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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us today. We're so excited to be back. Another

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Speaker 1: great episode.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, we got a very special guest today, but be

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Speaker 2: sure to check out our latest episodes because we always

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Speaker 2: have so much fun answering the questions, chatting with our

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Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation fans.

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Speaker 1: We do and today, Susan, we have a very special guest.

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Speaker 1: Please welcome from Grant Season Parisa. Welcome to Golden Hour, Paris.

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Speaker 1: How are you good?

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Speaker 3: You guys? Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: Every one of you are so beautiful. We have interviewed

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Speaker 2: quite a few and just one gets prettier than the next.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, thank you so much. I'm so excited

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Speaker 3: to be here today. And I also want to say

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Speaker 3: congratulations relationship.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh I guess that's directed as Susan Parisa. Huh your

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Speaker 1: lips to God dear? Where are you are you? Are

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Speaker 1: you in Michigan? Tell us where in Michigan are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm in Birmingham. It's right outside of Detroit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So tell us we got to get any questions here?

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Speaker 2: What You've got a ton of things to ask you

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Speaker 2: just tell us what you want to tell us first.

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Speaker 1: And then and then we'll drill you.

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Speaker 3: No perfect, you know. I'm just you have been busy working.

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Speaker 3: I've been trying, you know, to meet somebody.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, oh let's talk about that, Parice. I feel

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Speaker 1: your pain.

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Speaker 2: Expected.

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Speaker 1: That's Susan's moniker.

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Speaker 3: Now when expected, I'm not expecting anything.

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Speaker 1: So well, there you go. So I want to know

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Speaker 1: what made you because people ask us all the time

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Speaker 1: why we applied for Golden Bachelor? Why did you apply? Uh?

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Speaker 1: What made you apply for the show?

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Speaker 3: So it's actually, you know, a really funny story. It

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Speaker 3: was on my birthday.

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Speaker 1: When your birthday? When's your birthday?

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Speaker 3: March twenty first, Happy birthday.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm a March too, And yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Was just not in the best relationship and I yeah,

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Speaker 3: it was on my birthday. Just was not a good

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Speaker 3: birthday with you know, this person. It was just so funny.

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Speaker 3: I just I was on Instagram and I saw an

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Speaker 3: advertisement apply now for the Bachelor, and I'm like, you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm doing it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, birth time, that is exactly what I did. I

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Speaker 1: saw an advertisement on Facebook for Golden baucherl and I went,

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Speaker 1: I could do that. Click. I mean, I just didn't

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Speaker 1: think about it just clicked.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think about it. Yeah, I thought more of it,

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Speaker 3: just like you know what, I'm going to channel all

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Speaker 3: of this negative energy right now in this application and

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Speaker 3: you know, press end and I'm hope you know. And

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Speaker 3: I never thought about it. And then I you're back

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh wow, okay.

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Speaker 2: Were you broken up at the time of the location

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Speaker 2: or in the middle of something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. It was one of those relationships where

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I will fix him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Ossa, Pisa, it took me sixty years to realize

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Speaker 2: red doesn't change its color.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's just let's just give you that this tidbit

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Speaker 1: right now, Parsa. Here's where you can change on a guy.

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Speaker 1: If you're lucky, you can get him to put his

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Speaker 1: socks in the hamper. If you do not change his character,

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Speaker 1: lack of integrity, none of those things can you ever

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Speaker 1: change in a man ever.

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Speaker 3: Well I know that now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. So you're ready for the next one.

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Speaker 1: So I want to know if you could describe, like

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Speaker 1: in one word. We always ask this question, what was

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Speaker 1: your experience like on the Bachelor in one word? And

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Speaker 1: then you can expound on it.

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Speaker 3: Hmm. Life changing is two words.

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Speaker 2: It's all right, Well, that's all right, we'll take that.

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Speaker 1: Tell us how how did it change your life?

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Speaker 3: It was definitely nothing I ever can expect, and it

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Speaker 3: was you know, from day one, being a part of

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Speaker 3: such a great group of girls. Everyone was so welcoming

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Speaker 3: and you know, right from the start, like there's our

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Speaker 3: sisterhood and we needed that because none of us had

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Speaker 3: our comfort, you know, our family, our mom's sisters, best

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Speaker 3: friends from at home to help us through this you know,

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Speaker 3: dating journey, and so we definitely like relied on each other.

