1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,040 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for one? 2 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 2: I am my husband at our child's birth instead of 3 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,119 Speaker 2: at his daughter's fencing competition. 4 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,879 Speaker 1: But the daughter's gonna win gold. He's birthing a champion, right, 5 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: Oh God. 6 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: Avocado four in sixty three sixty four says I, twenty 7 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: nine female, am married to my husband thirty two male. 8 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 2: He has a daughter from a previous relationship twelve female 9 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: who takes part in competitive fencing. 10 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: Sick. That's pretty awesome. I would want my daughter in 11 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: competitive fencing too. I want to be in low key. 12 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: You already are Yeah, you already you beat a champion? 13 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: That's right? Is like, yeah, just reminding everyone who's boss 14 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: around here. 15 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 2: Also, guys secretly flame Riley in the comments for losing 16 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: to Sophia, and then he's gonna notice and then freak out. 17 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 2: It's fun. Go ahead comment below. I have a good 18 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 2: relationship with her and we're friendly. She lives with her mom, 19 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 2: but I see her whenever she stays with us, and 20 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: I've hung out with her plenty. She has a competition 21 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: on Thursday, and my husband is flying down to see 22 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: her tomorrow to spend a few days with her before 23 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: the competition and to see the competition. Normally I wouldn't 24 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 2: have an issue with this, but I am thirty nine 25 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: weeks pregnant with our first child. I could go at 26 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: any moment, and I have no family at all. I've 27 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: asked him not to go and suggested we sent her 28 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 2: a gift down instead. 29 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 1: And when do people usually have babies? How many people 30 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:16,320 Speaker 1: is that? But you could have a premature not wait 31 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:20,479 Speaker 1: nine months times four is thirty six? Week thirty six? 32 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: Oh wow, it was like nine to ten months, so 33 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: you're like prag pregnant, pregnant. He insisted he has to 34 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: go and then I'll be fine. He has even. 35 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 2: Suggested that my best friend can come stay with me 36 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 2: while he's gone, just to be safe, you know, just 37 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 2: in case I miss missed the birth of my kid. 38 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: Who cares. Yeah, yeah, he's probably the real dad. Anyway, 39 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: Well blows my mom, I mean, low key might be 40 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: nice to you. We've been getting pretty good at predicting 41 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: these things. We are a story prediction algorithm living in 42 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: human bodies. Yeah, dude, I've downloaded like it's like in 43 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: the matrix where it's like I know kung fu. I've 44 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: downloaded all of Reddit into my brain to the nightmare. 45 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: You will be able to like receie cheating in all relationships. 46 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: Just listen to If you want to instantly predict cheating, 47 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: just watch every episode. You're welcome watch every episode. I 48 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 1: normally would have been fear exactly. I normally wouldn't mind 49 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: him going for this and would even encourage it. But 50 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,239 Speaker 1: I'm scared and I want him with me right now, 51 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: your husband with you, and you're about to have a baby. 52 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 2: Maybe if you were a fencing champion like his daughter, 53 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 2: you would have the strength and resilience to baby. 54 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 3: A fencing champion. 55 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, he'd be there fence for himself. You should have 56 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: had fetus lessons. 57 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: Fetus fencing lessons, it's even alliteration. 58 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: Come on. 59 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: He feels she will be too upset if he misses it, 60 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: and he has to work hard to keep his relationship 61 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 2: with her given the fact that he separated from her 62 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: mother and having a kid with me. 63 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: Yeah makes total sense. 64 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, just put all the work into the daughter and 65 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 2: none into your wife. 66 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 1: Babby, not gonna remember a thing. And honestly, my friend 67 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: great at makeup could make him look just like me. 68 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: What the friend's gonna go in instead? 69 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 2: So the friend is disguise and will look like op, 70 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: oh my god, he's not even gone. 71 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: That's hilarious. 72 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 3: You know what, should have signed her baby up for? 73 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: What? 74 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 3: In vitro fertilized fencing. Damn it, I messed it up. Wait, 75 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 3: hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Okay, you 76 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 3: know what? You should have signed her baby up for? 77 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: What? Sophia in vitro fencing? 78 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 3: I've yeah, yeah, yeah, I. 79 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: Thought about it. I thought about it. 80 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 2: I feel awful for even asking him not to go, 81 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: and incredibly selfish. It's okay, as yes, his daughter is 82 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: important and I never want to get in the way 83 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: of their relationship. But I'm just terrified into going to 84 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,119 Speaker 2: labor when he's not there. 85 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: The reason of literal baby. Yes, yes, he has made 86 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: it clear that he's going no matter what, and it's 87 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: implying that I am being unreasonable to ask him to 88 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: do otherwise. That's crazy. I don't know. Perhaps I being selfish. 89 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: Maybe he's like, you know, you see one Berth, you 90 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: see him all, yeah, the same same was that at one. 91 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, my daughter winning the fencing championship, but once in 92 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: my life exactly. 93 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, It's not like there's other fencing championships she could 94 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: go out and win at any time. That's the most 95 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 2: important one, most important one, and information that has come 96 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: up in the comments that should have been in the post. 97 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: Part of the reason I'm so scared is that I'm 98 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 2: unlikely to last the week, have been having a hard 99 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 2: time with the pregnancy, and I am classified as high 100 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: risk due to being diabetic. 101 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 1: He's also flying. 102 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: Out tomorrow and returning Friday evening, so OPI has like 103 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 2: potential serious complications with the pregnancy, is super worried for 104 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 2: the I mean, even if there was even if the 105 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 2: pregnancy was like looking good across the board. 106 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: You should be at that birth. 107 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you like, it is so reasonable to want your 108 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 4: partner there supporting you're the one giving birth, and even 109 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 4: more so that it's complicated, and even more so that 110 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 4: it's complicated the bare minimum, Barn, what he could do 111 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 4: is be there to support you, my God and at 112 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 4: number two. Also, yes, for those wondering, I'm set to 113 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 4: be induced due to being diabetic. It's going to happen 114 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 4: on Saturday, which is why he's coming back on Friday. 115 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: But I don't think I'll last that long. 116 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: So it's like OP is planned to have the labor 117 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 2: induced like medically, but she might go into labor before that. 118 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 1: For that, right, So there is an update. I see 119 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: you in the comments. If you think she's gonna pop beforehand, Yeah, 120 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm thinking so he's got a pop. 121 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 2: Before Yeah, I think she'll probably have the baby beforehand. 