1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the CLO our 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: chief love officers. 3 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 2: Harvey, you couldn't put a butet behind me. 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I know, I know, all right, Trent in Augusta. Right, 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: I've been casually dating someone, but we're not exclusive, and 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: she knows it. I was at her house when her 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: dad popped up and she introduced me as her boyfriend. 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: She said it to a close friend too. Is it 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: rude to correct her when she does that? 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 3: Well, you still her boyfriend, y'all? Just not exclusive? What 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 3: you got, she got to introduce you to somebody. What 12 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 3: she can't do is go, hey, this is Lester my 13 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 3: non exclusive. Yeah, you know you just got a title dog. 14 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: And you know, man, look, if I was her, I 15 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 3: ghost you because it's obviously you have no plans for her. Yeah, 16 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,319 Speaker 3: I mean it's obvious that you have no plans for her. 17 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 3: But the thing out some people is even when you 18 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 3: tell him the truth, they don't believe. Now, that ain't 19 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 3: your fault, because you've clearly tried to be forthright with her, 20 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 3: but she ain't trying to hear that. But now a 21 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 3: lot of people who think they can change your mind 22 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 3: if they just stay with it and keep loving you 23 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 3: and doing things. You're gonna change your mind. 24 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: You're not, but okay, all right, so all right, moving on, 25 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: Thank you, Cela. 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 4: Moving on to Misha in Baton Rouge. 27 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 3: Hold on, I got one thing to say. Why aren't 28 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 3: you just telling look me and you were not going nowhere? 29 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 3: It's just a thing. Now do you understand that had 30 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 3: that conversation with it and then see how far it go? 31 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: Now? 32 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 3: I know you probably think you had we just non exclusive. Yeah, 33 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 3: I'm cool with that. They ain't ever cool with that. 34 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: Boyfriend means something to him. Yeah, that word all right. 35 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: Moving on to Misha in Baton Rouge. Misha writes, all 36 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: of a sudden, my husband is asking for something he 37 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: knows I don't do. I don't know if he's on 38 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: a video or if another woman has done it to him, 39 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: whatever the case, I refuse to Why would this come 40 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: up after eighteen years of marriage? 41 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 42 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know exactly what you're talking about. I 43 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 3: really don't. I don't want to speculate, right. Oh, but 44 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 3: it's only one of two things. It's only one of 45 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 3: two things. 46 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: Two the two. It's only two things that you can introduce. 47 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 2: There's number two for show telling and uh, you know no, 48 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: Junior jumped in. 49 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're trying not to speculate, clo, but you can't. 50 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it ain't but two things. 51 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 4: After eighteen years of marriage, why. 52 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: I'm fascinated she ain't been doing it for that long. 53 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 2: I'm fascinated on that. 54 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 3: Let's let's just talk about this in terms of, uh, 55 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: because we got it, so you can understand why I'm 56 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 3: coming from. Let's call it number one and number two. 57 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 3: Let's just call the two items that we could do, 58 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 3: number one and number two. If it's number one that 59 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 3: you don't do, you're gonna have to make some adjustments 60 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 3: to that. 61 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: Now. 62 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 3: If you don't do the number two, I perfectly understand that, 63 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 3: because that's a little bit abnormal. 64 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 4: I'm very confused. 65 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'm trying not to be graphic on the radio. 66 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 4: And we appreciate that. 67 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 2: We appreciate that. 68 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 3: Okay, So let me put it to you this way. 69 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 3: If I'm going to the bathroom to do the number one. 70 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: Why is that and that's better? 71 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? Your examples, man, your go. 72 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 2: To I'm trying to slow down on the confusion. 73 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 4: Tell you what, I'll tell you what. 74 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: Well, me and Tommy, understand what you're saying. 75 00:03:55,640 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 4: We use whatever number one or two. She's not doing it, that's. 76 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 2: What Okay, you'll know where he got it from. Right, 77 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:06,839 Speaker 2: that's what she's said. All of a sudden, you've been knowing. 78 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 3: I've been doing it for eighteen years. 79 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: Eighteen Why are you asking now? That's her point? Where 80 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: doing it? 81 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 4: Well? 82 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 1: People change, people change, people change. 83 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 4: Then yeah, okay, all right, we got to I ain't 84 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 4: want to. 85 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 3: I ain't want to go to the car practice, but 86 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 3: I was down there yesterday. Moving on to ch word 87 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: down now. 88 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: Jack Wes in Minneapolis says, in spite of my wife 89 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: following me, so I went to a beauty salon and park, 90 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: so did she. She called and asked if I was 91 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: at work, and I said yes. She called me a 92 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: liar and accused me of cheating. I'm tired of her games. 93 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 1: How do I stop this madness? 94 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 2: Jock quid YEA. First of all, Jock quick, let me 95 00:04:58,640 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: ask you here. 96 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: You are, joh quaiz if you knew she was following 97 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 3: and you drove down to the beauty salon and then 98 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 3: she called you and asked you was at work? 99 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 2: And then you said yeah, And then she accused you 100 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,799 Speaker 2: a lion. You was lying? 101 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, damn daughter, you you you're not helping yourself at all. 102 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 2: You're reinforcing the doubts. So broh, I don't. 103 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 3: I don't know how you gonna how you're gonna get 104 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: to a positive by performing more of a negative. I'm 105 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 3: gonna trick her more into thinking I'm doing something. I'm 106 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 3: gonna look like I'm doing it and then say I 107 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 3: ain't just calling. 108 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 2: I thought you said He's supposed to lie? So was 109 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 2: he supposed to say the truth? But you but you 110 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: saw her following you? 111 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, so he was supposed to confess and say. 112 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: No, no, no, what do you mean? 113 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 3: He didn't he because why would you pull into a beautilu? 114 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 4: All the places you can pull into is a beauty slut. 115 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 3: You can stop, Junior. Read the thing again, call it. 116 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 3: This is why you don't do this. 117 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: Part of he said, I spotted my wife. 118 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 2: I spotted with my wife following me. 119 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 4: So I went to a beauty salon in park. 120 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 2: Ty I now, Junior, unfold your damn mom. 121 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 4: You're mad, right though? 122 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 123 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: Right, I hear what he's saying. 124 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 3: You see her and you put work. You didn't hear 125 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: what I said, why don't you listen? Turn your head around. 126 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 3: He got his hat on the back and he got 127 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 3: his armfolded, and it's the clo question just ain't for him. 128 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 3: He can respond if he saw his wife following him, 129 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 3: and he pulled his dumb ass down in front of 130 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 3: the beauty salon, and then she called him and then 131 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 3: he she said, well, you at worked, and he said, yes, 132 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: I'm at work. And then she said, you lie. He said, 133 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 3: he getting tired of that, but dog you to her 134 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 3: again and then you knew you wasn't man, You knew 135 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 3: she saw you. Why did you pick that time to lie? 136 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 3: To reinforce the distrust. 137 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 4: Because he listens to this show. 138 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: You don't lie, and you talk about lie to me. 139 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: But if you know she know you can't lie? 140 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: Why oh? 141 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 4: So their conditions to lying? 142 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: Okay, how to pick the place to. 143 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: Right now, he's right coming up the top of the hour. 144 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news for you on this ignorant 145 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: show right after this one. 146 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 4: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.