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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya Red and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast Hello Everybody,

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Speaker 1: We are scrubbing it one final time of twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: five and now the year in the books, the last scrub,

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Speaker 1: the last scrub of the year. I'm sadast years over

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Speaker 1: personally a good year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited about twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, much on the horizon.

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Speaker 3: Much on the horizon can be twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes it is.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: I do get this like itch in the New Year,

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Speaker 1: Like I love like chapter one of twelve and like

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like new Year, new y,

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Speaker 1: fresh start, make it what you want, paint the town red.

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Speaker 1: Like there's this this like energy that I get in

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Speaker 1: January that I don't have any other month of the year.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the New Year really starts in February

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Speaker 2: because I feel like January it's like you're coming off

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Speaker 2: of this RESTful time and also kind of stressful like that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the holidays can also be stressful for people.

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Speaker 2: And then and in the first month, even though the

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Speaker 2: vibe that you're fed is like you need to go

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Speaker 2: it's a new year, get in shape, do all the

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Speaker 2: things you want to do. It's like I like to

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Speaker 2: just ease into it.

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Speaker 1: Oh No, I'm like fired up, Like I'm like, let's

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Speaker 1: go whoa whoa. Well, I was like before I went

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Speaker 1: on on like my break, like on my Christmas my

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Speaker 1: winter break, work was like piling up, like it was

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Speaker 1: like in January, you're gonna do this this And I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh wow, Like it does like I feel

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Speaker 1: like everybody just like hits the ground running in January.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, there's stuff, there's stuff to be done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but my soul feels it breeds a little more time.

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Speaker 2: It needs a little more time than society allows.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a little in between from the lay and the

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Speaker 1: and the run exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the lay and the sleigh.

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Speaker 1: It's good.

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Speaker 2: So you're in the d r yes, ringing in the

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Speaker 2: new year, just.

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Speaker 1: Ring it in ring ring dingle ling ling.

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Speaker 2: Are you like, uh, since since you're not really drinking

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Speaker 2: this year, are you ending it with a beverage? You

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Speaker 2: think like a celebratory champon.

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Speaker 1: You know what's so funny. I was actually gonna bring

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Speaker 1: champagne in for when you came back from like when

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Speaker 1: your engagement in Japan. Yeah, and I was like, Easton

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Speaker 1: doesn't drink. I thought Mark would be here. Mark doesn't drink.

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Speaker 1: I'm not drinking, so I'm gonna have a.

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Speaker 2: Whole bottle just but I really don't drink.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't really drink that much. So I was like, woo, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll probably have like a ceremonial sip, a ceremonial sip

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Speaker 1: to ring it in. That's what I do when I'm

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Speaker 1: like out. I don't like casually drink anymore. Like I'm

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Speaker 1: not just like drinking to drink, but when there's like

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Speaker 1: an occasion, I'm gonna throw back a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we love that. I think that

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Speaker 2: we are doing Haley's dad is riding in the Rose

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Speaker 2: Pick parade.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're gonna go, well, I've never been before,

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Speaker 2: so we're gonna go watch him do that, which I

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Speaker 2: think will be a very early morning.

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Speaker 1: New Year's Day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah so you guys, Yeah, which I mean like staying

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Speaker 2: up till midnight isn't you know, when we're just hanging

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Speaker 2: out at home tilling I don't really feel a lot

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Speaker 2: of pressure to stay up till midnight.

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Speaker 1: It's tough to stay up till midnight when sometimes we'll.

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Speaker 2: Like barely make it and we're like happy New Year,

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Speaker 2: good night.

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Speaker 1: You want I really want to do one New Year

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Speaker 1: And we we talked about it, I think last year,

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Speaker 1: but we like, I always want to throw a New

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Speaker 1: Year's party.

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Speaker 2: You did talk about this last year, but I don't

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Speaker 1: Like have it be like a party. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: be like a pajama party where we have like friends

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Speaker 1: over and play games and like watch the show Ideal.

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah next year, because I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like there's like a lot of pressure when you

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Speaker 1: and cozy but like together. I love a game night

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Speaker 2: Ones and food and fellowship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah next year.

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Speaker 2: Well, we are getting all lot with I like it, though,

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Speaker 2: I know, I know, I know it's a good it's

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Speaker 2: a good season that we're in. Yeah, should we do

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Speaker 2: some of our favorites of the year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like we never got to any

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Speaker 1: of these, Like people submitted questions like end of the

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Speaker 1: year questions through Instagram that we never got to, and

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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, they've been patiently waiting for weeks.

