1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: Hey, you found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 2: Finally it's pretty easy. 3 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: Actually, thanks for being here. I love it. I love it. 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 3: And hey, just a reminder if you want to endure 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 3: or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 3: a full show. 7 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: Whole hour long. Dare you to try it at the 8 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey feed. 9 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 3: But for now we'll get into some questionable relationship advice 10 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 11 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: What happens if you're on the apps and you recognize 12 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: someone from your past. Oh, you just wipe just in 13 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: case the second you match. 14 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: You unmatchine what type of someone? 15 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, point, maybe someone you had a crush on before. 16 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: Oh, then that's good, right, And then you want that like. 17 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 2: Your friend's former step mom or Alexis's old gym teacher. 18 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: But don't remember the being hot. 19 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's never stopped you before. But for our listener Nathan, 20 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: it was someone from a while ago and he decided 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 2: to go for it. Okay, So Nathan, welcome to the show. 22 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: Who did you recognize on the apps? 23 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 4: So? I recognized a girl that I had taken a 24 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 4: class with like a couple of years back in college. 25 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: Okay, that's pretty normal. 26 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you like know her but you don't know her. Yeah, well, 27 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: how big is this class that we're talking about, like 28 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 2: a huge like college court, giant courts, or like a 29 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 2: small one. 30 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 4: Good, it was like a big lecture. So it was 31 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 4: like a class of like two hundred people. 32 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 3: So there's no wait, did you have interactions with her 33 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: in this class or did you just stare at her 34 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 3: from afar? 35 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 4: I always like saw her and I noticed her, like 36 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 4: she really just stood out, but I never actually spoke 37 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 4: to her. 38 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 2: Okay, what's her name? Trish? 39 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: Trish? 40 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 3: And did you tell Trish right away on the app 41 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 3: that you knew her, because if you'd never talked to 42 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 3: her before, that. 43 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 4: Might be No, I didn't. I didn't mention it. 44 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't think she. 45 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 4: Would recognize me, and I didn't want to sound like creepy, so. 46 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: You have to bring it up sometime. 47 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 4: Well, at some point I was landing on just like 48 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 4: making it like, oh, did you take this class. 49 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: Or like what you were in that class too? 50 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you do look familiar, you know, like one 51 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 4: of those things. 52 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so if you didn't mention that you recognized her, 53 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: how did you initiate conversation? 54 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 4: So in her bio on on Hinge, she had a 55 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 4: line that like really made me laugh and said something like, 56 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 4: hello sharks, I'm seeking frivolous amounts of flirting and fun 57 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 4: spontaneous states in exchange for a small negotiated percentage of 58 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 4: my heart. 59 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 3: I see, Okay, I was waiting for like a fish 60 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 3: pund at some point. 61 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Okay, yeah, I didn't get that. 62 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 4: I watched enough of those Shark Tank presentations and exactly 63 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 4: what you was talking about. 64 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So what was your pitch? 65 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 4: So my offer was endless amounts of flirting and witty 66 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 4: banner in exchange for five percent of your heart. Offer 67 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 4: expires at midnight. 68 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: Whoa, Yeah, it's a low commitment. 69 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: Sounds like an offer she couldn't refuse. 70 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a big offer and not a lot 71 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 4: of commitment required, but there was a time limit on it. 72 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: That's so cute. 73 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: When did you get a message back? 74 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 4: It was eleven fifty seven, and I think she did 75 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 4: it on purpose. 76 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 2: She made the deadline, but she was trying to purposely 77 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: make you wake sweat a little bit. 78 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, really funny. Yeah, where'd you guys, go on your date. 79 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 4: So we ended up going to a baseball game because 80 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 4: we talked a lot about sports and stuff before we 81 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 4: met up. 82 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: That's such a great date. I love it. 83 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, you didn't do it to me. It's like love stake, 84 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 4: like a public place. There's a lot of fun. But 85 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 4: it's easy, you know, it's an easy thing. 