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Speaker 1: What are you working on okay, I will tell you who.

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Speaker 2: Joe Exotic says, all the guys are listening to there's

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Speaker 1: It's a female. She just dropped it. And I gotta

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Speaker 1: tell you what they're listening to, Oprah in jail. What

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Speaker 1: is the I know Kaylin's it's it was putting on

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Speaker 1: leather pants, I think. But what is the the dumbest way,

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Speaker 1: most insane way, most unexplainable way that you've injured yourself?

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Speaker 1: Because I woke up this morning in excruciating pain with

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Speaker 1: it back. My back is messed up again. How could

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Speaker 1: this be? I did nothing. I did nothing like I

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Speaker 1: want to. I want to tell you a story about

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Speaker 1: how I saved a kitten from the river or I, uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, something like like something good like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: An old lady was slipping on the ice and I

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Speaker 1: I risked my life. I jumped, you know, so she

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Speaker 1: fell on top of me. And I mean, I wanted

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Speaker 1: to be this amazing story, but I don't have one.

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Speaker 1: I simply woke up feeling this way, really like I

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Speaker 1: can barely walk, Like how does this happen? Aside from

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Speaker 1: getting well? I know, sorry, I don't want to say it.

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Speaker 1: We did. You had no problem saying it. You didn't

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Speaker 3: I'm not the same person I was five years ago.

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Speaker 1: Ten, I am really falling apart. That was really hard

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Speaker 1: for her to say. If you couldn't tell it just

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Speaker 1: flew right out. It was hard. You said you Oh,

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Speaker 1: that's what she said. No, you sound great. Oh, here

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Speaker 1: She just called me old him two minutes. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's that is the answer. But like, I didn't need

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Speaker 1: to hear it. I didn't need you to tell me

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Speaker 1: that you are great. But I'm not great though, which

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Speaker 1: is the problem. I'm not great like any any slight movement,

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Speaker 1: and I just feel like I'm going to break in half,

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Speaker 1: and not in a good way, not in the kind

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Speaker 1: of way that you hope for. In the weekend, Jason,

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Speaker 5: Oh I fell off of I tried jumping off of

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Speaker 5: bottom of the lake and hurt my knees.

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Speaker 1: All right, and now we're having surgery. Yeah, if insurance

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I know this that was another knee. The

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Speaker 1: That's kind of what I was looking for. So you

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Speaker 5: Turm my little moniscus. They're like, oh, were you like

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Speaker 1: I was walking. Well, what's wrong with the other knee? Nothing.

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Speaker 6: When did this this pain started last night or did

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Speaker 1: Because you were lit a Friday. I was lit because

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Speaker 6: When I left, you were on top of the bar

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Speaker 1: They got us drunk. Okay, it's fine, Yeah, yeah, everyone

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Speaker 1: Offare Uncentered Podcast. Oh, don't you worry. I gotta go

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Speaker 1: And I'm very grateful that that many people lined up.

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Speaker 1: Like that everyone owned the place left. It was the janitors.

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Speaker 1: We didn't go home. We went to another bar. Yeah

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Speaker 1: and those were my people, right, they wanted to hang out.

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Speaker 1: You're right, You're right. And and you know, there's always

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Speaker 1: And I'll say that that being said, that has nothing

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Speaker 1: don't know. I got aj saying, rotate your mattress, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I have no explanation. Someone said you slept wrong. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I know had I know. I will gash you up anytime,

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Speaker 1: That's like my mom. Like when I want to spend

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Speaker 1: But see if I told you when I like I

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Speaker 6: Never think about wasting my time, Never worry about that.

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Speaker 6: You don't ever have to worry about that because I

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Speaker 1: The best way has off rail right the other way.

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Speaker 1: I kidding, I want to be here. I said, you

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Speaker 1: were lit on? Yes, yeah I was. I was just

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Speaker 1: standing there. Why are you acting? You're acting like I

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Speaker 1: put on a full on strip tease, which I saw, Well,

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Speaker 1: did you enjoy it? I did, me and Lieutenant Steve

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Speaker 6: Kept saying, hey, freeing because I couldn't. I didn't realize

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Speaker 6: have a good time, you need to lay. It was

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Speaker 6: not I mean for your back to get messed up, you.