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Speaker 1: Now answer these patiently waiting.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's tackle some of them, shall we?

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Speaker 1: That we shall?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to lead the way?

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Speaker 1: Sure? Okay, I'm gonna start with this one because like

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Speaker 1: let's just like talk about the elephant in the room. Okay, Becca,

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Speaker 1: who will be your maids of honor?

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Speaker 2: Wow? I feel like you'll be a maid of honor? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: for sure. I haven't thought me on that, Like I

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Speaker 2: obviously have people that are in my life. I just

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, do I just make everyone kind of

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Speaker 2: specific roles of like where I think they'll thrive, you know,

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Speaker 2: like you're so good at celebrating and planning and like

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Speaker 2: doing the most, so like, of course you'll you'll be

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Speaker 2: a maid of honor in my wedding. I don't see

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Speaker 2: a world where you're not. But I have, you know,

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Speaker 2: my sisters, I have jo But everyone's like in a

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Speaker 2: new season of life where I don't know, they'll have

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Speaker 2: so much to give and you also will probably be

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Speaker 2: in that season of life whilst I'm planning.

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Speaker 1: But we're still gonna be so happy to totally.

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Speaker 2: But I'm seeing it's a life. Life goes in a

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Speaker 2: different direction. You know, you get more capacity.

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Speaker 1: Can I give you a piece of advice sure that

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Depending on how many bridesmaids you're gonna have, if you're

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Speaker 1: maids of honor and like differentiating, does I guess make sense.

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Speaker 1: My bridal party was so small. Three of my five

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I don't know why

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Speaker 1: I did that. Like in hindsight, I'm like, I wish

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Speaker 1: like really worked on everything together, and I think that's

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Speaker 1: really how it always is. Yeah, yeah, that's just my

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Speaker 1: little tip. Well, you know, take it for what you want.

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Speaker 2: I just I want everyone. I don't know that I

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Speaker 2: or putting expectations on people could make me feel overwhelmed.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. I'll have to get there. When

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Speaker 2: I get there, yeah, you'll be there.

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Speaker 1: I can help stress, and I'm just so happy to help.

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Speaker 1: Just put me in coach, coach.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to answer this one because a lot of

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Speaker 1: people have been hitting me up about this. Tanya, what

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Speaker 1: happened to your natural nail era? It's over? It is over.

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Speaker 1: It lasted about I think three months in total. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do that.

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Speaker 2: Do you think I think a lot of people because

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Speaker 1: I'm it's like bleeding, Like my fingers just start getting

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Speaker 1: And for some reason, when I have fake nails on,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what Tanya Tonya goes one day after

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Speaker 2: I was like, ma'am, you look like you've been gnawed on.

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Speaker 1: But I was just the skin around my nails, not

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry it took away from the beauty of the nail.

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Speaker 1: It's also bite their nails. I don't bite my nails.

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Speaker 2: What is something you want to take less seriously this

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Speaker 2: next year?

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Speaker 2: But like, aside from the next generation and maybe the

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Speaker 2: not that big of a deal. And I also really like,

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Speaker 2: obviously people have bad days, and like one person's situation

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Speaker 2: people when they think of me to think of those

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I think I realized this year that

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Speaker 2: That's so special. Because I was gonna say, I would

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Speaker 1: I always feel like when I do these like year

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Speaker 2: Should we do rapid fire favorites of this year?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Anyone have one off the off the cuff.

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Speaker 1: Oh? I think The Beast in Me was my favorite? Wow.

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Speaker 1: What about movies, Mine's gonna be so weird. But Jurassic

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Speaker 1: I think albums album I'm gonna go with the predictable

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say I will I probably listened the most

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Speaker 4: Uh, my top album of the year or well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite song of the year. I

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I think mine is Where's my Husband?

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Speaker 2: Let's see pop culture moments.

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Speaker 1: Why are you telling me to wrap up because it's time.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Katie Perry went to Space while that felt like

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Speaker 1: Park, and Justin Bieber's return to music that was.

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Speaker 2: Basically clocking to you. What that's what he said? What's

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Speaker 2: not clocking to you?

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Speaker 3: Two surprise albums.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it was a big year and one we

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Speaker 2: will never forget. For many reason, ever forget. We hope

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Speaker 2: that you have a wonderful holiday. Stay safe whatever you're doing,

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Speaker 2: whether you're at home, out in about, We'll be safe.

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Speaker 2: Be you.

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Speaker 1: We love you. Happy, happy, happy New Year, and we'll

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Speaker 1: see you in twenty twenty sients Bye