86 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: Okay, how the game go? 87 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 4: Well, I mean it was I thought it was good. 88 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 4: But when I picked her up, she seemed like a 89 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: little like off. I was like, well, I didn't know 90 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 4: what was wrong, Like it's just something was wrong, and 91 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 4: she was like, oh, yeah, we just have to hurry. 92 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: I want to see the whole game. I don't want 93 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 4: to get there late. 94 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: Really picking her up then, like is that what, because 95 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: that'd be annoying. 96 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 4: No, I wasn't late. I mean there was just more 97 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 4: traffic than I thought. We could have been there on time, but. 98 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: It was just, you know, did her mood ever lighten? 99 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 5: Well? 100 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 4: I mean I offered to buy her food and she 101 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 4: didn't really want anything. And at some point she was like, 102 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 4: when's the seventh inning stretch? And I looked at her. 103 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, maybe she's not as big of a 104 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 2: baseball pan as we thought. 105 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 4: She just seemed to be like not having a good time. 106 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 4: She was kind of bored. I don't think she realized 107 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 4: that baseball is just kind of watching people staying around 108 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 4: most of the. 109 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: Time probed it. 110 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 2: But it was the game itself, like not an exciting game. 111 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 4: I mean, I thought it was good, but as a 112 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 4: first day you'd think it was to me. I mean, yeah, 113 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 4: I went to see the game, but I wanted to 114 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 4: just hang out with her. I mean that was the 115 00:04:58,839 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 4: whole point. 116 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 2: So it didn't start good. It didn't seem to go 117 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 2: super well, and it didn't seem to end very well. 118 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 1: Maybe we didn't to hear about the end. How did 119 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: it end? 120 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: How'd you leave each other? 121 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 4: Well? I don't know. Like we went back to the 122 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 4: car again, there was traffic going home which was not playing, 123 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 4: you know, outside my control, and she just seemed bothered. 124 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 4: I mean we talked a little bit, but nothing you know, 125 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 4: too crazy, like the opening shark tank introduction that we 126 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 4: had and the chemistry kind of it seemed like it 127 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 4: kind of fizzled out a little bit. And now she's 128 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 4: just not responding to me. 129 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: Why do you want to call her? 130 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 4: I did something wrong. I want to take responsibility, Like 131 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 4: I don't know if it was me or if it 132 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 4: was her. It was just day, I don't know. 133 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 3: It seems reasonable enough. Of Plus, it's like a girl 134 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 3: that you kind of had a crush on years ago, 135 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 3: Like oh, yes, you don't want this to be the 136 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 3: end of that. 137 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I made this whole time, and it's like, oh wow, 138 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 4: it was almost like meant to be that I ended 139 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 4: up matching with her, and now it's like just totally 140 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 4: fizzled out. And do you think maybe she recognized me 141 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 4: during the date and like, oh is that weird? From 142 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 4: my clouds? 143 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,799 Speaker 2: The one that always stared at me across the lecture 144 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 2: hall and Drew little hazy. 145 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 4: I'm like stalking her now because she like found out 146 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 4: that I don't know, but you. 147 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: Never talked to her back then, right, it never did 148 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: anything weird to her. 149 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 3: So except for his and her name together in his paper, 150 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 3: right you did that? 151 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 2: Right now? Where we're going to find out when we 152 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: come back and we call Trish and we finally reveal 153 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 2: that her long lost crush from college is the one 154 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 2: that took her to the baseball game. 155 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 4: We're going to reveal that, Please don't bring that up. 156 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, you up. I'll let you delivered the 157 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 2: message when we do it. In your second date update 158 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 2: right after this. 159 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 160 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 2: Going to a ball game is a great idea for 161 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: a first date, Yeah for sure, even if it wasn't 162 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: necessarily Nathan's idea. His date was the one that was 163 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 2: adamant that they go to one together. 