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Speaker 1: Second Date Update today. Second day update is kind of

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Speaker 1: confusing because Louise is on the phone and she emailed

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Speaker 1: us to do a second date update, but in her

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Speaker 1: email she says that she wishes she would have never

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Speaker 1: went on the date. So I don't know, Louise, do

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Speaker 1: you know how second day updates work? Usually somebody goes

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Speaker 1: on a date that they actually liked, and then they

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Speaker 1: want to get another date. I know, Okay, okay, so

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Speaker 1: why do you wish you wouldn't have gone on your date?

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Speaker 1: It was just like a bad snowball effect. So my

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Speaker 1: friends and I went out the night before this date,

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Speaker 1: and I think that started the whole problem. Okay, did

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Speaker 1: you meet the guy when you guys were out? No? No, okay?

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Speaker 1: So I met James on Tender and we set up

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Speaker 1: like a Sunday brunch date. Like it was at the

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Speaker 1: beginning of the week, so it like made really good sense, right,

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Speaker 1: But my girl friends and I went out Saturday night

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Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, We're just gonna get a

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Speaker 1: few drinks, then we're gonna sit outside, and Russian Mules

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Speaker 1: turned into Gin and Tonics and next time. Next thing

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Speaker 1: I say is like really late. Yeah, so you were

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Speaker 1: hungover then, and that's why you didn't want to go

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Speaker 1: on the day because you were hungover. I was totally

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Speaker 1: hungover and hard liquor. Yeah. I mean that's the worst too.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you say you're just going out for a few drinks,

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Speaker 1: it never really works out. Yeah. So the next day

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Speaker 1: I really didn't want to because I felt horrible, like

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Speaker 1: be like a horrible person, Like I just decided to

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Speaker 1: go out anyway. I was like, no, just pull it together,

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Speaker 1: drink something and go right right. And this is like

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Speaker 1: the one time you're hoping that your date is also

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Speaker 1: hug over. I was really hoping that. But when I

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Speaker 1: like you know, I just like hi, and I'm just like,

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Speaker 1: holy heck, like this is gonna be rough, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: And I can smell you, like just even thinking about

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Speaker 1: it the hair, the bags under the eyes, I had

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Speaker 1: the whole hungover loads foot together. Did he know immediately

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Speaker 1: or did you address it? I didn't want to honestly,

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Speaker 1: um to be honest, Like I just didn't want to

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Speaker 1: and we just started getting into stupid arguments, like we

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Speaker 1: So you guys were like legit arguing or like playing no,

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Speaker 1: like people were staring at us. What wait, what were

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Speaker 1: you arguing about about brunch? It was like trying to

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Speaker 1: qualify what makes brunch brunch? Like what is the guidelines

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Speaker 1: couldn't like that sounds like a fun conversation. But he

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Speaker 1: was like, well, brunches anything you eat on Sunday morning.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, no, it's mostly about the food,

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Speaker 1: like it just kept heading out of control for every

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Speaker 1: So if you weren't, if you weren't hungover, could you

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Speaker 1: like it wasn't his fault and it was just stupid.

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Speaker 1: today's second day update, it's less of a second day

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Speaker 1: update and more of a first date redo. Because Louise

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Speaker 1: named James. They met up for brunch and she went

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Speaker 1: she's not all hung over and ready to just fight everybody.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Louise, would you give a guy a

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, all right, I speak to James. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is James, James. What's up, man? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, who is this Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, So

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Speaker 1: do you know have you heard the show before or

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I'm sorry. This is a this

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Speaker 1: you could listen once in a while, that'd be cool.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, we actually got an email about

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Speaker 1: you from one of our listeners. Wait what Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: do a segment on our show. It's called the Second

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Speaker 1: Date Updates. So we got an email from a girl

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Speaker 1: named Louise. Yeah. I'm gonna say you probably remember going

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Speaker 1: out with Louise. I do remember going out with Louisa,

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Speaker 1: and she told us about your date. She says that

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Speaker 1: I know, it just sounds like she doesn't make the

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Speaker 1: she had tried to text you and apologize but she

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Speaker 1: it from your words, though. What'd you think of Louise?

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Speaker 1: I kind of fope bad for her. I know, like

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Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? Like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what her situation is? Okay, So I show up to brunch,

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Speaker 1: be sensitive about it, because I don't know she is homeless.

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Speaker 1: You actually think she's homeless. I thought you were just

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Speaker 1: I don't explain that to someone like do you say, like, hey,

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