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Speaker 1: Hey, this is samp this John. We're the ancient two

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Speaker 1: K Storytime podcast hosts, and.

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Speaker 2: We have some ancient wisdom in the stories coming up.

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Speaker 1: If you want to hear the wisdom from two old

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Speaker 1: heads that know more than they know what to do with,

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Speaker 3: My stepmother in law ignores my parenting instructions. She regretted

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Speaker 3: it instantly, Boo, how do you like me now? My

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Speaker 3: husband is the only child from his parents' marriage. After

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Speaker 3: his parents divorced, his dad remarried, his mom did not

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Speaker 3: when his dad had kids with his new wife. My

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Speaker 3: husband was treated very poorly by this woman. By the way,

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Speaker 3: this comes from K Girl eight on the Okay Storytime

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Speaker 3: suffered it so her kids were angels and could do

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Speaker 3: no wrong, and my husband was always the bad seed.

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Speaker 3: When I dated my husband, I heard the stories and

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Speaker 3: honestly just thought she really couldn't be.

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Speaker 4: That bad boy? Was I wrong?

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Speaker 3: Because she had always looked down upon my husband and

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Speaker 3: thought he was beneath her. That meant, as the woman

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Speaker 3: who married him, I must be beneath her too. Things

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Speaker 3: weren't too bad until we started having kids, and then

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Speaker 3: her entitlement began, and so did her comments. She constantly

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Speaker 3: commented on how bad we were as parents and how

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Speaker 3: he didn't dress or feed our kids properly. She was

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Speaker 3: very hard on me that I was unable to brefeed

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Speaker 3: my kids. I tried, but just couldn't produce enough milk.

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Speaker 3: Told me that I was so terrible that my kids

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Speaker 3: were raised on formula, and how something must be wrong

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Speaker 3: with me if I couldn't produce enough milk and my

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Speaker 3: kids were going to suffer because of it. I would

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Speaker 3: literally never want to be around this person ever get

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Speaker 3: mad at it. This woman would constantly talk about how

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Speaker 3: well her children had turned out, and how much of

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Speaker 3: an excellent mother she was. They didn't turn out well

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Speaker 3: at all, and she wasn't that great, and how we

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Speaker 3: would be better parents if we just listened to her

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Speaker 3: and did what she said. In fact, when our second

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Speaker 3: child was born and we told her what his name was,

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Speaker 3: she didn't like it. She proceeded to tell us that

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Speaker 3: we picked an awful name and she would call him

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Speaker 3: by his middle name. I put my foot down and

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Speaker 3: told her that if we want wanted to call him

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Speaker 3: I said, his name is this, and that is what

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Speaker 3: we will be calling him, and then dared her to

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Speaker 3: say another word. Yes, this woman really exists. She is

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Speaker 3: so bad that I only refer to her as the

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Speaker 3: woman who was married to my father in laws. Also,

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Speaker 3: our first son is autism, and although we knew he

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Speaker 3: was different, we didn't find out exactly about his condition

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Speaker 3: until he was older. Because of this, when he got

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Speaker 3: old enough to remove his clothes and diapers, he would

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Speaker 3: no matter where he was, he would always end up

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Speaker 3: wasn't too much of an issue when he would take

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Speaker 4: Imagine chasing a one year old around with a.

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Speaker 3: catch him. It was exhausting. I finally resorted to using

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Speaker 3: duct tape. Yes, you heard that right, I started using

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Speaker 3: duct tape. Now, before you get upset. I didn't wrap

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Speaker 3: the duct tape all the way around him. I would

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Speaker 3: put the diaper on him snug enough he couldn't push

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Speaker 3: it down, but not too tight, and then tear off

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Speaker 3: two small pieces of the duct tape and play each

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Speaker 3: piece over each of the diaper closures. The duct tape

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Speaker 3: would prevent my son from unfastening the diaper and getting

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Speaker 3: out of it. Now you can imagine that the woman

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Speaker 3: who was married to my father in law took offense

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Speaker 3: to this.

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Speaker 4: She would just go on and on.

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Speaker 3: About how horrific it was that I did that, and

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Speaker 2: So now I was.

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Speaker 4: Letting my white trash show.

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Speaker 3: Now on to the story that happened sixteen years ago

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Speaker 3: when my son was a year old. He's now seventeen,

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Speaker 3: and this is one of his favorite stories. The cast

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Speaker 3: me as me, of course, my husband will be hubby,

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Speaker 3: my son will be son, father in law will be

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Speaker 3: father in law, and woman.

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Speaker 4: Who is married to my father in law, is you

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Speaker 4: guessed it? Karen?

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Speaker 3: Hobby answered the phone one day, and I could tell

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Speaker 3: he let me know that we had been invited Slash

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Speaker 3: ordered to come over for a visit. Father in law

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Speaker 3: had installed some brand new, expensive carpet for Karen in

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Speaker 3: their house and she was wanting to show it off.

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Speaker 3: we don't usually stay too long, so I figured it

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Speaker 3: wouldn't be a big deal, and so we decided to

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Speaker 3: which contains the duct tape, some toys, a few snacks,

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Speaker 3: we were instructed to wipe our shoes on the welcome

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Speaker 3: if there was too much dirt that the welcome mat

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Speaker 3: very nice carpet that was installed. It wasn't exactly white,

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Speaker 3: had this carpet in my house, I wouldn't let people

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Speaker 4: Again.

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Speaker 3: This was a nice carpet, and I had no problem

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Speaker 3: Father in law offered me some aspirin, but that never

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Speaker 3: law that I could just run down to Walmart, which

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Speaker 3: some etcetera and we would be fine. Hubby was going

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Speaker 3: to drive me, and so we started to pack up Son.

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Speaker 3: It was at this point father in law and Karen

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Speaker 4: Do you know what it's going?

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Speaker 5: I have an idea, but I kind of I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We relented and I told Karen that Son shouldn't be

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Speaker 3: over juice is in the diaper bag along with the

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Speaker 3: On our way to Walmart, I asked Hubby if he

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Speaker 3: him wearing diapers with duct tape on. The said she

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I figured. But we'm

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Speaker 3: I told him that I would be very upset if

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Speaker 3: about twenty minutes. Even after sixteen years, I can remember

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Speaker 3: So if you're from an older generation from the South,

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Speaker 3: you'll understand what it means when you say someone is

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Speaker 3: having the vapors for everyone else. Let me explain. Having

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Speaker 3: the vapors is similar to a meltdown, only more dramatic.

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Speaker 3: It involves dramatic heavy in and out breathing, almost like

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Speaker 3: hall screaming, not in panic, more like a scream you

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Speaker 3: hear when someone is being chased playfully, and Karen is

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Speaker 3: that I considered it an Oscar winning moment. I then

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Speaker 3: one area of the room where a pile of Sun's

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Speaker 3: and I instantly knew what would happen oooooo exactly what

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Speaker 3: I thoughtoo, as I thought, shouldn't have taken that duct tape,

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Speaker 3: dead diaper off? Yeah, that's your fault, girl, Ready to

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Speaker 3: call CPS. Yeah, father in law was trying to chase Sundown,

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Speaker 3: who thought he was playing a game of Chase, and

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Speaker 3: Karen was half screaming over her ruined carpet. In between

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Speaker 3: I see you put a new diaper on him. You

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Speaker 3: knew the duct tape was in the diaper bag, Bubby,

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Speaker 3: there was nothing wrong with the diaper he had on.

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Speaker 3: Karen breathlessly, Look at my carpet.

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Speaker 4: It's ruined. He ruined my new cop.

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Speaker 3: Father in law to Karen, trying to calm things down,

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Speaker 3: he didn't do it on purpose. He's a baby me.

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Speaker 3: It's your own dang fault. You shouldn't have taken him

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Speaker 4: Used the duc date. Karen, mad, I'm not going to

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Speaker 4: use duct tape on him. He doesn't need it.

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Speaker 3: Me well, dramatically gesturing with my hands at the entire

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Speaker 4: Then this is what you get.

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Speaker 5: That's so silly, because the city wasn't like on his skinner.

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Speaker 3: It was too like two pieces of small duct tape

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Speaker 3: just holding the sides just on the on the actual

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Speaker 3: like the diaper on the actual diaper. It's not wrapped

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Speaker 5: His skin, like like, that's not a big deal at all,

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Speaker 5: not a big deal at all, and you get what

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Speaker 4: There we go.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna make a fuss about something, then you

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Speaker 3: have to deal with the consequences exactly. I turned to

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Speaker 3: at hand and was kind of upset.

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Speaker 4: The father in law quit chasing him.

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Speaker 3: I grabbed the diaper bag and son and headed to

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Speaker 3: bathroom to clean them up, put a new diaper on

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Speaker 3: him with the duct tape, and didn't bother putting a

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Speaker 3: shirt or pants on him because I wanted to leave, asip,

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Speaker 3: but we.

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Speaker 4: Never want you to leave us.

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Speaker 3: So go listen to full episodes with stories like this

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Speaker 3: on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast app and

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Speaker 3: just search up Okay, starty time. But there is a

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Speaker 3: little bit left to the story. By the time I

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Speaker 3: was finished and entered the living room that Karen was

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Speaker 3: half crying and half yelling. Hobby had picked up the

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Speaker 3: No, just a kid being a kid, Just a kid

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Speaker 4: Let's call my boyfriend James.

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Speaker 5: His brother will be Mike and his brother's girlfriend Kelly.

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Speaker 5: Weaver on the Okay Storytime Separated It. Kelly and Mike

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Speaker 4: You something nicer than fifty dollars.

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Speaker 4: Can afford to get her a nicer gift.

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Speaker 5: Both James and I are very comfortable, but we've both

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Speaker 4: Oh well, don't see that way.

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Speaker 5: I know James and my experience just kind of roll

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Speaker 5: And their mom has confided in me that she's happy

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Speaker 4: I am furious at her.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I'm going to explode if she makes

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Speaker 5: It's not about the gift. We don't care about the money.

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Speaker 5: To me, this is icing on the cake of her

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Speaker 5: he wants to let slide because he loves his brother

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Speaker 5: and it makes Mike's life easier. If Kelly is happy

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Speaker 5: and that's how we're here.

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Speaker 4: There isn't edit, But what do we think? Those questions

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Speaker 3: But I think you just have a conversation with James,

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Speaker 3: and you're like, hey, serious, you gotta put some boundaries

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Speaker 3: to say no. Yeah, And if she keeps pushing past them,

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Speaker 3: maybe it's like we don't we don't you know, participate

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Speaker 3: in these gift exchanges anymore or something, yeah, or like

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Speaker 5: Right, I don't know, it's nicely being very sensitive about

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Speaker 5: I don't think you need to be like, well, I

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Speaker 5: I feel like, I don't know, I feel like that would.

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Speaker 4: Be a little holding it over their head a little bit.