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Speaker 1: it's getting old. Sucks. I'm reading through all these texts

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Speaker 1: of people. Yes, you were turned, Yes you're the picture

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Speaker 1: you have to burn down your own city when you win.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows that. Yeah, you have to cause mass havoc

427
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Speaker 1: where you live, right exactly, Yeah, cause problems where you

428
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Speaker 1: live for yourself, for your own car, Let your own

429
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Speaker 1: car and firest do that, or you could also do

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Speaker 1: something nice like this. It's a National Sunday Day, and

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Speaker 1: it's Veterans Day today. Shout out to all the veterans.

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Speaker 3: Caitlin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show, Simmy Sweeney

433
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 3: is saying she doesn't really care that her movie flapped

434
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Speaker 3: at the box office over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Christy, that movie based on real life boxer Christy Martin,

436
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Speaker 2: opened in more than two thousand theaters but pulled in

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Speaker 2: just one point three million, one of the weakest wide

438
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Speaker 2: release debuts on record. After headlines were calling it a bomb,

439
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Speaker 2: she fired back on Instagram, saying that she was deeply

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Speaker 2: proud of this movie, adding we don't always make art

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Speaker 2: for numbers.

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Speaker 1: We make it for impact. Management. Every week, No, you guys,

443
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Speaker 1: look at those ratings, but it's not about that. It's great.

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Speaker 1: It's about impact, right, you're looking at it wrong the art. No, well,

445
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Speaker 1: I've been telling them every week now for a while.

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Speaker 2: She said that Christy was meant to honor a survivor's

447
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Speaker 2: story of courage and resilience, not chase ticket sales.

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Speaker 1: So she doesn't give up. Hell, but like, what is

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Speaker 1: she supposed to say?

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Speaker 2: Okay, by now you may have heard that miss Kim Kardashian,

451
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Speaker 2: it did not pass the bar exam.

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Speaker 1: What's even more is she's.

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Speaker 2: Super mad because four separate psychics assured her that she

454
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Speaker 2: would pass the test, and now she's coming for them.

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Speaker 1: Listen to this.

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Speaker 8: I'm just letting you guys know that all of the

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Speaker 8: psychics that we have met with and that we're obsessed

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Speaker 8: with are all full of shit. They all collectively, maybe

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Speaker 8: four of them, have told me I was going to

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Speaker 8: pass the bar. So they're all full pathological liars don't

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Speaker 8: believe anything they say.

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Speaker 1: I know people that very upset. That's the same here. Otherwise,

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Speaker 1: I have gone to law school that it takes three

464
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Speaker 1: or four times to pass the bar. Yeah, So the

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Speaker 1: fact that she didn't go to law school and did

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Speaker 1: this whole thing herself, you know, which is legal in California, somehow,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would have been surprised if she had been.

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Speaker 1: It would have been remarkable if she'd passed the bar

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Speaker 1: the first time hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: And it's one of the hardest bars to pass because

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Speaker 2: everybody wants to practice there, so she has more chances.

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Speaker 2: But it just made me laugh that she's taking all

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Speaker 2: her anger out on these psychics.

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Speaker 1: Very funny.

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Speaker 2: Teddy Swims is the new sexy guy in a campaign

476
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Speaker 2: for booking dot com called This Guy Books, where he

477
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Speaker 2: leans into the idea that booking a trip for someone romance,

478
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Speaker 2: spontaneity is more attractive than just good looks or a

479
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Speaker 2: big paycheck. The campaign backs us up with actual data,

480
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Speaker 2: saying fifty six percent of women say that their partner

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Speaker 2: booking a trip is a rousing or as a rousing

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Speaker 2: or more than for play. Ninety three percent say taking

483
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Speaker 2: the lead on travel plans beats a good physique or salary.

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Speaker 1: I would have to agree.

