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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole to inform my husband that

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Speaker 1: I will divorce him if he continues to defend my brother.

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Speaker 1: Here we are asking the question our breakups and divorce

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Speaker 1: always expected. So would you break up with your what topic? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if your significant other and your brother were on that,

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Speaker 1: you would definitely be like, I can't do this. What

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Speaker 1: topic would you break up over? Let's say Sam's onto

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Speaker 1: something He's like you never swam in your life, and

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Speaker 1: then your significant other at the time agrees with you.

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Speaker 1: Would you still be with him?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Damn?

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Speaker 2: If Sam was like, actually, I think Sam's no longer

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Speaker 2: on the Elon mustrail. But if he was on the

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Speaker 2: Elon mustrel and my pardon was like Elon muss.

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Speaker 1: I'd be late.

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Speaker 2: We're done.

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Speaker 1: I could see that. I could see that. My husband

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Speaker 1: and I twenty nine, have been together since high school

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Speaker 1: and we were introduced by my brother. We have a

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Speaker 1: beautiful four year old daughter who adores Emma, my brother's

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Speaker 1: ex wife. My brother and Emma have been together for

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Speaker 1: around four years. She's an incredible delight to be with,

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Speaker 1: bringing out the best in him. Our entire family cherished

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Speaker 1: her at times. I feel like my parents loved her

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Speaker 1: more than us, and the same was true for my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Emma was a fairy princess to her, and every time

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Speaker 1: we went to take her up take her up, she

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Speaker 1: back tomorrow because she wanted us be with Aunt Emma.

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Speaker 1: That is so sweet. Well, anyway, Emma was twenty six

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Speaker 1: weeks pregnant, six months. Thank you, very nice of you,

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Speaker 1: and we were all looking forward to it. My brother

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Speaker 1: and her had always wanted a baby and seemed overdoyed

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Speaker 1: whenever we visited them. She would have been an amazing mother.

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Speaker 1: Why did we are? That's so sad? Oh, my I

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Speaker 1: knew something was happening. I knew they they said this

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Speaker 1: in such a way where everything was it was a jinga,

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Speaker 2: And then it crumbled.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to keep reading this ugh. Emma

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Speaker 1: had been feeling bad and her stomach hurt, so she

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Speaker 1: requested my brother to drive her to the hospital, where

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Speaker 1: the doctor said everything was all right and sent her home.

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Speaker 1: She kept saying that she didn't feel right, but my

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Speaker 1: brother dismissed it as an overreaction. The next day, my brother,

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Speaker 1: husband and their friends went for a fishing trip. Emma

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Speaker 1: urged my brother not to go, since she didn't feel

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Speaker 1: right and needed someone to be with her. My amazing

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Speaker 1: brother became mad, telling her to quit overreacting that everything

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Speaker 1: isn't about her and that he needed some time alone. Well,

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Speaker 1: he turned off his phone and proceeded on the trip.

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Speaker 2: Emma caldey cause, if anyone ever says they don't feel

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Speaker 2: good like they're you know, said I really don't feel good,

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Speaker 2: take them seriously.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your kid in there, dude, come on actually

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Speaker 1: with a baby. Emma called me crying and asked if

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Speaker 1: time I arrived, she was half conscious on a bloody floor.

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Speaker 1: Rushed her to the hospital. The hospital told H told

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Speaker 1: they required her husband's signature to carry out the operation.

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Speaker 1: There was a lot of bickering, although they saved her life.

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Speaker 3: H Boston.

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Speaker 2: Why would they need her husband signature?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because they both made it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: For life, for a life, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't do hospitals hikes. She woke up screaming and weeping,

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Speaker 1: asking where her child and husband were. It was horrible.

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Speaker 1: Both of my parents and her parents were in tears

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Speaker 1: when they saw her. I kept calling the guys, none

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Speaker 1: even more unsettling. It was as if she had given up,

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Speaker 1: with no soul left in her eyes. My brother returned

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Speaker 1: the next day to an empty, bloody apartment right in

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Speaker 1: the hospital and apologizes to Emma while crying. She looked

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Speaker 1: My husband went to meet him, and when he returned,

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Speaker 1: he told me about the above and asked that I

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Speaker 1: I refused, Ye had, dude, I mean even something.