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Speaker 3: And it was just, yeah, an experience of I guess

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Speaker 2: Did you learn anything about yourself?

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Speaker 3: Yes, you know it was really interesting. I guess throughout

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Speaker 3: the process, I wasn't really aware of how comfortable and

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Speaker 3: open I was, But it was when I got home.

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Speaker 3: You know, you get your phone and you're going back

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Speaker 3: on your socials and I pulled up my social media

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Speaker 3: page and I'm like, wow, you know, it's funny, this

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Speaker 3: girl me on my you know, Instagram, that's not who

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Speaker 3: seeing like what I used to post, how I would post,

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Speaker 3: Like who I want, you know, that's what on your

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Speaker 3: socials what you want people to see, right, And taking

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Speaker 3: a break from that, living in the moment and just

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Speaker 3: being my true authentic self being accepted. I forgot all

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's interesting, it is, But don't you feel

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Speaker 1: like social media, we always, I think, at any age,

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Speaker 1: we put the life we want to have out there.

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Speaker 1: We put what we want people to see, and so

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Speaker 1: other people look at and say, oh, I want the

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Speaker 1: life that Parsa has, when really Parisa has the same struggles, right,

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Speaker 1: And so we put out there what we want the

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Speaker 1: world to see, not really necessarily the way our life really.

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Speaker 3: Is, no exactly. And that's when you know, like when

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Speaker 3: I meet people too and I'll tell them more about

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Speaker 3: why are you shocked? And any of that you know

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Speaker 3: from your social media.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to know more about your rocks.

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Speaker 3: Oh, thank you for asking.

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Speaker 1: I got a piece of I got a big piece

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Speaker 1: of Fool's gold pirite. If you need it to add

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Speaker 1: to your collection, I got a huge piece. Remember from that,

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Speaker 1: you got quartz? Yes, I got nothing crystal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I love rocks. I just think they're so beautiful.

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Speaker 3: I'm more like I love the geology behind it. When

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Speaker 3: I loved the study of rocks, like rock formations, you

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Speaker 3: know all of that. And I would go mining down south.

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Speaker 3: There's you know, some parts like in Georgia and South

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Speaker 1: And did you find them?

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Speaker 2: Did you find for diamonds?

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Speaker 1: That's not the part of the world diamonds grow? Wow?

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Speaker 3: So I also love entomologies like study of insects and arachnids.

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Speaker 3: I wish like I always wanted to just be a scientist.

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Speaker 1: When I was Wait, she is a behavior I want

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Speaker 1: this where I want to get to. You're a pediatric

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Speaker 1: behavior analyst. Tell me what that is and can I

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Speaker 1: send my grandchildren to you?

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Speaker 2: Or so?

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Speaker 3: I work in the field of behavior analysis, and basically

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Speaker 3: it's all about behavior change, which is why I thought

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Speaker 1: Was your ex eighteen months old?

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Speaker 3: They acted like it?

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Speaker 1: Well, therein lies the problem. Okay, go ahead, Sorry, keep talking.

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Speaker 3: But yes, like in my field, I work specifically with

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Speaker 3: So if it's something to do with you know, communication,

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Speaker 2: So you do therapy with them to try to change

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I work closely with like speech pathologists and

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Speaker 1: And I can't believe. I cannot believe you're saying this.

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Speaker 1: My daughter's uh my my granddaughter's birthday was a couple

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Speaker 1: saying that they but she didn't call it a pediatric

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Speaker 1: saying that that it's been the best help because it

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Speaker 2: It doesn't it feel rewarding at the end, like when

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Speaker 2: you're working with children like that? Do you want children?

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Speaker 1: Do you want children?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wait, I have to say, Susan yet another gorgeous, brilliant.

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Speaker 1: Not only is she gorgeous, I'm lovely. You are absolutely

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Speaker 1: stunningly beautiful, but she's articulate. She has a great career.

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Speaker 1: Like what is wrong with these men out there? That

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Speaker 1: was a question?

