1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: But then I got self conscious of the couple next 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: to us, thinks we're lying that it's not really our 3 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:05,199 Speaker 1: birthday and it's not really our anniversary. 4 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 2: We're just looking for free shit. 5 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: So then they send us glasses of wine for our anniversary, 6 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:10,799 Speaker 1: and then I felt bad. I was like, well, I 7 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: don't really know if it's our anniversary. It like turned 8 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: into this whole thing, and Steve goes, just shut up, 9 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: what does it matter? 10 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 3: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of 11 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 3: iHeartRadio Happy Solar Eclipse Day. 12 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: Of the HOD that's a total eclipse. 13 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: Yep, you know. 14 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: I didn't have the glasses. I didn't have the glasses, 15 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: so I didn't get to look up. I didn't plan ahead, 16 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: I didn't order the glasses. But I was in the car. Hi, everybody, 17 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: welcome to the Calm Down Podcast. 18 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 3: I hae the car. 19 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: I tried to peer through the window and I thought, well, 20 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: the windows tinted, so maybe I can kind of look 21 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: at it. Then I didn't want to look up because 22 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: it was driving, and I was like, then am I 23 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: a bad person? Because this only happens never in my lifetime? 24 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: So we'll get to that before we do. We have 25 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: a big show for you today, and I don't know 26 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: if Aaron will be with us by the time the 27 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: show's over because she looked up at the eclipse without 28 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: glasses on. 29 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: So one second on that. We have a lot to discuss. 30 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: Including I have a lot of feelings about all of 31 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: my friends having kids. 32 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 3: So I asked her if she was pregnant, but she 33 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: said no. So there's that. 34 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 2: Definitely not pregnant. We we'll get to that. Also, I 35 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: just got back. 36 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: If you cannot tell from my face, Red Rover, Red Rovers, 37 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: send my face right over. I just got back from Florida. 38 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: Was horrible and didn't wear sunscreen. I am the absolute worst. 39 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: I'm mad at myself. 40 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: So there's that. 41 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: Also went to the Women's Amateur tournament at Augusta, which 42 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 1: was awesome and met some incredible women. 43 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 2: So I'm excited to talk about that, you doll. 44 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 3: I looked up at the sun today. I went to 45 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 3: go get my face shot up because I have a 46 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: monster solar clips on the left side of my face 47 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 3: and it is not eclipsing, and the only way I 48 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: could get rid of it, I'm going to get you 49 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 3: know what I'm going to do right now before I 50 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 3: talk about my eye injury. I'm going to give a 51 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: shout out to Skin Medics down the street from me. 52 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: They are always there, like thank you for being a friend, 53 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 3: travel around the road and back back again. I call them. 54 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, listen, I got a situation come in in 55 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 3: an hour. Thank you so much. 56 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: Well, you know what, everybody knows your name. You don't 57 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: even need to check in. You just go room two, 58 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: room too, Aaron. We got, oh, hey, erin, how are you? 59 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: How do you think I am? 60 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 3: My face led before. 61 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: I did the same spot over and it's. 62 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 3: All it's hormonal. It's down in my chin. And then 63 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: I get them above my lip. I sound they're pretty attractive. 64 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 3: So if you listen to our pregame, we talked about 65 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: pickup lines. I don't get any. I wonder why, because 66 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 3: I'm trying to. 67 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: She's picking them by thems. It no, just stop picking. 68 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm telling you the best thing pick for that. 69 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 3: Okay, time the time, you know. So I walked out 70 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 3: of skin Medics and I saw everybody standing there looking 71 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 3: up and I had, you know, some gooders on and 72 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 3: I thought that that would do me right. And I 73 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 3: went and I looked up and my left eye really hurt, 74 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 3: and I was thinking to myself, oh my god, like 75 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 3: here I did. I'm I'm the one in a million, 76 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: and that I was driving home and I was like, 77 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 3: you know, like it's like the line from Christmas Vacation 78 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: or it's getting read, isn't well, you keep touching it. 79 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 3: So I was like hurting and there was pressure in it, 80 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 3: and I kept CHRISA. This went even so far for 81 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 3: me to think of a scenario, scenario that the left 82 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: eye is what's the word sounds like compromise, compromise, Okay, 83 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 3: we're back. I was gonna have to like maybe lie 84 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 3: to Fox and be like, well yeah, and have to 85 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 3: see everything from this angle. I was like thinking about that. 86 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 2: Okay, we walk about it ready. 87 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: The Calm Down Podcast, Aaron's a hypochondriac, but also doesn't 88 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: follow the only instructions that everyone told her to do 89 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: when the eclipse happened is do not look up at 90 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: the sun with your regular glasses or any non approved 91 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: solar eclipse glasses, which is why I didn't. Did these 92 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: people order them ahead of time? Everyone was very prepared 93 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: for this, and I should have been prepared, but I'm not. 94 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: And this is what happened, so I'm miss. 95 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 3: Savannah got on the Today Show said you could just 96 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 3: go to the grocery store and get them, but I didn't. 97 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: I don't go to the grocery store. I mean, that's 98 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 1: maybe that's the problem. So how you're feeling better now 99 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: though you're okay, the pressure's gone, the pressure's gone, Okay, Well, 100 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: I feel a lot of pressure that I didn't participate 101 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: in the once in a lifetime activity and just tried 102 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 1: to look through the tint that I have on my windows. 103 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, but it was cool. 104 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 1: It also depends on where you live, like we live 105 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: in California, so it probably wasn't as cool as like Texas. 106 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: For example, I saw Tony Gonzalez and Sweet Toby had 107 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: posted and like they had like a full like it 108 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: turned dark. 109 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 3: They didn't an event. 110 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 1: I'm surprised he wasn't on the moon. Jeff, this guy 111 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: they are, they are always on it. I'm always dilate 112 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 1: to everything you are. 113 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 3: And a dollar short, you're hemorrhaging. 