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Speaker 1: Kiki, your Valentine's gift is going to be delayed. It's

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Speaker 1: been brought to my attention. Yeah, Big Tim says that

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Speaker 1: it will not be here tomorrow on Valentine's Day? Right, Instead,

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Speaker 1: it will arrive maybe on Friday, maybe right?

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Speaker 2: Crazy?

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Speaker 1: What are our thoughts about that? So?

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Speaker 3: I really don't care, right because it's not anything he

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Speaker 3: buys me at this point, is just stuff, like you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: We know what he needs to buy, So it's not that.

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Speaker 2: Then I don't care.

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Speaker 1: And if you ordered that and it's not showing up

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Speaker 1: until he thinks Friday, then you probably I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: if you want it. Yeah the ring he bought you,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where it's coming from, and I might

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Speaker 1: show up on Friday. Yeah you don't want that?

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Speaker 3: So I really don't care. But I feel like to

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Speaker 3: just make it spicy. I need to act out tomorrow,

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Speaker 3: like I need to pout. I need to be able

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Speaker 3: to say what, I need to threaten to leave. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: why not, let's just spice it up. You knew the

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Speaker 3: fourteenth was coming two years ago, so why.

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Speaker 1: You're never going to get that ring?

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Speaker 3: A delayed gift? You're a great gift giver. You would

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Speaker 3: never do this to Jess'm.

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Speaker 2: I mean no, right, but at least he's honest with you.

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Speaker 4: He's not gonna He's not gonna show up tomorrow and

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Speaker 4: be like, oh, it's not coming till Friday.

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Speaker 1: He told you in advance.

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Speaker 4: He got you something that's that's the that's meaningful enough.

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Speaker 1: It was on Friday. What is it that we're waiting

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: It better be pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Probably some shoes or a purse and order a Huh

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Speaker 3: when did he I don't know, but my opinion, my

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Speaker 3: thought would be he probably just ordered it on Monday, right.

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Speaker 1: Right, and he was singing it would come by Wednesday.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See what he probably should have done, has gotten you

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Speaker 1: something else like smaller and then not no, hold on,

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Speaker 1: they look on Kiki's fist and then not said anything

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Speaker 1: to you until like he gives you something flowers, you know,

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Speaker 1: something like acknowledges Valentine's that it makes you feel special,

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Speaker 1: and then goes by the way, I did get you

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Speaker 1: something else, but it won't be here till Friday. But

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Speaker 1: at least he didn't set it up with right, just

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Speaker 1: heads up, your gift will be delayed well that's so

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Speaker 1: like suck it basically.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And that's another thing after what we talked about yesterday,

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Speaker 3: which was after you get in a relationship for so

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Speaker 3: many years, it kind of just fizzles because this man

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Speaker 3: asked me, yesa, He's like, so you want the whole

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Speaker 3: flowers and candy thing right on Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 2: You want that?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to?

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Speaker 2: Ty? I don't like, what do you what.

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Speaker 1: Are we doing?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: We don't know? You don't what do you want to

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Speaker 1: eat tomorrow?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that guy better have made his uh piachip place

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Speaker 1: recommendation or a reservation right because he tried getting in now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because this is crazy, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Getting anything, Yeah, that was gonna be My next question

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Speaker 1: is what what you don't think you have to get

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Speaker 3: We get him something on Sweetest Day, you know, that

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Speaker 3: little fake holiday that we celebrate some time, So he'll

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Speaker 3: get something then, but he's absolutely not get anything this

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Speaker 3: year after this setup.

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Speaker 1: Like when he got you something, brow, he didn't do

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Speaker 1: it right. He didn't do it right. He didn't do

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Speaker 1: it right. What he should have done, is said, you know,

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Speaker 1: because he should have gone and done the whole chocolate

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Speaker 1: been like, I did get you something else, but it's

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Speaker 1: been delayed. It'll be here Friday, though, and then we'll

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Speaker 1: celebrate again, right, and then maybe he does the whole

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we have plans obviously for the weekend with

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Speaker 2: We always celebrate with them. But yeah, that's freaking well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we Valentine's Day with the fam, my.