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Speaker 3: So I wouldn't say that, especially like yeah, I don't

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Speaker 4: And then and then be like yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 5: For all the comments. I'm going to push pause on

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Speaker 5: this armed with a couple of the quick and simple

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Speaker 5: responses that people have suggested in here. My favorites are Wow,

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Speaker 5: what an inappropriate comment? Or I can't believe you just

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Speaker 5: said that out loud. James and I will chat to

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Speaker 5: after the holidays. I agree that he needs to set

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Speaker 5: better boundaries, but we can have that conversation privately after

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Speaker 5: the chaos of Christmas. Happy holidays, and there are some

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Speaker 5: relevant comments and an update comment from Jen five eight

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Speaker 5: seven to two. Whenever she said something stupid, reply with

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Speaker 5: a simple what an odd thing to say?

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Speaker 4: And walk away.

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Speaker 5: You can omit the odd part when it doesn't fit

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Speaker 5: the statement. OPI responds. As an example of the things

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Speaker 5: she says, my boyfriend has a cousin who had a

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Speaker 5: car accident and one of their legs has a severe

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Speaker 4: Cousin was wearing shorts when they first met Kelly.

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Speaker 5: First words out of Kelly's mouth were, WHOA, what happened

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Speaker 5: to your leg?

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Speaker 4: We should explore our options of shutting up.

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Speaker 5: That's a great idea, It's awful. I do like your suggestion.

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Speaker 5: My facial expressions usually speak for me. But with how

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Speaker 5: she spoke to James, I'm livid. Okay, A gazelle fifty

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Speaker 5: four years zero says, imagine how hard what a weird

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Speaker 5: thing to say to a person would have hit? Opie says,

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Speaker 5: it's true, Locked and loaded with this one for Christmas?

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Speaker 5: Or sure, Al's pals says, did you mean to say

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Speaker 5: that out loud? Captain Amy Santiago says that sounded like

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Speaker 5: more of an inside thought. These are great suggestions.

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Speaker 4: I love it. Opie says, that is my favorite so far.

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Speaker 4: And now for the update.

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Speaker 5: Thank you to everyone who commented. This is a rather

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Speaker 5: anti climactic update. Christmas was actually lovely. Kelly behaved for

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Speaker 5: the most part, though of course made a few left

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Speaker 5: field comments using a mother law and father and law

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Speaker 5: force simplicity. But my boyfriend and I are not married.

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Speaker 5: Here are some examples. Mother in law opened a gift.

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Speaker 5: It was a turkey baser. Kelly exclaims, whoa father in

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Speaker 3: What an odd thing to say? What an odd thing

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Speaker 3: to say? Ope, you better do that. I want to

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Speaker 3: be to do it.

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Speaker 4: There was an awkward pause.

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Speaker 5: She turns to me and James and goes, actually, I'm

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Speaker 5: surprised it's not you, and on recommendations from Reddit, I

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Speaker 5: laughingly responded, what an uncomfortable thing to say? Oh, good, good,

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Speaker 5: good good, it'd be good fo. Kelly went on about

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Speaker 5: how she expected after we took a two week vacation

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Speaker 5: that we would be sharing a pregnancy announcement. I responded, well,

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Speaker 5: that's kind of weird. And by the way, what's never

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Speaker 5: ever weird ever in the whole wide world is if

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Speaker 5: you listen to more stories like this, just check out Spotify,

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Speaker 5: Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app and just search.

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Speaker 4: Up Okay, storytime, do it. But there is a little

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Speaker 3: But jump into this because I want to hear a

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Speaker 3: me too. Because that was great. That was great.

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Speaker 4: Ye I got James a.

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Speaker 5: God gift that says some mixtual innuendo on the butt.

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Speaker 4: Of a pair of pants EO.

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Speaker 5: Kelly kept making comments about no one needs to know

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Speaker 5: the details of your spicy sleep life.

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Speaker 4: Curly. You just asked, yeah, like two seconds ago, I'll

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Speaker 4: know what you want.

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Speaker 5: Despite that, the pants were a joke. This was repeated

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Speaker 5: a great time and a great family gathering. I wish

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Speaker 5: I had something more exciting, but the answers I got

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Speaker 5: respond to her weird comments, and otherwise I ignored her.

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Speaker 5: Thanks reddits, and there are a few more comments. Pied

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Speaker 5: Goose says, no one needs to know the details of

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Speaker 5: your spicy sleep life, but I'm going to loudly speculate

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Speaker 5: about how much of it you had during a trip away.

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Speaker 5: That's so important me to suggest that, like, just because

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Speaker 5: you went on vacation for two weeks, now you're gonna

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because of all the crazy things like going on. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: just just keep your mouth shut.

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Speaker 5: Just please all the colors eighty seven sixty two says,

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Speaker 5: it sounds like you have a better outlook on the situation.

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Speaker 5: That's good at least those Why did you say that?

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Speaker 5: And please explain your et cetera. Comment phrases work on

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Speaker 5: people who have no social awareness, but honor the crone says,

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Speaker 5: I disagree. People who make those comments are doing so

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Speaker 5: because they think that they are funny and inoffensive. Repeatedly

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Speaker 5: asking them to explain it lets them know that you

440
00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,520
Speaker 5: don't see the humor and pushes the annoyance to them.

441
00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:22,760
Speaker 4: I have seen this work.

442
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 5: It won't make them act not but they quit making

443
00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 5: those comments around And I don't think there were any

444
00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:30,879
Speaker 5: comments noted here, but I guess it.

445
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,400
Speaker 3: I think I was just saying, like that comment applies

446
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,320
Speaker 3: to any of those type of ye which I honestly,

447
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:39,159
Speaker 3: I think that last comment has a good point, you know,

448
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,199
Speaker 3: like not that those comments aren't inappropriate, but like the

449
00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,880
Speaker 3: reason that they're making it is just because they think

450
00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:47,639
Speaker 3: they're funny. And having the response of being like what

451
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,280
Speaker 3: do you mean by that and be like oh, this

452
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,080
Speaker 3: person doesn't want to hear that, or like oh, it

453
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:55,359
Speaker 3: just makes it very awkward.

454
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:56,880
Speaker 6: Yeah.

455
00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:57,960
Speaker 4: It calls them out in.

456
00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:01,280
Speaker 3: Like a a as non confrontation channel away as possible.

457
00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,960
Speaker 3: It lets them like take a moment to confront themselves

458
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,160
Speaker 3: and be like oh what did I mean?

459
00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that is the end of the story. So yeah,

460
00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,879
Speaker 5: I think that was that was handled very well. Congratulations

461
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:17,120
Speaker 5: O Pete. What an odd person, what an odd egg.

462
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:22,280
Speaker 5: That's the end, So we'll see you in the next one.

463
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,720
Speaker 7: I don't want my rude sister lie at my wedding.

464
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 7: I know she'll try to pull something.

465
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, try to pull a fast one probably oop.

466
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,119
Speaker 2: Try to pull your man, Try to.

467
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,919
Speaker 7: Pull a leg of your man. Oh, so I'm in

468
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 7: need of some advice. There's a lot of drama with

469
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,159
Speaker 7: my fiance's sister, and she's always been rude to me

470
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 7: and I don't know why. By the way, this comes

471
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 7: from No Attention thirty three away and you can send

472
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 7: in your stories to our subs Okay, storytime.

473
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Speaker 2: When I first met her, she seemed nice and I

474
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:46,400
Speaker 2: liked her.

475
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 7: My fiance's friends told me to be careful because she

476
00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,120
Speaker 7: always acts that way in the beginning and then she

477
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 7: shows her true colors, which she did. Even my fiance

478
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 7: told me not to trust her and not to share

479
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 7: much with her because she tends to use and twist

480
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 7: whatever hover she sees and hears from other people.

481
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:02,160
Speaker 2: My God.

482
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 7: Despite all that, I've always treated her with respect and

483
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 7: was nice to her until I got tired of her behavior.

484
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 7: She started with mean looks, mean comments about my accent

485
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 7: to other people and saying hi to me when she

486
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,880
Speaker 7: saw me, completely ignoring my presence and talking to whoever

487
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,959
Speaker 7: was next to me but not to me, infuriating, and

488
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 7: then she started making comments about my family. We all

489
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 7: speak Spanish, so we have an accent when we speak English,

490
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 7: saying things to my fiance like do you even understand

491
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 7: what they're saying?

492
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 6: Oh, you are so not cool.

493
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 7: Gug not cool guy, Dakota. You told them you are

494
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 7: You told them brother for.

495
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,440
Speaker 9: Lack of things I cannot say here, you are very

496
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 9: not cool.

497
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 2: Gang tell them what? She ignored? He ignored it.

498
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 7: Then one day, she just closed the front door when

499
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 7: I was walking towards it, after watching me struggle with

500
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 7: grocery bags, complaining to her friends about how much she

501
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 7: wanted to go away, even though I was engaged to

502
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 7: her brother making jokes lunch with her grandparents. She even

503
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 7: insulted me in Spanish, and when I called her out

504
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,119
Speaker 7: for it, she just laughed and ignored me.

505
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 3: Well.

506
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 7: Fiance talked to her multiple times, but nothing changed. She

507
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 7: just got defensive and started yelling at him, which seems

508
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,439
Speaker 7: to be what she does whenever someone tells her something

509
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 7: she doesn't like. Despite all of that, I tried to

510
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 7: be civil around her for her parents' sake, since we

511
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 7: got along really well and we love.

512
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 2: Spending time together.

513
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 7: That was until one night when she went off on

514
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 7: me when her parents mentioned our upcoming wedding We were

515
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 7: talking about guests, and she started saying who should go

516
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 7: and who shouldn't, How I shouldn't think about their family

517
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 7: and not mine When it comes to guests. Mind you,

518
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 7: there will be three times more of people from my

519
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 7: fiance side than mine. All of this because she wanted

520
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 7: to invite her friends. Where's the backup here, dude?

521
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 8: Where is a single soul putting this trash goblin in

522
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 8: her place?

523
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 7: Requesting backups from spinalless husband? Oh, it turns out his

524
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 7: spine is wet toast?

525
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 6: Like I mean, is this Is this sanctioned by the

526
00:22:58,960 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 6: family like I.

527
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 2: Think we're about to see?

528
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 7: But it seems like nobody stands up to her, which

529
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 7: Sam is joining in all of this because she wanted

530
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 7: to invite her friends. So we tried to tell her

531
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 7: that it was our wedding and it was our decision

532
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 7: to see who we invite, and she said, well, we're

533
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 7: paying for it, which is not true. My fiance's parents

534
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 7: offered to help pay for the wedding and we are

535
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 7: incredibly grateful for that, but she is not giving us anything.

536
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 7: She went as far as saying, we're just doing this

537
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 7: because of your dad, and that sent me off a

538
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 7: little background. My dad can't come to the US because

539
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 7: he doesn't have a visa, So my fiance and I

540
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 7: decided to have our wedding in Cabo.

541
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 8: This woman is making a hullabaloo about a wedding in Cabo.

542
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 4: Shit up.

543
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 7: This is the most everybody wins scenario of all time.

544
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 7: Wedding in Cabo. Dad gets to be there. Should shouldn't

545
00:23:59,119 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 7: we all be happy?

546
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 3: No?

547
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 6: Shouldn't we?

548
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 7: It was our decision to do it in Cabo because

549
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 7: of course I have to have my dad in the wedding,

550
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 7: and Cabo is a beautiful place for a destination wedding.

