WEBVTT - Joe & Serena’s 2025 Wrapped | Happy Hour 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:04.120 Hey, everyone, welcome back to bet your Happy Hour. I'm 0:00:04.200 --> 0:00:05.640 Joe and I'm Serena, and. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:09.280 We are here today with a little New Year's Eve episode. 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:13.560 Just Serena and I chatting it up, talking about this year, 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:17.920 next year, and all the things in between. 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:19.840 Yeah, let's do it. 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:22.160 We're gonna get into twenty twenty five, a little bit 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:24.160 about us and our year and the we're gonna do 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:26.560 a little bit about the podcast in our twenty twenty 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:29.240 five recap and review all. 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:30.040 The things in between. 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.640 Okay, so let's get uh. 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.640 Let's get personal, twenty twenty five personal. I'm gonna I'm 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:39.559 gonna start. You want to go, h question for question here? 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:40.680 No, you just do it? 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:43.200 Okay, Okay, you ready, I'm ready. 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:43.760 Let's do it. 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:46.520 All right, Let's start with this year as a whole. 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:51.199 When you think back on it, what word would you 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:52.760 use to describe it? 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.840 Oh, my god, probably transitional? 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:01.120 Transitional? Yeah, okay. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:06.000 I got my Green card this year. I've done a 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:11.640 lot of transitioning from Toronto to hear it feels like, 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:13.760 despite the fact that I've lived in New York for 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:17.000 four years, it's felt like a big transition year on 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:23.640 a personal level for me. And professionally, I made some 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:27.680 changes this year yeah that have also felt very transitional. 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:29.520 So yeah, I feel like it's a good word. I turned. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:31.600 How old I turned this year twenty eight twenty eight. 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:34.080 People say when you turn twenty seven, you develop like 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:39.000 this sense of clarity of like what is serving you 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:43.200 and what isn't serving you, And I definitely feel like 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:45.399 I felt that when I turned twenty seven. I felt 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:47.560 like I went into twenty twenty five because I've like 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:50.560 a late October birthday being like, Okay, I kind of 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:55.400 have a vision for this year, and actually I feel 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:57.360 like I executed kind of like all the things that 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:00.800 I went into this year wanting to do, and some things, 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:04.360 you know, were surprises or something's got decided like later 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:09.000 in the year. But I think overall everything worked out 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:12.240 very well and will hopefully continue. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:12.720 To work out very well. 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:13.760 Yeah I didn't. 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:17.760 Yeah, I didn't love this year personally. I thought it 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:19.480 was I actually found it to be. 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:21.919 Quite stressful. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:26.680 Yeah, it's actually been more stressful as I would say, Like, 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:30.760 it wasn't like the middle of the year was chill, 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:35.760 like summer was chill, and it was more like since. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.520 Like fall. His hit which usually is like the opposite 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:41.840 for us, but. 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:47.519 I have I've been like very anxiety ridden and very 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:53.840 stressed out. So I'm actually looking forward to midnight. 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:56.600 Yeah, I wouldn't disagree. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.799 I think this has been a big year for both 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:03.760 of us for a lot of different reasons. But transition 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:05.760 comes with a lot of stress, and change comes with 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.079 a lot of stress, and decision making comes with a 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.640 lot of stress, and I think all good things. But 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:16.560 I'm looking forward to a less transitional twenty twenty six 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:22.120 actually and kind of trying to sync into I don't know, 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:24.760 just like sinking into a place where. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:25.840 We feel a little more. 0:03:26.360 --> 0:03:28.320 I actually just don't want to transition next year, I guess, 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:29.960 is what I'm saying. You know, like we did a 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:33.960 lot this year, it feels like and I am just 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:38.320 hoping to reap the benefits of those decisions next year. 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:39.720 Right, that's fair. 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:43.440 Yeah, what's one moment from this year that really stands 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:44.080 out to you? 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:50.400 M I would say, well, getting my green card was huge. 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.440 I mean that was like a two and a half 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:57.000 year journey and that was just like, yeah, a huge, 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:59.280 huge moment in my year that I was working towards 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:05.200 for so long. And our trip to Japan and South Korea, 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.520 I mean really unforgettable. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:08.720 Yeah, that was a big one. 