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Speaker 2: What happens if you're on the apps and you recognize
Speaker 2: someone from your past. Oh, you just wipe just in
Speaker 2: case the second you match.
Speaker 1: You unmatchine what type of someone?
Speaker 2: Yeah, point, maybe someone you had a crush on before.
Speaker 1: Oh, then that's good, right, And then you want that like.
Speaker 2: Your friend's former step mom or Alexis's old gym teacher.
Speaker 1: But don't remember the being hot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's never stopped you before. But for our listener Nathan,
Speaker 2: it was someone from a while ago and he decided
Speaker 2: to go for it. Okay, So Nathan, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Who did you recognize on the apps?
Speaker 4: So? I recognized a girl that I had taken a
Speaker 4: class with like a couple of years back in college.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's pretty normal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you like know her but you don't know her. Yeah, well,
Speaker 2: how big is this class that we're talking about, like
Speaker 2: a huge like college court, giant courts, or like a
Speaker 2: small one.
Speaker 4: Good, it was like a big lecture. So it was
Speaker 4: like a class of like two hundred people.
Speaker 3: So there's no wait, did you have interactions with her
Speaker 3: in this class or did you just stare at her
Speaker 3: from afar?
Speaker 4: I always like saw her and I noticed her, like
Speaker 4: she really just stood out, but I never actually spoke
Speaker 4: to her.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's her name? Trish?
Speaker 1: Trish?
Speaker 3: And did you tell Trish right away on the app
Speaker 3: that you knew her, because if you'd never talked to
Speaker 3: her before, that.
Speaker 4: Might be No, I didn't. I didn't mention it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't think she.
Speaker 4: Would recognize me, and I didn't want to sound like creepy, so.
Speaker 2: You have to bring it up sometime.
Speaker 4: Well, at some point I was landing on just like
Speaker 4: making it like, oh, did you take this class.
Speaker 1: Or like what you were in that class too?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you do look familiar, you know, like one
Speaker 4: of those things.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so if you didn't mention that you recognized her,
Speaker 2: how did you initiate conversation?
Speaker 4: So in her bio on on Hinge, she had a
Speaker 4: line that like really made me laugh and said something like,
Speaker 4: hello sharks, I'm seeking frivolous amounts of flirting and fun
Speaker 4: spontaneous states in exchange for a small negotiated percentage of
Speaker 4: my heart.
Speaker 3: I see, Okay, I was waiting for like a fish
Speaker 3: pund at some point.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Okay, yeah, I didn't get that.
Speaker 4: I watched enough of those Shark Tank presentations and exactly
Speaker 4: what you was talking about.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So what was your pitch?
Speaker 4: So my offer was endless amounts of flirting and witty
Speaker 4: banner in exchange for five percent of your heart. Offer
Speaker 4: expires at midnight.
Speaker 2: Whoa, Yeah, it's a low commitment.
Speaker 1: Sounds like an offer she couldn't refuse.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a big offer and not a lot
Speaker 4: of commitment required, but there was a time limit on it.
Speaker 1: That's so cute.
Speaker 2: When did you get a message back?
Speaker 4: It was eleven fifty seven, and I think she did
Speaker 4: it on purpose.
Speaker 2: She made the deadline, but she was trying to purposely
Speaker 2: make you wake sweat a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, really funny. Yeah, where'd you guys, go on your date.
Speaker 4: So we ended up going to a baseball game because
Speaker 4: we talked a lot about sports and stuff before we
Speaker 4: met up.
Speaker 1: That's such a great date. I love it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you didn't do it to me. It's like love stake,
Speaker 4: like a public place. There's a lot of fun. But
Speaker 4: it's easy, you know, it's an easy thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, how the game go?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean it was I thought it was good.
Speaker 4: But when I picked her up, she seemed like a
Speaker 4: little like off. I was like, well, I didn't know
Speaker 4: what was wrong, Like it's just something was wrong, and
Speaker 4: she was like, oh, yeah, we just have to hurry.
Speaker 4: I want to see the whole game. I don't want
Speaker 4: to get there late.
Speaker 1: Really picking her up then, like is that what, because
Speaker 1: that'd be annoying.
Speaker 4: No, I wasn't late. I mean there was just more
Speaker 4: traffic than I thought. We could have been there on time, but.
Speaker 1: It was just, you know, did her mood ever lighten?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 4: I mean I offered to buy her food and she
Speaker 4: didn't really want anything. And at some point she was like,
Speaker 4: when's the seventh inning stretch? And I looked at her.
Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, maybe she's not as big of a
Speaker 2: baseball pan as we thought.
Speaker 4: She just seemed to be like not having a good time.
Speaker 4: She was kind of bored. I don't think she realized
Speaker 4: that baseball is just kind of watching people staying around
Speaker 4: most of the.
Speaker 1: Time probed it.
