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Speaker 1: to you by Tequila and the last little bit aloud.

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Speaker 1: I got left. Real hot girl ship, real old lady knees,

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Speaker 1: Branny pussy knees, you got great hairs on it. You've

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Speaker 1: she was like, nobody wants to fun Bratty's pussy. I

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Speaker 1: I didn't see it myself. It was someone down there

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Speaker 1: do like a little red heart patch. Wouldn't it be cute? Yeah? Girl,

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Speaker 1: Talk Back. It's your girl a j Welcome, my lovely

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Speaker 1: Is this tim Bam? I missed, y'all. I'm drinking my

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen you since last Thursday? What do you do?

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Speaker 1: I am ship going on. It's chilling out, being domesticated.

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Speaker 1: That's what you do. You said that every week because

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Speaker 1: prepare for our next show. Stuff like that. That's about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't be doing none of that. I would. I

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Speaker 1: I was like, I felt like a glutton. This man

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Speaker 1: eat until you feel bad? Hell? Yeah, Like you need

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Speaker 1: But it was delicious. I couldn't even tell you nothing,

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Speaker 1: I had crispy shrimp, deviled eggs, bone in filetman twelve ounce.

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Speaker 1: And he had like some beef spar rooms like that.

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Speaker 1: I've been seeing ben Zeno and his daughter. Wasn't that

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Speaker 1: I see nothing wrong with dating outsiger race. They didn't

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Speaker 1: what's the pigmy? A pick me is like somebody who

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Speaker 1: So so who is the opposing side of this? Black men?

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Speaker 1: But it's just because he's supposed to be one of

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Speaker 1: we do. They do. They absolutely do, exactly, so you

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Speaker 1: So you about to date other I mean, well, you

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00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: an't about to date nobody, but if you were, if

426
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 1: you were single or you would you would consider dating

427
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: outside of your race. Yes, I wouldn't consider dating outside

428
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 1: of my race, but that to be my first preference.

429
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You don't know who who

430
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 1: will come into your life. But I'm not just gonna

431
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: block out anybody else just because I'm you know, I

432
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: feel like one men of other cultures are intimidated by

433
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: my butt side, like they'd be like, yeah, no, I

434
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,880
Speaker 1: can't do that. I'm gonna keep on going. I ain't

435
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: even gonna be able to play with her like that.

436
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: So I don't really have men of other I do

437
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: have some white boys every now ready and split dark oak,

438
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: But for the most part, I only get black men

439
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 1: who are even trying to, you know, push up. Well, Okay,

440
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 1: so one day there's a there's a wine bar. I

441
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: used to like to frequent a lot so pizza like

442
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 1: little toppers and show like that. So I would go

443
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: in there and I was talking to the guy who

444
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 1: owns this, an Egyptian guy, and he was saying, he's

445
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 1: always an interested in black woman. He doesn't know how

446
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: to approach us. And also the reason why he doesn't

447
00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 1: approach black women because he feels inadequate in the dick department.

448
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: Because in their minds, all black men just got these

449
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: big dumb dicks. It's not true. So they just feel

450
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: like they won't measure up or they won't be able

451
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 1: to satisfy a black woman. And that might be true too,

452
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: but the per capita, the black men got the biggest dicks. Yeah,

453
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: but all black men don't have big dicks. No, that's

454
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 1: a lie. Exactly on average, so per unaverage, black men

455
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 1: have largernesses, they're larger endowed. Yeah, so that intimidates others

456
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 1: especially and then when you gotta put a big old

457
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: but on top of that, chill my dick, I'm gonna go.

458
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep on walking. I ain't even gonna play

459
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: with her. Look, but I have black men being like,

460
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,920
Speaker 1: yeah I can. But black men even with the littlest

461
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: dicks that they feel like they just want a big booty. Bitch,

462
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: you don't even got enough dick for that big booty.

463
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: So at least the white guys or whoever else they

464
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: do know they're limitations black men, and they'd be wanting

465
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: you to uh act like they tear your ship up,

466
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: so you'll be in there like yeah when I did,

467
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: ain't doing ship and in your group chat later big

468
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 1: you know, I came over there with the vibrator your

469
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: dad vibrated in the whole bag this naked listening at

470
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: the bathroom door. But let me tell you, I always,

471
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: if I like you, and let's say this sex isn't

472
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: that great, I'm gonna make you feel good. I'm definitely

473
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: always gonna make you feel good. I'm never gonna make

474
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: you feel like you know. There was one time where

475
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: I told him get his stick was trash, but I

476
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: said it in a nice way because I liked him.