551
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 7: Two absolute freakin facts. Going back to that night, after

552
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 7: she said that I just lost it on her, things

553
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 7: went bad or really quick.

554
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 2: She started yelling.

555
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,959
Speaker 7: I raise my voice because I'm not going to let

556
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 7: her talk about my family and wouldn't let her yell

557
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 7: at me, and then my fiance and I left.

558
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 2: I saw her only once after that. Of course, she

559
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: never said hi to me or acknowledge my presence, and

560
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 2: we have avoided each other ever since.

561
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 7: Now our wedding is coming up in five months, and

562
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 7: of course she's going, Oh is that? And of course

563
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 7: I hope that she doesn't. I hope she goes away

564
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,160
Speaker 7: into a black hole. So we didn't want to invite her,

565
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 7: but we knew we had to in order to avoid

566
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 7: a fight with his parents. But now we just really

567
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 7: don't want to have her there because we know how

568
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 7: much she likes to start drama. We're even more anxious

569
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 7: because we rented a villa so both families can be

570
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 7: together and make a vacation out of it. We'll have

571
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 7: it for a full week, but we totally forgot about

572
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 7: having to deal with her, and now we're regretting it.

573
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 7: My mother in law said her daughter will only go

574
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 7: for the wedding, but it turns out she decided to

575
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 7: go for the full week and made yes, made her

576
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 7: dad buy her a plane ticket for those dates.

577
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 2: I have so many thoughts. We'll get to soon.

578
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 7: Her mom suggested that we could have a sit down

579
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 7: talk with her to talk about these issues and make

580
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 7: sure we clear the air so nothing happens during our

581
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 7: wedding week, but she also said she can't promise it'll

582
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 7: go smoothly because her daughter is very difficult to deal with,

583
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 7: and I don't know if I want to do that.

584
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 7: I really don't want to see her again, because I

585
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 7: know it'll turn into a fight if we decide to

586
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 7: have that talk. I don't feel like I want to

587
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 7: deal with that, So Reddit friends.

588
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 2: What can I do?

589
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 7: We try to avoid her as much as possible, but

590
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 7: mother in law is always trying to include her and

591
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 7: sometimes forces her presence in whatever.

592
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 2: We want to do.

593
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 7: We know she'll make sure to be around for whatever

594
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 7: we do. She wants me to include her while I

595
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 7: get ready with my bridal party and have my makeup

596
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 7: artist do her hair and makeup, but I said no.

597
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 7: And now she wants me to find her someone that

598
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 7: can go to our airbnb to help her get ready,

599
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 7: and like that, I'm sure she'll want to be there

600
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 7: to stir.

601
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 2: Up the pot as she actually does.

602
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,199
Speaker 7: We have the update, but I gotta talk with my

603
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 7: butt big d nah, foot down, not happening, not going done.

604
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 6: Foot take it here, take it from there.

605
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 8: And put it down, because she is like openly just

606
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 8: to you, openly like this, learn Spanish, to get rised

607
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 8: with you in Spanish.

608
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 6: Like that is a hard No.

609
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 8: I don't want this person at a celebration of anything

610
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 8: I'm a part of until she gets on her freaking

611
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 8: hands and knees and apologizes and is like, I see

612
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 8: the air of my ways.

613
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 6: It was disgusting. I'm sorry.

614
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 8: You don't have to accept my apology, but I just

615
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,959
Speaker 8: want to let it be known how regretful I feel

616
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 8: about my actions, which will never happen. But that would

617
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 8: be the only thing she could possibly do to salvage

618
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 8: her chances at being involved. But you need to sit

619
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 8: down with the father in law and the mother in

620
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 8: law and your husband, and you need to be like,

621
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 8: this is not happening.

622
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 6: I love you, guys.

623
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 8: Her behavior is unacceptable and I will not be made

624
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 8: to tolerate it on my wedding day.

625
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 7: But Dakota, we got the update, so my fiance talked

626
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 7: to his parents. He did it good, good first step

627
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 7: about this issue. He told them, we don't want to

628
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 7: want we don't want to have to be around his

629
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 7: sister during our wedding week that we talked, and even

630
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 7: though we don't want to invite her to our wedding,

631
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 7: we were considering doing it just to keep some sort

632
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 7: of peace with his parents, to which his mom blew up.

633
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 2: She got very upset and said.

634
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 7: That we can't exclude his sister because she's family and

635
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 7: no matter how she behaves, she's his sister and he

636
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 7: has to accept her the way she is and have.

637
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 2: Her there for everything. Now we are truly seeing.

638
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 8: Parents, and that's let me translate that your sister's behavior

639
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 8: doesn't affect me or your father at all, so we

640
00:27:58,880 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 8: don't care.

641
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 7: Soh There was a lot of back and forth for

642
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 7: my fiance and me telling her that it's not fair

643
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 7: that we have to keep putting up with her, and

644
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 7: from her saying she won't take any sides and that

645
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 7: if it comes to that, she just won't go. My

646
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 7: fiance was really hurt, of course, because her reaction, because

647
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 7: of her reactions and the things she said, and told

648
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 7: her that she is taking sides by not choosing to

649
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 7: go Bingo. She said she'll still go to the wedding,

650
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 7: but only for that and not the whole week like

651
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,239
Speaker 7: we had planned, because she's not going to tell her

652
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 7: daughter that she can't come to our events or stay

653
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 7: in the same place as us.

654
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 2: That we should just let her be.

655
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 7: And that excluding her is not the mature way to

656
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 7: deal with the situation, to which my fiance said, so

657
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 7: we just let her talk crap during our wedding, and

658
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 7: she flat out said, yes, she's your sister, and no

659
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 7: matter what that comes first, you know.

660
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 8: Cassanda said something that I think resonates is that this

661
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 8: guy's probably been second his entire life to his sister.

662
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 8: From the sound of it, the sister's golden child and

663
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Speaker 8: can do you no wrong because it's just your sister.

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Speaker 8: It's just the way she is and which apparently it's

665
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Speaker 8: perfect and she doesn't need to change anything about her behavior.

666
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Speaker 2: And that's in fairness. That's a lot to work through.

667
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Speaker 7: Maybe maybe husband is you know what he is standing

668
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Speaker 7: up right now, and maybe this is him doing the

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Speaker 7: work to like undo a lot of this like stuff

670
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Speaker 7: from their childhood, like you're saying of like, no, you

671
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Speaker 7: you just have to shut up and sit down.

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Speaker 8: And it's like the reality of situations like this is

673
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Speaker 8: there's a lot of stuff in the gray. It's a

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Speaker 8: complicated dance. It's not just like we have the ability

675
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Speaker 8: to be detached from it and be like, oh, this

676
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 8: is clearly it, but it's like it's a delicate dance

677
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Speaker 8: when you're dealing with your own family and your future

678
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Speaker 8: in laws and like trying to maintain some symbols of

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Speaker 8: peace that you can carry on into the future.

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Speaker 6: But it's like when it comes to this.

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Speaker 8: It's like the sister in law outwardly hates op In

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Speaker 8: in disgust, not just like I don't like you, in

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Speaker 8: like a like.

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Speaker 2: She's viciously right. But Opie says, I guess that was

685
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Speaker 2: the last straw for him, and he just said that

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Speaker 2: won't happen.

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Speaker 7: Hold on, I like this. We love a growth, ark,

688
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Speaker 7: we love a growth. Our husband's doing it right down.

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Speaker 2: So now his.

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Speaker 7: Mom now says that she won't go. His dad wants

691
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Speaker 7: us to talk to his daughter to lay out everything

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Speaker 7: that happened, because she probably doesn't see anything wrong with

693
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Speaker 7: her behavior, and that she probably didn't mean to be

694
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Speaker 7: really disrepectable, that we might be perceiving things wrong, and

695
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Speaker 7: that we need to go figure things out so we

696
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Speaker 7: can all be a family. But my fiance and I

697
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Speaker 7: were very hurt and mad about his mom's reaction, so

698
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Speaker 7: we just ended up leaving and they said we'll talk

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Speaker 7: later this week to have that sit down talk. At

700
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Speaker 7: this point, we don't know what's going to happen. We

701
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Speaker 7: still have to pay for around fifteen thousand dollars of

702
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Speaker 7: the remaining things for our wedding. So we are considering

703
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Speaker 7: paying for it ourselves because we won't ask them for

704
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Speaker 7: the money they offered anymore. Our invitations have been sent,

705
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Speaker 7: all of the guests already have their plane tickets and

706
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Speaker 7: accommodations booked, and we do want to have the wedding

707
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Speaker 7: we dreamed of, but this is all very overwhelming. We

708
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Speaker 7: talked about just going somewhere the two of us and

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Speaker 7: getting married. He doesn't want his parents to go anywhere,

710
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Speaker 7: but I know he's heard and upset.

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Speaker 2: I don't want him to regret that. LA. That's the

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Speaker 2: update I have for now.

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Speaker 7: I guess we'll talk about it more over the next

714
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Speaker 7: few days and figure out what to do if we

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Speaker 7: keep moving forward with the wedding planning, or if we

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Speaker 7: just cancel everything and let our guests know. I really

717
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 7: hope that whatever we decide makes us happy, at least

718
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Speaker 7: as happy as we can be after all of this.

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Speaker 7: Could we have the second yes, and final update of

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Speaker 7: the story? Yes, what are you thinking?

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Speaker 8: My perspective would be that if the parents or if

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Speaker 8: I'm Opie's husband and my parents can't see our perspective

723
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Speaker 8: after having it laid out right in front and be like, look,

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Speaker 8: this is Exhibit A, Exhibit B, Exhibit C.

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Speaker 6: My sister can't go, and they're still like, well she

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Speaker 6: has to.

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Speaker 8: I'd be like, dang, that's a really rough way for

728
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Speaker 8: me to find out that you guys can't come to

729
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 8: my wedding either, because I'm not gonna let anybody who

730
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 8: would like just like, eh, like don't worry about them.

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Speaker 6: Just thrown at your sister with a night your sister.

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Speaker 6: You're at your.

733
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Speaker 8: Wife with a bazouka from your sister. It's like, don't

734
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Speaker 8: worry about it. Anyone who's underplaying that, and like it's

735
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 8: like you're not coming to the wedding, and now we're

736
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Speaker 8: like low to no contact until you like adequately apologize

737
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 8: and show that you're you've grown into a new perspective

738
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Speaker 8: about all of this.

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Speaker 7: And you know, like while I appreciated Opie's thoughtfulness for like,

740
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 7: oh you might regret it later, I think what husband

741
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 7: is realized now is like, our wedding's gonna with parents

742
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 7: and sister there, let's enjoy our wedding. Let's let's do that,

743
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 7: and like, again, appreciate opie softfulness, but I think husband

744
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 7: is like being like, yo, I I see your side.

745
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 7: I'm on your side. Let's protect you, Let's protect me,

746
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 7: Let's protect us, kick them all out, let's enjoy away.

747
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's pay.

748
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Speaker 8: At this point, I'm straight up, I'm like it would

749
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Speaker 8: ruin the wedding more if they were here.