122 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: Do we think the husband will be there? 123 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:36,559 Speaker 1: No? Yeah, that's my ICU. And she's gonna be mad. 124 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I don't think that he's gonna make it. 125 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 2: And then okay, so let's go all the steps down 126 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 2: in our conspiracy theory. Do we think then that Ope 127 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 2: will ultimately divorce? There's actually two updates, by the way, 128 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 2: there's two updates. 129 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: I don't think she would divorce just because of that 130 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: new parent like that would be really hard to raise 131 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: the baby alone from this point, So I don't think 132 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: she would divorce just because of that. But conspiracy theory, 133 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: he's going to the fencing to use his sword with 134 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: the ex wife. Oh, that's why he needs to go, 135 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: because they're both gonna be there and they're be kindling 136 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: their long lost love. 137 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: And then he's like, all my daughter wants is for 138 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: us to get back together and then parent trap that 139 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: could be it is this parent trap. 140 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: But let's see those juicy updates. Let's find out. Hey, everyone, 141 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,119 Speaker 1: I wanted to thank everyone who commented on my initial post. 142 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: Your comments were very helpful. My doctor ended up deciding 143 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: I needed an emergency c section on Wednesday, and remember 144 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 2: that she was going to have it induced on Saturday. 145 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: There were a few days, and the husband was going 146 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: to come back on Friday. That means husband is gone. Yikes, yikes. 147 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: My best friend is an absolute saint and went with 148 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: me to the hospital. She wasn't allowed in the room, 149 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: so she spent the entire time trying to get in 150 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: touch with my husband. We only managed to contact with 151 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: him after our daughter was born. You missed it, He 152 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: missed it. He missed it. He only missed see your 153 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: daughter be born once. That is that a big fact. 154 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: Get back in there again. Let's run it back sake too. 155 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: Once he knew she and I. 156 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 2: Were healthy and fine, he didn't want to fly back. 157 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: He said we were fine now and the competition still 158 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 2: hadn't happened, so there was no point in upsetting his daughter. 159 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: He'd be flying back on Friday anyways. He doesn't want 160 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: to spend time with his daughter. You don't want to 161 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: say that was just born. There is something else at play. 162 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: There is no way we have all the information right now. Yes, 163 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: put I see you. If you're feeling something coming, and 164 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: what about what you know? And the story has tipped 165 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: you off so far? Let us know. 166 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 2: I was rather worn out and none at this point understandable. 167 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,239 Speaker 2: Just delivered a baby, so didn't argue, though my friend 168 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: called him every swear word she could think of. What 169 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 2: hurt the most is he didn't ask for a single 170 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: picture of our daughter or to zoom to see her. 171 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: You don't even want to see. What are you talking about? Kid? 172 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: You see one baby, You've seen every baby. I know. 173 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 2: A lot of newborn babies are so ugly, including I 174 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: was the ugliest. 175 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: I was the ugliest more baby ever. Do we have 176 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: any early baby pictures? I don't know. We have like 177 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: like I think when I was like it was one. 178 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 3: Baby videos, like you have a video of your first steps. 179 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: Probably somewhere. I don't know. I haven't ever seen that either. 180 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: Home videos, Yeah, we don't have any home videos. 181 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 3: Discord aesthetic black and light photos. 182 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: We have and we have a lot of those. It's art. 183 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: Our videos are not our pictures are Yeah. Videos are 184 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: getting me get out here. On Friday morning, he told 185 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: me he'd be missing his flight as he fell under 186 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: the weather and he didn't want to risk it being 187 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: the VID and bringing it back home. Dude, there is 188 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:45,239 Speaker 1: something so fishy. He's cheating. He's gotta be cheating, bababy. 189 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: However, however, I hate him and he's the worst. But also, 190 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 3: don't bring COVID around a baby. 191 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: Sure check check, take a test, Take a freaking test. 192 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: Come on. 193 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 2: I admit this kind of broke me a little, and 194 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 2: when I asked him if he didn't want to come home, 195 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: he told me I was being ridiculous. At this point, 196 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 2: I had had enough and told him to come back 197 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 2: whenever he felt like it, but I'd be staying with 198 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,599 Speaker 2: my friend with the baby when I got out of 199 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 2: the hospital, as I needed to think about some things. 200 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: What did I say before the update got a little 201 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:18,479 Speaker 1: bit of breakup language happening over you? I said something 202 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: not haten up. 203 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 2: My friend had been trying to get me to come 204 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 2: stay with her anyway, so I knew it would be 205 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: fine with her. He simply told me that was fine 206 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 2: and wo and to come back. When I had stopped 207 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: my hissy fit. No, your child. 208 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 3: Divorce, idiot divorce. 209 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: I want to smack this man right in them. 210 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 3: I want I want to challenge him to a fence 211 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 3: and competition and destroy him. 212 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: And I want to feed him peanuts and hope he 213 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: has a peanut allergy. Yeah, I'm done. 214 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: Not once has he asked to see our daughter or 215 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:54,119 Speaker 2: even showed concern for either of us following the emergency 216 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 2: sea section. I grew up in care. A mother alone 217 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 2: is better than no one, and I know that firsthand. 218 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 2: I'm not going to try and make things work just 219 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 2: for her sake. My best friend and her parents are 220 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 2: currently at my home getting all my things and the 221 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 2: baby things to move them to my friend's home. I've 222 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 2: also decided on the baby's name. I wanted to name 223 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 2: her Violet, initially after my best friend Bye. My husband 224 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 2: shot that name down immediately when he knew I was 225 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 2: having a girl, as he felt it was an old 226 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 2: lady's name. But honestly, I couldn't have done any of 227 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 2: this without her. Honestly, I think Violet is a really 228 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 2: cute name. 229 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 3: And also he's not there, so you can write whatever 230 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 3: she wants. 231 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't feel like it's a there's some 232 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 2: names that are old lady names. 233 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 1: That's not one of them. That's not an old lady name. 234 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: It was in the Incredibles, exactly incredible name. I see 235 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: what you did there, So yeah, I would be a 236 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: concern if you didn't. 237 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 2: Ah, what is that define incredible? So yeah, that is 238 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: where I'm at right now. I am in a whole 239 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 2: lot of pain emotionally and physically, but I have my 240 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 2: little girl in my arms. I'll likely be talking to 241 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 2: some lawyers soon to ask what to do going forward. 