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Speaker 1: Can I just make a case for astrology. The more

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Speaker 1: that I interact with astrology, the more that I believe it. Now.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean that you have to like exclusively abide

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Speaker 1: by or subscribe to it, but the more I experience

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Speaker 1: in life, the more I really do believe in it. Now.

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Speaker 1: I don't get into like rising and moon and all that,

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Speaker 1: but I'll tell you something. If there's someone that I'm

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Speaker 1: really vibing with, I'll ask them their sign and it

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Speaker 1: will align. And if there's someone that I'm really not

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Speaker 1: vibing with, the same thing will happen. And also sometimes

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Speaker 1: like let's say you work with someone or you're dating

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Speaker 1: someone and you realize there's a certain part of their

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Speaker 1: personality that you don't understand that doesn't make any sense

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Speaker 1: to you. Like let's say like you're a multiple box

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Speaker 1: tech and they're just responding with like one word and

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Speaker 1: you think they're like either rude or cold or abrupt

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Speaker 1: or something, or like you're expressing yourself and they're really not.

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Speaker 1: And you look up their sign, and it also matters

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Speaker 1: if it's like a man or a woman, you know,

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Speaker 1: like a male scorpio or female scorpio. You'll find that

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Speaker 1: it's not just that, like you've made the horoscope work

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Speaker 1: for you, you'll find that it does kind of line up.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't only live by it, but I have to say,

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Speaker 1: it really does work. It really does work to me.

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Speaker 1: It's at least something fun to like add because you

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Speaker 1: could you could work on a friendship, a work relationship,

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Speaker 1: or a romantic relationship by realizing, oh, this is how

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Speaker 1: that person's wired. You know, there's so many ways that

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Speaker 1: we're wired differently, like based on how we grew up

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Speaker 1: and based on I actually said to someone recently, this

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Speaker 1: is not related to astrology, but like I think we

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Speaker 1: have to figure out where someone comes from to understand

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Speaker 1: why they're the way that they are culturally, from a

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Speaker 1: religious standpoint, from where they grew up, from how they

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Speaker 1: grew up, from a did they have money from over

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Speaker 1: things handed to them? Like, we have to look at

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Speaker 1: where people really start from to see where they're at. So, like,

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Speaker 1: there was someone that wasn't understanding some of the way

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Speaker 1: that I operate, and I said to them, let and

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Speaker 1: they come from a very good, secure, solid family and

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Speaker 1: I don't. And I said to them, let's put it

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Speaker 1: this way. You are a breeder dog, like you have

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Speaker 1: had a really nice upbringing that's sort of safe and

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Speaker 1: controlled and like baths on time, and just like it's

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Speaker 1: been fairly calm. I'm a rescue dog, so like if

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Speaker 1: you come close to me, I might bite you. Something

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Speaker 1: that you would do that is normal, that would seem normal.

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Speaker 1: I may see is not normal. I may react differently,

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Speaker 1: like I came from an abusive childhood, Like I'm you know,

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Speaker 1: not going to react the same way. When you get

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Speaker 1: with someone, it's also good to ask them, like what

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Speaker 1: their thing is like. Some people need to feel loved.

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Speaker 1: Some people need to feel safe, Some people need to

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Speaker 1: feel supported, Some people need to be given their space,

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Speaker 1: some people need their independence. Some people are free spirits.

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Speaker 1: Some people are birds that you know need to fly,

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Speaker 1: and some people are just like in work, like need

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Speaker 1: to work independently versus in a group. And I think

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Speaker 1: that for us to understand other people, we have to

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Speaker 1: really look at where someone comes from and how they're

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Speaker 1: walking into the situation that you're in. To meet you

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Speaker 1: where you're at. I think that we often get in

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Speaker 1: our own head and want someone else to operate in

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Speaker 1: a way that we would operate, And I just that's

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Speaker 1: been coming up a bit lately. You know, there's something

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Speaker 1: I'll discuss later where people try to criticize me and

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Speaker 1: troll me, and they think like they're getting to me.

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Speaker 1: First of all, they don't realize that I actually do

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Speaker 1: see trolls and haters as motivators. I can always make

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Speaker 1: chicken salad out of chicken shit, no pun intended, Like

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Speaker 1: I can turn a flurry of hate into something positive

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Speaker 1: for myself or for other people. And I'm kind of

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Speaker 1: uninsultable because of the way that I grew up, so

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Speaker 1: I have the thickest skin. I'm a survivor, which also

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Speaker 1: means I'm gonna be tough, really tough in a way

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Speaker 1: that other people won't understand. And it's gonna be like

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Speaker 1: who hurts you? And I'm be like, you want to

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Speaker 1: sit down and we'll write a list. You know how

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Speaker 1: people do that expression like who hurts you? It's like

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Speaker 1: who hurts you? Get me a pen and paper. Who

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Speaker 1: hurts you? Who molested you, who abused you, who is

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Speaker 1: root to you? Who did this in front of you?

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Speaker 1: Who's like, you know, let's get a list, so and

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Speaker 1: someone else may come into it from like no one

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Speaker 1: hurt them? You know, and we don't want for bad

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Speaker 1: things to happen to our kids. But by the same token,

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Speaker 1: my daughter is not gonna be able to deal with

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Speaker 1: life in the same way that I am. She's not

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Speaker 1: gonna be the same type of like she probably will

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Speaker 1: because she's my daughter. But one of the things about

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Speaker 1: these experiences, like taking her to fashion we can take

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Speaker 1: her to the premiere is an interesting thing, and vacations

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Speaker 1: and emirates first class and you know, and people sending

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Speaker 1: her stuff all the time and holding it back because

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Speaker 1: I will not raise a spoiled child that's entitled. It's

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Speaker 1: hard for me. Like she just thinks that things are

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Speaker 1: going to come easily because they come so easily now,

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Speaker 1: And you can't be the one that's taking your kidde

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Speaker 1: vocation and you're leaving them in the back of the

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Speaker 1: plane and you're sitting on the front, and you're not

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Speaker 1: going to like order what you want in a menu

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Speaker 1: and tell her she's only allowed to order, you know,

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Speaker 1: cup of noodles. So it is a difficult thing to

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Speaker 1: raise a well adjusted child. And it's also it annoys

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Speaker 1: you because you know how you grew up and you

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Speaker 1: look at this kid and you want them to know

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Speaker 1: this kid has no idea. I was thirty something years old,

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Speaker 1: couldn't afford a taxi. He was bouncing checks like this

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Speaker 1: kid can always afford her boba or her coffee, or

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Speaker 1: to be with her friends. She'll never gasp and pray

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Speaker 1: that someone else would pay, or not know if her

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Speaker 1: ATM card is going to work or you know, it's

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Speaker 1: like exasperating. I remember having to like you know, combine

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Speaker 1: credit card debt or like getting the insufficient funds noticed

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Speaker 1: is not knowing how you're gonna pay your rent, trying

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Speaker 1: to sell things like just feeling anxiety and desperate the

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Speaker 1: money noise which stays with you like I still have it.

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Speaker 1: So that was a tangent off of astrology that makes

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Speaker 1: no sense. But it's just like knowing why people are

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Speaker 1: different and understanding that and really like thinking about its

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