750
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Speaker 7: Exactly, And we're gonna get into this update number two

751
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Speaker 7: to close it out.

752
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Speaker 2: We hoped.

753
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 7: Yes, we got married in secret. Sort of the solution, oh,

754
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 7: sort of, sort of, sort of, hold on to your bucket.

755
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 7: My husband and I went to California, which is where

756
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 7: he met, got engaged, and lived together for the first time. Yes,

757
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 7: we are hopeless romantics, and got married at the courthouse.

758
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 7: It was an intimate, beautiful, and emotional ceremony. We loved

759
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 7: everything about it and we couldn't be happier to now

760
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 7: be husband and wife. Our only guest was my sister,

761
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 7: oh p sister not not the sister a loud to

762
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Speaker 7: be clear, who was also our witness because she's been

763
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 7: a part of our relationship from day one. She's also

764
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 7: my best friend and my husband adores her as if

765
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Speaker 7: it was his own sister.

766
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Speaker 2: Maybe you can do a little swapperroo.

767
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, up grade, up grade.

768
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Speaker 7: So that made both of us feel happy to have

769
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Speaker 7: someone so close to us to have such an important

770
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Speaker 7: role in our marriage. By the way, if you want

771
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Speaker 7: to have an important role with us, okay, in our marriage,

772
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 7: in our marriage to you, there's one specific place where

773
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Speaker 7: you can get full length episodes with stories just like this.

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Speaker 7: I'm talking Spotify, I'm talking Apple Podcasts, I'm talking any

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Speaker 7: podcast platform you can search. Okay, story time, It's all

776
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Speaker 7: right there, it's all right there. But Dakota, we are

777
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 7: We haven't finished, but we are nearing our final destination.

778
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 7: We have eloped. We are married.

779
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 6: It was beautiful as into it was with the sister.

780
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Speaker 2: We love. What are we thinking right now?

781
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Speaker 6: W you picked the right choice.

782
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Speaker 7: We love the progression arc of he went from from

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Speaker 7: a gelatinous toast spine to a regular science class standard grade.

784
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Speaker 8: Spot Oh yeah, no, that that toast got dried out

785
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,959
Speaker 8: and they put some rebar in that. Oh yeah, baby,

786
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 8: we cannot eat that toast.

787
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 2: It's crownchy.

788
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 7: But we have a finale to the story. So it

789
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 7: wasn't the big wedding we thought we wanted, but it

790
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 7: was beautiful and perfect in every way. We got to

791
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 7: get married on our own terms and then celebrate with

792
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 7: my mom's sister and our closest friends, so we really

793
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 7: enjoyed every second of it. Now we are getting ready

794
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 7: for our big wedding in Capo, which despite all the drama,

795
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 7: we know it'll be fun since we'll have everyone else

796
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 7: there to celebrate.

797
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: It'll be like having a big party.

798
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Speaker 7: And now we don't feel anxious or nervous about things

799
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 7: going wrong anymore because at the end of the day,

800
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Speaker 7: we already got to have the wedding we really wanted,

801
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 7: just the two.

802
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Speaker 4: Of us exactly.

803
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Speaker 2: I love it.

804
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 6: They know they see the light. They say they know

805
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 6: the truth. Dude, full circle. Yes, I love it.

806
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: We love it. We do. No notes.

807
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 8: We love a full circle. Everything went good. No freaking notes.

808
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 8: Man makes me happy.

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Speaker 7: Yes, hey, John Ogi host here, we're gonna get back

810
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Speaker 7: to this episode, but a quick three minute break of

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Speaker 7: ads from a sponsor's keeping the show alive. My friend's

812
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 7: mother in law wore a white dress to her wedding,

813
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 7: so I poured drinks on it. I gotta pull one

814
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Speaker 7: out on you. I have known my best friend Kara

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Speaker 7: thirty female and her new husband Mark thirty two males

816
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Speaker 7: since I was eighteen years old.

817
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Speaker 2: I'm thirty one.

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Speaker 7: Kara and Mark saved my life once upon a time,

819
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Speaker 7: but that's a story for another day. Kara and Mark

820
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 7: got married in May and just got back from their

821
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Speaker 7: honeymoon in the Maldives. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 2: Sign it in go ahead backstory.

825
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 7: Kara did not come from money, but worked her booty

826
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Speaker 7: off to get where she is. She is the chief

827
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Speaker 7: of medicine at a hospital near nearby, makes six figures,

828
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 7: but she's also a queen. Mark comes from money. His

829
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 7: mother is the source of all the drama. He also

830
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 7: makes six figures a year. He works in finance. Marcus

831
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 7: three older brothers, all are married and none have a

832
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Speaker 7: relationship with Victoria mother in law, and she has never

833
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,240
Speaker 7: met the grandkid. WHOA, that's a bad start. That sets

834
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 7: the stage for old brother in law. Now on to

835
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Speaker 7: the story. Mark proposed to Kara in twenty twenty three,

836
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 7: and our friends group was ecstatic. Karen and Mark are

837
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 7: perfect for each other. Both have money but don't flaunt it.

838
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 7: Neither one to have children of their own their life,

839
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Speaker 7: but they do love children. Mark proposed with a beautiful

840
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 7: four K diamond on Christmas. Kara started planning almost immediately.

841
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 7: They paid for the entire wedding on their own, so

842
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 7: no one can make any input, and they didn't like

843
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 7: but did openly listen to suggestions. I'm just loving this

844
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 7: so far. They did choose a beautiful location on the

845
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Speaker 7: other coast. Kara originally wanted a destination wedding, but opted

846
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 7: for something local so my daughter and I could attend.

847
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,720
Speaker 7: She chose me for her nidive honor, and our closest

848
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 7: friends Amber and Savannah were her other bridesmaids.

849
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Speaker 2: My daughter was her flower girl.

850
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Speaker 7: Victoria always disliked Kara, and I believe Victoria is the

851
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 7: mother in law. I believe no one knows why Kara

852
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 7: is lovely until you piss her off. But Kara was

853
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 7: always on her best behavior with the family. Mario, Mark's

854
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 7: dad loves her. What I think it is is that

855
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 7: Kara also doesn't want kids and isn't Catholic. Victoria and

856
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 7: Mario are a traditional at dhaliana Catholic family from the country.

857
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 7: Both were born in Italy and still hold the traditional values.

858
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,760
Speaker 2: But Mario just wants his son to be happy.

859
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 7: Kara went from went to Kleinfeld for a wedding dress

860
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 7: for shopping, one dress for the ceremony, form fitting, and

861
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Speaker 7: one for the reception.

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Speaker 2: Flowy and girly.

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00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 6: Oh.

864
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 7: I was there via video chat because I couldn't jump

865
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Speaker 7: on a plane and go. Everything was great until enter Victoria.

866
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 7: Kara thought that integrating Victoria the evil mother in law

867
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 7: into dress shopping would help release some of the tension

868
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 7: between them.

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00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 8: It's only going to escalate the ten raw gives you

870
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 8: more chances to have words come out of your mouth.

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Speaker 6: They don't like.

872
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 2: More word chances. That's not good.

873
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 6: Minimize language, minimize were chances.

874
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 7: Victoria the Evil mother in law wanted Kara, the Bride

875
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 7: to Be to try on this god awful turtleneck, long sleeve,

876
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 7: poofy cupcake dress that was just I'm no fashionista, but

877
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 7: I know Kara and what works on her body.

878
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: She tried it on to appease Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Kara showed us this throw up dress and she looked

880
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Speaker 7: at me on the camera and raised her brows. M

881
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 7: I shook my head and said, you don't want my opinion,

882
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 7: Kara said, she did. That's why I'm here, Victoria, She's

883
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 7: not here she's too busy being a single mom living

884
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 7: off the government to be a real fend in at ten.

885
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 8: Oh wow, sorry, I just gotta write some more notes

886
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 8: for Victoria.

887
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 7: Ruthless notes on the board and tasteless.

888
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 10: Hey, we don't need ven diagrams this time. Yeah, we

889
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 10: don't need thirty. We don't need update every.

890
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 7: Sentence silence from everyone me take that god awful dress off.

891
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 7: I chose to ignore mother in law Victoria's comments, even

892
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 7: though I wanted to rip her pinched little head off

893
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 7: through the phone. It's true, it's not true, and I

894
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 7: could tell that Kara was starting to get annoyed. Now,

895
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 7: Kara does not stand up for herself in the moment.

896
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 7: She will wait and address it later. Kara tried on

897
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 7: a bunch of other dresses, all pretty, but not what

898
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 7: she was looking for. I knew about address that Kara

899
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 7: had been dreaming about since Mark proposed. What Kara didn't

900
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,720
Speaker 7: know was that that dress was there. Amber was controlling

901
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,359
Speaker 7: the phone that I was attending on, and I told

902
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 7: her to give the phone to the attendant. I told

903
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 7: the attendant about the dress and confirmed that it was

904
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 7: indeed there. I was handed back to Amber and the

905
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 7: attendant went on the hunt.

906
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 2: Kara got on to try her dream dress.

907
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 7: Obviously she loved it, and she said yes to it

908
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 7: for this ceremony.

909
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: She said, yeah, that dress.

910
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 7: She said yes to the dress. But you know who

911
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 7: is not gonna say yes? The mother in law was

912
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 7: in law Victoria.

913
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 2: Victoria.

914
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 11: That is a little slutty, isn't it, Karra starting to

915
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 11: get read nice.

916
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 4: Mark shouldn't be.

917
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 11: Marrying someone he wants to show off there by like

918
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 11: a little spicy dancer me.

919
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 10: Victoria, stfu, silence.

920
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 2: You could hear a fly fart.

921
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 6: You beat me by half a second.

922
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 10: Oh, here we go. I gotta read this one, ye, Victoria.

923
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 12: I invited you to try to help our relationship. This

924
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,879
Speaker 12: isn't your wedding. This isn't the dress you're going to wear.

925
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 12: This isn't about you. I love this dress. I feel

926
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 12: amazing in it. Shut up or get out. Silence, Victoria

927
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 12: calling Mark.

928
00:40:55,080 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 6: You won't believe what that Mark. Shut up, Mom, I'm on.

929
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 7: A conference call with Savannah. I heard everything. Click, hangs

930
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 7: up one of the other brides maids.

931
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 2: Okay.

932
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 7: One week later, Kara and I are sitting in her

933
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 7: living room going over some things when Victoria walks in.

934
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 4: Clip clap, clip clap, clip clap.

935
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 6: Those are my hooves because I'm a demon.

936
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 4: Oh you're here me?

937
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: I am, I was invited? Were you?

938
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 7: Kara is holding onto my arm so I don't get

939
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 7: up and slap the But Jesus a nice now that

940
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 7: that is dedication. That is dedication light. That's so dexterous.

941
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 2: That is doing it for love of the game.

942
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 7: Kara's holding onto my arm so I don't get up

943
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 7: and slap the Jesus out of mother in law Victoria.

944
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:51,359
Speaker 7: I'm known as the guard dog in my friend group.

945
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 7: Victoria went upstairs, grabbed a couple of things of Marks,

946
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 7: and started to walk out, but Kara asked what she

947
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 7: was doing. Victoria with a crap eating in.