477
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 1: This is how I said it. Hey, baby, come here,

478
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 1: sit down. I want to talk to you just for

479
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: a second. What's up? Baby's um, but I'm about to

480
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: say it's gonna be uncomfortable for you, and it's uncomfortable

481
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,719
Speaker 1: for me. But because I care about you, I just

482
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 1: feel like this is something that I should just say

483
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: to you. Just spit it out. What do you want

484
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: to say? Baby? When we have sex, it's over really

485
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: really quickly, and like right when I'm getting warmed up,

486
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: you're already done, and I'm just not satisfied at all.

487
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: Like we have sex for like maybe five minutes and

488
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 1: then it's over. Hell no, that's selfish, or maybe he

489
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: just can't control he comes in. He would come in like, so,

490
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: wasn't it a little No? No, he had a nice

491
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: size package and we had like super passion. I mean

492
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 1: it'd be like TV, like were walking the door, tuking

493
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 1: each other down and knocking it off the wall. And

494
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: then he put that four minutes tops, it's just a

495
00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: animate it's over. I'll be like, damn no, hell no,

496
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: y'all don't need to have skip the four play then,

497
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: so he wanted more time? No should I shouldn't have

498
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: to do that. So let's listen. He got up from

499
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: the chair, he walked to the kitchen, and I was

500
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: just watching him. He didn't say a word. He poured

501
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: him a glass of water. He stood at the sink,

502
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: he drank the water. He didn't open his mouth, and

503
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: I was just like sitting there like in suspense, like

504
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: say something. And then finally he said, I ain't never

505
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: had a bitch say nothing like that to me before.

506
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: And you know what, is he gonna blame you with

507
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm bitches because he don't know the truth, and grabbed

508
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 1: his keys and walked out. Left. You talked to him again? Yeah,

509
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: I talked to him after that. He didn't want that.

510
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: He never he never mentioned what I said to him though.

511
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: It was like I never even said that path and

512
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,719
Speaker 1: then brought that same whack ass dick back. I was like, oh,

513
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't hear me. I I found him two

514
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: more times and then I had to give him back

515
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 1: to the streets. I really liked him, like I wanted

516
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: him to be my boyfriend, but that wasn't gonna work.

517
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: So this is our fault that these needs to be

518
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: out here thinking they're busting ship down because they just

519
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 1: be pretending because they like an I never heard nobody

520
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: saying no because they probably was pretending like that Dick

521
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: was enough because they liked you and the Pickens sucking

522
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 1: slim out here, Better go get you a white man

523
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: who could suck your a long time. Basically, it's what

524
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: that story was about. Oh I changed his name to

525
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: four minutes, shorty foe minutes, and it was so like

526
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,439
Speaker 1: it was so passionate, that everything was passionate between us.

527
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: But the dick was trash. It was and nobody had

528
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: ever told him before. That's crazy. That's the women. We

529
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: have got to stop doing that. Ghosted. I'm pretty sure

530
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: he didn't got ghosted before. Maybe she just didn't verbally

531
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: tell you but when she But I liked him a life.

532
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: I liked this personality. I felt like we matched aesthetically,

533
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: like you know, we look good together. But I can't

534
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: live like that. You cheat. I would cheat on him,

535
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: be sexually frustrated, nigga, what you want to eat? Right

536
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: low black? As before, while he was standing at the

537
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: stint quiet, I did suggest, like, maybe before you come over,

538
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: you could just beat off so you will have released

539
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: already in that way, you won't need to. He just

540
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: didn't give a funk about satisfying it. Didn't know he

541
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: has some growing to do. I don't know if I

542
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: don't know if he could control it though, and I'd

543
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: be looking down at my couchie like damn, my know

544
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: was good, But he needs to try an intercom. You

545
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: ever heard about that intercomet intercom like you please come

546
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: to the office. Intercome, like right when you're about to

547
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: you just hold it back and let the adrenaline go down.