114 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 2: We get a dollar short because I'm paying someone's bill, 115 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. We talked about on the 116 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: pre game. We hate cheap people. 117 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: You have those cheap friends that never offer to put 118 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: their credit card down well invite. 119 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: I also hate people that charge us in a year late. 120 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: Any speaking of dinner, Okay, so you're gonna appreciate this story. 121 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: So for our wonderful listeners, I obviously try to spend 122 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: as much time at the ranch as I can during 123 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: the off season because all my sweet little animals and 124 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: I just feel like a guilty mother. So I need 125 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: to be there as much as I can, and I 126 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: want to be there as much as I can. 127 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: But ye, when you're there, you know, when you're there, 128 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 2: you're like you're in it. 129 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: Like it's rustic, rustic Bill, Like there's no like we're 130 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: going out to dinner, like this closest town is thirty 131 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: minutes away, Like it's Steve making dinner every night, and 132 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: you really got like your partner. 133 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 2: AnyWho. 134 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: So we get back and I have to then leave 135 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: the next day. So I'm like, let's go on a date. 136 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: Let's go on a proper date. I'm gonna get dressed up. 137 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna remind you why it is that you want 138 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: to be with me. I'm adorable, I'm a great time. 139 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 2: Let me be cued. Okay, let me put on some 140 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 2: makeup for once and go out. 141 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: So we go to this nice steakhouse and we're sitting 142 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: there and like, I'm so excited. You would have thought 143 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: I've never heard you go been to steak thirty eight. 144 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: It's the thirty eight, eighty three, oh one, whatever that 145 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: one here? Yet No, we went together for the Fox event, 146 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: not here. 147 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: Were you not there? 148 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 3: No I didn't get invited. 149 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: Oh you were out of town. Oh no, it wasn't 150 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: for a pregame. It wasn't for yeah. Yeah, Oh I 151 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: didn't get invited to the one that you went to 152 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: that was also really gat Yeah, okay, yeah, okay, here 153 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: we go. So go to the steakhouse and I'm jacked. 154 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 1: I got them men and you know, I normally don't 155 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: really care about food. I'm like, I'm not really into that, 156 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: more into the cocktails. No, No, Mama was ready after 157 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: eating freakin' biscuits and like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, 158 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I am getting the oysters. The sweet 159 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: waitress came over and I was like, I'm getting everything 160 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 1: on the appetizer list. 161 00:06:59,080 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: I'm getting all the things. 162 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: So then as we do We've talked about this before 163 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: you start looking around. 164 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 2: You're like, okay, let me survey the room. 165 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: We've got Heather du Brow over here, real housewife with 166 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: the doctor, so that they're oh yeah, and like she's 167 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: a tiny little thing. Then I was gonna go up 168 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I love you and you're great. 169 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: But like then I was like, Viki it off, not 170 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: gonna yeah exactly, Aaron, Any Okay, we go. 171 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 2: This is everyone stay with us again. 172 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: You know the path we travel, the stories are all 173 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: over all aboard Chew Chew. Next up crazy Town. We 174 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: go to Orange County and with woofs, we're gonna have 175 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna whoop it up in Orange County and. 176 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 3: We're at Bernie's and we go we go. 177 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: To a restaurant and I'm like, the only person that 178 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: I want to see in Orange County is Vicky Gumbolson 179 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: O G O C. Like whatever, of course we're not 180 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: gonna see Vicky Gumboleson. Like this is just random. Not 181 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,679 Speaker 1: even five minutes after I say that, Vicky Gumboleson comes 182 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: walking through the door, You would have thought that we 183 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: would be I'd come back from the gray and walked 184 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: through the restaurant. 185 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: I got up and I was like, I will always 186 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 2: love you. 187 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: So anyways, getting back to the steakhouse with Steve, I'm 188 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: sitting there and there's okay. 189 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: I'm looking around. Okay, what do we got going on here? 190 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: Let's survey the situation. 191 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: We're at the high top, so my angle's really good. 192 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: Cutie couple next to us. I hear them say something 193 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: about anniversary, and then I looked at Steve and I 194 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: was like, do we have an anniversary? And He's like, yeah, 195 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: I think it's actually like right around now. So then 196 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: we started scrolling back and looking at Montana pictures and 197 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 1: like the timeline of after that, like a few years 198 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: ago when we got together. So we're like, oh my god, 199 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: our anniversary is tomorrow from this one picture. So I 200 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: was like, this is great, we'll celebrate our anniversary tonight. Well, 201 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: at this point, I had already told the waitress that 202 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: it was Steve's birthday the week before that, So stay 203 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: with me. I'm bringing I'm gonna land this plane not 204 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: with an emergency landing. But so the QUT couple next 205 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: to us says it's their anniversary and I was like, well, Steve, 206 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: it's our anniversary. I was like, you guys, happy anniversary. 207 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: It's our annivers So now I'm like, oh my god, 208 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: it's all right. They have seven years. We are a 209 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: made up date for chairs of dating. Okay, well the 210 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: meal so then I send them over a glass of 211 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: champagne each. They think you're so sweet. Okay, whatever, No, 212 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: what's not sweet? So then the meal ends, they bring 213 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: out a happy birthday cake for Steve, and now I'm 214 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: looking and I'm like, these people next to us think 215 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,839 Speaker 1: I'm a liar. It's our anniversary that no, we're getting 216 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: free birthday cake. They probably think we're just making up 217 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 1: any event. 218 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 3: Anniversar Tree is on Jared's birthday too. 219 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: Well, so I obviously like that doesn't happen very often. 220 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: But then I got self conscious that the couple next 221 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: to us thinks we're lying that it's not really our 222 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: birthday and it's not really our anniversary. 