Speaker 2: But it was the game itself, like not an exciting game.
Speaker 4: I mean, I thought it was good, but as a
Speaker 4: first day you'd think it was to me. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 4: I went to see the game, but I wanted to
Speaker 4: just hang out with her. I mean that was the
Speaker 4: whole point.
Speaker 2: So it didn't start good. It didn't seem to go
Speaker 2: super well, and it didn't seem to end very well.
Speaker 1: Maybe we didn't to hear about the end. How did
Speaker 1: it end?
Speaker 2: How'd you leave each other?
Speaker 4: Well? I don't know. Like we went back to the
Speaker 4: car again, there was traffic going home which was not playing,
Speaker 4: you know, outside my control, and she just seemed bothered.
Speaker 4: I mean we talked a little bit, but nothing you know,
Speaker 4: too crazy, like the opening shark tank introduction that we
Speaker 4: had and the chemistry kind of it seemed like it
Speaker 4: kind of fizzled out a little bit. And now she's
Speaker 4: just not responding to me.
Speaker 1: Why do you want to call her?
Speaker 4: I did something wrong. I want to take responsibility, Like
Speaker 4: I don't know if it was me or if it
Speaker 4: was her. It was just day, I don't know.
Speaker 3: It seems reasonable enough. Of Plus, it's like a girl
Speaker 3: that you kind of had a crush on years ago,
Speaker 3: Like oh, yes, you don't want this to be the
Speaker 3: end of that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I made this whole time, and it's like, oh wow,
Speaker 4: it was almost like meant to be that I ended
Speaker 4: up matching with her, and now it's like just totally
Speaker 4: fizzled out. And do you think maybe she recognized me
Speaker 4: during the date and like, oh is that weird? From
Speaker 4: my clouds?
Speaker 2: The one that always stared at me across the lecture
Speaker 2: hall and Drew little hazy.
Speaker 4: I'm like stalking her now because she like found out
Speaker 4: that I don't know, but you.
Speaker 2: Never talked to her back then, right, it never did
Speaker 2: anything weird to her.
Speaker 3: So except for his and her name together in his paper,
Speaker 3: right you did that?
Speaker 2: Right now? Where we're going to find out when we
Speaker 2: come back and we call Trish and we finally reveal
Speaker 2: that her long lost crush from college is the one
Speaker 2: that took her to the baseball game.
Speaker 4: We're going to reveal that, Please don't bring that up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, you up. I'll let you delivered the
Speaker 2: message when we do it. In your second date update
Speaker 2: right after this.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.
Speaker 2: Going to a ball game is a great idea for
Speaker 2: a first date, Yeah for sure, even if it wasn't
Speaker 2: necessarily Nathan's idea. His date was the one that was
Speaker 2: adamant that they go to one together.
Speaker 1: So it's even better because then you know she likes it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's so odd that their interaction was
Speaker 2: so off from the minute that he picked her up.
Speaker 2: Nathan said, she just seemed to be in a bad mood.
Speaker 1: She didn't even want the food. She turned him down.
Speaker 3: That man.
Speaker 2: Brook almost wanted to slap her off on Nathan's behalf.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'll eat your hot dog if you're going.
Speaker 2: To Look, it didn't really improve the entire game no
Speaker 2: matter what they did. Yeah, it seemed like Tris just
Speaker 2: couldn't get out of her funk. And now she's not
Speaker 2: even talking to him. So what's going on? Nathan needs
Speaker 2: to find out for his old college crush.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3: Have you we didn't ask, like, how many times have
Speaker 3: you contacted her post date.
Speaker 4: I sent her a couple of texts and I left
Speaker 4: her a voicemail and that was haven't heard back.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm really hoping what we call her, she's in
Speaker 1: a better mood.
Speaker 2: I'm just hoping that it's all sunshine and butterflies, a
Speaker 2: total misunderstanding. Let's find out. We're gonna dial her number. Butterflies. Yeah, okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: let's just dollar number. Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, is this Trish who's calling?
Speaker 1: Maybe she's just a short person.
Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, Trish, this is a radio show. We're called
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're really sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: We're lay because just because of a conversation we just had, Trish.
Speaker 2: That's all We hope you're having a good day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, are you sorry?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just get to it. We're a show called
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we do a
Speaker 2: segment here called the Second Date Update, and it's something
Speaker 2: where we're trying to help out one of our listeners,
Speaker 2: a guy that seemed pretty cool when we talked to him,
Speaker 2: and you went on a date recently with him. His
Speaker 2: name's Nathan.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, did.
Speaker 2: You just did you get something in your throat.
Speaker 3: I backed him that.
Speaker 2: That was in response to Nathan, Well.
Speaker 1: Again a second one.
Speaker 3: Let's let's slow down a little bit, because he seemed lovely.
Speaker 2: At least when we spoke to him.
