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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on fribe's Biggest Stories of the Day.

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Speaker 1: As we mentioned, Pope Francis has passed away. He was

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Speaker 1: eighty eight years old. The Vatican's announcement comes less than

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Speaker 1: a day after the Pope made a high profile appearance

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Speaker 1: in public. Just before that, he held a brief meeting

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Speaker 1: with the Vice President JD.

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Speaker 2: Vance.

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Speaker 1: His death will prompt a period of morning after which

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Speaker 1: all cardinals under the age of eighty will convene to

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Speaker 1: pick the next leader of the Catholic Church. Typically takes

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Speaker 1: between two and three weeks for a new pope to

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Speaker 1: be chosen, and if you're not Catholic, they all go

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Speaker 1: into this like house, the castle, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it is, the Vatican, and when they decide, white smoke

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Speaker 1: comes out of this chimney thing, and that's when we

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Speaker 1: know we have a new pope. I guess they decide

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Speaker 1: amongst themselves, which.

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Speaker 2: I was just talking off the air.

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Speaker 1: I've been in one fraternity recruitment bid session where we

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Speaker 1: decided who was going to get in the fraternity and

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Speaker 1: who wasn't, And I have to imagine this is no different.

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Speaker 3: Didn't you feel awful about yourself? Because I certainly did.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so nasty. Yeah, like we

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Speaker 1: we voted not to let some guy's brother in an

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Speaker 1: actual relative, Like it was so bad.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean a bunch of twenty years.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you wanted a fraternity or sorority, you

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Speaker 1: know there's and it's different for sorority different from fraternities.

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Speaker 1: It's probably even different based on the fraternity. But at

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Speaker 1: my college it was Deferred Russia. It was January, so

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Speaker 1: you'd go there, you know, Frenchman year, you did first semester,

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Speaker 1: and then January you'd come back and everybody pretty much

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Speaker 1: had a good idea where they were going because you'd

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Speaker 1: been sort of recruited the whole first semester and you know,

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Speaker 1: they'd buy your beer and stuff and tell you that

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Speaker 1: go where your buddies went or whatever. So usually they

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Speaker 1: would like like my fraternity went after like a whole

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Speaker 1: group of us, like fifteen of us, and there was

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Speaker 1: like we'll take all we want all of you, like

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Speaker 1: if you'll all whatever, and we all went because it

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Speaker 1: was like, well, this guy lived across the hall and

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Speaker 1: this guy was my roommates. We all like, but they meet,

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Speaker 1: and it's like it's like a week long thing, so

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Speaker 1: like everybody gets to come the first day and then

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Speaker 1: they whittle it down to where you're only now getting

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Speaker 1: invites and by the end of the week. I think

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Speaker 1: it was a Saturday morning or Friday morning. You go

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Speaker 1: to the student center and they give you an envelope

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Speaker 1: and there's either an invitation to be in a fraternity

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Speaker 1: or there isn't. And for some people there was there,

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Speaker 1: weren't you open? There's nothing in there that was embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: I've heard for the girls now they'll call and tell

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Speaker 1: them ahead of time, like, hey, there's no bid for you.

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Speaker 1: Don't come out here, I hope, so it'll be embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: And at my college, if people didn't get into the sorority,

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Speaker 1: the sorority specifically that they wanted, this was it was

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Speaker 1: not uncommon to see a moving van man in back

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Speaker 1: mid day, which for girls was Saturday, and it was

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Speaker 1: here's dad schlepping all their stuff out. If they're transferring,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, transferring, Oh yeah. If they didn't, if they

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Speaker 1: didn't get into the best sorority or whatever. I think

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Speaker 1: at SMU was Kappa at the time, it was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm a fifth Legacy Kappa. I have to

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Speaker 1: be a Kappa. I have to I have to be

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Speaker 1: a Kyle, I have to be a whatever. I have

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Speaker 1: to be a Theta. And then if you don't get it,