223 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 2: We're just looking for free shit. 224 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,719 Speaker 1: So then they send us glasses of wine for our anniversary, 225 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: and then I felt bad. I was like, well, I 226 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: don't really know if it's our anniversary, like turned into 227 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: this whole thing, and Steve goes, just shut up, What 228 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: does it matter. We can have a birthday cake. And 229 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: we can have an anniversary. And I was like, I know, 230 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: I felt bad and I didn't want the restaurant to 231 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: think we were taking advantage of the events and the 232 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 1: couple next to so then he looks at me, He's like, 233 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: this is why we don't go out. 234 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 2: I was like, fu, And. 235 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 3: There has to be those people by the way that 236 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: do that. I mean, you worked in a restaurant, don't 237 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 3: you think there's people that just come in and lie 238 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: about what are Since they're celebrating. 239 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 2: They want a free piece of cheesecake. And then we 240 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 2: all got it. 241 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: And then as a waitress, I'm scrambling looking for the 242 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: lighter because she supposed bringing a lighter to work. It's like, 243 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: oh God, Table fourteen has a birthday? Are we asking 244 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: them for their ID? Like? 245 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 2: Is it really your birthday? 246 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: Well? I felt like that person, but it really was 247 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: Steve's birthday and we had just found out that it 248 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: was our anniversary. 249 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 2: We hadn't really find it before. 250 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 3: Phenomenal and it happens it wasn't a lie. 251 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 2: No, it was a lie. 252 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: I just started laughing though, thinking to myself at the 253 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: table next was like, Oh, what what other event are 254 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: you guys? 255 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: Looking to celebrate here tonight get some free shit. 256 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 3: So on the pregame, we were talking about an event 257 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 3: that is coming up soon and it is mac Roger 258 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 3: Stole's first birthday, pressure Agel, and that paved the way 259 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 3: for you to say, I've got some real thought about 260 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 3: my friends having kids. The floor is yours? 261 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, well the dance floor will be cleared for 262 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: this conversation. But before we get to that, since I've 263 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: just monopolized the first ten minutes of this with my 264 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: story about I don't want to feel like I'm taking 265 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: advantage of holidays and free cakes. I was also discussing 266 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: with you that when are we doing Max's birthday? Are 267 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: we doing it on the birthday? Are we doing the day? 268 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 3: We got to figure it out because I want you 269 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: guys in town. I want some other people in town. 270 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 3: So we got to figure that out. It's a lot 271 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 3: of dates we need to talk about. So you let 272 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 3: me know. Are you planning time for me? 273 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: Now? 274 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 2: Are you scrolling through Pinterest and you like look at 275 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 2: ideas like how does this happen? 276 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 3: I guess I should. 277 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: Daisy has an idea? A lot invited because that's a 278 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: lot of pressure. I feel like it is. 279 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of pressure. I was actually 280 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 3: thinking of the Calm Down podcast yesterday because I only 281 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: know the age group of like nine months right now 282 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 3: of what's appropriate to give a kid. I don't really 283 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 3: I struggle with that whole thing. We went to a 284 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 3: birthday yesterday for two six year olds. A it was 285 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 3: a twins birthday, and I was literally stressing out with 286 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,719 Speaker 3: the fact, Oh my god, I didn't think I was 287 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 3: going to be in town. First of all, I am 288 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 3: in town, so now I've got a rush and go 289 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: get these kids presents. So I'm texting my girlfriends that 290 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 3: have six year olds and she's like, oh, this, this 291 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 3: and this, and I said, Jesus, Jackie didn't even miss 292 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 3: a beat with that one. I mean, granted she's got 293 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 3: three kids, but I find buying for children yeah, so stressful. 294 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: Say that. Yeah, well, because I can't. 295 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 3: Even imagine doing a birthday party. 296 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: I feel like that with my nieces and nephews. I'm like, 297 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: there's no way that they're going to like this stuff. 298 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: And then I just give them money and it's like 299 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: doesn't feel personal at all. Yeah, but like that's not personal. 300 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: I like to an eight year old like here's some money. 301 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: It's like, go buy a present, you lazy biatch. 302 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't know. 303 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: But and then like the I don't know, just birthday 304 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 1: parties in general, and we got into it a little bit, 305 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: not into it. 306 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 2: We talked about it on the pregame. 307 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: These people that spend so much money on their children's 308 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 1: birthday parties. 309 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 2: Like the kids not what you know. We had for 310 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 2: our birthday party. 311 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: We had my mother making us a homemade cake, a 312 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: few balloons, and like kids in the backyard with water 313 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 1: balloons and it may be a pinata. 314 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 3: Best birthday party as a kid. 315 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 1: Sorry, mom, I don't remember anything that was like so memorable. 316 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: I mean I think like a straw I was really 317 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: into theme. So it was like I had my little 318 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 1: pony birthday theme. I had a strawberry shortcake theme. Like 319 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: I was just excited to like have a theme of 320 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: a birthday party. But these kids now, it's like they 321 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 1: want to go they want to go to Hawaii for 322 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 1: their first birthday. 323 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: Like what are we doing? These are children? 324 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 1: Like if you start them off that young with like 325 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: the bars up here, like no, this is probably why 326 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm not having kids. 327 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 2: Okay, So my thing about. 328 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: Okay, so girl, So everybody, every friend of mine, not 329 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: every friend, all of my good friends have children. Now 330 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: that's normal. Like I'm going to be four, We're going 331 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 1: to be with the same birthday. But like I'm going 332 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: to be forty two in a couple of weeks, and 333 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: that's normal. This is a conscious decision that I have 334 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: made to not have children, even though you and everyone 335 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: else in my life is like, don't say you're not 336 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: going to do it because you know, don't you agree? 