242 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 2: Thank you again for everyone You've all helped a great deal. 243 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 2: There is a final update here. Question everyone in the 244 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: comments and to you Sam, right move or not? 245 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: To what to divorce? Talk to the lawyers right move 246 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: or not? I mean if it was me, I would 247 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 1: be super suspicious yes of the husband, which I am, 248 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: and I would get my ducks in a row a 249 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: little bit, but I would hear him out first. Yeah. 250 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 2: Maybe it's saying something like hey, listen, like I cannot 251 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: stand really something is not adding up at all, and 252 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 2: like any reasonable person. 253 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: Would would have been there, would have been there. 254 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 2: And also like all of these like you saying like 255 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 2: you gotta stay with a daughter, like that's not any 256 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: reasonable person would Yeah. 257 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: And it makes me very like, it makes me very 258 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: worried or our ability to parent this child in the future. 259 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: If you're going to be so absent, but tell me 260 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: what's really going on. It really happened, which I feel like, 261 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: maybe we'll get it. An update update, Oh how things 262 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 1: are now? 263 00:11:59,000 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: Hi? 264 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: Everyone? Thank you all for your supporting messages. Sorry I 265 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 1: didn't post sooner. I debated on posting an update, but 266 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: I figured that I should as I know many of 267 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 1: you were worried slash curious. This will likely be my 268 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: last update. Thank you all. 269 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 2: So Violet and I the baby are doing good all 270 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: things considered. My friend has been a godsend and we're 271 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 2: still staying with her, and she has even been talking 272 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 2: about the two of us looking for a bigger place together, 273 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: as this isn't an ideal place for a baby as 274 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 2: Violet gets older. As a two of us are in 275 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 2: a tiny guest room at my friend's place, maybe big 276 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 2: conspiracy theory op ends up very I mean they see 277 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: parenting together. Violet literally saw way Violet the friend because 278 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 2: the friend is also named or Fi. I don't know 279 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,479 Speaker 2: if she's also named. 280 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 1: Did Ope name the child after the friend, right, right, 281 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: I could totally. I mean it, when you name it 282 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: after someone, you gotta marry them. Bruh. 283 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you have to have the rules, the rule, 284 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 2: Sam's Golden rule. Now you're likely wondering about my husband. Well, 285 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,439 Speaker 2: I've been in contact with the lawyer and have. 286 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: Filed for divorce. 287 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 2: As he said anything, Well, I reached out to his ex, 288 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 2: offering to send pictures of Violet for her daughter as 289 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 2: soon as my soon to be ex husband hadn't been 290 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 2: interested in seeing any. They've they have gotten back together, 291 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 2: it seems. 292 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 1: Did I call it nice work? Let's go? Dude? You 293 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: call let's go? You called them getting back together. I 294 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: called them getting divorced. 295 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 5: Dude. 296 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: We are We are the story prediction machine. 297 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 2: The infinity stones of predicting retas. Stories are in our glove. 298 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 2: Gotta love it. We need to know, like cheating stories, 299 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 2: wedding stories. We need like a diamond for every every 300 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 2: type of story. So good DNA, so good, so good. 301 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 2: We haven't had a good many DNA stories lately. Right, 302 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 2: we've got to throw it back. I know many of 303 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 2: you suggested it, and you were right. He still hasn't 304 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 2: seen Violet and shows no interest. My lawyer has all 305 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 2: the messages and every shutter proof that could be useful 306 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 2: in the divorce and the matter of Violet's custody, so 307 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 2: I doubt there will be any issue in me having 308 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 2: full custody given he hasn't even wanted to see a. 309 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: Picture of her yet. 310 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 2: Now about violet surname and birth certificate status, she has 311 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 2: my surname and he isn't on the birth certificate. He 312 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 2: isn't acting like a father and has no interest in her, 313 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 2: So it seems Thanks everyone, if you have any questions, 314 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 2: let me know. And speaking of which we do have 315 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 2: a relevant comment. Kat super Cute says, I'm honestly so 316 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 2: curious about how the oldest daughter took it, especially since 317 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: he got along with the stepmom ope and most likely 318 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 2: knew she was going to have a baby sister. Also, 319 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 2: the ex wife a fair partner leaping with because I 320 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 2: doubt they weren't effing every time he flew back to 321 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 2: see his daughter and stayed at their place. Taking back 322 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 2: a man who cheated on his wife, impregnated her, and 323 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: abandoned her. True where's your self respect? OMG, you can't 324 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 2: even imagine how heartbreaking. That conversation went when op sent 325 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 2: the X pictures, Hey, we're back together. He doesn't care 326 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 2: about your kid and neither do Why so don't send 327 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 2: more pics. 328 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: Jesus. 329 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 2: I'm so happy OPI had support edits. I want to 330 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 2: add info that I think may help with context. Not 331 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: sure if I can edit the post, so I'll. 332 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 1: Add it here. 333 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: Opie stated that in her comments that soon to be 334 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: X and his ex wife broke up because they were 335 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 2: young and had some difficulty raising their daughter and fell 336 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 2: out of love or some crap like that. He then 337 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 2: moved to a different location for a job opportunity, which 338 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: is where he met OP. So it wasn't cheating that 339 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 2: broke them up. It seems it was just like they 340 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 2: were young, like trying to parent and relationship difficulties. Opie 341 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: said that soon to be X would stay at his 342 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 2: ex wife's house whenever he would fly back to see 343 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: his daughter. Many commenters pointed out that it was fishy 344 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 2: and most likely how the affair started, as it's unlikely 345 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 2: that he made the decision to leave OP and return 346 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 2: to his ex wife within the span of a week. 347 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: I agree that was a beautiful ending. Beautiful beautiful. I 348 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: needed that ending. I mean kind of tragic for op tragic, 349 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: but a goaded Reddit story in terms of oh like 350 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: and just in terms of the insane behavior and insane 351 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: behavior and the like everything that happened. It sucks for 352 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: op op. I'm sorry, but just know that you have 353 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 1: entered the halls of Reddit story, the fame, the okop 354 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: hall of fame. You're welcome. You're welcome. All right, but 355 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 1: let's just get into this next story, which comes from 356 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: our slash okop show, our own subreddit. If you want 357 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: to hear your story on the show, you should submit 358 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: it there. We're growing. We just got another post like 359 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: a million views. Crazy. So am I the a hole 360 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: for planning on destroying my fertilized embryos? Oh wow? This 361 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: comes from Mama Swirl and they say, hey, all, first 362 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: time posting. I thirty one female have pcos and do 363 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: not menstrate without being medicated. I guess that's a fertility issue. 