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Speaker 1: then if you go call dad, yeahs a moving van

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Speaker 1: and like, you know, it's like some guy you know

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Speaker 1: in his Lulu Lemon outfit, just you schlepping all these

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Speaker 1: toach full of stuff out because we're going home because

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Speaker 1: it's over. But yeah, and then but I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it was like this in the sororities, but the

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Speaker 1: final meeting was like we'd all sit around and we

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Speaker 1: came down to I don't know, let's say they were

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Speaker 1: sit there and we'd go name by name and some

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Speaker 1: were like universally yes, we want them. And then there

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Speaker 1: it was like it was like political, Like there'd be

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Speaker 1: guys going hey, before the meeting, Hey, look I need

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Speaker 2: I don't even know who it was.

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Speaker 1: But like if an elder in the fraternity was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I was like in that little facet of the fraternity.

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Speaker 1: Then I would vote with that guy. And people would

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Speaker 1: we got to have him, Like he's my he's my cousin,

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Speaker 1: or like he's my best friend's brother from you know,

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Speaker 2: And we got to have him.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like I gotta get him in here.

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Speaker 1: And then we'd vote the guy out. I think all

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Speaker 1: then they weren't in. They were gone next. It was

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Speaker 4: It's not great.

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Speaker 1: No no, But I think I bet you that's what

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Speaker 1: this cardinal thing is like, where they all get together

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Speaker 1: and then they they somehow decide among them which one

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Speaker 1: of them is being called upon by God. But I

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Speaker 1: gotta think more than one of them is thinking they're

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Speaker 1: getting the message.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, who gets the message? We decide like once we all.

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Speaker 1: Got to figure in a group of however many men

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Speaker 1: that is cardinals. You know, there's a few that probably

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Speaker 1: They be like, I'm the Cardinal of New York City,

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Speaker 1: never pick an American, so no, you know, and then

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Speaker 1: the other guys like, I am the Cardinal of I'm

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Speaker 1: already Cardinal of Rome. Guy, I already live here. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to pay for my relocation, you know, just

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Speaker 2: Wait.

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Speaker 5: So there's no like board of directors for this, Like

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Speaker 5: it's literally amongst whatever, ten people.

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Speaker 2: Look this up. Just that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: There's a new movie too that's getting a lot of one.

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Speaker 4: Uh it's a show or a movie.

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Speaker 3: It's a movie about cardinals. I thought that one at

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Speaker 3: the Awards shows.

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Speaker 1: Hold On the Catholic Church follows the centuries old process

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Speaker 1: to elect a new pope known as papal conclave, which

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Speaker 1: occurs after the pope dies or resigns.

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Speaker 2: Following the death of the Pope.

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Speaker 3: The Catholic Church Conclave is the movie. By the way, they.

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Speaker 1: Do this, Oh whatever, Yeah, they get all the cardinals together.

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Speaker 1: they get all the cardinals together and they somehow choose

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Speaker 5: And I'm gonna say this now on record. We would

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Speaker 5: say this on this radio show for years. Now is

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Speaker 5: the time for a rebranch. So if you're listening Vatican,

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Speaker 5: now is the time.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people would tell you that Francis was

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Speaker 1: like the first step in that she was. It's pretty

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Speaker 1: open minded about things that have traditionally not the Catholic

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Speaker 5: Yes, and he's a great first step. So now let's

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Speaker 5: take it another step further.

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Speaker 2: Jason Brown Gay, Yes, Jason Brown Gay is the guy. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, he passed away, so very sad. Two injured over

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Speaker 1: the weekend in Norfolk, Norfolk State University is shooting. Another shooting.