337 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: I have made a conscious choice. Now there can be 338 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: something that could change. I also say that like I'm 339 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: never going to get married again. I do feel like 340 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm never going to get married again, but I never 341 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: want to say never in life to anything. Okay, fine, 342 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: but I'm really happy with my choice. This isn't me 343 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: trying to convince myself, but like all these different situations 344 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: in my life just remind me. I'm like, I love 345 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: Steve so much that I want to give all the 346 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: time that I have left in my life life to 347 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: Steve and not even have to split that up. Like 348 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: you can attest like the time that you spend with 349 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 1: Jared isn't as much now because you have a child 350 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: and you need to allocate time to different things and whatever. Right, 351 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: And so I feel like I met Steve so late 352 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: in life, and like, I just don't want to split 353 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: my love up. I just want to give it to 354 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: him and like be happy and whatever. Okay, but what 355 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to get here's the butt. I am going 356 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: to be boxed out of vacations. No vacant I am, 357 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: because think about it. We have friends. They all go 358 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: on vacation because they have kids, and they do they 359 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: build their vacations around the kids' spring breaks. 360 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 3: I'm going to always need you the stafford. Yeah, you're 361 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 3: out of that loop. We're both out of that loop. 362 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 3: We're never going to be invited again. I mean, Kelly, 363 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 3: if you're late. I saw her this weekend. She was 364 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 3: down at Martha's and I was jumping for joy because 365 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I can just see you. 366 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 3: But half of it's my fault too. But yeah, no, 367 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: we're we're boxed out there. You we're boxed out of 368 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 3: them for sure. Thought but it's going to happen of mine? 369 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 3: Are you not coming on? 370 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 2: Mac is still a baby? Like they're going. 371 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: But you're going to have to plan vacations around his snoul, 372 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: his soul, and so it's going to be your vacations 373 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: are my vacations. By the way, Missy, I'm just thinking 374 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: to myself, they're you're acting crazy. Nope, Okay, Well I 375 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: would love to hear anyone listening that doesn't have children 376 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: and that there was a shift in their life when 377 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 1: all their friends around them had kids and then they 378 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: had to I have to go start being friends with 379 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 1: younger people. That's just Kristin Cavaleri and her boyfriend and 380 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: I already hanging out. Okay, boys and I are going 381 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: to which by the way, I don't Christen. I know 382 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: I met you like whatever through like business in life before, 383 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: but like, good for you. Who gives a shit how 384 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: old your boyfriend is or isn't you're happy? I hate 385 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: when everyone wants to have an opinion on someone's significant other. 386 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 2: In less they're harmful and losers than you should get 387 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 2: rid of them. AnyWho. 388 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's the feelings that I was having as 389 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, because a lot of my. 390 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 3: Schedule, a lot of my schedule is open for my schedule, 391 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 3: So I think you're crazy. I appreciate the fear, well, that's. 392 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: A nice way to say that. Thank you for listening, 393 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that. That's very sweet. 394 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 2: You appreciate the fear, and tell me to knock it off. 395 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 3: Okay, knock it off, because here's the thing. We've had 396 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 3: this conversation a lot. I mean, I get that we 397 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 3: see it now with certain friends are always with other friends, 398 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 3: but they always come back to the real ones. You know, 399 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 3: I'm not interested. I'm too old in my life. Yeah, 400 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 3: I'll be friends with whoever. But like, I need my people. 401 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 3: I'm good. 402 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 2: I don't need I know, and that's my thing. 403 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: Like, I just don't want my people to like all leave, 404 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: because then it's just Steve and I looking at each 405 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: other like this there no no, oh yeah they're done, but. 406 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 3: They're gone. 407 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 2: Kelly, Kelly, where are you not taking a shower? All? 408 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,679 Speaker 3: No, just kidding. We love you, guys. We miss you. 409 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 3: Call it. I'll send you my number if you need it. No, 410 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 3: I'm kidding. 411 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 2: Okay. Wait. 412 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: So speaking of that friendship, though, think that friendships are 413 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 1: important and you do have to put in work for them. 414 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: And that's why I am very grateful that like, thank God, 415 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: our job like allows us to see each other different things, 416 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,880 Speaker 1: and we have a vacation with which, by the way, 417 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 1: like I just need to say this, Fox, I love 418 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 1: you like and Amazon, I love you. But like companies, 419 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: and there has been a lot of layoffs in our 420 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 1: respective industry recently, and I was really really sad. And 421 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: I was actually with some people that work at that 422 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: same network over weekend because I was with them, and 423 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: I just I'm it is not ever lost on me 424 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 1: how fragile this industry is, or any industry that you 425 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: work in where there can be layoffs and cut offs, 426 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: like I heard like home depots even laying a bunch 427 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 1: of people off because they hired all these people because 428 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: during COVID everyone was working on projects and now you know, 429 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 1: life is resumed, and I just I job secure is 430 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: such a thing that I never ever take for granted. 431 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 1: So and you don't realize how much you know until 432 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: it affects your own life. So I just anyways, I 433 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,959 Speaker 1: wanted to just give a shout out to like employers. 434 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 2: That because they that's also tough to do. 435 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: Like having worked in HR, I saw people have to 436 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: go into my boss's office and they got fired and 437 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: walking out and like one minute, their life is here 438 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: and the next minute it's not. And this is probably 439 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: why we continue to have one hundred jobs, just so 440 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,959 Speaker 1: we always stamployed. But anyways, I spend all of this 441 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: money on laser treatments and skincare and anti aging. I 442 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: in the asshole that was in Florida for less than 443 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: seventy two hours, didn't. 444 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 2: Put any sunscreen on my face. And I was sitting 445 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 2: outside and. 446 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I just want a little color 447 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: because like can't tone it tan it like we all 448 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: look better with like a little sun. 449 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 2: Nope. I fried my entire chest. Look at that. Look 450 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 2: at that the chest that I just spent money to 451 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 2: laser the sunspots off of. I have horrible burns all. 452 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 3: Of just I didn't take the time to put anything 453 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 3: on time. 454 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: Look at this, I'm peeling on my forehead. And I'm 455 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: really disappointed in myself because I'm like CHRISA, we're not 456 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: at the age where we could do this. We know 457 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 1: how important sunscreen is, and I just was like, oh, 458 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: I just want like a little color, and then fell 459 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 1: asleep and fried my body so much, and I was 460 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: just mad at myself because I know better. 