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Speaker 1: Second Date Update today. Second day update is kind of
Speaker 1: confusing because Louise is on the phone and she emailed
Speaker 1: us to do a second date update, but in her
Speaker 1: email she says that she wishes she would have never
Speaker 1: went on the date. So I don't know, Louise, do
Speaker 1: you know how second day updates work? Usually somebody goes
Speaker 1: on a date that they actually liked, and then they
Speaker 1: want to get another date. I know, Okay, okay, so
Speaker 1: why do you wish you wouldn't have gone on your date?
Speaker 1: It was just like a bad snowball effect. So my
Speaker 1: friends and I went out the night before this date,
Speaker 1: and I think that started the whole problem. Okay, did
Speaker 1: you meet the guy when you guys were out? No? No, okay?
Speaker 1: So I met James on Tender and we set up
Speaker 1: like a Sunday brunch date. Like it was at the
Speaker 1: beginning of the week, so it like made really good sense, right,
Speaker 1: But my girl friends and I went out Saturday night
Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, We're just gonna get a
Speaker 1: few drinks, then we're gonna sit outside, and Russian Mules
Speaker 1: turned into Gin and Tonics and next time. Next thing
Speaker 1: I say is like really late. Yeah, so you were
Speaker 1: hungover then, and that's why you didn't want to go
Speaker 1: on the day because you were hungover. I was totally
Speaker 1: hungover and hard liquor. Yeah. I mean that's the worst too.
Speaker 1: Whatever you say you're just going out for a few drinks,
Speaker 1: it never really works out. Yeah. So the next day
Speaker 1: I really didn't want to because I felt horrible, like
Speaker 1: my stomach was not in the best and I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's way too late to cancel this date. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be like a horrible person, Like I just decided to
Speaker 1: go out anyway. I was like, no, just pull it together,
Speaker 1: drink something and go right right. And this is like
Speaker 1: the one time you're hoping that your date is also
Speaker 1: hug over. I was really hoping that. But when I
Speaker 1: met James for brunch, he's like old, nice, put together,
Speaker 1: like you know, I just like hi, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: holy heck, like this is gonna be rough, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: And I can smell you, like just even thinking about
Speaker 1: it the hair, the bags under the eyes, I had
Speaker 1: the whole hungover loads foot together. Did he know immediately
Speaker 1: or did you address it? I didn't want to honestly,
Speaker 1: like I was trying to fake until I make it
Speaker 1: um to be honest, Like I just didn't want to
Speaker 1: be like, oh yeah, I totally didn't think this's gonna
Speaker 1: really happened. So I felt bad. So we're sitting there
Speaker 1: and we just started getting into stupid arguments, like we
Speaker 1: had a twenty minute argument. Like I feel really ashamed
Speaker 1: of it. It was like the stupidest thing in the world.
Speaker 1: So you guys were like legit arguing or like playing no,
Speaker 1: like people were staring at us. What wait, what were
Speaker 1: you arguing about about brunch? It was like trying to
Speaker 1: qualify what makes brunch brunch? Like what is the guidelines
Speaker 1: and the definitions and the structure for brunch? And you
Speaker 1: couldn't like that sounds like a fun conversation. But he
Speaker 1: was like, well, brunches anything you eat on Sunday morning.
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, it's mostly about the food,
Speaker 1: and he was like, no, it's about the time and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, it doesn't matter. So it just
Speaker 1: like it just kept heading out of control for every
Speaker 1: little thing, and I'm hungover and like, I'm not making sense.
Speaker 1: So if you weren't, if you weren't hungover, could you
Speaker 1: have had that conversation in a more playful manner or
Speaker 1: you were just hungover and like angry. I think I
Speaker 1: was just hungover and angry. I was angry because I
Speaker 1: was at home in my pajamas. To be honest with you,
Speaker 1: like it wasn't his fault and it was just stupid.
Speaker 1: It didn't need to happen, and I just like felt
Speaker 1: so guilty if I would have canceled. But do you
Speaker 1: figured show up and y'all at the guy for a
Speaker 1: little while. Gotta be better. It didn't mean too rself
Speaker 1: really bad? Did you guys? Recover it all from that?
Speaker 1: I tried calling him and texting him and he's just
Speaker 1: not getting back to me, Like, I'll be honest. When
Speaker 1: we got out of there, we were just like upset.