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Speaker 1: This is the second last week. It happened on the

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Speaker 1: campus in Virginia on Saturday, leaving two men injured. The

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Speaker 1: incident took place around eleven thirty pm Presidential Parkway known

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Speaker 1: one last week. At least twenty seven states in America

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Speaker 1: are now impacted by the ongoing measles outbreak. So guys,

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Speaker 1: now we got measles sick in ten with Louisiana, Virginia,

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Speaker 1: and Missouri have reported their first measles case of twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty five. All three cases were linked to international travel

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Speaker 1: at least twenty seven states in America and are now

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Speaker 1: impacted by the outbreak. Measles is a contagious virus that

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Speaker 1: compromises the immune system, making those infected more susceptible to

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Speaker 1: subsequent infections like pneumonia. Vaccination significantly reduces the risk of

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Speaker 1: contracting the disease, with the vaccine showing ninety three percent

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Speaker 1: effectiveness after one dose, rising a ninety seven percent effectiveness

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Speaker 1: after a second dose. The Rock and Roll Hall of

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Speaker 1: Fame the fan voting ends today. Apparently, Mariah Carey is

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Speaker 1: among the artists that are sitting outside the safe zone.

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Speaker 1: Mariah Carey's not going to get in. Wow, how could

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Speaker 1: this be? A Fish is in first place with over

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Speaker 1: three hundred thousand votes, making up the top six. Bad Company,

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Speaker 1: Billy Idols, Cindi Lauper, Soundgarden, and Joe Cocker.

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Speaker 1: Chubby Checker is in seventh place, which does not guarantee

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Speaker 1: induction into the Hall of Fame. Mariakh Carrey is among

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Speaker 1: the artists that are sitting outside the safe zone. The

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Speaker 1: inductees will be announced next month. Wendy's was seemingly among

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Speaker 1: the haters of the recent all female Blue Origin spaceflight.

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Speaker 1: So was Kiking Yes, posting some snark on social media

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Speaker 1: after it touched back down. So Wendy's posted on x

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Speaker 1: U let me see here They posted can we send

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Speaker 1: her back? Referring to Katy Perry like to space And

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Speaker 1: apparently now the fast food chain is being ascid to

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Speaker 1: offer an apology to Katy Perry because Katy Perry is

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Speaker 1: very upset that they said it. Now. Wendy's is known

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Speaker 1: to be snarky on the socials. Wendy's has the social

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Speaker 1: media account that everybody needs to have, Yes, that every corporate,

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Speaker 1: every corporation needs wants to hire whoever writes Wendy's tweets

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Speaker 1: because they're on top of it. And now we're talking

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Speaker 1: about Wendy's, right, So it's perfect. We always bring a

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Speaker 1: little spice to our socials, says Wendy's in response. But

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Speaker 1: Wendy's has a ton of respect for Katy Perry and

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Speaker 1: her out of this world talent.

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Speaker 2: So they had to get it in there again.

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Speaker 4: They're so funny.

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Speaker 2: I love these people.

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Speaker 1: They also posted a joke about Perry kissing the ground

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Speaker 1: upon her return to Earth, but this was their statement.

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Speaker 1: Someone close to Perry told People magazine this wasn't harmless banter.

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Speaker 1: This was a billion dollar brand using its platform to

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Speaker 1: publicly to meet a woman. When billion dollar brands join in,

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Speaker 1: it's irresponsible. Wendy should do the right thing in the

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Speaker 1: name of their core values, apologize and do better in fairness,

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Speaker 1: Wendy's makes fun of everybody, man included. Yes, and we

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Speaker 1: all made fun of Jeff Bezos when he did this,

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Speaker 1: by the way. Yeah, so let's let's just for the record,

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Speaker 1: this was not necessarily all about I don't think. I

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Speaker 1: don't think anything to do with being a woman as

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Speaker 1: much as it did with everyone talking about being astronauts.

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Speaker 3: And no, it's cause Katie's annoying. Let's just call a

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Speaker 3: space space.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna seemed like she was on something.