461 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 3: And your now Lady's gonna have a time with you, 462 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 3: because apparently she tries to fix everything right, so she's 463 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 3: gonna try to get in there and really get after that. 464 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you when I finally got my boatox 465 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 1: point me yesterday and she went to do the the 466 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 1: antiseptics thing to clean the area. I was like, and 467 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: it was my point is I'm gonna if you I'm 468 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: going to be borrowing your sunscreen and lathering all over 469 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: my body and laying under an umbrella because I'm on 470 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: sun probation. 471 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: Because that's ridiculous. 472 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 3: Well, it just thinks about like we do so much 473 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 3: work to like try to like you know, reverse the damage. Yeah, stupid. 474 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: I was mad at myself for doing that. But anyway, 475 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 1: Palm Beach I talked about it a little bit on 476 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: the pregame. 477 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 2: I went for my first time. 478 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 1: I mean, and I've been watching that show Palm Royal 479 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: where Kristin Wood looks incredible in this thing y'all y'all 480 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: Kelly voice, I Paul Beach is uh hoot. These characters 481 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: down there, they live like this imaginary Disneyland adult life, 482 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 1: And it was my first time being there. You and 483 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: I need to go and I'm all about dressing up 484 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: and like the over the top outfits and colorful and 485 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: I just had a great time. 486 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 3: I was there a couple. I was there a couple. 487 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 3: I was there a month ago with my parents. I 488 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,639 Speaker 3: stayed at the Boca Raton Hotel. It was another level. 489 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 3: It was like Great Gatsby. It was so fire. I 490 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 3: love that place. My dad looks around and goes, I 491 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 3: think you would live here, and I was like, yeah, 492 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 3: it's great. It was in Boca Awesome. 493 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: I want to go there because we stayed at the Breakers, 494 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 1: just like I wanted, like. 495 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 3: Old school, like break the Bank. 496 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 497 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: And then I was thinking about the uh a girlfriend 498 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 1: of mine she got married there and I couldn't go 499 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: to her wedding. But I was thinking about, like just 500 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 1: the flower arrangements, how much, how expensive that place was. 501 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 1: But anyways, I love that bar that they have there 502 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 1: with the green tile, the seafood bar. It's amazing with 503 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 1: the fish swimming in the good the thing. But let 504 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 1: me tell you, there are some situations that go down 505 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: in Paul Beach and late night. 506 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 2: It gets so entro tate me. 507 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: I just sat back and I watch and the Clientele 508 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 1: ality show. Oh my God, why do you not have 509 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: a reality show? Probably because they want to have more 510 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:34,679 Speaker 1: discretion or something. 511 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's so good you watching me into 512 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 2: housewives stuff right now. 513 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 3: No I'm not either. I need to. Actually, this is 514 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 3: a great segue into our headlines. I need to finish 515 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 3: the Beckham docu series. And I bring this up because 516 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 3: we have a headline David Beckham talking about his wife Victoria. 517 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 3: You actually sent me this Instagram post. You and I 518 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 3: have been on a real rant about being a strong woman, 519 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 3: working hard, working your ass off. And he was so 520 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,479 Speaker 3: lovely talking about his wife. I don't know who he 521 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 3: was talking to, but he was saying, yes, she's beautiful, 522 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 3: Yes she was sexy. Yes I fancied her, But in 523 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 3: all honesty, I like a strong woman and I like 524 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 3: the facts she works hard. And I was like, thank you, 525 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 3: David Beckham. 526 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 2: M hmm, yeah. 527 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 3: Becaun't see you too. 528 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: Anyone that hasn't watched that their documentary, it's fantastic for 529 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 1: a lot of different reasons, you realize. I mean they 530 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 1: were so famous, so famous, I mean they still are famous, 531 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: but like soccer, and like European soccer, and then even 532 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 1: the how much hate he got when he came over 533 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: here and then like selling out to MLS and all 534 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: the different people's thoughts that they had on that. But 535 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: they were and continue to be so in love and adorable. 536 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 1: But I just when I read that, I was, I 537 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: don't know. I just appreciate that, yes, you can check 538 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: those boxes if you want to be attracted to someone 539 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: and all these other things. But working hard and then 540 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: being confident. I thought that that was really inspiring to be. 541 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: And he's hot. He had a lot of different hot phases, 542 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: like do I like shaved head beck. 543 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm better than long hair Beckham like he was. 544 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say this about him too. They have 545 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 3: gone to the King's Game quite a bit. And two 546 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 3: things about him. He is always so nice. Their kids 547 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,479 Speaker 3: are so polite. They're always in this little bar area 548 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 3: and they're just always like, hi, how are I Like, 549 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 3: just a very very nice family. And I really really 550 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 3: appreciate that. 551 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 1: I got to tell you there would be no yes, 552 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm not having children, maybe, but I don't think there 553 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: would be a greater compliment than to have someone come 554 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: up and. 555 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 2: Say your children are so well mannered. 556 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 1: I agree, Like if you can give I mean, MAC 557 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 1: will be because you will ensure that he is between 558 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 1: you and Jared. There is no other option than for 559 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 1: him to be, you know, well mannered. But like even 560 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: like for those like Stafford girls, when they're just like 561 00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:00,160 Speaker 1: yes ma'am, yes, Miss Aaron, like the teaching your kids 562 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,639 Speaker 1: manners and so you can set them up for success 563 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: when they go out into the world and they're not 564 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: assholes and just being polite and being kind. I was 565 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,879 Speaker 1: with a bunch of women this weekend shout out to 566 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: Mercedes because yes, Mercedes is a wonderful company for a 567 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: lot of different reasons. But I've been lucky enough to 568 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: be an ambassador for theirs for about like seven years, 569 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 1: and they've given me the greatest moment that I've ever 570 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: had in my life with my father, to go to 571 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: a master's with him and have like this incredible experience 572 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,479 Speaker 1: and like you just never I never take that for granted. 