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Speaker 3: Hikes aw?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we got a little bit more. He got angry

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Speaker 1: if she was truly ill, she would have gone to

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Speaker 1: kept defending my brother, stating that it wasn't his fault,

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Speaker 1: and so on. I could have taken any looner, but

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Speaker 1: I told him that if he kept defending, I would

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Speaker 1: to force him. I took my daughter and left from

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Speaker 1: my parents home in two days, and neither of us

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Speaker 1: has tried talking. I'm not sure if I behaved like

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Speaker 1: I believe I should at least console my brother. I

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Speaker 1: suppose I wanted options.

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Speaker 2: Oh sorry, this is a really sad story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, what the heck?

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Speaker 2: I didn't have a lot of time.

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Speaker 1: I don't like you know, I I would like something funny,

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Speaker 1: with a little bit of a dick joke.

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Speaker 3: I can't give dick jokes with this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just sad.

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Speaker 1: But anyways, I can put my series face on. I can.

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Speaker 1: I can work through this. So, yeah, this is tough.

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Speaker 1: This is super sad. Uh. So we already know that

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Speaker 1: one situation is horrible. This situation. The guy's not budging.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think the guys listening. She did go

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Speaker 1: to the hospital and she tried, and the doctors were like, no,

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Speaker 1: it's fine, it's all good, and it wasn't, and well

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Speaker 2: All like, when you are a pregnant wife who says

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Speaker 2: there's something wrong, you should drop everything. You don't get

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Speaker 2: to have a lone time. You don't get to have

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Speaker 1: Pregnant wife needs your dog? Yeah, alone time, pregnant wife's needs.

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Speaker 1: Why don't even get married?

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Speaker 2: Come on, can be alone all the time now, But

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Speaker 2: she should divorce you.

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Speaker 1: You got what you've wanted.

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Speaker 3: Nikes.

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Speaker 1: Edit, we're gonna figure out. There's more contact here. Prior

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Speaker 1: to performing any life threatening surgery, the hospital requires the

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Speaker 1: by the patient or their family. Because Emma was not

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Speaker 1: conscious enough, they required her husband's Signature's that's whine.

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Speaker 2: That's a ridiculous thing because he wasn't there. What are

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Speaker 1: I was alone and confused, and it was just a lot.

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Speaker 1: The hospital agreed after much discussion, but it really caused

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Speaker 1: a lot of unnecessary delay.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Info.

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Speaker 1: It was a one night trip. They traveled to a

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Speaker 1: did not think that there would be no network. Relevant

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Speaker 1: comments what the husband said, Emma is gross. Am I

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Speaker 1: understanding correctly that during all this, op tried repeatedly to

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Speaker 1: and he didn't answer her either. That would be a

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Speaker 1: problem for me as well. He was just ignoring his wife.

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Speaker 1: Kind the ad says. This stuck out to me so much.

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Speaker 1: Opie has a four year old and her husband couldn't

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Speaker 1: An emergency happen and none of them answer their phones,

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Speaker 1: Little Bird says, A sad reality is they all were

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Speaker 1: probably sitting around talking crap about their wives while they

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Speaker 1: watched the calls come in and ignore them. And that's

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Speaker 1: why he's defending him so fiercely. Kill manifests as anger

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Speaker 1: options and our breakups and divorce always expected, this case

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Speaker 3: Ooh, that's so sad.

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Speaker 2: This is really sad. But definitely these two guys are

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Speaker 1: Get them out of here. That is so sad, like

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Speaker 1: she just keeps talking about how the dog needs go

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Speaker 1: and it's just been my last thing. Or the green

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Speaker 1: come on, love your wives literally.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I think that you should never be Yeah,

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Speaker 2: when you get to the point where you're like bad talking,

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Speaker 2: you're what's the word bad mouthing bad gossiping, Yeah, gossiping

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Speaker 2: or bad mouthing about your partner to other people beyond

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Speaker 2: just saying like, hey I need advice, this happened, And

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Speaker 1: What's the percentage of sometimes you need to let some

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Speaker 2: No, I agree, I think I like, I think that

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Speaker 2: there are times when it's really helpful to talk to

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Speaker 2: your what's the percentage though I don't think it's a

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Speaker 1: Talk about my girlfriend, what percentage can I bad mouth

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Speaker 2: Personally, I think there's a difference between bad mouthing and

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Speaker 2: even venting. Actually, I think that I think that you, like,

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Speaker 2: for example, if you came to your friend and you

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Speaker 2: not sure how to address this? What like I'm asking

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Speaker 2: they did? Blah blah blah. I don't think that's necessarily

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But if you.