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:10.400 Yeah, and we've been talking about doing that since we 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:15.080 got together. It's been like a dream trip of mine 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:17.000 and I'm just so glad we did it this year. 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:18.080 Yeah, I agree. 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:21.520 I agree with both of those, just like even like 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.000 the montreal of it all of going to get your 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.720 green car then having getting denied at first because it 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:29.120 didn't we didn't have some of the right paperwork, having 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.760 to go back. My brother got married this year. Yeah, 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:36.080 there was that, so probably. 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:38.160 Yeah, your best man's speech, my. 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:38.920 Best man speech. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:44.920 What surprised you most about this year? Either personally or professionally. 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:46.720 Surprised me most. 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:51.080 It really surprised me how painful it would be to 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:55.400 lose a tone from the marathon two months later. 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:59.440 Yeah, Joe a few weeks ago had his big toe 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:03.599 cut off my sorry, his big toe nail. 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:03.960 Oh. 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.279 They had to stick of needle in there numb at 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.880 five times, slice it open. I watched the whole thing 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:09.800 almost passed out. 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:15.520 It was horrible. Really has has made me really consider 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.919 running marathons in the future, like it is. 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:23.280 I mean, it is so hard on your body, not 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:27.000 just your body, like anyone that runs a marathon. Yeah, 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.560 impact on your body is intense, I make no doubt 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:31.040 about it. 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:34.400 It's one thing to deal with, like you know, being 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:38.080 sore and everything for like a week after and all that, 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:41.120 Like that's but like then when we linger on for 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.680 like a couple of months, where like now that I 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:45.760 have like a toenail that's half off, I gotta go 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:48.599 get it removed. And then like the pain of them 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:51.839 like all right, like I love it, like pay no 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:53.360 game whatever. 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:56.000 But like no, no, I'm not I'm. 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.120 Not a professional athlete. I don't need to do it. 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:02.000 So yeah, so stay tuned for him running the marathon 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.760 twenty twenty six because I just feel like I feel 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:05.960 like it's one of those things like you know how 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.799 they say pregnant women give birth and it's like incredibly painful, 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:13.360 but you get this rush of endorphins after you give 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.839 birth that kind of makes you forget how painful it was, 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.000 and because of that, women can do it again and 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:18.719 again and again. 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:19.239 Yeah. 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:22.120 I feel like that happens with the marathon too, Like 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.360 I feel like, for three months after, you're like that 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:28.080 was so hard. My body took such a beating, and 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.600 then all of a sudden, August rolls around and you're like, 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:33.000 why wouldn't I do it again? 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:39.279 I sometimes thinking to think about the act of having 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:42.880 a baby of like the like delivering a child just 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:45.279 like Carrie and not even just delivering it, carrying it 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:49.480 for nine months has to a be so uncomfortable. Yes, 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.880 it just has to be like I would be. That 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:56.840 would be like driving me insane. How uncomfortable that has 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:01.680 to be. And then pushing it out of such a small. 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:05.599 Pushing it out of your body. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:06.360 Pushing it out of you. 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:12.760 It is so like just that, Like if you actually 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.280 sit back and just think about what's happening. 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:21.760 It is so insane. It's like so wild, is it's. 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:25.520 It's yeah, women are just out here making. 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.920 People, making people. It's crazy. 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:31.040 We are really all just you know, animals. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:34.760 Okay, last question that will jump to twenty twenty five podcasts. Okay, 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:39.680 what's something you're more intentional about in your relationships now 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:41.040 than you were a year ago? 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:48.680 Choose wisely something that you're more intentional about in your relationship? Yes, 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:52.520 I think for us, I was actually just thinking about 0:07:52.520 --> 0:08:02.400 this today. Is having a balance between work time together and. 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:03.320 Personal time together. 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:07.800 Yeah, we struggle with that, which is fine because we 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:12.560 both love working. We love working together, but we both 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:15.960 work from home together in our apartment that we live in, 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:19.440 so there's like no boundaries, which most of the time 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:22.760 is fine. But I think that's something that we are 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:26.520 starting to become more intentional about and can get even 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:27.480 better at next year. 