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Speaker 2: That's kind of a weird thing to find out on

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Speaker 2: your wedding day, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh, now pronounce you brother and sister b.

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Speaker 3: I was like, wait, we have a scheme of throne?

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Speaker 3: What kind of wedding is this? Alabiama? All right?

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Speaker 1: I twenty four female my fiance twenty four male, have

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Speaker 1: been together since our sophomore year of college, so around

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Speaker 1: five years now. For context, my mom fifty female, had

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Speaker 1: an affair with a coworker when I was sixteen, leading

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Speaker 1: to my parents' divorce. That sucks, yikes. She has been

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Speaker 1: single ever since. Rightfully so cheaters never prospect except in

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Speaker 1: many areas of life. She has gone on dates, but

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Speaker 1: no serious relationship. I have a good relationship with my

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Speaker 1: dad and his new wife. Sadly, my fiance's mom passed

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Speaker 1: three male, has been single since. My fiance proposed last year,

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Speaker 1: but our wedding was delayed due to COVID. Our family

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Speaker 1: from his dad. Three months ago, in January twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 1: we decided that it was time to have our families

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Speaker 1: in June twenty twenty one, held in our backyard Code

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Speaker 1: appropriate with immediate family only.

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Speaker 3: Don want it responsible?

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Speaker 1: Do it responsible? Small wedding families meeting for the first time.

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Speaker 2: All good, right, seem everything's going so swimmingly well.

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Speaker 3: How could it go wrong?

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Speaker 1: My dad and his wife, my fiance's dad, and my

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Speaker 1: This well well, albeit there was some tension between my

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Speaker 1: to my knowledge. Upon questioning, it turns out that she

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Speaker 1: and my fiance's dad have been dating in secret since

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Speaker 1: that meeting in January and had married in secret yesterday,

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Speaker 1: making my fiance my stepbrother.

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Speaker 3: I want to throw up thinking about this. What that

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Speaker 1: Also, how terrible to use the family meeting for your

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Speaker 1: child's wedding as a cruising spot to meet your next hookup.

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Speaker 3: Brot, it's Saint Tender. Also the super crazy, the super hinge.

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Speaker 2: The super crazy thing to me is that she ran

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Speaker 1: Know, steal in the thunder at least at least like

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Speaker 1: because what's wait a little, what is everyone gonna do

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Speaker 3: Talk about that, right?

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Speaker 1: And it's not like there's a ton of people that

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, there's more.

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Speaker 1: She SAIDs that I should now cancel my wedding because

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Speaker 1: it would be inappropriate to marry my stepbrother.

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Speaker 2: Audacity, dude, what what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: That's like, that's like ordering a subway sandwich. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: Eat that sandwich, like I'm so excited to eat that sandwich,

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Speaker 1: and then saying, actually, I peed on that sandwich meat,

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Speaker 3: And it's like, no, this sandwich was great before you

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Speaker 3: Like oh oh oh, I got you, I got you.

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Speaker 2: The sandwich artist was like, listen, I couldn't make it

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Speaker 3: You really shouldn't eat it. Yeah, but so you can't.

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Speaker 1: And it's like, before you peed in it, it was

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Speaker 1: totally fine. It was a totally fine sandwich. It was

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Speaker 1: make that sandwich a pea sandwich and make my fiance

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Speaker 3: The fiance is the pea sandwich. Sorry, bro, Sam.

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Speaker 1: I'm absolutely horrified. I shouted at my mom saying she

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Speaker 1: just loves ruining my life and called her selfish. First

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Speaker 1: married my fiance's dad, knowing full well I was about

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Speaker 1: to marry my fiance. I love how like she cheats,

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Speaker 1: and she has this like string of like you know, boyfriends,

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Speaker 3: Big as possible, I mean, as much as possible.

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Speaker 2: And oh my, I'm just I'm just so blown away

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Speaker 2: at the audacity of canceled the wedding.

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Speaker 3: I cannot believe that. Get your wedding annoying? Yeah, cancel

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Speaker 3: your wedding are the thing she already like.

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Speaker 1: Not only is she ruining o Pie side of the family,

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Speaker 3: It's a double whammy. It is.

