1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: Get your hands together, and we're going to start to a. 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: Party, the Elvis Duran after party. 3 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: Okay, you can't get rid of this bagles and I 4 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: love it. Okay. My next one is what's a totally 5 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: What's a totally normal thing that people do that creeps 6 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: you out? And I will go again first. 7 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Wow. 8 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 3: So just so you know, in case you're finally listening 9 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 3: to the podcast with Shame On You, Andrew comes in 10 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 3: occasionally and gives us random questions to think about, to ponder, 11 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 3: and then eventually basically starts an argument in the room. 12 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, Andy, You're welcome to restate the question what's 13 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: a totally normal thing people do that creeps you out? 14 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: And I want to go first? TikTok trauma dumping. I 15 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: hate it. I find it so it's not normal if 16 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: you're upset that your pet died, someone died, someone's house 17 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: burned down, and I saw them and the next thing 18 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: they were like and we wouldn't have gone it through 19 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: it without like our supplements. These supplements are great. They 20 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: give us the energy we needed. And I was like, 21 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: your house burned down, No, that's crazy, that's crazy. 22 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 4: I find it bizarre. I know we've talked about this, 23 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,559 Speaker 4: but bizarre when people record themselves crying, yes, or having 24 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 4: any sort of like emotional help, burst or fit, and 25 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 4: then they post it because there were so many steps 26 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 4: to get to that point, Like you felt horrible, then 27 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 4: you pulled out your phone, then you recorded yourself, then 28 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 4: you watched it and said, yeah, that's the thing I 29 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 4: should post, and. 30 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 5: Then you posted it and you tagged something in it. 31 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 4: That's yeah, that's crazy. 32 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 2: Normal? 33 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 6: Is that a normal thing to begin with? 34 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 3: Normal? 35 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 6: It's becoming normalizing totally. 36 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 4: I think like the younger people are the more it's 37 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 4: just like, yeah, that's what people do. 38 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: Crying on cameras, so weird and so vulner iel, like. 39 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 2: It's a funny one. The other day, this girl was 40 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: hysterically crying because her kid shit in the house and 41 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: like put the hands in the pants and wipe it everywhere, 42 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: and she was so upset and she's like, I don't 43 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 2: even know what to do, and she's hysterically. 44 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: Clean it up. I have to go clean this up. 45 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 4: I don't know. 46 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: I was dying laughing. It's always says terrible because I wasn't. 47 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: She was upset, but it was a like you know, 48 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 2: you can see the humor in it. 49 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 4: Later on, well, we recently found out that there is 50 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 4: an employer, maybe a former employee at this point, who 51 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 4: would go into the bathroom and record herself crying. Every day. 52 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 4: She would upload these videos of her crying, and she 53 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 4: was like, you have to come follow my journey because 54 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 4: she's just broken up with someone. And I was like, 55 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 4: things I will never do. I don't want to invade 56 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 4: your space like that. I know you want us to, 57 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 4: but it was very weird. No, I'm with you on 58 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 4: that one. 59 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: It's a journey. I won't be on. 60 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 3: There was somebody we all know that several weeks ago. 61 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 3: I saw a video of them crying about something really random, 62 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 3: and I'm like, I just don't know. 63 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 5: I don't think I could do that. 64 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 6: I really I couldn't. 65 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm an ugly crier. It is not a cute thing. 66 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: Over here. 67 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 4: My whole face swells up. I look like I got 68 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 4: sung by a bee. 69 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: Not Sometimes trauma dumping for me on TikTok or any 70 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: form of social media should just like save it for 71 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: a therapist or chatchy. Bet go talk to them. It's 72 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: a good time. Okay, restate the question, what's a totally 73 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: normal thing people do that creeps you out. 74 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 5: H I think one for me is use words to 75 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 5: describe something. 76 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 3: That you wouldn't normally use that word to describe. 77 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 4: I know exactly what you're talking about. When you call 78 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 4: a person delicious. 79 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 5: Oh my god, somebody I know use oh my god, 80 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 5: look at these pajamas, aren't they delicious? And I'm like, 81 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 5: not use the word delicious to describe clothing or yourself. 