548
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: Also like think about babies, grandma's and stuff like that. No,

549
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, I guess whatever you got to think

550
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: of to turn you off right quick and then get

551
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: back into it. You want to just come and not

552
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: let a bit come like what at all? Just four minute?

553
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 1: We never it would be like we'd be making out

554
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: for like eight minutes, kissing and sucking on each other

555
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: and all kind of stuff, and then as soon as

556
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: the sex starts is over, I mean over over Like this,

557
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: he would have not got another trial because if he

558
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: didn't receive I know, I got that good stuff. So

559
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 1: I would be like, Okay, you got to get adjusted, baby,

560
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: I understand. I know you gotta get adjusted to all

561
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: this goodness and all this passion. So I'll give you,

562
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: you know, a few adjustments. The hell we started talking

563
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: about this one Nicke dick for twenty minutes. I know

564
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: it was black dick too, bringing it back to our talet. Oh,

565
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: because I mentioned the Egyptian guy, So maybe I have.

566
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I've dealt with some beautiful white men, some

567
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: very handsome white men. But it's a disconnect. Yeah, there

568
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: was a disconnect. You know, updated a white guy before

569
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: like tried to hang out. But I don't know, it's

570
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: just different. It's just different. Yeah, it's cultural differences. This

571
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: is one white guy. We were hanging out. We went

572
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: on a couple of days. He was he looked like

573
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: Captain America. Bitch. This white man was fine, okay, And

574
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: he called me early one Saturday morning. He's like what

575
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: you're doing? And I was like nothing. He was like,

576
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: you want to go to the mall? What do it

577
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,719
Speaker 1: mean when you asked the black bitch if she want

578
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: to go to the mall? He got to buy some ship. Girl,

579
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: He did not buy me ship. I was so bad.

580
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I know, your motherfucking playing with me.

581
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: Don't get me out of my bad on the Saturday morning,

582
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: and don't offer to pay for none of this ship?

583
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: By what the funk was y'all looking there for? When

584
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: the shopping, just walking around. I bought my whole ship

585
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: and got back in my car and left. And then

586
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: we were at the register and I was like waiting

587
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: and he was waiting and both of his way. She

588
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: was like, the total is three eight one. I was

589
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: looking at him, he was looking at me, bitch, and

590
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, you're not gonna pay for this,

591
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: And then he was like maybe a joke. He was like, Oh,

592
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: I think I must have left my wallet in the car. Oh,

593
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: you got me fucked up. Don't ever ask you to

594
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,239
Speaker 1: go to the mall with first of all, to pay

595
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: for slavery reparations. If I with a white man, I

596
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: want reparations nothing. He's not about to play with me,

597
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: like we're gonna go to the mall? Why did you

598
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: invite me here? And I had to educate, Hey, yeah,

599
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: that uses taxes. Any woman black or white to them

600
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: all and not offered to buy the ship anything, right,

601
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: y'all could have went to fucking Starbucks, right if you

602
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: just want to hang around you for the day. See,

603
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: that's weird. A black man ain't will never do no ship, Like, no,

604
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: we know better than Nigga know. If he ain't got

605
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: the money, he's not about to invite you to the

606
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: damn Mama of all places. See, that's the type of

607
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: she like. That's what y'all bit just gonna deal with.

608
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: I just feel like there's a certain type of black

609
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: woman that dates black white white men in particular, because

610
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: that's what the title was, and that's okay. I just

611
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: always feel like, and don't get mad at me, y'all,

612
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: but if you do, fuck you. Um, it's always a

613
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: slim black bitch with big old titties and synthetic weaving

614
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: and nappy leave out. Oh no, that one girl that's

615
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: dating that white boy that played for the Chiefs, she's

616
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: a bad beach and he is fine as hell. Yeah,

617
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: but the majority synthetic girls shut up the way. I

618
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: wanted to make a joke about marrying uh pigtail. Oh no,

619
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: that's awful, that's just that's that's racy with a pigtail

620
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. Did you're talking about

621
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: these bitches leaving leave out? They leave out bit happy?

622
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: I can say that I cannot. Okay, I'm sorry, girl.

623
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: These girls was pretty, but I did notice that the

624
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,719
Speaker 1: majority of them wore darker skin. A lot of them

625
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: had the story that you know, the black boys when

626
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: they were in high school were the main ones that

627
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: would tease them, talk about their lives, talk about their nose,

628
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: all the things that we call beautiful. Yeah they're beautiful.