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Speaker 2: The commercial shows Teddy in a robe channeling ron Burgundy,

486
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Speaker 2: like a similar vibe, and he's like, I'm gonna do

487
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Speaker 2: the sexiest thing a man can do, taking the reins

488
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Speaker 2: and booking a trip for your significant other. As part

489
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Speaker 2: of this promo, five couples will win a getaway to

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Speaker 2: Chicago in December. Meet Teddy enjoy ten thousand dollars in

491
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Speaker 2: travel credit, dining VIP events. This offer opens on the

492
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Speaker 2: twenty fifth of this month for just one dollar and

493
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Speaker 2: forty three cents. So that's pretty cool and said He

494
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Speaker 2: says this campaign is his favorite that he's done to date,

495
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Speaker 2: because you know, it's fun. It was fun, and people

496
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Speaker 2: are gonna win a trip and have some romance. And lastly,

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Speaker 2: Hillary Duff dropped a new single called Mature and if

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Speaker 2: you have not listened to it, she has certainly all

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Speaker 2: grown up, very mature, So give that a listen if

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Speaker 2: you have not yet. But I just wanted to point

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Speaker 2: out that Joe Exotic aka the Tiger King, who is

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Speaker 2: currently locked up for a murder for higher plot against

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Speaker 2: you know, Carol Baskin. He wrote in the comments of

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Speaker 2: Hillary's Instagram and I quote all the guys in here

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Speaker 2: are listening to it, which Hillary's husband responded, thanks, uncle Joe.

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Speaker 2: So I just want to let you guys know that

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Speaker 2: wherever Joe is locked up, all the guys are listening

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Speaker 2: to the new Hillary Duff single.

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Speaker 1: And that is hysterical to me. Sure, yes, should we

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Speaker 1: listen to some of its? Okay, but I know, okay,

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Speaker 1: you obviously like it. I've heard parts of it. I've

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Speaker 1: seen the lyrics. I have not heard it, so I'm

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Speaker 1: interested to hear what it sounds like. It's taking the listen.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna listen to the whole thing, so don't

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Speaker 1: be mad at me when I stop.

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Speaker 4: She's me of hers first one just a few years

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Speaker 4: Young news.

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Speaker 1: Really ask you just gonna be Hillary? Is is? It

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Speaker 1: just doesn't sound like her. She so is pressed by

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Speaker 1: a buzzy. She thinks you're deep andnoys your.

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Speaker 4: Busy.

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Speaker 1: She's a sweet she sinks basically a kind of slap

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Speaker 1: she had is your sent she slap that's slaps? Yes, good,

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Speaker 1: I played the whole thing in a minute. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I haven't decided yet. You had me all worry you like,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I don't know. I haven't heard the

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Speaker 1: whole thing yet, but it says that it's Hillary. Child

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Speaker 1: was saying, I don't know that voice, like I know Hillary,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know who that was. But that was

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Speaker 1: because I was like, oh, so they're tricking me. Literally

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Speaker 1: put that there. Nothing would surprise me more if we

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Speaker 1: had the wrong song in there, And I'm that's so good.

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Speaker 1: So a thirty four year old woman is demanding compensation

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Speaker 1: from her ex boyfriend who's thirty eight, for what she

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Speaker 1: says is stealing or I guess did steal. He did

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Speaker 1: steal her child bearing years. This is from Fox and

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Speaker 1: Fox News. Do don't worry. I think this is it.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to stop listening for him. Not that

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Speaker 1: I would have anything to do with anything, but it's like,

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Speaker 1: as soon as I say Fox, I think people are like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, Fox Local.

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Speaker 9: Every four year old woman is demanding her ex boyfriend

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Speaker 9: pay compensation, claiming he stole her child bearing years after

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Speaker 9: nearly a decade together. She says her thirty eight year

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Speaker 9: old X into things just as she was ready to

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Speaker 9: start a family. She said she put her career and

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Speaker 9: her goals on hold believing they'd have kids and now

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Speaker 9: wants them to cover fertility treatments like egg freezing or IVF.