948
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 6: I am taking these in case Mark conceiters my offer.

949
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 2: Oh god, Karen.

950
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 7: And I look confused. But about let Victoria leave and

951
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 7: we call Mark. Hey, babe, what's going on?

952
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 12: Your mom just walked in and grabbed some stuff in

953
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 12: case you consider her offer.

954
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 2: I'm not. She's backcraped crazy me. What was the offer? Mark?

955
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 7: If I marry Kara, she's cutting me out of her will? Baby, baby, baby, Look,

956
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 7: I'm not leaving you, she can sit and rotate. Wow,

957
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 7: I don't know what that jo.

958
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 6: You dropped that on your own mom. That's crazy.

959
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 7: A while, bro Mark gets a wild whoa, I'm leaving

960
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 7: working heading home. We're going away for a weekend. To distress.

961
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 7: Mark took Care to a spa on the other coast,

962
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 7: five star accommodations, and they talked. I don't know all

963
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 7: the details about how to handle mother in law Victoria.

964
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 7: Going forward, fast forward to the wedding May of twenty

965
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:03,439
Speaker 7: twenty four, Kara, myself, bridesmaids, and my daughters are all

966
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 7: getting our hair done. The wedding planner, wonderful woman, but

967
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 7: scary came up to tell us there was an issue downstairs.

968
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 2: I went to handle it. Kara did not need to

969
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:12,760
Speaker 2: deal with this crap.

970
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 11: Uh.

971
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 8: I knew who the issue was going to be. Does

972
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 8: anyone have any guesses? Who could it possibly be? Blip

973
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 8: clop clip clop clip clopp Oho.

974
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 4: Here I am with my clothing.

975
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,439
Speaker 6: Wos oh no cause rucic at your wedding.

976
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 7: Victoria, evil mother in law was trying to get into

977
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 7: the bridal suite to get ready.

978
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 2: Not happening.

979
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,959
Speaker 7: I told her that the mother of the groom didn't

980
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 7: get ready with a bride. She huffed and puffed and

981
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,720
Speaker 7: clonked her hoofs. I put that part in, but left

982
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 7: way too easy. Now I am nervous. One thing I

983
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 7: should mention. I have a seizure disorder, but I take

984
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 7: a medication that prevents me from having them. Mother in

985
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 7: law Victoria knows nothing about my health. We're getting ready

986
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 7: to go to the procession. Everything looks great. Out of

987
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 7: the corner of my eye, I saw something shiny and white.

988
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 7: Remember the title. I ignore it for a second, but

989
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 7: you know, curiosity got the cat. Victoria, the mother in

990
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 7: law of Evil with the clothing hooves, is in a

991
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 7: wedding dress.

992
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 8: Oh my god.

993
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 6: You're kidding me.

994
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 8: Well, that informs what I just wrote down on the whiteboard.

995
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 6: Victoria wants to be married to her son. It's funny,

996
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 6: you're just talking about Game of Thrones.

997
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 2: Got got got him? Get got got him?

998
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 7: Get got gott Yes, get mother flipping got. Victoria walks

999
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 7: in with the wedding dress, a big poofy ball gown.

1000
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 7: Oh heck no, not today, not to my best friend.

1001
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 7: Kara and Mark had security to prevent things like this,

1002
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 7: So Victoria wasn't allowed in haha. The ceremony was beautiful

1003
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 7: and after pictures, I go with Carria to get her

1004
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 7: changed into her reception dress. I let her know about

1005
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 7: Victoria and she gives me the look. The look is

1006
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 7: something that we as a friend group have when we

1007
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 7: go to the bar. The look is what we is

1008
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 7: what they give me when I need to activate guard

1009
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 7: dog mode. I understood the assignment. I am not supposed

1010
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 7: to drink on my meds, so I don't. So when

1011
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 7: I'm walking around with a super colorful, stain inducing cocktail,

1012
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 7: my friends are looking at me weird. I give them

1013
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 7: the look remember that look, and they nod. They understood

1014
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 7: the assignment too. Karen Mark are enjoying the night and

1015
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,959
Speaker 7: I make my way over to Victoria. People are giving

1016
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 7: her looks, but she's acting oblivious to them and her

1017
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 7: husband is hiding from her.

1018
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: Good man. I waved to her and make my way

1019
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 2: over to start a conversation.

1020
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 7: I had a seizure quote unquote, I quote unquote had

1021
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 7: a seizure and started convulsing and grabbed onto Victoria on

1022
00:45:56,280 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 7: the way down, drink all over for her dress and

1023
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 7: we go tumbling into the damp muddy flower best. We

1024
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 7: love a good tactical fake seizure. To Victoria, it looked

1025
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 7: like I was having a seizure. Amber and Savannah rush over, concerned,

1026
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 7: quote unquote, Kara and Mark are still unaware of what's happening.

1027
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 7: I'm tended to. Amber helps me up. I have a

1028
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 7: few scrapes from where I landed, but I could care less.

1029
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 7: Victoria has mud on all over her body and a

1030
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 7: cocktail all over her front. Guess that pretty white dress

1031
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:32,760
Speaker 7: is ruined.

1032
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 8: Oh well, you'll win some, you lose some, and you

1033
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 8: will always lose if you wear white to my wedding, Yes,

1034
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 8: said op specifically, a white and a wedding like it's

1035
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 8: like it was.

1036
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 2: It seems clearly it was a wedding dress.

1037
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 7: Victoria starts screaming, and now Kara and Mark are aware

1038
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 7: of what's happening. Mark looks annoyed and Kara is trying

1039
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 7: not to smile and failing. Victoria, look at what this

1040
00:46:54,800 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 7: be did to me, Mark, you shouldn't have worn white, Mina.

1041
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 7: You know you can't drink with your meds. Are you okay?

1042
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 7: Do you want to go get checked out?

1043
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 2: Kara?

1044
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 4: Nina?

1045
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 10: Do you need help getting out a chair ever, can

1046
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 10: you over.

1047
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 2: Me feigning faints?

1048
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 7: Oh, I could use the help, Thank you. I'm sorry

1049
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 7: about this. I thought one drink would be okay.

1050
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 11: Oh darn, you're ruined my dress.

1051
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 4: Be all going to have some pay for that.

1052
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 13: Morio Mario Victoria. Stop, she hasn't met the old condition

1053
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 13: that it go. Take the ridiculous address off you entered

1054
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 13: the bride. You've caused nothing but the problems. I don't

1055
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 13: know my grandkids.

1056
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,760
Speaker 4: Because of you.

1057
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,720
Speaker 6: Get ther crap together and I'm a done.

1058
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 7: Holy crap in See guys, Oh, Mario really said I

1059
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 7: don't know my grandparents grandkids because of you.

1060
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 2: Just went off.

1061
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,760
Speaker 7: I rested after my episode quote unquote for a while

1062
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 7: before we joined the party. Victoria never came back, and

1063
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 7: the whole scene is on film, video and photo. Karen

1064
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 7: and I laughed about them the other day. I must

1065
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 7: say I thought I was rather convincing. Fast forward to

1066
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 7: three days ago, Mario is divorcing Victoria.

1067
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go.

1068
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 6: Mario Mario. He got on the phone with his brother Luigi.

1069
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:20,919
Speaker 8: They had a conference with their cousins Warrio and Wa Luigi.

1070
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 7: So Mario is divorcing Victoria and going to New York

1071
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 7: to see his grandkids. So Victoria is still complaining.

1072
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: That I ruined her dress.

1073
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 7: Mark and Cara are happy, Amber is now engaged let's go,

1074
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 7: and Savannah is still single like me, I'm happy for

1075
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,479
Speaker 7: all my friends and I have been wanting to share

1076
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 7: this story. Sorry this was so long, but there's a

1077
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 7: lot more that I could have shared, but due to

1078
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 7: some personal issues with other friends involved, I left it out.

1079
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 7: But there is a huge, fat, stopping, wet update stopping

1080
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 7: before we get into it, Dakota, some predictions from you, sir,

1081
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 7: what what?

1082
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 2: What do we? What do we? What do you pray?

1083
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 5: Tell?

1084
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 2: Think will happen in this next updates?

1085
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,439
Speaker 8: Like I'm gonna say fall out with the mother in law.

1086
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 8: I think father mother in law is gonna start trying

1087
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 8: to make some crazy demands and it's gonna end.

1088
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 6: With uh not is it?

1089
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 8: It's Mark is the husband market, Mark's gonna say husband,

1090
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 8: Mark's gonna say, Aoshmama, looks like you're getting no contact

1091
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 8: you guys, you're going crazy over.

1092
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 2: Crazy even though I love you, give it to him.

1093
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 8: I'm trying to think of anything besides gobba ghul that

1094
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 8: I could say give it to him, Like.

1095
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 7: It's not enough. Fifty Gabba gules left, but it's not enough.

1096
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 7: See it is really good, gobaul, but it's still not enough.

1097
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 6: But it's not enough.

1098
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 7: I I'll throw on my quick, quick conspiracy theory for you.

1099
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 7: I I I got one early in the stream. I'm gonna,

1100
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 7: I'm gonna, I'm just gonna absolutely send it Hail Mary,

1101
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 7: jail time. I think Victoria is gonna keep We've seen

1102
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 7: it before, We've seen it a few times. She's gonna

1103
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 7: keep wild and out, wild'n out wownt until she goes

1104
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 7: so far she literally goes to jail. That is what

1105
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 7: I'm saying.

1106
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 8: She's gonna pull the fed armison and go to jail,

1107
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:20,919
Speaker 8: straight through jail, jail, hundred day jail, straight through jail.

1108
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 7: Well, guys, I'm gonna get back to reality and I'm

1109
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 7: gonna see if we get some jail time.

1110
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 2: I wanna se if we go behind bars. Update.

1111
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 7: So I have been given permission to tell all from

1112
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 7: the friends who didn't want it to be evolved in

1113
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 7: this post. Ooh, it was too sweet a tea to

1114
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 7: be omitted. As we all know, Karen and Mark got married.

1115
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 7: What I didn't put in this post is that Amber

1116
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 7: and Savannah also had words with Victoria, but they didn't

1117
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 7: want their conversations recorded here. Their minds have changed because

1118
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 7: Victoria has really lost the plot and began attacking them

1119
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 7: through text. Victoria is just going going rogue, just giving

1120
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 7: giving the smoke to everybody. She's done it to me

1121
00:50:59,920 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 7: to but I'm not too worried about it. Amber has

1122
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 7: informed me and showed me the messages from Victoria after

1123
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 7: the wedding.

1124
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 11: Victoria, how dare you let the bee ruin my dress?

1125
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 11: I ordered it from Beep and Pete to Fortune.

1126
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 7: Amber, you mean the wedding dress. You were to the

1127
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 7: wedding where you were, not the bride. I didn't let

1128
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 7: Mina do anything. She had a seizure. Calm down.

1129
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 6: She owes me money for the dress.

1130
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 7: Note how she doesn't deny the audacity to wear such

1131
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 7: a dress.