82 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I cannot stand that. I didn't really how much 83 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: I actively dislike that, But now I says. 84 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 5: It in front of you. There's words like that to 85 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 5: describe things that should not be used. 86 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the exact. 87 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 3: Word I was thinking of. 88 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 4: See, we're connected. I also think I have heard you 89 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: say how up? 90 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 5: I rage? I rage internally, and now it's going to 91 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 5: be externally. Somebody use the word delicious to describe something 92 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 5: other than food. 93 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: I cannot stand that. 94 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 4: Okay, what's your samuel, I don't know. 95 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: I'd have to think about it, Honestly, I don't know. 96 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: You're very easy going. 97 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: I think I am too easy going sometimes. I think 98 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: I try to see the glass full half full instead 99 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: of half. I mean, unless you ask my husband, he'll 100 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: tell me, I think. 101 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: I have one for you. It's people who dip their 102 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: fries in mayol do that's everything they do. Normal thing 103 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: the Dutch people that they live off mail. 104 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: If you well you've been over to in England. 105 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 5: I think that's the general condiment they give you that in. 106 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: The brown sauce. Yeah daddy, you called daddy sauce. It's 107 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 2: HP sauce. 108 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, Mayo comes on the plate before it ketchup. 109 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 4: Ever does us the thing that this is a very 110 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 4: very terrible one for me. But when people I know 111 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 4: in my real life ask me something about what was 112 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 4: said on the show, I'm like, don't listen, what are 113 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 4: you doing in my conversations? And then coming back and 114 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 4: ask me about it, like it's not out there for 115 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 4: the world. My parents will do it, and I feel violated, 116 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 4: and I'm not really sure why. Sometimes my sister will 117 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 4: text me stuff and I'm like, oh my god, you're 118 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 4: listening to the stomach. I don't mind if it's a stranger, 119 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 4: but when it's someone I actually know, I'm like, get 120 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 4: out of my business. I don't really know why I 121 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 4: feel that way, but I feel that way. 122 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 6: I have two petty ones. 123 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 4: Oh god, petty people making me. 124 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 6: When people chew on ice like ice chewers. 125 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: I get the literal goosebumps. What are you doing? Are 126 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: you chewing ice? 127 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 6: What are you chewing? 128 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: Eyes? I so agree with you. 129 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 6: And too much eye contact. I believe people should have 130 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 6: eye contact, but I can't stare you like at this, 131 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 6: look like this is getting weird. Now after five seconds, 132 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 6: I like to look away. 133 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: This is bad, and then every now and then looked at. 134 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 6: I like to look at people like glance a glance 135 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 6: to acknowledge yes, hello, But now try and say your 136 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 6: full sentence while looking right in someone's eyes. 137 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'll do that. I'll be long and my 138 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 4: eyes are big, so it makes it really. 139 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 6: That's creepy to me. 140 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 2: But I thought they said that when you don't have 141 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 2: eye contact it makes you seem less. 142 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: Like how would you do during a job interview? Would 143 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: they just be like he just kept looking please. 144 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 6: Get hired? 145 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 4: His eyes were fling that. 146 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 6: You normally would stare at a person if you're talking. 147 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 6: This is crazy? 148 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 4: Are they cute or not? 149 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: I mean delicious face? 150 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 5: Now, I know when Scary speaks sometimes he'll start talking like. 151 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: Look at you, and I'll look at you in the face, 152 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: but I don't, but. 153 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 6: I'll look away that. 154 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: I always thought he was just falling asleep. 155 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 4: A lot of times when people are trying to avoid 156 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 4: eye contacts, I'll move my face like I'm here about me, 157 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 4: I'm right here, Hey. 158 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 6: About yours already said, that's right, delicious, delicious. Everybody went 159 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 6: off with your Yeah, I was the last one. 160 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 5: Thank you, Andy. We really didn't have a fight this time. 161 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: No, no, I mean and look, we have prolonged eye 162 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: contacts of this doesn't feel weird. Delicious Well, having me 163 00:07:54,080 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: guys after party and