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Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and

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Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Letter subject, I'm tired of covering for this man. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm dating a guy that's been living with

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Speaker 1: a woman for six years and they're not married, so

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Speaker 1: technically he's single, so we're not cheaters. He's not happy

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Speaker 1: with her, but he tries to make her think he is,

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Speaker 1: which is confusing to me. I've been acting like I

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Speaker 1: am his cousin, and I'm tired of covering for this man.

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Speaker 1: If I call him, he pretends like he's talking to

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Speaker 1: one of his homeboys. I have been on FaceTime with

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Speaker 1: him many times and I've had to drop my phone.

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Speaker 1: When she walked in the room, everyone is hinted to

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Speaker 1: her that her man is cheating, and she's mentioned it

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Speaker 1: to me before, but I always assure her that her

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Speaker 1: man is faithful. Yes, I have been in social situations

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Speaker 1: with them, and she really thinks I am this man's cousin.

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Speaker 1: Lucky for us, his family lives way across the couch

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Speaker 1: of the country and he's not close to them. I've

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Speaker 1: picked up their daughter from daycare before, and I have

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Speaker 1: babysat for them. I've done all of this. I've done

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Speaker 1: it all to keep the peace and keep him happy.

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Speaker 1: But when do I get to be happy and have

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Speaker 1: him all to myself. He said he can't leave because

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Speaker 1: his child isn't even two years old and he doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to miss any of the major moments in her life.

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Speaker 1: Just like last week, his girlfriend gave him a chance

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Speaker 1: to leave. They got into a heated argument and she

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Speaker 1: accused him of cheating and told him that she loves him,

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Speaker 1: but he can leave if he's found someone better. She

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Speaker 1: confide it in me, and I assured her that she

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Speaker 1: did the best thing, but he chickened out, told her

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Speaker 1: that he didn't want anyone but her. He doesn't know

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Speaker 1: that I'm giving her that. I'm giving her relationship advice

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Speaker 1: on the side. I'm tired of covering for him while

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Speaker 1: he lies to her about his feelings. Should I be

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Speaker 1: straight up with her? Nosis No, be straight up with yourself.

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Speaker 1: That's who you need to be straight up with. This

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Speaker 1: has nothing to do with anyone but you. He's lying

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Speaker 1: to you, and you're believing it and lying to yourself,

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Speaker 1: and you're in her face lying with these lies he's

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Speaker 1: giving you. It is just too many lies in this letter.

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Speaker 1: I don't care what he tells you. He's not leaving

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Speaker 1: her to be with you. If so, he would have

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Speaker 1: done it already. Okay, but you do need to leave him.

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Speaker 1: He may not be married to her legally, like you say,

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Speaker 1: but he has a child with her and everything else

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Speaker 1: that comes with marriage. They're doing it. They live together,

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Speaker 1: all of that. He's been with her for a whole

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Speaker 1: six years. This is not your man. He's just doing

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Speaker 1: you on the side, period.

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Speaker 3: That's it. Okay.

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Speaker 1: You ask what do you need to do to be

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Speaker 1: happy when you put yourself first and leave this mess

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Speaker 1: you're in. This is a mess you need to get out.

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Speaker 1: Think about it. He calls you his cousin. She thinks

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Speaker 1: you're his cousin. Everybody thinks you're his cousin, and he

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Speaker 1: calls you his homeboy when he's talking to you on

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Speaker 1: the phone. He's hiding you. He doesn't respect you, and

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Speaker 1: he really doesn't want you. So please get out while

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Speaker 1: you can get out, Tommy.

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Speaker 2: I never thought i'd see it. What best side piece ever?

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Speaker 2: Hands down?

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Speaker 3: She wins, hands down.

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Speaker 4: Listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 2: If you are side piece out there, I want you

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Speaker 2: to take notes on this letter right here, because this

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Speaker 2: his hands down best side piece ever.

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Speaker 4: This woman.

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Speaker 2: First of all, she gets an oscar cause she acting.

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Speaker 3: Her butt off.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Every single day she is acting. She got to be,

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Speaker 2: she got to be the cousin this day. Cheap see

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Speaker 2: Darnelle another day. I mean, she's so many of the

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Speaker 2: baby when it's your baby's sitting over here. We were

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Speaker 2: picking the baby up from daycare, we doing all. This

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Speaker 2: is by far the best side peace ever. And for

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Speaker 2: him to just be so, you know, I don't like

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Speaker 2: how he's taking care of the side peace.

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Speaker 4: I really don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't like because he's not caring for her, and

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Speaker 2: I don't like that part he got nervorus. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to miss none of the baby's and moments, and

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Speaker 2: the baby's like, well, what does that mean? That means

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Speaker 2: you ain't gonna never leave, So that means I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: be your cousin forever. Then you're gonna have to show

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Speaker 2: me some something. I need a little something more. You

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Speaker 2: got to make me feel a little bit more better.

