WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: What Happened At Brunch

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update today. Second day update is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>confusing because Louise is on the phone and she emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us to do a second date update, but in her

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<v Speaker 1>email she says that she wishes she would have never

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<v Speaker 1>went on the date. So I don't know, Louise, do

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<v Speaker 1>you know how second day updates work? Usually somebody goes

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<v Speaker 1>on a date that they actually liked, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>want to get another date. I know, Okay, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>why do you wish you wouldn't have gone on your date?

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like a bad snowball effect. So my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and I went out the night before this date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that started the whole problem. Okay, did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet the guy when you guys were out? No? No, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So I met James on Tender and we set up

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<v Speaker 1>like a Sunday brunch date. Like it was at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of the week, so it like made really good sense, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But my girl friends and I went out Saturday night

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<v Speaker 1>and they were like, oh, We're just gonna get a

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<v Speaker 1>few drinks, then we're gonna sit outside, and Russian Mules

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<v Speaker 1>turned into Gin and Tonics and next time. Next thing

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<v Speaker 1>I say is like really late. Yeah, so you were

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<v Speaker 1>hungover then, and that's why you didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>on the day because you were hungover. I was totally

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<v Speaker 1>hungover and hard liquor. Yeah. I mean that's the worst too.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you say you're just going out for a few drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>it never really works out. Yeah. So the next day

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<v Speaker 1>I really didn't want to because I felt horrible, like

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<v Speaker 1>my stomach was not in the best and I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's way too late to cancel this date. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be like a horrible person, Like I just decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go out anyway. I was like, no, just pull it together,

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<v Speaker 1>drink something and go right right. And this is like

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<v Speaker 1>the one time you're hoping that your date is also

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<v Speaker 1>hug over. I was really hoping that. But when I

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<v Speaker 1>met James for brunch, he's like old, nice, put together,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I just like hi, and I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>holy heck, like this is gonna be rough, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>And I can smell you, like just even thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it the hair, the bags under the eyes, I had

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<v Speaker 1>the whole hungover loads foot together. Did he know immediately

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<v Speaker 1>or did you address it? I didn't want to honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was trying to fake until I make it

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<v Speaker 1>um to be honest, Like I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh yeah, I totally didn't think this's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>really happened. So I felt bad. So we're sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>and we just started getting into stupid arguments, like we

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<v Speaker 1>had a twenty minute argument. Like I feel really ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>of it. It was like the stupidest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys were like legit arguing or like playing no,

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<v Speaker 1>like people were staring at us. What wait, what were

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<v Speaker 1>you arguing about about brunch? It was like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>qualify what makes brunch brunch? Like what is the guidelines

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<v Speaker 1>and the definitions and the structure for brunch? And you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't like that sounds like a fun conversation. But he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, brunches anything you eat on Sunday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, it's mostly about the food,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, no, it's about the time and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, it doesn't matter. So it just

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<v Speaker 1>like it just kept heading out of control for every

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<v Speaker 1>little thing, and I'm hungover and like, I'm not making sense.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you weren't, if you weren't hungover, could you

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<v Speaker 1>have had that conversation in a more playful manner or

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<v Speaker 1>you were just hungover and like angry. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>was just hungover and angry. I was angry because I

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<v Speaker 1>was at home in my pajamas. To be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 1>like it wasn't his fault and it was just stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't need to happen, and I just like felt

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<v Speaker 1>so guilty if I would have canceled. But do you

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<v Speaker 1>figured show up and y'all at the guy for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while. Gotta be better. It didn't mean too rself

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<v Speaker 1>really bad? Did you guys? Recover it all from that?

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<v Speaker 1>I tried calling him and texting him and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>not getting back to me, Like, I'll be honest. When

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<v Speaker 1>we got out of there, we were just like upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Like even when the food came, we were just eating angrily,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, did you have an upset stomach because

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<v Speaker 1>you're hungover and you're like, you know, upset and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still eating. Still worse. The whole day was awkward. Then

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<v Speaker 1>it was awkward. It was just like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel really bad about it, Like he just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't deserve that. So you liked him though you knew

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<v Speaker 1>want to redo? Is that what you're saying. I do

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<v Speaker 1>like him, and I want to redo, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was immature and I try to apologize and it's frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell him that you were hungover and in

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<v Speaker 1>a bad mood? No, I really just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that, like kind of ashamed of that. So

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<v Speaker 1>you just let him think that you're just a terrible

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<v Speaker 1>person that likes to get mad at people over brunch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Okay, I tried to apologizing. He just

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<v Speaker 1>wants to up my call. All right, Well we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song and then come back see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get him to pick up our call and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, okay, all right, looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second date, If you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second day update, it's less of a second day

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<v Speaker 1>update and more of a first date redo. Because Louise

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone and she wants to call dude

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<v Speaker 1>named James. They met up for brunch and she went

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<v Speaker 1>out the night before, got super drunk with her friends,

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<v Speaker 1>showed up the brunch hungover and was kind of in