Speaker 5: He was fine. It was fine, okay, just fine.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: He told us about the fun interaction the shark tank
Speaker 3: humor you guys had on the app when you first met.
Speaker 5: That was like a highlight, right, Yeah, that was very clever.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's good. So the goal of this segment
Speaker 2: is to try and help Nathan figure out if there's
Speaker 2: a reason there hasn't been a second date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like where you went from clever to like that.
Speaker 2: And we're kind of invested in this because we heard
Speaker 2: the story of the baseball game and you guys hanging out.
Speaker 2: We're just cre how it was for you.
Speaker 5: Look, I'll probably never see him again, so I don't
Speaker 5: like telling you I was. I was just a little
Speaker 5: bit frustrated.
Speaker 1: What were you frustrated by?
Speaker 5: Well, I wanted to get there for the national anthem
Speaker 5: and we missed it.
Speaker 1: Yeah that was traffic, right.
Speaker 3: He said that he didn't expect traffic from your house
Speaker 3: to the stadium.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, whatever it wasn't It wasn't his fault.
Speaker 4: It's not that.
Speaker 2: But so the national anthem is really it's an important
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 3: I mean everybody has a tradition at a ballpark, right
Speaker 3: like when you want to get there, how do you
Speaker 3: enjoy the game?
Speaker 5: No, I had nothing to do with that. I mean
Speaker 5: it was important for me to get there because on
Speaker 5: a dating app and all the pictures he has his
Speaker 5: hat on, and I just wanted to see him without, okay,
Speaker 5: And so I was like, I don't want to tell
Speaker 5: him why. So I was like, okay, so we'll just
Speaker 5: get there for the national anthem, he'll take his hat off,
Speaker 5: and then we missed it.
Speaker 1: That's so smart.
Speaker 2: Do you have to take off his hat put it over?
Speaker 2: So that was just to figure out what his hairline is?
Speaker 5: That is really yeah, And so I like, I just
Speaker 5: want to see what to expect with that hat.
Speaker 1: Why is the hairline important? Wait? Hold on, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: not hairline. But people look so different with a hat.
Speaker 1: It's like when we all wear masks in COVID. You
Speaker 1: look so different with it on and off.
Speaker 5: Like totally.
Speaker 3: So you were angry that you miss a national anthem
Speaker 3: because you didn't know what his head looked like.
Speaker 5: Right, It's just like, don't you want to know what
Speaker 5: somebody looks like? Like completely, you could.
Speaker 3: Have pulled that obnoxious girl, I'm gonna steal your hat?
Speaker 5: Move so drunk, it's so obnoxious. And I was like,
Speaker 5: I don't want to want I don't want to be rude. Right,
Speaker 5: So I was like, Okay, how about for maybe they
Speaker 5: take their hats off for this seventh inning stretch? Right?
Speaker 5: I mean, like, don't answer like the stand up and
Speaker 5: like do stuff.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think the hat is part of the for
Speaker 2: you sound like a true baseball fan, the boy that
Speaker 2: we picked.
Speaker 3: The baseball game only for the national anthem?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so do you do? You you enjoy baseball itself?
Speaker 4: Not really?
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, this is like so dumb to me. Were
Speaker 3: you attracted to him with his hat on?
Speaker 5: Yeah? It was very cute with a hat on. But
Speaker 5: if I'm going to marry somebody, they can't wear a
Speaker 5: hat twenty four to seven, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2: But it's crazy that you would just give up on
Speaker 2: the idea after not seeing him with his hat off,
Speaker 2: Like you could get together one more time and there
Speaker 2: would be an opportunity there, Yeah, but a nice restaurant
Speaker 2: or take him through TSA at the airport. Take your
Speaker 2: hat off.
Speaker 5: Little Soon do you realize that you weren't like very
Speaker 5: fun during the.
Speaker 3: Baseball game, Like he said, it felt like you were
Speaker 3: angry the whole time.
Speaker 5: I was just pissed at myself. And then the fact
Speaker 5: that it was forever, and you know, it's like when
Speaker 5: it's like you want to ask something, but then it
Speaker 5: keeps going forever and so you end up not asking
Speaker 5: because it's.
Speaker 2: Just I know exactly what that feeling is like, because
Speaker 2: I've been waiting forever to tell you that Nathan is
Speaker 2: on the other line kind of this phone call listening.
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk to you. Careful, don't turn on
Speaker 2: too much.
Speaker 5: That is just embarrassing and I'm really dumb.
Speaker 2: But I don't know if he's still there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just totally in shock, Like I
Speaker 4: I don't even know how to respond, like what, Yeah,
Speaker 4: this is just the strangest thing I've ever heard. Why
Speaker 4: didn't you just ask me?
