1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: Well, we gotta say happy birthday to our girl, Carla Ferrell. 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: It is your day to day Carla, enjoy, Thank you, 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: Charlot girl, Thank you morning crew. One time for the 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: birthday girl, birthday, Hey, thank you all all right, it's 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: also time for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: need advice on relationship, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 7 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYPM dot com 8 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: and click Submit Strawberry Letter. Poppa. Yeah, we could be 9 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 10 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you 11 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. This one could be it. 12 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: This could be it. Buckle LoVa, hold on tight, we 13 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is. It's a strawberry 14 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: letter to Carla. Right this one leftover, Lip gloss and 15 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: Lashes is a subject birthday girl, Lip spy Carlo. Okay, 16 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to say it. Okay, love jubber, lip glosses 17 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: lashes is the subject. We'll see if Carlo wrote it 18 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: or not. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty years old and 19 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: in the past two years I've been in four relationships 20 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 1: that didn't last over a few weeks. Nope, count Carl 21 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: out on this one. When I met these guys, she 22 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: didn't write it. When I met these guys, everything was 23 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: just great for a while, and then it goes south 24 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 1: because they can't be monogamous. The last guy I dated 25 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: as a nerd, so I figured he would be more settled. 26 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: He's thirty four with no children and he's never been married. 27 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: I found out last week that he loves the strip club. 28 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: One of my good friends went to the strip club 29 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: and she saw my new man getting a lap dance, 30 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: and she went and she sent me a picture of him. 31 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: I texted him and he said he was out with 32 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: his boys. He did not lie about being out, but 33 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: he did not admit where he was. The next night, 34 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: he invited me over for a sleepover, and we went 35 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: straight to his bedroom because it was late. I could 36 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: have sworn there was a tinge of foundation on his pillow, 37 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: but I did not want to be that chick that 38 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: looks for stuff at her man's house. I'm not a snooper, 39 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: but there are a few things that I couldn't overlook. 40 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: He had half of an eyelash stuck on his bathroom floor. 41 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: And I pulled it up and put it on the counter. 42 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: The washcloth I used had a pink spot in the 43 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: corner and it looked like leftover lip gloss. I lost 44 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: it at that point and I called him into the bathroom. 45 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: He got irritated and said he's single and he's had 46 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: women over there before, so yes, it may be a 47 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: little lip gloss stain on his towel, and the eyelash 48 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: could have been stuck on his shoe because he went 49 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: to a strip club the other night. He told me 50 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: I could stay overnight because it was late, or he 51 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: could follow me home. I chose to leave because I 52 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: was embarrassed at how I acted. He told me we 53 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: need to slow things down, and now he barely calls 54 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: Was I wrong for questioning him? What? What? No? Of 55 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: course you weren't wrong for questioning him. The fact that 56 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: you were even asking us if you're wrong, It is 57 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: a problem hate that women feel that they have they 58 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: can't question a man. Why would you be afraid to 59 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: ask him anything. He's just a man that you're dating 60 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: and more importantly, sleeping with, so make him accountable. And 61 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: speaking of sleeping with you, young women are moving way 62 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: too fast Okay, didn't you say you have four relationships 63 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: that only lasted a few weeks. That means you're giving 64 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: your stuff away too soon. You aren't getting to know 65 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: these guys. You're not making them work for it. He 66 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: was right. He is single and obviously at the strip 67 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: clubs and bringing women home. That's his right. If he's single. 68 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: You can't get mad at that. So if your issue 69 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: is you want a real relationship, a meaningful relationship, you 70 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: got to slow it all the way down. Okay, you 71 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: got to slow it down. He even told you that, 72 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: or you'll get the same results for the next two years. Okay, 73 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: it's not them, it is you. It's you. This is 74 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: not even your man. You guys are just dating. So no, 75 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: you weren't wrong for questioning him. You gave yourself away 76 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: to him too fast. Take these lessons with you for 77 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: the next time you meet a man. Take it slow. Okay. 78 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: And this man needs to clean up if he's inviting 79 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: women over his house. Nephew, what you got? I think 80 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: the problem is, uh, this one nastass man. I don't understand. 81 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: We got all this on the on the on the pillowcases. 82 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: We got some, but what what is this what is 83 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: all this? A nastass man? He ain't cleaned up nothing. 