Speaker 1: It's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning and this is
Speaker 1: the Second Day podcast.
Speaker 2: Thanks for being here.
Speaker 1: The only disappointing news yesterday about Travis Kelcey and Taylor
Speaker 1: Swift's engagement is that now she's never gonna call us
Speaker 1: for a second date.
Speaker 2: So sure it was gonna happen.
Speaker 3: I know she doesn't need us to play matchmaker.
Speaker 1: I always thought she calling to the show and be like,
Speaker 1: what wasn't he calling me back?
Speaker 2: But it won't happen now. So yeah, so much an
Speaker 2: awkward Tuesday or something.
Speaker 1: You know, so huge congrats of course from us. I
Speaker 1: think she's such a cool person and I'm glad she
Speaker 1: inspires other people.
Speaker 3: It's been so great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we have, you know, some non famous people
Speaker 1: doing a second date update today we really care about Hey,
Speaker 1: they could be we don't know that it's brand new.
Speaker 2: But before we get to it, let's read a comment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Abby said, I love you guys, and I always
Speaker 1: listen when I'm gasping for air on the StairMaster.
Speaker 2: At the gym, and you make the time go by easier.
Speaker 1: Why would you listen?
Speaker 3: Then you're gonna be like laughing it out of breath.
Speaker 2: It's good.
Speaker 1: It's good for your cardio, and your butt looks amazing
Speaker 1: on the StairMaster.
Speaker 2: There you go.
Speaker 1: All right, Your brand new Second Date podcast starts right now.
Speaker 3: Second Date Up Date. Is there anything sadder than being
Speaker 3: out and seeing somebody else getting stood up for a date?
Speaker 2: That's so sad. The sounder part is being the person
Speaker 2: stood up, Jeff.
Speaker 3: Let's just why are you smiling so big?
Speaker 2: Though entertaining? What are they going to say?
Speaker 4: An hour?
Speaker 2: Two hours?
Speaker 3: She's like, that's a prime spot at the bar. I
Speaker 3: get to like slide in. But for one of our listeners,
Speaker 3: seeing somebody get stood up was actually the best thing
Speaker 3: to ever happen to him. Oh, because apparently he turned
Speaker 3: that woman's loss into his game. I so let's talk
Speaker 3: to Joseph about it. Joseph, welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hey guys, how are you?
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, we can't wait to hear this story.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, what happened? You saw a woman get stood
Speaker 3: up somewhere?
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I went to this Mexican restaurant after I got
Speaker 5: off work, and I was going to just meet my
Speaker 5: buddy at the bar.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: But I get to the bar and there's only one
Speaker 5: seat open and it's next to this woman and she
Speaker 5: you know, she's very, very pretty, and her name is Sabrina.
Speaker 5: I didn't know at the time, so I go, Hey,
Speaker 5: the cool if I sit down here? She goes, actually,
Speaker 5: it's reserved. I have date coming. And I was like, well,
Speaker 5: would you mind if I just sat here until my
Speaker 5: friend got here, because like, nowhere else we to sit.
Speaker 5: She goes, She thinks about it for a moment, she goes, yeah,
Speaker 5: that's fine, you can click.
Speaker 2: Okay, So she's planning on kicking you out?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, she was waiting for a guy. And so,
Speaker 5: you know, I sit down and I start talking to her,
Speaker 5: just to be polite while I'm waiting for the bar
Speaker 5: tend to take my order, and it actually starts going well,
Speaker 5: and we're talking now it goes on to like ten minutes,
Speaker 5: and I said, hopefully this guy didn't stand you up,
Speaker 5: and she's like, yeah, I hope so too. I get
Speaker 5: a drink to her, what do you want? She gets
Speaker 5: a drink. So now we're both drinking.
Speaker 2: Oh, you're moving in. You're like, you're not even waiting
Speaker 2: for the whether or not the guy stood you. You're
Speaker 2: texting your friend. You're like, hey, don't come.
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly what I did. I said to him, don't
Speaker 5: come in, saget, wait for my signals. They're really pretty
Speaker 5: girls there. I think she's being stood up. Okay, okay,
Speaker 5: because now it's fifteen minutes. She thought this guy was
Speaker 5: coming in any second. He's still not there. So we're drinking.
Speaker 5: I'm buying her drink, and then she gets a text
Speaker 5: that the guy has canceled on her.
