Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
Speaker 1: talked back. Okay, I relo that this episode is brought
Speaker 1: to you by Tequila and the last little bit aloud.
Speaker 1: I got left. Real hot girl ship, real old lady knees,
Speaker 1: Branny pussy knees, you got great hairs on it. You've
Speaker 1: never seen that episode of Sex in the City. When
Speaker 1: Samantha first saw like the first grade haro and pussy,
Speaker 1: she was like, nobody wants to fun Bratty's pussy. I
Speaker 1: remember when I first saw the first grade hair on.
Speaker 1: I didn't see it myself. It was someone down there
Speaker 1: and he was like was my boyfriend at the time.
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, you got a little great pat
Speaker 1: and I was like, first I was taking it back.
Speaker 1: Then I was like, are you doing hair? Are you eating?
Speaker 1: Like Bitchard died in a it all. I've been waxing
Speaker 1: ever since. You know, I used to die with my pussy.
Speaker 1: Go on, you are weird. I think I want to
Speaker 1: get like it, cut like into a little heart and
Speaker 1: do like a little red heart patch. Wouldn't it be cute? Yeah? Girl,
Speaker 1: go ahead, knocked yourself out. Bit, I don't know. Thank
Speaker 1: you guys for tuning into a new episode of We
Speaker 1: Talk Back. It's your girl a j Welcome, my lovely
Speaker 1: Is this tim Bam? I missed, y'all. I'm drinking my
Speaker 1: coconut milk tea. She liked the milk with them balls
Speaker 1: in it. I don't like that. So how was your
Speaker 1: I haven't seen you since last Thursday? What do you do?
Speaker 1: I am ship going on. It's chilling out, being domesticated.
Speaker 1: That's what you do. You said that every week because
Speaker 1: that's what the funk I do. Stay home and cook
Speaker 1: meals all we came. Sounds boring. Yeah, and try to
Speaker 1: prepare for our next show. Stuff like that. That's about it.
Speaker 1: I don't be doing none of that. I would. I
Speaker 1: went to stay forty eight uh, and I ate, so
Speaker 1: I was like, I felt like a glutton. This man
Speaker 1: asked me to go, and I was like, sure. Baby.
Speaker 1: We went up in that place and I swear I
Speaker 1: was eating off of his plate. He had to run
Speaker 1: to the car. I ate some of his food. He
Speaker 1: was gone, Oh, I just ate until I was stuff like.
Speaker 1: I ate until I was uncomfortable. You know how you
Speaker 1: eat until you feel bad? Hell? Yeah, Like you need
Speaker 1: to perch. I wanted to throw, but I didn't do that.
Speaker 1: But it was delicious. I couldn't even tell you nothing,
Speaker 1: the man said to me the whole time, because I
Speaker 1: was just so entertained by my food. I've never been
Speaker 1: there before. It's new here in Charlotte. Stad that one day,
Speaker 1: I made another reservation for the leven. I came home
Speaker 1: and went to see, like they're booked up. Huh, what
Speaker 1: didn't I have? He said, get what you want, and
Speaker 1: I looked at him in the serious face. Anything right, anything? Okay,
Speaker 1: all right? Let me start with fried um lobster tails.
Speaker 1: I had crispy shrimp, deviled eggs, bone in filetman twelve ounce.
Speaker 1: I had cream spinach. I had mushrooms I had they
Speaker 1: had cream corn crimbert. I had that too, Lobster and
Speaker 1: crab macaroni and cheese, two buns cheese on it, and
Speaker 1: three Hennessey sidecars, remy sidecars. I fu that food up.
Speaker 1: And he had like some beef spar rooms like that.
Speaker 1: He had he ate some of those sides because they
Speaker 1: were sharable, but he had to be sparals. And I
Speaker 1: ate some of his ship too. Oh, and I also
Speaker 1: had crab cakes. Bitch. So did the nicket call you
Speaker 1: back after that? Yeah? He didn't call me. Yeah he
Speaker 1: know he better know. I like to eat, see me.
Speaker 1: They said, you don't get this thick because you know
Speaker 1: how to cook. No, I know how to eat. I
Speaker 1: can cook too, though our reservation was for four thirty
Speaker 1: on a Saturday, because you can't. It's hard to get
Speaker 1: in there. And I was back home sleep by seven o'clock. Well,
Speaker 1: we usually don't want to talk about other people business
Speaker 1: on this podcast for real, So I just want to
Speaker 1: talk about some of the ratchet current events, the social
Speaker 1: media current events. See what you think about her? Okay,
Speaker 1: I've been seeing ben Zeno and his daughter. Wasn't that
Speaker 1: coit how you pronounced it. I don't want to her
Speaker 1: name it coy. It's like coile. It looked like toy
Speaker 1: because I think about like the fish, her and her
Speaker 1: daddy are. I mean everybody. I won't say everybody has
Speaker 1: daddy issues that I feel like families always, you know,
Speaker 1: we always have problems in our families that sometimes we
Speaker 1: never discuss. But I just don't know if social media
Speaker 1: is a place to air all your dirty laundry with
Speaker 1: your parents, especially with your parents that you should respect.
Speaker 1: And if your dad wasn't a sort of a celebrity,
Speaker 1: would you even be online talking crazy about him like that?