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you something. Is there anything at all

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Speaker 2: looking back that you would have changed had to do

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Speaker 2: it again? In my life in general, doing the show,

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Speaker 2: in the show, any regrets or any.

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Speaker 3: I never live with regrets because I look at everything

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Speaker 3: as just like a little bit experience, like, oh well,

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Speaker 3: next time, we won't do that.

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Speaker 1: Next time I'll do better, or I'll try to do better.

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Speaker 1: And that's all we can ask you.

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Speaker 3: You got to make those mistakes in order to, you know,

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Speaker 3: to know in the future. Yeah, I think the main

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Speaker 3: thing was I definitely I'm I'm not you know, the

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Speaker 3: think towards the end I did mentally, so I you know,

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Speaker 3: I did, and I think that interacted me because now

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Speaker 1: If you went, what would your strategy be, I'm serious

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. All right, what advice do

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Speaker 1: What says you? You have some good advice, Pertce.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure, yeah, self love and confidence. My advice is

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Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. And the thing PRI

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Speaker 2: Be comfortable in your own skin.

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Speaker 2: You can't pretend to be somebody else. And that was

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Speaker 1: What do you think about confidence prices? Do you think confidence?

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Speaker 3: I think that's attracted to a secure guy, and there's

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Speaker 1: I think it's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is all right. Now it's time to get

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Speaker 3: Oh? I'm ready?

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is from anonymous ladies. I found out one

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Speaker 2: What do I do? Here's the story. The other night,

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Speaker 2: my friend group and I were out getting drinks. My

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Speaker 2: phone died, so I asked my best friend Ali if

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Speaker 2: I could use her phone to show everyone at TikTok.

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Speaker 2: So she handed me her phone and went to grab

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Speaker 2: us another round while I looked for the video. Well,

445
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Speaker 2: so you forgot to switch back to her real profile

446
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Speaker 2: and yeah, I checked the page's activity to confirm and

447
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Speaker 2: it really was her. She came back before I could

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Speaker 2: find a video, so I just changed the subject. What

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Speaker 2: do I do now? I don't want to be her

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Speaker 2: friend anymore, obviously, but I really don't want to lose

451
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Speaker 2: my group over this. How do I navigate this?

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Speaker 1: Thanks?

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Speaker 2: Ladies, Wow, it's better than me that she slept on it.

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Speaker 2: I'd be there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, it's always smart to sleep.

457
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Speaker 1: Always smart to think before yes.

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Speaker 3: So my advice I always ask first when someone's asking,

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Speaker 3: you know, advice, I always ask what end result are

460
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Speaker 3: you looking for? And from there, yeah, you will know

461
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Speaker 3: how to navigate to get there. So she doesn't want

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Speaker 3: to be her friend anymore, which I'm glad to hear

463
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Speaker 3: that because that is not a friend. But it is

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Speaker 3: hard because you share the same friend group. So you know,

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Speaker 3: I feel like with that, it's asking yourself questions are

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Speaker 3: you okay? You know, with acknowledging you know this is

467
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Speaker 3: the situation, bringing it to her attention and just saying

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Speaker 3: like I just this is not what I want in

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Speaker 3: my life.

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Speaker 2: And so I you know, I would you ask her why?

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Speaker 2: Why would you do that to me? You've been sending

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Speaker 2: me hate mail from a fake account?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well wait a minute, wait a minute, wait, but

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Speaker 1: Paris said all that truth is but pric well, you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't address it right then and there, would you? Because

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: No, because also to the setting, if you want to

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Speaker 3: recognize to the setting, it's like, okay, this is time

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Speaker 3: and place. I don't think we would you know, would

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Speaker 3: be productive for us to like, you know, handle this

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Speaker 3: and I don't think I would get any of the

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Speaker 3: answers that I'd be looking for in this situation right

483
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Speaker 3: now too. But again it's just asking yourself. You know,

484
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Speaker 3: what's that result you're looking for? If you really don't

485
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Speaker 3: want to, you know, break up this friend group, lose

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Speaker 3: these friends, then you would have to ask yourself, are

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Speaker 3: you able to tolerate then her being present? And you know,

488
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Speaker 3: just you guys are still a friend group. But you

489
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Speaker 3: have to tell yourself, Okay, this is just someone who I'm.