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Speaker 1: I mean, good for her for being whatever whatever sort

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Speaker 1: of euphoria she found after visiting space for twelve seconds,

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Speaker 1: is an azer or whatever she visited. No, it's great,

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Speaker 1: but it's like it did seem a little off, and

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Speaker 1: then he got Gail King over here, going, well, why

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Speaker 1: don't you try it?

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Speaker 5: Okay, yes, Gail, Kay, Gail, two o'clock today, it's weer welby.

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Speaker 1: Day today. The Entertainer Report will do blogs new waiting

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Speaker 2: It's Kiki's Court, Okay, all right, is the honorable Kiki

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Speaker 6: All right, let's get in the courtroom. The gabble has

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Speaker 4: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 1: The just a nurse thing I don't like. So let's

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Speaker 6: I don't know many people who work just to work.

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Speaker 4: You are wrong.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Instead of reprimanding your daughter in front of her

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Speaker 4: He's a parent, that's what he's supposed to do.

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Speaker 6: Oh, thank you, like't he doesn't get an award or

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Speaker 4: Like, you have to be understanding on both parts.

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Speaker 6: And until you made me, you weren't a single mother,

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't like that angle.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't talk to you either, Miss Margaret. Not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: No, there's a constructive way to say, I know that

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Speaker 6: Can dad cook a meal for the kids during the week,

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Speaker 4: And anybody who knows.

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Speaker 5: I think what really beicks my heart too in the

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Speaker 4: And I think mom guilt is so real.

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Speaker 4: What do I always say, guys, it takes a village.

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Speaker 5: And being a single mom like my hats off to you,

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Speaker 2: No, it's tough. I'm eight three five. You guys are

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Speaker 4: My grandma pick up some of the slick well, and you.

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Speaker 1: good morning. So, well you heard the whole thing Kiki's court.

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Speaker 8: has to pay the mortgage, she has to feed her son,

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Speaker 8: plus her sons has special needs.

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Speaker 2: So we all help out.

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Speaker 7: I cook a meal for her if she doesn't have time,

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Speaker 7: I even cook her lunch, so.

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Speaker 9: She takes it.

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Speaker 8: Why can't this grandmother help out, right, instead of you know,

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Speaker 8: putting her down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wrong.

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Speaker 1: Well, and unfortunately, you know, most working parents can't take

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Speaker 1: a vacation day or take off for every single event exactly,

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Speaker 1: which is why the Paulina's point. You know, that's where

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Speaker 1: you come in, Nina. That's where aunts and uncles come in,

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Speaker 1: and that's where you know, because again, it takes it

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Speaker 1: takes a village.

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Speaker 7: Sometimes it takes a village. It takes a village.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, your daughter's lucky to have you there. She is rich.

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Speaker 8: My grand I drive an hour for the other grandkids

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Speaker 8: to take them to school. I get up at six

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Speaker 8: in the morning, take them to school at six thirty

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Speaker 8: so I can get up there at seven thirty. I

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Speaker 8: feed him breakfast, and then I come back and do

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Speaker 8: the same thing every Wednesday and every other weekend for

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Speaker 8: my grandkid.

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Speaker 3: That's at the other set.

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Speaker 1: I do everything, and you're you're being proactive, Nina, as

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Speaker 1: opposed to his grandmother, who's you know, again, maybe the

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Speaker 1: message is correct. Maybe this woman needs to, you know,

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Speaker 1: kind of reorganize here, but to put her down in

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Speaker 1: the process.

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Speaker 7: For the kids if she doesn't want them tow uber.

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Speaker 1: There's a different way to go about this. Thank you, Nina,

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Speaker 1: have a great day you as well. Thank you for listening. Tammy, Hi, Tammy,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, Hey, So you are a you're a CNA.

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Speaker 1: So you're a nurse, right.

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Speaker 7: I'm a nurse's aide, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Well all right, and and so you're in the field,

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Speaker 1: and so you can relate to this. What do you

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Speaker 1: think when you hear this story about this, this grandmother

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Speaker 1: putting her own daughter down because she's not spending enough

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Speaker 1: time with her kids and because she was late to

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Speaker 1: something because she was working, right.