Speaker 1: I mean, but you might be just nobody would care, right,
Speaker 1: so you wouldn't do it. So because you a platform
Speaker 1: using it trying to tell your dad down a little bit,
Speaker 1: because I feel like that's something if you really want
Speaker 1: to build a relationship with him, maybe I'll should go
Speaker 1: to therapy maybe and he should initiate it. We're discussing
Speaker 1: this like people know what we're talking about. Um, if
Speaker 1: you haven't been paying attention, there's a former rapper because
Speaker 1: I don't know if he makes music anymore. Ben Zeno, Yes,
Speaker 1: and now he's a reality so him and his daughter,
Speaker 1: who is also a rapper, a new rapper. She has
Speaker 1: that song about this a TikTok um. They're arguing back
Speaker 1: and forth about him being a good father to her
Speaker 1: over social media and he's defending himself against that. And
Speaker 1: it's ugly because she called her her dad a bitch
Speaker 1: ass nigga and say if she was a nigger, she
Speaker 1: would be He's as that was the funny part to me.
Speaker 1: Sorry that was funny to you. I was I was
Speaker 1: clutching my pearls. I don't give a funk. Well my
Speaker 1: daddy did. I would never I love my daddy so much, man,
Speaker 1: I can never do my dad like that. Like you
Speaker 1: grow up and you realize, like your parents are just humans,
Speaker 1: they're not super superhumans. So you realize like the age
Speaker 1: they were with different things going on, and they're just
Speaker 1: trying to figure it out. Like and also, as a man,
Speaker 1: your thing is to get money, get money. So she
Speaker 1: mentioned like at one point they went broke. That happens,
Speaker 1: So imagine the stress that would have been on a
Speaker 1: man trying to provide for his family and seeing them
Speaker 1: not being able to do to certain things like that
Speaker 1: they're used to. Because I bet they weren't broke broke exactly.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't know. I feel like
Speaker 1: they need to do some damn therapy. You know how
Speaker 1: that shouldn't y'alla. If y'all want to put it on
Speaker 1: out there for the world, at least get a check,
Speaker 1: because I'm y'all goa pay. Yeah, they can sit down
Speaker 1: and have a session with a real therapist. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: what is the dad supposed to do at that point?
Speaker 1: How is he supposed to respond to his daughter publicly
Speaker 1: right saying, nigga in public. But you got me fucked up.
Speaker 1: You don't get to talk about me like that. We're
Speaker 1: still on the outside looking at I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just hope her disrespect is warranted. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because just like respect, his earn soul is disrespect.
Speaker 1: So if he's done things to um, you know, hurt her,
Speaker 1: harm her, if you just want to tend it from
Speaker 1: your dad, like, that's just not the way to go
Speaker 1: about it. If you want a relationship with your dad
Speaker 1: or you you need him, you need his advice. As
Speaker 1: she wants love, that's all it is at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, Like she just wants her father to
Speaker 1: love her the way she feels like he should. Neither
Speaker 1: one of them honestly know how to really say what's
Speaker 1: going on because instead of saying all these ugly things
Speaker 1: that could just be expressed and what what the hurt is.
Speaker 1: And at a certain point, you have to have self responsibility.
Speaker 1: So no matter how you were raised or what your
Speaker 1: parents did or didn't do, you have to determine what
Speaker 1: you want to take from those situations and inform who
Speaker 1: you want to be it shouldn't always matter how somebody
Speaker 1: else did you? All right? What about a little oozy
Speaker 1: verd j T? The motherfucker's this too young and too
Speaker 1: rich for me? I love it. She's like, I want
Speaker 1: some crablegs. They on the way. I'm gonna post what
Speaker 1: I want to see somebody me too. I love JT.
Speaker 1: I love a little ouzy Ver. I think he's very
Speaker 1: eclectic and he looks like very androgynous at times. They're
Speaker 1: just unique because she does. He does not seem like
Speaker 1: what I imagined her to be with this thinking. Looked
Speaker 1: like he would probably be trying to compete with me
Speaker 1: and what I got on, Like, why do you my jacket?
Speaker 1: I swear he posted a picture like I don't know
Speaker 1: if he had her boots on or if she had
Speaker 1: his boots on, But these motherfucker's are sharing clothes, you know,
Speaker 1: the youngest. I just see j T as a real nigger,
Speaker 1: and it just bothers me a little bit to see
Speaker 1: little Oozy playing with her publicly, Like remember he said
Speaker 1: something about her being dirty or something like that before
Speaker 1: to some other women and they put it out there.
Speaker 1: Right now, social media is saying JAT, you are not
Speaker 1: a city girl, not a girl that she's an entertainer.
Speaker 1: It's this video a little oozy and he's on the
Speaker 1: back of a motor cycle holding onto someone and he's
Speaker 1: smiling so big, and it was so much joy in
Speaker 1: that man's spirit. Yeah, okay, he looks so happy, though.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh that per and listen, nigga, you're
Speaker 1: mad about okay. Also, did you see what Tyrese's ex
Speaker 1: wife somebody basically asked her. I think it was like,
Speaker 1: do you suggest someone dating a celebrity and she was
Speaker 1: like hell no. Basically m hmm. I agree with her
Speaker 1: because these are the high value men that everybody wants,
Speaker 1: So that means that man isn't high demand for other women,
Speaker 1: so you almost have to compromise who you are to
Speaker 1: deal with those men. I've never heard her, but not
Speaker 1: even niggas don't necessarily even be high value, not a
Speaker 1: spirit definitely, not maybe money, but a lot of celebrity
Speaker 1: men just be whacked when you get next to them
Speaker 1: in person and get to know their real character and
Speaker 1: arrogant and full of trauma, just DeVos. Yes, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be evil. I know some evil richness. A lot of
Speaker 1: people have to do a lot of things to get
Speaker 1: to where they are. Depending on how much money you got,
Speaker 1: you had to have shipped on some people along the way.
Speaker 1: So it's about integrity. Yeah, so I agree with her.
Speaker 1: She was like, basically, you're gonna have to do all
Speaker 1: the compromising to be with someone of that success level.