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Speaker 1: My mom then said I was still young and I'd

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Speaker 1: and has to take every opportunity she's got, and so

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Speaker 1: I was an ungrateful bleach for not approving of her marriage.

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Speaker 1: Then she accused me of wanting her to die alone.

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Speaker 1: I want you to dialone lady, where it is coming from.

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Speaker 1: I want you to die alone.

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Speaker 3: This is a masterclass gas lighting. I know, I know.

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Speaker 1: The image of gas put into this is more than

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Speaker 1: you know. My dad after eating a full can of

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Speaker 2: More than Saudi Arabia's whole stash more, Yes, more than

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Speaker 3: They got out there, they got They're stacked, stacked.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm an apple, but I just wanted

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Speaker 1: I'm also twelve weeks pregh by fiance's kids, so that

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Speaker 3: We haven't told anybody yet.

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Speaker 1: Am I d a hole for being mad about my

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Speaker 1: mom marrying my fiance's dad because she said I can't

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Speaker 1: is an apple too. But all right, before I make

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Speaker 3: But John, what would you do?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you made it such a good point.

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Speaker 2: The fiance's dad is a huge ahole as well, because

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Speaker 2: like he agreed to date, agreed to date in secret,

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Speaker 2: got married for even just getting married is already terrible.

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Speaker 2: But like then, he didn't stop her from saying, like saying,

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Speaker 2: oh you should cancel.

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Speaker 3: You're ready. Okay, there is a little update. We just

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Speaker 1: Apparently he sees no issue with my fiance and I

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Speaker 1: stay together. It was my mom who had an issue. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's an issue. It should not stop

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Speaker 1: And then announce it to yikes. But let us know

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Speaker 5: I landed my first audition by accident, and now my

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Speaker 1: bestI No, yeah, dude, I can't believe the bestie is leaving.

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Speaker 1: The bestie should be the best eie. That's the restie.

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Speaker 1: That's all right, but.

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Speaker 3: I can't break the bestie code. Yeah, come on, okay,

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Speaker 5: My twenty female friend is an aspiring actress. Over the

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Speaker 5: last year, all her auditions were online. However, things have

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Speaker 4: We had plans that day, so it was more convenient

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Speaker 1: That's a great bestie, right, go along to the audition,

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Speaker 1: you know, come on, so part part the bestie is

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Speaker 1: the one acting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So she was excited because it was a big company

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Speaker 5: really good pay, et cetera. I was waiting for her

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Speaker 5: outside when someone came from casting and they started talking

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Speaker 5: and if I'm interested in auditioning for an exciting role,

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Speaker 5: which was my friend's role.

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Speaker 3: Bro, they tried to post bestie. Oh my god, Oh

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Speaker 3: my god. Okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean at.

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Speaker 5: First, like I was reluctant because I'm not into acting,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just thinking like, okay, I'm gonna tell this

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Speaker 1: often do people get guesses on auditions never having been acting? Never?

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Speaker 3: If the word is in ladies and gentlemen, we go.

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Speaker 1: We got their receipts from world renowned actor Nina Oh

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Speaker 1: and she knows what's up.

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Speaker 3: We got we got the experts in the house, that's right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the autis himself was easy and they were all

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Speaker 4: And I left and had no expectations that I get

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't have a portfolio and my only

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Speaker 5: I didn't try to hype up my experiences and was

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Speaker 5: very honest. So when I told my friend about it,

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Speaker 5: she jokingly said that I'm now her competition, so she

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Speaker 1: Okay, little shade bit that sound like she's getting jealous.

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Speaker 3: To all aboard the jealous.

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Speaker 4: At this point, it's just jokes so far.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so like it's like no one's thinking it's

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Speaker 3: Okay, but merely.

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Speaker 5: A couple hours after we left, I received a call

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Speaker 5: I honestly thought he missed and wanted to speak to

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Speaker 4: She has far more acting experience and seemed a lot

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Speaker 1: But OPI got that talent though, you know, apparently you know,

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Speaker 1: you can't like one thing to go with a school

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Speaker 1: and blah blah blah Shakespeare. But she has the rap

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Speaker 1: as that she has what it thanks, you know, factor

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Speaker 1: that it factor scouted, oh scouted to the max.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, she got extremely angry and said that I purposely

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Speaker 5: sabotaged her chances and that I'm not even interested in

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Speaker 5: acting at all since I'm in stem And then she

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Speaker 4: Home on her own.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the bus stop is fitting because

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Speaker 3: Was that too mean? Nina?