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Speaker 9: The story from a New York Post has gone viral,

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Speaker 9: sparking a debate. Some call it justified, others say it's

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Speaker 9: absurd to blame an ex Legal experts say her case

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Speaker 9: wouldn't hold up in court, but it is raising some

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Speaker 9: questions about love timing and who really pays the price

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Speaker 9: when relationships in So what do you think?

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Speaker 1: Does she have a point? Okay, so this is my

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Speaker 1: question because this is kind of my demographic, Like I'm

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Speaker 1: in my I guess mid forties.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 1: I love how they and I say this every time,

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Speaker 1: but was supplying makeup. I'm sorry, distract to make I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I just didn't want to get away. Should

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Speaker 1: I look over and there's this mascara and I was, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: this is very very distracting to me. Is that not

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Speaker 1: mess scara? No, but I'll put it. What is it?

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Speaker 1: It's eyebrow?

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Speaker 4: Joe?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, pass it over here. I got none.

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Speaker 1: I guess me too. Then I guess I feel now

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Speaker 1: I feel left out. I need some eyebrow over because

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Speaker 1: I can't move my arms, so get you somewhere you help.

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Speaker 1: Every time I say that, management's like, you know, you

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Speaker 1: shouldn't say how old you are, Like, well, I've been

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Speaker 1: here for sixteen years, so like, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: feel like people can do the math. I wasn't. I

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Speaker 1: wasn't twelve when I got here, but whatever, So, you know,

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Speaker 1: mid thirties is sort of it seems to be that

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Speaker 1: the appropriate age. I think for me. Maybe people would say,

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Speaker 1: and I think that when I meet people who are

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Speaker 1: in their mid thirties, if they want to have kids,

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Speaker 1: they're very understandably, I wouldn't say, well in very states

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Speaker 1: of eagerness, I'll put it, but I understand why. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's like people kind of want to know, hey, where's

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Speaker 1: this going pretty quickly if they want to have kids

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Speaker 1: and don't have any. And it used to kind of

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Speaker 1: annoy me, but then I really set back and was like, well, no,

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Speaker 1: I understand, like you, there's only so much time. And yes,

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Speaker 1: you can freeze your eggs, there's other things, but like

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Speaker 1: just generally speaking, and yes, people are going to text me, oh,

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Speaker 1: well you can have a kid when you're fifty. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I know. And people are gonna text me, well this

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Speaker 1: and that. I'm not talking about the exceptions. I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying generally speaking, you know, early mid thirties or before

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Speaker 1: people like to have kids, I guess. And so if

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Speaker 1: you're not sure, then that could be a problem, because

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Speaker 1: what if you date somebody for two or three years,

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Speaker 1: four or five years even, and maybe you didn't freeze

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Speaker 1: your eggs, then you get to a certain point where

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Speaker 1: you're at an age where it would be more difficult

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Speaker 1: to have kids safely. And then I mean, whose fault

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Speaker 1: is that. I don't think you can't blame it on

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Speaker 1: in this case, the guy. But I also think that

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Speaker 1: a guy should be thoughtful about the fact that if

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Speaker 1: that's something that you were absolutely wanting to do, and

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Speaker 1: and and the dude if he knows in his mind

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Speaker 1: he absolutely doesn't want to do it, and he's not

606
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Speaker 1: telling you that because he doesn't want you to go anywhere.

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Speaker 1: That's wildly selfish. Now, should I have to pay for

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Speaker 1: your fertility?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: But like, let's say that this person brought up over

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Speaker 1: the course of that relationship, I want I want to

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Speaker 1: have I I want to freeze my eggs and he's like, Noah, no,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to do that. Well, that's messed up too,

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Speaker 1: because like that might be the only way, that might

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Speaker 1: be one of the only ways that you could have

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Speaker 1: a natural child, and and maybe oh yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: want the expense or I don't want to deal with

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Speaker 1: the you know, the process, because I know even though

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Speaker 1: it's the woman who who endures most of that process.