Speaker 1: That sucks. Though, Is it just men? Though? That's what
Speaker 1: I said, it's about integrity. Maybe women no matter if
Speaker 1: there are celebrity or not, maybe they just operate on
Speaker 1: a different level of integrity. Because especially when you bring
Speaker 1: children to the picture, you're not just cheating on your
Speaker 1: wife's that's the fact. Somebody else's asked, wait, where did
Speaker 1: that cheating on? So wait, you shouldn't kiss your kids
Speaker 1: if do you eat? Man, No, So once you're eating,
Speaker 1: as ever, you shouldn't kiss you not if you're not
Speaker 1: eating mommy's ass. No. So mommy's asking the children's face,
Speaker 1: but nobody else has got it. He came out of
Speaker 1: mom's asked, I don't know why I can't put momma's
Speaker 1: ass back on your face. So she's talking about celebrity
Speaker 1: or somebody based on the question, and she's talking about celebrities.
Speaker 1: But this kind of goes into what I wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about today. To look before we move on to
Speaker 1: the next segment, let's have a word from our sponsors.
Speaker 1: I have been on a clubhouse all morning and one
Speaker 1: of the main clubhouse room, which is a trending topic
Speaker 1: right now on Twitter. Um let me get to the hold.
Speaker 1: All right, this is the club room topic. I think
Speaker 1: it's time to give white men a chance. And there
Speaker 1: has been a ton of spinoff rooms. There have been
Speaker 1: a lot of nasty tweets. This room was created by
Speaker 1: a black woman, by black women between here, the UK,
Speaker 1: all over the place, different women. UM so it's just
Speaker 1: not American women who feel some type of way about
Speaker 1: the treatment they get from black men within the community,
Speaker 1: and they're wanting to explore their options. And I just
Speaker 1: want to give my take first before you go into
Speaker 1: I see nothing wrong with dating outsiger race. They didn't
Speaker 1: want to hear the statistic that the majority of black
Speaker 1: men are with black women. I think a lot of
Speaker 1: times when black women see a black man with another
Speaker 1: and they get upset, it's because they're single. So they
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, why isn't that man with me.
Speaker 1: Everybody has a preference. The majority of black men are
Speaker 1: with Black women, and the majority of black women are
Speaker 1: with black men. The only problem I have with black
Speaker 1: men who date outside their race is that they will
Speaker 1: justify it, not saying that they even have to give
Speaker 1: somebody a reason why. But instead of saying, I love
Speaker 1: my white queen because such such such such such white queen,
Speaker 1: I love my milkie queen. I love my queen Elizabeth right,
Speaker 1: I love her because this all they need to then
Speaker 1: list the qualities they love about the white woman or
Speaker 1: the other woman that they're with, But instead they use
Speaker 1: that as an opportunity to tell all the things that
Speaker 1: they don't like about Black women. That's the problem I
Speaker 1: have with black men who date outside the race. So
Speaker 1: what I was hearing from the black women, some of
Speaker 1: them said that they have been dating outside their race
Speaker 1: since forever. They just tied at a black community. Others
Speaker 1: were saying they don't like how black men treat Black
Speaker 1: women in general. So you're generalizing men, and you're generalizing
Speaker 1: Black women experiences with black men. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: things that we can't agree on about these niggas, And
Speaker 1: I can't say all the black men that I know
Speaker 1: or the ones that I have been in a relationship
Speaker 1: with We're just bad, you know what I'm saying. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you something. It ain't that nobody can tell
Speaker 1: me about a black man. I love me a black man, period.
Speaker 1: That's what I want. That's what I'm gonna fight for
Speaker 1: it to the day I die. I know sometimes we
Speaker 1: can be toxic towards each other and our music, and
Speaker 1: aren't the way we talk to which women are the
Speaker 1: main consumers for music, so we set the standards on
Speaker 1: how everything goesry. But I'm always going to be exclusive
Speaker 1: to black man. It's just my preference. Though I don't
Speaker 1: think it has to do with what else anybody else
Speaker 1: has to offer, or how great Spanish Latin lovers are. Whatever.
Speaker 1: I just love me a dark black man. They seem
Speaker 1: powerful to me. So anybody who was siding with black men,
Speaker 1: not even siding, but even trying to come to their
Speaker 1: defense even a little bit, they were calling them picknys. How,
Speaker 1: what's the pigmy? A pick me is like somebody who
Speaker 1: um like caters to the opposing side for a favorite.
Speaker 1: So so who is the opposing side of this? Black men?
Speaker 1: So black men black like me is the opposing side
Speaker 1: for yes? Because these black women are now saying we
Speaker 1: need to explore options. Well, that's the problem. When you
Speaker 1: start seeing black men and you're a black woman as
Speaker 1: the opposition, that's already a problem. Let's that needs to
Speaker 1: be addressed. And why are you seeing your old men
Speaker 1: the only the type of men that you burst as
Speaker 1: the Yeah. And every time you want to say who
Speaker 1: raised these niggas, we did, bitches, You don't know that
Speaker 1: we raised these niggas from their mama to the women
Speaker 1: that they deal with. We are raising these niggas. So
Speaker 1: a lot of things I want to put back onto
Speaker 1: black women, a lot of things that are fault. You
Speaker 1: can call me and pick me all day long. I
Speaker 1: know I'm not a pick me. So what that means
Speaker 1: like pick me? Pick me? Yes, that's what they call
Speaker 1: pick me. Yeah, like the head if you was on
Speaker 1: Clubhouse saying that you bit go to heim, listen, I
Speaker 1: won't say a white man. I can't see myself marrying
Speaker 1: a white man now and other somebody else, some other ethnicity. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but a white man who is responsible for the relationship
Speaker 1: we already have. So you're saying you're being oppressed by
Speaker 1: black men, so you're gonna go to the another oppressor.