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Speaker 2: Are constantly going like, oh my partner did this, Oh,

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Speaker 2: you're constantly telling all of your friends.

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Speaker 3: To that that it's see.

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Speaker 1: But I agree with you on that, Sophia is getting

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Speaker 1: us another story. How's some tacos?

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Speaker 2: They were really good?

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Speaker 3: Good?

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Speaker 2: I have these call at Flower tacos. They were very good.

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Speaker 3: Let's go oh both over tacos.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for breaking up with my

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Speaker 2: partner after he cheated on me? And lied. I don't

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Speaker 2: think so so far. Season six niney five says, and

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Speaker 2: here it goes. My ex partner twenty nine and I

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Speaker 2: twenty eight have been together since high school. About four

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Speaker 2: years ago, I had an affair with someone I went

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Speaker 3: Ooh ooh.

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Speaker 2: I lied to my partner about it as they were

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Speaker 2: I know. My partner had found messages two years after

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Speaker 2: that pointed to the signs they had been right about

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Speaker 4: I called my father in law step daughter's human garbage.

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Speaker 4: damn lay in Opie, tell us you could? You could

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Speaker 4: That apparently was the line that got this guy to

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Speaker 3: Blister of emotion right there. My god, it really was. Guys.

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Speaker 4: I want to know what you thought about this roller coaster?

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Speaker 4: Is OPI the a hole, the angel? There's a lot

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Speaker 4: and what you would do. Samuel, Okay, the mic is yours.

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Speaker 3: OP is low key the MVP, like like the ending

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Speaker 4: Poor woman is just like going through it.

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Speaker 3: I feel good though that Op is like strong enough

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Speaker 3: and now is asking for money? Okayop, Hello everyone, we're

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Speaker 4: We are about to make the landing of a lifetime.

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Speaker 3: Oh love ones that you love them.

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Speaker 3: Landing straight into this story. This is okayob I'm Samuel,

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Speaker 3: you on an adventure on a flight through the skies. Thirty

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Speaker 3: I'd give some backstory first, you think, op, please with

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Speaker 3: That's eight years. When asked for her reason to cheat,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and here this wife is railing yacht

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Speaker 3: to do a little twinge of an axle. It's about

440
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 3: seven thirty in the morning. I was feeding the cattle

441
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 3: and having a jam session when my dad came out

442
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 3: of the fleet lot to tell me someone was here

443
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 3: to sing me. Uh, ask him who was why? Didn't

444
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 3: need him to answer me once I saw the angry

445
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 3: look on his face as it throws his cigarette. He

446
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 3: had failed the lad a hop off tractor and go

447
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 3: walk around the farmyard until I spat a brand loop

448
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 3: porsh with my mother sitting in the driver's seat. Describe

449
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 3: what she looks like. Imagine someone doing a crappy job

450
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 3: doing James Charles and Jeffrey Star heaviest makup forrou Teine

451
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 3: at the same time a Karen haircut with only the

452
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 3: blondest of high lass and a spray then that would

453
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Speaker 3: make Trump look pale. If I had affords. I love this.

454
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 3: I often wonder if she'll ever do a face reveal,

455
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 3: just so the whole world could see that hunk of

456
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 3: Swiss cheese and all that. Oh my god. I walk

457
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 3: up to her car and politely say hey there to her,

458
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 3: before she wrinkles her nose and looks at me in

459
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 3: disgusted entitled Mom, don't you have anything better to do

460
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 3: besides wear those filthy rags and take that wad of

461
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 3: chewing tobacco out of your mouth? Honestly, I'm embarrassed that

462
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 3: you're even my son looking like that. Honey, these are

463
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 3: work clothes and I was working and I just put

464
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Speaker 3: this show in. I ain't ain't even kicked in yet.