573 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: But also they do great women empowerment thing and it 574 00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 1: was the weekend of Women. It really felt like between 575 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 1: you know, the Women's Final Four and everything that happened 576 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: with Caitlin Clark and Don Staley and all of the 577 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: different storylines around women. 578 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 2: I know you're wearing the power of sheet sweatshet right now. 579 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: But anyways, I got to get together with a bunch 580 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: of women this weekend, and let's face it, women are 581 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: not always like supportive, and sometimes they can be caddie. 582 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: I left there being so appreciative that there was a 583 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: room fall of about forty women and these are CEOs 584 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: of Fortune five hundred companies and cmos and CFOs and 585 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: all of these really accomplished women that all got together 586 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: with Mercedes invite and invites and we had the best time. 587 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 2: And I was just reminded. 588 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 1: How wonderful it is to like support other women and 589 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 1: also just get out of your comfort zone because like 590 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,360 Speaker 1: sometimes when you go into those situations, I knew no one, 591 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: Like I didn't know one of these women prior to 592 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: getting there. And I left and like have a bunch 593 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: of new, you know, acquaintances that like when life will 594 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: take you out and hopefully meet it back up again. 595 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: But I just felt very inspired by that, and I 596 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 1: wanted to just give a shout out to Mercedes for 597 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: like bringing women together for that, because I felt like 598 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: all weekend, whether it was around the NCAA tournament or 599 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: just in general, like women like together. 600 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 3: You can do a lot of things. All right, let's 601 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 3: hit another headline. My ex husband is demanding I change 602 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 3: my name back to my maiden name after twelve years 603 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 3: because of his twenty four year old fiance is jealous. 604 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 3: I still use it. I think you should change it too. 605 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 3: It's been twelve years. I'm sorry. 606 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: I don't understand why you want to hang on Ryandy guy. 607 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 2: Ryan is joining us now. 608 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 1: We love segments that also involve a guy's perspective. And 609 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: for those of you not familiar with who Ryan is 610 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: and those of you Ryan, Ryan's our wonderful producer. 611 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 2: And Ryan's reactions. 612 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: It's been a minute, so right, Aaron and I feel 613 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 1: the same way on this, Like you want to leave 614 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 1: your husband or you guys get a divorce, but you 615 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: want to hold on to his name. 616 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? 617 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 4: Okay, So, the one thing I will say about this 618 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 4: having my wife and I have now been married for 619 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 4: three years, and she was always going to take my name, 620 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 4: so there was no question about that. But it did 621 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 4: take her a while to go through the whole process 622 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,679 Speaker 4: of the new passport, the new security credit. 623 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 3: It's been twelve years. 624 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 5: I get it, I. 625 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 4: Get it, but I understand why you might not want 626 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 4: to go through that hassle. 627 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 5: So I will side with that bullshit. 628 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 4: But what I will say is this, the husband clearly 629 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 4: didn't care until now there's another woman involved, because if 630 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 4: it's been twelve years, and obviously I mean if this fiance. 631 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 5: Is twenty four, yeah, you know this must. 632 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 4: Be a recent thing that they've taken on. So clearly 633 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 4: there are some other things behind the scenes that the 634 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 4: ex husband's being tasked with. So I can see you 635 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 4: why why there may be a bit of a battle 636 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 4: here between the two women involved. 637 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: I do think it's interesting there are only other caveat 638 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: that because I still think you just it's not I 639 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: thought it was a pain in the ass to get 640 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 1: my renew my license erin goes go online. 641 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 2: It takes five seconds. Guess who's got a new license me? 642 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: Like, you think these things are going to be cumbersome, 643 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: and they could be easier than not. I even make 644 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 1: married twice. I never changed my last name ever, so 645 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: I won't try to pretend like I know the arduous 646 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: said process that it is. But if you have kids, 647 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,959 Speaker 1: I get there's also that thing, like you, it's easier 648 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: to have the same last name, But like you're divorced. 649 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 3: Like you're divorced. I mean, she obviously doesn't want to 650 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 3: change it now because there's a twenty four year old 651 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 3: fiance in the wings. But girl, come on, I mean no, 652 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 3: I would really be more concerned about changing the password 653 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 3: to the bank account than the last name. 654 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: You know in your delta flight because he'll cancel flights. 655 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean I do? 656 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,479 Speaker 3: I'm crazy. 657 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 2: Yikes. Okay, next sheets. 658 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 1: We've talked about this before cet Go had. Okay, if 659 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: you don't wash your new bed sheets, you should. Here's 660 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: a horrifying reason. Okay, betting is new factories all this 661 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: kind of thing. Banished bedbugs is one of the reasons 662 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 1: why you should wash your sheets. Storage facilities and stores 663 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: can also be infested with insects like beetles, and bedbugs 664 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: also strip unhealthy chemical chemicals used in dyeing in. 665 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 2: The process of fabric. 666 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so various reasons to wash your sheets beforehand. 667 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 2: I understand that. 668 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 1: But when we saw the headline, admittingly, I said, I 669 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 1: don't wash my new clothes when I get them. I 670 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: don't wash my jeans, I don't wash my shirts when 671 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: either and I just ripped the tag off and put 672 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 1: them on. 673 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 2: Couldn't you say the same thing. 674 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: The dyes, the factories, the like sitting on a shelf 675 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 1: like and clothes are on your body sheets. 