Speaker 1: But you should go where you're being loved period. I'm
Speaker 1: not opposed to black men dating white women. I'm not
Speaker 1: opposed to black women dating white men. I'm not opposed
Speaker 1: to it. But I do find myself rolling my eyes
Speaker 1: interracial couples outside sometimes I don't be It's a subconscious
Speaker 1: thing that happens for me sometimes because especially if it
Speaker 1: looks like a well to do, successful black man and
Speaker 1: he's off with something other than a black woman, I
Speaker 1: might glance over to the table and cut my eyes
Speaker 1: real quick and then go back on about my day.
Speaker 1: But it's just because he's supposed to be one of
Speaker 1: our husband That's how I'll be feeling in my head,
Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. And black women, they you know,
Speaker 1: if you're single, you might find a problem with that
Speaker 1: because that's a man that could have been with you,
Speaker 1: just like Jez being with this girl, right, Why couldn't
Speaker 1: you find a black woman to lead? Right? And I
Speaker 1: mean that kind of thinking is a little ignorant, it is,
Speaker 1: but it's just how I felt like. It's honestly how
Speaker 1: I feel sometimes when I see especially just because a
Speaker 1: lot of black women are exclusive to black women like
Speaker 1: I mean black men like myself. So that makes him
Speaker 1: that much harder and being thirty ish, bye, I have
Speaker 1: fear of because I look at my mom and a
Speaker 1: lot of her friends, and they're all older, and all
Speaker 1: of them are single, and they're just about content. Now
Speaker 1: I had my girlfriends, we eat and we'll be watching
Speaker 1: TV and we just we get dressed up and go
Speaker 1: out to eat, and they'd be just content with that,
Speaker 1: and I am not. I don't want that. But what
Speaker 1: if I considered I don't know if I could even
Speaker 1: consider dating outside. When I think of outside, I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about everybody. I'm not just thinking about white men. Yeah, Dominican,
Speaker 1: which they would think would be black man, Dominican black, Well,
Speaker 1: so who else? Asians? It's in fly as Asian guys,
Speaker 1: like we're in Charlotte. It's a whole little click of
Speaker 1: them wrapped up in Charlotte. That that nigga, look, I
Speaker 1: call him a nigga, That Asian nigga from what's that movie? Uh?
Speaker 1: Singapore Crazy? They find itself. I'll take an Armenian nigger.
Speaker 1: You like Armenians? I like them black beach, dark, black,
Speaker 1: light black, medium black. I don't like almost black all
Speaker 1: the way black. That's all. I like Biggati black with
Speaker 1: a big black dick girl. They wanted people to stop
Speaker 1: focusing on the title, which the title was black women
Speaker 1: should start dating white men. So if you you're just
Speaker 1: coming into the room, you don't know what all other
Speaker 1: conversation conversation at transpired outside of that title. But based
Speaker 1: on that title, that clickbait asked title, that triggering title.
Speaker 1: It wasn't triggering from me because I understand people have preference,
Speaker 1: and I'm not here to make you feel a way
Speaker 1: about your preference, but you might want to explore really
Speaker 1: why you feel like when why are you generalizing? I'm
Speaker 1: never going to say that all black men are just
Speaker 1: bade black man ain't. Black men don't protect black women.
Speaker 1: And with a nigger who want to beat your ass
Speaker 1: for me, that's like one of the characteristics I look
Speaker 1: for in a man, like I want to know I
Speaker 1: can confidently cut you the funk out and if you're
Speaker 1: a woman, he'll beat your exactly. I think you're gonna
Speaker 1: knock you out home for real. I'm not dealing with
Speaker 1: somebody I don't feel protected around, right, So I guess
Speaker 1: they mean in general, black women aren't protected. I've lived
Speaker 1: in every single city when any major crimes against black
Speaker 1: people as happened. I've been in St. Louis when Michael
Speaker 1: Brown was murdered. I don't know who pushes that narrative
Speaker 1: that we're not protected by black men. I think they
Speaker 1: just mean in general, you know, because why I was
Speaker 1: mentioned in all these situations that I've happened with black people,
Speaker 1: because a lot of times black women are on the
Speaker 1: front line with a baby on our hill black men.
Speaker 1: There's black men out there. Yeah, I'm not saying they aren't,
Speaker 1: but you don't think it's more Black women than black
Speaker 1: men that be out there, Like we show up for
Speaker 1: black men. So a lot of black women feel like
Speaker 1: black men don't show up for us. The whole thing
Speaker 1: is that black women are hard to deal with people
Speaker 1: outside of the black community. They may let you do
Speaker 1: what the funk you wanna do, and they may be
Speaker 1: real passive and shut the funk up about it when
Speaker 1: she's going to talk ship and black men have a
Speaker 1: problem with you just even staying I don't like that ship.
Speaker 1: Don't do that to me. That's nagging or that's being negative,
Speaker 1: or that's being loud. Cussing them out or whatever it is. Well,
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, black women, I mean, we
Speaker 1: do have some beta females, but a lot of us
Speaker 1: have alpha female personalities and that's because of our upbringing.
Speaker 1: You can take that ship all the way back to slavery.
Speaker 1: I know, here we go with the slavery conversations, but
Speaker 1: you can't take it back because they would tear our
Speaker 1: men away from us, beat them, rip them up, tie
Speaker 1: one half of them to one horse, and tie the
Speaker 1: other half to another, and beat the horses. Today ripped
Speaker 1: the black man and half in front of the black woman.