1132
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 2: Amber, good luck trying to get her to pay for it.

1133
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 2: She'll put up a fight first.

1134
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 7: She's been dying for a reason to that pinched the

1135
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 7: little face ears.

1136
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 6: She wouldn't lay hands on me.

1137
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 2: Would she, Amber?

1138
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 7: If she didn't have a seizure, she would have knocked

1139
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 7: your body out like it was an mma. Wing trying

1140
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 7: to win a million dollars. Victoria stopped messaging her after that,

1141
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 7: but Amber is right, I just needed the green light

1142
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 7: to freakin' boom boom bab boom boom bob.

1143
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 2: That woman.

1144
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 7: Savannah also told me about her messages with Victoria. Then

1145
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 7: I'll share my phone call with her. And the message

1146
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 7: is sent to Kara and Mark while they were on

1147
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 7: their honeymoon, which we're ignored.

1148
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 14: Victoria, Hello Savannah. I don't know if my number is

1149
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 14: saved in your phone like those other awful girls, but

1150
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 14: this is Victoria. Mina and Amber's attitudes towards me have

1151
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 14: been awful. If you could please tell Mina she owes.

1152
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 11: Me seventy eight hundred dollars for my dress, I would

1153
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 11: appreciate it.

1154
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 7: Savannah, It's gonna be a hard pass. Mina pam for crap.

1155
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 7: She had a seizure. Back off the number four. Victoria

1156
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 7: has now been blocked. Victoria to me was not nice.

1157
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 6: Victoria, You and I need to talk me.

1158
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 2: Who's this?

1159
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,720
Speaker 7: Her number is saved in my phone. I just wanted

1160
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 7: to have some fun. Victoria?

1161
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 4: Is this?

1162
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 6: Mina?

1163
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 7: Me?

1164
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: Uh?

1165
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 4: This is she?

1166
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 2: Who's this?

1167
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 11: This is Victoria Marksmo. You know the woman you fell

1168
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 11: into at a wedding.

1169
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 7: Oh you mean when I had a seizure. I'm so

1170
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 7: sorry about that. You didn't get hurt, did you. I

1171
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 7: got some scrapes and bruises from it, but my doctor

1172
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 7: said that it's all good.

1173
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 8: Great, great, I'm really I'm glad to hear that. Look

1174
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 8: shut your mouth, because you owe me money for that dress?

1175
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: Uh do?

1176
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 7: I what.

1177
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:25,919
Speaker 6: Dress? You do?

1178
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 11: I paid seventy eight hundred dollars for that dress, and

1179
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 11: I expect to be reimbursed.

1180
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,399
Speaker 7: Where on earth did you pay that much for such

1181
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 7: a tacky dress?

1182
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 6: At the unnamed dress store?

1183
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:45,720
Speaker 11: It will remain nameless because we don't do freesponsors.

1184
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 7: The wedding dress shop. Was it a wedding dress? Because

1185
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 7: that would be weird? You wearing a wedding dress you

1186
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 7: didn't get married. Why would you have bought a wedding dress?

1187
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 6: Want it look perfect for my baby? Specialty?

1188
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 7: And a gown from sat and a ground from Boop.

1189
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:10,439
Speaker 7: Couldn't do that? Silence, because I'm sure you were well

1190
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 7: aware wearing white, let alone, a full blown wedding dress

1191
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 7: to someone else's wedding, even if you don't like them,

1192
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 7: don't deny it. We all know you hate Kara, but

1193
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:24,320
Speaker 7: no one understands why is tacky and rude. You're lucky

1194
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 7: no one accidentally spilled something on you.

1195
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:30,439
Speaker 2: Did it? Did you? Oh?

1196
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 7: No, God, I had a seizure. That's a serious medical condition.

1197
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 7: No one can fake a seizure. Victoria Click hangs up.

1198
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 7: Next Up five missed calls from Victoria. I turned off

1199
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 7: my phone. Kara and Mark got bombarded by calls and

1200
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 7: text from Victoria, but they all went unanswered.

1201
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 9: To Mark, are you going to do anything about how

1202
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 9: I must treated?

1203
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 4: How damn that little bee.

1204
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,240
Speaker 6: Spilled her drink on me? Why aren't you answering? Hello?

1205
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 4: Mark, my little baby? Please respond?

1206
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 9: Tell you off freakin' tell you off ba telling your

1207
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 9: father not to go through with By the way, hey,

1208
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 9: can you convince your dad not to divorce me?

1209
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 5: Mark?

1210
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:07,240
Speaker 4: Please?

1211
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 6: Mark?

1212
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 9: I need you right now. And you're not answering because

1213
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:13,399
Speaker 9: of that. That's beep that you married. She only married

1214
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 9: you for the money, I'm sure man.

1215
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 8: Mister calls times forty two forty two.

1216
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,840
Speaker 6: To Kara, how dare you take my baby a you

1217
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 6: effing or you love? You better not hurt him?

1218
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 11: I hope your plane crashes and my baby survives, what

1219
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,320
Speaker 11: what I knew?

1220
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,439
Speaker 6: I should have set him.

1221
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 8: Up with a good Catholic girl, of course in her hometown.

1222
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 8: Answer the phone, b missed call times twenty gotta love

1223
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 8: somebody being like, you know what, I should have known

1224
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 8: that you don't have these Catholic values, after literally wishing.

1225
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 6: A plane crash upon her.

1226
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 12: That's not very catholic, No, not at all.

1227
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,800
Speaker 7: Guys, put strophies in the chat for the Emmy O

1228
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:03,399
Speaker 7: Award winning performance. Dakota and Kean are currently currently laying

1229
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 7: it all out on the field.

1230
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:08,439
Speaker 2: Put put trophies in the chat.

1231
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 7: That's that's I mean, that's a golden globe, that's an oscar,

1232
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 7: it's all of it.

1233
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 2: Golly, what do you do?

1234
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 13: Uh?

1235
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 7: Amazing, So he continues, She has absolutely lost it. I

1236
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 7: hope she gets help, but I will be there in

1237
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 7: case Mark or Karat needs a buffer for her crazy Now.

1238
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:34,240
Speaker 7: Update number two, Tori has come to my house. Victoria said,

1239
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:35,760
Speaker 7: I'll pull up.

1240
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,280
Speaker 2: I'm pulling up. Who wants to she moke? Who wants

1241
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 2: to she moke? Because I'm coming to your.

1242
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:47,280
Speaker 7: House, coming to your domicile, banging on my door, screaming.

1243
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: My neighbors called me.

1244
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 7: They were having a bonfire with friends, but I was

1245
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 7: too tired after work to join and asked if everything

1246
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 7: was okay. I said everything was fine and I would

1247
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 7: handle it, but if it got to noise for them,

1248
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 7: I wouldn't be upset if they filed the noise can

1249
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 7: play or called the police. I am normally a very

1250
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 7: nice person, petty, af but nice. Victoria is showing up

1251
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:14,240
Speaker 7: to my house, scaring my children, disrupting my life. No

1252
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 7: nine nine no on papana. Six languages all mean no,

1253
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 7: do not. Do not scare my children, or I will

1254
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 7: ruin you. Victoria.

1255
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 6: Oh, you owe me.

1256
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: Me silence, We'll figure it out.

1257
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 4: Ding, don't ding, don't ding, don'm ding, don' ding, don't man.

1258
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 12: At the same time, scream up, answer the effing door.

1259
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 6: I know you're there.

1260
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 7: Me contemplates racking a twelve G Honey, go to your room.

1261
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 2: Mommy needs to deal with something. I open the door,

1262
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 2: guys step outside and shut the door behind me. Well,

1263
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 2: aren't you going to invite me?

1264
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 7: Is you have a better chance of winning the lottery

1265
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 7: than me inviting you into my home?

1266
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 6: Will you stopped responding to my texts and phone calls?

1267
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 4: What else was I supposed to do.

1268
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 7: I know, surprised that you didn't get the effing hint.

1269
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 2: Look around. All the neighbors are.

1270
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 7: Outside trying to figure out if you're a freakin thread

1271
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 7: or not.

1272
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 13: Everything's fine, you can all go back inside.

1273
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 6: It's under control.

1274
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 7: My neighbors don't budge. But my next our name, Jamie

1275
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 7: fake name, starts recording on her phone.

1276
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 2: So can we have a civil conversation? Please? I can?

1277
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 2: Can you?

1278
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 11: Of course I can. I am a lady. I was

1279
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 11: raised to have civil conversations.

1280
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 2: Why have yet to see it? But I'd like to

1281
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 2: see the rare occasion.

1282
00:58:59,200 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 6: Blah blah blah black.

1283
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 2: Victoria starts screaming again.

1284
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 7: My daughter comes outside because I've been gone longer than

1285
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 7: a five year old thinks their mother should be gone

1286
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 7: longer for. Then Victoria is still screaming. She starts flailing

1287
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 7: her her arms again in fashion tiping goal. I believe

1288
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 7: this was intentional, but I don't care. Her phone flew

1289
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 7: out of her hand and it bunked my daughter, five

1290
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 7: year old daughter in the face. Ah oh, emmy, emmy,

1291
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 7: golden globe, golden globe. My daughter's nose was running with

1292
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 7: the red stuff, and as soon as she started screaming.

1293
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 7: I whipped around and forgot about the raging bee in

1294
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 7: my front yard. Jamie got all of it on video,

1295
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 7: and her husband called the cops. Guys, guys, do we

1296
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 7: remember that? Do you remember what happened the last time

1297
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 7: I put this on? Do we remember? Do we remember?

1298
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 6: Least we're gonna get involved?

1299
00:59:59,200 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 7: Yes?

1300
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 6: That was a That was a good call.

1301
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 2: Editor, quick flashback, flashback.

1302
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 7: I think Victoria is going to keep We've seen it before,

1303
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 7: We've seen it a few times.

1304
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 2: She's going to keep wild and out, wild'n out, wown at.

1305
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 7: Until she goes so far. She literally goes to jail.

1306
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 7: That is what freaking called it. I freaking called it.

1307
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 7: I knew it was jail. I knew it was jail.

1308
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 6: Did you did get jail?

1309
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 2: Cop straight through jail?

1310
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 6: I called it jail?

1311
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 2: So cops show up.

1312
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 7: I call Mark and Kara to let them know what

1313
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 7: had happened, and they agree that I should press charges.

1314
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 7: I don't know how this crazy lady got my address,

1315
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 7: but I'm probably in the phone book. But honestly, who

1316
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 7: looks at those anymore? Anyways, I'm pressing charges. My daughter's

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Speaker 7: nose is not broken, She's traumatized. And I'm writing this

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Speaker 7: in the er while my daughter is being checked out.

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01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 7: I absolutely cannot believe what this lady has put my

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Speaker 7: friend group, her children, her husband, and now my once

1321
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 7: again five year old child through. I'm so tapped out

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01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 7: that I'm surprised that even had the energy to write this.

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Speaker 2: How How hard did that phone get thrown? Dude?

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01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 6: I mean cushion check.

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Speaker 8: I'm sure it's like a neurological check up, maybe like

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01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 8: some scams. Make sure all the blood's still pumping right

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01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 8: up in Victoria and put the Italian oomf on it.