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Speaker 2: Brother, his wife.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he's saving the gift of the weekend.

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Speaker 1: No, because he wouldn't say that, he wouldn't announce. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: something better on Friday.

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Speaker 3: He's way too chill to be proposing, you know how

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Speaker 3: like when you guys get ready to propose, you start

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Speaker 3: acting weird. Yes, wedding for no reason. I could just stutter.

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Speaker 3: He's not doing anything.

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Speaker 1: That's me every day and I'm not proposing to anybody,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know what you're talking about. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's just bad. Okay, Well then okay, as a guy,

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Speaker 1: I'm not dating anybody, so but how how far into

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Speaker 1: a situation do you have to be before you acknowledge

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Speaker 1: Valentine's day. I mean, is it do you need to

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Speaker 1: be dating that person? Have to be official? I mean

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Speaker 3: I think a gentleman should be doing that from day one.

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Speaker 3: Like if we started talking on Monday and Wednesday is

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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day, then you should absolutely give.

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Speaker 1: Me Valentine's Day? Yes, yeah, what about Valentine's Day? What

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Speaker 1: am I doing that time?

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Speaker 2: I need to give?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I believe it or not. I think that they

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Speaker 1: them something on Valentine's Day and you just met, and

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Speaker 5: I could be your best bet. I wouldn't mind getting

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Speaker 5: asked out to dinner. Yeah, that doesn't feel like too soon.

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Speaker 5: You can make a joke about it, like I know,

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Speaker 5: it's like a I know what day it is, Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: But it's like a holiday. I mean, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's still dinner's night.

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Speaker 5: We'll celebrate with their girls all the time.

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Speaker 1: But I mean about how long? How many two days,

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Speaker 1: three days have you been out five times? I mean

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Speaker 1: how long do you have to be with somebody before

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Speaker 1: you acknowledge it without creeping somebody out or scaring them

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Speaker 1: off or being coming off like you. I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: I will never argue the plight of the man. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's the plight of the man is not we have

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Speaker 1: we have very little to complain about. But in this

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Speaker 1: what what gives people the quote unquote ick and like

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Speaker 1: what you know? Like what are you supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: What you're not supposed to do? How long you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to wait? Well you're not, I mean it. Every single

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Speaker 1: tell you, well, I'm not like that, or when it's right,

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Speaker 1: it's right or whatever. Well, how is it? How am

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Speaker 1: I supposed as the initiator? How do I know what's

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Speaker 2: I could never be a man. I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: I've honestly scared more people off by by like doing

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Speaker 1: And I'm being serious, I'm being dead ass about to be.

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Speaker 5: With those people. Like if you if you scare someone

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Speaker 5: off because you do something nice, that's ridiculous, that's true.

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Speaker 5: And also like it's not a one size fits all.

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Speaker 5: You kind of have to feel the situation out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but feeling the situation out it just leaves all

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: And we're not mind readers, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, so like, celebrate it two days, celebrate like it's

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Speaker 5: not one rule.

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Speaker 1: I don't know it's it's it's kind of crazy though.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, if you're if you're too aggressive,

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: And some people want you to be aggressive. Some people

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Speaker 1: want you to be passive. Some people want you to

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Speaker 1: ignore them. Some people want all the attention. Some people

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Speaker 1: to be like, I want to be with you. Some

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Speaker 1: people they don't. They don't want to hear that till

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Speaker 1: just sense when that is. But if I'm too late,

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Speaker 1: well that's a bad sign. And if I'm too early,

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Speaker 5: Don't be with women who want to be ignored anymore.

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Speaker 5: We're done with that.

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Speaker 2: Those are the unhealed to say this.

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Speaker 1: That's that's most cases. They're not healed then I mean

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Speaker 1: I'm not right. I don't mean ignored or just risk

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Speaker 5: Someone who's healing out of that, like you gotta heal

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Speaker 5: to not want that, I know, but like you don't

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Speaker 1: I agree there, but they're not all. Not everybody who

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Speaker 1: Not everybody's damage. A lot of people are I am.

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Speaker 5: There's a difference between a chase and like please ignore

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Speaker 1: I just I hate to say that. The trend in

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Speaker 1: No one thinks I'm desperate. I mean, if I were,

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Speaker 1: don't get it. Man talking about horses. It was a horse.