Speaker 1: So in her mind, she's like, I have to be
Speaker 1: very strong because I don't know when I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: out here by myself. And we raised our baby be
Speaker 1: that way. We raise our black women. The black men. Though,
Speaker 1: then you you treat the black men to be more submissive, right,
Speaker 1: don't because we don't want you rip apart out here
Speaker 1: in the streets. So now we have a whole generation
Speaker 1: of strong alpha females and beta males. I don't want
Speaker 1: to say beta males. Is like beta males may be
Speaker 1: married too, but they're probably getting ran over. Nobody really
Speaker 1: wants the beta male. Some women do want the beata
Speaker 1: male because some women want someone who they can tell
Speaker 1: what the fun to do. I don't like. I don't
Speaker 1: want no man like that. I just want I just
Speaker 1: want equality. I don't want to be able to run
Speaker 1: over anybody, and I don't want to feel like somebody
Speaker 1: trying to run over me, right, But I do want
Speaker 1: a black man though. Yeah, and there's another side up
Speaker 1: dating outside your race. You don't mean to tell me
Speaker 1: that white women don't experience some of the same ship
Speaker 1: we do. They do. They absolutely do, exactly, so you
Speaker 1: think the grass is greener on the other side, You
Speaker 1: don't know what you could just be a fetish to
Speaker 1: that white man. I just don't I just imagine if
Speaker 1: I was with a white man, like after we finished
Speaker 1: talking about Marvel and comic book some ship, what the
Speaker 1: funk else are we gonna talk about? Like, I don't like,
Speaker 1: especially like during George Floyd and all this racial tension
Speaker 1: that we have in our country. I don't know that
Speaker 1: that white man could ever relate relate to me in
Speaker 1: the way that I need to. That that there is
Speaker 1: a cultural difference pain that's passed on the black people
Speaker 1: in this country that they will never understand, and I
Speaker 1: don't know if my white king could ever related to me.
Speaker 1: Black women are tired of the struggle love with black men,
Speaker 1: so they're wanting to go and explore other races. I
Speaker 1: don't think that a black woman should die single. When
Speaker 1: you have other people out here that you can experience,
Speaker 1: you do not have to be with just a black man.
Speaker 1: So you about to date other I mean, well, you
Speaker 1: an't about to date nobody, but if you were, if
Speaker 1: you were single or you would you would consider dating
Speaker 1: outside of your race. Yes, I wouldn't consider dating outside
Speaker 1: of my race, but that to be my first preference.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You don't know who who
Speaker 1: will come into your life. But I'm not just gonna
Speaker 1: block out anybody else just because I'm you know, I
Speaker 1: feel like one men of other cultures are intimidated by
Speaker 1: my butt side, like they'd be like, yeah, no, I
Speaker 1: can't do that. I'm gonna keep on going. I ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna be able to play with her like that.
Speaker 1: So I don't really have men of other I do
Speaker 1: have some white boys every now ready and split dark oak,
Speaker 1: But for the most part, I only get black men
Speaker 1: who are even trying to, you know, push up. Well, Okay,
Speaker 1: so one day there's a there's a wine bar. I
Speaker 1: used to like to frequent a lot so pizza like
Speaker 1: little toppers and show like that. So I would go
Speaker 1: in there and I was talking to the guy who
Speaker 1: owns this, an Egyptian guy, and he was saying, he's
Speaker 1: always an interested in black woman. He doesn't know how
Speaker 1: to approach us. And also the reason why he doesn't
Speaker 1: approach black women because he feels inadequate in the dick department.
Speaker 1: Because in their minds, all black men just got these
Speaker 1: big dumb dicks. It's not true. So they just feel
Speaker 1: like they won't measure up or they won't be able
Speaker 1: to satisfy a black woman. And that might be true too,
Speaker 1: but the per capita, the black men got the biggest dicks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but all black men don't have big dicks. No, that's
Speaker 1: a lie. Exactly on average, so per unaverage, black men
Speaker 1: have largernesses, they're larger endowed. Yeah, so that intimidates others
Speaker 1: especially and then when you gotta put a big old
Speaker 1: but on top of that, chill my dick, I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep on walking. I ain't even gonna play
Speaker 1: with her. Look, but I have black men being like,
Speaker 1: yeah I can. But black men even with the littlest
Speaker 1: dicks that they feel like they just want a big booty. Bitch,
Speaker 1: you don't even got enough dick for that big booty.
Speaker 1: So at least the white guys or whoever else they
Speaker 1: do know they're limitations black men, and they'd be wanting
Speaker 1: you to uh act like they tear your ship up,
Speaker 1: so you'll be in there like yeah when I did,
Speaker 1: ain't doing ship and in your group chat later big
Speaker 1: you know, I came over there with the vibrator your
Speaker 1: dad vibrated in the whole bag this naked listening at
Speaker 1: the bathroom door. But let me tell you, I always,
Speaker 1: if I like you, and let's say this sex isn't
Speaker 1: that great, I'm gonna make you feel good. I'm definitely
Speaker 1: always gonna make you feel good. I'm never gonna make
Speaker 1: you feel like you know. There was one time where
Speaker 1: I told him get his stick was trash, but I
Speaker 1: said it in a nice way because I liked him.
Speaker 1: This is how I said it. Hey, baby, come here,
Speaker 1: sit down. I want to talk to you just for
Speaker 1: a second. What's up? Baby's um, but I'm about to
Speaker 1: say it's gonna be uncomfortable for you, and it's uncomfortable
Speaker 1: for me. But because I care about you, I just
Speaker 1: feel like this is something that I should just say
Speaker 1: to you. Just spit it out. What do you want
Speaker 1: to say? Baby? When we have sex, it's over really
Speaker 1: really quickly, and like right when I'm getting warmed up,
Speaker 1: you're already done, and I'm just not satisfied at all.