Speaker 1: Like even when the food came, we were just eating angrily,
Speaker 1: you know, like, did you have an upset stomach because
Speaker 1: you're hungover and you're like, you know, upset and you're
Speaker 1: still eating. Still worse. The whole day was awkward. Then
Speaker 1: it was awkward. It was just like I don't know,
Speaker 1: like I feel really bad about it, Like he just
Speaker 1: didn't deserve that. So you liked him though you knew
Speaker 1: want to redo? Is that what you're saying. I do
Speaker 1: like him, and I want to redo, and I know
Speaker 1: it was immature and I try to apologize and it's frustrating.
Speaker 1: Did you tell him that you were hungover and in
Speaker 1: a bad mood? No, I really just didn't want to
Speaker 1: tell him that, like kind of ashamed of that. So
Speaker 1: you just let him think that you're just a terrible
Speaker 1: person that likes to get mad at people over brunch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a little bit. Okay, I tried to apologizing. He just
Speaker 1: wants to up my call. All right, Well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song and then come back see if we can
Speaker 1: get him to pick up our call and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, okay, all right, looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second date, If you're just joining us for
Speaker 1: today's second day update, it's less of a second day
Speaker 1: update and more of a first date redo. Because Louise
Speaker 1: is on the phone and she wants to call dude
Speaker 1: named James. They met up for brunch and she went
Speaker 1: out the night before, got super drunk with her friends,
Speaker 1: showed up the brunch hungover and was kind of in
Speaker 1: a bad mood, and then they got into a heated
Speaker 1: art argument over what qualifies as brunch. I know it
Speaker 1: sounds ridiculous, but she said that she was really rude
Speaker 1: about it, and they kind of ended the date. After
Speaker 1: they ate, he hasn't been answering any of her phone calls,
Speaker 1: so she wants a call and apologize and see if
Speaker 1: there's a chance at getting another date with him when
Speaker 1: she's not all hung over and ready to just fight everybody.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Louise, would you give a guy a
Speaker 1: second chance if the table's returned? I mean, if it's
Speaker 1: honestly had like a good excuse, Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: didn't give him my best, and I understood that, so
Speaker 1: at least you kind of know. Yeah, And you know,
Speaker 1: drinking too much always a good excuse. It usually gets
Speaker 1: you out of everything. A lot of empathy in that
Speaker 1: one too. Yeah, we can make a bad choice once
Speaker 1: in a while, Okay, you know, and that's perfect. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I wish you luck. Thanks, All right, Well I'm gonna
Speaker 1: die this one right now here we go, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: neither drink first? Are you good? I'm good? All right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, all right, I speak to James. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is James, James. What's up, man? How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, who is this Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, So
Speaker 1: do you know have you heard the show before or
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I'm sorry. This is a this
Speaker 1: is a radio show. Yeah. What can I do for you? Well,
Speaker 1: you could listen once in a while, that'd be cool.
Speaker 1: But other than that, we actually got an email about
Speaker 1: you from one of our listeners. Wait what Yeah, we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show. It's called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Updates. So we got an email from a girl
Speaker 1: named Louise. Yeah. I'm gonna say you probably remember going
Speaker 1: out with Louise. I do remember going out with Louisa,
Speaker 1: and she told us about your date. She says that
Speaker 1: it wasn't the best representation of who she is and
Speaker 1: she wanted to not only apologize but say she really
Speaker 1: liked going out with you and would love to get
Speaker 1: another opportunity. So she's doing it on a radio show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, it just sounds like she doesn't make the
Speaker 1: best decisions, but we do a lot of these. And
Speaker 1: she said that you wouldn't answer her phone calls, like
Speaker 1: she had tried to text you and apologize but she
Speaker 1: got desperate. Basically, Yeah, I've been just trying to avoid
Speaker 1: that whole situation. Yeah, I can understand that she did
Speaker 1: tell us about your date, I would love to hear
Speaker 1: it from your words, though. What'd you think of Louise?
Speaker 1: I kind of fope bad for her. I know, like
Speaker 1: maybe she needed more than I could give her. What
Speaker 1: do you mean now in my life? Yeah? What do you?