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Speaker 1: I mean, a guy can help. But it's like as

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Speaker 1: far as all the different things that come with that,

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Speaker 1: there's a dude, a dude who says, don't don't freeze

623
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Speaker 1: your eggs because you don't want to deal with it

624
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Speaker 1: as the ultimate level of selfishness in my opinion. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, does a guy. Does a man hold any

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Speaker 1: level of responsibility eight five, five, five, nine one one

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Speaker 1: three five If he's dating a woman who wants to

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Speaker 1: have kids in a certain demographic and it's not extremely

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Speaker 1: vocal or extremely communicative about his intentions, does the guy

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Speaker 1: hold any responsibility perhaps not financially, but morally or ethically.

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Speaker 1: You're saying no.

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Speaker 3: I almost want to say yes, only because a man

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Speaker 3: will waste your time if you let him, and I'm

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Speaker 3: big on that, and I know, yeah, no, that's very true.

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Speaker 1: It's very true.

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Speaker 3: But if you're a woman and you know you want

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Speaker 3: kids or you know you want this, I do think,

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Speaker 3: like in your heart, like you have to decide if

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Speaker 3: this is something that you're gonna pursue or how long

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Speaker 3: you're gonna stay in this. You don't have to like

641
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 3: tell the world like you have tail years, but you

642
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: can't say, like, I do want children, and like if

643
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 3: that's not something you want or like we can do

644
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 3: it by a certain time, then like then this might

645
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: not be for me, this relationship, just because I don't know.

646
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: I just feel like already, like I'm a mom where I'm.

647
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 3: Thirty three, I'm a mom of a one and a

648
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 3: half year old, and I personally like don't want children later.

649
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: I only want one. But I also don't want kids

650
00:31:58,360 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: later in life because this is so harder.

651
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,959
Speaker 3: I feel like a tea mom some days and other

652
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 3: days I feel like a nan on because it's just

653
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 3: like it's the hardest, most exhausting thing ever. So for me,

654
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 3: if hobby was like over here, like well, I don't know,

655
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 3: like I'm not gonna let a man anybody waste my time.

656
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, for me, it's more nuanced than just like a

657
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 2: blanket yes or no. However, if I do think of

658
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 2: a dude as like constantly telling you that's what he

659
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 2: wants and that's what the plan is, then yes, the

660
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 2: same way that he would want me to respect.

661
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: Him in that relationship, I would demand or.

662
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: I ask for, at least that respect in return of

663
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 2: the second you know you don't want to do this

664
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: with me, you know you have to be transparent about it.

665
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: Now.

666
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: If a guy is never sure if he wants kids,

667
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 2: then it's on the woman. You're entering that at your

668
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: own risk.

669
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I agree with that. Interrupt her.

670
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: I don't mean to say to you. I hate the

671
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: counter argument. You know guys do this well, so do girls.

672
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: I hate that argument, but it is true. I mean,

673
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: I've been in different types of situations where women are

674
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: biding time dealing with things, but they don't want me

675
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: to go anywhere. So it's like, yes, this happens. So

676
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: people do waste each other's time that, and they do

677
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: it in dating, and they do it on the dating apps,

678
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: and they do it in all forms relationships marriage otherwise.

679
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: So you know, but in this particular case, if a

680
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: dude knows that he doesn't want to have kids, or

681
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: in this case, apparently he said to her. This guy

682
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: to his girlfriend, He tells me he feels at thirty

683
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: eight as though he still has a decade of enjoying

684
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: his lifestyle and powering through with his career and is

685
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: not ready for marriage and children. But he knows that

686
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: it's become a priority for me. So he's off. So

687
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: he broke up with her as a result of it.

688
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: I guess, and now now you know she wants I guess,

689
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: compensation or something for this, which I have to be honest,

690
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: Based on that quote, it doesn't sound like he misled her.

691
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: It just sounds it sounds like she always knew that

692
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: and hoped that he would change his mind and hedged

693
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: her bets, and now she had a position where it's

694
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: going to be a little bit more challenging and she's

695
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: mad about it. That's kind of what it sounds like.