Speaker 1: Like we have sex for like maybe five minutes and
Speaker 1: then it's over. Hell no, that's selfish, or maybe he
Speaker 1: just can't control he comes in. He would come in like, so,
Speaker 1: wasn't it a little No? No, he had a nice
Speaker 1: size package and we had like super passion. I mean
Speaker 1: it'd be like TV, like were walking the door, tuking
Speaker 1: each other down and knocking it off the wall. And
Speaker 1: then he put that four minutes tops, it's just a
Speaker 1: animate it's over. I'll be like, damn no, hell no,
Speaker 1: y'all don't need to have skip the four play then,
Speaker 1: so he wanted more time? No should I shouldn't have
Speaker 1: to do that. So let's listen. He got up from
Speaker 1: the chair, he walked to the kitchen, and I was
Speaker 1: just watching him. He didn't say a word. He poured
Speaker 1: him a glass of water. He stood at the sink,
Speaker 1: he drank the water. He didn't open his mouth, and
Speaker 1: I was just like sitting there like in suspense, like
Speaker 1: say something. And then finally he said, I ain't never
Speaker 1: had a bitch say nothing like that to me before.
Speaker 1: And you know what, is he gonna blame you with
Speaker 1: I'm bitches because he don't know the truth, and grabbed
Speaker 1: his keys and walked out. Left. You talked to him again? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I talked to him after that. He didn't want that.
Speaker 1: He never he never mentioned what I said to him though.
Speaker 1: It was like I never even said that path and
Speaker 1: then brought that same whack ass dick back. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't hear me. I I found him two
Speaker 1: more times and then I had to give him back
Speaker 1: to the streets. I really liked him, like I wanted
Speaker 1: him to be my boyfriend, but that wasn't gonna work.
Speaker 1: So this is our fault that these needs to be
Speaker 1: out here thinking they're busting ship down because they just
Speaker 1: be pretending because they like an I never heard nobody
Speaker 1: saying no because they probably was pretending like that Dick
Speaker 1: was enough because they liked you and the Pickens sucking
Speaker 1: slim out here, Better go get you a white man
Speaker 1: who could suck your a long time. Basically, it's what
Speaker 1: that story was about. Oh I changed his name to
Speaker 1: four minutes, shorty foe minutes, and it was so like
Speaker 1: it was so passionate, that everything was passionate between us.
Speaker 1: But the dick was trash. It was and nobody had
Speaker 1: ever told him before. That's crazy. That's the women. We
Speaker 1: have got to stop doing that. Ghosted. I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: he didn't got ghosted before. Maybe she just didn't verbally
Speaker 1: tell you but when she But I liked him a life.
Speaker 1: I liked this personality. I felt like we matched aesthetically,
Speaker 1: like you know, we look good together. But I can't
Speaker 1: live like that. You cheat. I would cheat on him,
Speaker 1: be sexually frustrated, nigga, what you want to eat? Right
Speaker 1: low black? As before, while he was standing at the
Speaker 1: stint quiet, I did suggest, like, maybe before you come over,
Speaker 1: you could just beat off so you will have released
Speaker 1: already in that way, you won't need to. He just
Speaker 1: didn't give a funk about satisfying it. Didn't know he
Speaker 1: has some growing to do. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: don't know if he could control it though, and I'd
Speaker 1: be looking down at my couchie like damn, my know
Speaker 1: was good, But he needs to try an intercom. You
Speaker 1: ever heard about that intercomet intercom like you please come
Speaker 1: to the office. Intercome, like right when you're about to
Speaker 1: you just hold it back and let the adrenaline go down.
Speaker 1: Also like think about babies, grandma's and stuff like that. No,
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, I guess whatever you got to think
Speaker 1: of to turn you off right quick and then get
Speaker 1: back into it. You want to just come and not
Speaker 1: let a bit come like what at all? Just four minute?
Speaker 1: We never it would be like we'd be making out
Speaker 1: for like eight minutes, kissing and sucking on each other
Speaker 1: and all kind of stuff, and then as soon as
Speaker 1: the sex starts is over, I mean over over Like this,
Speaker 1: he would have not got another trial because if he
Speaker 1: didn't receive I know, I got that good stuff. So
Speaker 1: I would be like, Okay, you got to get adjusted, baby,
Speaker 1: I understand. I know you gotta get adjusted to all
Speaker 1: this goodness and all this passion. So I'll give you,
Speaker 1: you know, a few adjustments. The hell we started talking
Speaker 1: about this one Nicke dick for twenty minutes. I know
Speaker 1: it was black dick too, bringing it back to our talet. Oh,
Speaker 1: because I mentioned the Egyptian guy, So maybe I have.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've dealt with some beautiful white men, some
Speaker 1: very handsome white men. But it's a disconnect. Yeah, there
Speaker 1: was a disconnect. You know, updated a white guy before
Speaker 1: like tried to hang out. But I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: just different. It's just different. Yeah, it's cultural differences. This
Speaker 1: is one white guy. We were hanging out. We went
Speaker 1: on a couple of days. He was he looked like
Speaker 1: Captain America. Bitch. This white man was fine, okay, And
Speaker 1: he called me early one Saturday morning. He's like what
Speaker 1: you're doing? And I was like nothing. He was like,
Speaker 1: you want to go to the mall? What do it
Speaker 1: mean when you asked the black bitch if she want
Speaker 1: to go to the mall? He got to buy some ship. Girl,
Speaker 1: He did not buy me ship. I was so bad.
Speaker 1: I was like, I know, your motherfucking playing with me.