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Speaker 8: I.

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Speaker 10: Felt her paying because I was also a single mom

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Speaker 10: and uh, I recently became a CNA, and I see

479
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Speaker 10: what the nurses go through, especially the nurses who have children,

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Speaker 10: you know, constantly end up being late to things because

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Speaker 10: we can't just leave our positions, and nurses, aids or nurses,

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Speaker 10: we can't just leave because we have patients who depend

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Speaker 10: on us. And not only that, we are support staff.

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Speaker 10: We're there to support everybody and the nurses and sionase

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Speaker 10: and I feel like it's it's so harsh for her

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Speaker 10: to to do that.

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Speaker 9: To her daughter.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you should try to support her because nurses work

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Speaker 10: so hard, like so hard, and they are the backbone

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Speaker 10: of any medical facility's right.

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Speaker 1: And tell me if you're taking time off, if you're

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Speaker 1: if you're not working at fifteen, that means someone else

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Speaker 1: has to work the fifteen who probably already worked one.

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Speaker 1: So you know, again it's not like there's just so

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Speaker 1: many people out there that can fill in all the

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Speaker 1: time for every practice and game and thing, which is

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Speaker 1: a shame, but you know that's that's how she's making

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Speaker 1: a living for her family.

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Speaker 10: There is also a very big nursing and just nursing

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Speaker 10: shortage period, like nurses and siannis are in high demand

501
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Speaker 10: right now because almost any facility you go to is

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Speaker 10: going to be understaffed. I really don't know very many

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Speaker 10: facilities right now that aren't struggling with staffing, so I

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Speaker 10: can't see why she's probably running late to things.

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Speaker 2: Well, Tammy, thank you, have a great day. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: calling you too, Thank you for listening. Jennifer High, good morning.

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Speaker 7: Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: So Kiki's Court, basically, you've got a mom of a

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Speaker 1: woman who's a nurse and a single mother criticizing her

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Speaker 1: daughter for not putting her kids first in her opinion,

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Speaker 1: which has now resulted in this rift between them because

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Speaker 1: Mom's like, hey, you need to do more stuff with

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Speaker 1: your kids, and this woman is a nurse and I

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Speaker 1: assume she's working a lot in long hours and we

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Speaker 1: don't know again if it's because she has to to

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Speaker 1: provide or because who knows what the reason is. But

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Speaker 1: according to the according to mom, her own mother, you're

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Speaker 1: not doing enough.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 7: First, I want to say that this one really irks

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Speaker 7: me on so many different levels. Bring the single mother

522
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Speaker 7: is so hard, and you know, sometimes you have to

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Speaker 7: do what you have to do to just be able

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Speaker 7: to support your kids and support your family. And trust me,

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Speaker 7: I guarantee you there's times where she doesn't want to

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Speaker 7: be at work and she wants to be at home

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Speaker 7: with her kids and you know, going to every single function,

528
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Speaker 7: but you can't. And mom guilty is real, yeah, girl,

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Speaker 7: and right. And the fact that her own mother is

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Speaker 7: making her feel worse about just having to support her kids,

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Speaker 7: like that is not okay. Like, if you see your

532
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Speaker 7: daughter is struggling, do something to help her out instead

533
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Speaker 7: of making her feel worse about having to support her

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Speaker 7: family and make that decision.

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Speaker 2: I agree. Thank you, Jennifer, have a great day. Thank you,

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys, thanks for calling, Thanks for listening to Lissa. Hi,

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Speaker 2: good morning. Hi.

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Speaker 1: So you were the kid of the mom who was

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Speaker 1: a nurse, So just just resonates with you.

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Speaker 9: Yes, one of five, okay.

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Speaker 2: All right? And so when you hear this story, what

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Speaker 2: do you think?

