmare fuel.

1269
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 1: I finally had enough. I three y three female work

1270
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: for a casino and I'm on the floor crew and

1271
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: use machines to clean floors along with other daily tasks.

1272
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: My work is imperfect. I guess no work will ever be.

1273
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: But we got a new hire two months ago, and

1274
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: from the moment he stepped into the meeting room, I

1275
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: knew he was gonna be some kind of drama. It

1276
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 1: started out fine, as most things do, but then he

1277
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: started giving my lead of the floor crew crap. By

1278
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,880
Speaker 1: the way, this comes from depressed coworker ninety one on

1279
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: the r Slash showcase story Tom Subrender. So he would

1280
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: always comment on how he couldn't understand him. Lead has

1281
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:55,720
Speaker 1: a thick African American accent, and instead of just asking

1282
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 1: him to slow down or repeat himself, he would just

1283
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 1: say I can't understand you. Then I would tell the

1284
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: new hire fifty something male. By the way, lead is

1285
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: fifty something male. He would put his hand up in

1286
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 1: my face and get this cocky look, like, just let

1287
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 1: me handle this. They kept having problems and not getting

1288
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: along with the new hire. I'll call him Willy to

1289
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: save time, because this is really dragging on, started screaming

1290
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: at d let's call him David the lead, and really

1291
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: acting like a total you know all and smug and rude.

1292
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 1: We would have a meeting with the four of us

1293
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: on the floor group me, David Willie, and one other

1294
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: woman I'll call her Mary, And the meeting consisted of

1295
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: David saying how Willy was yelling and cussing him out

1296
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: all the time and was always mad. And then Willy

1297
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: literally stands up doing this discussing upper lip twitch thing

1298
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 1: he does to really put on that he's a big

1299
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: mad baby, and I swear he yells freaking I said,

1300
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: freaking not effing dude, just fire him. Okay, we why

1301
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 1: is he still working here? What are we doing?

1302
00:57:58,400 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 2: This is so weird, This is weird.

1303
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm uh fifty old man, dude, come on, which at

1304
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: this point I almost laughed out loud. If my supervisor

1305
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 1: hadn't asked me to take notes of the meeting, I

1306
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: probably would have. Then, after being a monster, Willy decides

1307
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: to go to David stick out his hand to shake,

1308
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: and when he does, Willy grabs d in a hug

1309
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: and holds his bald head and apologizes and everyone claps foray.

1310
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: With that bs over, we go on with her night.

1311
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: We work overnight, and when I see Willy later I

1312
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: tell him he did a good job and he says

1313
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 1: it was all put on and he feels sorry for

1314
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: David and all his other bs. I quickly got tired

1315
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: of hearing and went on. Willy also complains NonStop. He

1316
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: bees all the time about David not knowing what he's doing,

1317
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: which is sometimes true. Him doing the assignment sheet wrong

1318
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: also true. But then there's just the NonStop, endless itching

1319
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: about anything to anyone that will make eye contact with him.

1320
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: He says, Mary, the other woman has no manners because

1321
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: she simply, hey, can you leave that door open to him?

1322
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: When he was shutting a door and turns around and says,

1323
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: oh can I now? Now Mary doesn't want anything to

1324
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: do with him. This guy sucks either because of his

1325
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: attitude is so bad. Yeah, this guy sucks. I don't

1326
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: like this story.

1327
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 2: I don't like this guy.

1328
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 1: Then comes today. I really struggle with confrontation. I take

1329
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 1: a couple of anxiety meds, couple of depression meds, zan

1330
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: daily prescription just to get through the work. I'm also

1331
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: on blood pressure meds, and I just started a med

1332
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: called Noltreuston to help me lose weight that can make

1333
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: you irrable. Everyone at work knows my issues. We get

1334
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 1: to work. I cak in around ten Willie at eleven.

1335
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: It's just us two to night on floors. Once again,

1336
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: the assignment paper is wrong. Shocking. He's pisce already because

1337
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: Mary's name is on it and she's off. And David

1338
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: even asked me, does Mary work Mondays? And I told

1339
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: him for the third week in a row, no, she

1340
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: doesn't work Mondays. Well, her name is on it, and

1341
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: he's pissed because, well, who was supposed to do that

1342
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: work when her name's on it? And I'm thinking, you've

1343
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: been here for over two months. We have to go

1344
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 1: through this every single week. I go to help my

1345
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: team take out the trash in a restaurant and they

1346
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 1: come back around the corner and Willie is complaining to

1347
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 1: one of my leads that I abandoned him. Wow, and

1348
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 1: he has to hunt me down now after two months.