Speaker 1: Don't get me out of my bad on the Saturday morning,
Speaker 1: and don't offer to pay for none of this ship?
Speaker 1: By what the funk was y'all looking there for? When
Speaker 1: the shopping, just walking around. I bought my whole ship
Speaker 1: and got back in my car and left. And then
Speaker 1: we were at the register and I was like waiting
Speaker 1: and he was waiting and both of his way. She
Speaker 1: was like, the total is three eight one. I was
Speaker 1: looking at him, he was looking at me, bitch, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, you're not gonna pay for this,
Speaker 1: And then he was like maybe a joke. He was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I think I must have left my wallet in the car. Oh,
Speaker 1: you got me fucked up. Don't ever ask you to
Speaker 1: go to the mall with first of all, to pay
Speaker 1: for slavery reparations. If I with a white man, I
Speaker 1: want reparations nothing. He's not about to play with me,
Speaker 1: like we're gonna go to the mall? Why did you
Speaker 1: invite me here? And I had to educate, Hey, yeah,
Speaker 1: that uses taxes. Any woman black or white to them
Speaker 1: all and not offered to buy the ship anything, right,
Speaker 1: y'all could have went to fucking Starbucks, right if you
Speaker 1: just want to hang around you for the day. See,
Speaker 1: that's weird. A black man ain't will never do no ship, Like, no,
Speaker 1: we know better than Nigga know. If he ain't got
Speaker 1: the money, he's not about to invite you to the
Speaker 1: damn Mama of all places. See, that's the type of
Speaker 1: she like. That's what y'all bit just gonna deal with.
Speaker 1: I just feel like there's a certain type of black
Speaker 1: woman that dates black white white men in particular, because
Speaker 1: that's what the title was, and that's okay. I just
Speaker 1: always feel like, and don't get mad at me, y'all,
Speaker 1: but if you do, fuck you. Um, it's always a
Speaker 1: slim black bitch with big old titties and synthetic weaving
Speaker 1: and nappy leave out. Oh no, that one girl that's
Speaker 1: dating that white boy that played for the Chiefs, she's
Speaker 1: a bad beach and he is fine as hell. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but the majority synthetic girls shut up the way. I
Speaker 1: wanted to make a joke about marrying uh pigtail. Oh no,
Speaker 1: that's awful, that's just that's that's racy with a pigtail
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. Did you're talking about
Speaker 1: these bitches leaving leave out? They leave out bit happy?
Speaker 1: I can say that I cannot. Okay, I'm sorry, girl.
Speaker 1: These girls was pretty, but I did notice that the
Speaker 1: majority of them wore darker skin. A lot of them
Speaker 1: had the story that you know, the black boys when
Speaker 1: they were in high school were the main ones that
Speaker 1: would tease them, talk about their lives, talk about their nose,
Speaker 1: all the things that we call beautiful. Yeah they're beautiful.
Speaker 1: Big lips are beautiful. Now you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like things change over time, people become less dumb, ignorant,
Speaker 1: anyway less ignorant. But I did notice that the majority
Speaker 1: of them were darker skinned women who talked about being
Speaker 1: teased by black men, and I think that darker black
Speaker 1: men may also feel the same way. Going through school,
Speaker 1: people talking of all saying all type of crazy shit
Speaker 1: about you row up, you get rich, and yeah, and
Speaker 1: then you buy the light skinned bitch you always wanted
Speaker 1: or the white bitch you always wanted. Yeah. I can't
Speaker 1: see that, but that's something you need to work out
Speaker 1: through therapy. I will not say all black men are
Speaker 1: bad because this is what you experienced with a couple
Speaker 1: of black men that you let have access to you.
Speaker 1: Because if you and I've said this before, if you
Speaker 1: have never experienced a good black man, chances are you
Speaker 1: ain't ship right. Anytime you say all of anything is
Speaker 1: good or bad, you sound ignorant to me, all white
Speaker 1: people are bad, all black people are bad. Like, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 1: You can't categorize everybody is one thing. It's just stupid. Now,
Speaker 1: do I want to date any of y'all? No, just black,
Speaker 1: But it's not I want to have children with a
Speaker 1: black man. Yeah, I want some. I want some kinky,
Speaker 1: curly hair babies. They're talking about celebrities and you're looking
Speaker 1: at celebrity relationships the richard black men and how they pick,
Speaker 1: you know, even even celebrities the majority of them, or
Speaker 1: with black women. But it's it's all involved in money.
Speaker 1: So all men, all women want to high value man.
Speaker 1: So are y'all saying that black men are incapable of
Speaker 1: being high value? Is that what you're really saying? That
Speaker 1: would be That would be fucked up. I know. But
Speaker 1: there was one time I was watching and I was
Speaker 1: scanning the audience, and I was looking at the woman
Speaker 1: that wasn't sitting next to them black men and a
Speaker 1: lot of chocolate. That's all I'm saying. Also, think about
Speaker 1: who are these people around. Once you get to a
Speaker 1: certain status, you you live in neighborhoods where there are
Speaker 1: no black people. Black people just love. Oh, I ain't
Speaker 1: no black people my neighborhood. I aspired to live in
Speaker 1: a neighborhood with a bunch of black people, would have checked.
Speaker 1: That's that's my goals. Like you think you the ship
Speaker 1: because you have no black neighbors, because you get the remove,
Speaker 1: will yourself your children go to all white? What are
Speaker 1: y'all saying about black people? Right? What do you what
Speaker 1: are we really talking? You know, that just depends on
Speaker 1: what's because there is like, uh, in bigger cities there
Speaker 1: are a fluent black, a lot of fluent Black neighbors.