676 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 2: Ryan Ryan, Ryan's head. Ryan's reaction, Why do you wait? 677 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: Why do you think that not washing your sheets is 678 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: worse than not washing your clothes? 679 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 4: So I guess I'm giving clothing companies a little bit 680 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 4: more of a pass that I'm assuming. 681 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 5: Right, Well, yeah, maybe I shouldn't be. 682 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 4: But in my head when we first sort of read 683 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 4: this and talked about it, if if it's out on 684 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 4: a hangar, or it's been folded and it's. 685 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 5: Put out on display, it feels even worse. 686 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 3: Other people have tried it on or touched it, or. 687 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 5: You bring it out to zoo. Perhaps I should. 688 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 2: Change my bathing suits. Those liners do not protect no one. 689 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 4: That one, you're entering a different and bathing suits underwear 690 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 4: that one I totally understand. 691 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 1: Disgusting underwear if you don't wash your underwear before you 692 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: put it on, and you think about all the people 693 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: that have touched it and picked it up looking for 694 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 1: the size. Dinge mcdinge, mcdinge, Sure, Yeah, I guess. Although 695 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: I sleep naked. I sleep naked. So if you're if 696 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: that point is I should be washing my sheets. 697 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 5: You should definitely. 698 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 3: Definitely, I know beetles and bed bugs are in there. 699 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 700 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, the bed sheets was a no brainer. Anytime you're 701 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 4: buying new bed sheets, it felt like those things. 702 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: No, I know, I know better, I think I do, 703 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 1: I do, I do, but in a pinch, and it's like, oh, 704 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: you just throw them on. I did that on guest rooms. 705 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 1: I guess I'm thinking more guest rooms. If you're going 706 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: to stay in a guest bedroom of mine, your sheets 707 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: haven't been washed, but they're brand new, they just haven't 708 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: been washed. 709 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. 710 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 3: I guess it just makes me think of hotels and 711 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 3: how nasty they really are. I know why. Yes, I 712 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 3: am a diva about where I stay, but this is why. Listen, 713 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 3: I've spent my time twenty freaking years and some nasty 714 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 3: ass hotels, And when you put your head down at night, 715 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 3: I realize I've hijacked this conversation and it's going somewhere else. 716 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 3: I don't want to think about who's been in them 717 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 3: before and what bugs are creepy crawling around. 718 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: You know. 719 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 3: I got to worry about the like, okay. 720 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 2: But I'm going to tell you something. 721 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 3: Kickoff. 722 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: When we were staying in a nice hotel and Dominique, 723 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 1: Sweet Dominique, who travels with me for Thursday night football, 724 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 1: she found I under the bed that was a sex toy. 725 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: That was a sex toy under the bed. No, I'm 726 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 1: not going to out them. Whoa a sex toy under 727 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: the Bedique? 728 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 4: A lot of hotels nowadays they put up the barriers 729 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 4: underneath the bed so things kick no underneath there? 730 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 1: So well, no, it wasn't like it wasn't like there 731 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: wasn't like a you could look all the way under, 732 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: but like it was far enough where it's like it's there, 733 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 1: not the platform bed that I know what you're. 734 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 5: Talking to you do you ever? 735 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 4: So Dominique found it. Do you do the scan of 736 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 4: the room when you check in, because I feel like 737 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 4: that's goin. 738 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 2: I didn't. 739 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: I didn't think I needed to, but I went in 740 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: your room. No, that was in Dominique's room. 741 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 5: Oh okay, oh gotcha thought. 742 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: And then she asked to be moved. And then she 743 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: asked to be moved room. She was like, can I 744 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: move rooms? Like, oh, we're at full capacity and I'm like, 745 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, I would like be gagging laying in 746 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 1: that bed thinking about who the guest was the time 747 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: before and what my greatest Yeah, never mind. 748 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 3: I go to hotels and you know how we've all 749 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 3: like we go to a Dallas game and we all 750 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 3: are always at the same hotel. I'm like, we've all 751 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 3: slept in the same bed at some point together, you 752 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like, I've definitely had a room 753 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 3: that my crew members at. You know what I'm saying. 754 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 3: Maybe this just got. 755 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 1: Creepy, but no, No, when we went on the Fox Seminar. 756 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: When we went on the Fox Seminar, my keys got 757 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 1: mixed up with a former colleague of ours. I went 758 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 1: to go in my room. He was already in my bed. Yeah, 759 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 1: I know, Clay Travis. I'll say it, Clay Travis. I 760 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: was like, he's like he was like this. He was 761 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: like ah, and I was like ah, And I was like, 762 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 1: what are you doing here? And he's like this is 763 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: my room. I go, no, this is my room. 764 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 3: Up play Yeah, So. 765 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 5: What wasn't there stuff in the room? Like how did so? 766 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,879 Speaker 3: I have a lot of fun and the Fox out, 767 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't really throw stones and Clay we 768 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 3: have some. 769 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 5: Sh At some point one seminar. 770 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, well, I hadn't even gotten to that point. 771 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 1: So I go back the room. So when you check in, 772 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we'll bring your stuff to your room 773 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:39,360 Speaker 1: because we're. 774 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 2: Being you have to go straight to whatever. So I 775 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 2: have the room keys. 776 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: So by the time end of the night, yeah, I've 777 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 1: had a few cocktails, but like my key works like. 778 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 6: He was in her nightgown, you know, yeah, and so 779 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 6: he was already in the room. So obviously like my 780 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 6: stuff never made it to that room, but my keys 781 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 6: were still the keys that he had. 782 00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 2: Like it got mixed up. 783 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 1: Anyways, Clay Travis was in the bed and I was like, well, 784 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 1: this is weird. 785 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 2: I gotta go. That's great, Hawks, That's right. 786 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:09,799 Speaker 3: Is there anything on your mind that you want to 787 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 3: want to give us a reaction on from anything that 788 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,280 Speaker 3: we've talked about today. 789 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 4: You know, I will go back now that you say 790 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 4: that too. Carissa's fear of being left out due to kids. Now, Aaron, 791 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,879 Speaker 4: I hate totally see and understand that you would be 792 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,320 Speaker 4: the very inclusive friend. 