164 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: So it's even better because then you know she likes it. 165 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's so odd that their interaction was 166 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 2: so off from the minute that he picked her up. 167 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 2: Nathan said, she just seemed to be in a bad mood. 168 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: She didn't even want the food. She turned him down. 169 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 3: That man. 170 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: Brook almost wanted to slap her off on Nathan's behalf. 171 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'll eat your hot dog if you're going. 172 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: To Look, it didn't really improve the entire game no 173 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 2: matter what they did. Yeah, it seemed like Tris just 174 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: couldn't get out of her funk. And now she's not 175 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 2: even talking to him. So what's going on? Nathan needs 176 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: to find out for his old college crush. 177 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, for sure. 178 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 3: Have you we didn't ask, like, how many times have 179 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 3: you contacted her post date. 180 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 4: I sent her a couple of texts and I left 181 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 4: her a voicemail and that was haven't heard back. 182 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: Well, I'm really hoping what we call her, she's in 183 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: a better mood. 184 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: I'm just hoping that it's all sunshine and butterflies, a 185 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 2: total misunderstanding. Let's find out. We're gonna dial her number. Butterflies. Yeah, okay, yeah, okay, 186 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: let's just dollar number. Here we go. 187 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, is this Trish who's calling? 188 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 1: Maybe she's just a short person. 189 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, Trish, this is a radio show. We're called 190 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're really sorry. Yeah, 191 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 192 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 3: We're lay because just because of a conversation we just had, Trish. 193 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 2: That's all We hope you're having a good day. 194 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, are you sorry? 195 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just get to it. We're a show called 196 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we do a 197 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 2: segment here called the Second Date Update, and it's something 198 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,719 Speaker 2: where we're trying to help out one of our listeners, 199 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: a guy that seemed pretty cool when we talked to him, 200 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 2: and you went on a date recently with him. His 201 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 2: name's Nathan. 202 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god, did. 203 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: You just did you get something in your throat. 204 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 3: I backed him that. 205 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: That was in response to Nathan, Well. 206 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: Again a second one. 207 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 3: Let's let's slow down a little bit, because he seemed lovely. 208 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 2: At least when we spoke to him. 209 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 5: He was fine. It was fine, okay, just fine. 210 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: Okay. 211 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 3: He told us about the fun interaction the shark tank 212 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 3: humor you guys had on the app when you first met. 213 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 5: That was like a highlight, right, Yeah, that was very clever. 214 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's good. So the goal of this segment 215 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 2: is to try and help Nathan figure out if there's 216 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: a reason there hasn't been a second date. 217 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, like where you went from clever to like that. 218 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 2: And we're kind of invested in this because we heard 219 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 2: the story of the baseball game and you guys hanging out. 220 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 2: We're just cre how it was for you. 221 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 5: Look, I'll probably never see him again, so I don't 222 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 5: like telling you I was. I was just a little 223 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 5: bit frustrated. 224 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: What were you frustrated by? 225 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 5: Well, I wanted to get there for the national anthem 226 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 5: and we missed it. 227 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: Yeah that was traffic, right. 228 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 3: He said that he didn't expect traffic from your house 229 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: to the stadium. 230 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, whatever it wasn't It wasn't his fault. 231 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 4: It's not that. 232 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 2: But so the national anthem is really it's an important 233 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 2: for you. 234 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 3: I mean everybody has a tradition at a ballpark, right 235 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 3: like when you want to get there, how do you 236 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 3: enjoy the game? 237 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 5: No, I had nothing to do with that. I mean 238 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 5: it was important for me to get there because on 239 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 5: a dating app and all the pictures he has his 240 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 5: hat on, and I just wanted to see him without, okay, 241 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 5: And so I was like, I don't want to tell 242 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 5: him why. So I was like, okay, so we'll just 243 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 5: get there for the national anthem, he'll take his hat off, 244 00:10:59,120 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 5: and then we missed it. 245 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: That's so smart. 