629
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: Big lips are beautiful. Now you know what I'm saying.

630
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: Like things change over time, people become less dumb, ignorant,

631
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: anyway less ignorant. But I did notice that the majority

632
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: of them were darker skinned women who talked about being

633
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: teased by black men, and I think that darker black

634
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: men may also feel the same way. Going through school,

635
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: people talking of all saying all type of crazy shit

636
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: about you row up, you get rich, and yeah, and

637
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: then you buy the light skinned bitch you always wanted

638
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: or the white bitch you always wanted. Yeah. I can't

639
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: see that, but that's something you need to work out

640
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: through therapy. I will not say all black men are

641
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: bad because this is what you experienced with a couple

642
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: of black men that you let have access to you.

643
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: Because if you and I've said this before, if you

644
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: have never experienced a good black man, chances are you

645
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: ain't ship right. Anytime you say all of anything is

646
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: good or bad, you sound ignorant to me, all white

647
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: people are bad, all black people are bad. Like, that's ridiculous.

648
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: You can't categorize everybody is one thing. It's just stupid. Now,

649
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,720
Speaker 1: do I want to date any of y'all? No, just black,

650
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 1: But it's not I want to have children with a

651
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: black man. Yeah, I want some. I want some kinky,

652
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: curly hair babies. They're talking about celebrities and you're looking

653
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 1: at celebrity relationships the richard black men and how they pick,

654
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 1: you know, even even celebrities the majority of them, or

655
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: with black women. But it's it's all involved in money.

656
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: So all men, all women want to high value man.

657
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: So are y'all saying that black men are incapable of

658
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: being high value? Is that what you're really saying? That

659
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: would be That would be fucked up. I know. But

660
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: there was one time I was watching and I was

661
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,959
Speaker 1: scanning the audience, and I was looking at the woman

662
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: that wasn't sitting next to them black men and a

663
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: lot of chocolate. That's all I'm saying. Also, think about

664
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Speaker 1: who are these people around. Once you get to a

665
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: certain status, you you live in neighborhoods where there are

666
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: no black people. Black people just love. Oh, I ain't

667
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 1: no black people my neighborhood. I aspired to live in

668
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 1: a neighborhood with a bunch of black people, would have checked.

669
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Speaker 1: That's that's my goals. Like you think you the ship

670
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: because you have no black neighbors, because you get the remove,

671
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 1: will yourself your children go to all white? What are

672
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: y'all saying about black people? Right? What do you what

673
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: are we really talking? You know, that just depends on

674
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: what's because there is like, uh, in bigger cities there

675
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: are a fluent black, a lot of fluent Black neighbors.

676
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 1: You know. Well, I can only think of like Atlanta

677
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: has a lot of a fluent black neighborhood, and maybe Potomac, Maryland.

678
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: I know Sharlotte has one affluent like an older black neighborhood,

679
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 1: but they're really Chicago has a fluent black neighborhood in

680
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,919
Speaker 1: Chicago to I'm sure, well, Baldwin Hills, that's a fluent black. Yeah.

681
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: I mean we weren't name in five places in this

682
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: country exactly. So I feel like if you are really

683
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: for the economic advancement of black people, you would not

684
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: be talking this type of bullshit. I am a firm

685
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,479
Speaker 1: believer that you cannot sleep white and be pro black.

686
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: I don't care who says what a who feels a

687
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: way about that. I don't give a fuck. One of

688
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: the guys I used to day, he became he got

689
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: really pro black. He's watching all those I can't remember

690
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,720
Speaker 1: the name of those videos, documentaries, and he was watching

691
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: all that. He was like sup. And then his next

692
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: baby mama was a white woman. I was like, now,

693
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: ain't that a be what they call those uh hotel

694
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: I will continuously try with a black man, and I

695
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: will continue to love black man like I've never been

696
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 1: hurt before. Me too, And I will continuously to speak

697
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: life into y'all and love y'all forever. There's nothing that's

698
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,959
Speaker 1: ever going to change that. Now, I'm gonna let nobody

699
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: shoot on me and tell me he's reading right. I'm

700
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: not gonna let anybody, no, no black man can do

701
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: that to me. No white man can do that to me.