696
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I think if a dude is like, yep,

697
00:33:58,560 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: I want to do it. I want kids, I want

698
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: I want kids. I want kids, and then you know,

699
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: four or five years later, now I don't want kids.

700
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: That's his right, but I think you would have every

701
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: right to be really upset about it. Now do you

702
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: get financial damages for that? I don't know. I wish

703
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: you should, right like you should.

704
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 6: I feel like a lot of women waste their time

705
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 6: in relationships and men may not understand how important it

706
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 6: is that time window, Like you have your your child

707
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 6: bearing years and you waste them with a guy who

708
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 6: was just leading you on. But it doesn't seem like

709
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 6: this guy was leading her on. It seems like he

710
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 6: was clear about what he does want and what he

711
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 6: doesn't want. And you can't stick around hoping somebody's going

712
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 6: to change their mind.

713
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: That's on you. Well, then you can say, well, guys,

714
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: had you know you can. You can be Mick Jagger.

715
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: You can have kids until you're eighty years old. You can.

716
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: But I suppose the same And here I go flip

717
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: in the argument again, which I really don't like that

718
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: as an argument tactic. But I mean, I could date

719
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: someone for five years and then wind up being five

720
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 1: years older. Then I wanted to be having kids, and

721
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: then it turns out we don't have kids and break

722
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: up and now I have to start over, which means

723
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 1: a couple more years maybe to meet someone else, and

724
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 1: then get to the point where so now I'm five, six, seven, eight,

725
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: ten years older than I wanted to be having kids.

726
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: Now I'm a really old dad. I mean, so I

727
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 1: it's not physiologically impossible for a man, but I still

728
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: run the risk of it not lining up with how

729
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: I wanted my life to be. And I can't sue

730
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: for that, you know what I mean? I mean on

731
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: each other? Yeah, let's just meet both stop pays in

732
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: each other time. I so, fe Eric, what's up? Eric?

733
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 7: Hey?

734
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:29,399
Speaker 1: Are we doing?

735
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 7: Hey?

736
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 3: Man?

737
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: So what do if a woman dates a guy in

738
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: her mid thirties wants to have kids and after years,

739
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: you know, he decides, you know what, I don't want kids,

740
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: and uh, even if he said he wanted kids previously

741
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 1: and then they break up, I mean, does he have

742
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: any kind of moral or ethical or financial obligation? I mean,

743
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 1: I know this is kind of a ridiculous question, but

744
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: on the financial front, but like, I mean, is he

745
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: responsible in some ways for the position that she finds

746
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: herself in late thirties and no kids.

747
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 7: No?

748
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 4: I don't think he owed her anything financially, but you

749
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 4: definitely morally, if someone wants kids and you don't, you

750
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 4: definitely should let them know up front. If it's a

751
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 4: situation where the two just split and she feels that

752
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 4: she wasted her time, then it's her choice to stay

753
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 4: in that relationship. She definitely could have frozen her eggs.

754
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 4: I think a woman has the right to do that

755
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 4: without asking a guy. So she still had played a

756
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 4: part in it as well.

757
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting. I guess she very easily could have

758
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: just gone ahead with that. And yeah, she didn't need

759
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 1: him to say one way or the other weather she

760
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: should or shouldn't do it, unless she was expecting him

761
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: to pay for it for some reason. But yeah, I

762
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: mean I've dated people who are in the process of

763
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: freezing their eggs, who who did before did right after.

764
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: We I mean, that's something you don't need me for that,

765
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: You don't need my certainly don't need my permission for that.

766
00:36:55,600 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 4: Either, exactly exactly, so, so he definitely should just go

767
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 4: ahead and do that if you want to. But at

768
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 4: the same time, though, I don't think he owes her

769
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 4: anything financially. But definitely, guys don't hold up women.