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<v Speaker 1>a bad mood, and then they got into a heated

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<v Speaker 1>art argument over what qualifies as brunch. I know it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds ridiculous, but she said that she was really rude

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and they kind of ended the date. After

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<v Speaker 1>they ate, he hasn't been answering any of her phone calls,

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<v Speaker 1>so she wants a call and apologize and see if

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<v Speaker 1>there's a chance at getting another date with him when

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<v Speaker 1>she's not all hung over and ready to just fight everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Louise, would you give a guy a

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<v Speaker 1>second chance if the table's returned? I mean, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>honestly had like a good excuse, Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't give him my best, and I understood that, so

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<v Speaker 1>at least you kind of know. Yeah, And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>drinking too much always a good excuse. It usually gets

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<v Speaker 1>you out of everything. A lot of empathy in that

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<v Speaker 1>one too. Yeah, we can make a bad choice once

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<v Speaker 1>in a while, Okay, you know, and that's perfect. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you luck. Thanks, All right, Well I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>die this one right now here we go, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>neither drink first? Are you good? I'm good? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, all right, I speak to James. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is James, James. What's up, man? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, who is this Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>do you know have you heard the show before or

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I'm sorry. This is a this

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<v Speaker 1>is a radio show. Yeah. What can I do for you? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you could listen once in a while, that'd be cool.

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<v Speaker 1>But other than that, we actually got an email about

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<v Speaker 1>you from one of our listeners. Wait what Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show. It's called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Updates. So we got an email from a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Louise. Yeah. I'm gonna say you probably remember going

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<v Speaker 1>out with Louise. I do remember going out with Louisa,

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<v Speaker 1>and she told us about your date. She says that

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't the best representation of who she is and

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to not only apologize but say she really

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<v Speaker 1>liked going out with you and would love to get

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<v Speaker 1>another opportunity. So she's doing it on a radio show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it just sounds like she doesn't make the

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<v Speaker 1>best decisions, but we do a lot of these. And

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<v Speaker 1>she said that you wouldn't answer her phone calls, like

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<v Speaker 1>she had tried to text you and apologize but she

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<v Speaker 1>got desperate. Basically, Yeah, I've been just trying to avoid

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<v Speaker 1>that whole situation. Yeah, I can understand that she did

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about your date, I would love to hear

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<v Speaker 1>it from your words, though. What'd you think of Louise?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of fope bad for her. I know, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she needed more than I could give her. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean now in my life? Yeah? What do you?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean by that? Like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what her situation is, which is why I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be careful with what I say, because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to misrepresent her. What do you what do you mean

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<v Speaker 1>what her situation is? Okay, So I show up to brunch,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like a brunch date because it's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of less pressure and it's during the day. You get

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of see people when they're just being normal.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she shows up and she looks like she

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<v Speaker 1>has not gone to sleep. That you know, she like

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<v Speaker 1>basically didn't go to sleep all night. Um, she smelled

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<v Speaker 1>very strongly of alcohol, and she was pretty disheveled, like

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't think people need to dress up for

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<v Speaker 1>a brunch date, but I can't really explain it, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was like the farthest away from being dressed up

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<v Speaker 1>you could possibly be, Like, she barely put on clothes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean no, she had clothes on, but it looked

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<v Speaker 1>like they had maybe she had them on for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days. Okay, your first impression was not a

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<v Speaker 1>good one. It was not a good one. So we

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<v Speaker 1>we we're having brunch and she's just in a bad mood.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like she's arguing with me about stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>kind of put me on the defense, and so it

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<v Speaker 1>was just kind of awkward. And then when the food came,

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<v Speaker 1>she just starped it down in silence. So then we

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<v Speaker 1>sort of just decided that was it and walked out

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<v Speaker 1>and we went our separate ways, and I saw her

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<v Speaker 1>walk around the side of the restaurant and throw up

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<v Speaker 1>in a trash camp. Oh yeah, that's the lasting impression.

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<v Speaker 1>And well, that's not it. And then she got into

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<v Speaker 1>the backseat of a car with no one else in

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<v Speaker 1>it and I think just like laid down in the

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<v Speaker 1>back seat of a car. So that's why I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>does she live in her car? Maybe that was our house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>our house was just parked in the parking lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant. Yeah, And so that's why I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be sensitive about it, because I don't know she is homeless.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually think she's homeless. I thought you were just

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<v Speaker 1>like making an analogy or something. I mean, the evidence

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<v Speaker 1>just kept tiling up. I mean I think she might

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<v Speaker 1>actually be homeless. Yeah, pretty much what you described sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a homeless person, right. You know, if she was

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<v Speaker 1>arguing with an imaginary friend, then you could be sure

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<v Speaker 1>she was homeless. But what you describe does sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a homeless person. Yeah, a bad attitude, angry, smelly, dirty,

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<v Speaker 1>and then sleeping in her car. Yeah. It's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't judge her. We've all we've all got our problems

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<v Speaker 1>in our lives. I just I feel like I can't