364 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 3: It's like, what's you McCollums and your uterus? Ye, what's mccallums? Yes, 365 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 3: got it, knew what it was called. 366 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a friend that had that. 367 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 368 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 1: When my husband thirty one male and I tried having 369 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: a baby. We ended up going through IVY. We got 370 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 1: five beautiful embryos and out of that we currently we 371 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: have two children, three male and less than one female, 372 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 1: and three frozen embryos. Here if I called the frosties, 373 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: the frosty is cute. This past year, my sister thirty 374 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 1: four female and her husband thirty three male, started trying 375 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: for a family and they ended up going through the 376 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 1: process for IVF. We all assumed that she would have 377 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: a similar journey to me, as she also had PCOS, 378 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: although not as bad as mine. Unfortunately, it turns out 379 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 1: my brother in law is shooting blanks. He went through 380 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:29,880 Speaker 1: a bunch of testing which included extracting sperm directly from 381 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,479 Speaker 1: the testes, similar to how they remove eggs from the 382 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: ovaries during IVF, and he has a zero sperm count ouch. 383 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 1: Their only option is to use a sperm donor zero 384 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: sperm count that's no sperm, no swimmers. Upon discussing this 385 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: with a friend of mine, they asked me if I 386 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: would give my frosties to my sister and her husband 387 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: and I, what do you think OPI would say no. 388 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: I automatically said no. We are hoping to go for 389 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 1: at least one more child. But if we have any 390 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: frosties left, we will be destroying them. Am I the 391 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: a hole for planning on destroying my frosties and not 392 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: even entertaining the thought of giving them to my sister? 393 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: And there's a quick note before we go into the discussion. Yeah, noe. 394 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: When we signed up for IVF, be out of the 395 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 1: options for remaining embryos to A be destroyed, B donated 396 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: to science, C donated to another person, and edit. In 397 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 1: my country, sperm banks are a little harder to get 398 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: access to than in the US. She has already been 399 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: on the list for about eight months. Sperm donors are 400 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: not paid in our country. Therefore it is a much 401 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 1: smaller wool more donies than donors. So is OP the 402 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: a hole for? When her sister wanted her frosties she 403 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: said no, and again, there's only like two frosties left. 404 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: And did she say she was planning Oh sorry, there's 405 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: only three frozen embryos left, three frosty. 406 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 2: Three frozen embryos left, And did she say that she 407 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 2: both denied her sister and was planning on essentially. 408 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: Destroying drawing anything left after getting the last kid, the 409 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: last kid that she just had. 410 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that is good context because it's like, why 411 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 2: would June like, why waste. 412 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: I'm I'm curious, what is the reason for not giving 413 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: them to my sister? Like, if Sofia was barren and 414 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:11,479 Speaker 1: I had eggs and I could give Sophia my eggs, 415 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: I would probably give you my eggs for you, right, yeah, 416 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 1: not even responding. 417 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 3: Sorry, I'm trying to give you my eggs right now. 418 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 1: She's not giving me the time of day. 419 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 3: I was finding some relevant comments which you can look 420 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 3: at if you'd lie. 421 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: Oh, that's awesome, Yes we would. We can read them. 422 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: We can read these relevant comments after this. But yes, Sophia, 423 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: if I if you were that, well, that wouldn't work. 424 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: But like, like, if we were of the same gender 425 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 1: and could give each other, we could swap. This is 426 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: weird swap sperms and eggs. You wouldn't you wouldn't give 427 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: me that give. 428 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 3: It to you. But I don't know if I would 429 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 3: want yours. 430 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 2: Why wait, if Sam was also a woman and could 431 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 2: carry ah. 432 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, obviously we wouldn't want to have it. 433 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: If I was a woman, okay, And if I was 434 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,439 Speaker 1: a woman and could give you. 435 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 3: My eggs and I didn't have any eggs. 436 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: And you didn't have any eggs. What do you take 437 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: my eggs? Probably? Why is there any hesitation? Because I 438 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: don't understand the hesitation. 439 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:11,360 Speaker 3: I don't think I have hesitating. 440 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: Okay, so you would take my eggs, I guess. So 441 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: would you give me your eggs? You have three eggs 442 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: left that you're planning on not using, Yeah, you could 443 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,439 Speaker 1: take them. You would give me one. That's the thing 444 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: where I'm so confused is I'm like, so, what I 445 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: could understand is op being like, hey, listen, you know, 446 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: we went through all this stuff to try and have 447 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: these kids, and we want to have the three just 448 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: in case we want to have another one, and we 449 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: know that you know, maybe it'll take two or three tries. 450 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,479 Speaker 1: I totally get that. Yeah, that makes total sense to me, right, 451 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 1: But then also, yes, what does the husband doing like 452 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: having blanks have to do with the oh, because they're 453 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: gonna go to a sperm bank and then do it. Okay, 454 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: But but no, no, no, I had the same question. Does 455 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 1: she not have eggs? Though? So basically what happened is, 456 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: so the situation is OPI's sister has pcos. 457 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, both of them have it. 458 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: But more severe and so it makes it hard to 459 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 1: do IVF and the husband is shooting blanks. So they 460 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 1: have to get their own sperm and have to get 461 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: a frosty right, And I believe it might be a 462 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,160 Speaker 1: fertilized embryo. Is that true? 463 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 2: A fertile Well, you fertilize the embryo, I believe, right, 464 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 2: three frozen embryos, but like that you then fertilized. 465 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 1: I'm wondering does it contain because it sounds like maybe 466 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: OPI's sister's husband can't have kids, Opie's sister can't have kids, 467 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: and so there do they want both the sperm and 468 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: the embryo from OPI and her husband both? 469 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, basically just having like their PILs, you know, I 470 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: don't know. Yeah, it's still still kind of slightly confusing. 471 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 2: Why if they're going to like not use the embryos anyways, 472 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 2: not just have Yeah. 473 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 1: I don't think. I mean it's your body, Yeah you 474 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: can at the end of your body. 475 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 3: I don't think you don't want to do what she 476 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 3: doesn't want to do it. 477 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's your buddy. I would be curious what 478 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: your reasons are. Yeah, but like, if it was me 479 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: and I could give eggs to Sophia, I would. 480 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 3: I guess it just depends on your relationship with your siblings. 