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Speaker 1: It was a horse I was trying to I just

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Speaker 1: gonna be in a questrian. I decided that I'm up

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Speaker 1: I have the boots already. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But if if the woman you're talking to is not

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Speaker 4: whatever happy that you're doing a nice gesture, I mean,

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Speaker 4: but it.

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Speaker 1: Could be too much, you know, and they were ready

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Speaker 1: for that much. I'm telling to look again. But men

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Speaker 1: do not have it hard in very many ways. But

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Speaker 1: and this woman even admit it, Like I really wouldn't

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Speaker 1: want to be the guy because women, and I'm generalizing here,

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Speaker 1: have the expectation that men are going to initiate and

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Speaker 1: drive and all these things. But then if they don't

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Speaker 1: do it right, well then I just move on to

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Speaker 1: the next one. And I think a lot of it

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Speaker 1: let's go out, like I'm gonna cut the bs. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna do this back and forth with you where

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Speaker 1: that leads to nothing. You look hot, Let's go out.

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Speaker 1: Shelley in the Show Business Showdown. So, Hi, I've just

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 5: So my name is Brendy, I have two kids.

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Speaker 1: We listen to you guys every morning, thank you. What

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Speaker 2: Ready, Britney?

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Speaker 6: Goodluck? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right? Shall we get the hell out? Our pop

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Speaker 1: Question number one. Adele jokingly called out Travis Kelsey's brother

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Speaker 8: Is It Easy?

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Speaker 6: I you know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Fans of this baby and one time singer One time.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, guys, you ready.

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Speaker 5: My name is Britty and I got showed up on

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Speaker 1: With the grueling Tobias and Roman and Roman Tobias and

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Speaker 8: I always hear people say doing I'm like, oh, you

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Speaker 1: So much better. It happened. You guys did do so

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Speaker 1: Good luck with the girl.

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Speaker 1: I'm wishing him in the bedroom. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Manifest that yeah, you know. Let me stand on business. Yeah, Shelley,

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Speaker 1: know this. In Christian art, old Christian art, good angels

443
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Speaker 1: were red and Satan was blue. I thought the devil

444
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Speaker 1: was always you know, horn's tail, pitchfork, red, hell, red,

445
00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But apparently that's not true

446
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:30,200
Speaker 1: if you look back beyond the modern interpretation. The oldest

447
00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:33,119
Speaker 1: representations of Satan and early Christian art showed him as

448
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Speaker 1: a blue angel, while the good angels were actually red.

449
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Speaker 1: That would confuse me, Yeah, because I thought the red

450
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Speaker 1: was associated with like where I'm going? Oh no, no,

451
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Speaker 1: you know, please, I don't know. I know you're up there, buddy.

452
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Speaker 1: I know some people that are that are in heaven.

453
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Speaker 1: I know them. They deserved it. My nana is in

454
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Speaker 1: heaven right now, and I don't think she can do

455
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Speaker 1: anything to get me in the club. I don't think so.

456
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Speaker 1: I don't think she could pop out until the bouncer

457
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Speaker 1: that I'm with her VIP table, I don't. I think

458
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Speaker 1: it's too late. I want to go wherever.

459
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Speaker 5: Brittany dressed as a devil's banking herself with a pitchfork.

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Speaker 2: Yes, did you guys see that?

461
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's tough for me because that's heaven but

462
00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:17,960
Speaker 1: also might be hell.

463
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

464
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Speaker 1: Next, I'm gonna take the blog deer blog. You know. Look,

465
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Speaker 1: I've heard people say that they enjoy running. I've heard

466
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Speaker 1: people say they enjoy going to the gym. I know,

467
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Speaker 1: I know people who claim that this is true. And

468
00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 1: as you know, I enough was enough late last year

469
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Speaker 1: and I was I gained too much weight during the

470
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Speaker 1: old pandemic, and I hired a trainer, and I went

471
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Speaker 1: out and got Gideon get Fit with Giddy, best of

472
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Speaker 1: the best, Okay, And he's expensive, and he can keep