770
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you know, if you want to have kids,

771
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: just go for it and do it, all right, Eric,

772
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. Thank you. Guys, lovely

773
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: to I've walked from a lot of early situations that

774
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: I never saw developed because it seemed that the she

775
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: wanted kids so badly, and I was unsure that I

776
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 1: thought it was unfair, and so it's possible I could

777
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: have changed my mind. But again, you know, I'm respectful

778
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: of the fact and aware of the fact that it

779
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: only would become more difficult depending on your age. So

780
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 1: like I'm holding you up in some ways. Yeah, and

781
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 1: that's not fair to her, No, But is it worth

782
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: ending a relationship that could have been I mean, it

783
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: was I a little maybe over sensitive to it on

784
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: your behalf, or was I a little reactive to it

785
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: in some strength? And I'm not saying I'm a hero

786
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 1: by any means, but I just mean, you know, did

787
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: I wind up? Did we wind up not pursuing something

788
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: that could have been great? And it could have led

789
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: to that because I was concerned with with you not

790
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: meeting your needs and being resentful to me for it. Hey, Jessica, Yes, Hi,

791
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: good morning. Final, say what do you want to say?

792
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 7: I definitely think that there's some sort of case for

793
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 7: holding them financially responsible. This happened to my sister. She

794
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 7: was with a guy for eleven years, from twenty four

795
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 7: to thirty six, and he just up and left her.

796
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 7: But the whole time they had talked about it, like

797
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 7: she wanted multiple kids. He wasn't really into multiple kids.

798
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 7: But yeah, we'll have at least one kid. Yeah, let's

799
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 7: have kids. She's like, well, she had some health issues.

800
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 7: Maybe I should freeze my eggs, do like that sort

801
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 7: of thing. No, No, well you know we're gonna we'll

802
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,839
Speaker 7: get into that. We'll get into that over and over

803
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 7: and over again for years, and then just up and

804
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 7: left her. And here she is now, like thirty seven

805
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 7: years old, trying to start over again. She still wants kids,

806
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 7: but now you have to start over, you have to

807
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 7: find a partner that you trust and like and all

808
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 7: of these things. And now, because of the sulf that

809
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 7: she was, is she going to be able to have

810
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 7: kids in what is now after thirty five considered a

811
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 7: geriatric pregnancy. So it is really a hard situation.

812
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: But it is hard.

813
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 7: Jess definitely need to take that into consideration because.

814
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: Mary, he genuinely was on the fence and didn't want to.

815
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: I mean, and I'm not defending him, I don't know him,

816
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: but maybe he was genuinely on the fence, didn't want

817
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 1: to lose her, and then you find yourself at a

818
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: point of no return, where it's now you look like

819
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: a jacka, but like you genuinely. Maybe he really didn't know,

820
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 1: or maybe he hoped that he would come around to

821
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: the idea. I think we all take risks in dating

822
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: and in relationships and on the dating apps and everything else,

823
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: and I think, you know, unfortunately this is a place

824
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: that you can find yourself. But I think that the

825
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: key is, you know, and I'm not saying your sister

826
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: did anything wrong, but maybe she should have just proceeded

827
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: with some of these backup plans on her own and

828
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 1: did not and not wait for him to just what

829
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 1: she should or shouldn't do, or you know. It's almost

830
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: like creating a backup plan ahead of time by freezing

831
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: your eggs, right.

832
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 7: But some people, I think miscontrue that backup plan as

833
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 7: like disloyalty or you know, or not having faith in

834
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 7: that relationship. And I think that's probably which.

835
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: Is not right at all.

836
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 7: But that's probably what he would have thought, and why

837
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 7: he pressured her not all so much to not do

838
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 7: those things, because then he thought, well, then why are

839
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 7: you making a backup plan for not being with me?

840
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: It's complicated, Jessica, thank you, have a good day.

841
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 7: Yep, you Cuba.

842
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 1: Multiple what so that you wind up having a kid

843
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: going on Maury, You don't know whose kidd it is.

844
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 6: You know who kidd it is, the one who wanted

845
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 6: to have one, but you probably do. You want to

846
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,240
Speaker 6: give it to somebody.

847
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: You know what I was about to say here, we

848
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: are not solving the world's problems, and then Kiki says,

849
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: so we're definitely not solving away more Fredshell next right here,