702
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna just you mean hypothetically, are you're

703
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: not shut up? Okay, you're not, no girl, I'm not

704
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 1: there yet. I tried one time, I do it. I

705
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: would like, that's what you want. Hold on before we

706
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 1: get into anything else. Let's pay some bills real quick.

707
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: So back in two thousand and eighteen, I tried to

708
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Speaker 1: go on the show Married at First Sight. If you

709
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 1: watch the Charlotte episode, you'll see me in the beginning

710
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: or whatever trying to snatch me in there. But I

711
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: was not casted, and during the casting I made it

712
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: very far. I made it to like right before they

713
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: picked people, and they told me, like you know, they

714
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:25,760
Speaker 1: asked me, was I exclusive to black man? And I said,

715
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: before I answered, that was like, before you answer, we

716
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: just want you to know that if you are, that's

717
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: not a problem. But if you made the dating pool

718
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 1: smaller for yourself and getting casted for this show, if

719
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: you are exclusive to black man, I was like, I

720
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:50,959
Speaker 1: gotta be totally honest with your dr peppers. Y'all can't

721
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: put me with nothing but a black man. I'm sorry,

722
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, And that's why I was only in

723
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 1: the first episode about if you blake bit, you'll miss

724
00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: me about ten seconds in the beginning. So I mean, okay,

725
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: So that's essentially what these women are saying, like we

726
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: aren't we're not gonna why should we die single because

727
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 1: we can't find a black man. We need to broaden

728
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: our horizon and did outside our race. I wouldn't necessarily

729
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: say a white man, but yeah, so look, those are

730
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: those people are supposed to be like professionals at what

731
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: they do, matchmaking, and they have some type of signs

732
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: figured out based on your personality and all that ship.

733
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: Your personality may not match with a black man. I

734
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: don't know. My personality did not match with the black

735
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: men who signed up to be on the show. The

736
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: type of nigga that I like would never go on

737
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: married at first sight. That's all that is. It's hard

738
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,839
Speaker 1: to get a niggnna marry you after five years you're

739
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: talking about married at first sight. Shame. So just be

740
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: with whoever you want to be with, but just justified

741
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: by shipping on another group of people fun the colors

742
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: of the rainbow for I care, I don't care, But

743
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 1: don't talk about my black man because that's the problem.

744
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 1: We all need help, we all need to struggle together.

745
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: We just can't give up on each other, and we

746
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 1: can't publicly be trying to embarrass and talk to it

747
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: about you. And I know we talked back like we

748
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 1: need to, saying all types of sh it on here,

749
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 1: but I don't know I just feel I feel some

750
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: type of way with other people do it. We can

751
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 1: talk to you about black men, but you bad not

752
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: bit we didn't have a podcast. I mean, we need

753
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 1: to have an episode where we just talked to it

754
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: about black women. Talked a little bit of shit about

755
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 1: black women today. I guess we talked to about black women.

756
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: We equal opportunists, like talk about everybody. Yeah, because we

757
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,280
Speaker 1: definitely ain't perfect, and again, we are responsible for these niggves,

758
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: so we obviously need to raise the standard. We need

759
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: to all get on one accord, and fort is not.

760
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: I don't know who came up with that. I got

761
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:04,720
Speaker 1: to raise the minimum pussyway because that's definitely minimum pussy

762
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: wayes Okay, if y'all accept the forty dollars, I'm mad,

763
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: But that's off the topic. I keep getting off the topic,

764
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I'm gonna keep listening tonight. I

765
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: want to see, I want to understand. I want to

766
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: better understand where these women are coming from. Those women

767
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: have their preference, and I understand their grievances. I just

768
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: don't think you should punish a whole group of people

769
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: based off your experiences with a few. You're ignorant and

770
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: that's it. Well you you update me because clubhouse be

771
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: wearing me out. Yeah, it's a lot of it's like

772
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: information overload a lot of time. I love it though,

773
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: So we hope you guys enjoyed this episode of We

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Speaker 1: Talk Back. Tune in next week. We are going to

775
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Speaker 1: have a psychic on who's gonna tell our future? And

776
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Speaker 1: let me know when I'm gonna get man And I

777
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: want to ask the sack here, like why don't you

778
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,560
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779
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,759
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