1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 3 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. There's certain special relationships in 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: your life that everybody immediately understands, like the relationship between 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: a father and his daughter. Yeah, that's me, Or the 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: relationship between a coach and his players. All right, definitely 7 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 1: the relationship between a housewife and the hunky air conditioning maintenance. 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 3: Are you talking about, Jim? 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, Jim, you won't believe it, but it broke again. 10 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 4: This week. 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: I guess you could come back over a. 12 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 5: Unit fixed. 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: It's just so. There's also a special bond between two roommates. 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love mine. 15 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: Brook still have a. 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 3: Roommate to borrow the other person's clothes to be a 17 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 3: good roommate. 18 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she still yells at him to do his dishes. 19 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 4: All the time. 20 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Allison, is worried about the bond 21 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: that she has with her roommate that they may have 22 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: hit a little bit of a rough patch. She's looking 23 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: for some hell today, Alison. Welcome to the show. 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 4: Hey guys, love the show. 25 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you. Now, this roommate is an actual roommate, 26 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: not like a relationship that you're. 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 4: In, right, No, it's my roommate. We've been rooming together 28 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 4: well over a year. 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, were you guys friends prior to moving 30 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 3: in together or not? 31 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 4: We knew of each other. I wouldn't say we were 32 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 4: a friend. 33 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 3: Okay. 34 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 4: We had mutual friends, but you didn't necessarily hang out often. 35 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: No, okay, So what's going on between you and her? 36 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: What is her name? By the way? 37 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 4: Okay? Her name is Lily? 38 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Okay? 39 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 4: And like I said, you know, we weren't best friends 40 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 4: in the beginning, but you know, it's been a while 41 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 4: and over time we've become friendly. And I don't know, 42 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 4: like if I come home after work and she comes 43 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 4: home after work and we don't have dinner plans, like 44 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 4: we'll go grab dinner together. 45 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 3: Okay, So you guys do stuff together. 46 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're each other's last result. 47 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 3: Are you sure you're not in a relationship. 48 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 4: I mean, I guess it kind of is like that. 49 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: Okay. So what's the problem between you and Lily? Or 50 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: is there a problem? 51 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 4: No, there is. She's been acting a little cold to 52 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 4: me lately. 53 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 3: God, that's so uncomfortable. 54 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 4: Like hiding behind the bedroom door, you know, keeping a 55 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 4: closed door, which we never did before. We always had 56 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 4: that open. 57 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 3: Oh, you mean just like shutting the door a lot 58 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: instead of talking with her. I pictured her like playing 59 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 3: a one sided game of. 60 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 1: In the studio. Yeah, okay, do you know why she's 61 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: acting that way? 62 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: I kind of think I do, maybe, but I'm not positive. 63 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 3: Did you like borrow something of hers without telling her 64 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 3: or something? 65 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 4: No, I've been kind of hooking up with her ex 66 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 4: boyfriend a little bit. 67 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 3: It's kind of like borrow something that was her. 68 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 4: No, listen, the thing of it is is like she 69 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 4: shouldn't know though. She's like, I don't know how she 70 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 4: would know. 71 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: So was she usually asleep when this happens? Like, what 72 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: are you talking about? 73 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 4: Okay, So we were like hanging out at a house 74 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 4: party one night, and we've hung out a couple of times, 75 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 4: him and I and I actually am kind of catching 76 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 4: a little bit of feeling for him. 77 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 3: No, No, this is this isn't good. You're acting so 78 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 3: cavalier about it. But this is like I don't know. 79 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 3: This is like roommate code one oh one. You can't 80 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 3: hook up with each other's exes. It's just there's a 81 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 3: line drawn there. 82 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,839 Speaker 1: Well, unless you have permission to do it. 83 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: But she doesn't know. 84 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that, but she doesn't know exactly, Like I 85 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 4: haven't told her about it. He hasn't told her about 86 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 4: nobody's told her about it, so there's no way that 87 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 4: she knows. So I'm like, is she mad at me 88 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 4: for some other thing? And like I kind of want 89 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 4: to know what that is? If that's it? 90 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 2: Wow? 91 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: And so now you're emailing us for help about this? 92 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: What are you looking to do with your phone call? 93 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: Here? 94 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 4: I feel like I can explain it in like a 95 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 4: really decent I had a decent explanation. 