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? Like, I don't know
Speaker 1: what her situation is, which is why I'm trying to
Speaker 1: be careful with what I say, because I don't want
Speaker 1: to misrepresent her. What do you what do you mean
Speaker 1: what her situation is? Okay, So I show up to brunch,
Speaker 1: and I like a brunch date because it's a lot
Speaker 1: of less pressure and it's during the day. You get
Speaker 1: to sort of see people when they're just being normal.
Speaker 1: And so she shows up and she looks like she
Speaker 1: has not gone to sleep. That you know, she like
Speaker 1: basically didn't go to sleep all night. Um, she smelled
Speaker 1: very strongly of alcohol, and she was pretty disheveled, like
Speaker 1: and I don't think people need to dress up for
Speaker 1: a brunch date, but I can't really explain it, but
Speaker 1: it was like the farthest away from being dressed up
Speaker 1: you could possibly be, Like, she barely put on clothes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean no, she had clothes on, but it looked
Speaker 1: like they had maybe she had them on for a
Speaker 1: couple of days. Okay, your first impression was not a
Speaker 1: good one. It was not a good one. So we
Speaker 1: we we're having brunch and she's just in a bad mood.
Speaker 1: It seems like she's arguing with me about stuff and
Speaker 1: kind of put me on the defense, and so it
Speaker 1: was just kind of awkward. And then when the food came,
Speaker 1: she just starped it down in silence. So then we
Speaker 1: sort of just decided that was it and walked out
Speaker 1: and we went our separate ways, and I saw her
Speaker 1: walk around the side of the restaurant and throw up
Speaker 1: in a trash camp. Oh yeah, that's the lasting impression.
Speaker 1: And well, that's not it. And then she got into
Speaker 1: the backseat of a car with no one else in
Speaker 1: it and I think just like laid down in the
Speaker 1: back seat of a car. So that's why I was like,
Speaker 1: does she live in her car? Maybe that was our house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: our house was just parked in the parking lot of
Speaker 1: the restaurant. Yeah, And so that's why I'm trying to
Speaker 1: be sensitive about it, because I don't know she is homeless.
Speaker 1: You actually think she's homeless. I thought you were just
Speaker 1: like making an analogy or something. I mean, the evidence
Speaker 1: just kept tiling up. I mean I think she might
Speaker 1: actually be homeless. Yeah, pretty much what you described sounds
Speaker 1: like a homeless person, right. You know, if she was
Speaker 1: arguing with an imaginary friend, then you could be sure
Speaker 1: she was homeless. But what you describe does sound like
Speaker 1: a homeless person. Yeah, a bad attitude, angry, smelly, dirty,
Speaker 1: and then sleeping in her car. Yeah. It's like, I
Speaker 1: don't judge her. We've all we've all got our problems
Speaker 1: in our lives. I just I feel like I can't
Speaker 1: help somebody through a situation like that, or even knowing them,
Speaker 1: you know, romantically at all. So I feel like it's
Speaker 1: it's like it was a little too much for me. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't explain that to someone like do you say, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I don't want to date you because you're homeless exactly.
Speaker 1: And I should have said something, but I didn't because
Speaker 1: I just didn't really know what to say. Well, I
Speaker 1: don't know if she's got a home or not, but
Speaker 1: she does have a cell phone, and I know that
Speaker 1: because she's actually on the other line. I wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Oh god, really, yep, Louise, are you
Speaker 1: still there? Oh my god, I'm sorry. Like, I have
Speaker 1: had the worst time listening to this. It's amazing, Like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, Louis, I'm so sorry. I had no
Speaker 1: idea you were on the otherwise. Are you serious? Did
Speaker 1: you honestly thought I was a homeless person? Listen, I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry. I did not mean to sort of out
Speaker 1: you like that. I didn't know if you have people
Speaker 1: who you know who don't know. No, Like, I'm serious,
Speaker 1: I'm not, Like I swear, I'm not homeless. I know
Speaker 1: people have a hard time admitting it. I get that,
Speaker 1: but I am not judging bro, Like, no, no, listen
Speaker 1: to me, I am not homeless like your borderline rude. Now,
Speaker 1: I went up the night before was my girlfriend. I
Speaker 1: had a little bit too much to drink and I
Speaker 1: was trying to pull it together. So I showed up.