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<v Speaker 1>help somebody through a situation like that, or even knowing them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, romantically at all. So I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it was a little too much for me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't explain that to someone like do you say, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to date you because you're homeless exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And I should have said something, but I didn't because

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't really know what to say. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she's got a home or not, but

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<v Speaker 1>she does have a cell phone, and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>because she's actually on the other line. I wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Oh god, really, yep, Louise, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still there? Oh my god, I'm sorry. Like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>had the worst time listening to this. It's amazing, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Louis, I'm so sorry. I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea you were on the otherwise. Are you serious? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you honestly thought I was a homeless person? Listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry. I did not mean to sort of out

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<v Speaker 1>you like that. I didn't know if you have people

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<v Speaker 1>who you know who don't know. No, Like, I'm serious,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, Like I swear, I'm not homeless. I know

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<v Speaker 1>people have a hard time admitting it. I get that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am not judging bro, Like, no, no, listen

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<v Speaker 1>to me, I am not homeless like your borderline rude. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I went up the night before was my girlfriend. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a little bit too much to drink and I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to pull it together. So I showed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I was hungover. Yes, it was really bad, but and okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I threw up on the side of the restaurant because

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't feeling good. And then I went, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it took a nap in the back of my car

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<v Speaker 1>for a few hours. You just took a nap right

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<v Speaker 1>there in It was bad. Okay, Yeah, I'm not judging.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there before. Yeah, James, do you believe her

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't believe that we've gotten to a point

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<v Speaker 1>where she's trying to argue that she does in fact

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<v Speaker 1>have a home. Well, you can understand a sort of

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<v Speaker 1>my concerns because you didn't tell me any of this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you just sort of showed up. And the

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<v Speaker 1>way you were eating your food, you were eating it

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<v Speaker 1>like you hadn't eaten in a couple of weeks. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to stop arguing, so I ate and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk. I ate a little too fast, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that. You know I throw it up because

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<v Speaker 1>I ate way too fast. And I wouldn't judge a

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<v Speaker 1>woman's eating style, homeless or not. Just saying, James, for

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<v Speaker 1>the future. Yeah, it's just from my perspective. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to understand that I think anyone would have seen what

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<v Speaker 1>I saw based on how you showed up and in

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<v Speaker 1>the way you argue with me, and the way you ate,

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<v Speaker 1>and the way you threw up and the way you

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<v Speaker 1>slept in your cars. Have you ever had like a

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<v Speaker 1>bad day? Like it was just a bad bad day.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it now, It's just it's been hard to

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<v Speaker 1>unpack the whole thing. I guess. Look, I'm really sorry

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<v Speaker 1>I showed up the way that I did. It was

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<v Speaker 1>not my best at all. I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel on you. It was totally less minute. You were

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be mad at me if I canceled on you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make sense. I just wish I wish you

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<v Speaker 1>would have said something and we could have rescheduled. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>looking back on it, I really wish that town. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you guys are on the same page for one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>How about this, James, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Louise on a second date? We will pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that? Oh my god? I mean, if if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys want to, if you want to sponsor a date,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to. Well, I think Louise might need

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<v Speaker 1>a sponsor in something, but we don't know sure yet

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<v Speaker 1>until you go on another date with her. So that's it. Yes, Louise,

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<v Speaker 1>if you can clean it up for at least one day,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise I won't go out the night before the

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Louise, you got your second date. Thanks. I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that I showed up looking like a crazy person. Crazy

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<v Speaker 1>homeless difference. I mean, a lot of times are the same,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, in this case different. Yeah. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to they're not listening. It's fine in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people can identify with today's second date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's broken jewil in the morning. If you missed today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update, Louise wanted to call this dude named James.

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<v Speaker 1>She showed up to a brunch date and she was

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<v Speaker 1>completely hungover and not in a very good mood. Also

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<v Speaker 1>looked pretty disheveled. I guess they ended up arguing actually

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<v Speaker 1>about what qualifies as brunch, what time is brunch actually?

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<v Speaker 1>And she apparently got actually really upset because she was

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<v Speaker 1>in a bad mood because she was hung over. But

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't know that James ended up seeing her throw

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<v Speaker 1>up outside of the restaurant and then fall asleep in

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<v Speaker 1>the back of her car. When we got James on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, he told us that he thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>maybe homeless, and in denial about it. She claims that

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<v Speaker 1>she's not homeless. She just had a really bad night

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<v Speaker 1>and wanted to take a nap in the back of

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<v Speaker 1>her car after she puked outside the restaurant. When you

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<v Speaker 1>recap that date, it's amazing that they're going out again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like all of it, like that, even if it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even if he didn't think she was homeless, like all

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<v Speaker 1>of it, it sounds horrible. He did give her a

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<v Speaker 1>second chance based on the fact that he likes to

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<v Speaker 1>be charitable, I think, really and just help people out. Yeah. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second date up the date,

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<v Speaker 1>all you have to do is email the show and

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<v Speaker 1>we will call the person who didn't call you back.