84 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: Somebody was there maybe a couple of nights ago. We 85 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: ain't cleaned up nothing. He think it's cool to say 86 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: we go to the ball room. We got we got 87 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: lipstick on the tie. I mean, do he have a 88 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: wash and dry at all? This is one nastass dude 89 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 1: right here. All right, we got we got our lashes 90 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: on the floor. He ain't swept up nothing. I mean, 91 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: let's quit worrying about it. If y'all compatible, let's let's 92 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: let's talk about how dirty and nasty he healed. And 93 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: that's and you was just in the bedroom and the 94 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 1: bath room. Ain't no telling what's in the kitchen, in 95 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: the living room. I didn't the garage. It's stuff all 96 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: over the place. He ain't cleaned up in a while. 97 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: This is what you need to be looking at. You 98 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: don't want no nash the man like this, Okay, And 99 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: that's what you got. Now the man does have a 100 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: right to do whatever you want to do because he's 101 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 1: a single man. That's not your man. This is just 102 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,239 Speaker 1: somebody that you was dating. You understand what I'm saying. 103 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: So what he does and who we bring home. That's 104 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: that's his visiting to you. The guys decide that y'all 105 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: are gonna be an item, and y'all are only dating 106 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 1: each other. But until the end, the man is allowed 107 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: to go do what he wants to do. Now, what 108 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: he does need to do is get a housekeeper and 109 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 1: clean all this mess up, because if he's the hand 110 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: of housekeeper, you wouldn't know about to all this here. 111 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: I don't understand all this, just this foundation on the 112 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: pilloq and then we got all this in the bathroom. 113 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: It's pretty nast to do, pretty to nash to do. 114 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: You got on your hands. I think you need to 115 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: find somebody for you, baby girl, Find somebody for you, 116 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: somebody that's clean. Okay, when you walk in there listening 117 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: to tell you something, this is your first son. If 118 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: it's donna smell like that fabulotion, butt on, boyd of there, 119 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: got to be fabulous. It's got to be the purple one, Shirley, 120 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: it's got to be the purple one. If it ain't 121 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: that purple fabulosa, get your butt out of there. I 122 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: am a fabulosa fan and a cloth rock fan. Bleach 123 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: all right them two right there? I got to have 124 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: all right? That is that's it from Tommy Fabulo and 125 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: some bleach and you got me you got to be clean? Hello, 126 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: all right, listen, we'll have part two of the response 127 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: to the Strawberry Letter today at twenty three minutes after 128 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: the hour. The subject is left over, lip gloss and lashes. 129 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: We'll get We'll come back to hear from Junior right 130 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: after this. Here's a wig and the kitchen pantry. If 131 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: you look in there, we'll be right back. You're listening 132 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: to morning show. All right, we're gonna recap today's strawberry letter. 133 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: The subject has left over, lip gloss and lashes. A 134 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: thirty years old woman wrote in she's been dating in 135 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: four relationships for the past two years. None of her 136 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,679 Speaker 1: relationships lasted over a few weeks because when she meets 137 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: the guy, she says, everything's great for a while, and 138 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: then it goes south because they can't be monogamous. She said. 139 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: The last guy she dated is a nerd, so she 140 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: figured he would be more settled. What what what gave 141 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: you that idea? He's a single man getting it in, 142 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: just like every other single man out here. He's thirty four, 143 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: he doesn't have any children, never been married. But she 144 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: found out that he loves a script strip club. Okay, 145 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: she's concerned that she's asking him too many questions because 146 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: when she went over his house late one night, it 147 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: was a booty call. Let's just face it. Call it 148 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: what it is. It was a booty call. She went 149 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: over his house. Uh, he invited her over for a sleepover. 150 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: She found lashes on the floor. She found lip gloss 151 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: on his um pillow or on the towel, foundation on 152 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: the pillow. All this stuff was in the house. She 153 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: questioned him about it. He got irritated and said he's 154 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: single and has had women over there before, so yes, 155 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,679 Speaker 1: it may be a little lip stain on the towel 156 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: or whatever eyelashes he goes to the strip club. They 157 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: may have gotten caught on his shoe. This is what 158 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: he told her. He got irritated. He told me I 159 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: could stay overnight or he would follow me home. So 160 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: she chose to leave, and she was embarrassed at how 161 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: she acted. He told her he wanted to slow things down, 162 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: and now he barely calls her. So her question is 163 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: was she wrong for questioning him? That is the question, Junior, 164 