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Speaker 2: And then then then here's the one that you gotta

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Speaker 2: also understand is uh, she gave him a chance to leave.

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Speaker 4: He had an out.

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Speaker 2: You sitting there looking at that out, and the whole

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Speaker 2: time you looking at that out, you on the other side,

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Speaker 2: confiding in her, letting them support her. Take girl, I

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Speaker 2: know what you're gonna do. You are You're playing both sides.

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Speaker 2: So oh you the coldest side.

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Speaker 1: You love her right now?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, She's so affectionate with everybody. She's making

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Speaker 2: everybody comfortable in this letter the baby eyes of baby

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Speaker 2: doing the baby doing good?

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Speaker 4: Wise, baby doing.

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Speaker 2: Good because cousin slash side pieces what taking care of

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Speaker 2: the baby, babysitting, picking the baby up to daycare. You

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Speaker 2: over there more than damn mama. You're doing what you're

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Speaker 2: supposed to be doing. Then you making sure that mama

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Speaker 2: gets some support because she needs some mental support from somebody.

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Speaker 2: You over there in her ear, girl, you're gonna be alright.

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Speaker 2: I'm here if you need me, if you need somebody

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Speaker 2: to talk to, I'm here for you. You're doing everything for

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Speaker 2: him and he is not carving out any time for you.

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Speaker 2: And that's the part that's bothered me. He is not

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Speaker 2: supporting his side piece, and that's not what you're supposed

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Speaker 2: to be doing. You are a great side piece. You

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Speaker 2: are doing a great job. You're doing a wonderful job.

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Speaker 2: My uncle would be uh would jump off a clip

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Speaker 2: if he was here, hear my answer, because you know,

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Speaker 2: because he being here preaching, hell is you doing with

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Speaker 2: his ass?

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Speaker 4: You need? You should have.

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Speaker 2: Been gone here, you know he'd have been told you

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Speaker 2: to leave. You know you is the person that's messing

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Speaker 2: up the damn relationship. Why don't you find you something

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Speaker 2: to do toim? And not gonna tell you, Aull that

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Speaker 2: Tom is gonna command you TOIM is gonna command you

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Speaker 2: on what.

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Speaker 4: You are doing? Well. You are doing very well at

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Speaker 4: side piecing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wow.

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Speaker 2: And if ever there's a model of side piece slash cousin,

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Speaker 2: you are it.

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Speaker 4: And I just want to commend you on what you

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Speaker 4: have done.

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Speaker 2: You have really set the stakes high, and I hope

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Speaker 2: all the other side pieces are listening out there and

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Speaker 2: know what they need to do and how they need

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Speaker 2: to step start, start picking up their start picking up.

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Speaker 4: These people's are kids and stuff from school. Help out.

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Speaker 4: If you're gonna say.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm Part two of our response to this crazy

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's subjects I'm tired of covering for this man.

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Speaker 2: There's a side piece meeting on Thursday of next week.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: hard Morning show. All right, we're gonna recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is I'm tired of covering for this man.

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Speaker 1: Woman wrote in she's been dating a guy that's been

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Speaker 1: living with a woman for six years. But the guy

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Speaker 1: and the woman he's living with are not married. So

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Speaker 1: the woman who wrote the letter says, technically he is

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Speaker 1: still single and they're not cheating. That's in her mind,

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Speaker 1: that's how she sees this situation. She says, the man

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Speaker 1: is not happy with her, but he tries to make

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Speaker 1: her think he is, and she's confused about it all.

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Speaker 1: So she's been acting. She's been acting like the side piece,

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Speaker 1: has been acting like she's his cousin. But right now,

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Speaker 1: she's tired of covering for the dude. She's tired of it.

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Speaker 1: Now if she calls him on the phone, he has

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Speaker 1: to pretend like she's one of his homeboys. She's been

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Speaker 1: on FaceTime with him many times, and when the girlfriend

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Speaker 1: comes in, who he lives with, she has to drop

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Speaker 1: the phone and he's still talking to her like, you know,

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Speaker 1: she's one of his homeboys. So she's unhappy with this

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Speaker 1: entire situation. She's been in social situations with them, and

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Speaker 1: she where the The girlfriend really thinks that she's the

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Speaker 1: man's cousin, and you know, it's just a mess for her.

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Speaker 1: She wants to be happy. She wants to have some

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Speaker 1: peace in her life. She's baby set for them, you know,

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Speaker 1: taking care of the little two year old baby. You know,

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Speaker 1: she's tired of all this. She's comforted the girlfriend. She's

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Speaker 1: done all this and she's tired. And when they got

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Speaker 1: into a heated argument, the man and his girlfriend, that

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Speaker 1: was a chance for him to leave because a girlfriend

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Speaker 1: told him to leave, but he didn't want to leave. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he didn't want to leave because he said the baby

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Speaker 1: is barely two years old, so he needs to stay

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Speaker 1: and stick it out. So you know, he chickened out

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Speaker 1: from leaving. She says she's tired of covering for him

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Speaker 1: and lying to her about his feelings, so she wants

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Speaker 1: to know. Should she be straight up with her? Okay, Junior,

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Speaker 1: that's where we are with this.