96 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 3: So wait, you want to tell her? 97 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 4: I mean I think it's ninety nine percent that situation though. 98 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna have to tell her, but I 99 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 4: don't know how to have that conversation. 100 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean how long ago was the There's two 101 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 3: things like how long ago was a breakup? And how 102 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 3: bad was a breakup? You know, I think that that 103 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 3: will make a big difference. 104 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 4: I mean, I've heard two different stories, so they're bad. 105 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 3: Okay, so bad when they're not on the same page. 106 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: Oh man, I don't know this helps, but I feel uncomfortable. Yeah, 107 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: this is so awkward. 108 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, like I would pack to move out before we call, because. 109 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: Like you still want to live with her through all 110 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: of this. 111 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you. 112 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 3: Still want to date her ex boyfriend? 113 00:04:59,279 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 114 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 3: Okay, a cake and eat it too situation. 115 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 4: I mean, I wouldn't have any problem if the roles 116 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 4: were reversed, but I don't know how she feels about that. 117 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 1: Some honestly are different. So I will do. 118 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 3: Okay, maybe, but let's plan for her not feeling that way. 119 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I mean, if that's really how you feel, 120 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: maybe you can have an ex boyfriend of yours just 121 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: ready in your pocket to throw out there when we 122 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: call her little ex boyfriend swap. But we're gonna play 123 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: a song, we'll come back, We'll give you a little 124 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 1: bit of advice, and then we will step back and 125 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your 126 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: roommate to tell her, Hey, I've been kind of hooking 127 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: up with your explo my god. All right, all right, 128 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: all right, don't worry. This is gonna be easy, no drama. 129 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: We'll do it next. It's awkward. 130 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 4: It's Tuesday. 131 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. This is the first time 132 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: in a while that we've done roommates. When's the last 133 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: time that you did roommate? 134 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 3: Oh? 135 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: It's been a looney. 136 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:06,679 Speaker 3: Into their apartment. 137 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, well not anymore. Yeah, you ruined that relationship. But 138 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Allison, needs our help today to 139 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: call her roommate and admit to her, I've kind of 140 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: been hooking up with your ex boyfriend for the last 141 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: month or so. 142 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: Maybe let's drop that kind of Oh okay. 143 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I I've fully been hooking up with your boyfriend. No, 144 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: I think kind of help. 145 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 3: Maybe an ll in there too. 146 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 1: Whatever it is, Alison needs our advice on how to 147 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: deliver the news. Jose, do you have something for her 148 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: that could help? Yeah? I was thinking this all right, 149 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: So you told us ninety nine percent you think she knows, 150 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: but I still think there's that one percent chance that 151 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: she's upset about something else. So why were you? I 152 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: would play super dumb like I would just oh, is 153 00:06:52,960 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: something wrong? Did you ever date anybody ever you you've had? 154 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: That's too broad, Allison? What do you think? 155 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 4: I mean? I kind of like it. 156 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: Tell you, yeah, something better than that. 157 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, because she's gonna You're gonna get caught eventually. You 158 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 3: have the courage right now you tell her the truth 159 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 3: and then immediately you deal with the aftermath. Which is 160 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 3: you have to set boundaries. You have to promise her 161 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 3: that you will never bring the ex over to your 162 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 3: guys's apartment. I mean, nobody has to be the number 163 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 3: one rule. 164 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: Like it? 165 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: Then you know what I mean, Like, she's gonna be upset, 166 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: but she doesn't want to see you with him. 167 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: Okay, be completely honest and then have a brutal discussion 168 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: about boundaries and your relationships. 169 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 3: Just set the rules that you won't bring him over. 170 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: It'll make her feel That sounds like fun, right, Allison? 171 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,559 Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I guess we'll just see how it goes. 172 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: Bricks advice is like just say you're gonna keep umping him. 173 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 3: You're the worst listeners, I really am. 174 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: Apparently we need to have some talks about rules and 175 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: boundaries on the show, but we need to focus on 176 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: Alison right now. Okay, Sorry, Alison, I'm gonna dial your 177 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: roommate Lily's number and let you make your call. 178 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: You ready, Yeah, okay, all right, we'll jump on. 179 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: When we feel like you need little help. Good luck? 180 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 5: Okay, Hello, Yo, what's up Allison? 