246 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 2: Do you have to take off his hat put it over? 247 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 2: So that was just to figure out what his hairline is? 248 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 5: That is really yeah, And so I like, I just 249 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 5: want to see what to expect with that hat. 250 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: Why is the hairline important? Wait? Hold on, no, no, no, 251 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: not hairline. But people look so different with a hat. 252 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: It's like when we all wear masks in COVID. You 253 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: look so different with it on and off. 254 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 5: Like totally. 255 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 3: So you were angry that you miss a national anthem 256 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 3: because you didn't know what his head looked like. 257 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 5: Right, It's just like, don't you want to know what 258 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 5: somebody looks like? Like completely, you could. 259 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 3: Have pulled that obnoxious girl, I'm gonna steal your hat? 260 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 5: Move so drunk, it's so obnoxious. And I was like, 261 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 5: I don't want to want I don't want to be rude. Right, 262 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 5: So I was like, Okay, how about for maybe they 263 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 5: take their hats off for this seventh inning stretch? Right? 264 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 5: I mean, like, don't answer like the stand up and 265 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 5: like do stuff. 266 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. 267 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: I don't think the hat is part of the for 268 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 2: you sound like a true baseball fan, the boy that 269 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 2: we picked. 270 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 3: The baseball game only for the national anthem? 271 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so do you do? You you enjoy baseball itself? 272 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 4: Not really? 273 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, this is like so dumb to me. Were 274 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 3: you attracted to him with his hat on? 275 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 5: Yeah? It was very cute with a hat on. But 276 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 5: if I'm going to marry somebody, they can't wear a 277 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 5: hat twenty four to seven, right, Yeah. 278 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 2: But it's crazy that you would just give up on 279 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: the idea after not seeing him with his hat off, 280 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 2: Like you could get together one more time and there 281 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: would be an opportunity there, Yeah, but a nice restaurant 282 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 2: or take him through TSA at the airport. Take your 283 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 2: hat off. 284 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 5: Little Soon do you realize that you weren't like very 285 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 5: fun during the. 286 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 3: Baseball game, Like he said, it felt like you were 287 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 3: angry the whole time. 288 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 5: I was just pissed at myself. And then the fact 289 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 5: that it was forever, and you know, it's like when 290 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 5: it's like you want to ask something, but then it 291 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 5: keeps going forever and so you end up not asking 292 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 5: because it's. 293 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: Just I know exactly what that feeling is like, because 294 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 2: I've been waiting forever to tell you that Nathan is 295 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 2: on the other line kind of this phone call listening. 296 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,959 Speaker 2: I wanted to talk to you. Careful, don't turn on 297 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 2: too much. 298 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 5: That is just embarrassing and I'm really dumb. 299 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 2: But I don't know if he's still there. 300 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just totally in shock, Like I 301 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 4: I don't even know how to respond, like what, Yeah, 302 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 4: this is just the strangest thing I've ever heard. Why 303 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 4: didn't you just ask me? 304 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 5: I could like they want to seem so superficial that 305 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 5: I would be like, well, I would date you if 306 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 5: you look one way without a hat and not with 307 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 5: another way, So it just became like a thing I 308 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 5: started to get into my head. And then it was 309 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 5: just like I was putting on this pressure on myself 310 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 5: and on you, and it was just like and I 311 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 5: thought baseball game would be more fun and then it wasn't, 312 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 5: and I was just kicking forever, and like when we're 313 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 5: stuck in traffic and I don't know what to do, 314 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 5: and it was. 315 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 4: Just like, yeah, why have you been like ghosting me? 316 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 4: Like we had a good conversation and just because you 317 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 4: didn't get to see my head, Like honestly, we could 318 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 4: have like come back to mind place if we had 319 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 4: a good time, and we could have had a romantic 320 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 4: dinner and you could have gotten some whole head or something. 321 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 5: You know. 322 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. 323 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 2: Did you just say you could have gotten some whole 324 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 2: head A vision? 