481 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which seems good. We don't. We don't have 482 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: any indicators that it's bad. Yeah, I would want I 483 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: don't think you're the A hole, but I want to 484 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 1: know what what's the reason. 485 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm just like I want more information. 486 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but should we read some comments? Yeah? 487 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 3: Just on one relevant one? 488 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: So relevant comments. Cursed eighteen says, so your sister hasn't 489 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,239 Speaker 1: even asked for them. The idea was just floated by 490 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: a friend. 491 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 3: Oh right, Yeah, she hasn't asked. 492 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 1: Oh, then she's definitely not the A hole. Yeah. Either way, 493 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: you're not the A whole. They are your embryos, unless 494 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: your sister asked you herself, in which case you can 495 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: of course say no, this isn't even a problem and 496 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 1: then IP be responding correct. She is not asked for them. 497 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 1: Knowing my sister, she would never ask for them, but 498 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: I do believe she would be annoyed that I didn't 499 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: offer them to her. I don't think you're the A hole, 500 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: but if this was me, I would give I would 501 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: give my eggs. I'll give my You're welcome high quality eggs. 502 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: I think double A eggs. I think I would you 503 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 1: because like you give your eggs. 504 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 2: I do, yeah, And I do kind of get the 505 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 2: sense of like maybe someone's like, Hey, I don't want 506 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 2: to be I don't want to be the burden. 507 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to ask. I don't want to have to. 508 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,199 Speaker 2: This is a big you know, a big request and 509 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 2: a big ask, but also like I would hope. 510 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 1: That my sister would do this. 511 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 2: At the same time, I can kind of see that 512 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 2: like you're basically being as respectful as you possibly can, 513 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 2: but like ultimately are like, man, I wish Yeah. 514 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, you're not the A hole, but 515 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: you're probably not like being the like not doing the most. 516 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, you're not the angel for sure. Angel. 517 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 3: I don't think you necessarily have to be the you 518 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 3: don't know, no, no, no, but I don't think you're 519 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 3: an A hole. I agree. 520 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: But would you give your eggs to your sister or 521 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: sam if you were, yes, would you give your eggs 522 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: let us know in the. 523 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 3: If you're different genders, Yeah, don't do it, don't do it? 524 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 1: That would it work? Out. But yeah, I would love 525 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 1: to know what you guys think. Put your answers in 526 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: the comments, and I would love to know your reasons 527 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: because I think that's just as important. Ope, if you're 528 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 1: listening to this, you're a fan of the show, let 529 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: us know what your reasons are. Talk to us stat 530 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: in the comments. But if you love us, make sure 531 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 1: to subscribe. We love you and seeing tomorrow. 532 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 4: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives time 533 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 4: for Okay with Relash. 534 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: So we're actually taking stories from our own subreddit, our 535 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: slash okop show. So if you want your story like 536 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 2: this one to be featured on the show, post it there. 537 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the craziest shit. Man. 538 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for sleep walking and pooping 539 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 2: on my neighbor's lawn? 540 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: Human or AI? Oh? Are we using some chat GPT. 541 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 2: We're doing some chat GBT, so the game is we 542 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 2: guess whether it's human or AI and then we discovered 543 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 2: at the end. 544 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: So, Sam, that sounds like a completely like reasonable reddit story, 545 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 1: So okay, let's go for it. 546 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: I hope you can help me figure out if I'm 547 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 2: the a hole in this situation. You see, last night 548 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 2: I slept, walked outside and ended up pooping on my 549 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 2: own neighbor's lawn. Oh no, I didn't realize what I 550 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 2: had done until my neighbor confronted me about this in 551 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 2: the morning. 552 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: How did the neighbor like see I mean like camera footage? 553 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 1: Oh good question. It doesn't end up saying. 554 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 2: I was horrified and apologized profusely, but my neighbor is 555 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 2: understandably upset. 556 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, you know, just sit on your neighbor's lawn 557 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: and get away with it. 558 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 2: I offered to pay for any cleanup costs and jamages, 559 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 2: but they are still furious. 560 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 1: I don't normally sleep pay for the cleanup costs. Why 561 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: not just pick it up yourself. Hey, I will get that. 562 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: Ship's a biohazard, and I know it came out of 563 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: my asshole. Professional help for this? Oh my goodness, gracious. 564 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 2: I don't normally sleepwalk, and I have no control over 565 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 2: what I'm doing while I sleepwalk, but I feel terrible 566 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 2: about what happened. 567 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 1: Am I the A hole? I'm gonna say, I'm gonna 568 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,360 Speaker 1: say not not the ahole? I mean it's like, yeah, 569 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,919 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not your fault that you there you go. 570 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 1: You can't control that, but there is an update. That's 571 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 1: the update. 572 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: Hi all, thank you for your responses and advice. I 573 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 2: wanted to give you an update on the situation. After 574 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 2: I posted the original story, things escalated quickly. 575 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 1: What happened? Sorry? Okay? 576 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: My neighbor brought bought one hundred pounds of calvenure and 577 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 2: used used those to spray it. 578 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: I used the host to spray it all over the 579 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: front of my house. Okay, this gotta be AI. 580 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 2: The smell is overwhelming. Cleanup is going to be a nightmare. 581 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: I've tried. 582 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 2: I don't know what it's good, if I'm laughing or not. 583 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 2: I tried to talk to my neighbor and apologize again, 584 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 2: but they're still furious and refuse to listen. I am 585 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 2: not sure what to do at this point. Am I 586 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 2: the a hole for sleepwalking and pooping on my neighbor's lawn? 587 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 2: Or is my neighbor the a hole for retaliating in 588 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 2: such an extreme and disgusting way? 589 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: Unds comneer. But Sam, the story is not over. 590 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 5: There's no way. This is a real story. I've called AI. 591 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 5: I'm calling AI, and this is a real story. I'm 592 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 5: gonna fucking lose God. 593 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 2: Okay, final update, God After a lot of back and forth, 594 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 2: the situation is. 595 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: Finally calmed down. 596 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 2: My neighbor and I sat down and had a long, 597 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 2: honest conversation about what happened and how we felt. 598 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,640 Speaker 1: We were both able to come to. 599 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: An understanding and even managed to find some humor of 600 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 2: the situation. 601 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: Over time, over time, we grew closer and eventually we fell. 602 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 2: In love, We got we got married, and now we 603 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 2: can look back get this crazy incident as the moment 604 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 2: that brought us together. 605 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 1: AI AI the update, what were your prompts? 