465
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Speaker 3: Besides what you want, I love this farm boy. She

466
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 3: looks me up and down with a discuss to look

467
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 3: again before she takes a deep breath before speaking, titled Mom,

468
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 3: I need to ask a favor of you. In fact,

469
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 3: it's rather important. The only thing going through my head

470
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: she's part of a cult. It needs me to be

471
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 3: a blood sacrifice at tonight's meeting. Me Well, what is it? Title? Mom,

472
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 3: See your sister it's going to be graduating this year,

473
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 3: and I think it would be only fair that you

474
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 3: give her money your grandfather left you since you obviously

475
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 3: don't need it. I know what she's after now. My

476
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 3: Grandbabby had put us out twenty five k smackaroons for

477
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 3: each grandchild that once they turn eighteen they can use

478
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 3: for college, buying, a car, attractor, whatever you know. On

479
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,360
Speaker 3: the catch was you needed to either graduate high school

480
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 3: or obtain a ged D. Just graduate high school. Now

481
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 3: why would you be asking for this money, you may ask, Well,

482
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 3: I'll tell you she. I had asked my grandpa after

483
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 3: the divorce that not only should her kids my brother

484
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 3: and sister still get the money, but he needed to

485
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 3: beef it up by a few grand add some nickelbacks

486
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 3: to that stack. My grandpa had a spote, took the

487
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 3: money originally meant for them and put it all in

488
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 3: mine and told her only his actual grandkids get the money,

489
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 3: which honestly is like a good move because she cheated

490
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 3: on them with another Oh yes, yeah, she cheated on

491
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 3: the blood with another man with the high life. So

492
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 3: you know, maybe that high life will treat you to

493
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 3: some money. You're not the father. Yeah. A few years later,

494
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 3: when he passed away, my dad had added some of

495
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 3: his inheritance into it. So when I graduated, I ended

496
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 3: up with nine to three thousand dollars. Wow. I spent

497
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 3: twenty seven thousand of it on a tractor and put

498
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 3: the rest in savings. Yeah, I had to add it

499
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 3: onto every paycheck.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know if the tractor is like an investment,

501
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 4: you know. Yeah, he thout he's working the face, working

502
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 4: the fields his money. Tractor equals money. Yeah, that green

503
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 4: factor equals green backs. Baby me, Why would I give

504
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 4: her any of my money?

505
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: She doesn't even speak to me anymore, and tied them

506
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 3: on because it would be only fair since you're grandpa

507
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 3: denied her that money, and that's money that she deserves

508
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 3: because she'll be attending college unlike you. Plus as her

509
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 3: big brother, you need to be responsible, mate. That money

510
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 3: was laved to me to use as I wish, and

511
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 3: I shall wish it be used by mate. Besides, if

512
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 3: she wants to or needs to ask herself, she can

513
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 3: do so instead of this little train muffin that you're

514
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: coming up to me with tile. Mom, call me everything

515
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,719
Speaker 3: under the sun. And then she goes quiet as I

516
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 3: hear my dad yell out from somewhere. Shut the earth up.

517
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 3: You be taking this moment. I look at her and say,

518
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 3: you never said thank you and title mom if you

519
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: and you will give your sister what she deserves me

520
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 3: when you do a face reveal, I will. She told

521
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 3: me to f my sale and sped off and that

522
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 3: was the end of it. That's all for this episode, folks.

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00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 3: Until next time, reminder, big up your popcorn containers and

524
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 3: lead the theater in an orderly fashion. Was that in

525
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 3: the story, Yeah, oh, Op is a great writer? Number one? Yes,

526
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 3: opis a great writer.

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00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 4: The southern accent made that story fourteen times better than

528
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 4: it would have been otherwise.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I like that was a Ford f one commercial turned

531
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 4: into a life saga, turned into a soap soap.

532
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 3: Soap turn into soap. That was a wild ride, Op.

533
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 3: I appreciate you sharing with us, Dude, you know what

534
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 3: we shall we share one your tractor and two this

535
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 3: podcast and three don two watch. Make sure you follow us,

536
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 3: subscribe on YouTube, follow us on Spotify, do it all.

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Speaker 4: It's more fun than two o possums and a whiskey barrel.

538
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 4: And said, I say, of John, and with that, we'll

539
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 4: see you next day.

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Speaker 3: You do