325 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: I like it. You're kind of at tease. That's good. 326 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: You want to see it. 327 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: No, you don't get I mean, if you're still curious, 328 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: there is sounds like a window of opportunity to make 329 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: that happen. 330 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. 331 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 5: I don't know how I feel about whole head. 332 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: That's what you've been asking. 333 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: It's the whole goal. 334 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: And wait, do you care if he's bald? Is that 335 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: an emphasis for you? Because if it's receding, I'm. 336 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 5: Like a guy with a head of hair. I mean 337 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 5: that might be superficial, but I mean I do prefer that. 338 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: You can't predict how that's going to end up. Just 339 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: going to let you know. 340 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 2: But you still have a chance to actually see him 341 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 2: in person one more time and get another shot to 342 00:14:58,920 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: peak at. 343 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: His dome if he still wants to even go out 344 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: with you. 345 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 2: That's a good point. Nathan, are you turned off by 346 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: this totally or are you still willing to give Tricia chance. 347 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 4: I'm very confused. I wouldn't say I'm turned off. I'm 348 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 4: a little bit confused why you went this particular route 349 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 4: to try to accomplish this. I would be open to 350 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 4: a non hat date, but I wish you would have 351 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 4: just told me that in your Shark Tank requirements because 352 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 4: it wasn't really listed. 353 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: Okay, when he made the deal. 354 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 4: We might we might have to renegotiate because I'm not 355 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 4: sure if I'm going to fully commit. I did at 356 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 4: least ten percent of your heart. If you want to 357 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 4: see me without a hat. 358 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 2: Oh, hearts are on the table there. 359 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 5: Trisha, he's a hard negotiator, and so we're. 360 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 2: Just going to throw it out there. If you're willing 361 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 2: to meet up with Nate one more time, we would 362 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 2: pay for that date. Whatever happens, and then oh you're in. 363 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: Oh look at that. 364 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 2: Okay, looks like a deal has been struck. In exchange 365 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 2: for ten percent of Trisha's heart, Nathan will show up 366 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 2: and s one hundred percent of his head. 367 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: That was an intense negotiation. 368 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 4: That's awesome. I'm so looking forward to a. 369 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 3: Trick maybe if she asked for the pants off cease negotiations. 370 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 2: Okay, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Man, what a deal. 371 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 2: We just struck ten percent of her heart for one 372 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: hundred percent of his head. Yeah, I mean I think 373 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 2: he got the bad end of the deal. 374 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 3: If a guy was upset that I didn't like take 375 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 3: off my coat the entire date or something, I would 376 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 3: not go back out with him. 377 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. 378 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: Why that guy is so cool with it. 379 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 2: He's got a good head of hair under there. 380 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: That's why. 381 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 5: Yeah. 382 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 2: I don't want to tell him, but if he is 383 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 2: like in the middle of a receding hairline, he should 384 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 2: just shave it. All right, now, this is a good time, 385 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 2: so he hit that reset button. This whole thing does 386 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 2: make me curious though, to think about, Brooke, if you 387 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 2: had a heart, how much would you be willing to 388 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: give to your husband. 389 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh, I'll give him all of it. But all those 390 00:16:58,400 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: idiots that I dated. 391 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 3: Before, they got less than one percent and then I 392 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 3: took it back if I was done with them. 393 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 2: Okay, same question with the Head. What they never even 394 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 2: got to mention Nathan in his crush in college. So 395 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 2: I wonder if that's going to come up during their 396 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 2: next meetup. 397 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:18,159 Speaker 1: I hope not. I think that's more of a like 398 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: three months in conversation. 399 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we'll find out down the road in an update. Update. 400 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 2: We'll see. And if you're new to the show, we 401 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 2: do do those all the time. You can hear them 402 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 2: on our podcast do do Rook and Jeffrey in the 403 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 2: Morning where we show full head in the thumbnails. So 404 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 2: ye are welcome.