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Speaker 1: I'm moving out, period, and I am not going to

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Speaker 1: leave the child defenseless and dead in the home. This

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Speaker 1: is from ask Sweets, great username and so sweet and

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Speaker 1: our precious mouth holes, our supple lips. Oh God, I

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Speaker 1: seventeen females soon to be eighteen drop the bomb on

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Speaker 1: my parents after work a few days ago. My parents

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Speaker 2: Damn, you are on your shit, chieven baby.

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Speaker 1: Dam It's also important to mention that I'm moving in

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Speaker 1: with my boyfriend Okay, eighteen.

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Speaker 3: Male soon to be nineteen, Maile.

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Speaker 1: I have two jobs and he is looking for a

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Speaker 3: Good, good gravy.

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Speaker 1: Y'all get in that rush the game over here, so

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Speaker 1: money would never be an issue. I think their biggest

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Speaker 1: problem is that I won't be here to be there

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Speaker 1: free of charged babysitter. I understand the parents. The parents

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Speaker 1: just want the kid to do everything. Listen, live in

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Speaker 1: nanny fo free. My younger sister is a year old,

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Speaker 1: and I have two twin little brothers. My mom works

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Speaker 1: don't want me to move out and stay away all

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Speaker 1: through college because they cannot seem to grasp that I

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Speaker 1: am adult enough. If they can't afford a babysitter, maybe

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Speaker 1: they shouldn't have had all those kids.

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Speaker 3: Maybe they should be taking financial advice from you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, you seem to know what you're doing. Shit together.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you should give them one of your jobs.

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Speaker 1: Now I know how to manage my money, take care

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Speaker 1: an accountant and she has already agreed to teach me

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Speaker 1: how to file my taxes. Look goodness, but my parents

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Speaker 1: really don't want me to leave. I can understand not

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Speaker 1: being ready for kid to quote unquote leave the nest,

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Speaker 1: but I am not the oldest, nor am I the youngest.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you gotta.

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Speaker 2: Geez a big family.

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Speaker 1: I have two older siblings, both in their thirties and

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Speaker 1: they left young too. This family has people in their

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Speaker 2: With the husband shooting boy.

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Speaker 3: This is crazy.

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Speaker 2: Are I like religious? Do they have they heard of condoms?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, dude, this is my opie, sweet sweet

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Speaker 3: Could you please write an update to this and.

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Speaker 2: Explain explain your familiar fracuation.

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Speaker 1: This is also great because we usually like have these

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Speaker 3: We literally please tell me ask you if it's the

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Speaker 3: same mom. That's like impossible.

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Speaker 2: I mean like years of fertility.

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Speaker 1: Maybe eighteen, like eighteen to forty eight. I mean that

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Speaker 2: And you're to answer this shit.

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Speaker 1: Opie says, I know that I am ready, but I

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Speaker 1: maybe say like, hey, this is when I'm planning I'm

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Speaker 2: And then maybe give them like a month of wiggle

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Speaker 1: Yeah, where it's like, Okay, I'll stay on for a

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Speaker 2: Because I'm leaving.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Sam, there actually is an updates. Oh oh,

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Speaker 1: they asked me not to work mornings eight to five.

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Speaker 3: What eight to five? That's not a morning, that's the

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Speaker 1: Hey, don't work at all please, so that I can

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Speaker 1: watch my sister in my own home. I wonder if

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Speaker 2: Her new apartment. Yeah what.

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Speaker 1: I would be one hundred percent okay with this and

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Speaker 1: She's not even a year old yet and gets into everything,

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Speaker 3: Your parents are really like bringing you out, girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love her at death, but it would have

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Speaker 1: not every day while she's working. I offer to help

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Speaker 3: My mom told me no.

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Speaker 2: But Yo, hope he's trying to do all the right thing.

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Speaker 3: Literally, like OPI, you're going above and beyond. We gotta

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Speaker 1: My mom told me no but complains daycare is hard

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Speaker 3: But I'm literally offering my money.

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Speaker 1: I know, bro, I would even let her pick the

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Speaker 1: A It's like seventeen eighteen year old daughter having paid

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Speaker 1: for Shame on you, parent, Yeah, you like just wrap

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Speaker 1: Opie ask sweets. Please please explain this I've dogged about.

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Speaker 1: Please give your parents a box of condoms. In addition

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Speaker 1: to giving parents condoms, Sam, what else should people be

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Speaker 1: giving Oh, they should be giving us their stories at

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Speaker 1: our slash Okayop show on redder dot com. That's right,

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Speaker 1: send them in Baby OKAYOPI and I the asshole for

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Speaker 1: saying I won't go to my sister's wedding after she

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Speaker 1: About three weeks ago, she sent me and my husband

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 1: I want to say, yeah, like she never reveals it,

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Speaker 1: She responded that no, it was not a suggestion, it

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Speaker 2: But you can't just demand a gift.

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Speaker 1: That's why it's a gift, I know, literally asking for

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Speaker 2: To like, Uh, that's that's some entitlement right there.

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Speaker 1: This could easily go on entitled. I told her it

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Speaker 1: They said, my sister is just being a brat, and

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Speaker 1: I should still show up and bring whatever gift we choose.

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Speaker 2: I see why it split.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so like that end bit is the reason

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Speaker 1: it's but like she should definitely still show up even

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Speaker 2: Totally, like everyone's an asshole here.

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Speaker 3: Everyone who's asshole, everybody.

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Speaker 2: Everybody in this story assholes. But I wonder what the

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Speaker 2: gift was.

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Speaker 1: I truly do want to know, yeah, and like to

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Speaker 1: so like when you go to a wedding, you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to buy a certain gift, and so maybe that's like

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Speaker 1: what's happening here is they have a registry and the

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Speaker 1: sister wants them to buy it off the registry and

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Speaker 1: they don't want to. I have to also assume that,

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Speaker 1: like she said, she sent three other links, so there

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be overseas shipping. So this is like an item

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Speaker 1: that is not commonly found in the US, Like it's

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Speaker 1: some sort of special unique like you know, cannot even

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Speaker 1: imagine what it would be. Maybe it's like some kind

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Speaker 1: of furniture.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great guess.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm go back to yeah, fan, you know,

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Speaker 1: like spices like mer what is mur you know? But

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Speaker 1: you know the Three Kings, you know what frankensense is.

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Speaker 3: I think they're like like an herb or something like that.

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Speaker 1: That's you know what I I think this would be funny.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure this joke has already been made, but it

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Speaker 1: just popped into my brain. So I'm gonna say that

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Speaker 1: I made it. I want someone to be like, I'm

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Speaker 1: giving you my gift of frank and Sense, and then

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Speaker 1: someone else is like, I'm giving you a gift of

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Speaker 1: like Cubert, and then someone else is like I'm giving

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Speaker 1: you a gift of Murr. That would be the ultimate plot.

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Speaker 1: We thought it was a plotost that you didn't show

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Speaker 1: up to the wedding like that. Yeah, I'm giving you

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Speaker 1: murders the whole nothing that's our no sleep like

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Speaker 2: All right, signing off,