606 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 2: My prompts were, So what I've been doing now is 607 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 2: I'll do like a starter and then I'll do like 608 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 2: update update. So I did update sleepwalk pooped on a 609 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 2: lawn or like to start update? Uh, the neighbor bought 610 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: a hose and one hundred pounds of calmnur and sprayed 611 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 2: it on the op's house. And then the final one 612 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 2: is they discussed their dispute and eventually fall in love 613 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 2: and get married. Beautiful of a full full circle story. 614 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 2: Full circle. And and by the way, so you know 615 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 2: we shouted out putting on our on our subreddit your stories, 616 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 2: but also if you want to play human or AI 617 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 2: generate your own AI story. Submit that under human or 618 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 2: AI on our subreddit and uh, we'll play the game 619 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 2: when we both won't know, so. 620 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: Drop put it in the comments so we know eventually. 621 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: Maybe put it in the comments. Put in the comments, 622 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 1: jah gpt use it. Also make sure submit it our 623 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: slash okop show. Yeah, baby, give me your belongings at 624 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 1: the price I want or I am calling the news. Hi, 625 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: it's about the Apple mouse and keyboard. Hi. There, it's 626 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 1: still available. Do you want them both? Yes? Please? Can 627 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: you lower the price at all? No? Sorry, it's sixty 628 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 1: pounds for the two. This is actually very cheap. Let 629 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: me know your decision. But I'm not lowering the price 630 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 1: and I'm not squabbling. It's a ticket or leave it deal. 631 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: Fair Well, I'm confused over so many aspects of that. 632 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: Maybe you can find someone to help you. As I said, 633 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm not squabbling and I'm not going back and forth 634 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 1: at sixty take it or leave it? Why are you 635 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: being soubrupt? Also, I'm confused. Why won't you negotiate the price. 636 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: Don't you know that's how selling second hand goods works? 637 00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 1: You're confused. I'm confused, I clearly stated on the ad 638 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: sixty pounds was non negotiable, and not to message me 639 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: unless you were happy with the price. Yeah, no, need 640 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: to be such a dick. Also, I just checked the 641 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: Apple site and a new keyboard is ninety nine, not 642 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty nine. So you're a liar and 643 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: con artists as well as a dick. I bet you 644 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: still live at home with your mom and still a virgin. 645 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: You obviously don't know much about customer service. It's called 646 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: supply and demand, you idiot. You're so stupid. OMG. The 647 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: customer dictates what they want and it's up to you 648 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: to meet their needs or you lose their sale. Crying, 649 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 1: laughing oot, Yeah, dude, that only works in like business 650 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: that relies on customers to stay in the business, like 651 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 1: a shop. I'm not running a shop, and it's really 652 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: no skin off my nose whether you buy the keyboard 653 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: and mouse or not. OMG, you're so dumb. I start 654 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: a new job tomorrow and literally everyone at the office 655 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 1: has Apple accessories, and if I don't, they will make 656 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 1: fun of me. No worries, you can just retaliate. Call 657 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: them idiots, dumb, dumbs and virgins. You seem to be 658 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: good at that. Sorry, not selling to you now, not 659 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 1: even if you offered full price. You need to learn 660 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: some people skills, not to mention basic common sense. Bye, 661 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: f you knife knife knife emoji? Okay, I will pay 662 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: sixty What you were asking, can I collect? 663 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 5: Now? 664 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: Well you just sent me a bunch of knife emojis, 665 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 1: and now you want me to give you my address. Well, 666 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: I don't think so. And I told you I'm not 667 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 1: selling it to you. It was a typo. It was 668 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: meant to be love hearts. Ah, yes, that's a common mistake. 669 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: I totally believe you. But still no, I bet you're 670 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,720 Speaker 1: a dumb dumb who stays at home all day and 671 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: this is your only amusement advertising stuff for sale and 672 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 1: not selling it. My life would be a miserby tomorrow 673 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: because if you you're probably enjoying this. Well I wasn't 674 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: at first, but your antics are mildly amusing. My girlfriend 675 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 1: and I are both quite enjoying seeing what you're gonna 676 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 1: do or say next. The funniest and most enjoyable part 677 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 1: is that if you just acted light and reasonably, you'd 678 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: have your mouse and keyboard by now, and that all 679 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 1: of this is your own doing. But I suspect that 680 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 1: it will go right over your head. I bet you 681 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: don't even have a girlfriend. You're probably a paraplegic, no 682 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 1: arms and no eggs and no legs, and someone has 683 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: to feed you and wipe your butt for you. I 684 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: hope you die. I hope your girlfriend smothers you in 685 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 1: your sleep. I will come to your funeral and poop 686 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: on your gravestone. Damn, I never saw it that way. 687 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 1: All this time, I thought I was in the right 688 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: not to sell it to you or lower my price 689 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: because of how you acted. But now that you've made 690 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 1: fun of disabled people, called me names, threatened me, swore 691 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: at me, and wish me dead, I totally see that. 692 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: You're absolutely the kind of person who deserves to get 693 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 1: discounts and given whatever they want. If anyone deserves that, 694 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: it's someone who does those things, don't you think. Look, 695 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 1: I just wanted the keyboard. It bounts. Let's do this. 696 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 1: I know I said some bad stuff and I'm sorry. Oh, 697 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,760 Speaker 1: you don't need to apologize all that stuff you said 698 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: to me. People deserve to be spoken like that if 699 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: they don't want to do whatever you want, I tell 700 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: you what to show. There's no hard feelings. I'll lower 701 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 1: the price twenty pounds. I can afford that. Okay, great, 702 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,959 Speaker 1: But I hope you understand that after you sent those 703 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: knife emojis, I don't feel comfortable giving you my address. 704 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: So can you meet somewhere in public to do the sale? Yes? 705 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: Are you near Asda? I can drive there and meet 706 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 1: you at the entrance with a keyboard mouse. I can 707 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 1: get that in like ten minutes. Okay, me too. I'll 708 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: meet you out front. I'm wearing black jeans and a 709 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: black cap, and i'll have a red hoodie on. You 710 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: sound kind of hot. I have long, curly hair and 711 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: a blue jeans and a black jacket. Great, see you soon. 712 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 1: So where are you? I got held up, but I 713 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 1: don't see you. Oh darn, you just missed me. I 714 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: waited for ten minutes, but I left because I didn't 715 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: see you. Just wait there and I'll turn round and 716 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: come back. I need to stop and get petrol. I 717 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: won't be long. Actually, I don't have cash to pay 718 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 1: for petrol, so I need to stop at the ATM 719 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 1: to get cash and then stop to get petrol. I 720 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: won't be long. Hold re up, I don't see you. 721 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: Where are you gone? Inside? Because it's raining and you 722 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: took so long. I'll be out