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Speaker 5: Tommy's right, and I have to agree with Tommy on

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Speaker 5: this one. You deserve an oscar.

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Speaker 3: You do.

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Speaker 4: You deserve it.

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Speaker 5: You've earned this, You've earned it. So I mean, you

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Speaker 5: ain't just acting. I change your voice too, because you

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Speaker 5: gotta be darn now. Like tom said, you gotta he's

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Speaker 5: having what you gotta say?

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Speaker 4: All of this?

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, what's having? You got to do all of this?

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Speaker 5: You are acting? See, that's that's what we've learned fellas today.

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Speaker 5: You need a side piece.

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Speaker 3: That can act.

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Speaker 5: She's active, she is doing a great job too. She's

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Speaker 5: dark now, she's the baby center. And then matter fact,

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Speaker 5: you're so good his girlfriend called you as, should I

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Speaker 5: be straight up with her? She needs to know from you,

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Speaker 5: Oh this.

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Speaker 3: Is Oh she's good. Oh she's good. Oh I love her?

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Speaker 3: You love her? In fact, those things I'll think about this,

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Speaker 3: missing out this letter.

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Speaker 5: Surely her name, she didn't give us that. If we

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Speaker 5: do my name, we want to call her. We want

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Speaker 5: her teacher class.

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Speaker 3: She's seriously, we're not playing.

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Speaker 5: She need to teach the other side pieces how to

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Speaker 5: act because they don't know all this.

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Speaker 3: Want to be up front, be in the background. That's

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Speaker 3: your job. Be in the background, the job to be

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Speaker 3: back out.

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Speaker 5: But be my homework when I need you, be a

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Speaker 5: baby sitter, be my current girlfriend, best friend.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got to do all three.

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Speaker 4: Of these days.

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Speaker 3: This girl good.

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Speaker 1: So should she go to poor acting classes?

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Speaker 3: No, she gonna teach other side pieces.

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Speaker 1: She don't need no acting class, acting classes.

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Speaker 3: No, No, she's she's the best one.

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Speaker 5: The professor, professor, Yeah, she has a PhD. You know

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Speaker 5: what she's doing now. I know she tired, but she

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Speaker 5: still did she say she was quitting?

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Speaker 1: No she still she did.

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Speaker 3: Not No, No, she didn't say she was quitting. That

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Speaker 3: means she's good at it though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but Junior, he's gonna have to start, you know,

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Speaker 2: pitching in little mo I mean like when she dropping

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I agree with that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she needs her phone should never be broke. Her

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Speaker 5: phone should never be broken.

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Speaker 1: What do you think she does on like holidays and

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Speaker 1: stuff when he's spending time. She's there, the girlfriend and

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Speaker 1: she's sitting at the table.

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Speaker 4: She's a cousin. The cousin is.

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Speaker 1: That thing because she's family.

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Speaker 3: She's family, so she's family. She's a babysitter.

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Speaker 1: She's talented.

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Speaker 4: Really, she's very talented.

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Speaker 5: She's the she's the girlfriend's best friend. Because she said,

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Speaker 5: should I be straight up with her? She asked him

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Speaker 5: she should have her own show.

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Speaker 1: Reality.

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Speaker 4: I know one when I who can do all that?

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Speaker 4: You don't know? Nobody can juggle all that.

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Speaker 5: This is probably a stretch, but I'm gonna say it.

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Speaker 5: She really need to be Kamla Harris vice president. She

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Speaker 5: should running running.

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Speaker 4: She'd be her running mate.

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Speaker 3: She needs to be She's like a VP.

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Speaker 2: She can help all the other countries because I don't

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Speaker 3: And she could do all of this. Wow, she did

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Speaker 3: You don't even know she did do you just say,

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Speaker 3: didn't you just say she was the babysitter.

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Speaker 1: For she's great for them.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what he tripping on the baby ain't

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Speaker 5: but two the baby too. I don't want to miss

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Speaker 5: no moments to yo that twenty four month boy.

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Speaker 3: She's gonna be fifteen one day and.

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Speaker 1: They grow up fast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, she should. She should. She is that good.

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Speaker 1: I'm proudly should she should she be giving the girlfriend

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Speaker 3: Absolutely no.

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Speaker 1: What is she saying to her though? What do you

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Speaker 2: She's not encouraging her to leave, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: She's not being selfish, She's not doing that. She's not

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Speaker 2: doing that, And she's telling her to stay in there,

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Speaker 2: staying there. He'll work out, y'all, get it together and

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Speaker 2: don't worry about it later on when she laying up

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Speaker 2: with him. You know she you know, she's getting tired

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Speaker 2: of your ass, you know that.

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