473
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Speaker 1: my money if I cancel, because I know myself and

474
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Speaker 1: I know what my triggers are, and it would be

475
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Speaker 1: wasting money, not getting fit and living longer. It would

476
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Speaker 1: be wasting money. So that's the price that I have

477
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Speaker 1: to pay for being a fatty. Nonetheless, I feel great

478
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Speaker 1: when it's over. I feel better now than I did

479
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Speaker 1: when I started. But I do not enjoy I do

480
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Speaker 1: I enjoy him, but I cannot honestly tell you that

481
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Speaker 1: when it's time to go to the gym, I go, yay, yay, Jim,

482
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Speaker 1: this is great. I can't wait. Doesn't happen and it's

483
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Speaker 1: not happening, and it's nothing to do with him, and

484
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Speaker 1: it's nothing to do with it. I mean, about fifteen

485
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Speaker 1: minutes after it's over, I feel great. I'm glad that

486
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Speaker 1: I did it. So, I mean, there's all that, but

487
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Speaker 1: I when do you get to the point where you

488
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Speaker 1: truly like love it? Like the people talk about this

489
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Speaker 1: runners high, like when you run and you run enough

490
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Speaker 1: and finally you just feel like you're flying and you

491
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Speaker 1: can't stop running. I'm like that. No, I feel like

492
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Speaker 1: I'm floundering the whole time. I've never felt like I

493
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Speaker 1: was flying. I've never felt like I, you know, the

494
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Speaker 1: wind beneath. I've never felt like that. I feel like

495
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 1: I'm gumby, a fat gumby, just sort of flailing around

496
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Speaker 1: the whole time. And I don't know. Again, I understand

497
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Speaker 1: that it works, and I understand why I got to

498
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Speaker 1: do it, and I want to look better and feel

499
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Speaker 1: better and sleep better and the whole thing. But I'm

500
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Speaker 1: waiting for this moment where I feel like these people,

501
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Speaker 1: there's like Jim time. I can't wait I got to

502
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Speaker 1: get it in today. How do you do that?

503
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Speaker 4: I feel like when I used to work out, it

504
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 4: was when you start seeing the results, you know what

505
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Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like you start it sucks when you start

506
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Speaker 4: working out, but then you start looking in the mirror,

507
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Speaker 4: you start getting on the scale and.

508
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Speaker 1: It's worked, and people say stuff and you lookiding and

509
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 1: that's all true. But I really want to enjoy the

510
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Speaker 1: process because if I can figure out a way to

511
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Speaker 1: like trick myself into enjoying going, then I feel like

512
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Speaker 1: I'll go more than I'm even supposed to. But I'm

513
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Speaker 1: waiting for that. Though I'm waiting for that feeling is

514
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: not arriving, Like eating a cheeseburger feels way better and

515
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Speaker 1: I get way more excited about that then I do

516
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Speaker 1: going to the gym. I was just wondering if any

517
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Speaker 1: of you had any insight on this, and people are

518
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 1: gonna d I mean, oh, you know now that's you, though,

519
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: that's you, that's you. You've already reached that point. Maybe

520
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: it's wired within you, maybe you were an athlete growing

521
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Speaker 1: up or something. I'm not sure, but I really want

522
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Speaker 1: to know if there's gonna be a moment where it

523
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 1: just all clicks and I go, thank God, thank God,

524
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Speaker 1: it's time for the gym, because that's how I feel

525
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: about taking a nap. Coming by God, it's time for

526
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Speaker 1: a nap. I want to feel the same way about

527
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Speaker 1: going to the gym then I do about taking a nap.

528
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Speaker 1: How do we do that? Is it? Like? Do I

529
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: need to be hypnotized? Like what how did we get there?

530
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: What do we gotta do? But you're right about the results,

531
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 1: the results, the results feel all of it like you

532
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,959
Speaker 1: start to feel better, you start to look better, then

533
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: you start to eat better, and then and then it

534
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: sort of catches off, but still it's still have fun.

535
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Speaker 5: It's like the opposite for me, like if I like

536
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Speaker 5: lose weight or starts to look at it, I'm like, okay,

537
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Speaker 5: so I could eat a little naughty, you know what

538
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Speaker 5: I mean.