Speaker 1: I was hungover. Yes, it was really bad, but and okay, yes,
Speaker 1: I threw up on the side of the restaurant because
Speaker 1: I wasn't feeling good. And then I went, you know,
Speaker 1: it took a nap in the back of my car
Speaker 1: for a few hours. You just took a nap right
Speaker 1: there in It was bad. Okay, Yeah, I'm not judging.
Speaker 1: I've been there before. Yeah, James, do you believe her
Speaker 1: like I can't believe that we've gotten to a point
Speaker 1: where she's trying to argue that she does in fact
Speaker 1: have a home. Well, you can understand a sort of
Speaker 1: my concerns because you didn't tell me any of this.
Speaker 1: You know, you just sort of showed up. And the
Speaker 1: way you were eating your food, you were eating it
Speaker 1: like you hadn't eaten in a couple of weeks. I
Speaker 1: just wanted to stop arguing, so I ate and didn't
Speaker 1: want to talk. I ate a little too fast, obviously,
Speaker 1: you know that. You know I throw it up because
Speaker 1: I ate way too fast. And I wouldn't judge a
Speaker 1: woman's eating style, homeless or not. Just saying, James, for
Speaker 1: the future. Yeah, it's just from my perspective. You have
Speaker 1: to understand that I think anyone would have seen what
Speaker 1: I saw based on how you showed up and in
Speaker 1: the way you argue with me, and the way you ate,
Speaker 1: and the way you threw up and the way you
Speaker 1: slept in your cars. Have you ever had like a
Speaker 1: bad day? Like it was just a bad bad day.
Speaker 1: I get it now, It's just it's been hard to
Speaker 1: unpack the whole thing. I guess. Look, I'm really sorry
Speaker 1: I showed up the way that I did. It was
Speaker 1: not my best at all. I just didn't want to
Speaker 1: cancel on you. It was totally less minute. You were
Speaker 1: gonna be mad at me if I canceled on you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that doesn't make sense. I just wish I wish you
Speaker 1: would have said something and we could have rescheduled. You know,
Speaker 1: looking back on it, I really wish that town. I
Speaker 1: think you guys are on the same page for one thing.
Speaker 1: How about this, James, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Louise on a second date? We will pay for it.
Speaker 1: What is that? Oh my god? I mean, if if
Speaker 1: you guys want to, if you want to sponsor a date,
Speaker 1: I would love to. Well, I think Louise might need
Speaker 1: a sponsor in something, but we don't know sure yet
Speaker 1: until you go on another date with her. So that's it. Yes, Louise,
Speaker 1: if you can clean it up for at least one day,
Speaker 1: I promise I won't go out the night before the
Speaker 1: Congratulations Louise, you got your second date. Thanks. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that I showed up looking like a crazy person. Crazy
Speaker 1: homeless difference. I mean, a lot of times are the same,
Speaker 1: but you know, in this case different. Yeah. I don't
Speaker 1: want to they're not listening. It's fine in the morning.
Speaker 1: A lot of people can identify with today's second date.
Speaker 1: It's broken jewil in the morning. If you missed today's
Speaker 1: second date. Update, Louise wanted to call this dude named James.
Speaker 1: She showed up to a brunch date and she was
Speaker 1: completely hungover and not in a very good mood. Also
Speaker 1: looked pretty disheveled. I guess they ended up arguing actually
Speaker 1: about what qualifies as brunch, what time is brunch actually?
Speaker 1: And she apparently got actually really upset because she was
Speaker 1: in a bad mood because she was hung over. But
Speaker 1: she didn't know that James ended up seeing her throw
Speaker 1: up outside of the restaurant and then fall asleep in
Speaker 1: the back of her car. When we got James on
Speaker 1: the phone, he told us that he thought she was
Speaker 1: maybe homeless, and in denial about it. She claims that
Speaker 1: she's not homeless. She just had a really bad night
Speaker 1: and wanted to take a nap in the back of
Speaker 1: her car after she puked outside the restaurant. When you
Speaker 1: recap that date, it's amazing that they're going out again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like all of it, like that, even if it wasn't
Speaker 1: even if he didn't think she was homeless, like all
Speaker 1: of it, it sounds horrible. He did give her a
Speaker 1: second chance based on the fact that he likes to
Speaker 1: be charitable, I think, really and just help people out. Yeah. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second date up the date,
Speaker 1: all you have to do is email the show and
Speaker 1: we will call the person who didn't call you back.