Speaker 1: Dude, what a jerk, but also a way to turn
Speaker 1: lemons into Margarita's.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I text my friend, you know what, turn around,
Speaker 5: turned the car around. I don't need you tonight.
Speaker 2: You know it's a good buddy. And he's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: all right, good luck.
Speaker 5: Yeah he gets it. He did the same thing to me.
Speaker 5: He bought up my car to be with a hot Wow.
Speaker 3: So now all of a sudden, you have an instaday
Speaker 3: with the sad woman at the bar.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I tell her lessons. We're both here, we
Speaker 5: both got stood up. Let's get a booth.
Speaker 3: We get a booth.
Speaker 5: Color. She has beautiful eyes. It's a good vibe, like
Speaker 5: really funny. There's a baby next table. The babies are
Speaker 5: throwing chips. So we start like throwing chips at the baby, and.
Speaker 2: I thought I've misunderstood what you just said.
Speaker 3: I love that. That's a good vibe for a date
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 5: I mean, we're having fun with this baby. I mean,
Speaker 5: you know you're.
Speaker 3: Gonna fight the baby. You're just gonna you know, you're
Speaker 3: not holding a tortilla chip to the baby's throat. It's
Speaker 3: just like light and playful.
Speaker 5: I didn't do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like your guys vibe is really natural together.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we start, we start having a food fight together,
Speaker 5: like chips, maybe a little bit of saltwood and she
Speaker 5: goes like, oh, you got some salt on your cheeks
Speaker 5: and she is on the cheek. Wow, it's like all
Speaker 5: in forty minutes.
Speaker 2: Wow, she made the first move even.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm shocked it was going small. I was like
Speaker 5: really shocked.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's so fun too, and it's like something you
Speaker 1: haven't planned. Yeah, you know, it's not like you had
Speaker 1: any nerves going into it.
Speaker 3: And I'm sure you would have done the same sort
Speaker 3: of things if your bro was there with you. So
Speaker 3: it's nice that you were able to do it to
Speaker 3: a woman. Yeah, licking sauce off each other's cheeks that's
Speaker 3: just what bros do when we go out for like Mexican.
Speaker 5: Yeah, hell yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay. So I mean this is turning into what sounds
Speaker 3: like the best date ever.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not only that, it's the best state in
Speaker 5: the history of all day.
Speaker 2: Whoa wow statements.
Speaker 1: Okay, has just been risen Like that is a really
Speaker 1: high place to put it.
Speaker 3: I need to high five that baby for being the
Speaker 3: best wingman ever. So, I mean, what happens after Mexican food?
Speaker 5: I went back to her place, hung okay, still like
Speaker 5: two am.
Speaker 2: Whoa did you talk at all?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 5: We we sat there silent. Yeah we thought.
Speaker 3: I didn't mean if there was physical activities happening.
Speaker 5: We just we had a really good time. Okay, so
Speaker 5: you had lucky, I said, there was. When can I
Speaker 5: see you again? I really want to. She was like, well,
Speaker 5: I have this workshrip the next day. And then she
Speaker 5: said something a little weird. She was like, I'm hoping
Speaker 5: not to run into my ex because it's where I'm from,
Speaker 5: it's in my hometown.
Speaker 1: You could also think of it as like she's so
Speaker 1: comfortable with you that she's just talking right like it.
Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't mean like if she had been more guarded,
Speaker 1: she probably wouldn't have said yeah, yeah, might get back
Speaker 1: with him.
Speaker 3: I mean, was that what I'm thinking? Was that going
Speaker 3: through your mind when she said that, Joseph.
Speaker 5: It wasn't. But she ended it with I'm going to
Speaker 5: be back in a few days. And now it's been
Speaker 5: six days and there's no answer, and I'm wondering, now,
Speaker 5: did she run into him? And are they back together?
Speaker 3: So you've texted her in that time and she's not
Speaker 3: responding to you, or what's happening.
Speaker 5: She's not responding?
Speaker 3: Bro, I know we're normally the other way around, but
Speaker 3: maybe you consider that you just met someone at the bar,
Speaker 3: had a fun night, and that's all they want.
Speaker 5: Like, I think she would have been more clear about
Speaker 5: that towards the end, or you know, kind of blew
Speaker 5: me off. But she was so like into me, and
Speaker 5: she seems so excited to see me again. I just
Speaker 5: I don't think that's the case at old guys.
Speaker 3: Well you can feel the energy.
Speaker 2: We can't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm different, I'm back with my ex is going
Speaker 1: to be a real simple answer.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I couldn't just check that. Yeah, if
Speaker 2: that's the case.