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Speaker 1: The perfect keep them on the periphery. I always say,

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Speaker 1: don't ask someone that. I always say, don't ask a

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Speaker 1: question that you either know the answer to or you

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Speaker 1: don't want the answer to.

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Speaker 2: So nobody else feels like I do right now, like

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Speaker 2: I'm in I put myself in that moment. Yes, she

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Speaker 2: goes off to get drinks. I'm reading it. All your

497
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Speaker 2: friends are standing around. I'm in shock.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're not going to bring it up, Susan

499
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Speaker 1: right then and there, I hope you will.

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Speaker 2: She comes back, I'm going to hold it there and say,

501
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Speaker 2: do you want to explain this in front of her friends? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I would, I know you I would, I know

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Speaker 3: you know I will admit that would that would steel good,

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Speaker 3: It would really.

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Speaker 1: But what it gets you the ultimately the result you want.

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Speaker 1: That's always you know, what's the end game? Like you said,

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Speaker 1: so what's it? But you know what this whole conversation

508
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Speaker 1: brings me when earlier in the in the podcast, we

509
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Speaker 1: were talking to you about people say they're surprised about

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Speaker 1: when they meet you in comparison to what you put

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Speaker 1: out on social media. What do those people say, because

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Speaker 1: I'd be curious, like this is the kind of thing

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Speaker 1: when people have hidden accounts and such. So tell me

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Speaker 1: what people say that it's surprising about you that I'm.

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Speaker 3: You know, because I'm always posting the glitz and the

516
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 3: glamd because you know, don't get me wrong, I love

517
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Speaker 3: you know, getting dulled up.

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Speaker 2: When you're like yeah, yeah, yeah.

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00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 3: I love that When they see that, that's I think

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Speaker 3: that's all that they view me as is.

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Speaker 1: Like, you know, another pretty face, a pretty girl up.

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Speaker 3: Make up, you know, materialistic, superficial. You know, those words

523
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Speaker 3: are always like thrown in, but I mean, I am, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think that's only just like the tip of the

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Speaker 3: iceberg of you know, what I want to be shown.

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Speaker 1: Don't you think people who are who are thoughtful, who

527
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Speaker 1: you know, understand social media would say that's just one

528
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: aspect of her. I mean, I want to give people

529
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Speaker 1: credit and say they would see that you're a beautiful,

530
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 1: charming person, but you also so many other sides. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I'm wrong, but yeah, so you're saying people will say

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00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 1: that you're just this glamour girl. That's how they describe you.

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00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think the majority of the feedback i'd get,

534
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 3: you know, it's that which is it's fine because I

535
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 3: know too, Like you know, the people that are close

536
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 3: to me in my circle, it's they know who I am,

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Speaker 3: I know you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I always say that. It's it's I don't

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Speaker 1: care what the bots on social media say. I don't

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Speaker 1: care really what anyone says about me. The people who

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Speaker 1: know me are the ones I care about.

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Speaker 3: People in your life. I mean, like this is like

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Speaker 3: another world. That's right, it it's like that world's gone.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you. When we were on The Golden Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: I miss my phone at all. I never missed it.

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00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 1: The only thing I missed was I knew when I

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Speaker 1: got off the show, I had to deal with the

548
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: thousands of emails that had come in that I had

549
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 1: to delete once I got off the show, but I

550
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: did not miss it because I was in the moment.

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00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: People got to see the real me, so I loved that.

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00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: I loved it. Well, Anonymous, you let us know. Here's

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00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: the long and short of it. I would not bring

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00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: the other friends into it. Deal with it quietly by yourself.

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00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: Get a resolution that you can live with and let

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Speaker 1: us know.

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00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: Let us and I wish you luck and I feel

558
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 2: for you, honey, that's that's yeah.

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00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's terrible. It is horrible, but social media sometimes isn't.

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00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, regardless if you know, if it's a boyfriend

561
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 3: that you know betrays your best friend, like the best

562
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 3: if your world just.