in a sec. Yeah, sorry, 723 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: it sucks it because of me. You were standing out 724 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 1: in the rain all this time. So where are you? 725 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 1: I'm here, I don't see you. I'm literally in front 726 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: of the entrance. Where are you? No, I don't see you. 727 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 1: I don't see you. Wait what store you at? Asda? 728 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,359 Speaker 1: Like I agreed? Omg, I'm such a silly cookie. And 729 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 1: all the confusion, you'll never guess what I've done. I 730 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 1: went to the wrong store. Are you e fing kidding me? 731 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 1: You're a e fing prick. I'm sorry, I just went 732 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 1: straight there. I'm gonna go straight over. Is this real? 733 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 1: Are you just winding me up? It's real, it's real. 734 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,439 Speaker 1: I'm just an idiot, you said yourself. Remember you called 735 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 1: me an idiot and said that I was a dub 736 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 1: dumb Then you knowingly made arrangements with someone you considered 737 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 1: to be a dumb dumbs. You gotta expect these kind 738 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 1: of mistakes. I'm coming you better cause if you don't show, 739 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm calling the news about this. Oh no, I don't 740 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: want to be on the news. Well just wait there, 741 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 1: I'm coming, and I tell you what for all the inconvenience, 742 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,240 Speaker 1: I will give it to you for free. 743 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 2: Hmm. 744 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 1: I don't really believe you, but just in case, I 745 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: will wait ten minutes when I'm leaving, and I'm gonna 746 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: spread this all over social media. Okay, I guess you're 747 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,919 Speaker 1: not coming. Very funny, bet you feel like a big man. 748 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,879 Speaker 1: Actually funny story. I never made it to my car 749 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: in the first place. I was about to come meet you, 750 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: like we first agreed, and then just as I got 751 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: to the door, I remembered that, like you said, I 752 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 1: don't have any arms or legs. This couple with the 753 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 1: fact that I'm dumb, something you also said, means there's 754 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: no way I could drive a car. If only you 755 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,880 Speaker 1: had it pointed out that stuff, you'd probably be happy 756 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 1: with your new Apple mouse and keyboard. Isn't that strange that, 757 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 1: as a direct result of your rudeness and inability to 758 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 1: communicate in a civil way, you not only missed out 759 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: on what you wanted, but you also stood out in 760 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: the rain for an hour waiting for a delivery that 761 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 1: was never going to come. It's almost that if acting 762 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 1: that way is the wrong thing to do or something 763 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 1: you're an fin prick. I don't need you to teach 764 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: me these lessons. I'll act however I want and be 765 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: as rude as I want to you. You've taught me nothing. 766 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,240 Speaker 1: Your whole afternoon has been a waste of time. Not really. 767 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: My girlfriend and I have been thoroughly entertained by all 768 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,759 Speaker 1: of this. Def not a waste of time on our part. 769 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 1: We've also sold the keyboard and mouse to another buyer 770 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: while all this was going on, so we've had a 771 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: great afternoon making money dishing out some desserts. You think 772 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: I care about your crappy keyboard and mouse. On the 773 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 1: other hand, you have wasted your afternoon, got soaked in 774 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: the rain, been humiliated and defeated, and gained nothing. No, 775 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: I think you just wasted your whole afternoon on them 776 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,720 Speaker 1: because you didn't want them. You think you're so smart, 777 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,600 Speaker 1: You have an answer for everything, don't you Hello, I 778 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 1: said you have an answer for everything? Don't you answer? 779 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 1: May Oh? I mean freaking saga. 780 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 2: It's hard to believe these people exist, Like, how can 781 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 2: you be that insane of a human being? 782 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 1: I know, it's kind of nuts that the person actually 783 00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: went to the location and waited for all that time, 784 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: and it was like maybe this person will still show up. 785 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe if I insult them a little bit more, 786 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,279 Speaker 1: they'll still come. But they're never gonna come. 787 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,800 Speaker 2: And also I have to shout this guy out because 788 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 2: if I was interacting with this person, I don't know 789 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:16,520 Speaker 2: about you, but I would have given up, like almost immediately, 790 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 2: like oh yeah, okay, this person's a mania. 791 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:18,360 Speaker 1: I go. 792 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 2: He was like, you know what, I'm gonna play the 793 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 2: long game. I'm literally gonna bait them into waiting. And 794 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 2: like just how perfectly he situated everything and just kept 795 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 2: her just like waiting a way to get exaped in 796 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 2: the rain. 797 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,399 Speaker 1: Like something that I think is pretty cool though, is 798 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:35,799 Speaker 1: he taught her a little bit of a lesson? He 799 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 1: did right, Like this is education one on one school 800 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 1: is in session and this redditor is dealing out lessons, 801 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: Like I think this actually might have been a good 802 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 1: lesson for this person to learn. 803 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 2: He was able to do two things. One give her 804 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 2: a good roast, which is just so satisfying for all 805 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,839 Speaker 2: of us to watch. But two he legitimately like laid 806 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 2: out like, hey, this is what's wrong with your behavior 807 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 2: and you should fix it. Like he was just like 808 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,239 Speaker 2: roasting her for the sake of it. He really was like, 809 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 2: you know what, maybe I can try and make this 810 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 2: person better. 811 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,240 Speaker 1: It probably won't work, but hey, I'll give it a shot. 812 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: That's all I could do, and maybe I'll have a 813 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 1: little bit of fun in the meantime. Exactly, All right, John, 814 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:13,920 Speaker 1: do you have a story for us? Yes, we do. 815 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,600 Speaker 1: You can't just throw out a stranded pregnant mother and 816 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,320 Speaker 1: her toddler at three am in the cold. 817 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 2: Oh yes, I ef and can Oh damn, oh dang. 818 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 2: Buckle up everyone, for this is a bumpy ride. 819 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm excited. Okay. 820 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,879 Speaker 2: So I was chilling in my living room around three 821 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,880 Speaker 2: am playing some video games. My parents were out of 822 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,399 Speaker 2: town visiting some friends, and I decided to stay home, 823 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 2: house to myself and all. So here I am in 824 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:42,359 Speaker 2: nothing but bron panties when there's a knock on my door. WTF, 825 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 2: I think to myself. So I scrambled to get my 826 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 2: clothes on and I answer the door. It was a 827 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 2: family acquaintance with her already whiny little brats. She's also 828 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 2: visibly pregnant, and we'll get to why that's important later. 829 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 1: They just show up at her door. Damn, I know me, Hey, name, 830 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 1: what's going on Mike car broke down into a company. 831 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 1: Can't get in my car till tomorrow. Think me and 832 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 1: Bratt's name can crush her for tonight. 833 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 2: Me. 834 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 1: Sure, you can sleep in the living room. I'll let 835 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 1: them in. Well wait, actually very nice. 836 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's so far. She's being very polite, right me? 837 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 2: Want anything to eat or drink? 838 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 1: Her coffee? If he's not any trouble me sure, no problem. 