Speaker 3: True, or is it possible. It was just you know
Speaker 3: how they say Mexican food is an aphrodisiac. Maybe that
Speaker 3: was like rolling over and now that the Mexicans worn't off.
Speaker 2: Those Yeah, I do love tacos.
Speaker 3: So you said, it's been six days. She's not answering
Speaker 3: anything you're sending her. It's not looking great. But hopefully
Speaker 3: we can get her on the phone and should pick
Speaker 3: up for us. We'll get you some answers about your
Speaker 3: impromptu date at the Mexican restaurant with your second date
Speaker 3: update right after this. Thank you, I mean, we got
Speaker 3: to do this for the best date in all of history. Yeah,
Speaker 3: hold on, second date update. It's Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the morning and we're in the middle of a second
Speaker 3: date update with one of our listener's, Joseph, who kind
Speaker 3: of lucked into the best date of his entire life.
Speaker 3: Words when he was at a Mexican restaurant. There was
Speaker 3: one seat open at the bar, and the woman right
Speaker 3: next to him got stood up for her date. So
Speaker 3: they ended up talking, grabbing some drinks, got some food,
Speaker 3: ended up back at her place, where he didn't leave
Speaker 3: until two in the morning.
Speaker 2: Why does your voice get lower and slower as you
Speaker 2: just describe it.
Speaker 3: Just as sexy. How Also, am I supposed to describe
Speaker 3: the best date in the history of all their kind?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: And the last thing that she said to him, And
Speaker 3: this is key, at least for Joseph, is I'm going
Speaker 3: to be going on a work trip to my hometown
Speaker 3: and I just hope I don't run into my ex. So, Brook,
Speaker 3: what are the percentages that that actually happened and she
Speaker 3: met up with her ex boyfriend? Are we talking fifty
Speaker 3: to fifty year, twenty eighty, one hundred zero?
Speaker 1: I think it's one hundred percent that she definitely hooked
Speaker 1: up with her ex over the weekend excuse, But that
Speaker 1: doesn't mean they're back together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you should hook up. And then you're like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I see why we did that.
Speaker 5: I don't like it. You're putting this in my head.
Speaker 5: I really don't.
Speaker 2: Just trying to prepare you less exactly.
Speaker 3: I will take the other angle and say, there is
Speaker 3: no chance that she met up with her ex boyfriend
Speaker 3: and she was thinking about you the entire time she
Speaker 3: was at works.
Speaker 1: Are so sweet?
Speaker 3: She can't dial you were texting?
Speaker 2: Yeah, what a cute, naive world you live in.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she didn't even type anything on her work laptops.
Speaker 3: It was just your name over and over and over
Speaker 3: again the entire trip. That's what I'm thinking happened.
Speaker 2: That wouldn't be a red flag. OA.
Speaker 3: Okay, but let's find out. We'll see what actually happened.
Speaker 3: If she picks up the phone, I'm gonna dial her
Speaker 3: number right now. But here we go. Hello, Hey is
Speaker 3: this Sabrina? Yeah, awesome, So hey, Sabrina, thank you for
Speaker 3: picking up. You are on a radio show right now.
Speaker 3: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hello, good morning.
Speaker 2: It's not the rental car place.
Speaker 1: No nos, Why would the radio show call me? Well, sorry,
Speaker 1: we can't return whatever you've forgotten. Your rental car always
Speaker 1: happens to me too.
Speaker 3: Yes, sorry, I don't know what's going on with that,
Speaker 3: but we were a show. We do a segment on
Speaker 3: this show called the Second Date Update, which is where
Speaker 3: we help out our listeners if they've gone out with
Speaker 3: somebody or had a fun romantic encounter in your case,
Speaker 3: we try to help them reconnect and figure out if
Speaker 3: there's a chance at a second meetup. Okay, okay, so
Speaker 3: popular segment. Yeah, and we're doing this on behalf of
Speaker 3: one of our listeners that met you the other day.
Speaker 3: It's a guy named Joseph.
Speaker 5: Joseph, Oh my god, I was gonna.
Speaker 4: Call him later.
Speaker 2: Oh that's great.
Speaker 1: New? Is he like jumping the gun like you just
Speaker 1: just got home and you haven't had time to talk. No.
Speaker 3: No, I just got my phone back today because I
Speaker 3: left it.
Speaker 5: That's why I thought it was the rental car place.