181 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 2: Is that you? 182 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 4: Yeah? 183 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 2: Hi? I'm sorry? 184 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 4: Sorry? Did I contr out a bad time? 185 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 2: No, it's fine. I just didn't recognize the number. Oh weird. 186 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 4: Sorry, I don't know what's up of that. What are 187 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 4: you doing later tonight? 188 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I'll be working pretty late today. I sha back. Yeah, 189 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 2: I promised I won't make any noise when I come in, 190 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 2: so don't worry about that. 191 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 4: It's all good. Well, what about my wow. 192 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: Tomorrow, I'm going to be busy. I have some friends 193 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 2: that have come from out of town, so we'll be 194 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: hanging out pretty late. 195 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 4: Oh okay, it's weird. I didn't know anything about that. 196 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 2: But I don't know like saying. 197 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 4: Okay, I just feel like you've been kind of weird lately, 198 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 4: like we're not spending any time at all together, and 199 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 4: I don't know, I just want to make sure everything's cool. 200 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've just been I've had a lot on my mind. 201 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 2: I mean, life has been crazy for me right now, So. 202 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 4: With me, are you okay? 203 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 2: Well, I'm still processing things, but I guess if you 204 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: want to know, it's kind of about justin. 205 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 4: Oh. Yeah, we've gone on. 206 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 2: We've been spending time together and he's not really my 207 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 2: ex anymore. What are you I mean, look, no, no, no, no, 208 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: you probably think I'm stupid. I mean we've had so 209 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 2: many ups and downs, but he's been sweet. We've been 210 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: spending a lot of time together lately, and so for 211 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 2: how long? Oh it's been about two weeks now. 212 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh I hate that guy. Yeah, let's 213 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: not let that conversation go any far. 214 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 2: Wait, what's going on? 215 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 5: Allison? 216 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: Hi? 217 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 2: Who are these people? 218 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 3: Just? 219 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 4: Sorry? 220 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: Too soon? Yeah, no, we're hey, Lily, you're on the 221 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: radio right now. 222 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 2: I do understand. I'm sorry. I was just talking to Alison. 223 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've we've kind of been listening in on your conversation. 224 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: We're Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and this is 225 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: a segment we do called an awkward Tuesday phone call. 226 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 3: Allison calls us for help. We didn't just app your 227 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 3: phone lines or anything. 228 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, it's probably a better way of saying it. 229 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 2: Thanks great, I'm so confused. She didn't ask me for help. 230 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 2: What's going on? 231 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: Allison was just a little bit confused about what's been 232 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: going on in your relationship, not with justin between the 233 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 1: two of you, because she felt like things a kind 234 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: of off whenever you've been in the apartment together. 235 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: Well, I had told her that I've just been a 236 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 2: little confused. You know about being back with my ex, 237 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: but I'm getting through it and it's been great. 238 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: Why would that be uncomfortable for you to bring up 239 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 1: to your roommate. I mean, he's he's your ex. 240 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 2: I didn't know how she feel about that because we've 241 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 2: broke up. She knows that we've had some rough patches together, 242 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 2: and Justin and I talked about it, and he just 243 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 2: said that it's better if we keep it a secret 244 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: between us right now. 245 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 3: Wood, Oh my god, you don't even know who Justin 246 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 3: is at this point. Allison, you have. 247 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 5: To tell her, Yeah, tell me what. 248 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 4: Well, I've also been hanging out with Justin a little bit. 249 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 1: I'm gonna break it today. I think we're going to 250 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: go for the max number. 251 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 3: God, Lily, she didn't know how to tell you. She 252 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 3: didn't know how to tell you. And Alison had no 253 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: idea that you two were back together. 254 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 4: No, I had no idea you guys go back together, 255 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 4: because like, you've been shady and not talking to me. 256 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 4: And do you think. 