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01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was flailing those arms and it just it

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01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 6: was like a she like Spider Man the phone.

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Speaker 2: So we got up at number three.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, uh, definitely press charges. She physically uh harmed your progeny.

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Speaker 8: I would also be in jail right next to her problem.

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Speaker 8: They'd be more sympathetic to me, though I'm not the

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01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 8: person who made the red stuff come out of the

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01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 8: face of your child.

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Speaker 7: You sure didn't, You sure didn't. Well, let's get into

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Speaker 7: this next update number three. So here we go, the

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01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 7: final update in one sun. Some commenters are calling.

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01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 2: The guard Dog saga.

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Speaker 7: I have had my attorney contact Victoria's attorney. When Victoria

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01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:09,480
Speaker 7: came to my house and banged on my door and

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01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 7: slammed her hand onto my doorbell, she broke it. My

1343
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 7: doorbell is connected to a security system. If there was

1344
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 7: a fault anywhere in the system, the alarm cannot be set.

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01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 7: The whole system costs about thirty thousand dollars. I'm sorry

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01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 7: what that's bro this This is this is a rich

1347
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 7: because remember Mark, I think and Kara also both earned

1348
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 7: six figures. This is a you are getting Hey, guess

1349
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 7: what you're getting scammed? Sorry about that?

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01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 6: You they are They're like, oh, you make how much money?

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01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 4: Yeah?

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01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 7: This is mean thirty thousand dollars. But but but it

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01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 7: worked out in the end. It worked out in the

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01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 7: end because now Victoria is going to lose thirty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 7: And that's what we are happy about.

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Speaker 6: Facts, big facts.

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Speaker 2: We want nothing for Victoria, nothing at all.

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01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 14: Zero.

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Speaker 7: So to repair the doorbell that the part is under warranty,

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01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 7: I had to pay five k and labor. So I

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01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 7: had my attorney center the receipt for that, the er

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01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 7: bill for my doctor's visit, and a letter stating that

1363
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 7: she either paid or we go to court over it.

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01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 7: Her attorney responded, saying that she would pay for everything

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01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 7: minus the cost of her dress from the wedding.

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Speaker 8: Hey, you mean the dress that you bought with your

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01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 8: money that you spent nadded, Hey, that's your.

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01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 7: Choice and potato queen voice, absolutely not. My attorney brought

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01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 7: back receipts about my medical condition and how booze can

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01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 7: affect it.

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Speaker 2: I did not actually have a seizure.

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Speaker 7: I love how op is literally saying with a pending

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01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 7: court case, I forget lied. She's giving us the t

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01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 7: just to oh god, I love it. I did not

1375
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 7: actually have a seizure. We met for a mediation hearing

1376
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 7: to avoid court. Both parties brought receipts and witnesses were

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01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 7: brought in. In the end, Victoria had to pay for

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01:03:55,760 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 7: my doorbell thirty thousand dollars, the er bill thousands, I'm sure,

1379
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 7: and the dress was left out of the equation. Victoria

1380
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 7: is not happy and now has a shiny new restraining

1381
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 7: order to stay away from me, my child, my home,

1382
01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 7: and my place of work.

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01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 2: Her family has turned on her and her.

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01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 7: Children all resent her. By the way, if you want

1385
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 7: a surefire, guaranteed thing to help you not become Victoria

1386
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 7: to have your grown children not resent you to see

1387
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 7: your future grand babies and adult children. Ladies and gentlemen,

1388
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 7: The solution is listening to full episodes of stories like this.

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01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 2: Where do we do this? Spotify? Where do we do this?

1390
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:38,959
Speaker 2: Apple Podcast? Where do we do this? Any podcast? Platform? Search? Okay?

1391
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 2: Storytime two thousand episodes, full episodes of stories like this.

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Speaker 7: WHOA Now. I want to make this very clear. I

1393
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,520
Speaker 7: did not want any of this to happen. I'm sure

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01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 7: that in her prime she was a very wonderful woman.

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01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 2: I hope. I don't know about that.

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01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 7: I did not want it to get this far. I

1397
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 7: was only trying to protect my friend on her special day.

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01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 7: I hope Victoria gets counseling and can heal when whatever

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01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 7: she needs to be healed. I may be petty and

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01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 7: maybe a bee, However, I do not wish ill on people.

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01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 7: I want people to have good lives. I'm just glad

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01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 7: that I do not have to deal with this crazy

1403
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 7: lady anymore. I hope this is the finale you all wanted,

1404
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 7: because it's all I've got.

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01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 2: PS. My daughter is doing better.

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01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 6: Nah, we love that. We love that. Hey, this Victoria lady.

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01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 8: Ship them back to the Old Country in a big

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01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 8: bottle of tomato sauce.

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Speaker 3: My sister in law stole my wedding plans, so I

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Speaker 3: ruined her first dance song, Nice Sweet Sweet Rive and

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Speaker 3: either and I. I female twenty six never really got

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01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 3: along with my sister in law, at least twenty four.

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01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 3: She always just rubbed me the wrong way. By the way,

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Speaker 3: this comes from Burner Problems fifty two forty nine six

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Speaker 3: on the Okay Storytime suppered it. So a little background.

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Speaker 3: In December twenty twenty one, my husband Alex twenty six,

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01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 3: was planning on proposing to me on a Christmas lights

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01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 3: walk that we had done for our first real date

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01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 3: two years before. Dude, such cute. I not knowing invited

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01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 3: Elise and Nick twenty six, Alex's best friend and Elise's boyfriend,

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01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 3: since they had been talking about wanting to go. Elise

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01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 3: and Nick arrived earlier than us and walked the entire

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01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 3: thing before meeting out with us. The whole time, Alise

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01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 3: would not stop complaining, putting me in a sour mood.

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01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 3: They left with barely a goodbye, and Alex asked me

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Speaker 3: if I wanted to go another lap around.

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01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 4: I said, no Ah, just ruin the plase sense, and.

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01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 3: I looked at the window and cried the entire way home,

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01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 3: wishing I had never invited Elise to join us. Nick

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01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 3: then proposed to Alise on Christmas Day. Just a few

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01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 3: weeks later. Alex then proposed to me in our living

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01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 3: room in May, since he wanted to give a sister

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01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 3: a few mon being engaged and having a spotlight before

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01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 3: proposing to me. So here's the story. So, after we

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01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 3: were both engaged, Alisa and I were talking about wedding plans,

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01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 3: and I decided to try and put my dislike for

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01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 3: her aside and try to like her as she was

1441
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 3: going to be my family. She asked about my preferred

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01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 3: wedding date, planned wedding to colors, what songs I was

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01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 3: thinking of for our first dance, and so on. She

1444
01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:24,240
Speaker 3: said that she had no idea what she wanted to do.

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01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 3: I told her that I had been thinking of doing

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01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 3: an autumn wedding with the date that would be easy

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01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 3: to remember. I knew I wanted to use Burgundy my

1448
01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 3: favorite color, and roses my favorite flower. I told her

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01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 3: at the time that I had a few contenders for

1450
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 3: the first dance song. I wanted it to be from

1451
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 3: the nineteen fifties. I told her my dream date was

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01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 3: nine twenty two, twenty two, and that I was thinking

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01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 3: about going south to get married because most of my

1454
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 3: family lived further south and I would rather that they

1455
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 3: didn't have to drive the entire way. About two weeks later,

1456
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 3: she announced that she got a date and a venue.

1457
01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 3: She was going to have her wedding at a local farm,

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01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 3: and it was going to be on nine twenty three,

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Speaker 3: twenty two. She said that she wanted to do the

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01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,560
Speaker 3: twenty second, but the venue was already booked for that day.

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01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 3: I rolled my eyes, but didn't say anything. Since I

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01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:08,960
Speaker 3: was still looking at venues and a date was easy

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01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 3: to change. I helped the lease with designing save the

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01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 3: dates and invites. Why yeah, why she stole your date?

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01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 4: Let her friend for her figure it out, don't help her.

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Speaker 3: Later, I asked Alex if he wanted to help pick

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Speaker 3: a wedding date, since he already knew that his sister

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01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 3: had taken the date that I wanted. He said that

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01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 3: he wanted to give a sister at least a year

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Speaker 3: of being married before we got married.

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Speaker 4: There is a trend there.

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Speaker 3: I agreed to go ahead with the plan and found

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01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 3: a venue I liked about eight hours south and booked

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01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:39,200
Speaker 3: it for eleven eleven twenty three. I wasn't planning on

1475
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 3: doing save the dates or anything until after Elise's wedding.

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01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 3: I kept looking at different ideas, continuing to talk to

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Speaker 3: Aalise about wedding planning. Nick asked Alex to be his

1478
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 3: best man, and Alex's half brother and other best friend

1479
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 3: were asked to be groomsmen. Alise asked her sister to

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01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 3: be her bridesmaid. I was the only one that wasn't

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01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 3: part of the wedding party. Alise even went on bumble

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01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 3: to find another bridesmaid to make an even number since

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01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 3: she only had one friend who was made of honor.

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01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 4: Was I offended that I wasn't asked.

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01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 3: I would be like bamboozled if someone was like, yeah,

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01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 3: I went on bumble friend instead of asking you right?

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01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 4: Yeah? A little?

1488
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 3: Did I find it funny that she went on bumble

1489
01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 3: to find someone to be her bridesway? Definitely, three months

1490
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 3: before wedding, I found out that I was pregnant, and

1491
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 3: we decided to change her wedding date to before I

1492
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 3: had a baby. My husband thought that conceiving a baby

1493
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,840
Speaker 3: out of wedlock was okay, but not giving birth to

1494
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 3: said baby. I looked around and found a local venue

1495
01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 3: that did small elopement style weddings and a nice reception venue,

1496
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 3: and started to cancel the plans we had already set

1497
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:40,000
Speaker 3: and planned for a New Year's Eve wedding. I wasn't

1498
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,599
Speaker 3: paying much attention to Elise or her wedding at the time.

1499
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 3: I was too busy planning the rest of my own life.

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Speaker 3: Three weeks before her wedding, at least tells me that

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01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 3: she still hasn't found her first dance song.

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01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 4: I was surprised by that. I told her that I

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01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 4: just looked at.

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01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 3: A theme for what I wanted and narrowed it down

1505
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:56,800
Speaker 3: until I found the song that I wanted, which I

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01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 3: ended up choosing Can't Help Falling in Love by Elvis,

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01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 3: which held a lot of meaning to me. It's a

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01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 3: classic wedding song it is.

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Speaker 5: I really hope that she didn't tell her that, though

1510
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 5: I'm so scared.

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01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 4: I told her the exact song that I chose at

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01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 4: a certain point.

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01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:14,480
Speaker 3: At a certain point, O P, you're causing your own problems,

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01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 3: Like obviously she's the a hole, but like you're given,

1515
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:20,799
Speaker 3: you're light in the spark, you're giving her the matches.

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01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:21,680
Speaker 4: I wish that.

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01:10:21,680 --> 01:10:24,040
Speaker 5: Op knew that she would like copy everything ahead of

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01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 5: time before she told her anything, and.