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:31.240 Which is Serena's way of telling me to chill out. 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:33.439 Fair, Which is. 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:37.839 Fair because that doesn't have an off switch. He really doesn't, and. 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:39.920 No, I don't, and it keeps me up at night. 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:42.280 Yeah, and it's not good for you either. I'll wake 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:43.440 up in the middle of the night and he'll be 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:51.680 like on his email at two in the morning. Okay, 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.160 but wait, there's another question on here. I'm gonna ask, 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:58.840 and you have to answer too. What are you becoming 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:00.640 more intentional about with your relationships? 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:02.080 With my relationships? 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:03.400 It doesn't even have to be with me. 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:09.760 Yeah, I think it's I think it's more about. 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:13.400 I feel like I do a good job of this. 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:18.600 But I think it's just just spending you know, quality 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:23.200 time with uh, you know, friends, family, and just like 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:30.000 enjoying you know, relationships in person in person. 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:34.120 Yeah, yeah, I think it's just like I know. 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:35.640 I think I want to try to be able to. 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:39.840 Like something that I enjoyed this year that I didn't 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:41.559 get to do too much of, but I do enjoy 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:44.199 like Next year, I'm going to prioritize like being able 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:45.880 to go off a little more with my friends. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.600 I can't even believe you just said that. 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:49.720 I feel like. 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.160 I feel like that is something that's quite important. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:57.079 Yeah, I know you know you feel that way, but. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:01.240 Yeah, I do think that's a good good Okay, wait 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:04.280 one more before no, and I reject everything you just said, 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:07.280 but let one more question that we'll go into podcasts. 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:10.480 Is there a habit or mindset you're leaving behind in 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:11.400 this past year? 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:12.640 Okay, So. 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:17.600 I in the end of this year have been really 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:21.280 working on my relationship with my phone. I got a 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:22.959 hatch alarm clock so that I don't sleep with my 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:26.840 phone beside my bed, and Joe and I have been 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:28.880 puzzling at nighttime so that we have something to do 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:30.160 when we watch TV that's. 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:33.080 Not scroll on Instagram. But I want to continue. 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:34.800 I don't know if I'll be able to leave that 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.920 in twenty twenty five, because I just don't think that's realistic. 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:40.000 But I want to continue working on my relationship with 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:41.880 phone and social media. I actually don't feel like I 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.400 have an unhealthy relationship with social media in terms of. 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:45.800 Like a comparison mindset. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:49.719 I just feel like I genuinely reach for it, like 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:53.640 as a like a thoughtless habit that I don't need to. 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:55.199 Like I'll get in an elevator and I'll try to 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:55.760 open Instagram. 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:57.600 What are you doing? You're going down seven floors? Like 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.840 that's insane. Yeah, so I want to work on that, 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.680 and I want to my other habits. 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:04.719 This is like this is also like hybrid of a 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:06.200 New Year's resolution type thing. 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.760 Yeah, this is the hybrid of a Newyear's resolution, and 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:12.679 my other one I think would be. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:17.800 I don't know. I want to work on, like keeping 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.679 a less cluttered environment. 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.680 I do think we're actually pretty tidy, but I just 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:26.000 think I could I let things pile up and then 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:27.960 I do like a big tidy just trying to be 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:30.080 more discipline of being on top of it is a 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:31.920 habit I want to leave in twenty twenty five. 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:33.520 I love that for you, what about you? 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:36.000 I think that would be great for me as well. 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:41.120 I will say that I need to. 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:49.080 Like the truth is I am very much a. 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:49.559 Free spirit more of. 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:54.560 I'm more of, you know, just like hippiesque like I'm 0:11:54.800 --> 0:12:01.400 very chill person. You are in you aret like no 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:04.520 I am, And sometimes I lose that side of me 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:07.960 because I have I. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:13.360 Have serious psychological issues. 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:22.840 With constantly worrying about things going wrong anxiety. I just 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:27.920 can't like I am instantly like I go through pockets 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.160 of every year. 