257 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 2: I've been acting shady? You've been acting shady if you 258 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 2: are spending time with him. This is something you should 259 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 2: have told me, But she was. 260 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 3: That's what she called us to do. She was gonna 261 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 3: tell you today. She's had a hard time figuring out 262 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 3: how to tell you that she was hooking up with 263 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 3: your ex. 264 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: Maybe it would sound better if it came from Justin himself, 265 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: because we actually have Justin on the other line listening 266 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 1: right now. What I'm just kidding, Sorry, no suns. He 267 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: sounds like the shady one and all of this. He's 268 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 1: playing both. 269 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 3: Of them yet both of you and trying to bring 270 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 3: you apart. 271 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 2: Alison, we literally live together. The moment you spent any 272 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 2: time with him, you should have told me, yeah. 273 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 4: Okay, But like, I don't know, he tells a different 274 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 4: story about how you guys broke up and everything, and 275 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 4: that you weren't really dating if he never actually called 276 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 4: you his girlfriend's convenience. 277 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's believe Justin and all of this. He 278 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 3: sounds like a real trustworthy character. 279 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 4: I mean I did, and like, I don't know, Like 280 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 4: I guess we all need to have like a talk 281 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 4: about this. I don't know how that's going to work. 282 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: There's a lot of communication that probably should have been 283 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: happening that didn't happen, And I think maybe the best 284 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: thing to do, in my opinion, is for the two 285 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: of you to get together and dump Justin at the 286 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: same time. He seems like the toxic person in this 287 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 1: entire relationship. 288 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, yeah right. I mean, who knows how 289 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 3: many other roommates he's dating on the side right now? 290 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 4: Too too true? 291 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 1: I mean he could really have a girlfriend, because you 292 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: guys are kind of mad at each other right now, 293 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,079 Speaker 1: but really, you should be directing all that anger towards 294 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: the person who caused all this, Justin. I mean, he's 295 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: the only one that knew what was really happening on 296 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: both ends. 297 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't even know if that's the case. 298 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: Really, Like what what I'll tell you this, We could 299 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: really use some more content on the show. So if 300 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: you'd like to do it on the show and do 301 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: a double breakup with Justin, I'm just throwing it out there. 302 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: Or start a three way relationship. 303 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 3: Oh that is Justin's ultimate fantasy. Yeah, he honestly thinks 304 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 3: that all three of you are going to be in 305 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 3: the same apartment at some point. 306 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: What do you guys think, Alison, Lily, This. 307 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 2: Is just a lot to process right now. I mean, Justin, 308 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 2: we've been having a lot of fun together in the 309 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 2: last two weeks. I really thought we could get this 310 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 2: a try again, and I just really hate I hate 311 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 2: what I'm hearing. 312 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 4: I mean, that's weird. Because I've been having a lot 313 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 4: of fun with him the past few weeks. 314 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: This is obviously a lot. So we'll step back. We'll 315 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: let you guys process this, but we're going to stay 316 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: in touch in case you guys want to come back 317 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 1: on the show and reach out to Justin with our 318 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: because I want to be there for that conversation. Jeff Also, 319 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: it's a requirement on the show. There's two single girls 320 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: on the line that I have to be involved, So 321 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: please make sure I'm in the room too. Rebound. 322 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 4: I don't know about that. 323 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 3: Let's find out. 324 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm ugly, all right, I know what. I hope your 325 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: breakup goes off. We have like seven sad people in 326 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: the room here. We get it. 327 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 3: Hurts brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 328 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: So that call happened a few weeks ago. Things were 329 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: definitely heated in the moment, but now cooler heads have prevailed. 330 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: We've been staying in contact with both Alison and Lily, 331 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: and they say neither of them has said anything to 332 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: Justin about what's going on. Yet and they're both down 333 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: to confront him on our show. 334 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it. We do it tomorrow. 335 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna do it tomorrow. 336 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 3: Yes we are. 337 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: And also, if any other women out there are also 338 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: see Justin on the dyll, call in you can join in. 339 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: We might have eighteen different women all calling and yelling 340 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: at one man at the same time. That's good radio. 341 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: You're married to Justin, you may want to call in 342 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: Justin King. 343 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 3: It's Justin Sucks FM. Tomorrow. There it is. 344 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, Justin you're going down. Be prepared. We'll do it 345 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: tomorrow on your second date. Update