Speaker 1: You know. Well, I can only think of like Atlanta
Speaker 1: has a lot of a fluent black neighborhood, and maybe Potomac, Maryland.
Speaker 1: I know Sharlotte has one affluent like an older black neighborhood,
Speaker 1: but they're really Chicago has a fluent black neighborhood in
Speaker 1: Chicago to I'm sure, well, Baldwin Hills, that's a fluent black. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean we weren't name in five places in this
Speaker 1: country exactly. So I feel like if you are really
Speaker 1: for the economic advancement of black people, you would not
Speaker 1: be talking this type of bullshit. I am a firm
Speaker 1: believer that you cannot sleep white and be pro black.
Speaker 1: I don't care who says what a who feels a
Speaker 1: way about that. I don't give a fuck. One of
Speaker 1: the guys I used to day, he became he got
Speaker 1: really pro black. He's watching all those I can't remember
Speaker 1: the name of those videos, documentaries, and he was watching
Speaker 1: all that. He was like sup. And then his next
Speaker 1: baby mama was a white woman. I was like, now,
Speaker 1: ain't that a be what they call those uh hotel
Speaker 1: I will continuously try with a black man, and I
Speaker 1: will continue to love black man like I've never been
Speaker 1: hurt before. Me too, And I will continuously to speak
Speaker 1: life into y'all and love y'all forever. There's nothing that's
Speaker 1: ever going to change that. Now, I'm gonna let nobody
Speaker 1: shoot on me and tell me he's reading right. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna let anybody, no, no black man can do
Speaker 1: that to me. No white man can do that to me.
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna just you mean hypothetically, are you're
Speaker 1: not shut up? Okay, you're not, no girl, I'm not
Speaker 1: there yet. I tried one time, I do it. I
Speaker 1: would like, that's what you want. Hold on before we
Speaker 1: get into anything else. Let's pay some bills real quick.
Speaker 1: So back in two thousand and eighteen, I tried to
Speaker 1: go on the show Married at First Sight. If you
Speaker 1: watch the Charlotte episode, you'll see me in the beginning
Speaker 1: or whatever trying to snatch me in there. But I
Speaker 1: was not casted, and during the casting I made it
Speaker 1: very far. I made it to like right before they
Speaker 1: picked people, and they told me, like you know, they
Speaker 1: asked me, was I exclusive to black man? And I said,
Speaker 1: before I answered, that was like, before you answer, we
Speaker 1: just want you to know that if you are, that's
Speaker 1: not a problem. But if you made the dating pool
Speaker 1: smaller for yourself and getting casted for this show, if
Speaker 1: you are exclusive to black man, I was like, I
Speaker 1: gotta be totally honest with your dr peppers. Y'all can't
Speaker 1: put me with nothing but a black man. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, And that's why I was only in
Speaker 1: the first episode about if you blake bit, you'll miss
Speaker 1: me about ten seconds in the beginning. So I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: So that's essentially what these women are saying, like we
Speaker 1: aren't we're not gonna why should we die single because
Speaker 1: we can't find a black man. We need to broaden
Speaker 1: our horizon and did outside our race. I wouldn't necessarily
Speaker 1: say a white man, but yeah, so look, those are
Speaker 1: those people are supposed to be like professionals at what
Speaker 1: they do, matchmaking, and they have some type of signs
Speaker 1: figured out based on your personality and all that ship.
Speaker 1: Your personality may not match with a black man. I
Speaker 1: don't know. My personality did not match with the black
Speaker 1: men who signed up to be on the show. The
Speaker 1: type of nigga that I like would never go on
Speaker 1: married at first sight. That's all that is. It's hard
Speaker 1: to get a niggnna marry you after five years you're
Speaker 1: talking about married at first sight. Shame. So just be
Speaker 1: with whoever you want to be with, but just justified
Speaker 1: by shipping on another group of people fun the colors
Speaker 1: of the rainbow for I care, I don't care, But
Speaker 1: don't talk about my black man because that's the problem.
Speaker 1: We all need help, we all need to struggle together.
Speaker 1: We just can't give up on each other, and we
Speaker 1: can't publicly be trying to embarrass and talk to it
Speaker 1: about you. And I know we talked back like we
Speaker 1: need to, saying all types of sh it on here,
Speaker 1: but I don't know I just feel I feel some
Speaker 1: type of way with other people do it. We can
Speaker 1: talk to you about black men, but you bad not
Speaker 1: bit we didn't have a podcast. I mean, we need
Speaker 1: to have an episode where we just talked to it
Speaker 1: about black women. Talked a little bit of shit about
Speaker 1: black women today. I guess we talked to about black women.
Speaker 1: We equal opportunists, like talk about everybody. Yeah, because we
Speaker 1: definitely ain't perfect, and again, we are responsible for these niggves,
Speaker 1: so we obviously need to raise the standard. We need
Speaker 1: to all get on one accord, and fort is not.
Speaker 1: I don't know who came up with that. I got
Speaker 1: to raise the minimum pussyway because that's definitely minimum pussy
Speaker 1: wayes Okay, if y'all accept the forty dollars, I'm mad,
Speaker 1: But that's off the topic. I keep getting off the topic,
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I'm gonna keep listening tonight. I
Speaker 1: want to see, I want to understand. I want to
Speaker 1: better understand where these women are coming from. Those women
Speaker 1: have their preference, and I understand their grievances. I just
Speaker 1: don't think you should punish a whole group of people
Speaker 1: based off your experiences with a few. You're ignorant and
Speaker 1: that's it. Well you you update me because clubhouse be
Speaker 1: wearing me out. Yeah, it's a lot of it's like
Speaker 1: information overload a lot of time. I love it though,
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