563
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Speaker 2: Less friends are even worse. I mean that's your best friend, Yeah,

564
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Speaker 2: for her, and I'm sure it happens a lot.

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00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, let us know. Okay, So Parisa, you know

566
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: we've gotten to know you a little better. We want

567
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: to open the floor to you. Advice for us, questions,

568
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: anything you want to know about us, or advice you

569
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Speaker 1: up for us.

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00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a question sure in this has to

571
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 3: do with dating, So like with your approach with dating,

572
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 3: how much has it changed compared to you know, when

573
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 3: you were, you know, in your twenties, compared to now, Like,

574
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 3: how much had that dating world changed?

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00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: Because then we met people outdoors at a social event,

576
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 2: a bar, restaurant wherever. Now you have to be on

577
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 2: not have to. But most of it comes from dating apps.

578
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 2: I married people for a living, and nine times out

579
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 2: of ten, the couple that is getting married met online. Yeah,

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00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: I think the way of the world, I.

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00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: Think there's a I think Susan's right, but I also

582
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: think Presidrea is a push to meet people more organically.

583
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: I can say for me, I got married very young.

584
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: I was twenty when I got married by only ten

585
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: days and I was married almost forty six years. So

586
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: she didn't date, so I didn't date it. But I

587
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: can tell you the way I date now has dramatically

588
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: changed for me since I came off the show. I mean,

589
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm I've always been pretty clear about who I am,

590
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: but I don't you know, people say, oh, give them

591
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: a couple of days. Yeah I can. I'm pretty good

592
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: at sussing out pretty quickly, and so I'm out and

593
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Speaker 1: you know what I have learned. It's almost the opposite

594
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: for me pretty soon because I didn't date much, so

595
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Speaker 1: I had a very steep learning curve after my husband died.

596
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm learning how to date, and so I have learned

597
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: very quickly. A red flag is a red flag. You

598
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: never turn them green. You know. A yellow flag is

599
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: something to pay attention to. It could go either way.

600
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: I mean those sort of things that we talk about

601
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: all the time. I've had to learn really quickly.

602
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Speaker 2: And also we look for different things.

603
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: Right, I said, we're not looking for daddy. You know

604
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: we're not looking I'm looking for I'm looking for a

605
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: guy who would have kind of fun with, to travel with,

606
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: to have shared experiences with, to to be part of

607
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: my family, be part of his. Like Susan, I say

608
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: it ad nauseam, like this is the last chapter of

609
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: our lives. I wanted to be the longest, the happiest

610
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: and the best. Yeah and so yeah, But I do

611
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: think it dating will change for you as you get older.

612
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: I it's your dating for you different now than when

613
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: you were twenty. I'm guessing it is that she knows.

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00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 2: She's looking for something different like her.

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00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: Well, I know change, but do you still care about uh,

616
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: you know, the fun, the humor? Would you move for example,

617
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: would you move.

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00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: Ok No, definitely. I think that was another thing too.

619
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Speaker 3: You know, a few years ago, I was always telling myself,

620
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 3: I'm looking for someone to grow old with. But then

621
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:50,959
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, I think life, I mean, especially

622
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 3: during you know, today's climate is so it's just so tough,

623
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: and you know, there's so much negativity, and it's just

624
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: I'm now I'm looking for someone I want to stay

625
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 3: young with. I want to have fun with and be good. Yeah, like,

626
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 3: we don't have to your DMS.

627
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 2: Blowing up after the show where you're getting all kinds

628
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: of messages from strange men and no, not.

629
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: Okay.

630
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 3: I'm thinking I'm like, oh, like, if this doesn't work out,

631
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 3: like you know, it might meet someone you know through

632
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 3: Instagram and.

633
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Well.

634
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: Susan made a very good point on another podcast for

635
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: our age. Men are not on social media. They don't

636
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: know how to DM. They they're not on Instagram. They

637
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: might be on Facebook and they know how to have

638
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: the like button. But at your age, everybody's on social media,

639
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: and that has its good side and it's bad size right,

640
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: it's good at that At the same time.

641
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 3: I feel like it's tough now too, because I think

642
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: a lot of people rely on that and they hide

643
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 3: behind their screen. So now we're in public, no one's

644
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 3: coming up to me or anyone.