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Speaker 9: I don't know. It breaks my heart a little bit,

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Speaker 9: only because the grandmother has lacked compassion, was what I'm

545
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Speaker 9: getting from that. Being young and seeing my mom she

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Speaker 9: went to college, became an arin full time nurse all

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Speaker 9: by herself. Was all five of us, and because she

548
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Speaker 9: didn't really have that close knit with her mother, we

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Speaker 9: picked up the slack with each other, like we knew

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Speaker 9: how to like make something on the souf, to cook

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Speaker 9: or whatever. Again, it was five of us, so I

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Speaker 9: understand maybe her kids a little younger, but like I said,

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Speaker 9: her mother just lacked a little compassion. I was more

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Speaker 9: understanding of my mother's situation, so I knew she couldn't

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Speaker 9: be there Like I understand, you know, it's a little

556
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Speaker 9: envious for other kids, but it was more understanding than anything.

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Speaker 9: And I never resented my mother for any of that.

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Speaker 4: Did you ever feel like to her It's crazy, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Starting interrupt you, Lyssa, but did you ever feel like

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Speaker 1: just to flip it that your mom, even though she

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Speaker 1: was doing what she had to do Were you ever

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Speaker 1: jealous of the patients, like it's almost like maybe she

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Speaker 1: cares about them more than us, even though you knew

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Speaker 1: that wasn't it. But did you ever feel that way?

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Speaker 9: Not at all. I mean, they're in the hospital, I'm not.

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Speaker 9: There was no jealous you know what I mean. They're

567
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Speaker 9: obviously unwell ill can't take care of themselves, whereas I'm

568
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Speaker 9: fortunate I have good health. You know, a mother who

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Speaker 9: when you know, if something wasn't wrong, she did step

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Speaker 9: in and take.

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Speaker 1: Care of it. You know.

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Speaker 9: It's not like we were neglected in that sense. So no,

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Speaker 9: I never felt jealous of the patients of anything. I

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Speaker 9: felt sorry for them, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you for calling to listen. Have a

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Speaker 1: good day you too, thank you, because I've heard that

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Speaker 1: one before too, with like people who are in relationships

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Speaker 1: with people in the healthcare field, for example, it's like

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Speaker 1: they give everything they've got all day and then they

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Speaker 1: come home and they go to sleep, and it's like, well,

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, hold on, you know what about this

582
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Speaker 1: whole other life. You got me, you got family, whatever.

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Speaker 1: And I think that's why the thing I was saying before,

584
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Speaker 1: the joke being that doctor's kids are the worst cared for.

585
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Speaker 1: And it said tongue in cheek, but it's like it's

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Speaker 1: probably true because you know, all day long, I'm you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm diagnosing people and I'm doing surgeries and I'm you know,

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Speaker 1: doing whatever, and then I come home and I'm like

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Speaker 1: one more right, Yeah, they don't mean something.

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Speaker 2: They're not loved. It's just like not, no, you're fighting.

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Speaker 6: Oh you can just get desensitized to like, you know,

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Speaker 6: you're calm and call when I'm I'm curing real life

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Speaker 6: issues at work.

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Speaker 2: So I think it's a real thing. Oh it is.

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Speaker 4: I think he was a nurse.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 6: I used to be like, I'm having a migraine. She

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Speaker 6: was like, please go lay down somewhere like I I'll please,

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Speaker 6: you know, So you do get desensitized. But at the

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Speaker 6: end of the day, like I like how ju Lisa

601
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Speaker 6: just said it. She admired her mom's sacrifice for her patients,

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Speaker 6: and she understood why she was doing it.

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Speaker 4: She had to, she had to feed them.

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Speaker 1: And you think the mom would be proud of her

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Speaker 1: daughter and then would just say, you know what, I

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Speaker 1: can help pick me pick up the slack, right exactly,

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Speaker 1: That's what she would be markret Come on now, the

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