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01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:27,839
Speaker 4: Then she could give her information.

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01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's like, oh, yeah, our wedding song is gonna.

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01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 4: Be Cotton eight Joe. We just really love that song.

1522
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,839
Speaker 3: And then you see them at their wedding there, you know,

1523
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 3: that's kind of a fire wedding.

1524
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 5: At the wedding, at some point, pipe up the crowd. Yeah,

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01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,519
Speaker 5: I could do a little silly like like do.

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01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 3: I want to have a full on like swing dancing

1527
01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 3: at my dude.

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01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,799
Speaker 4: Like a band, like having a live band.

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01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 5: Yes, that would be so Like I love a DJ

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01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 5: because they could.

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01:10:57,800 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 4: Do like anything.

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01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but also like having like swing band. Oh my god,

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01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:03,680
Speaker 3: I want a live swing band. I just want to

1534
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:05,719
Speaker 3: do so much swing dancing because I love I always

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01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 3: do it at parties.

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01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's the easiest go to. It's the easiest go to. Beautiful. Yeah.

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01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 3: A week before the wedding, there was some drama with

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01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 3: Nick's side of the family, and they were uninvited from

1539
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 3: the wedding. At least wanted to change her entire wedding

1540
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 3: plans and asked me what I was doing. I told

1541
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 3: her what my wedding plans were, and she smiled, looked

1542
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 3: at me said I like that.

1543
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:26,719
Speaker 4: I think I'm going to do that. I was slack, John.

1544
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 3: She actually told me she was going to straight up

1545
01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:30,479
Speaker 3: steal my wedding plans.

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01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:31,680
Speaker 4: Wait, that's when she gets up.

1547
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 3: But with it being a week before the wedding, she

1548
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 3: wasn't able to change the plans without losing thousands of dollars,

1549
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 3: so she decided to stick to her original plans. After that,

1550
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 3: I asked Alex what color I should wear to the wedding.

1551
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:44,600
Speaker 3: He said that he was wearing a dark red and

1552
01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 3: black tux, but it wasn't It was a black suit

1553
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 3: with a burgundy vest in tie. I was planning on

1554
01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 3: doing burgundy and navy as our wedding colors. I had

1555
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 3: a burgundy dress with flowers on it that I wore

1556
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 3: to a different wedding that I decided to wear to

1557
01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 3: the wedding. Alex then told me I was invited to

1558
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 3: hang out with Elise, mother in law, and the bride'smaids

1559
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 3: at the venue as they got ready, as Alex would

1560
01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 3: be getting ready with Nick and the other groomsmen. I

1561
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 3: am pretty sure it was not Elise who invited me

1562
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 3: to join her, as when I showed up, she glared

1563
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:13,960
Speaker 3: at me from the corner of her eye and didn't

1564
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 3: say a single word to me. I spent the time

1565
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 3: hanging out with the bridesmaids and having a wonderful time.

1566
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:21,720
Speaker 3: The weddings started and I sat with Alex's dad and

1567
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 3: his girlfriend Grace. The ceremony went off lovely, but then

1568
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 3: it was time for the photography. The photographer said that

1569
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,479
Speaker 3: it was time for the wedding party and the family

1570
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 3: to take pictures. Everyone else was to go inside and

1571
01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:34,679
Speaker 3: wait for the reception. I asked if I was needed

1572
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:37,120
Speaker 3: for the photos, and they said that the bride's brother's

1573
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 3: fiance was not family. Grace asked if she was needed,

1574
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:43,240
Speaker 3: and she was told that the bride's father's long term

1575
01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 3: fourteen years girlfriend was not family. The aunts and uncles,

1576
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 3: with Elise's permission, asked if they could get a picture

1577
01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 3: of the entire family, and they were told that the

1578
01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 3: ants and uncles were not family. I heard all of

1579
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,880
Speaker 3: the complaints while waiting for the reception. I wasn't bothered

1580
01:12:57,880 --> 01:12:59,599
Speaker 3: by it, but the rest of the family was very

1581
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 3: offended it. The aunts and uncles were already offended that

1582
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 3: none of the cousins were invited to the wedding. The

1583
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 3: wedding party finished up with the photos and it was

1584
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 3: time to sit for the reception to start. I didn't

1585
01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 3: know anybody at the wedding except for the family and

1586
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:14,599
Speaker 3: the wedding party. I was looking for somewhere to sit

1587
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 3: when I noticed that nobody was sitting with Alex's dad

1588
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 3: in Grace, so I sat with them. The coordinator announced

1589
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:22,160
Speaker 3: it was time for the first dance. At the first

1590
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 3: few notes, I knew I looked right at Alex, and

1591
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 3: once he noticed, he looked at me. I was furious,

1592
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 3: seething she used my song. I turned to Grace and

1593
01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 3: told her that Elise stole my song, and I told

1594
01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 3: her I was going to use that song. I tried

1595
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:38,600
Speaker 3: to ignore the anger boiling up at me as I

1596
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:41,719
Speaker 3: tried to enjoy the wedding. The food was terrible. Nobody

1597
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:43,679
Speaker 3: danced when they opened the dance floor, and the cake

1598
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 3: was as dry as the rest of the reception. When

1599
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 3: stuff was winding down and I was getting ready to leave,

1600
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 3: I grabbed Alex and pulled Nick outside. I asked him

1601
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 3: if he knew that Alise stole our first dance song.

1602
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 3: He told me that he had no idea, and that

1603
01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 3: she sent him the song about a week before, saying

1604
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 3: that she wanted to use it as their song. I

1605
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 3: told him that she asked me what song I was

1606
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 3: using three weeks ago, and I told her that exact song,

1607
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,240
Speaker 3: and that alisead told me at least a dozen times

1608
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 3: that she doesn't even like Elvis. Nick apologized to me,

1609
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 3: but I decided that it wasn't enough. She ruined the

1610
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 3: song for me. I decided that I wanted to ruin

1611
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:17,680
Speaker 3: the song for her.

1612
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 4: Oh I forgot about the title on this. I'm so excited.

1613
01:14:21,280 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 3: I laughed when I heard that Elise got COVID on

1614
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,839
Speaker 3: their honeymoon in Jamaica. I continued to plan my wedding.

1615
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 3: I decided that I would include Elise as much as possible.

1616
01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 3: I wanted to keep her on a tight leash. I

1617
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 3: asked Alex if she or his other sister would like

1618
01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:36,680
Speaker 3: to be bridesmaids. He said no, so I didn't ask them.

1619
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 3: I invited them to every event and invited them to

1620
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:41,680
Speaker 3: get their hair and makeup done before the ceremony. I

1621
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:45,200
Speaker 3: wanted her to feel as included and welcomed as possible.

1622
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:47,560
Speaker 3: I told my photographer to get as many photos of

1623
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:50,200
Speaker 3: the family as possible, but to limit the amount of

1624
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 3: photos she got of elise. My photographer was a friend

1625
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 3: and had already heard everything about the drama that occurred

1626
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:59,160
Speaker 3: with Aalisea's wedding. I moved songs around since I could

1627
01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:01,639
Speaker 3: no longer use that song as my first dance song.

1628
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 3: I used it as the song for us walking into

1629
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:07,840
Speaker 3: the reception instead. The wedding day came and everything went

1630
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 3: without a hitch. I asked her if she wanted to

1631
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 3: join us for the wedding pictures, but she declined and

1632
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:13,599
Speaker 3: went to hang out with her dogs.

1633
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:14,240
Speaker 6: Her word.

1634
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,679
Speaker 3: Alex had Nick as as best man and his half

1635
01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 3: brother and other best friend as groomsman, and I had

1636
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 3: my best friend as maid of honor and another friend

1637
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 3: as a bridesmaid. I wanted a small wedding party and

1638
01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 3: didn't care if there was an odd number. Most of

1639
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 3: my friends weren't the type to enjoy being in a

1640
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:31,000
Speaker 3: bridal party, and I was just happy to have them

1641
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:33,799
Speaker 3: come to the wedding. I invited all of Alex's cousins

1642
01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 3: to the wedding and let the aunts and uncles know that.

1643
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 4: I told my.

1644
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:39,759
Speaker 3: Photographer to get as many pictures of the family as possible,

1645
01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 3: including them. I made sure that Grace knew that she

1646
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 3: was family as well. And I want you guys to

1647
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 3: know that your family too. And we want you to

1648
01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 3: listen to full episodes with stories like this. Just go

1649
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 3: on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app and

1650
01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:54,880
Speaker 3: search up. Okay, storytime, But there is a little bit left,

1651
01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 3: and I think we're about to find out how he

1652
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 3: you know, her revenge.

1653
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:00,680
Speaker 4: I'm so excited day.

1654
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 5: I feel like if like a friend was in this situation,

1655
01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:07,280
Speaker 5: I usually would like not recommend to a friend to

1656
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:07,879
Speaker 5: get revenge.

1657
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, however, as a viewer.

1658
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 3: As of you as a Reddit appreciator, I'm a love revenge.

1659
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 6: Very exciting.

1660
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:18,360
Speaker 4: Yeah twos. Everything was going great. Then it was time

1661
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 4: for our entrance.

1662
01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 3: I used can't help falling in love and I didn't

1663
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 3: even spare a Lisa glance. Once I was over, food

1664
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 3: was served and speeches began. Dances were held, and once

1665
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 3: it was time to open the dance floor and socialize,

1666
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 3: Alise dragged Nick over to Alex and me. What she

1667
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,680
Speaker 3: said next, I don't think I will ever forget I

1668
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:38,439
Speaker 3: see you used our first dance song.

1669
01:16:38,640 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 4: Oh god.

1670
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 3: I smiled at her and said, well, it was originally ours,

1671
01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 3: but I decided that it wasn't good enough for a

1672
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 3: first dance song. I watched her smile drop to a

1673
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 3: scowl as I beamed brighter and walked away from her

1674
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:52,320
Speaker 3: to talk to another group. She did not smile for

1675
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:55,560
Speaker 3: the rest of the wedding. Everyone still tells me how lovely.

1676
01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:56,000
Speaker 4: My wedding was.

1677
01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:58,519
Speaker 3: There are no comments about Alsa's wedding. I got her

1678
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:00,960
Speaker 3: wedding pictures back a week later, and Alise didn't get

1679
01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:04,040
Speaker 3: hers back until June. Now, every year the weekend closest

1680
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,760
Speaker 3: to a Lisa's anniversary, I plan a party. This year

1681
01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 3: was a baby shower. My friends and I still laugh

1682
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 3: at Alisa's face at my wedding when she tried to

1683
01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 3: confront me for stealing her first dance song.

1684
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:17,960
Speaker 4: And that is the end of that story.

1685
01:17:18,120 --> 01:17:22,599
Speaker 5: Wow, honestly, really nice way. Yeah, to get revenge.

1686
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:24,040
Speaker 3: I thought there was like more revenge it was just

1687
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:25,519
Speaker 3: sort of being like, man, I didn't like it that

1688
01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 3: much anymore. Yeah, but that is the end of that

1689
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:29,479
Speaker 3: story and the end of this episode.

1690
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 4: Whoa