1349
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 1: Oh and a weird waste call. I forgot to mention

1350
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: I gave Willy my number to be a good coworker

1351
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: at first and answer questions if I was there, because,

1352
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: like I said, I know David isn't the best lead. Well,

1353
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: Willy calls me wasted and just tries keeping me on

1354
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 1: the phone, asking how to call out because he was

1355
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 1: sick or some crap. Even though I could clearly tell

1356
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: he was wasted being a drinker myself until I started

1357
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: the Nile treks. On he introduces me to his girlfriend

1358
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 1: slat fiance, so that's the woman he takes care of.

1359
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: It changes with his mood like the effing wind, and

1360
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: I finally say I have to go. Sorry, I know

1361
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: this is along. He also sent me a wasted tax,

1362
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: so I just blocked him last week. He hasn't asked

1363
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: and I haven't brought it up.

1364
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 5: Wa.

1365
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 2: This is strange.

1366
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is kind of weird.

1367
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 2: This, This is like Okay, I'm like, okay, this understanding now.

1368
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 2: I'm just like I'm kind of confused on what's really

1369
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 2: going on here.

1370
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1371
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: Will, he's just been weird. Will. Will he's just skipping work.

1372
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: Will he's being harassing. Maybe not harassing, but Will he's

1373
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: like like crossing the work boundary with Ope.

1374
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,439
Speaker 2: I don't like this. Yeah, like I said, I don't

1375
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 2: like this story. I don't know, I don't know where

1376
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 2: this is going. I hope this is just like that's it.

1377
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: I think it's just vincing dude. Yeah, it's getting to me.

1378
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 2: Okay, you got this last like you got this?

1379
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh I know, I got it. I know, well

1380
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 1: back today with him talking loud and complaining, saying he

1381
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 1: doesn't know what to do, and I abandon him, which

1382
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 1: I am not his boss in any ways, and he

1383
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 1: is such a no at all And why would I

1384
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 1: try to tell him anything? Lot only break and say

1385
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 1: you're making me uncomfortable and says, how am I making

1386
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable? I don't remember at all of well because

1387
01:01:57,840 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: I got so worked up. He says. I said, I'm

1388
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,680
Speaker 1: tired of your BS and that sounds like something I

1389
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 1: would say, but there is audio, so if they want

1390
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 1: to pull it, they will. I just had to walk

1391
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: away from him and go to the woman's locker room.

1392
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:13,440
Speaker 1: I heard him boohooing about how everyone is against him

1393
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 1: and yells at him and he's either going to quit

1394
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 1: or go to HR, which good riddance, but he won't.

1395
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 2: Fine do it.

1396
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 1: But you can come to YouTube every weekday at three

1397
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 1: PMPs two when we go live. Just tap our profile,

1398
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 1: Just tap it.

1399
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 2: Let this guy go.

1400
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: Why is he still working?

1401
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 2: Why is he still here? The fact that he's just

1402
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 2: making this so much stress more stressful in the workplace,

1403
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 2: more like just anxious anxiety and anxious driven. Yeah, what's

1404
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 2: the point. What do you bring to the table here

1405
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 2: other than like a headache and like just stress, yeah

1406
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 2: weird and complaining.

1407
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're almost done. I swear I heard him walk

1408
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: past the locker room and he says he was leaving

1409
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: to get me to come out, but I stayed in

1410
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 1: there and come to find out, he didn't leave. So

1411
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: they put him on the north side and me on

1412
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: the south so we'd work away from each other. But honestly,

1413
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. My friend said she

1414
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: talked to him and feels like she slided, so I

1415
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: guess I offend in. But how am I supposed to

1416
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 1: be around this middle aged white man baby? He wants

1417
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: everyone to listen to him itch or talk about how

1418
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: great he is and kiss his butt, And I have

1419
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: news for him. He's not the first I've met, and

1420
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: I won't kiss his butt or put up with his mouth.

1421
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 1: But he is way better at raising his voice and

1422
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: now I'm not saying curse words, so probably because he's

1423
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: an fing professional at this. I DeKay what to do?

1424
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 1: IDKA how to control my emotions when I get worked up,

1425
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 1: even when I'm on a full doze in or if

1426
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: I flip out in the next little BS meeting they

1427
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 1: have what if I call him a manchild in in

1428
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: cell to his face. I don't want to walk out.

1429
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 1: I would rather be fired, but I do like my job.

1430
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: That's the end of this.

1431
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: Do it, honestly, see what happens. I think you need

1432
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 2: to call him out. It's to the tipping point that

1433
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 2: he's just walking over everyone and he gets to do

1434
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 2: whatever he wants.

1435
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 1: Yep, do it.

1436
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 2: Just call him out and if he starts boohooing or

1437
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 2: starts crying, you like, you know what, I have all

1438
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 2: the facts here, so red receipts are on.

1439
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah pull audio, yeah pull audium. But that's you on

1440
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 1: the street. That's the end of the episode.

1441
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 2: You did so great, buddy.

1442
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 1: Thanks to