539
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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 5: In the opposite, I'm like, okay, it looks skinny today,

541
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Speaker 5: like right, rewarding my no matter what.

542
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: I do that too, I feel like it. Well, I

543
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 1: went to the gym, school.

544
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 2: I woke up, I went to work today.

545
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Speaker 7: Stop it stop yeah myself, I would just say you

546
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Speaker 7: might yeah right, you might say like it's like when

547
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Speaker 7: you go to the website and there's stuff like a

548
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Speaker 7: shopping website, and there's a bunch of stuff on there

549
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Speaker 7: that you don't need.

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Speaker 1: But I could say, I could say forty dollars if

551
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Speaker 1: I buy this thing right now, I gotta get it.

552
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Speaker 1: How could I not say forty dollars. I feel like

553
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: it's the same way with me and eating, like, well,

554
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: I just worked out, I've burned some calories, so yeah,

555
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: I can eat this crap, when instead you're supposed to

556
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: be like, why just work us Now? I'm going to

557
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: eat a salad, you know, and some like no wheat

558
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: grass or something, and then it's gonna like you know

559
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 1: what I mean. But I don't know. I guess something's

560
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: better than nothing. I'm just waiting for the moment where

561
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Speaker 1: it just yes, Jim, right, Look, you're talking to the

562
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 1: wrong people, a right, you know? Or are the people

563
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Speaker 1: who claim that they just love it so much? Are

564
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Speaker 1: they just elade us to they're lying, they're just liars.

565
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, because you know the people love. People

566
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: love to tell you, oh, oh I gotta get I

567
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: gotta go to the gym, and I just love it

568
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: so much. I mean, is that a real thing or

569
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: is that Are you lying? You know what I mean? Like,

570
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: are you just saying that because it sounds right lie

571
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: to say that? I think that liar. Hey Anthony, how

572
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 1: you doing good? Hey? Fred?

573
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Speaker 8: I think what you should do is pop a C

574
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 8: four Have you ever heard of?

575
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, the pre workout that'll get you jet That sounds dangerous.

576
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: What isn't Is it legal?

577
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's legal. You could pick it up a Jewels

578
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 8: gas station. So they have like smart energy and they

579
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 8: have like super performance. If you put a seat like

580
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Speaker 8: drink a SEA four, I'm telling you within thirty minutes,

581
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 8: like you're either dying avich in a good way because

582
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 8: you have to work out, or else you're just gonna

583
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 8: feel a little sick. Or you can also try P

584
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 8: ninety x. It's like a quick thirty minute workout that

585
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Speaker 8: can you know, get you to the results that you

586
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Speaker 8: need and like you know, you're trying to get for

587
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Speaker 8: that that motion of enjoying it and I think P

588
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 8: ninety x and C four combined would get you there.

589
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: I feel like taking something from the gas station and

590
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: working out that those things contradict one another, you know,

591
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: I think I think anything from the gas station and

592
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: then health I don't know how those things are in

593
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,719
Speaker 1: the same sentence. It concerns me a little bit. Anthony.

594
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you, that C four stuff works. Man.

595
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Speaker 8: I'm telling you, I was at two hundred and twenty pounds.

596
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 8: I'm only I'm only twenty nine, but I was at

597
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 8: two hundred and twenty pounds and I'm now like one

598
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Speaker 8: to eight.

599
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 1: Because yea, you also have stakes that you can't get

600
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: rid of. That sometimes you can't remember your name. But

601
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: other than that, I mean, this weird, this weird droole

602
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: you can't control. But other than that, you look great though, right, Yeah, man,

603
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. I appreciate it. Thank you, man, have

604
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 1: a good day. I don't even know if it's lack

605
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: of energy. It's not even that, it's just simply it

606
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: just isn't it hasn't clicked to where it's fun. Yeah,

607
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: So that's my whole thing. Is it? Is it ever fun?

608
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Speaker 1: Are those or those people lying I'm gonna go with

609
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: their liars, That's what I think. That's that's just the

610
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: easiest thing for me to justify it. And I feel

611
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Speaker 1: like