1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 2 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: For the husband is the head of the wife, even 3 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: as Christ is the head of the church, and he 4 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: is the savior of the body. Ephesians five twenty two 5 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: through twenty three. Dear Lord Jesus, you modeled perfect submission 6 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: on the cross. You gave yourself over to the will 7 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: of the Father and accomplished great things as a result. 8 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: Teach us to submit to you first and foremost as 9 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: your church, that we may share in your victory. We 10 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: also pray for those godly marriages seeking to reflect your character. 11 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: Grant everyone mutual submission, respect and honor for each other 12 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: as unto you. Empower wives to prop up their husbands, 13 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: even when they don't seem worthy of it at the time. 14 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: Guide husbands to love and nurture their wives, even when 15 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: they'd prefer to be harsh or neglecting. In all things, 16 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: have your way among us, humble and guide us. Lord Jesus, 17 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: and your name, We pray Amen. Thank you for joining 18 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: me in prayer. Stay tuned for today's free podcast, Meditative 19 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: Prayers with Zach Clinton, where you can draw close to 20 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: God and find strength in him. 21 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: My friends, welcome to your meditative prayer on creating a 22 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: better marriage. To get the most out of your spiritual journey, 23 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: use pray dot com every day and make prayer a 24 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 2: priority in your life. Again, our goal for today's meditative 25 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: prayer is all about creating a better marriage. So right now, 26 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: just tip pause for a minute. Maybe head to your 27 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: safe spot where you can settle in and settle down, 28 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 2: close your eyes, and quiet your heart, and ready your 29 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: spirit to receive from God. Today we'll be meditating on 30 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 2: Ephesians chapter five, verses twenty two to twenty four from 31 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: the King James version. Wives submit yourselves unto your own 32 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: husbands as unto the Lord. For the husband is the 33 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,519 Speaker 2: head of the wife, even as Christ is the head 34 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 2: of the Church, and he is the savior of the body. Therefore, 35 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the 36 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: wives be to their own husbands in everything. Take a 37 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 2: moment now just to pour out your adoration to God. Jesus. 38 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: I praise you for sending your Holy Spirit to minister 39 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 2: to me. I worship you for preparing your bride the church. 40 00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: As the day of Jesus's return draws near, a sovereign 41 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: and almighty you are selfless and sacrificing. I praise you 42 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: for your love toward me is steadfast and unchanging. And 43 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 2: I worship you God, and I commit all I am 44 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 2: to you. Submission to authority. Wives are to submit to 45 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 2: their husband's authority. God created marriage to have give and take, 46 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: each half doing their part so that the whole works 47 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: in perfect unity. For wives, this means treating their husbands 48 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 2: with deference and honor. When wives respect their husbands, they 49 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: are respecting God as she would treat Christ. So she 50 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: respects her husband. For God is the head of man, 51 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 2: and man is the head of the woman. This is 52 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: the hierarchy God established to govern marriage. This is how 53 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: the union between a man and a woman is meant 54 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: to function. As the Church acknowledges and accepts Christ's spiritrtual authority, 55 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 2: so too should the wife respect her husband. Both husband 56 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 2: and wife are called to serve Christ and how they 57 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: relate to each other. Both husband and wife serve God 58 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: and follow his commandments. The first of his commandments is 59 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: to love God, and the second is to love others 60 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:23,679 Speaker 2: as yourself. This love is selfless and strengthens the bond 61 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 2: between husband and wife. Do not seek to keep score 62 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: in your relationship. For marriage is not a competition. It 63 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: is not a struggle for power. Marriage is a covenant 64 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: of two people laying down their own natures to benefit 65 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: the whole. Perhaps you've been struggling to submit to God's 66 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 2: authority over your life. Perhaps you've been struggling to submit 67 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 2: to your husband's authority and your marriage. Bearing in mind 68 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 2: the importance of submission, draw near to God in this moment. 69 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 2: Come before the Lord and confess your sins to him. 70 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 2: Confess to Jesus the times you did not respect God's 71 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: word or your husband, as you should confess the times 72 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: when you gave into selfishness and did not serve your spouse. 73 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: Now hand those failures over to Jesus and cast your 74 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 2: cares upon him. Now as we transition, take just a 75 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: few minutes to dwell on what God has given you. 76 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 2: Thank Him for your spouse who shares this life with you, 77 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 2: his Holy Spirit, who selflessly gives to you without measure, Jesus, 78 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 2: who loved us before we returned his love, the Father 79 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: who draws us with loving kindness and mercy. And thank 80 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 2: Jesus for capacitating you to do all things. You see, 81 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: God is present and he is listening to you. The 82 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: Bible says we are to outdo one another in showing honor. 83 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 2: So ask God to pour out his Holy Spirit without 84 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: out measure, over your life. Ask the Holy Spirit to 85 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: remove all bitterness and resentment from your life. To take 86 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 2: away what impedes you from selflessly giving to your spouse. 87 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 2: Ask God to fill you with his grace and his mercy, 88 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 2: and ask the Holy Spirit to impart God's wisdom to 89 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 2: you to teach you to have a humble heart and 90 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: self control. Remember, wives are to submit to their husbands, 91 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: and the husbands are to be over the wives as 92 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 2: Christ is over the Church. God uses this to bless 93 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 2: us within our marriages. The Holy Spirit working within you 94 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 2: will help you give of yourself without measure. Be assured 95 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 2: in the knowledge that as you are serving your husband, 96 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 2: you are also serving God. So choose this day to 97 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: stand firm on the promises of God for your life 98 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 2: and be blessed. My friends, thank you for completing today's 99 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: meditative prayer on pray dot com. By incorporating this healthy 100 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: habit is a daily practice. I believe you're not only 101 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 2: making prayer priority, but you're also strengthening your walk with God. 102 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 2: My name is Zach Clinton, Vice President of the American 103 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 2: Association of Christian Counselors and we love being a part 104 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 2: of your life. 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