645
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I just well, wait, pray. So what do

646
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: you do for fun? Because that's another way to organically

647
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: meet people. How do you get out?

648
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 3: I love traveling on the weekends as often as I can,

649
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 3: going to new cities, you know, trying new restaurants. I'm

650
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 3: a huge foodie, so I love trying new.

651
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: Travel by friends that you go with. Yeah, that is

652
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: some funny. I was going to say, do you travel

653
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: by yourself? And Susan said, do you travel with a

654
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Speaker 1: group of friends?

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00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 3: Were also like having friends in other states is amazing because.

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Speaker 2: Then you just try to visit. Yeah, it's great.

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Speaker 1: Do you ask your friends to fix you like friends?

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Speaker 1: If you have friends in Georgia, do you ask them

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Speaker 1: to fix you up with guys?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'll ask if they know when you want to.

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Speaker 3: And then I just that hasn't worked out either, and

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Speaker 3: then everyone everyone's getting engaged now, and so it's.

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Speaker 2: Like that must put a little something in you too.

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Speaker 2: You're like, why not me?

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Speaker 1: My daughter said that That's exactly what my daughter said

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Speaker 1: when she was thirty, what's wrong and my daughters as

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00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: pretty as you are present. She was like, what's wrong

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00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: with me? You know? And I said, there's nothing.

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Speaker 2: Wrong with you. Expect that you met them.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, well yeah, she met a guy. They were

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Speaker 1: out on a boat on the lake in Austin with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of friends and he was he was, it

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Speaker 1: was his boat and so she chatted with him, and

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Speaker 1: she at first she thought it was sort of pompous. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: they fell in love and they're married and they have

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Speaker 1: a baby. So, but she didn't meet himuntil she was

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Speaker 1: thirty one.

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Speaker 2: I think, okay, you have plenty of time.

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Speaker 1: Don't rush it.

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Speaker 3: And then you rush especially too. It's just like you

681
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 3: those things you really you don't want to rush that.

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Speaker 3: That's forever.

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Speaker 2: Would you relocate you if you fell in love with

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Speaker 2: somebody that of course?

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Speaker 3: My family everyone's all spread out all over.

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00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Where's where's your dream place? What's next for traveling?

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Speaker 3: For travel? So I chew Montana on Utah.

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Speaker 1: I want to open to both the gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I want to do a hiking trip, horseback riding, just

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Speaker 3: anything with the outdoors nature.

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Speaker 1: Are you scarce?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I love Yeah, I love.

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Speaker 1: Utah's got some great scheme, yes, and so does Montana.

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Speaker 2: Actually, well, well you know what, I think you're absolutely stunning.

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00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 2: You are will fun. I'm the right person you will.

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Speaker 3: Both you ladies as well. I thank you so much,

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Speaker 3: and I hope.

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Speaker 2: You go to Paradise.

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00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope to paradise.

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00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 3: Wow. And that would be changing opportunity, you.

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00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: Know, life change, that's right, and you know what, it's

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Speaker 1: an opportunity and you never know what comes from up.

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Speaker 2: Don't miss it. You don't want to miss it, all right, guys,

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Speaker 2: believe it or not. That does it for this episode

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Speaker 2: of Bachelor Happy. Thank you so much person for coming

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Speaker 2: and just have good advice and just sharing your life

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Speaker 2: with us. We wish you all.

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Speaker 1: We loved having you, We loved getting to chat with you. Parisa.

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Speaker 1: Really you are lovely and intelligent and you are the

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00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: full package. So thanks for sharing part of your day

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Speaker 1: with us.

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00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: And then thank you for wanting to be a daddy.

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00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 2: You know, have a family with a beautiful wife and

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Speaker 2: a child.

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Speaker 1: You know where we're celebrating here, Parsa. We're doing it

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Speaker 1: for you a dm or but listen, thank you all

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Speaker 1: for joining us, and please be sure to follow Bachelor

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Speaker 2: to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour, or just dm

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Speaker 1: It's a perfect way to do it. And don't forget

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Speaker 1: to DM Parsa because she's a catch. Okay, listen to

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