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: which you got We know who the girl is from 165 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: the strip club. All the evidence is here. Did anybody 166 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: see it? Like see somebody in that strip club got 167 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: one eye land because we got the other one. Let's 168 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: get down here and figure out who this girl. See 169 00:08:54,920 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: somebody got foundation that's missing. See the girl we're looking for? 170 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: Who we buy the fight is missing? All the stuff 171 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,719 Speaker 1: we had somebody ain't got they lifted. Oh, because it's 172 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: on the tie. We know who we're looking. Uh walking 173 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 1: into the club. Your friend took the picture, so we 174 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 1: already know what club we at. Uh huh okay, all right, 175 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: break down is Mersey Deeds? Hey, bring your water eye 176 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: lash having self out here, found dation missing, pig lifted, 177 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: get her out here right now? We got all this stuff? 178 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: Uh okay, we know who this is. It is you 179 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: wrong for question to him? Girl? Your man down here 180 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: with Marse Daves. You said I didn't want to say nothing. 181 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: You when you pick that out, start taking that eyelash 182 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 1: and holding up to people's faith, right, say what lift 183 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 1: they got it? Ain't you? Ain't you? But it is 184 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: must say that that foundation that's mentioned, we got that. 185 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: It's all the town. Hold that time. Look people face 186 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna figure out what girl your man missing with. 187 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 1: We got all the evidence. Alright, Come on, all I'm 188 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: saying is you're not wrong for questioning him. Your man 189 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 1: is out here with one of these strippers. You know this. 190 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the girls snoop. Get the 191 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: snooping because they snooped on me. Hell, he ain't special. 192 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: When you remember when we was dating back in the day, 193 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: my girl snooped on me. What made him think he's special? 194 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: She gonna snoop on him? He got an eye lad, foundation, lipstick, everything. 195 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: Let's get the snooping. Oh okay, yeah, let's go ahead 196 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: and get said. We we got somebody in that strip 197 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: club missing the eye lad. We know that. Come on, 198 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 1: see us side, Yeah, somebody in that strip club. This 199 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 1: is the foundation. We know that it's on the top. 200 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: Check we got that day and we need to feel 201 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: out what girl is is. No, you ain't asking him 202 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: a question. This man know he messed up. Just don't 203 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: get down to the box. Going back over there was 204 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: a strip club right back over there was he right 205 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 1: junior when he when he said that they need to 206 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 1: slow things down, that's what he told her. What you 207 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: said when you get caught with eyelashes in bathrooms on flowers. 208 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: That's what you know. Why didn't he clean up, though, Junior? 209 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: Why didn't he cleaning up? Asked because he net net? 210 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 1: Huh are you inviting people over your house and you 211 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: didn't clean up? Though? Does he just trifle? I don't 212 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: think he cleaned. To be honest with you, I don't think. 213 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: I don't think m Yeah, she needs to move on. Yeah, absolutely, 214 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: and uh because in the past two years she's only 215 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: had four relationships, and out of those four, none of 216 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: them lasted over just a few weeks. Okay, let's let's 217 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 1: let's let's go on and leave it out there that 218 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: it's probably that's about that. Something wrong with her too, 219 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: now that's going on. Yeah, I think it's her. I 220 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 1: really do think it's her. She's moving too fast with 221 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: these guys. She's moving too fast. She's definitely moving too fast. 222 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: And then the fact that she's afraid to ask them questions. 223 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: She thinks it's her fault because she asked them. You 224 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: can ask them whatever you want to ask them. What's 225 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: wrong with that? Right? Yeah? You got you got this wrong? Yeah, 226 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 1: she's blaming herself. It's not a lot of me and 227 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: love a woman with low self esteem. Oh, absolutely, absolutely, 228 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: And this is what's happening. Yeah. Yeah, you gotta get 229 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: with the real man who cherishes you, who cares about you, 230 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: respect you, all of that, and you have to respect 231 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: yourself and not just you know, keep going from guy 232 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: to guy to guy to guy. You got to slow 233 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: it down a little bit. You've got to slow it down, 234 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: young lady. Please please slow it down. Yeah, and don't 235 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,199 Speaker 1: be afraid to ask anything. Ask questions. That's how you 236 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: get to know people asking questions, you know. All right, 237 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 1: thank you guys. I think the woman still in the 238 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: house he just had to keep looking in the closet. 239 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: Most you're coming some Today's Strawberry Let Stevey at Steve 240 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry 241 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: Letter podcast please on demand and coming up at forty 242 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour, it's Junior and sports talk. 243 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.