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:30.760 When I say pockets. 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:41.360 Months just internally and outwardly panicking about things that just 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:44.920 are a out of my control and be like I 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:48.320 do this every year and every year it's fine, and 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:51.320 I keep doing it. So I need to work on 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:56.640 going back to who I truly am, which you know 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.800 is definitely more on the hippie chill. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:03.560 I don't even know where you are not chill or 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:06.240 free spirited, and I can be, but I wouldn't say 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:06.960 you are at your core? 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:09.240 Yeah, and I want to. I need to spend a 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.839 little more. I need to prioritize like. 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:15.120 More nature. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:18.240 I love that. I would love to spend more time 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:18.640 in nature. 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:19.040 I need. 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:22.600 I need more time in nature to get back to 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:24.160 my core of who who? 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:26.320 Who you want to be? 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.560 I not who I want to be? Who I really am. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.920 I just don't know why you think you're a chill. 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.960 Free spirited person like I am so chill. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.120 I would say you're chill with me, and I like. 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:41.240 Relationship in general. 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:44.240 But as a person, you're pretty You got some big 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.680 feelings and that's okay. 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:47.800 I love that about you. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:51.400 Yeah, but it's it's it's it's about how I express 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:52.480 those feelings. 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:54.800 Yes, everyone has processed those feelings. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:56.360 Everyone has big feelings. 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:58.960 Yeah, but you have a lot of big feelings in 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:04.240 one day that are very different from one another. 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:06.280 They fight with feature. 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:10.360 Okay, let's talk a little bit about twenty twenty five 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:15.840 podcasts and okay, so now let's we're gonna review Happy 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:19.560 Hour twenty twenty five. All right, So when you look 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:23.720 back on this year, what's a conversation or guest that 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:25.080 really stood out to you? 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.560 Oh my god, are we doing our twenty twenty five Batchel? 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:28.560 Happy Hour wrapped? 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:30.560 I love a wrap. 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:32.240 Yeah, okay, let's give me one. 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:34.840 Okay, wait, can I tell you something. 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:38.560 My number one Uber eats order on my Uber wrapped 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:42.120 this year was Chipotle, and I really would love for them. 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:43.120 To send me a gold card. 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:45.240 But I was only the top ten percent and I 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:47.440 think if I get into the top like three percent, 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:49.240 maybe they'll do it. 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:51.640 Chipotle. If you're listening, how do you see? 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:52.120 You're wrapped? 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:54.200 You go to uber it was there and it's called 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:54.800 your you Ber. 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:56.280 I mean, I'm on you. 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:57.200 Do you see it? 0:14:57.640 --> 0:14:57.800 No? 0:14:58.440 --> 0:15:00.080 Oh, it might be gone. Now you might have missed it. 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:01.000 I might have missed it. 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:03.880 But this is the Bachelor Happy Hour twenty twenty five 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:06.040 rapped kind of okay, which is so fun? 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:08.400 All right, So is there when you look back on 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:10.560 this year, is there a conversation or guests that really 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.240 stood out? And now when we talk about this year, 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:23.560 we have Grant season of The Bachelor and then No Bachelorette, Yes, 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:30.840 Bachelor in Paradise and Golden Yes, and then obviously like 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.480 the in Betweens people that we know that have come on, 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:36.960 if any of those conversations stood out to you? 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:41.680 So, yeah, what would it would? What would it be? 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:45.720 I'm gonna have to go with our interview with Jeremy. 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:48.000 We got to do that in person at that I 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:51.280 Hurt studio in New York, which was really nice for 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:52.640 us because we don't get to do a lot of 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:55.280 interviews in person, and. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.000 I mean, I hate to say it was fun for 0:15:58.080 --> 0:15:58.600 us because he. 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:01.120 Was like really going through it and there was a 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:04.320 lot of opinions about his time on the show and 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:07.360 the way he was acting. But I do love it 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:10.200 when we get the opportunity to give someone who's kind 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.080 of in the heat of like who's going through it, 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:15.560 going through it and like in the fire, to sit 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:18.240 down with them and give them the space to share 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:22.040 their story. 