Speaker 5: I left my phone in the rental car and then
Speaker 5: it took him like five or six days to get
Speaker 5: it back to me.
Speaker 1: So I just got it today's new.
Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 1: So you were gonna call Joseph today and get another
Speaker 1: date set up.
Speaker 5: Yes, I've been thinking about him this whole time.
Speaker 3: You were right, Jess, Yeah, of course I'm right. So
Speaker 3: look Sabrina again. Yeah, sorry to do this to you.
Speaker 3: But the whole reason that we called is Joseph reached out.
Speaker 3: He told us about your date at the Mexican restaurant,
Speaker 3: said it was the best hangout he's ever had. Does
Speaker 3: that mean you think the same.
Speaker 1: He said that, Yes, he said, the best date in
Speaker 1: the history of all dates if we want.
Speaker 2: To do it too much?
Speaker 3: So sweet, Oh my god?
Speaker 5: Like that, I feel like an idiot did a circumstance.
Speaker 1: He's going to be so relieved because he thought it
Speaker 1: was something that he did and that's why.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he heard from you in days and days so cute. Well,
Speaker 3: can you guys just tell him that what I said,
Speaker 3: that I that I do.
Speaker 5: You want to see him again? Can you tell him
Speaker 5: for me?
Speaker 3: Sure we could, but you've kind of already told him
Speaker 3: because he's actually on the phone with us right now
Speaker 3: on the other line listening to this.
Speaker 1: What.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Joseph is on here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how this segment works. We have them waiting
Speaker 3: on the other line. So Joseph, are you there, man?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 3: Hey Joseph, you must be so happy. Yeah, I can't
Speaker 3: imagine what you're feeling right now. Talk to Sabrina.
Speaker 5: Hey, Sabrina, what's up. It's Joseph.
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much said that.
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5: I'm so sorry. I really was going to call you.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry that I did through a radio show. I
Speaker 5: just had such an amazing night and I want more
Speaker 5: than one night with you. Oh you are so sweet,
Speaker 5: like you have no idea, but I literally missed the
Speaker 5: sound of your voice. Wow.
Speaker 3: Really they are really on the same page for real.
Speaker 5: Seriously, your voice is so sexy.
Speaker 4: I just.
Speaker 5: I love the way you say casea.
Speaker 4: Oh well in that case case okay, a nine hundred
Speaker 4: number to hear stuff like that.
Speaker 3: Give credit.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to get into a smothered burrito.
Speaker 5: Are either. Yeah, yeah, I'm here. I'm really serious. If
Speaker 5: you were with me right now, I would totally kiss you.
Speaker 5: I would.
Speaker 3: I would kiss you ten times. I would tell you
Speaker 3: so much more that I didn't kiss you.
Speaker 2: Anymore is too cute?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, hold on, then what would Joseph do after
Speaker 3: the ten.
Speaker 5: I mean, that's not going to stop me, Sabringa. I
Speaker 5: am a kissing machine around.
Speaker 2: What every girl wants.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Well, I'm sensing, and maybe I'm reading this wrong,
Speaker 3: that there's a little bit of a connection. There's like
Speaker 3: too much chemistry.
Speaker 2: Jeffery is the only one in the room that's comfortable. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 3: So, Joseph, you are cute. Yeah, Joseph, this is sounding
Speaker 3: like the best news ever for you.
Speaker 5: Just really relieved. Like Sabrina, I was so worried that
Speaker 5: we went on your work trip. I thought you might
Speaker 5: have seen your ex and something happened.
Speaker 3: Oh we forgot about that. Oh yeah, I did see him.
Speaker 2: Discuss this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like you didn't do anything with him, right,
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm just so excited to see you again.
Speaker 3: That's yeah question.
Speaker 5: You didn't answer my question though you didn't hook up
Speaker 5: with your ex, right, I don't know how much I
Speaker 5: should go into it with you. Yeah, Oh my god,
Speaker 5: you hooked up with it. You hooked up with it,
Speaker 5: didn't you.
Speaker 3: Okay, you don't understand.
Speaker 5: It takes a while to break off an engagement.
Speaker 3: It doesn't just happen automatically. Wait wait, wait are you
Speaker 3: still engaged?
Speaker 5: Wait you hold on? You're engaged this guy?
Speaker 3: Well technically, but we weren't even in the same city
Speaker 3: except for this past weekend.
Speaker 5: But I don't even want that to be a thing.