793 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 5: I mean, case in points she already. 794 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,479 Speaker 3: I don't want to be friends with anyone else. 795 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 4: Already, you already brought her to the vacation in Montana. 796 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,920 Speaker 4: But I will say to someone who my wife and 797 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 4: I do not have kids at this point, and as 798 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 4: people around us are starting to have more kids, it 799 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 4: is a very real thing. Not in a mean spirited way, 800 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 4: but the friends that you're with definitely start to do 801 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,919 Speaker 4: the kids playdates, and you just slowly start to see 802 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 4: yourself not as involved in the activities that are going on. 803 00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 5: And like I said, it's not a like in an 804 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 5: thing like I don't think they're. 805 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,280 Speaker 2: Nose, I'm malicious. 806 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 1: It's just, yeah, you're not going to get invited because 807 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: you don't have a kid. And they're not like, oh, 808 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,640 Speaker 1: we don't want to invite Stephen Chris. It's just like me, 809 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 1: it won't make sense because they don't have a kid 810 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: and they don't want to go to bush Garden. 811 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 5: That's good. 812 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 3: Everybody invited to my Easter, you were invited, you couldn't come. 813 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 3: Everybody invited to my Easter didn't have a kid. We're 814 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,479 Speaker 3: the only ones that had a kid because we didn't 815 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 3: want any kids there. We just wanted Mac. That was it. 816 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 3: When Mac went to bed, we just started drinking. 817 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 1: Well here's the other thing you are, And Ryan's right, 818 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 1: you will always be aware of that because you're a 819 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,919 Speaker 1: wonderful person. But these other so called friends of mine 820 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: are because not twenty. 821 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 3: Five and I had a kid, so I know what 822 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,439 Speaker 3: it's like to be left out. We were the last 823 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,439 Speaker 3: one on the hockey team that didn't have a kid. 824 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 3: But I'll say this, Jackie Quick always had everybody at 825 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 3: our house even if they didn't have a kid. We 826 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 3: never did, and it was like we just raised everybody 827 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 3: else's kids. But we're still the fun couple. Now I 828 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 3: feel bad because I'm like, God, I didn't really. 829 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: Like what what is the for that time that we 830 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 1: didn't have a Oh yeah, well I think about this. 831 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,799 Speaker 1: This is the only thing that I think about where 832 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: it's like if you're going on a vacation with all 833 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: your friends and their kids, like if I want to 834 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: party and have a good time, like shit, I gotta 835 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 1: like still take care of these kids. 836 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 2: Oh that's not gonna be good. 837 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 1: Like that's probably another reason why shouldn't like, oh, your 838 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: kids need a battle. But I'm Susannah in Wes help. 839 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 3: It's just how it is. So what did we do 840 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 3: we went to Montana without our kid. We had a time. 841 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 3: We didn't want you to leave. 842 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: We did have a time, right your dream. 843 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 2: Well, that's perfect. 844 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,479 Speaker 3: I don't want me to have a kid. 845 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: Howie, he's still not over it. 846 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,920 Speaker 3: It's not that he's not over it, he's just really 847 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 3: like today we did swim lessons. How he loves I 848 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 3: was about to say pool, because you can't say pool 849 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 3: in front of him. He was sad. Mac went in there. 850 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 3: Mac is teething really really bad right now. So we've 851 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,839 Speaker 3: been giving him like a cold banana. That's how he's 852 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,480 Speaker 3: treat like how he's sitting there. I feel like his 853 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 3: whole life is like falling apart. 854 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,279 Speaker 1: Oh, how we get so much love? Yeah, say text 855 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: your love here in them. Oh, speaking of love, last thing, 856 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: I'll say the let go. 857 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 3: Love is blind. 858 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 1: Love is not blind, especially for you, forty one year old, divorce, 859 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,839 Speaker 1: three kids from our pregame. You go out there, girl, 860 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 1: and you go do your damn thing. But I got 861 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: to give a shout out to Sweet Tim and Sweet 862 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: Evan and the wonderful ladies that I met this weekend 863 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 1: that listen to the podcast. Sweet Tim, who works at 864 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,239 Speaker 1: the Hospitality Suite that I see every year when I 865 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 1: go to the Masters. 866 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,800 Speaker 2: He goes, I just love your podcast. 867 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 1: And sweet Evan, who's a college kid who I think 868 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: to myself, Oh my god, he why would you listen 869 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,160 Speaker 1: to this? You listen and you're so sweet. And I 870 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,880 Speaker 1: just love anyone that mentions that you actually listen to 871 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 1: this podcast because we appreciate you. 872 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 3: Tim, why don't you host us at the Masters? We'll 873 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:51,319 Speaker 3: do a pod from there. 874 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 2: Tim is a time. 875 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 3: Guys, speaking of something exciting. We have a teaser. We're 876 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 3: not going to say what it is, but we're doing 877 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 3: something really great in May. 878 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Aaron and I are doing something that 879 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: has always been a dream of mine. She's done something 880 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: like this before. I have never done it this person, 881 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,280 Speaker 1: not with that person. But you've done something like it before, 882 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: and it is. 883 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 2: Really exciting. 884 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,399 Speaker 3: There's a new versation if we want to actually do 885 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,400 Speaker 3: something out there. I told you that, Ryan. 886 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm starting to put in the game right for me. 887 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 5: I'm starting to get it. Yeah, I gotcha. 888 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're so cute. 889 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we have very exciting news. No, and it 890 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,879 Speaker 1: doesn't involve Taylor Swift and Travis because anytime we make 891 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: an announcement. It's like, okay, his number, guys, probably, but 892 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 1: it is very exciting news for the Calm Down podcast, 893 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: so we're excited to share it with you. 894 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:53,839 Speaker 2: We love you all. 895 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:57,880 Speaker 1: Keep the anonymous and the not so anonymous questions coming. 896 00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 3: But let us know if you need a reaction from 897 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 3: i In too with any of your questions. He is available, 898 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 3: He's not in Gala Audios. Calm Down with Erin and 899 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,240 Speaker 3: Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 900 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 901 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:26,360 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.