839 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,839 Speaker 2: So I go to make some coffee when I see 840 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,320 Speaker 2: Little shiz picking up my game controller. 841 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: Me, hey, little guy, please put that down. Per. 842 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:32,800 Speaker 4: Oh, he can't play a game. You come into his house, 843 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 4: it's steal his game controller. 844 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 1: Listen me. 845 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,720 Speaker 2: No, I'm in the middle of something. Plus he wouldn't 846 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: know how to play that type of game. Per, But 847 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 2: he really wants to, don't you, Little little shiz. 848 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 3: I wanna play? 849 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 1: Me? No, you can't play. Little Shiz I wanna play? 850 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 1: I wanna play? 851 00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 2: Throws the effing controller at the TV, shattering the screen. No, yes, me, 852 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,840 Speaker 2: what the f I rushed over to the TV. Her, Hey, 853 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 2: don't you swear at my child? 854 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: Me? 855 00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:12,760 Speaker 2: You just effing let him destroy my TV like this. Her, 856 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,880 Speaker 2: you're the one who didn't let him play a video game. 857 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:20,400 Speaker 2: Oh that is complete, literally the biggest pile of bull Me. 858 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,520 Speaker 2: I said no, And you have to teach your little 859 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 2: brat that he is an ode jack shiz her. How 860 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,240 Speaker 2: dare you just wait till I tell your mother about 861 00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 2: how you traded him. You'll make a terrible mom. 862 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 1: Can you imagine that? Wow? Her telling her that she's 863 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 1: a terrible and this person is really the terrible queen. 864 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 1: Terrible me. I'm not having kids, but if I did, 865 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't let them be spoiled little shizes like your brat. 866 00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 2: Get them her. You're being the brat right now. Just 867 00:40:59,239 --> 00:40:59,959 Speaker 2: get a new TV. 868 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:01,680 Speaker 1: Quit whining me. 869 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll get a new TV with the money you 870 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,479 Speaker 2: pay me for the broken TV. 871 00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:11,720 Speaker 1: Yeah I should, Yeah, definitely. She's definitely paid for it her. 872 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:16,879 Speaker 2: Lad, But you're the one who instigated little shz like 873 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 2: she's telling her to pay for the TV. 874 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 1: Yes, right now? 875 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 2: Me, you know what, just get the f out of 876 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 2: my house. You and your brat are no longer welcome 877 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,160 Speaker 2: in my house. Her, what that f. 878 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,680 Speaker 1: Is wrong with with you? I am prag I love 879 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: the preg she's really dragging it out. 880 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 2: She really dragged it out. And I have a toddler 881 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 2: and have nowhere to go, Like you can just kick 882 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 2: out his stranded pregnant mother and her toddler at three 883 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 2: am and the cold Me, oh yes, I can, you 884 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,560 Speaker 2: insufferable punts get the f out of my house before 885 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 2: I call the cops. 886 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh, my laying down the low broke your TV, picked 887 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 1: up the controller like he's. 888 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,239 Speaker 2: Having none of it, her picking up her brat and 889 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 2: heads towards the Just wait until I tell your mother 890 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 2: about that. 891 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 1: Me. 892 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll gladly tell her about what little shiz did 893 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 2: the TV and that you refuse to pay for it. Uh, 894 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 2: I am Mike, drop her, You'll regret this leaves. The 895 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 2: next morning, I call my parents and explain what happened. 896 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 2: They were very understanding because I was never raised to 897 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:28,720 Speaker 2: be a spoiled little bumstain and momby punt and momby 898 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 2: punt got an earful from my mom that if she 899 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,840 Speaker 2: didn't pay back, we would take her to small claims. 900 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,279 Speaker 2: She tried to play the oh. 901 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: What was me? 902 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,400 Speaker 2: I'm a single pregnant mother blah blah blahh is, which 903 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 2: I mean, she's in the wrong, but she also is 904 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:45,640 Speaker 2: a single Yeah. 905 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: I also got a position to position but. 906 00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 2: It didn't work because she forked over the five hundred 907 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 2: dollars for a new TV and we cut contact with her. 908 00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,200 Speaker 1: Wow, it sounds like they got some justice and cut 909 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 1: out a little cancer from their lives. Edit. In case 910 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,680 Speaker 1: anyone else was wondering, the reason Breeder and her shes 911 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 1: Stain were out at three am was because little Shiz 912 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,719 Speaker 1: demanded McDonald's and refused to go to bed unless he 913 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 1: got it. That kid sounds like an absolute nightmare. It's 914 00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:21,279 Speaker 1: probably a result of her parenting. Yeah, definitely, definitely a 915 00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,560 Speaker 1: result of the parenting. And then it's like when when 916 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,280 Speaker 1: you give a kid everything they want, they just become 917 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 1: a devil child like that, I think it just goes 918 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 1: to get a little philosophical for a second. Would you 919 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 1: give humans whatever they desire? They turn into the worst 920 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 1: version of humanity. It's like the problem of having everything. 921 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 2: Also, if you think about it, like, I know this 922 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:49,399 Speaker 2: sounds crazy, but all children are actually psychopaths were sociopaths. 923 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 2: And the reason I say that is because like as 924 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 2: a child, like when you're like a toddler, you're just 925 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 2: like I'm hungry, give me food, right, Yeah. 926 00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,400 Speaker 1: You have literally zero empathy or consideration. Well, the world 927 00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:59,960 Speaker 1: falls around you basically, yeah, the. 928 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,799 Speaker 2: Whole like as a bit, which makes sense. Like you're 929 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,880 Speaker 2: a baby, you can't do anything. Yeah, sure, a freaking baby. 930 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:08,239 Speaker 2: So but then as you get into like you know, three, four, five, six, 931 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 2: you actually can you know, like feed yourself. You're like 932 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 2: out of that stage, but you still haven't matured to 933 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 2: like have empathy or do anything other than demand what 934 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 2: you want. 935 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. 936 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 2: So, like little kids like that age, like you really 937 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,520 Speaker 2: have to teach them, like, hey, you have to ask nicely, Hey, shame, 938 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 2: you have to. 939 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 1: Break their bubble basically, yeah, bubble. The world is a 940 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 1: hard and the world is a hard place that's going 941 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 1: to destroy you. Get ready for it. You're not gonna 942 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: get everything you need. Yeah. Yeah, And I guess like 943 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: this pregnant mom at three am did not teach her 944 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: little I. 945 00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 2: Will say after reading a lot of these posts, at 946 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 2: least she said, like I'll have coffee. It's if it's 947 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,160 Speaker 2: not too much trouble. A lot of these people literally 948 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,799 Speaker 2: are just like sleep in your bed now, like it's 949 00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 2: these Reddit posts have really like opened my. 950 00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:56,360 Speaker 1: Eyes to the terror of humanity. People can be terrible 951 00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 1: and I guess kids. 952 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's crazy, but I think this is another 953 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:01,839 Speaker 2: good story for the book Sam. 954 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,320 Speaker 1: I think so too. This is Sam, this is John. 955 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,200 Speaker 1: If you thought that was hilarious, smash that follow button. 956 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: But we'll also settle for a like see you next episode.