Speaker 3: Wait we're currently engaged.
Speaker 4: Yeah, soon to be exaverbally involved with him?
Speaker 5: Like today, that's not distinguished, Like you don't.
Speaker 3: Like emotionally, I'm distancing myself.
Speaker 2: Okay, No, emotionally you're cheating on him.
Speaker 5: Happening, Guys, I just want to basically, I don't care
Speaker 5: about verbally or emotionally.
Speaker 3: Bro Wait, yes, I don't know, and it's a yes.
Speaker 3: Come on man. Are you sure yes, because it's at
Speaker 3: this point that I would like to ask if you
Speaker 3: realize to go out with Joseph one more time.
Speaker 2: She can't. She's taken. She's engaged to another dude.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Should I have asked that question earlier when
Speaker 3: they were talking about being kissing machines on each other? Ever,
Speaker 3: oh shoot, five minutes ago? That was my bad. But Sabrina,
Speaker 3: the offer still stands. Will offer to pay for a date?
Speaker 2: We're gonna pay.
Speaker 1: My answer is yes. My answer is yes.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 3: She's she's distancing herself from her current fiance verbally, emotionally
Speaker 3: and man verbally, not quite physically yet, but that happens
Speaker 3: every time you go meet up with your exes.
Speaker 4: So I'm working on it.
Speaker 3: You guys, we won't be together in a month. I promise.
Speaker 2: Just break up with.
Speaker 3: The man, because Joseph, she did say, yes, you heard it,
Speaker 3: she wants to see you again. Let's put everything else aside,
Speaker 3: including her engagement to another man. I need to hear
Speaker 3: from you. Is it a yes to another date with Sabrina?
Speaker 3: And I want you to remember to think with your heart,
Speaker 3: not with your head.
Speaker 2: Jeff, you're talking nonsense.
Speaker 3: Okay, Brooks, Mike, please thank you, Joseph, the question was
Speaker 3: directed to you.
Speaker 2: You better say no, Joseph.
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 5: I want to hang out with you again, but I
Speaker 5: have to wait till you're done. So just can you
Speaker 5: just talk to me after?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 6: Because you can totally believe her when she says ye, Joseph,
Speaker 6: you might have to say the word case of deal
Speaker 6: one more time in order to get her back on
Speaker 6: your side.
Speaker 5: Oh god, Oh that's what I love.
Speaker 3: I feel good about this. I don't have to dial
Speaker 3: that one nine hundred number later, so I really found
Speaker 3: the speech. This is great. Successful second date update everybody,
Speaker 3: Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. Timing really is everything in life,
Speaker 3: and I kind of blame you guys for not encouraging
Speaker 3: me to jump in earlier to offer them another date sooner.
Speaker 1: How are you not apologizing right now for even putting
Speaker 1: the date on the table?
Speaker 2: Dude?
Speaker 3: What are you talking about?
Speaker 2: Engaged? How many times do you have to hear that
Speaker 2: to understand it?
Speaker 1: I can guarantee that guy does not know he's soon
Speaker 1: to be ex Emotionally.
Speaker 3: She's not engaged in her.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, she's.
Speaker 6: Not even wearing the ring hey around when she's not
Speaker 6: around her fiance.
Speaker 3: And he's never around because he's far away back in
Speaker 3: their hometown. She never even sees the guy, and she
Speaker 3: promised us that in a month he'll probably be gone.
Speaker 1: May. We never even brought up the fact that she
Speaker 1: was waiting for a different guy to go on a date.
Speaker 2: She is like actively dating.
Speaker 3: I hear what you're saying. She's a catch and it's
Speaker 3: really nice that he was able to lock her down.
Speaker 3: Out of all the men, Joseph came out on tom
Speaker 3: Oh my god, so that is a big win for us.
Speaker 3: Congratulations to us for making this happen.
Speaker 5: I don't want to.
Speaker 3: Cause drama, but if you're engaged, check on your fiance. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's probably a safe thing to do. But if you're
Speaker 3: not engaged and you need help with your dating life,
Speaker 3: email us and we can help you get into a
Speaker 3: relationship with someone who's engaged another relationship. Well, it is
Speaker 3: what we did this time, So it was an accent.
Speaker 3: But most of the time, single people that's who we
Speaker 3: help and go check out all of our second dates.
Speaker 3: They're up with lots of single people. Yes, they're up
Speaker 3: on the lines. Wherever you get your podcasts that Brooke
Speaker 3: and Jeffrey