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Speaker 4: What if she watches this.

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Speaker 2: Video, it could happen. I had someone to reach back

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Speaker 2: and be like, yeah, this was my story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but honestly, I mean, like Op has an acting

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Speaker 3: And now she's on Okyop.

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Speaker 1: So this is like, dude, the triple IT factor and

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Speaker 1: she's going to be a rocket scientist actress, be amazing.

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Speaker 5: We had a huge argument and the next day she

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Speaker 5: was only hired because of force diversity since I'm multiracial

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Speaker 5: and she's white, and this type of preferential treatment is

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Speaker 3: What that's no friend? I needed thoughts, thoughts go off.

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Speaker 5: The worst thing I've read is just like, first of all,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I have a lot to say because

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Speaker 5: I just like, I feel like I've experienced so much

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Speaker 5: just like, it's because you're ethnic, and now I'm not

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Speaker 5: And that's also kind of sucky, like because I'm in

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Speaker 5: because they want diverse stories, and it's it's just kind

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is like the worst. Also, it's just like

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Speaker 1: this is a terrible friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not only is that not the case, but

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Speaker 2: it's like you would hope that they would be supportive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her, you know, not only did they find out

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Speaker 1: they were a terrible friends, but kind of racist.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And also she's kind of saying like, there's no way

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Speaker 4: It has to be something else. It's because of race.

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Speaker 5: Yea.

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Speaker 4: What she's saying.

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Speaker 1: Basically, that's a nightmare, nightmare, nightmare, nightmare. I'm glad you're

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Speaker 1: out of that friendship you've you've lost and not friend

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Speaker 1: so you know, Yeah, showed the trope colors.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not done yet, but it.

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Speaker 3: Is the stuff arc. You did such a good job,

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Speaker 3: Sam thought you. Yeah, all right, Yeah, do you want

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Speaker 3: me to finish it? Yeah? Please please do so.

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Speaker 4: Now some of my friends are split.

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Speaker 5: Some are saying that I'm in a whole for auditioning

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Speaker 5: and lessening her chances of success, and he said that

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Speaker 5: this gig obviously meant a lot to her and that

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Speaker 5: I should have been supportive instead of derailing her career.

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Speaker 5: Others are saying that I'm not an a hole whatsoever

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Speaker 5: because I just did it for fun and had no

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Speaker 5: and that I might have just left a better impression.

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Speaker 5: So I rejected the offer.

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Speaker 4: Am I an a hole for what I did?

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Speaker 3: She even rejected the offer?

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Speaker 4: You rejected it.

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Speaker 3: I mean she's one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, to someone who's not reciprocating at all.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: All right, OPI is like, so not the a hole

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Speaker 1: like in any universe, like even in the f't up

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Speaker 1: universe of her friend. She's not the able because she

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Speaker 1: rejected the offer. It's not her fault that she was

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Speaker 1: just so good and she outshown you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how would you handle that, Nina? Like if someone

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Speaker 2: like had beef with you, what would you say?

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Speaker 5: I mean, well, yeah, someone had beef with me, like

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Speaker 5: and then they said it is.

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Speaker 4: Because I'm ethnic. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I would throw hands and I would just be like wow,

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Speaker 5: and then you know what I do.

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Speaker 4: I would go Reddit and then I'd write a post.

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Speaker 4: I'd be like, can you guys believe this? This girl?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? That part Nina? Are you? OPI? Just to be clear,

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Speaker 3: Nina's not opy. Nina's not opy.

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Speaker 4: I don't have too many twenty year old friends.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, Nina, thank you so much for coming

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Speaker 1: on giving you your two cents on this incensed story.

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Speaker 1: Does that even make sense? Two cents on, two cents

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Speaker 1: on a story, two cents on a story. Yeah, tu

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Speaker 1: sense on a story. Thank you, we appreciate you, Thanks

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Speaker 1: for having me on. That's a rap, baby,