Speaker 5: I could like they want to seem so superficial that
Speaker 5: I would be like, well, I would date you if
Speaker 5: you look one way without a hat and not with
Speaker 5: another way, So it just became like a thing I
Speaker 5: started to get into my head. And then it was
Speaker 5: just like I was putting on this pressure on myself
Speaker 5: and on you, and it was just like and I
Speaker 5: thought baseball game would be more fun and then it wasn't,
Speaker 5: and I was just kicking forever, and like when we're
Speaker 5: stuck in traffic and I don't know what to do,
Speaker 5: and it was.
Speaker 4: Just like, yeah, why have you been like ghosting me?
Speaker 4: Like we had a good conversation and just because you
Speaker 4: didn't get to see my head, Like honestly, we could
Speaker 4: have like come back to mind place if we had
Speaker 4: a good time, and we could have had a romantic
Speaker 4: dinner and you could have gotten some whole head or something.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Did you just say you could have gotten some whole
Speaker 2: head A vision?
Speaker 1: I like it. You're kind of at tease. That's good.
Speaker 1: You want to see it.
Speaker 2: No, you don't get I mean, if you're still curious,
Speaker 2: there is sounds like a window of opportunity to make
Speaker 2: that happen.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 5: I don't know how I feel about whole head.
Speaker 1: That's what you've been asking.
Speaker 2: It's the whole goal.
Speaker 1: And wait, do you care if he's bald? Is that
Speaker 1: an emphasis for you? Because if it's receding, I'm.
Speaker 5: Like a guy with a head of hair. I mean
Speaker 5: that might be superficial, but I mean I do prefer that.
Speaker 1: You can't predict how that's going to end up. Just
Speaker 1: going to let you know.
Speaker 2: But you still have a chance to actually see him
Speaker 2: in person one more time and get another shot to
Speaker 2: peak at.
Speaker 1: His dome if he still wants to even go out
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 2: That's a good point. Nathan, are you turned off by
Speaker 2: this totally or are you still willing to give Tricia chance.
Speaker 4: I'm very confused. I wouldn't say I'm turned off. I'm
Speaker 4: a little bit confused why you went this particular route
Speaker 4: to try to accomplish this. I would be open to
Speaker 4: a non hat date, but I wish you would have
Speaker 4: just told me that in your Shark Tank requirements because
Speaker 4: it wasn't really listed.
Speaker 1: Okay, when he made the deal.
Speaker 4: We might we might have to renegotiate because I'm not
Speaker 4: sure if I'm going to fully commit. I did at
Speaker 4: least ten percent of your heart. If you want to
Speaker 4: see me without a hat.
Speaker 2: Oh, hearts are on the table there.
Speaker 5: Trisha, he's a hard negotiator, and so we're.
Speaker 2: Just going to throw it out there. If you're willing
Speaker 2: to meet up with Nate one more time, we would
Speaker 2: pay for that date. Whatever happens, and then oh you're in.
Speaker 1: Oh look at that.
Speaker 2: Okay, looks like a deal has been struck. In exchange
Speaker 2: for ten percent of Trisha's heart, Nathan will show up
Speaker 2: and s one hundred percent of his head.
Speaker 1: That was an intense negotiation.
Speaker 4: That's awesome. I'm so looking forward to a.
Speaker 3: Trick maybe if she asked for the pants off cease negotiations.
Speaker 2: Okay, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Man, what a deal.
Speaker 2: We just struck ten percent of her heart for one
Speaker 2: hundred percent of his head. Yeah, I mean I think
Speaker 2: he got the bad end of the deal.
Speaker 3: If a guy was upset that I didn't like take
Speaker 3: off my coat the entire date or something, I would
Speaker 3: not go back out with him.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Why that guy is so cool with it.
Speaker 2: He's got a good head of hair under there.
Speaker 1: That's why.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't want to tell him, but if he is
Speaker 2: like in the middle of a receding hairline, he should
Speaker 2: just shave it. All right, now, this is a good time,
Speaker 2: so he hit that reset button. This whole thing does
Speaker 2: make me curious though, to think about, Brooke, if you
Speaker 2: had a heart, how much would you be willing to
Speaker 2: give to your husband.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll give him all of it. But all those
Speaker 1: idiots that I dated.
Speaker 3: Before, they got less than one percent and then I
Speaker 3: took it back if I was done with them.
Speaker 2: Okay, same question with the Head. What they never even
Speaker 2: got to mention Nathan in his crush in college. So
Speaker 2: I wonder if that's going to come up during their
Speaker 2: next meetup.
Speaker 1: I hope not. I think that's more of a like
Speaker 1: three months in conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we'll find out down the road in an update. Update.
Speaker 2: We'll see. And if you're new to the show, we
Speaker 2: do do those all the time. You can hear them
Speaker 2: on our podcast do do Rook and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 2: Morning where we show full head in the thumbnails. So
Speaker 2: ye are welcome.