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:22.320 And how they're handling it. 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.400 Yeah, how they're handling it, what they're going through. I 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:24.720 think it. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:29.920 He was you know, he was open to being honest 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:32.600 with us, and we were excited to give him that space, 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:37.320 and we like Jeremy and Yeah, I just thought that 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:40.640 that felt good, being like, oh, like, we're gonna use 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:44.680 this podcast to give this guy his moment, and that 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.480 opportunity doesn't always present itself. 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:51.440 I completely agree. I agree, that's a good that's a 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:57.280 good call. And there is just something about interviewing people 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:03.040 in person that it just makes it like we could 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:07.040 have good conversations over Zoom. 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:11.320 We do, but it just makes it a more I 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:13.959 just feel like the guest. 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:16.880 Is more comfortable totally, because sometimes you can't always pick 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:21.360 up on our energy over you know, this little laptop 0:17:21.400 --> 0:17:25.159 screen and yeah, I think people could come on and 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:29.680 be very like cautious of just us. Yeah, and it 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:34.720 just makes it harder for people to want to open up, 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:40.520 which I totally understand. So there is that connection in person. 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:42.880 Yeah, and yeah, it looks like. 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:52.240 Bailey and Jeremy are still really happy. So happy for them. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:55.280 What's something about hosting the podcast this year that people 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:57.520 might not realize? 0:17:58.560 --> 0:17:59.920 I mean there's so much I feel like we don't 0:17:59.920 --> 0:18:03.520 real dive into the behind the scenes of this podcast 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:05.800 or how it works. I guess something people might not 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:09.439 realize maybe they do, is like we fully set up 0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:11.800 and take down a podcast studio in our living room 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:15.520 every single time we record this. Like we have a 0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:18.760 light on us right now, we have like full blown 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:22.879 mic stands, we have systems attached to a work laptop, 0:18:23.080 --> 0:18:28.119 like we're doing our audio on garage band like we do. 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:30.399 There's like a whole set in here right now to 0:18:30.480 --> 0:18:32.560 record this podcast that we literally set up and take 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:33.720 down every recording. 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:36.240 It's also a very chaotic space right now too, with 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.320 like the Christmas tree and the lights. 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:41.840 And then dry and Yeah, there's a lot. 0:18:41.760 --> 0:18:44.640 Going on off camera in this space. 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:47.720 But we do our best to make it look cute 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:48.520 on zoom. 0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:51.240 And then you obviously always want to prep for anyone 0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:54.320 that you're interviewing, even though like we watch them on 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:58.239 the show. You want to get a little you know, 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:02.160 background into the But sometimes I like to do less 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:05.399 because I like to learn as I go, like on 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:11.440 the Spot, because I'm a very free spirited, curious, very 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:16.280 curious person that when someone says something that I find intriguing, 0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:17.680 I want to know more. 0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:24.160 Yeah, curious George, curious, curious Joe over here, I'd. 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:27.520 Lose it by mid Is there something you've learned as 0:19:27.520 --> 0:19:30.919 a host about listening, asking questions or just showing up 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:36.720 for our conversations? I could go first on that. Okay, Yeah, 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:41.080 I would say from doing this podcast and interviewing people, 0:19:42.320 --> 0:19:46.800 definitely I've learned. Just I don't think I was a 0:19:46.800 --> 0:19:52.199 really judging person ever going into this, but like you know, 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:57.480 always always sitting here being aware that there are two 0:19:57.560 --> 0:20:02.040 sides to every story and even if the person is wrong, 0:20:02.920 --> 0:20:06.040 you know, people make mistakes, and like I think it's 0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:11.920 just going into every conversation not being judgmental because it's 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:15.360 easy to do and you watch something like what Reality 0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:17.800 TV is great at is making you feel a certain 0:20:17.840 --> 0:20:21.040 way about a certain person, and it's like these are 0:20:21.160 --> 0:20:25.800 people and they're going through it, and even if they're 0:20:25.800 --> 0:20:28.800 not aware of the mistake they made, like you know, 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:32.679 let's take it easy. So I think it's just like 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:38.040 giving people as much grace as possible because none of 0:20:38.080 --> 0:20:40.760 us are perfect. And like, sure, it's easy for us 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:46.440 now because we were a successful story on the show 0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:49.480 and everything went really well for us, and we are 0:20:49.520 --> 0:20:51.959 in control of this podcast, so we could kind of, 0:20:52.600 --> 0:20:55.239 you know, we have a little more control. But like 0:20:56.040 --> 0:21:00.720 it's you know, being able to just like understand, like, hey, 0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:02.399 it's just not as easy for some people, and some 0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:04.560 people don't get as lucky as we did, and that's just. 0:21:06.000 --> 0:21:08.240 To just be like mindful of that. 0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:08.760 Yeah. 0:21:08.840 --> 0:21:10.959 I feel like anyone that comes on this podcast, we 0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:16.240